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How to Tell If He Likes You: Nine Signs He's Got a Crush

Updated on August 27, 2017
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Is He Into You?

He might be rude . . . or sweet! How can you tell?

Some girls are great at telling when a guy likes them. But a lot of girls have a hard time reading the signs. A boy might tease you or try to please you, but sometimes they send mixed signals.

Is the boy you like ignoring you or being arrogant and coy? Some boys are rude to disguise how they feel. Insecurity and confusion can muddy the waters and make it hard for a girl to tell where they stand.

Check out these signs. Most boys who like a girl will do at least one of these things, on purpose or unconsciously.

1. He Stares at You

. . . . and maybe looks away when you notice.

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The first, most common sign that he is interested is that he looks at you and looks away when you see him. He may look awkward. You know it's a good thing when he smiles at you. Sometimes it may feel tense because you haven’t spoken to each other before.

He may also avoid making eye contact. If he glances at you to ask common questions in class like "Where do we turn this in?" or "Did you understand this question?” then he may be nervous but wants to get your attention. He's intimidated because you're attractive. If he looks at the floor while talking to you, he's just shy.

2. He's Super Shy

Does it seem like he wants to tell you something?

Maybe you've known him for a while, or maybe not, and he's suddenly super shy around you. Does it seem like he wants to tell you something? Then he probably does.

It might be the first time he's really liked a girl. If you can, help put him at ease. He may seem to avoid you, or even be a little rude, but if you can tell he's watching your every move, ask him to walk you home or to class. Keep it light.

3. He Touches You

Does he stand close or even take your hand?

Some guys just can't hide the way they feel. Even if they're shy or insecure, they might make excuses to sit next to you or just bump you by accident. Sometimes this can be something like a friendly punch on the shoulder—it's playful but still a sign that he's trying to find ways to touch you.

Does he bump shoulders with you while you're walking down the hall? Better still, does he push your hair out of your eyes? There's no way a guy would do this unless he had a crush.

4. He Looks at Your Eyes and Lips

. . . . and might keep staring at your mouth.

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This is important! If he looks at your eyes and then your lips, you’ve sealed the deal: He likes you. What guy looks at a girl’s lips if he isn’t into her? If he gets close or even hugs you, he is throwing signs at you and it's up to you to catch them.

Ignoring someone is another sign of liking them. Watch carefully next time you see him: if he sees you glance or stare at him a lot and quickly looks away but with a serious, blank, or curious expression, see if he ignores you the rest of the day. If he does, then he likes you. You have really got to him and he likes you, but he doesn't know how to approach you.

5. He Uses Your Name When He Talks to You

Or maybe he changes his tone when he's talking to you.

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Tone and language are big clues to whether he likes you.

Does he ever call you “dude” or “yo”? If he does, then he probably thinks of you as just a friend. But when a guy calls you by your name, it's a total sign of respect= he likes you enough to spend energy remembering details about you. Notice if her ever gives you little nicknames, as that is a total sign of attraction towards you!

6. He Looks at You From a Distance

He singles you out in a crowd.

There are many ways a guy might try to hide that they like you. An example is when you look at him first and he looks at you second and then quickly looks away. It could be the other way around, but most of the time the guy ends up looking away first. This is an obvious sign that he likes you.

Another example is when he looks at you from a distance and his face sort of freezes, maybe in a half-smile, smirk, wink, or a blank but curious look. If he stares at you and holds your gaze for a few seconds, he is interested.

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7. He Tries to Make You Laugh

He might even tease you a little.

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Does he show off around you? Clowning around, trying to make you laugh—these could be signs that he likes you. Pay attention if he acts especially energetic or silly around you and whether he acts the same way in front of everyone else.

If he teases you, ask yourself whether he does this all the time or only when the two of you are alone. If he changes his way of treating you when friends are around, then he may like you a lot but doesn't want to admit it to anyone. He could also be confused about how to act.

8. He Texts You

If he's texting you frequently or commenting on or liking your Instagram or Facebook posts, then he might have a thing for you. Some guys are very friendly and are really into liking all their friends' stuff online, so see if he does the same thing for everyone else. But if he has your number, and is talking to you through out the day (especially at night), then he most probably likes you.

9. He Shows Interest in You Even If He Is Shy

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Is he the athletic and confident type? The bubbly, always humble type of guy? Or maybe he is just shy? Many types of guys are keepers. Most are down-to-earth and interesting. The bubbly, humble type of guy can be really confident and can make you smile and laugh. The shy guy may have a secret side to him like hobbies, talents, and interests that intrigue you.

If they like you, they'll listen to you when you talk and remember the things you say. They might bring up details from a conversation you had a while ago. They'll also notice differences in your appearance, like if you get a haircut or have a new shirt.

What Do You Do Now?

That depends on your situation. If it's someone you see regularly but don't really know, try to befriend them with a conversation about an upcoming school event, class, or club.

Don't be afraid to try a simple, "Hi, my name is _____." If they like you, they'll be so happy you made the first move. If not, then at least you'll know and you can find someone who does.

You could also find him on Instagram or Facebook and friend him. That might be enough for him to feel encouraged to talk to you.

Once you know what your crush is like, it will be easier to figure him out. When you come across a guy with the right characteristics, then chase him. Or make him chase you!

Let me know what you think!

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      Leiloni Ontiveros 9 days ago

      it helped me kinda with this guy at school :-)

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      Yura 2 weeks ago

      I think he knows I like him back. The question is, I'm still unsure of whether or not he likes ME or my best friend. We do almost everything together and we're always around each other so I don't see why he wouldn't like her either.

      However, just today he showed yet another sign. He constantly watched the two of us from a distance, looking straight at us with a sly smile. That's his usual smile and usually he's quite neutral, like when we're sitting next to each other (seating arrangements lol) he'll try to act cool and hide his expression.

      I'm just as shy as he is so I hide my face behind a book. I fear that sometimes I'm mistaking him looking at me for something else, like him looking at the board. Because I don't always give him eye-to-eye, I'm toooo damn nervous, I can never tell if he's watching me or not.

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      Tevan 2 weeks ago

      So, I love this person so so much, he is sooo cute. He always looks at me and stares at me. I always catch him staring and he smiles and looks away when I realise him looking. Sometimes, he even makes a face when I stare back too long. Today, I was mad at some girls in my class and he was involved in the drama. He kept on looking at me trying to get my attention but I was really annoyed so I ignored him. Later, I texted him to say sorry for being all mad, and he said it was all good. I wonder if he likes me?

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      Kylie 3 weeks ago

      So i was walking in the hallway at school and we look each other in the eye and as he and i depart he says "hey''

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      ARMY 4 weeks ago

      Why is Jimin here? what the heck hahahahahaha

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      lillie 7 weeks ago

      so the guy i like he's dating somebody else but he does all of these things with me and not his girlfriend it's kind of weird becuse me and his girlfriend are like best friends and we've all known ech other forever

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      Kim 7 weeks ago

      So I Actually Have A Crush On This Guy, We've Had A Little Fight Before On Chat, It Included Him And His Friends This Happened Last Year, We've Never Talked To Each Other Before, But At Sometimes We Make Eye Contact, And His Face Seems Frozen Or Sometimes With A Half Smile, I Wasn't So Sure If He Was Looking At Me Though, And I Would Usually Look Away After We Stared At Each Other I Guess, Please Help I Really Hope He Likes Me Back And We Get Along, His A Capricorn And I'm A Sagittarius.

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      rachelle 8 weeks ago

      this really help me thank you

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      Patty cake. 8 weeks ago

      There is this boy. And he just glances at me. It sometimes is from the corner of his eye and other times he look at me directly. One time, I overheared his friends tell him that he should ask me for homecoming but he said no. One time when he was talking with his friends, and he and his friends were laughing and he looked at me with a big smile. He looks at me a lot when I am asking the teacher a question and he is also by the teachers desk. But the problem is that I used to follow him on Snapchat but he blocked me. I luckily, still follow him on Instagram and he follows me but that's all. We never talked unless its an assignment we work on together. So I can't really tell if he likes me or not. So, does he like me or does he not?

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      Jamie Scholler 8 weeks ago

      How to get a guy to fall for me?? How to become his girlfriend?

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      Diana 2 months ago

      what happens when a boy mess with you but the next day he messes with a girl but then stares at you alot?

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      lilo 2 months ago

      i don't understand him. sometimes he's pretty rude and wont talk to me but sometime he talks .. and sometime when there's something he wants to buy he asks me which one would i prefer . i'm confused ... does that make sense? he sometimes touch me and it was shocking it has been years bcs we've been friend like my whole life since we were 1 y/o. and sometimes i wonder if he knows i like him cuz i don't want him to know

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      Alex 2 months ago

      In the past three days i’ve seen him stare at me three times... once on Friday during lunch, once yesterday (Monday) during health, and once today (Tuesday) while we were in the gym this morning before we went to our lockers. But i think he has a girlfriend. what does this mean?

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      Fatima 2 months ago

      What happened if a boy look at a girl

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      Sara 2 months ago

      There is a guy in my class. He is naughty,smart but a bit nerdy. He was staring at me since last year. I can understand that he likes me. I do like him. But I don't know whether he has a crush on me. Though we never spoke with each other. We were in a good relationship. I know that one day he we'll come to meet me or else I'll die without seeing him...he keeps on seeing me like for

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      animallover17 2 months ago

      There is this boy in my class who is super social and funny. All the sudden he started acting really shy around me, and I caught him staring at me across the room multiple times. I'm just really confused about why he's doing this. That's when I found this website. Please help me!

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      OMG JIMIn 2 months ago

      LMAO I didnt Expect Jimin

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      Crystal 2 months ago

      I have this one guy in my gym class, he always stares at me and he sometimes talks to me, I like him but I don't know if he likes me back. What should I do?

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      ashley 3 months ago

      i just find him hot.lmao but we always stare at each other everywhere and i wanna talk to him but i can't.We have one class together and we stare at each other but ugh i really doubt he likes me

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      Em 3 months ago

      So there is this guy i never talk to and this year he is in my class, he is always starring at me in class and when someone tells a joke in class, he glances at me, he never approached me . Does he like me ?

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      Isa 3 months ago

      So there's this guy in my class that keeps shooting glances at me.. i know he has a girlfriend but like even if he's right next to her, he looks at me as if he wants to see my reaction. I've noticed this started since last year. Every time I'm in a line for something, he's somehow close to me. Yesterday was the first time we talked, but that was because he forgot his pencil. Does that mean he likes me? Or is he just slightly interested in me but not much?

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      just a small town country gal 3 months ago

      so there is this really cute guy in my class and he really liked me in second grade and I think he likes me again. Me and my friend were goofing off and I looked over by him and seen he was staring at me and laughing. after that he started a chat with me and all we did was chat the whole period. I can't believe he likes me in 6th grade again! please give me some advice and thanks for reading!

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      3 months ago

      Nice~!

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      Jimin's noona 3 months ago

      Jimin WYD here? xD

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      Yass jimin 3 months ago

      Omg I didn't except to see jimin here

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      Kyra 3 months ago

      There this boy in my class he stares at me and I have a crush on him and I want to ask him out but idk if he likes me back thanks for the tips

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      oooo 3 months ago

      lmao what the heck is jimin doing there

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      3 months ago

      THIS WAS SUPER HELPFUL I MIGHT HAVE A BOYFREIND

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      Kimy 3 months ago

      Okay so i´m somewhat a little iffy.. The reason being is that, he has a girlfriend now and stuff, but he stares at me whenever I walk by. I don´t really exactly think much of it but my friend would tell me if he´s staring at me which would be like most of the time. But I do remember a time when him and his gf went on a ¨break¨ and he asked one of my bestfriend´s for some advice, he asked about if I liked him but when my bestfriend told me it was someone else he just gave a disappointed ¨Oh¨ does that mean anything? Like why would he say my name when there are millions of other girls in my school? Should I take something from that or what? And he would as well stare at me when im walking.

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      Pearl Jazmyn 3 months ago from Las Vegas

      @lesley

      don't be afraid to ask him ok? we all live and will die one day. say hi. comment on his pictures. send him a message through a social media source. good luck girl.

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      Pearl Jazmyn 3 months ago from Las Vegas

      aw, hello!

      based on what I read I might have responded to you if it was three years ago...I was much more active then. try looking to the beginning of the comments and if a response isn't there I will get back to you as soon as possible. x

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      Pearl Jazmyn 3 months ago from Las Vegas

      hot guys usually tend to be the ones who will send you like signals and then mentally mess you up. If he likes your pictures and comments on them , without bothering to text you...he could be doing the same exact thing to many other females. send him a text to initiate talk if you really like him. good luck.

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      Pearl Jazmyn 3 months ago from Las Vegas

      either he likes you and the whole phone thing is a distraction to see your reaction or he just likes you as a friend. why don't you try asking him if he has a girlfriend? I mean, if you're already friends it shouldn't be that awkward. plus you'd be able to find out if he likes you or not. good luck.

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      Lesley 3 months ago

      This really helped me because my crush does these things and I feel like he really likes me I'm afraid to ask him though

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      Nia 3 months ago

      I wrote this a long time ago about 3 years ago but I still think about from time to time I wrote it under the name of @ConfuzzeledOne and I still see this guy around I don't have feeling for him now but I would like to know if back then based on what I wrote did he like me. I think he's one of those guys I'll always have lingering feelings for I use to think we were soulmates

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      anaa 3 months ago

      i think he did 7/9 of this sign, but i just dont know did he really like me or not because he's so hot at social media and text girl oftenly and not text me but he always like my pic and sometimes comment it

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      Bella 3 months ago

      So their is a boy three years older than me and he's my brothers best friend and whenever we see each other when he comes over or carpooling to go to the gym together he always stares at me and when we're at the gym he looks at me and goes way faster and he always looks at me and one time we were walking to get candy and he called a girl on his phone and he called her babe like" hey babe" or "whatcha doing babe" or "babe lets meet their" I'm just getting mixed signals

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      Annemarie 4 months ago

      I don't even know if he has a crush on me but he always starred at me

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      YUP :P 4 months ago

      so i have this classmate since grade 1 until now, but when we were grade 6 he had a different crush and the rumors spread all over the campus. when my parents decided to enroll me in a different school, i still can't believe that he became my classmate once again, sooo just a week later a girl called my name (her name was fatima and she's my new classmate also) and shouted "hey dahlia, he has a crush on you!" while pointing at the boy *whom was smiling and laughing* so i though "wtf?". the next day our seats where rearrange and he was placed far away from me, he was like at the right edge of the room and i'm on the left. Even though that was the case, I always took a glance at him and I always see him looking away, which was weird for me. Then the next day (again) he was talking with his friend but he was still looking at me. I stared at him for a good 10 seconds and then I looked away, but still, his eyes don't lie, he is staring directly at me, but after a few minutes he finally looked away and I so felt relieved. (I even thought that he became a psycho or something.) so does that means he likes me or what?

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      CHIMCHIM 4 months ago

      didn't even knew that tons of ARMYs would notice jimin, and I didn't expect to see his picture here. haahahahaa. I'm just happy to see my Co-Armys here. ANNYEONG!

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      Mich 4 months ago

      This boy does not talk much. Was snapping me like crazy hung out a few times and stares at me like crazy but he doesn't want a label. Doesn't want to date right now. He stopped snapping at me but stares and smiles at me all the time and opens my snap immediately but doesn't respond. Friends say he likes me but is just enjoying his friends right now. Confused!

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      Vanessa 4 months ago

      LOL I kept coming back to this post when I had a crush on a dude, and now I'm here to figure out why someone keeps doing something (I don't like them that way) and I see BTS Jimin!!! I was not a fan before and now I see how inevitable it was. He is my favorite, wow nice picture.

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      BEACH?! 4 months ago

      Lol Jimin had to make an appearance

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      Jennifer 5 months ago

      I like this boy and when i stare at him he stares at me too and the frist time i was in his classroom he was stareing at me and when i was laughing with my friend he was stareing at me and im scared to tell him if he likes me what should i do

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      RIR 5 months ago

      Love is blind it happens in every ones life just suddenly.

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      catherine 5 months ago

      Thanks

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      Nymph 5 months ago

      I have a crush on this kinda "Popular" guy I mean I always smile when hes around and when he sees me he looks at me and smiles and looks away quickly, but i dont know what to do because im scared to ask him out because im not sure if he likes me what do i dooo?

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      Marissa 5 months ago

      this is really helpfull

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      BTS Fan 5 months ago

      Nice use of the Jimin picture!!! *heart eyes*

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      Jeffery Alexander Eskridge 5 months ago

      So, there. is that girl and she goes to Virginia Tech and she perfect with others I have a crush with her since we where in the second grade.

      I been having this crush from a long time and my ex girlfriend and her friend try to force me to ask her out but it wasn't my moment I waited to tell her after I graduated from college as a right now I am thinking that I want to be with her until the end . I plan on to propose to her on my second date. But after she finish summer session at Virginia Tech she might come home so we can hang out and be a couple.

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      Superstar4051 5 months ago

      This worked soooooooo well

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      ARMY_BTS 5 months ago

      Does no one know that Jimin from BTS is in the second picture??

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      Sorry secret 5 months ago

      I used to go office by bus and sometimes i met a guy nd and i have crush on him. Can you tell me the sign that he have crush me or not??

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      crushh 5 months ago

      My crush always teases me. 3 days ago when I was talking to my crush my bestfriend said that she thinks he likes me. I was happy but hid it and asked her why. She said that he was trying to be close to me and she could just tell. The day after that, bunch of his friends were calling my name and saying that he had a crush on me. He glared at them. Then today I wanted to see if he wanted to talk to me so I was few steps behind him, talking loudly to my friend. He turned and started teasing me. Is this a sign that he likes me?

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      Liberty 6 months ago

      There kinda a guy in my next door class I really like him. But he's kinda a deva, though I am too. When ever I dare too look at him or around him he looks at me and says "what!" I wish I could jest know.. but seeing him is like my heart goes off and it's been haunting me since I first saw him. Oh I wish I knew but when it comes to guys I can never tell..

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      In love❤ 6 months ago

      So, there is that guy in my school, he is not really Mr.kind with others, I have a crush on him ❤

      . I have a friend that is his friend and she told him that I liked him. She told it to me. After that day, nothing really changed. It was like in April and then now, he's like always looking at me. One day, he looked at me and I caught him then he turned away and my friend said that he still looked at me after I turned. Is there anything?

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      PurpleH. 6 months ago

      There's a guy at my one class. He has an aura that's a bit uncomfortable for me to approach him. And the following days he started to changed like whenever he laughs he looked/glancing at me. I don't have a feelings for tho but it feels weird to think that he likes me. One time we suddenly saw each other then we looked at each other as we passed by. I don't know but I felt nervous and my hear starts to beat so fast.

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      Angel 6 months ago

      There's this guy in most of my classes..he used to be really nice but these days he's just kinda weird...like annoying, and he randomly says hi to me, though it sounds sarcastic when he says it. He also stares at me sometimes and then looks away. He is sorta mean to me sometimes, though, and i don't know what his problem is. he used to be so nice, but now he is just rude.

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      Aubree 6 months ago

      This helped me but he looks at me even if i look back at him what dose that mean

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      IZ 6 months ago

      soo im not sure if this guy in my school likes me..he sits opposite me during class and makes me laugh alot..whenever the class is doing an activity we give out folders. whenever he hands them out he always manages to give me mine when its at the bottom and theres still some on top. idk im so stupid to think this but when were packing up the folders he takes mines first and puts it on top of his then collects the rest on the table..he smiles at me whenever he sees me across the corridor and playground, when i was waiting for a friend but getting late for lesson at the same time he came from the other end of the corridor and we both stared at each other for like 10 seconds then this boy pushed his friends and they all fell and he joined in..lmao it was kinda funny but i have a feeling my friend likes him cause she saw him and said she had to go and in class she always stares at him lool idk but do u think he likes me?

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      takingback21panicswithsirens 6 months ago

      so i have a crush on my sisters friend he recently turned 15 i'm 13 but will be 14 in june. this could take a long time to explain... so my sister has her closest friends 2 boys 3 girls we all meet outside of school at the end of the school (they all like me i think)day my crush -lets call him samdwich he always waves to me and says hi one time after school before a holiday he said i'll miss you and i swear i have heard him say i love you under his breath to me like 2-3 times my sister even mimicked him at a sleepover for that one time it made me freak out xD my sister and her bffs are the emo kids at the school and i'm emo/scene one of my sisters friend also has a crush one him and says omg hes sooooo hot and stuff like that the other boy in her bff lets call him glasses dude hes 15 and acts like my big bro and is sandwitchs bff since year 5 -_-) group just brang samwich up and i said oh yeah he just showed me his foot once (they're so smol and cute! xD) and glasses dude said oh yeah he has this weird obsession over you (i literally died xD) only my bff knows about my crush and i talk about him everyday with her my day is the worst unless i see him. she says ask him out or something its now or never he only has like one year of school left and i'm like i would but i can't even talk to him even when i say hi to him i stutter or say it really loudly i just don't want to be rejected he also stares at me when he thinks i'm not looking and if we're with the group he will look at me his smile makes me melt :) my sister was like it ok if u think he is hot just don't try to get on him. oh ye my sister also lied and said i had a crush on another guy just to annoy me and him and he didn't talk to me until i told him i didn't i realyyyyyyyyyy like him and i feel he might like me too? what do you guys think? thanks :3

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      That Lonely Girl 6 months ago

      Mkay so there's this cute, sweet, and funny guy in my TKD class. He's always staring at me, my mom notices it too. He looks at me a LOT. I look away too quickly for him to do anything afterwards. Not only that, I tease him a lot, and "reject" him. When I was going to the changing room, a black belt said, "Hi *my name*." I said a shy hi, and walked into the changing room. He said, "She hates me." With a little, short laugh afterwards. I screamed, "NO, I DON'T." And then the black belt said I was"just shy." They were whispering other stuff, but I was changing so I didn't hear, and they were both quiet when I walked by.. I really like him, I dunno if he likes me or not. Though, it seems like he's more shy to talk to me than the rest.. And he helps others a lot too. ANNDDD *yes theres more* he talks to a bunch of other girls, but he barely talks to me. I NEED HELP! ;-;

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      Jenniffer 6 months ago

      So at PE We where playing I had to change from Team And that was the team my crush was at...Then He said "Hi Diana welcome to the team!" Then he gave me a hug.Then today He Said That he Wanted ME to help him So I said Sure.Then he started Singing to me...Which is my favorite song "Treat You better" Then he smiled at me...And he's sweet around me,Sometimes talks to me And Always text's me...Is there anything there?

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      Someone 6 months ago

      So i dont even know whats going on to be honest like ok this popular guy in my school that we dont even talk he keeps staring at me? Its like he makes fun of me when he is around with friends but when hes alone he just keeps staring at me. Like today we just looked at each other in the eyes for like 20sec like non stop then i left. Im so confused tbh. Plus wherever i go with my friends he takes his friends and they sit near us like ????? Idk tbh need some help here. I think hes just playing games or whatevaaaa

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      A guy 6 months ago

      So I'm a guy reading this so this thing also didn't have another way of telling if he likes you if he is running away when you approach him so I hope you have luck finding the right person for you

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      Amy Vockerodt 6 months ago

      Hi, we went campig with family and went to swim. This one guy close to my age kept looking at me and even my mom saw it and him and he's friend were wrestling on there tube today 21-05-17 close to me and even on Saturday he stared but we never spoke to each other. So what now?

      Greatings,

      Amy

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      potato 6 months ago

      theres a one guy at my school.which is he is a senior.i dont know how but one day he and hes friend was talking with the teacher. and im were walking and pass them. then suddenly he change hes position which is he try to came closer to me. i dont know but somehow i feel that closeness and i feel wierd and akward! does he likes me or not?

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      Pearl Jazmyn 6 months ago from Las Vegas

      @bum

      that means you're a guy? you should try talking to him some time if by gay you mean you might be attracted to him too. good luck.

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      Pearl Jazmyn 6 months ago from Las Vegas

      @someone

      did you both just contact each other recently or have you both been talking for two years? is it a long distance relationship? I would suggest attempting to arrange a day to see each other. Then maybe there'll be sparks that you did not even realize we there. Good luck .

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      Someone 7 months ago

      So there is this guy and I haven't seen him in 2 years but we text at night and alot in the day, does that say something?

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      Bum 7 months ago

      There's this boy in my grade and I think he is gay for me

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      Cupcake heart 7 months ago

      There's this boy that I have a Magor crush on. (His name is Harrison by the way) He always teases me or makes fun of me. Every single day I catch him looking at me. I really need advice. Does he like me or does he not?

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      Someone 7 months ago

      I don't know if this is one but this boy keeps on looking at me and I always see him do it so then I look at him,he with his friend and I'm with mine with other people around and nearly every single day I always like find him staring at me I think it's eye contact or whatever I'm not sure

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      Othandwayo 7 months ago

      So I met this guy in grade 8 camp and we were chilled with each other we spoke about anything and everything and then in the next year he started taking his crush it to the mall and stuff, I think that's when I found i like him, we still spoke but not as often as before and before I knew it he was avoiding me, I really like him and now he makes it so obvious that he's looking at me, he was walking past me with one of his friends and he just said hi . When the passed, one of my besties pointed out how he was literally only looking at me. I don't know what to think of this whole situation, it's not like he's a stranger or anything like that we just drifted apart and I find it hard to approach him

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      Skrt skrt 7 months ago

      So Im confused. So theres this guy in my 3rd period and hes been acting weird lately. I get to that class later same woth his friend and now hes been trying to be late like me. Also while I was walking toward the building outside I kept seeing him turn his head my way (behind him) Also today we had to get in these groups and I wasnt in his group but witha group of girls with these 2 funny class clowns guys. One of them started talking to me and when we were done I looked up and I saw him looking at me. Also a few minutes later I saw him again. Also lately hes been flirting with me, last few weeks ago he didnt and now he is. He doesnt really smile much though, well Im not too sure but hes not as smiley as my one crush. Im just starting to see him stare at me now. Do you think he has some crush on me, Im not really sure. Hes not really a dude who charms the girls right away like some. Also Ive noticed him kind of getting close to me. Do you think he likes me or something?

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      Apeksha 7 months ago

      A guy n my class sits in front of me and when our teacher said him to go at the back of row he asked to sit me . When our teacher gave us a break and all the students rushed out of the and at that time my water bottle was empty he asked me to drink from his bottle before himself .It that a sign?

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      Jessica 7 months ago

      every time I go to Kmart he looks in my eyes and when i walk away he looks back at me what does it mean

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      Sara John 4 8 months ago

      I started to admire someone with me at school after only 2 weeks of starting have feelings.. he started to stare at me all my friends recognized that as he flirted with me.... he sometimes act like a clown and look at me to make me recognize him .. but he also talk to other girls I don't know if he really has crush on me or not cuz he sometimes ignores me but also he stands for me when someone against me

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      Rose 8 months ago

      Well I like this guy and in 1st period , he talks to meii like nothing but the rest of the day he doesn't talk to meii :( He lied about not getting on instagram but we act like we're already boyfriends because, he says he's sorry if he said anything wrong, or he asks meii if I still like the guy I used to like but he gets red when I talk to him and turns around but I find him looking at meii, we got in a fight cuz the other day he wouldn't talk to meii so I didn't talk to him the whole day and now it's spring break and I can't see him until next weeks but I can't get over him, his smile, his laugh just says it all

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      HeyIt'sAva 8 months ago

      Okay, girls, I'm in a situation just like all of you XD but read on, this is IMPORTANT.

      High school is a confusing time, isn't it? I want to give all of you some advice because I think you need it.

      If you're in middle school, don't sweat this shit. Nothing in middle school ever works out.

      If you're in high school and you like a guy, and you have to continuously do things like act cute, dress cute, and laugh, or twirl your hair and keep looking at him in order to get his attention BUT he doesn't talk to you or look over, LET IT GO. He's not worth your time. Listen..

      A guy who likes a girl never leaves her to do the pursuing. Once you find the one who sneaks glances at you constantly and makes you laugh from day to day, he's the guy you want.

      You should never have to question yourself for a boy. If the boy is truly the one who loves you, you shouldn't have to question a thing- you'll just know.

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      Tina 8 months ago

      I like a guy half my age ,but he comes off older I told him I sexually was attracted to him and 20minets later he came back saying he was gay he's freinds with my son and over the last year he has worked himself into a state of him smiling when he has to pass me and really shy trying to get out of my way hideing from me in my son's room,what do I do from here,all the conversation was on texting,except the time we spent together on the couch where I first picked up he liked me.

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      Lil Ma 8 months ago

      When I'm in my math class this guy will always lock eyes with me when he passes papers back. I don't know if it's just his thing and he does it to everyone or if it's just me but it's pretty attractive.

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      Mae 8 months ago

      So I've liked this guy since last year. I started to like him because I was physically attracted to him. I didn't even expect to like him so much that I started to stalk him every day. When we we're in an activity, we would always make eye contact. And then when we started high school, I always notice him. He would always notice me. We would look at each other for a second but I always look away, afraid he might know that I like him. I'm shy that's why. I over think things or just assume things. I sometimes thought that he might not like me because I always the one who look away when we stare at each other's eyes. He might think I'm not interested at all. Now months have passed. I was gone for a week and when I came back to school, I heard some people that he already have a girlfriend. I was sad and dissapointed. I regretted not making a move. I'm a coward. But even though she has a girl friend, we still make eye contact. And sometimes, whenever we see each other, he would move towards me like when he is a long distance away from me, he would move closer to me in only a short distance. I look away because I'm afraid that the people around us might notice and say that I like him or maybe his girl friend might notice me looking at him. I guess its too late now, now that he already have someone he likes.

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      Tania 8 months ago

      so there is this guy at my school and he have a twin they both look alike but he skinny and look like a grandpa is what my friend said and one day we was walking to our classrooms and this girl had said something odd to him and he looked confused and looked at me with the same face but smiling and he kept looking at me so i laughed and started to talk to my friends i didn't like him at first because i wanted to get to know him and be his friend first before i start having a crush on him my friend is helping me out by telling him some stuff about me and basic stuff about him then she is gonna stop talking to him so it would be easier for us to talk to each other but on today Monday i got my hopes up came in confident but he never noticed me or looked at me and it kind stinged my heart alot everytime i looked at him and just felt sad and then i saw his twin walk by and scared the mess outta me making my heart hurt bad and then my legs felt like jello i don't know why but i need some help on this because i do want to try and get to know him but its hard because i am anti-social sometimes so its hard for me to approach people

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      Sweetsie 8 months ago

      So there's this guy in my school and I've known him for about six years now and now that he's switching schools for high school, I feel like he's been really touching up to me. Like I would hang around with two friends and maybe play a round of chess or two and when I'm not playing I would sit on a bench, and behind it was a window. He would follow us there by that bench and just stand around, banging the wall...like he was trying to get my attention. I would then look into the window and he would watch me and smile, like I've never seen him do that before...I could see his reflection and he didn't know I could see him...but he was smiling...it made me smile...but he smiled. And today, I sat on the staircase with a friend who fell on the ground....I asked if he, my friend, was okay and i sat with him. But then, he just appeared out of nowhere and he sat right next to me...why next to me? There were so many different places to sit...but next to me? This whole week he did this, he was so nice to me and we kept making eye contact...he even has brothers and sisters who ask me like literally everyday if I like him. I don't know if he asked them to do that or it's just totally obvious that I like him. Thoughts like how the next time I would see him go through my head like everyday and it kills me to know if he feels the same way I do...I really wanna know.

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      chels 9 months ago

      what does it mean if the guy you think has a crush on you and he is in your class staring at you constantly. Also he speeks really loud around me and smiles at me sometimes what does this mean? oh and he touched my hand in class cos we had to do a task togeather. But at recess and lunch he never talks to me like he used to. idk if ive done something or what but i really liked it when hed come over to us and randomly chat to us.....

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      Unknown 9 months ago

      I like this guy at school and use to go to my primary.We were close and played games with my friends and his.This year we were out next to eachother and he made me laugh and always called me.We changed rooms and got put right next to eachother he makes me laugh and looks at me sometimes but turns away but when I look at him he turns and smiles.I always get this happy feeling but my friends always say aww cute couple and use silly rhymes with our names.One of my friends told him I like him and he said he dosent mind

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      Cyd 9 months ago

      Ok so there is this guy in my class and he is kind of cute and me and him used to always argue and then one day he just stared being nice and Tuesday or Friday he did something and I thought he was going to kick me but he didn't and when I told him that's what I thought he said "I wouldn't do that why would you think I'd do that" but he said it like apologetic kind of and I'm pretty sure he tried to touch my face but I wouldn't let him and today he hugged me twice and stole my phone and ran away and idk if he's just trying to be my friend now or if he's flirting but idk And while I was sitting down in my desk he walked behind me and kicked my butt but not hard

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      Nila 9 months ago

      So there is this kid his name is Joshua. He is in my English class and I've known him probably since the 2nd grade. We are both 9th graders now and I've caught a lot of feelings for him. I told him how I felt and he told me he didn't feel the same way. Which obviously got me a little upset. But we still message each other almost 24/7 and today in class I caught him staring at me and we were staring at each other for about 30 seconds! I looked away because I got nervous. I looked back to see if he was still staring and he was! I have no idea what this means but I need to know. He told me he didn't like me..But he shows signs that make me feel like he does! What should I do!?!?

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      ME!! 9 months ago

      So there is this guy at my church, but he hasn't been for a while now and i wonder if he still goes to my church but one time at youth group he held my hand when we were praying, and he always smiles at me and doesn't look away then i blush and then he blushes, but im having trouble because since he's been gone I now have a crush on another guy AND his brother...what do i do???

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      hazel guttierez 9 months ago

      why is that all the boys are shy? and when he looks at me it feels so nice and i add a little smile to him. but i really like him he is so cute and sweet

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      Rosy 9 months ago

      He stares at me from time to time and when I try to look back at him he quickly looks away. When I'm standing he and his friends look at me and he then whispers something to them and smiles and laughs. Does he like me cause I'm really curious!

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      Virginia Mills 9 months ago

      There is a guy that I go to school with and he looks at me all the time and he grabs my hand as hes walking by me.I dont know if he likes me tho cuz he said he just got out of a hard relationship .Can anyone help me.

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      EIREENA LUCIAN POTTER 9 months ago

      I like this boy in school.His name is Dylan.He always makes me laugh and stares at me.But he doesn't want to sit next to me but we talk a lot until the whole class said that we are dating which is kind of annoying to me but actually I like it.my birthday is on 4 April which is the same date with him.So,when he knew my birthday date,he hugged me and winked at me.But most surprise is that make me shocked is he give me a 'Happy Valentine's Day Card which is kinda awesome

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      Dakota 9 months ago

      He always looks at me he gets closer to me he slaps my butt he try's to act cool he makes me laugh does he like me HELP

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      laredo 9 months ago

      so this guy looks at me and he does not look way and i like him what should i talk to him or not please let me know what i should do

      thanks

      laredo

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      Sarah 9 months ago

      There is this boy I like, and lately he would try to get close to me or he would stare at me a lot in the eyes. Last Wednesday, he kept looking at me with a shocked face...why? Is it because of our groupchat? Or what?

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      Random 9 months ago

      Okay so i have this boy in my p.e class.He stares at me 24/7 and every time i make a joke he adds something funnier to it.When he started dating this girl,he asked me if its okay,i said that's your life not mine.When he is talking to someone in front of me,he looks past that person and makes it look like he is talking to me.I obviously roll my eyes and look away.When i do that he try's so hard to get my attention which is annoying.When i had a thing for him,he acted like he didn't care.When i stopped caring he started to try grabbing my attention.He is dating someone and i don't wanna ruin the relation ship,so i'm ignoring him now.

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      Avigail Porter Michael 9 months ago

      He looks at me and then ooks at the floor and his face turns red and when he talks to My bestie Julia he trys to whisoer and looks at me and looks away.I need help!Oh and btw i like him....

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      Ariana 9 months ago

      I like this boy in school he makes me laugh and stares at me but he doesn't want to sit next to me we talk a lot. He sit with my friend but dose not talk to her or stares at her.I act like myself and I don't gossip too and he hits me but not hard and even smile when he hits me when our teacher moved him he said I don't want to move and then looked at me and said bye and my is birthday February 17 2001 and he hugged me and smiled and winked. Dose he like me plz tell me