How to Tell If He Likes You: 9 Signs He's Got a Crush

Updated on April 15, 2019
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Is He Into You?

He might be rude . . . or sweet! How can you tell?

Some girls are great at telling when a guy likes them. But a lot of girls have a hard time reading the signs. A boy might tease you. Or try to please you. And sometimes they send mixed signals.

Is the boy you like ignoring you or being arrogant and coy? Some boys, in instance, are rude to disguise how they feel. Insecurity and confusion can often time make it hard for a girl to tell where they stand.

Check out these signs. Most boys who like a girl will do at least one of these things, on purpose or unconsciously.

1. He Stares at You

. . . . and maybe looks away when you notice.

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The first, most common sign that he is interested is that he looks at you and looks away when you see him. He may look awkward. You know it's a good thing when he smiles at you. Sometimes it may feel tense because you haven’t spoken to each other before.

He may also avoid making eye contact. If he glances at you to ask common questions in class like "Where do we turn this in?" or "Did you understand this question?” then he may be nervous but wants to get your attention. He's intimidated because you're attractive. If he looks at the floor while talking to you, he's just shy.

2. He's Super Shy

Does it seem like he wants to tell you something?

Maybe you've known him for a while, or maybe not, and he's suddenly super shy around you. Does it seem like he wants to tell you something? Then he probably does.

It might be the first time he's really liked a girl. If you can, help put him at ease. He may seem to avoid you, or even be a little rude, but if you can tell he's watching your every move, ask him to walk you home or to class. Keep it light.

3. He Touches You

Does he stand close or even take your hand?

Some guys just can't hide the way they feel. Even if they're shy or insecure, they might make excuses to sit next to you or just bump you by accident. Sometimes this can be something like a friendly punch on the shoulder—it's playful but still a sign that he's trying to find ways to touch you.

Does he bump shoulders with you while you're walking down the hall? Better still, does he push your hair out of your eyes? There's no way a guy would do this unless he had a crush.

4. He Looks at Your Eyes and Lips

. . . . and might keep staring at your mouth.

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This is important! If he looks at your eyes and then your lips, you’ve sealed the deal: He likes you. What guy looks at a girl’s lips if he isn’t into her? If he gets close or even hugs you, he is throwing signs at you and it's up to you to catch them.

Ignoring someone is another sign of liking them. Watch carefully next time you see him: if he sees you glance or stare at him a lot and quickly looks away but with a serious, blank, or curious expression, see if he ignores you the rest of the day. If he does, then he likes you. You have really got to him and he likes you, but he doesn't know how to approach you.

5. He Uses Your Name When He Talks to You

Or maybe he changes his tone when he's talking to you.

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Tone and language are big clues to whether he likes you.

Does he ever call you “dude” or “yo”? If he does, then he probably thinks of you as just a friend. But when a guy calls you by your name, it's a total sign of respect= he likes you enough to spend energy remembering details about you. Notice if her ever gives you little nicknames, as that is a total sign of attraction towards you!

6. He Looks at You From a Distance

He singles you out in a crowd.

There are many ways a guy might try to hide that they like you. An example is when you look at him first and he looks at you second and then quickly looks away. It could be the other way around, but most of the time the guy ends up looking away first. This is an obvious sign that he likes you.

Another example is when he looks at you from a distance and his face sort of freezes, maybe in a half-smile, smirk, wink, or a blank but curious look. If he stares at you and holds your gaze for a few seconds, he is interested.

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7. He Tries to Make You Laugh

He might even tease you a little.

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Does he show off around you? Clowning around, trying to make you laugh—these could be signs that he likes you. Pay attention if he acts especially energetic or silly around you and whether he acts the same way in front of everyone else.

If he teases you, ask yourself whether he does this all the time or only when the two of you are alone. If he changes his way of treating you when friends are around, then he may like you a lot but doesn't want to admit it to anyone. He could also be confused about how to act.

8. He Texts You

If he's texting you frequently or commenting on or liking your Instagram or Facebook posts, then he might have a thing for you. Some guys are very friendly and are really into liking all their friends' stuff online, so see if he does the same thing for everyone else. But if he has your number, and is talking to you through out the day (especially at night), then he most probably likes you.

9. He Shows Interest in You Even If He Is Shy

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Is he the athletic and confident type? The bubbly, always humble type of guy? Or maybe he is just shy? Many types of guys are keepers. Most are down-to-earth and interesting. The bubbly, humble type of guy can be really confident and can make you smile and laugh. The shy guy may have a secret side to him like hobbies, talents, and interests that intrigue you.

If they like you, they'll listen to you when you talk and remember the things you say. They might bring up details from a conversation you had a while ago. They'll also notice differences in your appearance, like if you get a haircut or have a new shirt.

What Do You Do Now?

That depends on your situation. If it's someone you see regularly but don't really know, try to befriend them with a conversation about an upcoming school event, class, or club.

Don't be afraid to try a simple, "Hi, my name is _____." If they like you, they'll be so happy you made the first move. If not, then at least you'll know and you can find someone who does.

You could also find him on Instagram or Facebook and friend him. That might be enough for him to feel encouraged to talk to you.

Once you know what your crush is like, it will be easier to figure him out. When you come across a guy with the right characteristics, then chase him. Or make him chase you!

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      ASHLEY TURNER 

      2 weeks ago

      this boy stares at me across the hallway for almost a month

      and when i asked him why,

      he smiled and walked past me

      I mean who even does that?

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      Baby doll 

      3 weeks ago

      I think that my lecturer likes me ,the thing is the guy just cant stop starring when i look at him he smiles and faces another direction.in a distance he tries by all means to stare at me for as long as he can and wen he notices tat i have seen him he leaves the place or calls my name and smile and then he asks strange questions like how is home,how is our daughter meaning my playing daughter and tries by all means to touch me atleast my shoulder daily,i try to avoid him but he seems to always get his way.during personal lectures and wen we are just the two of us,he cant stop smiling,he likes touching my personal items like phone,books,even my slumbook,and when lecturing me he stares at me always and when i try to stare back he freezes he even forgets his last word during the lesson and i have to remind him,when we stare in eachothers eyes he cant look away unless i do that first.And he trys by all means to be as rude as he can when we are in a cloud,but wen we are alone he is the coolest guy who ever walked on the planet.i just dont understand the whole thing,does he love me or wat.he is in his late 20's.am falling for him

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      Grace 

      5 weeks ago

      He likes to kiss me all the time

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      Private 

      5 weeks ago

      This boy always stares at me and talks about me.He looks at me ,and my friend will tell me then i will look at him. He will literally tell his friend about me and his friend will look at me and laugh at me.

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      Adrian 

      5 weeks ago

      Ummmm....??

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      Sophia 

      6 weeks ago

      a guy i go to gym with once a week always stares at me across the room and idk why. And a few a few days ago while i was doing my hospitality this guy in the grade below me started staring at me then the next day he was in my fitness class and he kept looking and i caught him a few times looking and he smiled and looked away. Might thease guys like me ?

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      joy 

      6 weeks ago

      This kid at my school his name is brooks i do not know if he likes me or not but he always stares at me and i do not know why

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      Ds 

      7 weeks ago

      We're in a training class together. No matter where i look we always end up making eye contact. If I glance at him he'll stare at me for a long period of time. He also noticed where I was sitting on our lunch break and suggested he would sit with me .

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      MissyTello 

      8 weeks ago

      so at school at the end of the day i was waiting by my friends classroom her name is sydney l****.so when she came out she was eating some green stuff or whatever she said it was really hot. so anyways me and her started walking in the hallway because the bell rang.and while we were walking behind me was a very familiar voice but i thought it was just my dumb friend johnathan.so i turn around and i see is my crush Alex and his best friend Michael .then i turn to sydney and she said well what i said we have to go now then she turns around and goes back to me and says really.so Micheal said "hey missy hey missy!"and that got me so freaking scared and like i don't to talk to him i was like getting freaking chased by my own crush!!!⚡️⚡️so anyways while we were running Micheal caught up to me and said "hey missy a boy likes you.and i turn red like hopefully its not Alex but i kind of did.so i said "well i don't care!".then i notice Alex was looking at the ground and doing nothing.then Micheal said "yeah a boy does like you".so then i said to him " just whatever".so then Micheal just left.and i left.then the next day.

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      MissyTello 

      8 weeks ago

      this helped a lot i also found out my crush likes me because he kept looking at me at lunch yesterday with his hand under his chin and when i caught his i contact i wanted to laugh but i hold it in and he smilied at me and then me and the funny thing is that my friends tried t o block his sight and started screaming which made me and him look at each other more and it made him want to laugh.

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      Jasmine 

      2 months ago from TX

      @anonymous

      you've tried getting him alone once. and you say his friend told you he liked you. let him make some effort to speak to you alone as well if he truly is interested.

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      Jasmine 

      2 months ago from TX

      @help me

      definitely likes you. his friend just spilled what he couldn't say.

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      anonymous 

      2 months ago

      So I go to river bend middle in NC and like this guy named Jaiden Keith and I tried to tell him I liked him today but I couldn't get him alone and I know he likes me because he got a friend to tell me but I don't think he knows about me liking him.

      what should I do when we come back from spring break??

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      JJ 

      2 months ago

      So I like this guy named dima, and he calls me a chihuahua a lot. He stares at me from the other side of the room, and when I sit next to him, he seems super shy. But, his face turns redder than a tomato when i’m near him. He covers it up by giving me nicknames, like chihuahua, or midget. I think he might like me. He has all the traits, except for the texting, he doesn’t have my #

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      izabella 

      2 months ago

      well i have a boy that i like and i don´t know if i can have him as my guy but this is my secret

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      help me 

      2 months ago

      a boy named chris is stairing at me but says i am not .then his friend chaz said so you like her now then chris said that is why i can not tell you any thing help me

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      Rebecca 

      2 months ago

      A guy likes looking at me n anytime he try looking at me I usually change my direction so one day I was standing somewhere n he said sister how are u. does that means he likes me or love me?

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      HelpMePleaseu 

      2 months ago

      Well.. There is a boy that i like since last year.. i dont really know him, but he always look at me. Last year he had a girlfriend and didnt look much at me, but when he was single again, he keep looking at me. Sometimes i caught him looking at me, but he don't look away.. so we basically keep staring at eachother.. Maybe he is playing with me? idk, but what i do know is that he never stare at someone else.. Help?

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      Idk 

      2 months ago

      JIMIN!?!? ARMYS UNITE

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      Brianna Wilson 

      2 months ago

      ok so I like this boy name zack and i'm scared to tell him because if he don't like me well I don't want to be heartbroken what should I do

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      Lily 

      2 months ago

      I like this boy his name is angalo rodregez and he wzlks with me and every time he walks pass me he looks downis that a sign?

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      mya 

      2 months ago

      a boy named alex is always staring at me from across the room and teases me a lot. but idk if i shud make the first move. idk how to make a move either, so...

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      Ayesha Mendoza 

      2 months ago

      My crush said that he likes me back, but I don’t think he’s not showing that he likes me

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      I need advice 

      2 months ago

      So basically I met this one dude his name is i**** and like about a few weeks ago I was in my locker and he was with his friend which I happen to know him cause he’s in my class, anyways i**** said to his friend “ she’s cute “ and I pretended like I didn’t hear them, them they both went to i**** locker and his friend said dude her locker is right across from yours, them next couple of weeks he basically kept looking at me and stuff then like about a few weeks ago everyone came back from lunch and I was heading to my math class and all of a audit see him and his friend walking and when he saw me he acted a little shy like, them last week I was walking down the hallway way and he was talking to his friends and he turned around and he saw me and he just looked at me, the next day I stayed in and so did he and I was basically on my laptop & phone and then I see him charging his laptop and he basically just sat on the floor and then I look at my phone and stuff and when I look at him again he was basically looking at me before the day ended i was going to my locker to get my things and when he saw me he smiled and acted a little shy like he held on to his book bag straps, sometimes when he’s about to get going he sees me going somewhere he always looks at me & we’ve never even spoken to each other before, one time I was getting something from my locker and he was obviously with his friends and he literally stayed behind them and when his friends went in the classroom first he basically saw me and stood in front of the door and looked at me and was checking me out I think and then he just went in the classroom, sometimes he sorta follows me or even fixes his hair when he sees me and I don’t even know what it means help!!!

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      Pretty Girl xoxo 

      3 months ago

      Okay, so I’m not trying to brag here, but I’m a very pretty girl. All the boys say so and all the girls hate me because of it. I currently have an issue with this boy I really like. He’s very complicated in giving me signals. He texted my friend that he liked only one girl in the school, and I’m the only girl that’s his real friend because he’s new, and very very handsome. I FaceTimed him and then I left him and my friend alone in the FaceTime so she could ask him if I was the girl. I left and she asked him. He just made this really cute embarrassed face and hung up on her. I don’t know what this means. (I’m actually in 12th grade, so I could really use help from some boy experts here ;))) but the thing is, I don’t want to lose him. He really is one of a kind. But as I said, he is very attractive and all the girls like him. So I don’t know if he’s just going for me for my looks and the phisyical parts of me. But st the same time, I don’t know if he likes me for who I am, boobs and butt not included. I want him to like me for who I am, I don’t wanna be another one of his hoes. So, some help would be very much appreciated. (And for those wondering, I do actually hang out with him. I’m not one of those girls that hang around cute guys cause of their looks. I’m actually in love with this guy, please tell me I’m not wasting my time.)

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      Carolyn 

      3 months ago

      I m In 8th and I joined academy last year.there is a boy who always stares me,I dont like him but I think he does,he is also in 8th,oh god I just hate him ,he often smile at me,touch me on shoulder,seriously that's just creepy.

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      Hu 

      3 months ago

      He always looks at me when he sees me. When I walk by, I try to look confident and not stare him down. When we are close, he does not look at me at all but from a distance he does. One of his friends told me he likes me. He did not agree not did he disagree

      I'm so confused. Was I being pranked or does he actually like me?

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      Chicken 

      3 months ago

      I've read mix reviews on this. It depends on the person and the situation

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      alexandra 

      3 months ago

      so there is this guy named nate he looks at me when ever I look over there hes trying to impress me but he never texts me or anything so idk what to do

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      boom 

      3 months ago

      a guy in my school always stares at me and says my name always but idk

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      natasha 

      3 months ago

      l have never actually spoke to my crush but he is a friend to my best friend at times he touches my best friend in my presents and at times he is always looking my way even when lam not looking does it mean he likes me or my friend

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      camila 

      3 months ago

      So their is this boy I like let me rephrase that I really like him his name is Victor we have pretty much every single period together in school. In 2nd period (Art) I usually sit next to him and my other two friends. In February I told someone I liked him and they spilled the beans lol. I was mad at first but this was my life from now on and I decided to look at it as a positive thing. So now that he knows I like him he is being mean to me. I do not know if this is because he likes me or that he absolutely hates me. He keeps giving me mixed signals such as he stares at me sometimes and he always wants to make me laugh. What I realized is that every time he says something mean to me he looks at me until I laugh. This week on Tuesday he was being mean to me so I decided to ignore the whole day because I was mad. My friends in fourth period were like " what is next he hits you or that he calls something worse" I know they are acting very dramatic. I just do not know what to do anymore. Should I just ignore him forever or do still talk to him. I am confused I do not know if he likes me or not, if he wants to be my friend or my enemy. Tomorrow I have him in art which is where I usually talk to him the most but I just do not know what to do.

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      Mema 

      3 months ago

      Ok i known this guy for like a week during a school funcktion and we didnt really talk but i can see him looking at me and i look back he looks away he ll ask me to tigh his tie and to butten up his shirt and so forth i think i really like him but tomorrow night is the function and i really want to ask his number but how do i do that

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      Amy blunter 

      3 months ago

      Madeline Acosta are you at work or school? He probably really likes you and is making sure he absorbs all of you!

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      Oink 

      3 months ago

      There is this boy called max that i used to have a crush on. I dont anymore but now that he knows i have a new crush he like tries to impress me or just stares directly at me. I obviously look back in disgust so he just blushes. Theres this other boy named ryan who i sit next 2 in class. Everyone says she has a crush on me so its rlly awkward. What do i do???

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      athe 

      3 months ago

      thanks for helping

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      Addison Steinmetz 

      3 months ago

      Well... there’s this boy named Theo and he’s so my type all my friends ship us.. lol and one of them said that he likes me. He is always staring at me all the time. Also.. one more thing... I’m in 6th grade and he’s in 8th kinda a big age difference but I can tell we both really like each other and my parents have met him and really like him too.

      Would it be awkward to date him? Well maybe not I’m twelve and he’s thirteen so idk. What do you think?

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      TXT&BTS 

      3 months ago

      When I saw Jimin from BTS I lost it for real and went here to see if anyone noticed

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      Nubba 

      3 months ago

      The fr did

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      Keilana 

      4 months ago

      ok,_, tbh, im actually confused a bit--- so, i do like this guy or "EX," and i cant tell if he likes me back, one thing i do know is he is bad at glancingXD or i like to say stalking. he glances at me alot and doesn't talk to me at all, he wont._. i've tried talking to him but i cant because he gives me blushy-anxiety lol, i've asked him out before- or.. i didn't a "friend," ratted me out to him;^; and he said "she's a beautiful young lady, but im too young to date." i got relived but at the same time depressed;-; and now he's been sort of glancing, staring, and avoiding me at all costsXD and today i looked at my friend to give her a pencil and i saw him looking at me out of the corner of my eye, it scared half to deathXDDD but at this point- imma start looking at him back and exchanging looks, see how he feels=3=

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      Ughh help 

      4 months ago

      So theres this dude named kevin and i like him alot of course and he is dating another girl. But he stares at me all the time. So does this dude named zac. Im so confused. Do they like me or what??

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      Rosa Acosta 

      4 months ago

      So is the author Army? Cuz cute jimin, lol I didn’t expect to see him here lol. I was just reading this cute article and I see my JIMINIE

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      ROSA ACOSTA 

      4 months ago

      JIMIN!!!!!!

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      Madeline Acosta 

      4 months ago

      So this boy named andrew he like stares at me like right when he walks in that door he is just staring at me the whole time its so cute.. Also this article gave me some great tips keep up the hard work

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      oof 

      4 months ago

      they really did jimin like that

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      Hey help please I feel so confused and conflicted 

      4 months ago

      So basically I started to like this guy named Isaac and at some points I think he likes me too but at others I feel so so stupid because I realise he probably doesn't but there are things I catch his m doing. Like I have seen him definitely stare at me and I get embarrassed and don't look at him but this one time I did look at him and we stared into each other's eyes really deeply and I loved it and hated it at the same time and I just couldn't take the intensity lol and had to look away but I counted that as a good sign and I do catch him staring at me a bit but he looks away super quick. Also, basically he like let's this other girl flirt with him but he doesn't flirt back and also he like doesn't speak to me much but he speakers with all the other girls a lot and he noticed I was gone this one time when I didn't have any classes where I sit next to him on that day and we sit a long way away from each other and I really like him and I try to show it and he likes to catch my eye and I feel all fluttery and he laughs sometimes at my jokes I just don't know what to do should I confess or like wait and see maybe he will ask me out or should I let it pass or shall I just ignore it because it might be nothing ugh thanks for reading can I please get some advice xoxo

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      bri 

      5 months ago

      i have this boy in my home room he has been showing all of these signs all year but he's really shy . he's cute and i know he likes me but i don't know how to approach him

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      Vanessa 

      5 months ago

      so there is this boy i have for pe class and he stares at me a lot whenever i'm around him he smiles like and whenever i catch him staring at me he smiles and than looks away his friends look at me to look if i'm staring at him or sum whenever i'm there he tries to come up to talk to me but walks away and he trys to get my attiention but yea this happenend since september and he still does it but like ugh he stares at me so much than i do

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      Jiminie 

      5 months ago

      When I saw Jimin I freaked !!

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      darline nicole bie 

      5 months ago

      I just saw BTS's Jimin omg. Am I hallucinating?

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      Jader bug 

      5 months ago

      I’ve had a crush on this guy for 5 years now and last year we started dating and he follows me and one of my friends around every ware at school and he just stares at me and when I look at him he quickly looks at the ground acting like I didn’t see him it really weird because he’s never done it before.

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      shrestha and shraddha 

      5 months ago

      This was really helpful for us.Thanks for giving such a nice ways to found someone anywhere.I already may have a crush, or something like that only.I wasn't able what to do, but by reading these ways really made it for me and maybe also for my friends.good job;and keep going on!

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      Nani 

      5 months ago

      I go to this site because i wanna check if i look like i have crush on her and i check it out its all true but i only stare at her cause im conscious if she likes me or not.

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      Middle School Girl 

      6 months ago

      I've had a crush on this person for almost 3 years now. The 1st year I was just getting to know him. The 2nd year he has a girlfriend. This year him and his girlfriend broke up and he was talking to another one of my friends, but she didn't know I liked him. Now, he isn't talking to anyone or dating someone!!!!!Yayy!!! He is in 8th grade and I'm in 7th. We've been friends since I could remember. Every time I see him in the hallway he says hi and my name, most of the time he will stop me and ask me how I'm doing, he smiles at me and looks at me in the eyes for a long period of time before we have to go to class. He is really sweet, kind, considerate, and gentle hearted.

      One time me and my friend went to a basketball game for our school and him and his friend were there. When ever I walked in he waved and pointed beside him for me to sit with him. We watched the game and had a lot of good conversations. Then I brought up volleyball. He volunteered for him and his friend to come to tryouts, paint their faces red, and hold signs up to cheer me on. I felt really stunned in amazement that he would do that. But, I declined it nicely and was blushing the hardest you could blush. He just kept offering though. :) After that, he said just to tell him when ever I have a game and he would be there because he knew I would make the team. I said okay, and we both kinda laughed. I made the team and now I have to wait until after Christmas Break to tell him I made the team. I would really like some help on how to tell him I like him because he does almost everything in the article. I was going hand him a letter just telling him how I feel but I really don't know.

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      Dayna 

      6 months ago

      So helpful.....keep it coming....!

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      huuman :) 

      6 months ago

      this kid that i kinda like now has stared at me a lot sence the beginning of the year and he looks away when i notice but he's kinda rude when he talks to me on Snapchat...? :(:

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      KC 

      6 months ago

      he always stares at me across the room, were friends, and he has all (except 2) class periods with me. but the thing is, i confessed (ok maybe my friends did it for me ;-;) and he put me in the friend zone... :( buuuut... he always makes me smile and laugh, sooooo idk...

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      Wow 

      6 months ago

      There’s this guy I’ve been been friends with for almost 2 years now. Before I was never really interested in him and our relationship was friends who joke around. I call him stupid and ugly and he does the same right back, plus we hit each other but it’s in a play-fighting way and we both end up laughing. Just this month, I started to fall for him. He looks at me and i notice but I don’t like dont back cause I’m too shy. And whenever I made looking his direction (but looking directly at him) he turns away. Does he like me back or something??

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      krystal 

      6 months ago

      this article helped me because now I know that my crush is also into me as well as me being into him and he acts shy he also acts like he has been staring at me during class time while I was so busy putting 100% effort into my work so now I know that he is into me

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      Rando person 

      6 months ago

      Soooo I like this guy and everyone think he doesn’t like me but he always does these weird signs like he winks at me when I pass by he always jokes around with me and occasionally will crack a dirty joke when I’m around and me and him touch hands every so often but I’m not sure if he’s just toying with me or he legitimately likes me SOMEONE HELP ME

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      febreze_S.K 

      6 months ago

      i like 2 boys so this is gonna be a LONG comment so this boy named alan he's very funny and when i enjoy being around him and started to like him and i blush and he notices making it obvious when i was absent he talks to my best friend and talks about me and not in a bad way like "do you think she likes me"and "i might like her" and then she tells him i like him after a few days she asks if he still likes me and he says no he started ignoring me but still stares at me and he was apart of the game oreo and was dared to ask me i said no cause apparently if i said yes he'd feel bad and i miss being his friend. Ricky is a popular guy but in 6th grade (last year) he joined one of my classes and i decided i liked him and i guess i started to creepily stare at him and he said hi and i kinda didn't say anything back he keeps staring at me and blushing and he showed many signs last year that he liked me and this year we dont make eye contact much but now he knows my name and he still blushes

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      Sassy Ash 

      6 months ago

      boys are like a rubik's cube... you have fun trying to solve them but you can never really figure them out :(:

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      Didi 

      6 months ago

      Im french. This Guy is in a relationship according to his friend who, is also my friend El. he started the "looking at each other" thing and i fell for him.. i think just thinking about him right now is.. arghhh yass xD but seriously idk we keep looking at each other and it's been for days now and today somthing happened he just looked at me for a longtime.. i was looking at him before he did omg so our eyes meet ! idk. i think i like him so much.

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      N.M 

      6 months ago

      This guy Connor he stares at me all the time.This morning I almost walked into him in the hallway and before I did he stopped and looked me deeply in the eyes.He bumps my shoulders or brushes up against me at morning break. His friends always stare at me too.When we have pep rally’s he sits close to me or when he’s across th bleachers he stares at me.One time he was staring at me and smiling. I think he’s really cute and funny.We have a lot in common like video games,basketball,humor, and etc.I don’t know what his feelings are I really need help.

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      unknown 

      6 months ago

      There is this boy we barely know eachother like don't know each other but I looked at him once and he looked back and ever since he looks at me all the time in the hallway like his eyes scan my body and then he looks into my eyes and then at my lips but he is going to highshcool next year so sad!!!!!

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      confused 

      6 months ago

      there is this boy he always like stares at me in till i notice then he winks and smiles.sometimes he like sits acrossed the room at first then has his friends tell my friends something in their ear and my friends giggle then go away.Then he comes and sits by me and always trys to make an excuse on why he does.

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      Amanda 

      6 months ago

      I think this guy Tyler likes me because he stars at me and looks at me and smiles

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      Dakota 

      6 months ago

      So, this boy named Alex, he always flirts with me but whenever in directed study/free time, he is always on his computer. sometimes he just Randomly ignores me, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Can someone help me if he's just acting or he really does like me please!?

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      cassy 

      6 months ago

      I like this boy. He knows and said he dont likw me. this has been going on for a year now. but he alway stares at me for like 5-10 seconds. If we make eye contact it is usually 4-7 second or longer. We also have so muc in common

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      Me 

      6 months ago

      This boy named dashuan is always looking at me but when i told why you looking at me we started to smile!

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      Kez 

      7 months ago

      There’s this boy, his name is Noah. We have Pe (1st block) and English (3rd block together) until a few weeks ago we never really talked, but recently it feels like things have moved quite fast in our friendship. I remember last year I thought he was cute, but we didn’t really talk enough for me to have a crush on him. Anyway a few English classes ago he put his hand on my thigh and sorta slapped it. Like multiple times. And then he, yes he, asked for my hoodie? Idk lol I found it kinda funny, but he kept tryna take It and was being playful about it. Then when I wouldn’t give it to him he went to his backpack and grabbed a, much fluffier better hoodie. And used it as his pillow to lean on me. Like why would he ask for my hoodie when, he had one that was better. And then last English class he mentioned that he didn’t have my instagram or snap chat and then added me on both. I also caught him staring at me, like in my eyes and I looked at him but he didn’t stop staring. He just stayed there looking at my eyes and smiling until I said gentility “what is it” and he said “oh nothing”. I can’t tell if he likes me or just wants to be friends? And I’m not even sure if I like him, but I think if I talk to him more i will end up liking him.

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      Ximena Cifuentes 

      7 months ago

      This has turned into a PRETTY addicting article!!!!, at 3:00 in the morning!!!! But who’s complaing, rt?

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      Summer 

      7 months ago

      Help me

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      Harley 

      7 months ago

      This is this guy named Matt who is really funny and sweet but ....I think he likes me because I am always looking at him.And he always looks at me

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      joshhhhh 

      7 months ago

      sooooo he stares at me while i do my workk , then when i look at him he looks away quickly. but hes like really obvious about it so idk if hes playing around,, or he actually like, likes me also, when i write with my pencil, he like hits the back of my hands with his soft hands (im sorry omgg,, i kinda like him too and his hands r so soft like damn) but yeahh and he teases a lot. but he like jokes around with other girls too so idk.. but he never touches them except me. ughhhhh screeeeeeee

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      Confused & flustered 

      7 months ago

      So, I have a few guys I like right now... One which is my neighbor, second who is his friend, and third is my best friend. The total is three guys who I really like in their own special ways. Each has pros and cons, I’m just trying to decide who I’d go for if I get an opportunity. My neighbor lives close to me, obviously and has an awesome pickup. If your thinking “Why does it matter what he drives?” My only answer is because it MATTERS to ME!

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      Park Jisoo 

      7 months ago

      Why my Jimin is here?

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      Avocado 

      7 months ago

      OMLLL I went through some comments and gurlls he definitely likes you, OKAY?? Geez now I feel so single and alone...lmao...I like this guy who I'm pretty sure doesn't like me....:) that's how it's going.

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      Isaiah B/ 

      7 months ago

      Should I make the first move!? Or should I flirt? MY BRAIN HURTS

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      Breanna Butchart 

      8 months ago

      Hey, all the time when i talk to my crush he always looks staright at my lips and eyes, whay does this mean?

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      UHHHH 

      8 months ago

      So there is a guy that always stares at me in class, and is super nice towards me. And at lunch i was talking with my friend and he kept coming near me. What does that mean.

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      Ummm 

      8 months ago

      I think i like this boy in a relationship and I'm in a relationship so.... I've never spoken to him and he always looks at me when I pass by him and his girlfriend at school. But he is really into his girl so i don't think he likes me. I probably just like him because he reminds me of my boyfriend who lives away from me....

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      its not fair 

      8 months ago

      so i caught this boy in my class staring at me but when i looked back he looks away. and hes been chatting with my friend is he trying to make me jealous? not cool :( hate it

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      Anonymous 

      8 months ago

      Well my crush treid to kiss me in front of his friends. He talks to me ALOT and he always stares at me and one of his friends nuged him when i walked past and he blushed and he said to his friend shhh dont tell her. Do u think he likes me or he is just ... being idk odd?

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      Cherry Blossom 

      8 months ago

      I like John DeJarnett....

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      No 

      8 months ago

      He kissed me

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      Confused 

      8 months ago

      So I've been going to a new school for a month now and i found my old classmate who i was in the same class with for two years in another country. I approached him and he (i believe and my friends too at least) pretended to forget me. He teased me alot in the old school. We haven't spoken since but he's always staring at me, in crows, while I'm in class. He literally turns around and stares at me in a weird way. He looked like he was about to talk to me twice and was walking up to me but chickened out last minute. I'm 90% percent sure he remembers me and idk whether or not he has a crush on me. He saw me going to this school thing called mun and now he's joining too, with his friend who was already with us. It's so awkward when he stares at me and i really wanna talk to him but there's no good place, time and too awkward plus i don't wanna throw accusations without proof. I've a gut feeling he likes me, and I'm right most the time bout stuff like this but idk. What do i do?

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      Christine 

      8 months ago

      this helped me bc my friend adonis is always doing these stuff to me and he told my sister that he likes me so i know

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      Idek Anymore 

      8 months ago

      So "An Idiotic Potato", LITERALLY EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO ME WITH EVERY SINGLE DETAIL. ARE YOU READING MY MIND??!?!?!?

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      I need help!! 

      8 months ago

      I have a crush on a guy since last year and my friend told him that I liked him. This year he stares at me a lot and I noticed he starting to sit near me more often. I try to pass notes that I needed to talk to him. HE actually instead of going with his friend he stood next me. I can't talk to him in person. Either I chicken out or he walks away. My friend says that his friend told my friend that my crush likes me. HELP!!! What should I do?!

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      Skylar 

      8 months ago

      SO I like this guy named Dallas he is new and he looks at me 24/7 I wanna know he likes me

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      Rosealie 

      8 months ago

      @An idiotic potato i say you just confess and if he seems uninterested then just walk away and maybe if you want you could try to make him jealous that usually works but not all the time i wish you all of my luck so good luck and dont be afraid to confess

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      Gelly 

      9 months ago

      There this senior i always caught him staring at me but he doesnt look away but i dont know if does that to other girls or not . But he doesnt talk to me often .

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      Skell 

      9 months ago

      Well my best boy mate every time I see him he keeps smiling he keeps hugging me or fist bumping me and he’s always nervous and doing stupid stuff for example he was looking at me while playing football and then the football hit him in the then he fell.But he claims he doesn’t wanna be anything else but friends to my friends but he never says ewt to me that he doesn’t like me and he knows I like him but he’s messing My feelings all the time plz help me

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      bacon 

      9 months ago

      okay so like its thi guy we look at each other in the hall way when we walk pass eachother and he told me he used to like me but i dont know if he still dose and we have no classes together

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      azul 

      9 months ago

      this guy said to me that he likes me straight up............................

      and i said i like you too..........

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      Angelina 

      9 months ago

      Omg i think this guy at my school likes me i like him too

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      nyasia middleton 

      9 months ago

      i think this boy have a crush on me he keep looking at me and smile my bestie told me that he was looking at me and smiling at me and i didn't i know i turnt around and than he stop looking at me does it mean he like me

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      I'm soo nervous 

      9 months ago

      There is this 3 boys in my class he always stares at me but when i look at them they look away but when i walk around to get my backpack he says my name and he always ask me where do u put this and this then i say put it on ur folder and he said ok but the next day he stared at me about 15 minutes and i was like omg seriously and they always talk ti me and look at me outside

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      weirded out 

      9 months ago

      i need help so on the first day of school there is this guy and from day one he has constantly stared at me like i would be coming out of my class and i would look at him then he would look at me then i would walk to my next class but as i passed by he would just stare at me while i was walking, or another incident where i fell asleep on one of the couches at my school and i was just about to fall alseep when i heard someone talking to me and i opened my eyes to see him there i took off my headphones and he asked what i was listening to and i said a song and he took my headphones out of my hands and put them on listiened for a couple minutes then said it sounded good then walked away, then my best friend told me when we were walking home that the two girls he was in between he was staring at me the entire time and got up but when he passed by me she said she heard him say as he was looking at me " gosh im getting distracted" so i dont now what to do about him and im kinda a little weirded out about it so if someone could give some advice that would be great.

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