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How to Tell If He Likes You: Nine Signs He's Got a Crush

Updated on September 28, 2016
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Is He Into You?

He might be rude . . . or sweet! How can you tell?

Some girls are great at telling when a guy likes them. But a lot of girls have a hard time reading the signs. A boy might tease you or try to please you, but sometimes they send mixed signals.

Is the boy you like ignoring you or being arrogant and coy? Some boys are rude to disguise how they feel. Insecurity and confusion can muddy the waters and make it hard for a girl to tell where they stand.

Check out these signs. Most boys who like a girl will do at least one of these things, on purpose or unconsciously.

1. He Stares at You

. . . . and maybe looks away when you notice.

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The first, most common sign that he is interested is that he looks at you and looks away when you see him. He may look awkward. You know it's a good thing when he smiles at you. Sometimes it may feel tense because you haven’t spoken to each other before.

He may also avoid making eye contact. If he glances at you to ask common questions in class like "Where do we turn this in?" or "Did you understand this question?” then he may be nervous but wants to get your attention. He's intimidated because you're attractive. If he looks at the floor while talking to you, he's just shy.

2. He's Super Shy

Does it seem like he wants to tell you something?

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Maybe you've known him for a while, or maybe not, and he's suddenly super shy around you. Does it seem like he wants to tell you something? Then he probably does.

It might be the first time he's really liked a girl. If you can, help put him at ease. He may seem to avoid you, or even be a little rude, but if you can tell he's watching your every move, ask him to walk you home or to class. Keep it light.

3. He Touches You

Does he stand close or even take your hand?

Some guys just can't hide the way they feel. Even if they're shy or insecure, they might make excuses to sit next to you or just bump you by accident. Sometimes this can be something like a friendly punch on the shoulder—it's playful but still a sign that he's trying to find ways to touch you.

Does he bump shoulders with you while you're walking down the hall? Better still, does he push your hair out of your eyes? There's no way a guy would do this unless he had a crush.

4. He Looks at Your Eyes and Lips

. . . . and might keep staring at your mouth.

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This is important! If he looks at your eyes and then your lips, you’ve sealed the deal: He likes you. What guy looks at a girl’s lips if he isn’t into her? If he gets close or even hugs you, he is throwing signs at you and it's up to you to catch them.

Ignoring someone is another sign of liking them. Watch carefully next time you see him: if he sees you glance or stare at him a lot and quickly looks away but with a serious, blank, or curious expression, see if he ignores you the rest of the day. If he does, then he likes you. You have really got to him and he likes you, but he doesn't know how to approach you.

5. He Uses Your Name When He Talks to You

Or maybe he changes his tone when he's talking to you.

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Tone and language are big clues to whether he likes you. Does he ever call you “dude” or “yo”?

If he does, then he probably thinks of you as just a friend. But when a guy calls you by your name, it's a total sign of respect and he might even like you.

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6. He Looks at You From a Distance

He singles you out in a crowd.

There are many ways a guy might try to hide that they like you. An example is when you look at him first and he looks at you second and then quickly looks away. It could be the other way around, but most of the time the guy ends up looking away first. This is an obvious sign that he likes you.

Another example is when he looks at you from a distance and his face sort of freezes, maybe in a half-smile, smirk, wink, or a blank but curious look. If he stares at you and holds your gaze for a few seconds, he is interested.

7. He Tries to Make You Laugh

He might even tease you a little.

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Does he show off around you? Clowning around, trying to make you laugh—these could be signs that he likes you. Pay attention if he acts especially energetic or silly around you and whether he acts the same way in front of everyone else.

If he teases you, ask yourself whether he does this all the time or only when the two of you are alone. If he changes his way of treating you when friends are around, then he may like you a lot but doesn't want to admit it to anyone. He could also be confused about how to act.

8. He Texts You

If he's texting you frequently or commenting on or liking your Instagram or Facebook posts, then he might have a thing for you. Some guys are very friendly and are really into liking all their friends' stuff online, so see if he does the same thing for everyone else. But if he has your number (or got it), and is talking to you (especially at night), then he probably likes you.

9. He Shows Interest in You Even If He Is Shy

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Is he the athletic and confident type? The bubbly, always humble type of guy? Or maybe he is just shy? Many types of guys are keepers. Most are down-to-earth and interesting. The bubbly, humble type of guy can be really confident and can make you smile and laugh. The shy guy may have a secret side to him like hobbies, talents, and interests that intrigue you.

If they like you, they'll listen to you when you talk and remember the things you say. They might bring up details from a conversation you had a while ago. They'll also notice differences in your appearance, like if you get a haircut or have a new shirt.

What Do You Do Now?

That depends on your situation. If it's someone you see regularly but don't really know, try to befriend them with a conversation about an upcoming school event, class, or club.

Don't be afraid to try a simple, "Hi, my name is _____." If they like you, they'll be so happy you made the first move. If not, then at least you'll know and you can find someone who does.

You could also find him on Instagram or Facebook and friend him. That might be enough for him to feel encouraged to talk to you.

Once you know what your crush is like, it will be easier to figure him out. When you come across a guy with the right characteristics, then chase him. Or make him chase you!

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      Sweetsie 11 days ago

      So there's this guy in my school and I've known him for about six years now and now that he's switching schools for high school, I feel like he's been really touching up to me. Like I would hang around with two friends and maybe play a round of chess or two and when I'm not playing I would sit on a bench, and behind it was a window. He would follow us there by that bench and just stand around, banging the wall...like he was trying to get my attention. I would then look into the window and he would watch me and smile, like I've never seen him do that before...I could see his reflection and he didn't know I could see him...but he was smiling...it made me smile...but he smiled. And today, I sat on the staircase with a friend who fell on the ground....I asked if he, my friend, was okay and i sat with him. But then, he just appeared out of nowhere and he sat right next to me...why next to me? There were so many different places to sit...but next to me? This whole week he did this, he was so nice to me and we kept making eye contact...he even has brothers and sisters who ask me like literally everyday if I like him. I don't know if he asked them to do that or it's just totally obvious that I like him. Thoughts like how the next time I would see him go through my head like everyday and it kills me to know if he feels the same way I do...I really wanna know.

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      chels 2 weeks ago

      what does it mean if the guy you think has a crush on you and he is in your class staring at you constantly. Also he speeks really loud around me and smiles at me sometimes what does this mean? oh and he touched my hand in class cos we had to do a task togeather. But at recess and lunch he never talks to me like he used to. idk if ive done something or what but i really liked it when hed come over to us and randomly chat to us.....

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      Unknown 2 weeks ago

      I like this guy at school and use to go to my primary.We were close and played games with my friends and his.This year we were out next to eachother and he made me laugh and always called me.We changed rooms and got put right next to eachother he makes me laugh and looks at me sometimes but turns away but when I look at him he turns and smiles.I always get this happy feeling but my friends always say aww cute couple and use silly rhymes with our names.One of my friends told him I like him and he said he dosent mind

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      Cyd 2 weeks ago

      Ok so there is this guy in my class and he is kind of cute and me and him used to always argue and then one day he just stared being nice and Tuesday or Friday he did something and I thought he was going to kick me but he didn't and when I told him that's what I thought he said "I wouldn't do that why would you think I'd do that" but he said it like apologetic kind of and I'm pretty sure he tried to touch my face but I wouldn't let him and today he hugged me twice and stole my phone and ran away and idk if he's just trying to be my friend now or if he's flirting but idk And while I was sitting down in my desk he walked behind me and kicked my butt but not hard

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      Nila 2 weeks ago

      So there is this kid his name is Joshua. He is in my English class and I've known him probably since the 2nd grade. We are both 9th graders now and I've caught a lot of feelings for him. I told him how I felt and he told me he didn't feel the same way. Which obviously got me a little upset. But we still message each other almost 24/7 and today in class I caught him staring at me and we were staring at each other for about 30 seconds! I looked away because I got nervous. I looked back to see if he was still staring and he was! I have no idea what this means but I need to know. He told me he didn't like me..But he shows signs that make me feel like he does! What should I do!?!?

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      ME!! 3 weeks ago

      So there is this guy at my church, but he hasn't been for a while now and i wonder if he still goes to my church but one time at youth group he held my hand when we were praying, and he always smiles at me and doesn't look away then i blush and then he blushes, but im having trouble because since he's been gone I now have a crush on another guy AND his brother...what do i do???

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      hazel guttierez 3 weeks ago

      why is that all the boys are shy? and when he looks at me it feels so nice and i add a little smile to him. but i really like him he is so cute and sweet

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      Rosy 3 weeks ago

      He stares at me from time to time and when I try to look back at him he quickly looks away. When I'm standing he and his friends look at me and he then whispers something to them and smiles and laughs. Does he like me cause I'm really curious!

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      Virginia Mills 3 weeks ago

      There is a guy that I go to school with and he looks at me all the time and he grabs my hand as hes walking by me.I dont know if he likes me tho cuz he said he just got out of a hard relationship .Can anyone help me.

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      EIREENA LUCIAN POTTER 4 weeks ago

      I like this boy in school.His name is Dylan.He always makes me laugh and stares at me.But he doesn't want to sit next to me but we talk a lot until the whole class said that we are dating which is kind of annoying to me but actually I like it.my birthday is on 4 April which is the same date with him.So,when he knew my birthday date,he hugged me and winked at me.But most surprise is that make me shocked is he give me a 'Happy Valentine's Day Card which is kinda awesome

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      Dakota 4 weeks ago

      He always looks at me he gets closer to me he slaps my butt he try's to act cool he makes me laugh does he like me HELP

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      laredo 4 weeks ago

      so this guy looks at me and he does not look way and i like him what should i talk to him or not please let me know what i should do

      thanks

      laredo

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      Sarah 4 weeks ago

      There is this boy I like, and lately he would try to get close to me or he would stare at me a lot in the eyes. Last Wednesday, he kept looking at me with a shocked face...why? Is it because of our groupchat? Or what?

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      Random 4 weeks ago

      Okay so i have this boy in my p.e class.He stares at me 24/7 and every time i make a joke he adds something funnier to it.When he started dating this girl,he asked me if its okay,i said that's your life not mine.When he is talking to someone in front of me,he looks past that person and makes it look like he is talking to me.I obviously roll my eyes and look away.When i do that he try's so hard to get my attention which is annoying.When i had a thing for him,he acted like he didn't care.When i stopped caring he started to try grabbing my attention.He is dating someone and i don't wanna ruin the relation ship,so i'm ignoring him now.

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      Avigail Porter Michael 5 weeks ago

      He looks at me and then ooks at the floor and his face turns red and when he talks to My bestie Julia he trys to whisoer and looks at me and looks away.I need help!Oh and btw i like him....

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      Ariana 5 weeks ago

      I like this boy in school he makes me laugh and stares at me but he doesn't want to sit next to me we talk a lot. He sit with my friend but dose not talk to her or stares at her.I act like myself and I don't gossip too and he hits me but not hard and even smile when he hits me when our teacher moved him he said I don't want to move and then looked at me and said bye and my is birthday February 17 2001 and he hugged me and smiled and winked. Dose he like me plz tell me

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      I aint 0utn my name 5 weeks ago

      my classmate stares at me and he looks at me. when i notice he looks away. mhis friends push him 2 me when hes around me. they were playing truth ir dare and he picked truth. the question was asked do you like her. he said no, gave a bratty smile, and shaked his hand and quickly changed the subjects. every monday he always shakes my hand saying good game and no one says that to like anyone. he toushed my waist trying 2 tickle me. when he crosses his legs his toes point to me. i really need help people and his friends and my friends are telling me he loves me

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      Anno 5 weeks ago

      I really like this cute boii at school and he always teasses me and talks super dirty to me...but we havent hungout to have it yet...

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      dannii 5 weeks ago

      ive been in love with this guy from my school for a year when he isnt around his friends he tries to make me laugh and he stares at me all the time and smiles at me he is sending me mixed signals one second he stares at me smiling and blushing next minute he gives me a death glare someone help me im so confused

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      Sophie 6 weeks ago

      There is this boy who I am really close to and he talks to me alot but I don't know if he likes me or my best friend Lyra!

      HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      Maria 6 weeks ago

      He stares at me from across the room and when I look at him he dose not look away

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      Help 6 weeks ago

      There's this classmate of mine. He stares at me and Today was Sports festival and I caught him staring at me and looking for excuses to look to his left. I was like 10 miles to his left. And he ignores me everytime possible. Out of these points mentioned above , I can relate to 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , and 7. I really don't know what to do -_- Please help.

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      Danielle 6 weeks ago

      I like this guy but I think it is good to just go up to him and tell him how I feel about him how do I do that without being weird about it ?

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      catelynn 6 weeks ago

      he makes me lhaf.

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      Alexis 6 weeks ago

      There's this guy in my grade whom I've known for quite a while. We are really close friends, and we go to the same club. The thing about him, let's call him J, is that he's really confusing in his behaviour. He's usually a gentleman but he doesn't likes to treat me well, often teasing me in front of others. He would also raise up his voice and show anger towards me, which all his female friends say he wouldn't do to them. He enjoys teasing me A LOT, and I'm not quite sure why. I'm really confused about how he feels.

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      Kira 7 weeks ago

      I need help. So this guy that I honestly don't know at all was trying to get my attention during class and ounce he got my attention he made a joke about how I wear to much makeup and stuff then was nice to me asking me about which classes I had he later apologized about the joke he made,he now non stop stares at me and we stared at eachother for about the whole class period and had a dreep stare for 30 seconds. I stare back because I'm starting to take interest in him but idk how much farther to go what if he dosent actually like me and why is he even talking to me in the first place please help me here thank you.

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      Anon 7 weeks ago

      We work together, I recently noticed him maybe a month or two ago. We've shared a little banter, but nothing major. I'm very shy, it takes a lot of energy for me to have a conversation with someone I like, the way I like him. I haven't said anything to him in 2 weeks ever since he asked my name and introduced himself. I just can't utter a single word.

      I've unintentionally given him nasty looks and have tried avoiding him altogether, but when I do that, I always seem to look at him or need to be near him and it makes me feel as though I'm a creep. I notice that he seems all for talking to me when I do say something, and he'll look at me attentively when I do talk, but I just don't know.

      I'm thinking about approaching him this weekend and asking him for his age, depending on his answer I might ask him if he wants to get coffee, but I might also end up chickening out --- or even passing out...

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      liyah ______ 7 weeks ago

      Maybe he likes me because he is always staring at me . one day I caught him staring at my boobs and we I ask I if he was he said he was staring at the wall

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      cherry 7 weeks ago

      I really like this guy..and I'm not sure if he likes me..for some reason my gut says he does..just because of certain things that he has done..but I'm still not completely 100%..just out of the blue..he has sprayed his cologne on me ..he always cracking jokes and cutting up with me but that a norm thing for him..he finds a reason to at least touch me once when around each other..when ever we talk he makes me look him in the eye..I'm crushing way to hard on this man..it's crazy..need help figuring this out

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      Alexis 8 weeks ago

      There is a boy in my class that I like alot and he stares at me and another girl does that mean he maybe be in to both of us?

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      Sam 8 weeks ago

      There's this guy in my school, who keeps staring at me, and points me to his friends.

      the other day when I passed in front of him, he was like that's the girl and was smiling at me and all of his friends went quiet.

      But the thing is he's a flirty guy, and talks to other girls as well.

      Does that mean he's only trying to get attention from me?

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      Notgonnatellyoumyname 2 months ago

      He stares

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      lexiiiiii 2 months ago

      There is a boy that is always teasing me and sometimes is always nice to me when we are alone. He hugged me out of nowhere. He always looks at me and looks away and when i tell him "i need to tell you something" he gets very close to me and looks me in the eyes but i cant look t him in the eyes i don't know why....

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      CHocolate 2 months ago

      Theres this guy .. He sits on the table next to mine .. basically a 30 seconds walk from me and whenever i look in his direction he tells me "Don't look at me" "Why are you looking" yet hes always like every lesson staring at me .. My friends tell me he likes me .. But i dunno .. Does he ?

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      Anonynous 2 months ago

      I never noticed him really, sometimes I think I got caught him staring at me , though always from distance. Then the other day we were at the debate team and while he was speaking he kept looking at me whilst arguing with the opponent's team? It's just awkward but he made some intense eye contact ,and then when I looked back he would get all nervous and would end his arguing pretty quickly? Sometimes I really do read into it too much . He knows my friends but we have never spoke or whatsoever? IT's just weird.

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      lala 2 months ago

      So i know this guy thinks im hot and i think he is and i kinda like him but whenever i try to make conversation with him hes just like ok or doesnt answer (snap and text) does he just like my body like ive been told or is there any chance he likes me back?

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      Anonymous Uswr 2 months ago

      He's been staring at me all year. We're halfway in the school year and I've noticed, he won't stop staring at me. Maybe he's scared of me? Maybe he likes me? We will never know, honestly. He probably doesn't have an interest and I'm overthinking.

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      Lucy 2 months ago

      @pearl jazmyn Idk if he like me but every time I look at him he look back at me and he alway smile at me but never really talk to me and he never close to me I need answer?!?!

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      icecreamisgood 2 months ago

      so this guy literally hides behind a corner of a house, and tries to sneak peaks. although I always catch him doing it. I don't find it weird, but what does this mean? Both in the teen- age category. What does this mean ?

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      Anonymous 2 months ago

      I got 8 out of 9 on this page. I've been going on many websites to see if he likes me for sure. I really like him, and I want to talk to him, but I'm shy. I'm usually the one to look away first because it makes me feel nervous when I look at him. I usually find him looking at me first from across the room, at my eyes and from top to bottom. Or the other way, but mostly my eyes for almost a minute. He is always flirting with other girls in front of me. Do you think that he is just trying to make me jealous or is he trying to tell me that he's not interested? Please reply.

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      Anime 2 months ago

      I like this boy but I haven't told bestie yet and he doesn't know but today I saw him looking I my direction but I don't know who is he looking at me or my bestie.and I also saw him looking at one of u through the window but when I looked he hid I need help I want him to like me but I think he like my bestie

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      Emily 2 months ago

      This guy started talking to me, I know who he is but we have never had a conversation before, he'll say hi to me and stuff but I just wanna know he all of a sudden started talking to me.

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      Anonymous 2 months ago

      He sits across from me in science and he always makes me laugh and he is always looking at me and I see him out of the corner of my eye and he sees that I see him and looks away quickly.

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      Fallan 2 months ago

      What does it mean when a boy asks you to sit with him at lunch? And if he acts really goofy and try's to make you laugh all the time? Does it means he likes me? Can you help me, cause I really like him. Thanks!

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      mackenzie 2 months ago

      i think my crush likes me but we never talk we only look at each other and one time i saw his friend push him towards me is that a sign he like me

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      Brianna babcock 2 months ago

      This website is very usefull

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      Claire 2 months ago

      My crush rejected me and we ignore each other (his the one who started it)

      he used to tease me and all I first disliked him but then started falling for him now that he knows his running away from me, avoiding me, and that I'm a shy girl so I can't talk to him we both are in separated classes but same grade What do I do I cry thinking of the memories he gave me

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      norah 2 months ago

      this really helped thanks

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      Tiara 2 months ago

      My thing about a boy is he texted me the other day and was like "stop telling people we talk", I was like "I don't even tell nobody we talk because were just friends", then he was like "Yes you are so stop telling we talk" then I Just said "ohhk" because I don't want to make a big deal out of nothing. How am I suppose to feel about that?..

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      Roxy 2 months ago

      Almost correct...because I get a lot of proposals.....n all guys do these things..

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      Mads 2 months ago

      I have a huge crush on this boy at school, he found out about my crush on him. And I don't know if he likes me! I'm getting mixed signals. So I was playing hand ball with the yr 5 boys and I was the only girl and I was staying in kings getting everyone out so all the boys were trying to get me out. My crush was playing too, one of the other boys said to my crush "get her ouuut" and then he yelled back "nnnnooooo, I won't" and then he got that boy out!!! Does he like me?

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      Emo 2 months ago

      Hi my crush stares at me and my best friend who is a boy but when i talk to my best friend my crush always looks at me and stares at me what does that mean

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      Lulu 2 months ago

      A trick that I suggest is: yawn. Yawns are contagious right? If you catch him yawning after you fake yawn. He was watching you. It worked for me! Good luck

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      Abigail 3 months ago

      Well he is shy and doesn't talk to me

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      bonnie 3 months ago

      he was looking at me at this dance all the time and at the dance when he walked by me he got really close to my hands ???

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      3 months ago

      So this is kind of a long story but some days it really gets me. Some days I won't worry about it and others I just wish it would happen already.

      So this guy he a junior I'm a freshman and he just came to our school this year but before school started he texted me on facebook, I guess just because he saw I went to the school he was going to be going to. We didn't talk that much but just a little and I had a dream about it which was odd cause I didn't really know him. When the year started I got an itch that he liked me but I wasn't sure. I walked past him like everyday when I went to first hour and we'd lock eyes till we couldn't anymore.

      I slowly befriended him and talked to him quite often in Snapchat, mainly later in in the day and at night when we both couldn't sleep.

      For a certain period I didn't talk to him not sure why I guess I just get scared when I think something could happen. My sister new him and told me she knew who he liked so I asked her and it was this other girl in our school.

      She was one of those girls who never date cause school is really important to her, but it kind of hurt me, cause I was friends with this girls and she was also kind of a sister to me.

      So they started dating and still are but I still talk to him maybe more than ever and I know she probably would t like that if she knew. But he told once , when I asked him why he first texted me on facebook, and he said because he thought I was cute and I was like well thanks and he had also texted me in facebook a while back at like 3 in the morning and he was like maybe if you answered then , I asked them what? (We could have been together)

      So I beat myself up over this cause I was so dumb and didn't text him back which I should of cause I like him.

      So it's still a long game of stares and laughs and texting at night but idk if it's making things better or worse. I can't honestly tell if he still likes me or want to make me jealous. Because a lot of the time when he's hugging is girlfriend he stares at me and I look away cause it kind of hurts. Even at our dance he would stare at me while he was dancing with her and I was dancing with someone else it so confusing but he's pretty nice and a country boy which is perfect for me. I also find my self telling him secrets just to see if it'll make us closer but who knows ?!?....

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      nithya 3 months ago

      So this guy in my apartment stares at me a lot. I stare back too. But we don't talk. I freeze as soon as i see him even though i like to talk. So one day i sent him friend request. He didn't add me or del my req. Just ignored while he still accepted some new people from his college. He seemed shy to me so i used fb to contact.He didn't even message me to talk on fb. But he still stares at me whenever he seems me. He waits in parking lot,stares at me but doesn't talk. What do i do? I think this guy is shy but is trying to look at me only when it is convenient for him and i am there near him. I gave him a chance through fb but he didn't make a move. Now that he has ignored, i deleted the request.

      NOW a new problem.His friend/roommate is doing the same thing. He is staring at me, watches me when i am with others, stares even more (like jealous) when he sees me talking to another guy. He waits for me to look at him before his gets into his car and leave (happened 4-5 times).Looks like he wants to make a move but doesn't know how. He stares first these days, I stare second. Then we stare for 6-7 sec without breaking eye contact, then he looks at his phone or away.When i am the first person to stare, he pretends like he doesn't notice me but i know he does. Now i do not know what to do. Approach through fb? At least message? Seems like this guy is easier to approach. I remembered that this guy used to look at me even before his friend did. I really want to make a proper move. He seems more like my kind of guy. Will both of them discuss about my approaching them through fb? Will that affect the way the new guy sees me?

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      3 months ago

      It's guy when I first seen him at store he always looks and me I kick it with him how do I no he really likes me I do got crush on him

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      Anon. 3 months ago

      So i just started going to a new church and we went on a weekend trip and since then my mom told me this guy i barely even know (but think hes cute) stares at me nonstop and its kinda weird.. and on that trip i hung out with my friends and some of mine were his and he knew my name even though we never talked! (weird, huh?) but just today my mom told me he stares at me every time i see him at church.. honestly i thought he was a jerk because he treats me like a little kid although im pretty sure hes only a few months older than me.. either way i feel like i do like him but the way he treats me kinda makes me hate him.. and the people he hangs out with stare at me too and it looks like they hate me for some reason.. is it just because im the new kid?? please help me..

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      BlueIvy 3 months ago

      I know this guy at church he's cute I guess. I noticed he has looked at me or my direction. I'm kind of insecure of myself that he'll be looking at me. Today was another day at church I noticed he did look at me I'm 99% positive. Then I got home he tried to follow me on IG what should I do ?

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      Lily Horan 3 months ago

      There is a guy at school i used to like at school, but he rejected me. Now i catch him looking at me and i have told a couple of my friends about it. One had said that he might have realized that he likes me now and i should give him some time. I dont know how to tell what a boy is thinking. What should I do. I really like him and I dont want to have to give up on him. Ill probably never get over him.

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      tatiana 3 months ago

      so a lot of my friends have been saying that i should go out with this one guy and recently i realized that i might have a crush on him. do i have the crush because i actually like him or because my mind is playing tricks on me from what my friends said. it's really awkward when we talk to each other and he acts totally different when he's with his friends. we stare at each other a lot but i don't think it's for the same reason as stated above. he likes to touch my hair and tries to take my stuff. does he like me or is he just teasing me in a bad way

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      Val 3 months ago

      I'm in 7th grade. I met this guy in Art in 6th period. He always tried to see my art but i wouldn't let him. Then he started to talk to me. There was this social at school. There was a ticket drawing at the social and I got picked, he came up to me alone and asked me what I got, I showed him and gave it to him then he just kept staring at me and I felt like there was no one else in the room. A couple days later, there was this turkey drawing contest and our art teacher made us come up to show us something, we all came up and stood and watched her. He would always stand near me. In the hallway he always looks at me and we lock eyes. But he never talks to me. What does this mean? Thanks. AND DONT SAY IM TOO YOUNG PLEASE!

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      maddie 3 months ago

      My crush looks at me all the time and when we are alone if feels good.

      and his name is lane.

      i love lane

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      girllol 3 months ago

      i like this guy and my friends are telling me to ask him out but im too shy what should i do ?

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      Rayna 3 months ago

      So I have liked this boy for 8 years and he recently found out. I'm ok with it and it seems we have a stronger relationship now that he knows. Just a day ago I posted a few selfies of me and he dmed me telling me he didn't want to see them then suddenly blocked me on Instagram where I posted them. I'm confused I thought he liked me back and now im struggling with mixed feelings. My best friend said he's probably scared or something. I don't know but it's kinda confusing me. Someone give me answers. I need them the most right now.

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      Shygirl in love Jason 3 months ago

      Omg!I'm So shy.....Of my crush he seems too i catch him looking At me in the hallways locker time Sometimes he ignores me He's a quiet nice guy I know I'm Too young To Be in love but is my feelings the thing is He was Happy to see me When i came back from home At school im 13 he's too could it be possible If he stares at me he's Quiet too what does this means

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      Amelia Robertson 3 months ago

      today it was golden time and Elliot stared at me when i was singing and my friend micky go it on video and showed me and then aiden [another boy in my class] told me that elliot told him that we were secretly dating and then the whole school was talking about it but he hasn't even told me that he even LIKES me yet so i don't know if i should tell him tomorrow or if i wait for him to just tell me???

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      Kathy!!! 3 months ago

      Hi,I like this boy he has done everything you have just said and I know him right now 5 months and we meet every second Saturday and I am a really good friend with his sister so when we meet up its me him and our siblings so I DONT UNDERSTAND if he does it friendly or he likes me...plus that we happen to have the same circle with friends so its really complicated but the main thing I am most confused about is that we chat from facebook everyday but he seems really cold and when we meet he is really sweet...what does this mean?

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      HannahIsWeird 4 months ago

      So, this guy stares at me A LOT during all of my classes. I feel uncomfortable sometimes, but I catch myself staring at him as well. It's really strange and awkward. I don't know why I stare at him, or why he stares at me. He's never showed ANY signs of interest, so I'm really confused. Sometimes he just briefly rubs his arm against mine. Help me please. XD

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      Tirza 4 months ago

      I really need help! Im this true love type who doesnt believe in any fake lustre or crushes......I fell deeply for this guy fromy Sunday school...it was not through any of his looks (he quite looks good) but I found myself getting connected to him and found this very familiar feeing whenever I looked at him.....I was also scared of facing him...but u kno....HE JUST HAD MY FUTURE in his eyes..many nights hav I spent crying for him and this has been happening for the past 6 years!!! And him.........he looks at me in a very heartthrobbing way and very frequently too ...he delivers a lot of meaning and unspoken words throigh his looks....weve never spoken much but u know wat whenever we meet each other there is always this incredible silence (very confusing silence) idk.........he juz says it all through the way he looks....a very kind person he is too.........so I got the idea that he might hve feelings for me too....I thought he was one of those persons who lives for this one girl!!but recently I gotto know through my frend, him going behind another girl..I also heard that he had an affair before....juz so suddenlymy world has broken into pieces....I feel angry n so much depressed ........now I got this feeling that he might be one of those playboy types....imagine someone deeply embedded in ur thoughts and blended with ur soul giving u such a disappointment. ..im confused and I dont understand (we live next door too)wt do u think I should do?

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      pearl jazmyn 11 months ago from Texas

      @mykeila

      comments are moderated, try putting it all in one post please..if a boy stares at you, it doesn't necesarily mean he likes you. If he hides behind his friends that sure is odd especially if he starts to walk fast. he is either giving you mixed signals, doesn't like you and maybe notices you stare at him a lot which makes him uncomfortable or doesn't know how to show you he likes you. even if a guy did like you, he doesn't have to recae the way a girl does. try talking to him through a media platform, that is vía Facebook (most accurate) and get to know him. go on from there. goodluck

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      mykeila 11 months ago

      Theirs this boy at school and I think he like me but I'm not sure he stare at me every once in a while he gave at me for a few seconds andhe don't talk to me because I'm shy do he like me

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      pearl jazmyn 11 months ago from Texas

      @riley

      it doesn't really sound that hard to even ask him if he likes you. your brother is his friend no? get him to tell his friend what he thinks about you. than befriend him, cause obviously something is stirring between ya'll if there's a staring game involved. use that play to your advantage and get closer to him. if he likes you he'll respond in the manner you expected him too. just don't be too pushy or you'll might scare him away. good luck

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      Riley 11 months ago

      Okay, I need some advice very badly.

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      So, in school, I have a big crush on this one guy. The only problem is he's incredibly popular, awesome, and very handsome. I've tried to talk to him, but I find it hard because he always gets pulled away by his friends. But, I have a sneak feeling he may like me as well, or at least is interested. I catch him staring at me A LOT. I stare at him too, and sometimes he catches me as well. But when he stares, since I like to stare at him too, I stare back, and we usually stay like that for a few seconds. One time in social studies, we stared at each other for half of the class. We usually stare at each other from a distance, too.

      He's always a sweetheart to me, even if we don't talk as often as I'd like. But I plan on changing that, since my older brother said he probably likes me. But I need more advice, or at least some reassurance.

      Also, I asked to borrow his jacket once, and I'm pretty sure he said yes, but I didn't hear him, so I didn't bug him any further.

      Plus, we play husband and wife in a play we're reading, so I'm thinking that may add to his interest because the woman I'm playing is like me.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @babyk

      you're too young to be in love honey.. but who am I to judge. try to befriend him since he already makes it obvious that he likes you.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @jessica hollister

      how does he try to see you? try to message him on a media outlet or get a friend to ask him what he thinks about you. it should answer your question. good luck

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @poppy_vee

      he seems like the guy in that Outlaw song by selena gomez. he's running away from something he's been caught up in. maybe it was him messaging you but after realizing how deep it was getting he decided to do what he thought best (obviously stupid), make up the whole "my cousin was doing this the whole time" shit and crush your heart. i advice for a pretty girl like yourself to drop him and move on. you can find better and farther more honest. GD

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @chloe

      pretty obvious he likes you. give it a shot. he already asked you to text him.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @janice

      hia urge for a sexual encounters here screams for a RUN. he is basically letting you know what he wants. he wants a sexual relationship with nothing but that. love and lust are two different things that certainly don't match; he could end up loving the lust he has for you. not the type of love that says "let's make this a long term thing". i suggest you consider what YOU want, as this is basically up to you to decide. I wouldn't do it. but that's just me, good luck.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @courtney

      well he seems to be giving you the sign of interest. he directly shows his interest through his constant "stops you" at public places conversations. i agree, get to know each other and see if any mutual interests calls for a relationship between you both. good luck

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @dylan

      since the relationship is going well maybe try inviting her on a date and see her reaction. i feel a call would tell you her honest feelings towards you. if she accepts take it from there. get to know her further and see if there's any possible way of a formal relationship. good luck dylan

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @delia

      that's a strange case. i guess one of my own was rather similar. i was "talking" to this skateboarder whom i found rather attractive and we were hitting it off real well. he follows me on instagram, likes nearly all my photos, adds me on sc, gets my phone number than we hit it off. a few days into it, i fell asleep while texting and wake up to my phone number and sc blocked and unfollow on instagram. turns out he was an awkward "weirdo" when it comes to getting to know a girl through a phone call and gets upset when no reply to any of his messages. i lost interest when he contacted me again saying sorry. i went off track but it sounded like something like mine .... i can't actually decipher whatever happened to him but maybe you should search for boy who seems less shady. just my thought. GD delia

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @ateb nwola

      seems he's giving you some sort of hint he likes you. I don't get why you could find yourself crying when it's obvious he wants something. i also get that you'd be emotionally attached to the feeling of love since your last relationship. i felt the same whenever i felt something strong for this one guy who i didn't even get to date. i guess it's just the illusion of being with a guy like that that makes one emotional to the point of crying. maybe he likes hugging you since you emphasize that point. give yourself a break and try to handle this situation with more ease. try being friends with the guy and see if it blossoms into something mutual.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @betty

      if his brother told you his brother likes ya, he really might. the most forward way to know an answer would be to directly try and talk to him. if you know he does, then just confirm it. most guys will give no facial expression whatsoever. sorry this is late betty.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @ellie

      if you find him attractive and his ego isn't self centered you might be looking for the dream guy. it's rare to find these guys as they're the typical jock macho he all have encountered before. hope it answered your question Ellie.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @michelle

      he probably likes you. if you've had any type of contact with him and doesn't ignore you then there's something there. try befriending him. now that i think of it, i might include this in the article since i'm asked the same thing. thanks for the thought

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @miranda anthony

      befriend him, that's the make it or break it here. if he responds to you he likes you, no answer means he doesn't. if he said you were "alright" and that he wouldn't mind going on a date, it means he doesn't like you hard enough to approach ya. like i said if he doesn't he won't make the first move, he might be shy; that's all. try talking to him girl.

      sorry this is late, feel in debt to reply.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @princess d

      unless he's rupert grint or ansel elgort I wouldn't panic. over time I've learned to treat guys as a clothing item, as in would he fit me right? (what kind of personality traits does he have) or would i be able to combine it? (does he offer anything in common with you). I know since you haven't really had any type of direct contact with him this might be hard to figure out but remember that if his ego is too big to approach you then he might not be the one. try befriending him through a social media outlet and see where it goes. good luck

      sorry this is late, feel in debt to reply.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @faith

      most guys when not wanting to be caught eyeing a girl they quickly turn their gaze. you can't tell much by just staring or passing in the hallways, has he ever tried talking to you while he does this? try to befriend him, good luck!

      sorry this is late, feel in debt to reply.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @aashi

      all this eye contact but not one or the other breaks the ice? maybe try talking to him without making it obvious you're nervous or anxious at what the result might be. take him by surprise as I know those are the conversations you'll remember without expecting to. befriend him and see where it goes. he probably likes you but doesn't know how to approach you? he might be curious as to why you look at him as well, good luck A

      sorry this is like a year and some late, i still feel in debt to answer.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @incorrigible

      this guy either likes you or doesn't. i would say to ask him abruptly, you need to know if you should keep wasting your time or not. i feel he's playing the cat and mouse game. he wants you to chase him but then acts like nothing. don't text him anymore. confront him about this, you deserve better. good luck

      sorry this is late, i still feel in debt to answer.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @chloe

      this might just be a case of trying to figure you out. did you message him saying it wasn't you who sent the "i love you"? he might've took it the wrong way and thought it was creepy to receive a message that quick without even knowing you. maybe he's just aware of you now that "you" told him who you feel (even though it wasn't you who said that directly". eye contact that lasts for more than five seconds is a sign that there's something there. but than again it could be his curiosity about you that has got him eyeing you now.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @lola

      hey sweetie, sounds like a bad way to even form a mutual relationship. the way things ended for you are unjust because he basically still loved the girl he was with. it's most likely he went to you after his previous break-up to try and drown out the guiltiness he felt. he used this relationship to try and forget what he had gone through. but he should've never used you this way; nothing's worse then being the pawn to replace somebody else. which in this case is what i think happened. after making promises and offering loyalty he had no other choice but to run back like a dog to his previous owner. a lot go guys are not ready to commit to another relationship after seeing the way the last one ended. he most likely saw it easier to run back to her than to start all over again with you. he probably stares because he feels bad or it might even be pity. keep your head up lola. any more advice, I'm here.

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @K

      well first you're too young! but we all have these times and I remember my first time "falling" for a boy was in 7th grade and looking back at that now I still think I was too young. anyways, if he has a girlfriend and looks at you then why is he with her in the first place? I would say for you to message him through a social outlet. befriend him and see if he makes any type of advance towards you. if he likes you romantically, you'll know. at your age though it could all be games though so beware. form a friendship and see where it goes, good luck K

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      pearl jazmyn 12 months ago from Texas

      @concerned

      you shouldn't really be chasing or eyeing a guy in a relationship. if he likes you he'll leave the girl he's with, if he doesn't then you know what that must mean. try messaging him on Facebook discretely. befriend him before you make a further move. don't jump to conclusions rather quick. any other help, I'll be glad to help. good luck hun

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      concerned 12 months ago

      Theres a boy named Chase and he has a gf and i like him alot what should i do??

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      13 months ago

      Theres this boy and i like him i look at him alot and he looks at me to. We were at an assembly yesterday i wasnt looking at him until i noticed that he was sitting in my row and i looked at him and he glanced away the only problem i have is that he has a girlfriend in 6th grade nd he is a 5tth grader like me so i dont know what to do??

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      chloe 17 months ago

      i have a crush on this guy , and he found out because my friend used my facebook account and said : i love you . and after that message, he started staring at me and i could see that he like me i guess ? however , sometimes, he would send me mixed signals like no eye contact for the whole day.When he stares at me , its different , he doesnt smile or anything but he stares till i look away or he look away first , does this mean he likes me ? he would face in my direction when he talks to friends and he would stand beside me when im talking to my friends and find me to see whether im still at my spot , does this mean he likes?

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      @sorandom

      if you already confessed to him and he didn't reciprocate he either likes you, was shocked or doesn't like you. teasing could just be a normal way of communicating with you. tons of guys do it unconsciously without meaning anything. when he talks to you does he ever talk about about you both, or flirts? I can't confirm anything if he just teases you and I can't read every guy's mind. I'd like to hear from you if anything has happened. again, I'm sorry this is so late.

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      @maddie

      eyes meeting for more than 3-4 seconds mean something more than just a stare. if this has been going on for such a long time than why don't you approach him in a friendly manner. maybe he likes you but won't do the first move. if he doesn't like you it still doesn't hurt trying to talk to him. sorry for the late post, love to hear from you.

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      @sham

      thanks. an intense stare of eyes is uncommon as most guys tend to look away awkwardly. if he stares at you for more than 3-4 seconds than its more than just a stare. did you end up talking to him any time before this reply. I can guarantee you a "likes me or not" if you don't tell me anything but this situation. sorry if it's late...I'd love to hear from you.

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      you've just said all the signs of a guy liking you. I've went through most of these and figured out they liked me. stop overthinking it girl! once ya'll start talking about personal topics it's further more than just a social encounter. this guy possibly likes you, a lot. I'm currently talking to this boy for six months now and because of his approach I know he's the good one for me. out of topic but just a thought. try getting to know him more and more and you'll probably end up together if you two share common things. sorry for the lateeee reply

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      @kan

      boys will almost never intitiate the first move. if a guy shows off too much in front of you he has to do something that is directed towards you that proves its a sign. basically involving you. if he looks at you as he passes by but doesn't smile it either means he knows you'll be looking at him or he likes you. if he doesn't like you he's most probably annoyed that you observe him too much. if he does then he should be smiling rather than giving odd looks. maybe he doesn't smile at all, I can be the one to tell you without witnessing the events. but what I can tell you is that if he likes you and seems open (welcoming) to go ahead and try to talk to him. know who he truly is and then if does like you, even you'll know it. sorry if this is late

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      most of the time it's a welcoming kind of sign. it speaks "I like you" without seeming to arrogant or desperate. maybe try talking to this boy you fell in love with at first sight. how do you feel about this guy now, do you constantly think about him? does it make you feel some way when you do? that should answer your question.

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      sounds like a first time interaction kind of thing. it's too soon to assume anything but by the looks of it, you should try giving the boy a chance. maybe he isn't as "creepy" as you make him sound. he probably just wants to get to know you :-) I understand you care for your safety but don't close yourself to opportunities either.

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      pearl jazmyn 18 months ago from Texas

      at first it seemed like he wasn't interested because of his odd answer to your "do you like me" question. now I actually think he likes you due to the fact he throws all these confusing signs. Odd stares, too much smiling, playing soccer and not being a fan of it...seems like he's trying to capture your attention. maybe you should try doing small talk if you ever see him. end up asking him why he looks at you, sound sincere. make him feel comfortable enough that he'll open up. trust me, it works. sorry this is late, good luck

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      melanxholic 19 months ago

      There's this guy I like who is 2 years older than me. I knew him because last year, his class and my class had a some sort of collaboration for a school program. He knew my name because his classmates thought I was rambunctious and they find my behavior funny. At first it's just a small crush but then after a few months, I felt deep attraction for him. We're in the same club this year and my classmate told me that she saw him looking at me with a smile on his face. I was really curious about this and I'm searching the web for an answer if he likes me or not. He might have already known my feelings for him because he began noticing my presence more than last year and he gives small glances in my direction during club meet-ups. I want to know if he does like me or if he's not because he doesn't look away when our eyes meet and his friends don't tease him when they see me (I read that it was a sign in another site). Also, he's always got a smile on his face whenever our eyes meet. I don't want to assume anything right now so I'm desperate trying to find an answer in the internet. Can you tell if he likes me or not, please? :(

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      Trinity Brown 21 months ago

      Heyy, um. I'm very confused by this guy I know. I really liked him. He's my age, my grade, and I love his personality. So I liked him for a long time but I never thought I was good enough so I never asked him out. And he has dated other girls before, and at the same time, he knew I liked him. I once asked him if he liked me and he said no with a straight face. Which also crushed my confidence. But, I've been seeing signs from him. He stares at me a lot, walks behind his friends a lot when I walk by him, and when he sees me, he smiles a lot. He once asked me if I liked him while looking down but I heard him wrong haha. He played soccer with me and literally smiled and laughed the whole time, but his sister told me he never really liked soccer. We have very small communication. And one time, we had our last school dance, and when he arrived he went to say hi to my friends but when he looked at me, he just stared at me without moving for like 30 seconds with a straight face, and I kind of did the same thing cuz I got nervous and confused. But then he just turned away and went back to my friends. Later on, I had to move. Then my friends told me that she spied on him (I don't know why) and saw him shove some other boy while saying my name!!! He really confuses me!! I kinda hate him for that! But I still like him.. But can you please tell me if he likes me??

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      alexis 21 months ago

      Okay well I was at waldameer and me and me my friends were on the sky ride and we saw someone cute and I turned around and I looked at him and he smiled at me and then he asked me if I wanted to go on a ride with him and I said no cause I didn't know what he was going to do to me like I didn't know what to say to him like if he was going to ask me something that I think that I think is uncomfortable to me but I would still answer his questions that he has for me to answer and I need some help trying to figure out if he does or not because like every time I look at him he would smile at me and I need some help.

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      Rose 22 months ago

      When boys look at you and smile that a sign. I had a boy how smiled at me an looked into my eyes I fell in love but know I dont know if I like him. That why I want to find out.

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      Kan 24 months ago

      Ok well there is this kid on my brothers baseball team he is only a year older than me and I do have a bit of a crush on him not because of his looks but also how he acts. I can catch him glaring at me about 10ish times but he suddenly will turn away. When we leave games and so he will always look at me and hold a stare until he passes I never look away but he is the first to look away he gives the slightest and I mean slightest smile you can barley tell or sometimes he never does smile. I don't know if he shows off in front of me b/c I do t know how he acts when I'm not there but it seems he try's as hard as he can most of the time. When he does get done batta g he always glances at me and Im about 99.9% sure that it's me b/c no matter where I sit he always will look at me. (I know I seem to observe him too much

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      Savanna 24 months ago

      Okay,so there is a guy at my high school I chat to him always after are last class together and he always says something nice/kind like "have a great night" or something like that,he always smile at me and glance at me in are last class. He acts different around me then with his friends and he always makes eye contract and shows good body language to me compared to how he talks to his friends,he acts/talks different to me then to his friends. Most times we catch each other staring and we would just stare at Eachother until one of us looks away but we would stare for like a minute or so with a smile on are faces and we usually talk online since he's always with his friends,but we've learned a lot about each other and we've told Eachother things that we haven't told anyone else so does he like me?

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      sham 2 years ago

      Great article, I loved it .

      A few days ago after a meeting I was waiting to talk to this guy, standing about 2 meters away facing towards him while he was talking to someone else. In the middle of his conversation while he was listening to this other person he turned his head and stared intensely straight into my eyes. Our eyes locked for about 7 to 8 seconds then he turned back to the person he was talking to. what does this mean? 

      I like this guy but I don't know what he feels or thinks about me. what does his intense stare mean?

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      i feel horrible for barely responding to this, to every single late post. yes he likes you, some of the signs I've gone through personally..this guys seems to be real shy so it'll never be easy getting any type of truth from him. you can always try asking him if you could both talk for a bit and tell him how you feel. show girl power, let him know. I've done it and it never ends bad. hope all went well.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      no problem sadhli. glad I could help. xo

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      you heard he likes your friend, never directly from him. try talking to him about how you feel even though it'll seem random. that's the best way to deal with this, you need some rest from the whole over thinking situation. just talk to him girl! good luck

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      totally. this guy is being direct and that's the best way you'll know. good luck

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      careful with these type of guys. most are players and do this to keep a girl interested even though they might not. choose wisely because for all you know you probably fell for the one you were currently with. good luck

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      my best guess is TALK TO HIM. guys tend to be shy unless they really think you're worth it. but in most cases they're shy.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      he still likes you.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      heartbreaks, breakups are real emotional I can tell you that from experience. try to hang on in there and whatever you need I'm here. xo

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      I might've answered you but it would take me a while to read through comments so I'll just answer you again? In case I haven't. this seems obvious but he might be interested in you..he seems to be expressing it in a really odd way, I mean every guy has their own way of trying to reach out to a girl they like. So my question is..are you interested in him? You never really mentioned anything about liking him back..goodluck.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      this is definitely two years late but I feel I still owe you an explanation on this case. If your friend gave him your number and he messaged you after it really shows he might be interested in you due to all the little signs he has been throwing your way. Sometimes a guy won't be direct with you but it doesn't always mean they don't like you. He does.

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      Maddie 2 years ago

      Hi, there's this really shy guy and we have been staring at each other ever sense last summer till this day, But today this was diffrent he started at me with a blank look on his face and our eyes meet for about 5 seconds and this has happend before once dose he like me maybe? Because I like him.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      seems like he does like you..or might. whichever, try talking to him more! goodluck

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      honestly, if he is hanging around you that much it has to mean something. why would a guy spend his time with a girl he isn't/ might be interested in? try talking to him more! goodluck

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      maybe he'd just looking for sexual attraction. this doesn't sounds like he is really interested in who you are personally, rather than just looking at your exterior. be careful, I'm sorry this is almost two years late.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      THANK YOU :-)

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      thank you, thank you. been through this personally a lot. I find it interesting how you express feelings as a male, I always read this coming from females. try talking to her GUY!

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      maybe he just thinks you're attractive..try talking to him sometime girly.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      kind of sounds like what I'm going through right now except he is a close friend and he always initiates contact. I know how you feel when you have to play the disinterested role, but try talking to him about your feelings..best way to handle this.

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      I wouldn't take a guy like that seriously at this point, if he liked you he would be more straight forward with his feelings. xo

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      he's still in love with you, I'm so sorry this is two years late..

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      so random 2 years ago

      SO uh hi,

      I really like a guy in my english class, and I told him and everything. He looked at me, and was surprised and all..but nothing else. We tease a lot, and he never really said he doesn't like me. He knows that I like him and everything...

      Yes he teases me, and still talks to me even though he knows. And he does have the attention of most every girl in his class...

      Any help on if he likes me, back??

      oh i hope you reply........

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      kimblery lopez 2 years ago

      Ive been noticing latley that the guy i used to like looks at me alot i would turn and he will be starring at me. When i loked him i was very shy but i knew i had to talk to him. But one day i got a message from him but it turned out being this girl named andrea and they had a thing but she had a boyfriend and they have been going out for a long time. It hurts me thinking that this is how it ended i want to know why now he pays attention and looks at me please help.

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      incorrigible 2 years ago

      Jazmyn,

      I could really use your help again. I have this guy that I work with. He's definitely single but his signs are conflicting to me. Occasionally when he spots me coming he will smile and make a little eye contact then get back to work. He does occasionally greet me first as I walk in other times I greet him. He compliments me.. He will tell me I look nice or beautiful or he likes the way I smell. He's opened up to me about his life some personal things and he has a few kids. We hug often while there. Mainly a hello and goodbye one and occasionally a few in between like while on break. The problem is sometimes before I leave he will say text me but he never texts back. He does every once in awhile if I text while he's at work but more often than not he won't. Or while working and talking he wont make a lot of eye contact and keep his answers short sometimes. Does he like me? Could he just be busy? What should I do about him unanswering texts? Confront him? Ignore it? Not text him?

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      Faith 2 years ago

      So there's this guy who keeps staring at me and when I catch him he quickly turns away. He also go in front of me a lot and walks past me.. What does this mean? Thankyou

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      princess d 2 years ago

      There is this super hot and popular guy in my school. I like him a lot but I don't know if he likes me or not. The thing is he stares at me a lot.....and we've had an eye contact for at least 3 times....I spoke to him once but he didn't look into my eyes. I can't even ask his frndz coz they are not a trustworthy source.....what do i do? And the worst part is that even if he liked me he wouldn't come and ask me out bcoz of his ego

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      Miranda Anthony 2 years ago

      Hey jazmyn,

      there's this guy i like in school and he's not in any of my classes. we've never talked and he knows i like him. and everyone knows i like him and one of my friends started talking to him about me and he said that i was alright and that he wouldnt mind going out with me. everytime we manage to get a glimpse of eachother, we lock eyes for a few seconds and ive been trying to talk to him but i don't have the courage to and he wont talk to me- i dont know why. and everytime other people start talking to him about me, he just wants to avoid the conversation. i really want to talk to him but i dont know whether he likes me or not.

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      michelle 2 years ago

      ive noticed that he has been staring at me a lot and I like him. I have 2 classes with him and he stares at me in both classes. and he talked to me twice in 2 weeks. one day I told a friend of mine to tell him that I was sick and wasn't gonna be there for that specific class and I told her to tell him to tell the teacher. and he said sure and smiled. after that class I came because it was last period I met my friend we went to tim hortons and he was staring at me cuase I told him that I was sick. and it was cute how he looked at me infront of his friends. he looks then looks away then looks again then looks away and so on. and ive caught him staring. and he caught me staring does that mean he`s interested.

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      dont tell 2 years ago

      Thanks the first thing has happened to me all week but he does not talk to me!!But if he likes me I'm glade because I like him to!!!

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      betty 2 years ago

      Hi, i think a boy that used to go to my school likes me because one day this boys brother was sent to my art class because of his behaviour and for the whole lesson he kept going on about how his brother likes me, we go to the same college now and we started a couple days ago. Everytime i see him in the morning on the bus he is always looking at me and when i look at him he looks away. When we get off the bus he always walks infront of me and keeps looking back. But all i get most of the time is a blank facial expression. Tell me what you think please

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      Ellie 2 years ago

      This is GREAT advice!!! What's if he's the sporty, energetic, humorous, but cute at the same time type??

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      Ateb Nwola 2 years ago

      Hi, thankyou for those informations and it really helped me!

      But can i ask, cuz i have this guy that i like and i dont know if he likes me too. I actually started to meet him with other people on the first day but in second day that was the time i liked him because he was like staring at me. But i am not sure but that's what i see. And then this 3rd time we met he actually teased me when i was sitting on a chair then this is what i am really curious about is when he actually hugs me when he was about to leave cuz mostly he only high-five*but that time he hugged me and then second time for no really reason while were playing some game with others and then when we had this not serious conflict when i got a mistake in this game then he tells me to hug him instead. infront of other members and i actually rejected it. I dont know if he likes me but everytime he goes near me or when were near at each other I always feel this nervous feeling atmosphere or something..i need help. I actually cried over him one time and i dont know why, it makes me feel so confused. Btw we meet like twice a week..ugh its really hard to like someone..I just moved on with my ex and i hate being crazy or falling in love with someone again since i'm still in the teen stage hugging him makes me want to like him more or getting near him so its hard for me

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      I am so sorry for this long message, i'm so confused and all and he always gets in my mind since then...what should i do? If he assist me to hug him again, will i do it?...thankss!!

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      Delia 2 years ago

      Hii!! So I need some advice!

      I met this guy at a campfire at a friends house and we seemed to hit it off. Later that night he told his friend who is with my best friend that he thought I was pretty and he was totally digging my glasses. We haven't gotten together since because he lives an hour away. Although he asked his friend for my snapchat but was afraid to be a "weirdo" and snap me. But his friend told me I wasn't like that so it was fine. He snapchatted me everyday for a week and finally on the last day asked for my number because he said Snapchatting was too hard having an actual conversation on. After that night of texting he deleted his snapchat and he never texted me and I was too afraid to text him back. He follows me on Instagram and would occasionally like my pictures. After 5 months he now adds me on snapchat again and starts talking to me and when I told him he "disappeared" he said he wanted to give social media a break. He also said it was nice catching up and that he would talk to me later since he was going to bed. Im just a little confused because I'd love to get to know him a little better but first I don't know if it's worth the try like if he could potentially be into me or if it's just a waste of my time. Thanks so much!

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      Dylan 2 years ago

      Hey so I need ur help.

      I've known this girl named Chloe for a little while now and I really like her. She texts me frequently and we talk at social gatherings and such. She seems interested but I don't know how to further the interest if any is there. Any suggestions?

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      Courtney 2 years ago

      Hi! Great article! Wanna run my story by you & see what you think. (:

      So I'm 18 & he is 22. I met him a couple years ago (about 2-3) and we hit it off but kind of awkwardly planned a trip to an amusement park and it fell through and we didn't talk until the year after. I also didn't bother with him much because I liked another guy and was too focused on him. Anyways, recently I've really began to see him for all that he is and I really like him. His friend knows my feelings for him but they aren't super close and I trust this boy with all my heart not to say anything. He told me that the guy I like thought I was pretty and that he would be willing to get to know me more. We have been to a party together and we got to talk a little there and he gave me a hug and also offered to help me with my car once it started having problems. Now almost 3 months later since the party I saw him at an event and he got left alone with me after everyone else was paired off talking he asked me how my car was running and what ever happened to my car that day...after proceeding to tell him he jokingly said "you girls and all your keychains.us boys only have 1 key" after talking the rest of the group started talking all together again and he stood by me the whole time. After talking, he walked away and later I saw him again and he stopped me to talk. This happened once again after. I was told by his friend that he said he would get to know me but he is shy when it comes to girls. Personally I think we need to get to know each other more before I'd seriously consider him but do you think he may have a thing for me?

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      janice 2 years ago

      So me and this guy have been friends for over two years now. I had a major crush on him and he admitted to liking me too. But he had a gf at that time. We did go for a few hangouts and we kissed many times. Yes, i noe it wasnt a good move and we both feel extreemely guilty for what we did. I soon had to move to another country. He then admitted to really liking me alot and soon our conversation took a physical turn. It turned into sexting and we'd talk for hours and hours. Not a single day has gone by without us talking to each other. he then said he wanted a physical relationship with me as dating was impossible as we were miles away. I agreed to the dating part but not to the physical part. I confronted him about him having a gf and why he would do something like that if he loved her. He said he dint actually love her, feelings were fading away and they were having terrible fights and their relationship just wasnt going anywhere. We had a few rough patches in the middle where i would stop talking to him for 1-2 days max and hes mssg me asking me what was wrong (ps- i did that coz i needed to get over him) He said he would never allow me to stop talking to him and he dint want me to loose my feelings for him. he later said that his feelings were love and lust. He's a virgin ..20...So finally i said i dint wanna like him anymore so we decided to had a Friends with benefits kinda thing. but swore it wouldnt effect our friendship. Just recently he told me hes planning to shift to another country which is just an hour away from the country i live in. I asked him if he was ready to leave his girlfriend and everyone else there. he said yes because i want you. (me)

      My question here is...his intentions are purely physical i get that..but would a guy move to another country just to pursue a Friends with benefits relationship?? he said if he does move he would meet me twice a month. Thats the reason he wanted to move. I dont get it. All this just for a Friends with benefits thing??

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      Chloe 2 years ago

      I met this guy at this event thing at the state level and he didn't really notice me, but at nationals I saw him in the pool, so I went down and I sat on the edge, and my advisor made us wear shirts, so he came and asked me why I had my shirt on and we were talking and he had eye contact the whole time. But why would he ask me why I was wearing my shirt?!?! After that every time I looked at him he was staring at me and then he looked at me and did the I have got my eye on you sign. Then the next day I walked past him, and he didn't know my name. So in front of the while state of Georgia he pointed stared me in the eyes and yelled hey girl from the pool. I turned and said hey and we smiled at each other he totally did not look at my friend who was beside me. One day I sat outside the hotel door crying BC of personal reasons. But he came down the hall and asked what was the matter. My friend told him. Then he went to his room, and I was like wow he just like left, but then like 1 min later he came out with his friend so we sat in the hall talking and the guy I like was shirtless and kept looking at me and teasing me. Then when I had to go he gave my friend a high five and came to me and gave me a hug that we held for a long time. Then I forgot to get there numbers so I DM them on insta and got there numbers and he was like text me. And we like text everyday. I really like him, and we want to meet up. But does he like me

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      poppy_vee 2 years ago

      Hi thanx for this but i really need to ask something and i need a answer to it please. There is this guy at my school we dont talk because were not allowed to talk to the opposite gender at school. One day i msg him and congragulated him on something from that it sort of turned into a conversation l. Then he started to give me signs that he likes me so i told him how i feel and he told me he feels the same way. We were talking for quite a while he kept telling me that he really likes me and that he had never felt that way before. After a while he told me that the whole time it wasnt him it was his cousin. I was heartbroken. I then asked him everything you said wasnt true then he said yes but not what my cousin said i didnt quite understand.what he meant from that day nothing has happened i feel like he doeant like me but my friends say he always stares at me and.smiles i really dont know if he still feels that way do you rhink he does?? And what do reccomend i do?

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      jackyn1712 2 years ago

      I'm so glad I came across your article. Your article is amazing! I hope you would reply back to this message.

      I'm 16 and from Australia. There's this guy that I like whose the same age and birth month as me. He used to always tease me and nudge me how he's eleven days older than me which I think it's pretty cute. This guy and I don't go to the same school but we do see each other every week on Fridays and Sundays and some Saturdays. We go to the same church and we're Christians. It's important for me that a guy I like is a Christian. He's a bonus that he's good looking, talented and artistic too. There is this Church youth group high schoolers that run every fridays and that's when I see the guy I have a crush on.

      Yes the guy that I like knows I exist. We have talked some times casually but we are not close, we're just like acquaintances. I just don't get it though, he shows signs that I think he likes me such as; I catch him staring at me during youth group, he gets near me when we play games, he purposely put his sit next to me on musical chairs, he stares at me again. You may think those things are so basic. But one time, youth group was finished, I was leaning my hand on the wall while I was talking to someone and I knew that his bible and stuffs are on the ground underneath where my hand was so I didn't bother. Suddenly, he came and put his right hand on my hand while he gets down and grabs his stuffs on the floor. My heart skipped a beat when I felt his skin against mine. I tingled all over. He got up and lets go of me and looked back and smiled at me. I was stoked!

      Anyway, weeks went by and he just keeps repeating the basic thing. He hasn't approached me though although he seemed like he wanted to..?

      He is also close friends with my little brother who is 13, they always play together and act like brothers (my crush doesn't have a brother only a sister) and when I'm around them, my crush always looks at me while he goofs off with my brother. And I guess that's one of the signs too. I am also close friends with his sister to be fair, and I do the same to him :) haha

      This is random but I worry of my height to him. I'm like 5'1 ft and he seems like 5'7. I'm so short and I might look funny when I stand next to him.

      This is getting so long, I'm so sorry if this bores you. This friday coming up which is in 2 days. My church youth group are going on ice skating as it is our last friday this school term. And I'm nervous that I won't get the chance to like talk to my crush, skate with him, have a good time with him. I can skate though like good, but I just feel like I would ruin the opportunity. I may not have explained why I like him so much, but I just do. He has all the characteristics that I like in a guy. I don't know what to do on the last Friday. I want to make that night memorable to him and me but at the same time, I don't want to expose my feelings to the people around us and who may be watching us.

      Jazmyn, (I love your name! :) ) I need your opinion on what I should do to get my crush and I as acquaintances to friends and to more than friends. I really like this guy and I think he's great. His family seems they like me so that's great too.

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      Jessica hollister 2 years ago

      A guy in my class always keeps watching me but ignores me sometimes,I think he likes me but I m not sure.I like him too ....he sometimes comes to chat wid some guys who sit behind me and try's to see me,I like him a lot.How should I find that he likes me??

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      Babyk 2 years ago

      Hi I'm 12 and I think a boy likes me after school me and my friends hang out and he comes around and says my name like a million times Nd at school school he stops and gets close to me and says "hey" in like a cool voice I need advice my friends think he like me that true? (I think I might have a crush on him to ❤)

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

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      You definitely like her. And if she likes you too, what's holding you back from telling her? Overcome your shyness and just go for it! I bet she'll reply with similar feelings. Goodluck jayden :-)

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      jayden jenkins 2 years ago

      im really shy ive been trying to ask my crush out for nearly a year now I just cant build the courage. she likes me aswell when I see hear I get butterflies in my stomach

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      Last post is @ruthie

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      pearl jazmyn 2 years ago from Texas

      Seems to me like he likes you as a "sister". Immediately I recognized it as this because of his way of treating you from other girls. As to why he keeps distance from you, I don't quite get. But from what you've said it's like he liked you at the beginning but might have had a change of heart. I'm worried that you might have created the mental idea that he liked you & ended up disillusioned. I've gone through this once before..but my advice would be to directly ask him if he likes you. Talk to him, since you have that conformity, and tell him how you feel. Let him know and watch what he says. That should tell you whether you were right or wrong..if all ends up the wrong way , simply say, "I just felt I needed to say this." and walk away, maybe he'll have something else to say..do what feels right to you! You deserve the best girly. Good luck :-)

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      Ruthie 2 years ago

      A guy I know is a family friend of mine. I have caught him staring at me a couple of times. Sometimes we both hold each other’s gaze & then look away. All these behavior made me feel that he likes me & I started a slight liking towards him. But then he wanted to add me as his sister. I am confused cause I still catch him staring at me. I feel he avoids me a lot of times. He behavior towards me is a little strange as in he is more friendly with his other girl friends but tries to maintain his distance from me. I am not sure what should I make of it. As we girls do get to know if a guy likes you. So am not sure now? Please help.

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

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      I sure do remember you. Um, this is sort of the same cycle , like the same things happen per and over again with this guy even though he has a girlfriend and ll. my advice would be to stay clear of any flirting, state it to him that you won't do anything of the kind until he is not with his current gf anymore. Because you need to stand your guard as a woman , a lady. Yes, from he obvious signs he is giving it means he like you. Teasing, calling even though there's clearly nothing to talk about, etc. means there's something in there. He likes you. But I dot wanna give you hopes. He does have a girlfriend. So just be straight up about wanting something with him when he's single. Good luck:-)

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Lizzy510

      Honey, I already replied to your post :) I think it's supposed to show up in the latest of comments at the bottom. But you're very welcome!

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      Lizzy510 3 years ago

      Hey Jazmyn! :-) Okay I am hoping you can help. I have had a major crush on this guy for a little over a year now. He is older than me, and honestly I really shouldn't like him. He is my brothers best friend and when he first started coming over to hangout with my brother, he treated me completely normal. Life got busy and at that time I had no feelings for him. A year later he comes over for a party and I catch him looking at me a lot. And when I look back at him he turns away, and half-grins. Ever since then his eye contact with me was horrible. Whenever I do talk to him, he so rarely gives me eye contact and just stares at the floor. I don't really like to talk to him much anymore because I feel I am annoying him or something?? I feel SO insecure around him and I barely say anything cuz I feel like I'll say something stupid and he will judge me or make fun of me for it... He doesn't treat me like everyone else. With every other person, he gives eye contact to, hugs, and has full on conversations. He has given me some hints along the way that he thinks I am pretty. He is my brother's best friend and for the record way older than me, and I REALLY need to get over him by now. He recently broke up with his girlfriend. So I am for sure he never liked me, I just don't know why he treats me so different from everybody else. Is it because I am getting older and more "developed" if you know what I mean? Is it cuz he doesn't want me to think he likes me and that's why he is keeping his distance? Or maybe he is just trying to be respectful of me since I'm his best friends younger sister and he really respects my dad? He treats me like his little sister and likes to tease me and get on my last nerves (which I am okay with) and I treat him like my older brother... but I think he is slowly starting to pick up on the fact I like him, and I wish I could stop my feelings for him but honestly I just don't know how. And the worst part of it all is he has everything in a guy I have ever wanted but I know I have no chance with him... Plz help, thanks for your very much appreciated advice!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @AngelLambert

      Glad to hear everything is going good! Don't worry about anything because all will be alright. Anything I'm here. And awe thank you for the nice comments!!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

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      Okay, so first of all the suppressed giggling is a total sign something is up with him. Check if he does this with everybody or certain individuals (Like you). If this is the case then he likes you! Because a guy who can't control his emotions around a certain somebody tend to let out a feeling that isn't usual when talking to somebody else. Like your case. It's like when a girl can't stop giggling in front a guy she likes or is nervous around. Same way with guys. He's most likely nervous when he talks to you, and in particular it seems like you're not just "some" girl. Try telling him you like him when you get to know him better. And trust me since you've got the advantage that your BFF is his sister it won't be that difficult. I don't mean use her but if you haven't told her you like him that's the place to start. If she's totally fine with it, she may even be willing to maybe help out. Ask her for tips on what he likes and what not. That'll really help you out. Then trying talking to him little by little and if he seems to go with it most of the time that totally means he likes you. I say this from experience so good luck girly!

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      Lily909 3 years ago

      Hey thanks for your helpful article! I was wondering what you thought of this situation:

      So I really like my best friends older brother and have for a few years now. Basically my first dilemma is that I don't know how to get him to notice me as more than his sisters best friend. The other thing is that he's hard for me to read. For example: (this happens almost every time I see him in class or am around him outside of school) I always catch him chuckling to himself and then looking at the floor. I've asked him "what?" Before but he just says "nothing" and tries to stop chuckling to himself. And it's not like a making fun of me laugh, it's more of a suppressed giggle to himself... What on earth does this mean??! And how can I get him to notice that I could be more to him than a friend. Thank you! :)

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      AngelLambert 3 years ago

      Hey hun. I know it's been awhile. Still doing good? I haven't been able to look you up on youtube, not allowed on it, lol. I've been having a tough time. My dad passed aay last month, November 19 this year. His birthday was only a few weeks away, 12/14/55. He was 57, would have been 58 if he had made it to his birthday.

      Well I have been busy being moms rock, and actually Drake and my group have been my rocks, mostly Drake. A little after thanksgiving break, I got so upset because he seemed like he was trying to ditch me so I left school early.

      The irony was I left school and we went and got dads ashes :/

      Christmas was cool, I got an ASUS two in one tablet laptop, which I am using right now :) and I also got dad's last gift. It's a calculator that will help me in all my math and even science classes at school and college :)

      I miss him...mom admitted to me if she didn't have me she would have died. She even told me she was thinking of suicide and cutting for about a week after. So I pushed her, she is back at her job.

      Drake...what a topic... sometimes he makes me hurt, and sometimes it's a good hurt. Well I've made sure all of my friends know I plan to stay a virgin until I'm at least 23. Drake said I wont be a virgin long after I'm 23, because he will be there. I just kind of laugh at that...he and his family might move after this school year. They said when he turns 18 he and his little sister, she's a year younger, will move back to Texas. I doubt it happening, they will likely settle back up where they move...

      That always makes me sad. But Drake made me smile one day. He said he can picture me, him, and my bff living in an apartment together later in life. I said yeah, I can see that too. Now I see it without my bff.

      I cannot stand living with her, lol. Our sleepovers kill me enough I know I wont be able to stand her. ha-ha.

      I have gotten over the fact my dad is gone, I miss him but I am adaptable. I just...I don't know anymore. I feel guilty for going after Drake now...but it's all so good. We hold hands, he kissed my forehead since he knows I'm scared to actually kiss and such, hug, overall he is so sweet. I get mad at him sometimes though. For some reason, he actually showed up at my dads viewing, and then not to long after he forgot that my dad was dead. :/

      Message me anytime, I'm on Facebook. Angelica P Lambert :)

      PS. Thanks for all of your help :)

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      ConfuzzledOne 3 years ago

      So, there's this guy that I just can't shake out of my mind he's so special to me. I talk/think about him every second of everyday. My sister believes I love him well not like "in love" but like idk. I've never been a gushy girl but when I talk about him I just get so mushy sounding....it's embarrassing lol. So, I usually talk myself out of it when I feel like someone likes me and I just idk I need to know for sure. It feels like he's always staring , he's always around, but that could be me that's always around idk what I do I just space when he's around. We don't talk that often  my "frenemy" back stabbed me and told him. He's been talking to me more recently... (One of my friends told me she heard this frenemy who is jealous of me for some reason unknown) that I liked him and my friend said quote on quote frenemy said "She likes you" and he replied "Your lying"  I confronted said frenemy politely and asked did she do this and why? But all she could say was yes I guess cat had her tongue and she felt guilty but not enough to tell her own ex friend now what she'd done. The only thing frenemy would tell was when she told him he looked down shook his head and smiled. Idk why she did this or what else she tells him or makes up but I guess it's weird she tries to compete with me I don't t understand. The odd this is he's shy and I'm shy and we get awkward But oddly I feel like enough though we don't say much we have a connection. I really like him. And funny coincidence I guess lol we did secret Santa at my job sorry I failed to mention we work together but we do and he was my secret Santa ( but I didn't get to be his -_-) man I should of held onto the other slip I had 2 in my hand lol but anyways he bought me perfumes that said "Sweet Crush" on the front... Lol my mom thinks it's some sign and my sister doesn't want me to psych myself out just in case it turns out different though she feels like his like for me is on a scale of 8 from 1-10.  I want this to turn out different and it's so hard if both of you are shy but I don't wanna keep it like this or it'll be a waste if we don't do anything about it. How do you feel about this and what do you suggest I do? Because I feel something and I hope I'm getting as well as giving the right signals knowing who I am I'm oblivious and let my sister say I'm intimidating and that I need to be a little softer lol I'm such an outspoken person. Er this is a mess look sorry for the boom in just wrote. Welp , tell me what ya think :) thanks

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      Hannah 3 years ago

      I forgot this too he even teases me in this mean-ish friendly way like he calls me ugly and fat ayynd im preety sure im absolutellyy not fat and not ugly , he keeps calling me this nickname which he calls his girlfriend too

      I mean why does he do tht teasing nonsense?? he teases me with other guys too..like mutual guy frnds

      Soo why the teasing?? why soo mean??

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      Hannah 3 years ago

      Hey its me again :D I hope you remember my story .. so i needed your opnion on this again and here i am

      So me and that guy talk alot now and he actually calls me his bum chum which is his way of calling me a really good friend.

      So the thing is when we text he always starts flirting , once i even asked him if he did like me he gave me a hint that he did and when i asked him to say it properly so i could know for sure he got all defensive and started saying we needed to get to know each other and he still needed time . He says he hates social networking sights yet uses it just to talk to me . My dad doesnt really like him (funny story really) but despite their issues he still talks to me. He even forces me to call him as i did not give him my number (i dont have a cell) and he gave me his , so he tells me to call him eventhough it gets boring when we talk he still wants to!! We've never personally met Ive seen him around and he's ssen me around too he says he wants to meet me first and then decide his feelings. even though he does have a girlfriend he tells me for now hes haapy with me as a friend but in the future there might be chances

      Honestly i doubt a guy would spend soo much time talking to a girl or texting her etc. etc. just coz they're awesome friends cmon no one becomes awesome friends on the internet ryte??

      Ive caught him staring at me when he's with his girlfriend , when he and his girlfriend are in a group he stops talking to them and kinda gives this focused stare. He even said he loved me once and a very cute way

      I know he's dating and i shouldnt interfere , and im not but since Ive had a crush on him for like 2 years i would like to know what you think?? is it friendly ?? does he have feelings??

      I m sure hes not a player , from what people have said about him , he's anything but a player :D

      I feel maybe he does have feelings and he loves his girl too but since Im the one whos younger than him , he decided to date her

      what do you think?

      PS- im not one of thos asses trying to destroy their relationship I've never flirted with him back i askd him bout his feelings when i dint evn noe he was dating. Im actually happy for the both of them ^_^

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Jazmin Rivera

      Well if you got the bullets down, it's clear he likes you. Whether it's clear or indirect, only way you'll ever know if he likes you is if you've heard him say it to somebody else but you or to you directly. So my thoughts are, he likes you. Goodluck :)

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @perri

      It's hard to say if he likes you or not. To me it points out that it might be tension in the air between you both. I didn't read much details about the times y'all ran into each other. The fact he doesn't bother you anymore couldn't point to two things though: 1. He likes you or 2. He just grew up. So to really point out and see which one it is, details would have to be better explained. To me from the look of it, seems like you're into him but you'll never be sure if you don't talk to him. Goodluck, anything else I'm here girl!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @pokadoddles

      I very much think he likes you. It's crazy to say this: but the fact that you think into these little details tells me you like him the way he likes you. Maybe that didn't make sense, but what I'm trying to say is that..he likes you! If I met a guy who did all that stuff my first thought would be; I think he likes me. I've gone through the while feelings kind of thing. Where a guy stares at me, smiles, wrestles me in a kidding way, hold my hand, tickles me. All signs he likes you. Anything else I could help in, I'll be glad to help out. Goodluck girly!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @girlyflawed

      Awe, thanks. I get it a lot, so it's sort of a usual thing yep.

      Anyways, I get you. Sort of like me a couple weeks back or like last week. Anyways, all you gotta do it let go of the past and move on. Pretty sure you're beautiful and have a chance to meet cuties out there, so have fun, enjoy life and don't let sad moments get to you. Anything else I can help out in let me know! Goodluck girly:)

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @shygirl2000

      Omg, the feelings. I get you. You like him, and maybe he likes you. And you shouldn't feel bad over your appearance, because it's all part of growing up. And if he truly likes you, he'll like you the way you are. Looks mean nothing when it comes to heart matters. You feeling butterflies, doodling his name, daydreaming about him all tell me you're into him. Why don't you try telling him how you feel and see what happens. Let me know how it goes! Goodluck girly!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @vivi

      Luckily for you, I'm back to replying since I hadn't had much time.

      Yes, he likes you! It's totally obvious. His expressions, reactions, actions and compliments are all a tell-tell thing that he likes you. From past experiences, most of these things have happened. And in the end it's been true that they like me. It's not really hard to keep up with the sneaky signs, it's just paying attention on how they do it. His goal here is to keep you in love with him. Or to like him as much as he does. So my point of view is that yes, he likes you. And by all means if you feel a chemical reaction between y'all. Go for it. Goodluck, any other advice, I'll be glad to help out! x

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      vivi 3 years ago

      Hi so I was wondering does this Guy like me? So I've knows him for 3 years were really close friends everyone thought that we were dating last year because we would talk and act like a couple.we dated in 2010 then broke up, after we broke up we became best friends.This year he always talks or texts me he compliments me and is always finding an excuse to touch me or put his arm around me.Whenever someone says something rude about me he always stands up for me,whenever I talk about another Guy he always gets jealous.Everyone at school says we should date.Oh also at lunch I sit with my friends and he always walks by my table and stares at me as he walks by. Whenever I catch him staring at me he smiles and looks at the ground.So my question is does hw like me?

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      Shygirl2000 3 years ago

      Hi I read I the article and I think most are true but I'm still confused. I'm 13 and I've never really liked anyone befor so there's this guy I'v known for like two years we've sat next to eachouther the whole time i don't know if I like him and if he likes me evrey time I see or talk to him I get butterfly's in my stomach even if I just think about him. Thres some problems though I'm ugly I'm fat and ugly.also scence I grew up with my dad and brother I alwese dressed like them and up to date I sill do I were like t shirts and like cargo shorts and Alwese wearing my sweater. Me and him alwese play around he's very silly and alwese telling jokes mostl inappropriate ones we offen give eachouther little pushes well yeah. Please help me I think I like him but I'm not very sure oh and I also find my self like daydreaming and writing his name on my paper and also help me see if he likes me please help I'm so confused

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      girlyflawed 3 years ago

      Omg, you're beautiful. you look like Ariana Grande. lol, anyways, I really liked this guy and well we never went anywhere becuase he would play games. I still haven't gotten over him and it sucks. But I am moving on now and it feels great. He'll have a place in my heart but for now I gotta meet new people, new guys. See what's up. Any advice, in the healing process?

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      Pokadoddles 3 years ago

      Omg your article is so good!

      Ok so I have this crush on someone and we're great friends and all but I'm not sure if he feels the same . You see no one knows i like him but my friends keep on telling me he likes me ! I simply can't accept the fact that the might like me too, but sometimes I do think he like me

      1. I notice that when we talk he wants to always make eye contact but one we do make eye contact I see he gets nervous and looks away .

      2. We tend to goof around a lot together and when we do like wrestle and stuff he likes to make physical contact like grab my hand or give me piggy back rides and also tickle me .

      3. My art teacher ( who I'm very close with) he told me that he thought my crush liked me too. ( my art teacher doesn't know I like. Him)

      And also he te ds to show off a lot when he's around me and now that I realised I like him idk what to do I'm confused if he might like me or not? Can you help me please I would really appreciate it :D

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      perri 3 years ago

      Hey , i really like what you wrote here but i just wanted to ask you something....There's a guy at my school that i've know since i was a kid and he used to hit me and insult me alot for 6 years but he stopped 4 years ago and i used to hate him then but a couple years ago i started to like him i don't know how and now he looks at me and when i look at him he quickly looks away i don't know if he likes me or is trying to know if i like him. what do u think?

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      Jazmin Rivera 3 years ago

      I got like 4 of them.or maybe five but im not sure of one. So ill go with four. So what can this mean? Do you think he likes me or not?

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      peachtaeby 3 years ago

      Seriously I love your article..it do helps me a lot! But can you pleasee clarify this one thing to me?

      I have a crush on this guy which is 2 years younger than me. We are in the same class in college.I start to like him since I notice he always stares at me. He is very good looking and have so many secret admirers but I heard he never being in a relationship! He is such a quiet guy and rarely talks to girl.

      He has 2 bestfriends E and F.E and F always talk to me since we know each other.But my crush never talk to me.I'd once tried to ask his name from E (even though I know his name)..and E said that my crush is really curious to know why I ask his name.E already had a girlfriend so i didnt think E like me.E always ask me about my crush and E always wants us to talk to each other. E also sometimes point out at me when he talks to my crush.However, my crush never wanna try to talk to me.Okay I admit it that I do stare at him..sometimes..and I did caught him look at me from the corner of his eyes so many times.When I walk past him..he will try to collide his body against me..when our eyes meet, sometimes he will continue to look at me without smiling, sometimes he will look away with angry looks. Whenever we meet at the hallway, he will looks at me as if he wants to kill or eat me. What does this all means?does he likes me?or he hates me?seriously I want to stop this...its truly confusing... :')

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @blabla

      Hey girl, seems to me like he may have had some kind of dismissal towards you. Maybe he liked you at the beginning, but along the way may have realized he didn't like you that much. Hm, even after y'all talked on the phone you say he still looks at you from time to time, so this may mean he still kind of likes you. It's not always the reason, but if he did like you he would've never ignored you. I think it's best to move on & look for someone who will like you the way you are. Goodluck girly x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Troblewithlove

      He like you. You like him. Why waste time, when both could be getting to know each other. Except maybe he still has something for his off & on gf. Wait to see what happens. If he's free, go for it! Show confidence :) You don't need to be skinny you know as long & as you have a beautiful soul you'll always be attractive. You can always try dressing in your own style. Try being who you are , it will shine through! Don't let anyone tell you different. Anyways, as for if he asks you out, reply with a sweet "I'd like too. :)" Simple & confident. And it doesn't matter if you've got no experience in the dating field, there's always that first time. Enjoy life girly! Goodluck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Mico

      I'm glad you asked for help! Thanks for reading my article too. I'm sorry for taking long to reply! She must be very pretty for you to act this way :) And you must really like her too! Anyways , I get that you get nervous around her but why don't you try talking to her ! Girls like confidence, so if you show you're brave , she'll appreciate it. Gather courage & go up to her. Only way to the top of the line champ :) Ask her out when the time is right if both of you are meant to be! Goodluck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Confused

      I'm sorry, but maybe he didn't like you that way. But it's absolutely not your fault for falling for him. It's what your heart wants , not what people do. He's trying to be a cold hearted ego centered dude to get you away from him. Maybe his friend teased him about it & he found himself under "pressure" to look cool, so he changed his mind about you. If I were you, I'd admit it. Because that way people know you stay true to yourself. So don't let anyone tell you any different . He obviously knows or at least thinks it's true, so why hide it? You're beautiful & you deserve the very best. :) Don't let players get in the way of your happiness. Goodluck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @hannah

      How are you? :) This guy obviously wants to forget you. Or at least tries too. He might've liked you but at some point had to move on. Typical ego centered guy behavior. He's obviously being very immature about his actions but what can we do about it. Ignore him, give him the benefit of the doubt. He's most likely trying to make you jealous by talking to your friend. But girl, move on. There's many fish in the sea :) Goodluck !

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @paperlanterns

      I'm so sorry but I've been grounded. I had no way of connecting with my beautiful readers! And no it's okay, I understand :) your post will be answered :) don't worry! It's just there's too many girls I need to give advice too. Thanks !

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Abby1998

      I'm so sorry for taking long to reply! To start off this always happens to people, so don't blame yourself for anything hun! (Guys acting weird after we tell them how we feel) So don't worry. He may have liked you as a friend but he thought differently of you. He may have liked you but somehow managed to realize he wasn't that into you. I would say to just let him go because he's obviously not worth it. What kind of guy would give off signs he likes you then walk away when you do the same? Doesn't make sense. He's a jerk. Forget him girlie , & give this other guy a chance :) see where things go & don't frown. Smile & have fun! Goodluck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Karen

      He likes you. Maybe not directly but he likes you. The fact he has a girlfriend should tell you , up should stay away from him. You wouldn't want to feel the same way his gf would feel if she found out. So stay clear of their relationship :) If he smiles at you a lot it may be that he likes you. I'm going through the exact same situation right now as a matter of fact. But I don't want to ruin their relationship so I just smile when he does. It could also be that if you look at him a lot that is why he may be looking back. If he makes eye contact first he may like you. Or he could be annoyed . Look at this carefully next time , okay? :) Goodluck girl x PS. Sorry this is very late!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @incorrigible

      I'm afraid he's had a change of heart. Maybe he liked you , but he's changed his mind. This is typical of guys nowadays. Just pay close attention to how he treats you now. Goodluck girlie :) let me know how things go!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @HardiHarHar

      Thank you so much! More is on the way ❤ stay tuned :) Glad I could help!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @AngelLambert

      Wow, that's funny. Good thing you never have in hun. I hope everything goes well with you & if you ever need anything I'm here :) as for your question on how to be better, I would say that you could start by forgetting all the people who have ever hurt you. Mainly this guy. Become a new self & never forget to smile & love life. It's too beautiful to ignore ❤ The guy who likes you for you will like you for you. So don't worry. As for me, I'm doing very good actually :) I've been working on YouTube , so make sure you see my videos. I sing btw. Anything, I'm here. Goodluck x

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      AngelLambert 3 years ago

      He never liked me from the start and says he thinks of me as an f*k buddy. He is moving away soon to and is dating a friend of my friend. So far he has stuck his hand down her pants. x.x but I think he mainly just wanted an easy lay and he grabbed my b00b in the cafeteria one day and so I hit him, didn't talk to him for a couple of days, and told my mom. She threatened that if he touches me again she was going to castrate and kill him, in his face. But he didn't like me. Oh well :P Any advice on how to be a better me? Because it seems that guys aren't even interested in me. lol. also, how are you?

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      HardiHarHar 3 years ago

      Oo! Also fantastic article, So happy i stumbled on it x

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      incorrigible 3 years ago

      Hey Jazmyn!!

      Thank you so much for all the advice you've given me. I wanted to update you on a personality change from my crush. He made a comment that he wanted to look up my skirt that I was wearing and then told me that I shouldn't stand on or climb anything because guys would try and look up it when Im not looking??? What happened?? What does it mean??

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      karen 3 years ago

      Theirs this guy in my gym class and he keeps on looking at me... my friends even say that he looks at me ..but the problem is he has a girlfriend already and my friends say he likes me .. can you please tell me if its true that he likes me or I'm I just hoping he dose

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      sandra gonzalez 3 years ago from The sunny floridaa

      Hiii i foundd this article helpfull but I need advicee please!

      So I like this boy his name is jo im a freshman in highschool but I met him a few months before 8th grade ended at first i thought he was cute and i was just attracted to him.. but when then reality hit me i was starting to like him .. we only really talked in classs a few times in the hallways and just gave each other friendly hugs everydayyy but 2months after i met him i decided to tell him how i felt so iasked one of my guy friends to talk to him so he did and they talked over facebook for a while and then he told him.. my crush didn't reply after that and for a week class was awkwarddd but things went back to normal then I decided to tell him over a note and my friend and him rode the same bus so i asked her to give it to him she did and again things got awkward but things got good again but by then school was almost over and i wouldnt see him again till the next school year in highschool since i knew we where he was goin cause he told me.. so over the summer we didnt talk and So then highschool came i thought me and him would have some classes together but we didnt i see him in the hallways and he looks at me and looks away and gives me these awkward stares but the point is we dont talk at alll anymore and it sucks HE ONLY TALKED TO ME ONCE THIS YEAR so my freshman year of highschool is almost most over too i've tried to ttalk to him over facebook but he never repliess and im to shy to talk to him in person since we havent talked in a while.. but not long ago did i start talking to this other boy in my french class and i think i might like him too i dont know what to doo but today while i was talking to him my heart was beating really fast and always has someway to make me laugh and we both laugh at the dumbest things ever but im stuck in between 2 boys help me pleaseeeeee...

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      paperlanterns 3 years ago

      I wrote something here a couple weeks back and it hasn't been answered idk sorry I'd just like help sorry for being annoying lol but did you receive it? Or did it not send? I had quite poor internet connection when it was sent

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      Hannah 3 years ago

      hey its me again

      well this same guy hes been texting my friend for over a week now and its gettin me confused

      because the other day i passed by him and and he lukd at me thourgh the corner of his eyes so the point is do u remember i had told him that i dint have feelings for him and it was a mistake telling him that cuz i dint noe him

      so i noticed that eversince then he has stopped lukin and at times i doo notice him looking but he turnes away very very very quickly

      in simple words he doesnt want mt to catch him staring......

      so all of a sudden hes texting my friend ALOT!!! and hasnt texted me at all ....

      So i just wanted to know what you think about him actin wierd by not looking and not texting !!!

      thanks for your advice :)

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      Confused 3 years ago

      Hey Jazmyn, basically, the boy I like found out I like him ( I have no ideas how!) and now he won't look at me or talk to me at all! We used to be so close too. Earlier in English we were doing group work and so people had to turn their seats around to be in fours and when he turned his chair around he noticed me and said "but she's in my line of sight.." And went pink.... I am so confused I don't know what to make of it and everyone knows because he told all his friends that I fancy him... Do I brush it off as a rumour or admit it? Please help me! Xx

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      Mico 3 years ago

      Hi

      Iam a boy and there is agirl i wanted to talk to but iam very shyy that when iam near to her i breath heavier and my face turns red and i feel when i look to her she gives me a look back and waited me many times to talk to her but i didnt and the last lesson we were together in she didnt come as this lesson can be repeated at many times so i dont know if she is becomes out of me or what plzzzz answer

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      troblewithlove 3 years ago

      My name is Karli and I am 16. There is this guy everything above is what happens. This guy and I hold a gaze for 10 seconds then he looks away. He always has and open body posture around me and no one else. I get shivers just looking at him. It's hard to catch my breath and he teases me when we talk. He calls me by my name and I do the same. I have never had a bf and he is always off and on with his gf. I can't stop thinking about him and since I never had a bf that means I don't know how to kiss. We are not friends and we talk very little. He plays the guitar and he always looks at me when he is playing. I need help. I don't know what I can do to get him attracted to more I am not skinny so my body wont work. I always dress up for him. What should I do to get his attention more.

      And when he asks me out if he does what would be them most attractive way to do that.

      Sorry this is long, but I would appreciate you response ASAP. Thanks

      TROUBLED WITH BOYS.

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      Blabla 3 years ago

      This guy was my classmate since I was in primary but I only started to like him last year. I used to show hints that I liked him and he knew that I liked him too. the thing is we never actually talk because I went to another school and met him two years later in my new school. we do chat on facebook quite frequently and he didn't ignore me on facebook at all. But once I called him and our conversation lasted about one and a half hour(I didn't expect it could last that long too). sometimes when I see him looking at me he will look away. when I talk to other boys he takes a glance at me too. once in a while he would talk to me but after that we were like strangers. quite often I notice that he caught an eye on me but I wasn't so sure whether these were only coincidences or he really notice about my existence. thanks for helping!

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      karman sandhu 3 years ago

      hi......!!! i like a guy who lives in my neighborhood and is too cute....!!! sometimes i look at him but its rare as i feel scared.....as what will he think of me....!!! i never had a talk with him in these 2 years but want to talk .....somtimes i feel dat he is intrested in me bt not sure...!!! how will i get to know dat is he inrested in me.....and the another problem is that somtimes i feel dat he might be looking at my sister as she is very pretty.........oh god i'm too confused plz help me.....as how to know is intrested in me or not.......!!!

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      RoseLopez7 3 years ago

      Hey so Jazmyn

      My crush from church I went up to him and I said hi and he just stared at me and didn't say a word so I said bye

      I still don't know if he likes me

      But I heard that he likes my friend

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      sadhli 3 years ago

      Hey jaz thanks for ur advice. I'll surely try to get the truth out.

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Nata2394

      Hello and yes any time! I completely understand your situation, Nata. He likes you from all the details you mentioned, but when a guy doesn’t talk to that girl or is only a crush it can’t keep him from dropping out, you get me? My advice would be to first add him on Facebook and then see what happens. If he remembers you he will most likely contact you first. Or maybe he won’t, because sometimes when a guy likes a girl he won’t do anything about it to look cool: this is how guys work (trust me!). And if he accepts and you don’t hear anything from him in two to three days, then go ahead and inbox him saying something simple like: “Hey :) you remember me from beauty school? :)” or “Hey, we go to the same beauty school :) but I haven’t seen you around..”. This will make you seem interested, never desperate or needy. Talk to him girl, be the brave soul here. And if he doesn’t reply then that tells you, you have to move on from him. Good luck and keep my posted girly x

      Oh and I know this is completely off topic..But since you mention you go to a beauty school, is there any way you can give me any tips on make-up, like foundation, eyebrows and stuff. If you can, I’d be super grateful! Contact me at my e-mail, Jazmyn42@live.com , Thanks girl!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @sadhli

      You’re welcome. And this kind or relationship isn’t going to work out if both of you don’t communicate right. You both do not communicate on a regular basis and the foundation of a healthy steady relationship would be to communicate a lot. Five months? That sounds like a long time, if he really was interested. You never know what he could have done all time you know. My advice would be to ask him directly how he feels about you. No stuttering, second guesses, or dishonesty. Get the truth out of him, but talk to him with that beautiful confidence you have. Ask him clearly what his intentions are, I don’t want any girl to get hurt by a guy who doesn’t know what he really wants. Good luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @web watcher

      Thank you so much! Your words are very encouraging, and don’t worry there will be more content on the way, so stay tuned! :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @lollpop

      HE LIKES YOU, Lollpop. He’s giving all of the signs away, and maybe you haven’t noticed but every detail you mentioned relates to the signs above. He’s making an effort to know you, but you’re not letting him, this is the problem. The fact HE came up to YOU, should tell you that he is interested in you. Maybe not romantically, not yet, but in a friendly way. I mean a guy who didn’t like a girl wouldn’t go up to her and present himself. He stares at you, gets shy and looks at the floor when caught looking, he remembered your name, and tries to make a conversation with you: giveaway signs he likes you. Most of the time, if a guy looks at you and laughs, it’s not a bad thing. He could be laughing cause he likes you or to tease you. But don’t take it as a bad signs (not unless he says something mean and mocks you). My advice would be to smile back when he does smile at you; this will make you look inviting. And you can’t know if he has a gf if you don’t find out from him yourself, so when you get to talking to him, don’t be afraid to ask him. I know from what you’ve written that you’re a very shy girl, but you’ve got to get over it. The only way you two will get to really talk, is when you decide to forget the shyness and bring out your confidence. Confidence sometimes is something that will capture attention, and in this case I think this is what you need. Talk to him girl, he likes you so you’ve got nothing to lose. Good luck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Naomi H.

      Thank you, I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart!

      He likes you, Naomi. The fact he’s polite, a gentlemen, nervous, and quickly turns away when caught staring: these are signs a guy likes a girl. And yes, you’re correct…referring to the body language point. When someone is interested their feet are always pointing to their interest, so yeah, this guy is interested. I understand you, when I have a crush on a guy and they like me back but they act ‘cold’ or ‘distant’, it makes me feel, I guess we could say sad, cause we think they don’t like us anymore. In reality, he’s most likely still interested, but someone could have told him something that made him change his mind (but in his mind he could still like you). Sometimes guys are natural jerks at ignoring girls they like. I get it all the time, like seriously. This is because they think we’re not interested because we don’t show we’re interested, you get me? My advice would be to try and engage him in a conversation sometime around. See what happens we both of you talk. If he makes an effort to keep on talking to you then he likes you. If he doesn’t talk maybe it’s his ‘shyness’ or he isn’t interested anymore. Look at his attitude and body language when both of you talk. That should answer if he likes you or not. Good luck girl, keep me posted x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @twinkle loo

      Unfortunately, if he really likes you and you reject him he’ll feel awkward around you. If this does happen he won’t act the same around you. It happens like this all the time tbh. The only thing you can do about this is to talk to him and tell him what you really feel. Don’t stutter, improvise, or think of what to say, just say what you need to say. If you’re completely honest with him, and you say it in an honest voice he’ll see sincerity in you even if what you say is hurtful to him. From the sounds of it I’m guessing you like him back. If he replies back to you in the kind of talk that tells you he likes you, then I think you should confess back. When you do talk to him, why don’t you start by asking: “Do you like me?” and obviously he’ll probably ask you: “What do you mean by that?”, then you can try asking: “Like, in what kind of way do you like me right now?”, and so on…This has to be the first thing you do when you finally see him. The conversation should just flow after that. Get the awkwardness out of the way and then see where the conversation goes. Make sure you’re confident about it. Good luck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @AngelLambert

      Anytime sweetie. And yes, that sounds like a good plan. Let me know how it goes with this guy, I’ll be glad to help out again. Thank you and good luck girl x

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      Kayla 3 years ago

      Hi. So I'm just curious, but what does it mean you know a guy has seen you but when he walks by you, he completely ignores your existence. Like he just walks by without even turning his head to look at you. BUT I'm not talking about a random guy who you barley talk too. I'm talking about a guy who used to like you and who you kinda do what you said up there, with the whole me and him staring at each other for like 5 seconds. And this kinda happens a lot. I don't really know what to make out of it because things are REALLY awkward between us now, and we barley talk now. But the whole staring thing has continued to happen for a WHILE. like definitely a good couple of months or more. Also, I've been recently been trying to talk to him to make things unawkward but the few times ive done recently he wont really keep eye contact with me. For example: one day, he saw me walking towards him ish, and he looked down at this thing in his hand and I went up to him and had to say his name like 4 times before he finally looked up at me and I complemented him on something and he said "thank you" and looked STRAIGHT back down. Also I said hi to him in the hall once and he looked away BUT said hey and waved back without looking at me. What does that mean? Because I honestly have no idea what it means and I feel like it's dumb to try making things right between us if he really just honestly hates me or something now.. Oh and I'm pretty sure he purposely make his voice deeper. I don't know if this is just when I talk to him, or if it's an occasional thing but I know his voice isn't that deep so I don't know what to make out of it. I'm honestly just tired of things being weird between us and want things to change to where I know for a fact that we are at least friends. Pleaaaasseeee help me!

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      jamie 3 years ago

      Here this guy, we knew each other from last party, since then, we talked thru text and chat. We are not close but we went out for the first time together, i was shocked as we're comfortable with each other and he acted flirtly to me, he put his arm around my shoulder or he cuddles me inside the bus. So i was wondering, does he liked me? Thank u.

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      Karla 3 years ago

      I like a guy and one day i told him that i like him but he said that he doesn't feel the same way so then i was going out with a another boy and he said to me that he was jealous but when i talk to him he smile at me and wants to get near me but i don't know if he likes me please help me !!!

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      Paige 3 years ago

      I need to know if this guy likes me he said he doesnt but all the signs that are online are all the signs hes doing so how do I find out the truth?

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      kate 3 years ago

      Btw he was giving me a cold/confused look today our class had to go to a leisure center for a swimming test and i slipped because the floor was so slippery but he comes out of the no where an saves my landing so i was on top if him and we both started laughing while his friends made fun an laughed but we didnt talk to each other

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      Kate 3 years ago

      alright and i was crying because i dont know whats happening with us im guessing he has mixed feelings for me it made me worried i really like him but i was afraid we would never be friends again since you have been through it yourself thanks so much for all the advice its not easy

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      Emma589 3 years ago

      Hi! This is a wonderful article but I'm still a little confused about a few things and I was hoping you could help me out since you seem very good at this!

      Okay so, I know he stares at me, I have caught him a few times and other times when I was busy doing my work my friend told me he's staring at me like he’s in love or something. Not to mention, another time I dropped my heavy history on him when he was getting his books from his locker, he didn't say anything to me and just laughed it off and even helped me pick my up books. And he magically ends up in the same area as me and tries to get my attention time to time. I'm actually confused, because though all that sounds like he might like me, I'm not too sure. I would ask him but in school rumors are easily spread and basically all of them reach our teachers and even our principal. A few students have gotten in trouble of such things and I really don't want that.

      Also last week, my guy friend and that boy were sitting together and my guy friend took my water to try and annoy me, of course I ignored him since it didn't even annoy me, but then that boy he asked, "Can I have a sip?" he asked me two or three times and I ignored him every time. He drank my water after that and his friend and my guy friend started laughing. I know him drinking water out of my bottle isn't such a big deal but I'm not good friends with him so over here the only time you drink out of each other's water bottles is when, you either the same gender or good friends or related to each other so it's kinda a big deal o.o. And then yesterday I was in the library waiting for my friend to get back from the bathroom and I was resting my head on the table while using my phone, I have no idea why I suddenly had the urge to look up but when I did, I saw his hand right in front of my face and asked him, "What?" he just laughed and said he wanted to annoy me and then stared at me for a bit and left. Today me and my friend were sitting on bleachers and he sat down right in front of me but at the step that's below. He kept moving back and during that process his elbow kept touching my feet and then he was going to throw his empty bottle away and moved his arm back to swing it, he clearly did that to annoy me because of the look he gave me before he threw it. Then he kept vibrating his foot and even when I asked him to stop shaking it, he would ignore me.

      What I want to confirm is does he like me or am I just over thinking this all??

      (Also, I'm sorry if I posted this twice but before my internet got disconnected and I wasn't sure that my previous message was sent, so I'm sending this one as well. Terribly sorry if it bothers you!!)

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      Emma 3 years ago

      Hi! o: This is a wonderful article but I'm still a little confused about a few things and I was hoping you could help me out since you seem very good at this o.o!

      Okay so, I know he stares at me, I have caught him a few times and other times when I was busy doing my work my friend told me he's staring at me like hes in love or something. Not to mention, another time I dropped my heavy history on him when he was getting his books from his locker, he didn't say anything to me and just laughed it off and even helped me pick my up books. And he magically ends up in the same area as me and tries to get my attention time to time. I'm actually confused, because though all that sounds like he might like me, I'm not to sure. I would ask him but in school rumors are easily spread and basically all of them reach our teachers and even our principal. A few students have gotten in trouble of such things x.x and I really don't want that.

      Also last week, my guy friend and that boy were sitting together and my guy friend took my water to try and annoy me, of course I ignored him since it didn't even annoy me, but then that boy he asked, "Can I have a sip?" he asked me two or three times and I ignored him every time. He drank my water after that and his friend and my guy friend started laughing. I know him drinking water out of my bottle isn't such a big deal but I'm not good friends with him so over here the only time you drink out of each other's water bottles is when, you either the same gender or good friends or related to each other so it's kinda a big deal o.o. And then yesterday I was in the library waiting for my friend to get back from the bathroom and I was resting my head on the table while using my phone, I have no idea why I suddenly had the urge to look up but when I did, I saw his hand right infront of my face and asked him, "What?" he just laughed and said he wanted to annoy me and then stared at me for a bit and left. Today me and my friend were sitting on bleachers and he sat down right infront of me but at the step that's below o.o He kept moving back and during that process his elbow kept touching my feet and then he was going to throw his empty bottle away and moved his arm back to swing it, he clearly did that to annoy me because of the look he gave me before he threw it. Then he kept vibrating his foot and even when i asked him to stop shaking it, he would ignore me o.o

      What I want to confirm is, does he like me or am I just overthinking this all?? o.o

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      KR 3 years ago

      I like this boy and we have art together and he sits next to me. He calls me by my name and we hardly ever make eye contact but when we do we quickly look away from eachother. When my dad or this girl says that he is my boyfriend he didn't respond. When we go to art shows together he always follows me, talks to me, makes me laugh, and listen to music. He has never hugged me. He has been to my house and he is always sits relaxed around me. Idk if he likes me I cant tell can u help?

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      therealaves 3 years ago

      Hi Jazmyn! I'm just going to get straight to the point. I like a guy but I'm still not sure he likes me back. Even after staying up at night taking "Does Your Crush Like You Back" quizzes, I'm still not sure! He is a big flirt with girls but he's always making comments and dropping hints here and there. You know when you're crushing and you don't want to sound stupid if the boy ends up not liking you, but you're also like, "Well, maybe he does."? That's how I feel. When he drops hints, it's not subtle. He hasn't called me any nicknames, he hasn't touched me or kissed me, he hasn't hugged me. I sit infront of him in math with my friend and I was applying my Eos during a boring lecture about the practice placement test (blah, blah,blah) and I caught him looking at me apply it. Also, I got up a couple times to get an eraser or sharpen my pencil and he was leaned back in his chair watching me walk back all the way to my seat (not creepy, just checking me out i guess?) and he made this kind of orgasmic noise(not loud, just playing around with his buddies) (don't judge about how they act please. they are wierd and going through a gross "phase" ). I don't know if he was making it at me but, you know.

      In math class again: we were playing around and he showed me a pic of his abs on his phone for no reason. This is our dialouge below.

      HIm: These are my abs by the way.

      Me: Yes. I know. You've showed them to me before.

      {End of dialouge.}

      Which he has. He has shown me his abs before (they are HOT!).

      In math class AGAIN: Today, he was sitting with his friend behind me and my friend and I heard my name I turned around and they just STOPPED talking and his friend said, "What?", like he was hiding something. And then, I gave the rest of my Diet Dr.Pepper to my guy friend, Max, and the guy I like said, "Why didn't you give it to me?" I replied with, "Because you probably wouldn't have wiped my germs off."

      "Probably not." He said. And THEN his friend joined us and said, "Yeah. Because he likes your mouth. He thinks it's tasty." I was like wha-?? Then of course, dumbfounded me over here said, "Ew." Instead of asking him if it was true or saying something witty.

      There are so many other things, I'm sorry you are reading this long comment. But, I might as well go on bcause I want to be as specific as possible.

      He makes jokes with me a lot and teases me and looks at me a lot! When he does look at me, we'll hold the stare for a second and then when he tries to go longer, I get uncomfortable or start to blush so I tell him with a laugh to turn around.

      Twice he said to my ex that I had nice boobs, which bothered me so I set him straight but I think that still counts as a hint, right?

      This is my last one. I promise. He makes sexual jokes and suggestions (not directly towards me but I'm the only he does it to) For example: sometimes he grinds on me, he does pelvic thrusts, today he looked at me and wiggled his tongue and started to grind and hump the wall (I know, he's wierd. I'm sorry for getting graphic o_O )

      I don't know. Maybe he doesn't like me. What do you think?

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      GUY 3 years ago

      BTW, my apologies for the errors, half dead in bed at the moment. Wish there were more girls like you :-)

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      GUY 3 years ago

      Being a guy, lol damn girl, excuse the language please, you could not be more spot on with the information. Trust me, YOU ARE RIGHT, as in every word is yes yes yes.... But I just wish the girl I have a crush on would read this.. :-( . I am extremely social and everybody is friendly with me... as in I am the center of attention type. Yet still cant muster enough courage to go talk to the girl I like..sad isnt it? She is such an amazing as a person... she intimidates me. Hopefully I will get a chance one day... PS... what you have written is like my daily routine whenever I am around her.

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      Bunnie 3 years ago

      For sign #1, is it possible that you feel it if someone stares at you from a far distance, like at church? I think he gives me mixed signals lately: been so emotional, smiles to himself, and then the next day looks kinda grumpy. Like a few days before Easter, I went to church on Friday, he was all happy, same with his friends. I did not go to church on Saturday and when I went on Sunday, he just acted like angry at someone, just looked down unlike before when he often looked straight (like looking at someone) when his friends are just normal. I know I may not be the reasons, but I just always feel that he's like that because of me. He's like that so I tend to watch for his behaviors to make sure if he likes me or not; it's not that I like him so much to create illusions. I meant...if he says it, then I can be sure and let my feelings for him go further.

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @hannah

      No problem.

      Just let things roll the way they do. This situation with this guy is starting to sound like it’s not going anywhere unless he picks it up and does something about it. This guy however is starting to take you for granted. Why? Because you’re putting yourself out there too much that he thinks you’re very easy to get. I think he treats you so sweet because he knows you’re younger, that’s a given fact. But also maybe because he knows what kind of girl you are at heart. He may like you, from all the signs you've described before though. However, if he flirts with anyone you know that is close to you, I don’t think you should even be talking to this guy. Why? Because why would you want to be confessing your precious feelings to a guy that flirts with a person you know that is close to you. My advice would be to stay friends with him and let him come to you. If he’s interested he will come and ask you what’s up. Don’t always do the talking; let him contact you most of the time (if possible). Get to know him, only if he shows he can be part of your life, not just when he feels like it. Best of luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @AnaR8

      He likes you. Maybe he didn't as much as before, but now he likes you. Why would a guy get jealous, look at you a lot, care about you, and still talk to you a lot if he didn't like you. Maybe he didn't want a relationship back then, but now he sounds like he does. He sounds like he’s gotten very interested in you lately. Maybe he realized how much you’re worth and the fact that he sees you with another guy kills him. That’s great though, don’t make the same mistakes twice, trust me, once is enough to learn from it. My advice would be to stop putting yourself out there to him too much. Don’t make out with him if you’re not in a relationship with him. Keep him wanting more, but don’t give it to him. Make him work for it. If he really does like you, he will fight for you even try to make you fall in love. Don’t fall for it though, not until he gets serious. We girls never know what a guy’s real intentions are, until they show their true colors. So don’t fall for anything he does unless he lets you know he’s doing it with an honest mind. Don’t kiss him if you two are not going out. This will make you look easy or it will send the wrong message. If you continue to do this he will think of you as a toy he can play with and he’ll never get serious with you because you’re letting him win very easily. He wants a relationship though, maybe with you. Just play it cool and do the things I advised above. Good luck and keep me posted hun x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Crystal

      Hey Crystal, the difference between love and a crush is that love is something mutual between two persons, while a crush is something temporary. Wait so you two dated or you’re referring to you having dated another guy? Anyways, it sounds like you dated another guy because you mention he saw your FB relationship status change back to single. To me it sounds like he’s trying to play it cool and trying to make you jealous. Not to mention that he’s playing it cool cause he made a fool of himself. He could also be trying to move on as fast as he can so he forgets you and doesn't look desperate. If he is trying to make you jealous I suggest you to play it cool (even if it’s killing you). Ignore him if you can, if he wants you or really likes you, he will come to you. Whatever you do, NEVER chase him; guys instinctively think that girls will act that way. To me you dreaming about him too much sounds like you really like him. But what if he doesn't feel the same way? And maybe if he does, he probably won’t tell you. I don’t know if both of you are meant to be, but what I do know is that he liked you, and a lot. The fact you two stared really long means both of you may have hope in the near future. I don’t know if he still likes you but if he does he will come back into your life and do whatever it takes. Trust me. So just play it cool and act as if it doesn't affect, matter of hurt you in any way. Keep me posted. Best of luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @RoseLopez7

      This is a shy, curious guy you’re dealing with. If a guy gives you curious blank expressions it must be because he either likes you or he just likes looking at people. But I mean why would someone stare at you a lot if he didn't like you, right? It’s good that you’re the confident one; it really shows a lot about you. I’m a bit confused with the wording at the end though. In my opinion I think this guy likes you, but why don’t you try going up to him and saying hi. If he’s interested he will stick around or if he’s not he’ll just say hi and leave. Or he could also be super nervous that he freaks the freak out and stutters at the beginning. Good luck and keep me posted x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @incorrigible

      Good, because no girl should be that kind of girl. It’s okay we all make mistakes, but hey at least we learn from them. I figured he’d be shocked if you asked him that question though, especially since he knows there’s something between you both. At least he was honest about it, most guys lie straight up. The aftermath actions he’s being making after you asked him that is because maybe now he knows he’s doing completely wrong. My advice would be to stop talking to him, little by little though. Slowly drift away from him, because to me that’s what he’s doing. Even if you like him a lot, you've got to take in mind that your being comes before his. So do what is right for YOU not him. Yes keep on playing it cool, this will keep him wondering and worried about why you’re acting this way (even if he obviously knows why). I think you should push him away since he’s already taken. I mean why deal with a guy who is obviously in a relationship already, right? Let me know how it goes, keep me posted. Good luck x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Kate

      Hello and thank you! And sure sweetie, anytime.

      First of all, this is the cutest, most relatable post I have read so far. I swear. But darling, why did you start crying? I think it was because of the kiss. If you two weren't dating yet and he kissed you, it must have left you thinking. That’s what happened to me nearly a month ago. You probably felt used, confused and maybe even sad about it because he didn't talk to you at all the next day. He probably came up to you because he got jealous seeing a guy flirt with you. But what happened as he stared at you in the locker-room? Did he look at you with sincere, cold, confused, happy, or upset eyes? In order for me to help you, I’d need to know why you were crying. If my opinion of why you were crying is true then my advice would be to play it cool but talk to him. Don’t mention feelings unless he brings them up. I know as tempting as it is, avoid bringing the subject up. This will make him wonder, and if he actually cares, he will bring it up. Trust me, don’t do it. I made that mistake once and I ended up hurt. But I mean we learn from mistakes so now I’m pretty defensive about myself. To me this guy sounds like he actually cares about you, even if his actions after the kiss seem cold. A caring guy comforts you, protects you, is honest with you. But I completely understand you; I would've run away too. Why because if he never had the guts to ask what was wrong I’d feel as if he doesn't grasp the concept I'm trying to send him. I’m here for you girl! If you need anything, add me on my Facebook profile, my Facebook link is on my hub profile. Keep me posted and let me know what your thoughts are. Good luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @emily

      So you like this boy for some time now, huh? I usually ignore that stuff, unless it’s with a guy I’m interested in. Anyway, if a guy’s eyes are cloudy, this directly point to him being very focused, lost, thoughtful or day-dreamful about something or someone. Maybe you just caught him off-guard or at the wrong moment. I can’t really tell if he likes you or not, because your details aren’t very descriptive or specific. Maybe he was thinking about something real hard and he just happened to stare at you for no reason. I tell you this because it happens to everyone. I’ve stared at someone sometimes for a bit, but because I’m just thinking real hard about something, not them directly. They feel awkward, but truth is, I’m daydreaming hardcore. It’s most probably he was daydreaming, because you mentioned both of you holding the stare for several seconds but he didn’t turn around quickly. But, he there could be a possibility that he likes you since you mention that snapped out of it and turned around quickly. I would need to hear more details in order to clearly tell if he likes you or not. Keep me posted girlie and good luck x

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      Z.L. 3 years ago

      Liked the piece you wrote a lot... But I need some extra opinions on the way I see things...

      Let's start form the awkward part, he is younger (I am 30, he's 25) and let me describe how complicated I feel it is; we are overly friendly, no touch-barrier when we are not surrounded by people who know us. Intimate long hugs, kissing each other (on the cheek) at anytime just because we felt. He likes what I say, he even seems to admire me, he sends sweets texts... But it feels like he needs to be poked, no initiative from him at all. He gets surrounded by other (younger) women and when he does, I refuse to become one of the harem. Instead, I prefer to play the role of the "disinterested".

      I know I cannot really cope with infatuation or obsession and I am afraid the signs are more towards this...

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      Simone B/Simm 3 years ago

      Hahaha thanks so much and sorry I wrote as two different people I thought I had to rewrite because it disappeared the first time. I still haven't talked to the guy but it's still mostly the same. Iut's so weird he does so many thing's to annoy me but I still like him and I shouldn't. So, we saw his friends in the hall and they were talking to us, he stood around for a bit but he left after a couple minutes. Btw, I never look at him and my best friend says I seem like I'm uninterested because I get weird when he's around. So, anyway we walked to the store and his friends came and while we were coming back from the store his friends told us about some girl he kissed and inside I was like super jealous.. they saw the girl across the street pointed her out and everything. Yet, I still like him and I mean it must be true because his frienda said it but idk he still acts like he did. I'm so confused and kinda idk it sucks. Idk if he's just a player or likes me. I never see him talking to any girls though.

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      Grace 3 years ago

      Hi

      I Need some help. There is this boy and the first time we met we really hit it off and he. Talked a lot about himself. Like he is trying to impress me or something. I really like. Him and every body says he likes me too but the other day his cousin had a birthday party and he was there and he completely ignored me and that pissed me off. I'm not sure if I made him mad some how. I just saw him yesterday and he i really like him a lot like a lot a lot. I have. Only seen him twice and

      He is not really a looker but I like him for what's in the inside and I just think he's perfect in every way.. His cousins think he like likes me back and my siblings and my. Best friend they all say that . But he haven't told me yet. Please tell me if you think he likes me back I really need to know if he dose

      Maybe I'll ask him if he wants to go to the movies sometime with some friends...!!!!!

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      Grace 3 years ago

      I really need help with this boy. He isn't really a looker but I like him for what's in the inside and I think he is perfect in every way PLEASE HELP.....

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      Grace 3 years ago

      So there is this boy. And we are ten days apart. The first day we met we really hit it off. But I saw him yesterday at his cousins birthday party and he almost completely ingnored me. We are both 12. So he ingored me and talked to my 10 year old sister. We talked for a little bit for like a minute and he acted really weird and I really like him. And my friend is positive he likes me but I can't tell.

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      Nata2394 3 years ago

      I read your article and I felt like some points resinated with me a lot so I decided to post and get some advice from someone who I think can give me some better and clearer advice...

      Ok so I'm currently a beauty school student and there was a major cutie in my class. Which, to everyone's surprise wasnt gay...not that there's anything wrong with him being gay, it just made the chances of him liking me go up.

      We never really talked about anything because apparently we were both too shy to say anything to each other. But from what I heard (from the other girls in my class...) he was in the milatary and single/possibly married but separated/possibly getting a divorce...

      To be honest I don't know much about the guy besides the fact that he goes to the gym, is really cute, funny, intelligent and quiet.

      The point is I've noticed him staring at me (a lot) and it was weird because no matter what I did, I felt his eyes on me (in a good way, nothing creepy)...which led me to have multiple convos with my BFFs, but now I'm at a complete loss because as it turns out he didn't really like beauty school enough to stay for the whole thing....

      So he dropped out and we never really got a chance to talk...but thanks to the power of social media I eventually found him on Facebook but I don't know if I should message him letting him know I like him or just leave it alone....

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      sadhli 3 years ago

      Thanks for this article.

      I have few doubts about my story......we were bestest friends in college (7 years back) for almost a year, i can say i observed 60-70% of all the above what u said.After that we met just once for some half an hour or so in same year. But till now we hvent met even once in last 6 years but we were continuously in touch over phones and emails, he used to send msgs about liking and when I say something reg it he used to brush it off saying "I was joking". and he had a bad habbit never returning my calls or messges (he is super busy i know...) so I stopped talking to him for last 4-5 months but suddenly started talking again over messages and sent a video with an act of another person of love confession and with a film song (that too about confessing while meeting next time)...

      And I am just so damn confused how to take it. Whether I should ask him clearly or let it go as its going.....

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      web watcher 3 years ago

      Especially fantastic content and articles I am especially excited about reviewing more. Regzooka

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      lollpop 3 years ago

      hello, i really need an advise please help me!so.. i go to high school and im in the last year and hes too.but we haven't same lessons .i like him for 3 years basically this year much more.last year he was staring at me in the beginning of school year but i learnt from a girl who like him that he was in relationship (if it was true) and he started not to stare ,so i started to like another guy and i moved on..but after months we went to a school trip and a night we went to a square and he introduse himself to me and me too but i didn't keep staring cause im so shy then he gave me his hand for a handshake and then he left :( ...the other day said to me and my best friend good morning and when i said too he didn't stared..in the whole trip he didn't stare and when we were back to school he said me 'hi lollpop isn't it?' and from then he hasn't spoke me again.this year he laughed at me 2 times when he was with his best friend(is it a bad sign?)i just passed next to him and he laughed not so loud...also he came one time and said to me and my friend 'how are u?'and i didn't answer i looked one classmate who was doing stupid...anyway something last i thinkhe has smiled to me 3 times and me never... and also when i stare at him he smiles at the ground and i think he's kinda be a little red...i really need ur oppinion sorry its too long my comment but plz help!!!!

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      RoseLopez7 3 years ago

      Hi Jazmyn

      I like this guy in church

      but i don't know if he likes me

      he looks at me with a blank expression

      but he tries to talk to me like go near me

      but i heard that he likes me friend

      please let me know Jazmyn thanks :)

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      Naomi H. 3 years ago

      Hm... Sorry for my bad english!! Aahhhh D:

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      Naomi H. 3 years ago

      Hey there! Love this article, seriously!!! Congratulations!

      Hm, so... There's this guy in my class. I've known each other for three years, and I can say we're good friends (not thaaaat close), and I like him a lot. He is very shy and "nerdy", and there's this other girl that likes him. He knows that, and acts totally normal around her (well, he doesn't really talk to her, never did). But, with me... I caught him staring for some time now (mostly around lunch time), and when I looked at him he always glanced the other way quickly. And he acts pretty nervous around me. I read about body language some time ago, and I saw that a person's feet is always pointing at their interest (analizing the situation a bit), and his feet are pointing at me almost all the time, and I sit right beside him (not in front, it'd be pretty obvious that his feet were pointing at me). Currently he doesn't look at me that much, and it kind of makes me.... Sad? But he invited me to make a group with him for a Geography project, and he is always sitting beside me, but with a big distance! I thought he didn't like me at all but then today he sat with one of his friends, and the distance between them was even bigger (they did not fight at all) and when we asked him to come closer he said he was just fine that way. When we were sitting side by side our legs would touch a lot, and he wouldn't even move, which is strange because I always thought he didn't like to be touched.

      Well, the point is: I'm going crazy! His friend says he is pretty "cold" but he acts more like a gentleman around me (never noticed him behaving this way around other girls, though).

      But... These days he has been acting more distant, I guess. He doesn't look that much, and when he does, we hold eye contact for a second or two (he always have that curious, serious look in his face) and then he looks away. After that he kind of avoids me. I think he's just not intrested. D: what should I do??

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      twinkle loo 3 years ago

      Thanks for the advice.but currently I'm in a dilemma because I won't get to see him personally until May cos of a module. I'm not sure if I'll really get to meet him though I'm willing to try talking it out with him.I feel a little hold back cos I'm uncertain of his reaction.I guess I've been too oblivious about his feelings till now.if I talk to him in person, what should I say to him? I wish to keep him as a friend.but I'm unsure if he'll make clear his feelings to me and I oso don't know if i really have the "love" feeling for him.i don't wish him to break friendship with me.I'm totally lost.but I'm afraid losing him as a friend.is there any suggestions if you could offer?:'( Ty

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      Kate 3 years ago

      plz heeeeelp!

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      AnaR8 3 years ago

      love it!!!! :) i need your help!!!. so i have a friend that ive know since high school so a little over 6 years. last year during the summer i realized that i had feelings for him so i took the time to see if i can get even closer to him so i would talk to him like every day and we went on a few dates, so i finally got the courage to tell him how i felt and he told me "aweeee :) how sweet but right now im not looking for a relationship...your a great woman blah blah blah blah" he was really nice about the whole situation and i told him that i didn't want it to ruin our friendship and it didn't. so i moved on, during that time i lost a lot of weight so i be looking good lol, and i meet a guy, and not that long ago my friends and i went out to a night club and i invited the new guy so long story short the new guy went M.I.A and my friend and i danced the whole night and we ended up making out and the new guy saw and went up to us(i know i was in a pickle) so my friend was pushing me away from the new guy but i decided to leave my friend and go with the new guy. once i did that my friend stormed off !!!the next morning he text me asking me how was i and what was i doing, out of all the years that i have know him he has NEVER EVER text me like that so that took me by surprise . ive also noticed that he always looks at me , even my friends notice it. the other day we went out and my friend leans in and tells me "how cute!!" and i told her why?, and she said "because he keeps checking you out!!" and i dint make anything out of it. and he also makes comments that you just don't say. the other day we went to to a party and they had chocolate covered strawberry's , i don't eat sugar but i was craving one and he was next to me and i made a comment that i wanted one and he told me to go for it, that he will feed it to me( he was being serious by the way) he was even helping me chose one but i found one and and pop'd it in my mouth , and he was just standing there like "what happened!?" later that night we ended up making out 3 times, but it was due to the fact that my friends told him give her a kiss. they said kiss not make out!!. also he pinned me against a car(i got him one of his fave chocolate candy) demanding the chocolate!! idk he just does things that tells me that he might but then at the same time he doesn't make a move. ohhh and that same night one of my friends said "so is it official?!" and he responded with "not yet" what does he mean by that!!?. one of my friends says that its because hes scared!?. and he also gets jealous when we talk about me and other guys, he gets really serious. there's more things he does that shows that he does. idk but im going crazy trying to figure out what he wants im sooooo confused. can you help me pls!!. thank you!!!! ^_^ you rock!!!

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      AngelLambert 3 years ago

      :) Thank you so much for replying :) and sure I will keep you updated!!! You seem like the kind of gal that would be one of my good to best friends. :3 But I'ma probably have to wait a while, because he has a girlfriend at this moment. Today and yesterday were STAAR test days and I was cold so he let me use his jacket all day, but he said his uncle may have done something...dirty...to it. Then later I have no clue but I believe he was laughing at me because I was still wearing it, I was still cold, but I don't know if he was laughing at me or what, so I can not conclude that. Anyway, ill try my best to keep you updated :) thanks Gurl~ :D

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      AnaR8 3 years ago

      Love!!! :) so I have a friend that I have known since high school so I've known him for over 6 years and last year during the summer I realized that I had feelings for him. So I decided to make a move, we would talk like all the time, we went on a few dates and I thought it was going good. So I FINALLY decided to tell him that I had feelings for him and he responded with "aweee how sweet :)...but right now I'm not looking to be in a relationship...your a great woman blah blah blah" he was really nice about the whole situation and I told him that I didn't want this to affect our friendship and he told me it won't, and it didn't :) so I moved on and lost a good amount of weight since then so I be looking good lol I meet a guy so one night not to long ago we went to a nightclub and I invited the new guy, long story short the new guy went M.I.A at the club so I ended up dancing with my friend and we ended up making out and the new guy saw and went up to me(I was stuck in a pickle) and my friend was pushing me away from the new guy but I left my friend to go with the new guy and my friend got mad and stormed off!!!, The next morning my friend text me asking me how i was and what was i doing, which he has NEVER done!! out of all of the years that we have known each other. Keep in mind that we have gone out before and at the end of the night we needed up holding hands. And when we go out I've noticed that he looks at me a lot, even my friends notice it. He says comments here and there that make me wonder like this weekend, we went to a party and I don't each sugar, and they had chocolate covered strawberrys and I was looking at them and he was next to me and I said that I wanted one but I shouldn't and he told me" get one!", me-"yeah a little one won't hurt" him-"I'll feed it to you" and he was being serious, but I just got one and pop'd it into my mouth but when I saw his movement he looked like he was waiting for me to tell him which one because he was even helping me pick one, and we also ended up making out again that night even though it was due to our friends telling him to give me a kiss but I mean we kissed like 3 times and they said kiss not make out plus he pinned me against the car(I got him his fave chocolate because I took his hat the night before) asking me where's the chocolate , and that same night my friends asked him so is it official and he responded with "not yet" what does he mean by that?!, I'm just really confused because my feelings for him are coming back and idk what he's thinking and I don't want to put myself out there again so I can get the same thing from the first time.Ooooh and he also gets really serious when we talk about me and guys, he gets jealous. I hope I gave you enough info and I hope you can help me because I'm SOOOOOO Lost and confused

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @miss no-so-confused any more

      You're completely welcome and thank you. You're welcome to come back if you need any advice. Best of luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @twinkle loo

      Babygirl, I'm sorry! There's many comments I need to reply too and I'm trying to do this as fast as I can. I've got a hectic schedule everyday so I find time to answer all comments. Comments are moderated by the way, so they have to be approved before they appear.

      He likes you...or at least he did. But to the sound of it, he really did like you. Maybe it was something you said or maybe it's just the way he is. I went through this EXACT situation three weeks ago, but I had to let go of him, it wasn't meant to be. Anyways, he's totally trying to confuse you. He is giving you misleading signs because of the "time" both of you stopped talking. Maybe he thought you didn't want to talk to him, so he felt like he shouldn't contact you, unless you did first. It's most probably that you've hurt him, this is why he doesn't want to talk to you. Did you say something that would be misinterpreted? Yeah, he must be hurt because he even deleted you off of Facebook. If he wanted to keep you as a friend (even if both of you didn't talk), he would not have deleted you off as a friend. My advice would be to talk to him, face to face. Not through e-mail, FB, text messages..but in real life. If you do this he will literally have to explain to you what's going on. Go up to him (with CONFIDENCE) and ask him what's going on between you both. If he wants to talk to you, he will tell you or he will walk away without really explaining. Talk to him and let me know how it goes. Good luck, Keep me posted girlie :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @SarahCB

      He likes you. Or at least he did. I think what really stirred up things between you two was not communicating correctly. It must have probably happened while both of you stopped talking for a week. And he must've thought you weren't interested anymore because you took long to reply. Even if you tried to apologize, he would've thought something was up. He likes you because he paid much attention to you and made eye contact with you a lot. It's most likely though, that he thought you weren't interested anymore so he tried moving on as soon as he could. Especially since this guy sound like the type not to settle down fast. Never feel bad about yourself, even if you think your friends are better looking than you. I bet you, you're beautiful but you don't know it. Which is sad because you should feel beautiful. I know what you're talking about, I've felt like that before, saying "Oh look at her, she's so pretty, he's probably going to pay attention to her now." But in the end it always came in my side because of my flaunty outgoing personality. So don't let other girls intimidate your personality and let yourself shine through. Trust me, it works wonders. I don't honestly know if he might be using you because I can't see the situation in real live, but from the looks of it, it sounds like he might be talking to her now. This could be why he doesn't contact you as much as he used too. He thinks you moved on so he wants to do the same. One thing for sure is that he is not using you because if he did, he would've done it directly without having to go in circles about it. He did like you, but maybe he's changed his mind. My advice would be to let go of this situation because it's getting yourself very confused and you really don't need to be stressed out like this. Go to the party if you think it's okay, but if it's going to make you feel uncomfortable, then avoid going to avoid gaining unnecessary stress. Boys will always be boys, and I know it's confusing but this guy certainly is wasting your time if he doesn't do anything to get involved. Good luck girlie :) x

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      hannah 3 years ago

      thanks soo much for the reply...I've been waiting for soo long..well i told him the other day just to see how he reacts to it... I told him that about me confessing to him Im not really sure it was the right thing to do as I dint know him very well and again he dint reply instantly he replied later telling me a hundred times that he appreciated me telling him my feelings and den said he knew i did lyk him but doesn't know wether i still do with a sad smiley..

      and then he said that we could get to know each other and then see....

      so to me from this it looked like he does care.. but.. my friends i have this doubt about her liking him but it doesn't really bother me much she's a friend a really good friend... anyways.... he still looks but at times i get this feeling hes acting soo sweet just because im younger than him by 6-7 yrs i dunno...what do you think?? i know that's a big age gap bt as theres this sayin I guess that you can't choose who you start liking it just happens....

      So i don't noe... what to do does he sound like a player because i asked my friend whether he flirts with her anymore and she said not much really... so should i just be friends with him or go ahead and get to know him??? :) thanks soo much for your advice

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      twinkle loo 3 years ago

      Why is my comment not reflected at all? :(

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Selly

      Thank you for your wonderful words, means so much. :)

      I read your post but I'm guessing you reposted again using another username: St.

      Your reply is above, thanks! x

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      twinkle loo 3 years ago

      I have a question which left me rather puzzled.I don't know if this guy likes me but we were classmates which hit off well during first semester.I feel he seems to display misleading signs.he suddenly turned cold and we don't talk now cos during holidays we didn't talk much and I dunno wad to say to him.he also doesn't talk to me.tried to sort out with him but he claims that I'm expecting him to talk.few days later, he deleted me off Facebook.but after which he passed me a brochure out of the blue and said it was rubbish paper.what is he thinking.I don't know how to explain the situation.I need some advice.can you help me please?

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @AngelLambert

      Hi and thanks for reading my article :) Comments are moderated, so that explains you not seeing your comment after you posted.

      He likes you. If he didn’t like you he wouldn’t waste his time trying to get your attention in type of way. Everything you did was perfectly fine, you never made yourself look desperate so don’t overthink it too much. You should never try to change who you are, stay true to yourself because you’re beautiful. You can’t get a guy to like you, but you can always let your true self shine and get a guy to actually like you (the real you). Don’t put yourself down, it’s not going to help your situation to be honest. Nobody’s perfect. If he is actually interested he will find any kind of way to talk to you. If you really like him my advice would be to be the bold one and ask him one day “If he likes you”. I know it sounds too challenging, but when you ask him without a warning, he will have to answer you. He will have to tell you if he like you or not. He sound like a very good guy for you. Most of the things you mention go to the fact that both of you have so much in common. My advice would be (as said above) to talk to him in one of those conversations both of you have and talk about what you feel. Sounds cheesy, but trust me, it works. Express yourself by who you are, not to impress any boy. Keep me posted :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Jackie/jackiechavez

      Hello and welcome to the land where “sparks fly”. If he made the invite to go to a place such as Disneyland, he is trying to get to know you better. Whether it be on friendly terms or not this shows that he wants to know you by hanging out in a place that’s full of movement. I can’t honestly say something might happen between you two but I can tell you that if he shows all of the signs above, he totally likes you. If you notice, both of your questioning suggestions kind of answer each other. So if he didn’t like you he wouldn’t be asking you out to hang out. It all depends on the type of guy he is, if he’s confident, he’s going to make a move. If not then at least you know he really does like you, and maybe there’s more chances for future dates. Thank you for reading. Keep me posted, and good luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @hannah

      Yes, how can I not. You’re one of my very first girls to post on here.

      So the information was false? That’s strange. Anyways, why would this guy be doing this to you? That’s your million dollar question here. He likes you, but that fact that he texts you and your friend at the same time sounds very bad. Especially if this girl might be close to you. He could just be trying to get you jealous, but it can also mean that he’s just a player. Have you ever tried asking your friend if he likes him? If she does, then you shouldn’t really be messing around with a guy like that. What kind of guy texts you and another girl at the same time, especially since you know about it immediately. To me he sounds like he likes you and is trying to not show it by acting all up on you (nervousness, shyness, curiousness, etc,.) If a guy searches for you, looks away quickly when caught looking, corner-eye looking, and asks so much about a simple question you ask him: to me this means he likes me. So he likes you, but he hides it, doesn’t want to show it or is trying to get you jealous. Chose the one that is closest to the viewpoint you see this situation in. If a guy doesn’t reply right away, he could be busy or he doesn’t want to answer you so he looks cool. However, usually this means that a guy might not be interested anymore, because he is either talking to someone else or just trying to move on. He certainly sounds like he’s hiding his feelings, though. Pay extra attention to his actions, movements and reactions. Keep me posted x

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      Anar 3 years ago

      I need your help!!!, I have a friend that I've know since high school and we started hanging out about two years ago and last year I realized that I liked him so I decided to step up and get some one on one time together we went on a few dates and I FINALLY told him that I liked him and I would like to get to know him more and see where it goes, well his respond was-"aweee how sweet but I'm not ready for a relationship blah blah blah" and I was ok with it, yes I was bumbed out but I moved on, this was at the end of last year. Then I started talking to this new guy, and my group of friends and I went out to a club and I invited the new guy long story short the new guy went missing I ended making out with my friend that I liked the new guy saw and my friend was pulling me away from the new guy when I finally saw him and since I moved away and went with the new guy my friend stromed off. And when ever we go out together in groups he always looks at me and i see it, my friends see it. Idk he confuses me, he makes comments that tells me that he might like me , and we recently made out again and in front of our friends and our friends were teasing him telling him "so it's official?!" And he responded with a " not yet" what does he mean by that. He gets Jealous when we talk about me and other guys, so he makes me wonder and gets me confuse because my feeling for him came back! , thanks again :)

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      Crystal 3 years ago

      @ Jazmyn Nicole

      So I thought this shy guy likes me or likED me but now he has a girlfriend, she had to of asked him out because he is the type that would be too scared to ask the girl out cause he's extremely SHY. What is a little weird, is we both haven't had a relationship in forever, all of a sudden I get one. Go out for like only two weeks, and break up unfortunately. I think only a few days later, he all of a sudden txts me at like at 1 A.M. wondering what I was doing, he answered back really quickly, I'm not used to that, almost like he sounded desperate like he just then saw I changed my fb status back to being single. But I don't have proof. Anyway, a few weeks later all of a sudden HE TOO is in a relationship again. Is that just weird ironic coincidence? Why? What does this mean? Is he just trying to make me jealous? Cause it's working :( I have had several dreams about him and I hanging out together, I think 3 were clear it was him his voice and his looks, his size EVERYTHING! And is it destiny that he happens to live close to my best friend? I REALLLLLLLY NEEEED YOUR HELP PLZZZZ! When ever our eyes meet in the halls we usually stare longer than we should have had. But I like it, his eyes are dreamy. Plz help

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      Crystal 3 years ago

      What's the difference between love and a crush? I think I have a crush :_

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      RoseLopez7 3 years ago

      I like this guy from my church and he stares at me with a blank expression and he doesn't talk to me so one day I said hi but he never said hi back so I left and never look at me back or anything does he like me usually he not she he's very talkative but me friend said he likes my friend but I dont know

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      incorrigible 3 years ago

      thank you so much for your advice!!! what do you think i should do. And don't worry about me doing anything with him while he has a girlfriend. I'm definitely not the type. I feel horrible that the moment where we ended up so close to each other happened. I did ask him if he had a girlfriend his response was definitely a little shocked but he did say yes. ive also noticed recently that when he talks to me he talks in low tones like hes keeping the. conversation just between us. he still smiles and teases a little. but he still doesn't talk long. do you have any other suggestions on how to take it from here. I understand I need to play it out now but should I act the same or different like push him a way a little since hes taken??

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      Kate 3 years ago

      hi jazmym awesome advice u posted there! I need ur help. I Think i might be falling for my guyfriend he calls me cute names we always have snow fights and end up restling each other......yesterday when we restled he ended up on top of me and we just stared into each others eyes he leaned in for a kiss. Today he didn't talk to me at all until i went to the football game to watch him play and this guy comes up to me an gets all flirty. i started to laugh at his jokes an smile then he comes out of the nowhere and carries me to the boys change room he just looked at me for so long withought saying anything until i finally bursted into tears he tould me to stop crying an tried to confort me but i just ran away crying what do i do?

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      emily 3 years ago

      today i was laughing with a couple of my friends in our group, and one of the people in our group had just finished his relationship, and today when i was laughing i turned my head around to see the clock, but as I was doing that, i saw him leaning over the table in front of me, with his head in his hands, and was staring into my eyes with a blank expression. when i was looking at him, our gaze held for a while like.... 7 seconds but i can't tell if he fancys me or was daydreaming as his eyes were cloudy. then when i broke the stares i looked at the clock and when i looked back, it looked like he was coming out of a daydream when he turned around quickly, and didn't look happy some reason. and i don't know how long he had been staring at me before i noticed.

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      miss not-so-confused any more 3 years ago

      thanks a lot jazmyn. i found this really helpful.

      i think im falling for this guy now

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      twinkle loo 3 years ago

      Hi, I have a question which left me rather puzzled.few months ago, I knew this guy classmate from my course and we hit off rather well during the first semester.he was quite nice, sometimes giving me treats, concern about me and seems protective towards me

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      twinkle loo 3 years ago

      Actually I have a question but I'm not sure what am I supposed to do.I knew this guy friend few months ago and we were quite close.but recently he turned cold suddenly which makes me feel lost about what happened.during the school break we didn't really talk much but last semester we talked a lot and he kinda of does things like which is rather misleading like grabbing my neck, pat my head, massage my hand cos I accidentally hit on the table and asks me to find a boyfriend in school.to me, i take him as a friend though I don't how he feels.i tried to sort out cos during school reopen, didn't know what to say to him and he doesn't talk to me too.but he kinda of feeling I'm expecting him to talk and he even deleted me off Facebook.we don't even talk now and I'm puzzled.I don't know if he turns cold cos of what I said or there's more to it.

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      AngelLambert 3 years ago

      Okay, I know you explain his to realize if a guy likes you but how about if you like a guy bug he likes a distant friend of yours How can I get him to maybe like me. I'm an uglyish fat girl who plays ten ? nis and I think dirty minded, I'm not afraid to be who I want, so how can I get him to fall for who I am? Any tips or help at all? He is a perve and tall, with blue eyes, and sweet sometimes. But he's still a guy. We both love the supernatural and dark things like that. We both have just about all the same friends. I wanna date him but I don't know if we would be compatible at all either, so maybe help with that as well please. I have never dated at all! So i have no clue what to do in a relationship, what's best, how, what, when, where, why, anything at all except there is smex and kissing and stuff. But I'm 14 so none of that now. But he is so cool and sweet. I'd appreciate an answer so much and If I left a review already I cannot find it so...lol ha. :3 I'm trying but still confused and need as much help and details as possible.

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @banessa94

      You're very welcome! Any advice you need in the future, you're welcome to come back. Thank you for your kind words :) take care x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Simone B/Simm

      Hi, and yes he likes you. He looks at you, acts nervous or curious and he’s shy around you. Definitely likes you. The incident with the bus lady must have been surprising to you since you probably hadn’t expected it. But for the lady to actually tell you he looks at you a lot, that speaks a lot about him liking you or not. Guys don’t have to talk to you in order to like you. They can like you from afar, have a crush on you and you’ll never know: that’s just how boys work. And maybe he does want to talk to you but he can’t because he’s shy. For sure, this is a shy guy you’re dealing with. Guys play it cool when they like a girl whether they do it intentionally, directly, or non-directly this is one way of getting your attention. My advice would be to go up and talk to him. There seems to be a possibility for you two to get along, maybe even go further in the future. Try talking to him if you seem him again in the bus, but you’ve got to be confident about it. Don’t back down in the last minute because then you’ll never be able to talk to him. Let me know how it goes, good luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @St

      Thank you, it really means a lot that you took your time to read my article and thanks to your friends for letting you know about it!

      He likes you. But being in a regular high school, it’s hard to know sometimes when there are so many people. From all the ironic talks he’s had towards you this means he likes you. Why? Because guys are instinctive at being jerks around girls they like. But, his irony and sarcasm could be due to the fact that he saw you again and again. Maybe he thought you were being desperate or something but this is not the case. I have a feeling this guy does like you. He’s always asking who you are and a guy who isn’t interested wouldn’t waste his time trying to find out who you are. Also he teases you way too much, which to my experience means he likes you. He sounds like he’s very mean sometimes, but maybe he’s just being arrogant and very ironic. You also mention he stared at you, which means he does like you.

      My advice would be to pay attention to his attitude and actions a little bit more. Don’t look at him a lot anymore unless you really like him. If he really is interested he will show it..or hide it. He’ll try to disguise it or play it cool if he likes you because he doesn’t want to seem dumb in front of his friends. This guy doesn’t sound like a player though, so if he isn’t why don’t you try talking to your best friend about you liking this guy and convince her to get her cousin and your crush to hang out. This will be perfect because it won’t be anything to risky and you won’t look desperate or dumb. Let me know how it goes! Good luck girl x

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      hannah 3 years ago

      heyy..remember me?? well it turns out that the information I had got about that guy dating someone wasn't true... so after a lot of planning i decided to go forward and tell him my feelings through texting... and he replied saying that if I was a bit older he would have considered it.. and then after that he seemed to flirt a lot... a sort of decent flirting.... and then the very next day i come to know that he's flirting with my friend too.. so i decided to ignore it as i was tryin to get over him ... but the thing was whenever he would flirt with my friend he would text me at the same time too.. which is extremely weird!!!!

      so my friend tells me that he luks at her and even smiles at her... but he doesn't really do that to me..every time he sees me ... he acts all nervous like he has this shocking look on his face and he just keeps looking waiting just waiting for me to smile or wave..... but obviously im wayy to shy... and this happened before i confessed to ..... (so i doubt its the awkwardness)

      so the other day its been a months since I saw him ... and all i could notice was he kept looking through the corner of his eyes not directly making eye contact ..so the next day i see him again..and he dint really notice me looking at him i saw him searching for me... his eyes shifting everywhere... and when he saw me he walked a bit slower and held his look for 3 seconds i guess..and he was just looking expecting me to hello him but I dint....

      and the third time i saw him ...well i was looking in the opposite direction not really noticing him there and just as i turned to look at him i realise that he was looking for a loong time ...because that's what it looked like and just as i looked at him he turned his head immediately..... now just to show him that Im not desperate for him..I told him that Im meeting a friend of mine (guy) and he even assumted that the guy is my crush..and i agrred although he isn't. my crush so he askd me 3-4 times about him.... then he asked me to tell him somehting about the guy.. i askd him what he wanted to know and he said never mind forget it...

      soo all this really seems like really weird behaviour ....to me... for one he flirted with me ... after i confessed my feelings.... now what i dint understand is why is he flirting with my friend all of a sudden they where friends before just aqquaintences never really hello'd each other or texted much..but now he tells me their good friends...

      so i needed your opinion on what's possibly up with him.. and another thing he doesn't really reply to my mssgs instantly he replies after a day or 2.. so according to you is he just hiding his feelings or is he just playing ??

      thank you soo very much for you advice... :)

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      SarahCB 3 years ago

      I met this guy, Joe at a friends house with some other people and he was really nice, and really good looking. I already knew of him as he had gone to my old school. I said to my friend I thought he was hot so she decided to go and tell him which i thought was really embarrassing until he came up to me and said he thought the same but can't make a move as his friend liked me and he promised not to. The night went on and I really didn't like his friend from what he had said and how he had treated me in the passed, Joe and I got talking and we have loads in common then we were sitting down and he made a move to kiss me, he had been giving me looks all night and staring at me while i was giving him eye contact back. We pulled a few time (a lot!) and he was so nice to me, but i knew he was kind of a player as he was telling me two girls were texting him who are bestfriends and both like him. I pretended i didn't really care but it was kind of annoying because i was starting to like him. The next day me and my friend had to leave and he had just woken up so we didn't really get to say bye, he messaged me later that day saying 'hello you;)xxxx' but i didn't reply because i didn't have my phone on me so then he messaged me again 'have i done something?' I then replied when i got home and of course i wasn't annoyed so then we got talking and he was saying can he come and 'join me' because neither of us were doing anything. But then my phone was suspended because i went over my contract and his phone broke so neither of us could talk to each other. Then I went to meet him a week later and it was late, he was with a friend so i brought two of mine and he was being really nice but not talking to me much and i wasn't sure if i should take my friends because they were both sooooo pretty, like really hot compared to me (tall, skinny, long hair, pretty) then there was me (short, average, long hair, average again) and he knew one of them as he had met her two years ago so they hit it off straight away and i noticed they were talking more than we were :/ when we left they were saying that he had given me a longer hug at the end than them so he 'clearly' didn't like my friend over me, but i wasn't sure :/ So now im not sure if he likes me or what? he said he would meet up with me again and that he promised as his friends dad called saying that they had to go but i don't know if he just wants to meet up so he can see my friend or because he wants to see me. Theres another party next weekend and Joe wants me to go so i said i would but my two friends who came with me to meet them want to come too, and Joe's friend Jack invited them last night when we met up with them. I'm sooooooo confused and don't know what to do! is he using me? did he like me? now he doesn't? does he like my friend? does he like me? SOME ONE PLEASE HELP!!!! thankyouuuu x

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      jackiechavez 3 years ago

      My crush does all of the above and he knows I like him and he invited me to Disneyland with him do you think something might happen between us ^_^

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      Selly 3 years ago

      Hey Jazmyn sweetie! I love all of your posts. You're so sweet and awesome! But I need your help. I'll probably be typing a long story but please read it all and help me out! It's this guy that I like but I don't know if he likes me back.

      So here's how we met. I accidentally stepped on him and then he went like: "Oh and just go and step on me" in an ironic tone. A few days later I was assigned to go through the classes with my bff to make an announcement. The 1st one he just asked me a question n I answered. But I was told to go 2 more times round the classes with another friend of mine. The 2nd one he opened the door for us n he said "Oh you're these girls with the announcement, we already know what you want to say" and the 3rd one he just threw some ironic laughs and looks at me. After the 2nd time we had visited his class, he friend requested my other friend the same day on fb. Note that I don't have an account for multiple reasons. But it goes on... As I was walking with my bff during the break I stared into a window and when I turned to look the other way, I saw him sitting at a bench right under the window and he said in a loud voice: "Who's that girl I always see?"

      Then later at a seminar for a project, he sat right behind me and moved his feet in a weird way, making my chair constantly vibrating (probably on purpose). On the next seminar as I grabbed my bag to go up to my class and walked past him he said again in a loud voice: "I'm going to hit this girl" The next week I caught him staring at me and bowing a little to check if the person he saw walking down the stairs was really me. At the end of that week, I was out the class with my bff and while I was making a cute-funny dance move/gesture to my bff, he looked at me n cracked a smile, then looked away and walked to another girl, reaching her from behind. During the break, he was with that girl and a dude and as me n my bff were walking past him, he made an annoying noise. The same day we had our last seminar on the project and me n my team sat behind him. The rest of the day he was almost everywhere I went and I looked at him and he looked back, just like a lot more times that I've locked eyes with him for 1-2 seconds. But then he had to go n ruin everything, telling my bff (while she was with me) that she should speak up in the morning when she says the prayer cause whispering is annoying. I don't even remember what she answered to him, but as I went away I said loudly at him not to speak like that to her. However, I've never actually talked to him. We don't know each other, cause he's 1 year older and we're not in the same classes in High School. I know his name but I'm not sure if he knows mine.

      Can you really understand what's going on? I like him but I don't know if he likes me back. It seems to me like he's too arrogant and cocky and ironic and snob and too full of himself. But there are teachers and friends of mine that say he's a good and serious boy. Of course they don't know I like him just like my bff who thinks I hate him. What does he want from me and my life? I'm so confused. He walks in on it and the acts mean. Help me please! :)

      Love, Selly

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      banessa94 3 years ago

      thank you very much jazmyn nicole having the time to write back to me and helping me with this problem that i have thank you so much your the best

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      AngelLambert 3 years ago

      O'Kay I read this and it has helped me some but I need to make sure. Alright, well I like this guy at school, his name in here shall be John. This is not his real name but for safety reasons, yeah. O'kay well John doesn't have a phone so I can't call or text him. I'm friends with just about all his friends. Me and his little sister are friends. Well he is a huge perv, as am I. :D ha. Well he grabbed my boob in what I believe to be a show off to the seventh graders that we were hanging with. When talking with me, singing along to a song that we are playing or everyone around has choroused together to sing, he will sing along and look at me once in a while. When we talk his, good lord his wonderful light sky blue eyes focus on me and they are all I can see.

      Btw-I have taken many quizzes on I'd I like him ans if he likes me and some say yes some say no.

      Anyway, when we don't play tennis so we leave from the school and he is there, I slowly walk so we can talk since my rides always there. We talk, but its like I don't know that much about him nor he me. He knocks me on the head a few times with his drawing book. He was sad looking when he walked up so Isaid, "Hey sexy" and made him smile. He is a big flirt. His ex gf that he broke up with still likes him and a few days ago he kissed her so when I found out that day, seeing as I had prepared myself to tell him I like him, I heard that and didn't tell him. She doesn't know I like him and we aren't that good of friends. So I didn't tell her and shall not. But he talks with me. He used to poke me, but has seemed to stop. Am I being to overbearing, to trying, what should I do to try and get him go like me back. Oh when we get out to the car, I will hug my friends and he will ask, "What no hug for me" and so I give him a hug. I think I may like him more then a crush, but I cqn not tell if he likes me back or is just being hisself. Please help. I need the help. And sorry if I repeat something or say it in the wrong place, its just how it popped in my head.

      He seems like a jokester, but not to overbearing a jokester. He is Pervy, funny, nice, caring, teasing, and other stuff. Plus, why won't he ask me out if he does like me? Another thing, I live about half an hour away from him so I woukdnt be able to spend much time with him unless it is summer. And in about two years they are moving away. :'( Anywho please help me figure out the greatest mystery to woman, the man. :P lol please and thank you. Sorry if this is a waste of your time and you don't feel obligued to answer. :) :3

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      jackiechavez 3 years ago

      I have a crush and he knows I like him he does all of the above well he invited me to go to Disneyland with him so we could hang out do you think something might happen between us or he just really wants to hang out.......by the way your advise is really helpful :)

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      hannah 3 years ago

      hey remember me??

      well it turned out that the information i got about that guy dating someone else wat totally false.. which is a good thing..but I decided to tell the guy my feelings and he sed that if I was a bit older he would have thought about it..

      Well..later on i got over it.. i was totally fine and happy and we are really good friends but then i realise the immdiate next day i come to know that he starts flirting with my friend.. they dint talk much before but right after i told him my feelings he got intersted in her which is really confusing...

      but again as i said i had moved on..and was fine with it and still am :) so i tell him that ive got a crush and etc etc. and he keeps askin me about him and when i ask him what he wants to know about my crush he tells me to forget it...weird huh?!

      Anyway I saw him after a loong time since i confessed to him and what i noticed is th 1st time we came across each other he dint pay much attention but the second time..he seemed to searc for me his eyes shifting everywhere tryin to see me and as. our eyes met and he just held his look but dint turn and dint smile.. but he smiles at my friend why not me?? every time we see each oder his face looks as though hes shocked or he's seen me after a loong time..he never smiles forst im the one who has to smile first.. :P

      and the 3rd time i dint really notice him until i turned to his direction and as it felt as though he was looking for a long time but when our eyes met he held his look for a second and turned away immediately and even sat at such a way..where he could see me...

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Lindaespinoza

      Hello girlie,

      He likes you. He looks at you; sign he likes you. The situation where he was outside his class waiting and he acted surprise to see you means he likes you (this has happened to me before many times). Also, he knows your name! Complete turn on, because that means he knows who you are. However, he’s also acting cocky so he could be seeking your attention by acting this way. One thing is for sure, he likes you or he just wants your attention. Pay careful attention to his behavior from now on and let me know how it goes. Good luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Summer Dove

      This guy may like you. Most probably he does, but at the moment isn’t really looking for a relationship. He looks, glances and stares at you a lot; he likes you. However, you mention that e was labeled a player and he cheated on a girl for three years, so this tells you that you’ve got to beware. He could be grabbing your attention from you and many more girls at the same time, so just be careful. If this isn’t the case, try paying attention to his behavior when you see him. See if he only looks at you this way, or if there are any other girls he does this too. If it’s only you he gives this behavior too, it’s most likely he likes you. My advice would be to wait it out a bit and see what his behavior is like. If you are completely sure you’re the only one he treats this way then you can give him the attention you want. If you really like this guy then by all means go for it! Look at him, glance at him more, smile, and even try talking to him. You are never going to know what kind of guy he is if you two never talk. Schools’ almost out, so take advantage of the time left and actually get to know him. You could make yourself appear more approachable by smiling and waving when he looks at you. If he smirks, smiles, or even waves back he will either be flattered or try to approach you or not react to it because he is either stunned or curious. So either or if he really likes you he will show it in his actions. You are welcome to come back if you still need help! Best of luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @pam hernan

      Boys, boys, boys. They always try to mess with our minds by sending mixed signals. It's completely unfair to us, so that is why I am willing to help out ANY girl with situations of any kind. He either likes you and wants to make you jealous or likes you but doesn't want anything with you (player). He stares at you, likes most of your instagram photos, and he touches you "unconsiously" (flirting sign) : definite signs he likes you. This guy sounds like he likes you, but also likes that other girl. Or he is totally trying to make you jealous by flirting and talking to that other girl. You mention he looks at you when she's not looking, so what can that tell you? He likes you. Maybe he doesn't want anything serious with you, but he definitely finds you attractive. He gives you blacnk expressions when you both look at each other so this probably means he likes you but is curious at the same time. He also may like you because you say he paid 100% attention to you, and a guy who doesn't like a girl wouldn't pay any attention to her..so this guy likes you. However, I don't want for you to really think into him because he could be a player trying to get both of your attentions. My advice would be for you to really look at the way he is acting (currently) and to analyze if he seems to be right one for you. If it doesn't work out, let it go and try to forget this guy, he's not worth your time if he is continues to play mind games with you. It's not fair to you, and I don't want to see any girl have to go through the dumb stuff guys make us go through. good luck girlie :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @94banessa/@banessa94

      Hi, this guy likes you. You say he looks at you almost everywhere anywhere so it's most likely he likes you. He probably told his friends about you (because you may be his crush) so this is why even they look at you and smile. Or you may be very pretty that they find you attractive, but in "bro code" a friend never messes around with a guy's crush, so they look at you because this guy told them about you.

      I understand your feeling. I went through it too, but my thoughts are that you may find him attractive but wouldn't see yourself with him (yet). If he was mean to you in the past then let it go and forgive him. But if he is mean to you on a "rude" tone then he doesn't like you. But then again why would he look at you a lot if he didn't like you, right? If he is mean to you in the "teasing" tone than he likes you. Guys use this method to get your attention and most of the time they do this because they simply, just like a girl that they act on their instincts. (They act silly, dumb or jerk-like) I'd love to hear your thoughts, good luck girl x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @rayray98

      This guy likes you. The fact he's friendly towards you tells you that he likes you. He smiles, he touches your hair (flirting sign), he hugs you, this all points to the conclusion that he likes you. He also teases you a lot which tells you that he likes you. When a guy likes a girl, guys aren't always obvious or direct so they find ways to let you know without actually letting you know. Maybe he knows you like him because you've made it pretty obvious, but if he doesn't seem to be weirded out by it, then by all means go for it! But, try not to make yourself very obvious or seem to eager about it because then he could start taking you for granted or he will see it as more of a sign of neediness (which I know you're not, but most guys think differently). I'ts neutral for a guy to have a little distance if he finds out you like him, especially if he's the kind of guy who gets it all the time. This is the cockiness a guy has that makes him react this way. You mention he looked at you a few times..did he smile, or have a blank look? If he had either of these, it's most probably he likes you, but is curious to what is going on. My advice would be to try to talk to him whenever you have a chance or when you see he has a chance to talk. Try doing this, though, when both of you can talk alone. Nothing is worse than being in a busy environment where there's a lot of comotion going on. If it doesn't work out, you're welcome to come back :) good luck girl x

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      Simm 3 years ago

      He is always trying to sound cool which annoys me but I still like him which is weird cause that's a turn-off.

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      Simm 3 years ago

      I'm not sure the guy I like is interested in me. He's in one of my classes and I always feel like he's looking at me but when I look he isn't. We ride the same city bus as each other and I'm close to our bus driver on day I told I liked him (i'ved liked him for a month or two btw) she told me " That's the one who was staring at you." I'ved beentold that I'm oblivious cause I never know when guys like me. Anyway he's in my class he's usually quiet but lately he and his closefriend have been acting really dumb and stupid. He's all around and out of our class trying to be cool a lot. I barely talk to or know him but I do talk to his friend and joke with him a lot and sometimes when I'm talking to his friend he looks over and says something to me. Like one day his friend threw something at me he said " I woulda did this if was you" or something like that. I think he we made eye contact but I might be hallucinating we were both in the hallway and I think he looked at me I didn't see anyone else in th hallway anyway I started messing with and fixing my boots and then he left. It's driving me crazy that I don't know and it's making me like him more but I feel like I could be spacing. He could've been looking at anything though but idk people call me oblivious but if he if he liked he would talk to me so idk I'm confused.

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      Simone B 3 years ago

      Also btw we were in the hallway and and idk of he was looking at me but I didn't see anyone else. So, I feel like we made eye contact but I could be spacing and he could've been looking at anything a locker idk anyway I started looking at my boots and went to fix them and then he left lol I thiml I'm hallucinating but then again people say I can be oblivious but if he liked me he would talk to me.. idk

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      Simone B 3 years ago

      So, I like this guy I recently began to like him 2weeks or even a month ago. Anyway I always think he's looking at me but when I turn he looks like he's just seriously into something. This is driving me crazy the more I think about him the more I like him. He's in one of my classes I barely ever say anything to him but I know his friend who is also in my class ( they sit together) they sit in a computer station right across from my friend and I but on the same side. I talk to his friend sometimes joke with him but I don't like his friend. When I'm talking to his friend sometimes he looks over at me and says something. I ride the city bus everyday and so does he but I never say anything to him and neither does he ( we don't really know each other) I know the bus driver really well and one day I told her I liked him and she said " That's the one that was staring at you." I got all happy but even though my friend said she saw him looking at me it doesn't mean he likes me he could just be curious and my friend could be trying to make me feel better about myself. He's usually quiet but when we're in class him and his friend start acting really crazy and start saying really stupid thing's and he was going all around and out the classroom a million times acting dumb.

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      St 3 years ago

      Hey sweetie! Umm... I actually loved this text you have here. My friends told me to check it out. Awesome! I hope I don't bother you, but I really haven't got any clue of what's going on with a guy I like and I could use some help.

      So here's the deal. He's 1 year older, so we're not in the same classes at school and we don't know each other. I met him randomly when I stepped on him unintentionally to catch my friend and he said something like: "Oh and just go on and step on me" in an ironic tone. I just turned my head around saying "sorry" and then walked away with my friend. He seemed cute to me and when I was assigned to go with the same friend of mine round the classes of our whole High School to make an announcement about a project of ours, he asked me a question about it. Of course I answered typically. But then our teacher sent us round the classes 2 more times. The 2nd time he opened the door to the class for us and he said: "Oh you're the girls with this project again. We already know about it" which I thought was mean. But, he had only seen me twice before, so maybe it was a sign he remembered me. The 3rd time I went there he didn't talk, but he gave some ironic laughs and looks, I'm not sure if they were directly at me or not.

      And the story goes on... One day, as I was walking during the break with my friend, I kind of stared into a window to see what was going on without noticing that he was sitting along with some friends of his (both male and female) at the bench right under this window and as we were passing by he went: "Who's that girl I always see?" and he spoke rather loudly. Then some days later at a seminar in school for some other project, he sat right beside me and during the seminar, he was moving, causing my chair to vibrate continuously at times, and I'm thinking it was done on purpose. Then a week later, the first 2 hours of school, we had another seminar for this project and I asked permission from a teacher to run up to my class. So, as I grabbed my bag to go up and walked past the place he and his team were sitting he said: "I'll hit this girl" not pointing at me but still speaking with that same loud tone he spoke the other time at the bench, probably adressing me. Yesterday, as I was walking down the stairs, I saw him with the corner of my eye at the door of his classroom, but I was determined not to look at him. Well, I gave in at the last minute but my hair was falling to the side, so I bet he couldn't see me glancing with the corner of my eye, but I caught him kind of staring at me and bowing a little to make sure that the person he thought he had seen was me, then walking into the class.

      He is actually best friends with the cousin of my best friend (the best friend I was with at all these situations) and goes to the same school bus as her in the mornings but never talks to her. Basically, I've never talked to him either, besides that "sorry" I'd said and one time that he was trying to convince the mentor teacher of our project on one of the seminars that the theme his team had chosen was better than ours and I bumped in, saying that "of course she will support us because we are her team" in a joking way and he wasn't the only one there. There was also on of my guy friends who is in another team. I've locked eyes with him 3 or 4 times for a second or 2, but I don't know... I mean he seems a snob, arrogant, ironic, too full of himself guy to me, but I've never seen him being like that to any girl apart from me. And it seems like he is always somewhere near me, even if we don't talk an don't know each other. Note that I know his name since we're in the same school, but I don't know if he knows mine. What is going on?

      Ok, I bet I just got you tired or bored with my story, but I need some help on wether he likes me or not. I can't figure it out. Please give me some advice! By the way, I always tell my best friend how much I can't stand him, bcause he's being so bad to me and so on... Help!!! :)

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      Lindaespinoza 3 years ago

      It was helpful knowing. But I wanted to know there's this one guy that was in my math class and he acted really strange he use to look at me sometimes one day since we got out the class he was outside waiting for someone he was standing in front looking at the door and when I pass by he turn aroun and he sees me and he acted surprise. Then another day In the same math class the teacher changed our seats so she put them on the projector so when I got there I saw we're I was gonna sit then I realize he sits on back of me I was nervous so since everyone was talking about there new seat and since he new people there also the teacher was there he walks in the room an I was talkin with my friend when all of a sudden he tell me" is ur name Karen" I was like "yes " then he said " do u know we're I sit "I said "yeah u sit in the back " then at the end he smileys

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      Summer Dove 3 years ago

      sorry again i had to add something does like me or not here's the full story and y is he acting so odd i need help asap i have this crush that knows i like him from this skool we graduated from and he was a transfer and at my new skool witch he is in and his peers from his skool that he transferd from to the skool we graduated from they labeled him a player and after this i still love him and i know he cheated on a girl three years but still love him and he glances at me wenever he gets a chance i notice but these few skool days he relly doesn't he used to wait until i came out of the skool and wait until i lefted to walk home he walks a different way but now he doesn't i relly miss dis almost every person in my class know that i like him one more detail he switched classes and came to my class late march and i had to sit right next to him in english until my idiot teacher had to switch all the seats by abc order bcuz of our exams and during our exams which is tested in our english room he wood always stare at me i noticed but he didn't notice that i noticed or did he finally y does he glance at maybe once or twice directly at me and on friday last skool day i was turing my other route way and he leaned his neck to glance at me as he walked with his friends and i walked with mine y is he doing this ikinda make it look like im ignorng him and stuff one time me and my friend were talking about this boy and he was rite near and im sure he listenin now he definatnly thinks i don't like him but that's gonna change on monday im going to stare at him like he did to me so he knows i like plz help ,e sorry i wrote my life story

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      Summer Dove 3 years ago

      i need help asap i have this crush that knows i like him from this skool we graduated from and he was a transfer and at my new skool witch he is in and his peers from his skool that he transferd from to the skool we graduated from they labeled him a player and after this i still love him and i know he cheated on a girl three years but still love him and he glances at me wenever he gets a chance i notice but these few skool days he relly doesn't he used to wait until i came out of the skool and wait until i lefted to walk home he walks a different way but now he doesn't i relly miss dis almost every person in my class know that i like him one more detail he switched classes and came to my class late march and i had to sit right next to him in english until my idiot teacher had to switch all the seats by abc order bcuz of our exams and during our exams which is tested in our english room he wood always stare at me i noticed but he didn't notice that i noticed or did he finally y does he glance at maybe once or twice directly at me and on friday last skool day i was turing my other route way and he leaned his neck to glance at me as he walked with his friends and i walked with mine y is he doing this ikinda make it look like im ignorng him and stuff one time me and my friend were talking about this boy and he was rite near and im sure he listenin now he definatnly thinks i don't like him but that's gonna change on monday im going to stare at him like he did to me so he knows i like plz help ,e sorry i wrote my life story

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      banessa94 3 years ago

      Hi so I have question that I need to get solve because I don't understand myself.So there's a guy that's in my math class when I see him I smile or get nervous to look at him.I don't no why i feel like that.I know who he is because I been in classes with him he was always so mean to me.Sometimes I see him looking at mean I don't know if he likes me.But inside of me I don't feel like I like him I don't know what it is. Theirs another thing when I'm walking in the hall to go to my locker he with a group of friends they and him just look at me and smile they do that everyday.The thing is that when I look at him I get nervous or feel weird inside I don't know because I don't like him I don't know what this feeling is.Please help me to understand what's going on with me please I will thank you so much if you explain me this problem.

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      pam hernan 3 years ago

      ok so there's this guy i really like and at first i wasn't sure he liked me but now i think he does, but he keeps sending me mixed signals!!

      -ok so he always stares at me

      -he likes my photos (of me) on instagram

      - one time he grabbed my waist because our class went rollerblading (i didn't know how to) but like he just came up from behind me (i didn't know it was him, my friends told me after)

      but the problem is he also likes this other girl, and he is much more touchy (with her) and talks to her more and he basically likes ALL of her instagram photos ( he also always comments on them) and flirts with her

      but i don't think she really likes him that much (btw they're not dating). I'm so confused is he using me to make her jealous?! but its strange because whenever he stares at me he does in when she's not looking

      and we make eye contact for about 3 seconds but then i turn away because it starts to get awkward and he gives me this sort of blank expression because usually when i turn to look at him it's because he's looking at me, but usually when i'm the first one to look at him he's not looking. Also we've only talked like once and it was for like 5 minutes (and they're we're other people sort of like a group conversation) and the whole time he didn't say much but he paid 100% attention to me.

      PLEASE HELP IM SO CONFUSED!!!

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      94banessa 3 years ago

      Hi i have some question please help me theres a guy at my class that i seen looking at me and the hall ways.at the hallway he always around with his friends and when i pass them and go to my locker i see that they just look at me its everyday that they do that.i want to know why they always look at me.theres another thing i don't know what i feel for him i don't think i like him he was always mean to me please help to understand

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @jazmyn

      Anytime!

      Hmm, I’m a bit lost here. Did you post a past article already? I’m guessing you have since you say it didn’t go as you had planned. So from what I see, this guy used to be your old crush and you don’t want to get involved because it will end up affecting the way their relationship rolls right now. Best thing for you to do would be to try to avoid any type of contact with this guy so that he can start getting the message that you’re not interested. Or you can always do the right-style, which is telling him to his face. But let him down gently without you telling him things that might get him mad or oblivious about. Just take in consideration that if you do end contact with this guy there are two things that are going to completely change. 1) Whenever both of you are nearby, expect things to feel awkward as well as when you’re with your friends. 2) If you tell anyone besides your friends about your current-real crush, this guy might find out and when he knows who your crush really is, things between him and his friend might get tense, even if your crush never knew what happened between you and his friend. My best advice would be to tell this guy you don’t like him because you just want to be friends and to think really deep about how what you say might affect their friendship. It’s not your fault that this is happening this way, so never blame yourself. Just try to take things cautiously and keep calm; try doing what I proposed above though. Good luck girl! :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @kimberly

      That’s good to hear! All of us girls want to know these signs and sometimes it’s pretty tricky, don’t you think? But I’m glad I could help because you deserve to know these signs even if they’re being said from a girl’s point of view. Any advice, you’re welcome to come back! Thanks for reading! Greatest of luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @confused

      Anytime!

      That’s how all types of relationships begin, with both individuals being good friends. For your luck, I’ve been in this situation before (except for the dancing part). He liked you, at the beginning he did. Now he seems to have lost interest. Or he really liked you, but didn’t see much in common between both of you. Don’t worry though! It’s not you, you’re still beautiful, but it’s him that’s changed. Guys who might have really liked a girl, but saw something wrong, will generally drift away, push you away (by avoiding you) or will just cut contact with you in a blink of an eye. When did both of you go to this dance together? Was this during the time both of you got along great or when both of you stopped talking as much as you used to? Is he avoiding you in any type of way (texting, facebook, etc,.) ?

      My point is, he liked you, but maybe something went wrong and he didn’t feel comfortable with it. Do you have any idea what might have gone wrong? He might still like you, but like I said he might have tried to move on fast, because he doesn’t want to get involved at the moment. Love to hear your response, good luck :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @incorrigible

      You are very welcome; I try to be realistic and descriptive when it comes to so many different ways that might relate to people out there :)

      Sometimes guys aren’t or try to not be obvious when they like a girl or thinks she’s attractive. Why? Because guys are natural “feeling-hiders” or they try to play it cool to not seem obvious. Anyway, this guy does like you. Signs such as glancing, looking directly in the eye and smiling, holding stares and paying very much attention to you points to the fact that he is interested. Him taping his lips or covering his mouth actually means he is trying to be funny but not direct. Don’t take it seriously….unless he looks at your lips when you both are talking (this means he wants to kiss you)…anyway, off the topic there. Yes, from all the situations you’ve mentioned, this guy likes you, and the fact his eyes had this wet glossy look means he likes you.

      Now, you are a student and he is a teacher. The age difference is a bit too long, but you say both of you are adults so there’s not a lot to look down on. But, he does have a girlfriend and a girl should never mess with a guy who is already in a relationship. Maybe he just wants attention or is having issues, and is making him act this way. It’s usual relationship attitude. You wouldn’t want to feel that way if you were in her place, right? So, why don’t you give it some time, and ask him if he has a girlfriend. Asking him directly will most probably catch him off guard and he will either: be honest or will act surprised. Since you really like this guy though, really think about things, before moving on any further. I’d love to hear from you soon, good luck :) x

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      rayray98 3 years ago

      Hi! I came across your post, cause I have a crush... haha. Im a freshman in highschool and this guy is a senior. I have talked to him a couple of times and he was very friendly, and kept smiling at me. There was a time where he touched my hair while walking past me, he also has came up to me and hugged me. Once he hugged me from behind. One more point would be that I asked him if he had any pets in a conversation and he answered "Yeah, I have a dog... named Rachel" and Rachel is my name. This past week, i had my friend which he didn't know ask him on facebook if he had a girlfriend. He replied saying "Haha, yeah tell Rachel I do." I thought that was kinda weird... haha. That following day, he came up to me and asked me if I knew the person who asked him that question, I agreed. Continuing on with his questioning, I didn't look up at him. A few seconds later he was like "Rachel, my eyes are up here." I looked up to see him grinning. Okay, Before that my friend told him in person I thought he was hot. So now i'm pretty positive he knows I like him. Ever since then I feel like he is keeping a little distance between me and him. Yesterday I caught him looking at me a few times.... Im really confused. What should I do?? Thanks! :)

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      jazmyn 3 years ago

      thanks for your advice ......but well things didn't go as i planned. Me and my two other friends were talking to my crushe's friend and he tould my friend that he likes me, he use to be my old crush and i don't know what to do i don't want to ruin there friendship and i like his friend.....HELP!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @michael

      Thank you for reading my article, means a lot!..Coming from a guy :)

      A little heads up, if the girl looks at you and smiles, you’ve got no reason to think you’re a weirdo for looking. I’m saying this from experience, as a girl, we tend to smile at those we like, whether it be physically or by their personality. Personally, guys who seem interested and then uninterested at the same time will most likely lose their chance to catch their eye again. She’ll most likely think you were cool looking but turned that ego “switch” on, so she’ll most likely lose interest. It doesn’t matter if you look mean-looking, it’s just who you are, so don’t change it for anyone, or if it bothers you, try smiling more at people. Try putting yourself out there and try socializing with people, never know might end up finding a girl you like and vice versa. Good luck!

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @Kim

      Thanks for the flattering compliment and for taking time to read my article :)

      Wait so your best friend talks to your crush? If she does, then why don’t you try asking her to help you out. And you mentioned that he knows you like him, that he said he didn’t like you that way, but you both have never spoken before? And both of you have been alone together and don’t talk? Like at all? That’s strange. I’m guessing he told you this through your friend, right? Him giving you worried looks as a result of his rejection towards you tells you that just because he doesn’t feel the same way, doesn’t mean you both can’t be friends. Any honestly, it wasn’t like he was rejecting you, it’s more like he doesn’t have experience or knows much about situations like these, since you mention that he has never had a girlfriend before. A guy who uses signs such as staring into a girl’s eyes, giving curious, worried, blanks looks mostly likely does care about a girl. Why? Because if he didn’t, he’d probably blow you off just like a player does. But since you nicely repeated he isn’t a player (which he clearly doesn’t sound like one) he could just possibly be trying to decipher what he really wants. Have you tried observing if you’re the only girl he sees that way? You have to decide whether you want to talk to this guy, want to wait and be patient, or give up. It’s really up to you, but I advise you to get all that beautiful confidence within you and go up and talk to him. Literally, this will be the only way you’ll ever get anything going. And for right now, stop worrying about whether he likes you or not, you’ll figure this out once you get to know him. It’s not all about appearances, two beautiful personalities are always attracted to each other. Remember if you want this guy to start talking, you’ve got to be self-confident, forget about the freezing up when you see him, and tell yourself you’re good enough, for anyone. Good luck, :) x

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      kimberly 3 years ago

      thanks this really help now I could know if the boy I like likes me because I went to a school dance and the boy I like was staring at me like15 times and when he was dancing to (:

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      confused 3 years ago

      really need your advice! thanks!

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      confused 3 years ago

      Before, we used to be pretty good friends. he used to make fun of me (silly jokes) and I used to see him look at me. I went to a dance with him AS FRIENDS and we danced, but i don't think we both had a great time...it was a bit awkward and he didn't want to dance with me the whole time, and tried to avoid me. It's been a week after the dance and we haven't talked that much..and he's been avoiding me...does he like me? and what is going on with us?

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      incorrigible 3 years ago

      Hello, first off id like to say that i liked that your signs had a lot of detail in it. Secondly I would like to pick your brain on knowing if this guy likes me. He looks at me more sometimes rather than others as far as getting glances... at least from what I am able to see. which isn't much sometimes when i am trying to work in class. But when he talks to me he generally always looks me directly in the eye with a smile. The other times he will look down at the ground or off to the side and then meet my eyes but after that hes usually walking away to get to his next class. And what confuses me the most is that he doesn't do just one eye contact trait. Sometimes he will look at me and smile and I look back at him and smile and we can sometimes hold it for quite some time. Generally its him that breaks it off because of someone asking a question and he just chuckles then focuses his attention to who ever is asking. And sometimes I can feel him looking at me and I look up to see if its true and to meet his gaze and when our eyes lock he just chuckles and looks away and will start tapping his lips or has his hand on his mouth. That was the first time i noticed he did that. Not sure if it means anything. On another day I was standing up working on a project in class and I got the feeling i was being looked at from behind so i turned around and saw him and a student trying to ask him a question but his eyes were looking me up and down with a smile on his face and fingers on his lips and when his eyes reached mine he maintained the same look and chuckled and looked away and started to focus on the girl. On another day in the middle of class we were talking about something and i don't remember what it was but the next thing i know we are like an inch or two apart from each other and he has to be slightly hunched over because i am very short and he is average height and our faces were maybe 4 or 5 inches apart and when I looked at his expression he had a smile on his face and his eyes had a weird wet glossy look to them. After a couple seconds i regained control and broke eye contact with him and backed up a bit while breathing a little hard, i hadn't realized i hadn't been breathing during this time, and he said in a low voice "take deep slow breaths." He teases me but generally he wont do it in front of anyone. He is starting to talk to me more than what he did before which was zero. No ground breaking subjects really and they generally arent lengthy. Oh! and i am a student attending college in oklahoma and he is my teacher. And he has a girl friend. I like this guy a lot. There is just something about him. He is fifteen years older than me and i know dating your teacher is frowned apon but he wont be my teacher forever and we are definitely both adults( and have been for quite a few years .) Please tell me your thoughts. Id love to hear what you think.

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      michael 3 years ago

      when i like a girl i for some reason don’t look at them or when i do my heart will drop and i won't look anymore because i think she’s like "look at that weirdo he keeps on staring at me." so i stop so it's very hard to know if i like you or not which is bad for me plus i look really mean and don’t talk

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      kim 3 years ago

      oh jazmyn

      btw hes not a player hes never dated anyone theres this girl whos liked him for 3 years she asked him out more then 8 times this year he doesn't like her and hes politely said it to her face-to-face and after he says it to her he turns to look at me and smiles. hes really friendly polite respectful and loves sports (not a player)

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      kim 3 years ago

      hey jazmyn

      i really need your awesome advice......theres this guy whos a year older then me and he knows i like him and my best friend likes his friend so every time us 4 are together theres this tension in the air my friend talks to my crush while me and my friends crush stay on the side but im really confused because he said he didn't like me like that and since he tould me he didn't like me he would always look into my eyes hes given me worried looks like he might actually care about me and its really awkward when we are alone together because we just stare into each others eyes for waaaay longer then 10 seconds but he doesn't smile just a curiouse look my friends keep telling me to talk to him , be patient, or give up but we have never talked to each other before and when i try to i just totally freeze i really wanna get to know him better but im such a wimp what should i do?

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      pearl jazmyn 3 years ago from Texas

      @crushy

      Anytime :)

      How long has this been happening and what was the period of time it took for this to start happening if I may know? (Referring to the no smiling at each other anymore) Definitely, if he looks from the corner of his eyes towards where you are, this means he is interested just doesn’t want to directly let you know he is paying attention to you. And yes, it means that he wants to know if you’re looking or paying attention to him; typical behavior on a guy who cares about his surroundings. He sounds like the supposedly “loved important guy” if he’s always surrounded by people especially friends. But you know what? Don’t let this stop you from talking to him. My honest-but-real advice would be for you to gather all that girl-powered confidence and go up to him. There’s nothing more attractive and jaw-dropping then showing people just how much you’re capable of. (Especially, since you attend a medical training school.) Go up to his little group and make sure you get his attention, if not everybody’s attention and let him know that “You’d like to talk to him”. Make sure you do this is the naturalist way you can; don’t try to look like you tried too hard though. This will totally tip him off his ego-filled balance and will most probably end up working for you.

      The fact he tries to ignore you, or seem uninterested in what you have to say or do just shows how much his ego means to him. He is most probably trying to play some type of game with you, whether it is directly or indirectly, but he is honestly coming off as that. But this can totally also mean that he is interested, just doesn’t want to make it clear enough or obvious. If his best friend likes you, and you honestly don’t like him and aren’t giving him any hope, that’s very good because the last thing i would ever tell you to do would be to hurt an innocent person who would obviously not deserve to get hurt out of ignorance or paybacks to make your crush jealous. Just let this guy (his bff) know that you’re not interested or let him know that you’d love to just be friends.

      Just go up to him casually and ask to talk to him, or just go straight to the point. Let him know that you’d like to get to know each other, or give him your number. If he is interested he should be able to get in contact with you, without having to make up some dumb lame excuse. You’re not cheap, clingy or even freaky if you do what I just mentioned. Do you know this guys’ name? If you do then you should obviously have no problem finding him on Facebook. If you don’t then you should probably start by finding out what his name is. Then try contacting each other through Facebook, this would be your last source to have any type of communication with this guy. The age gap is no biggie, since it’s only one year difference. Try all of the tips I gave out, they should work since they’ve been helpful and successful many times before :) hope everything works out, good luck x

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      crushy 4 years ago

      When there is someone between us he leans forward at least once to catch a glance and again if I look back he moves away his sight!

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      crushy 4 years ago

      Dearest Jaz,

      Indeed I need ur kind and honest opinion. There is this guy, who I have a huge Crush on. We are in the same year of medical school. Well initially We used to look and smile at each other but then he stopped smiling back si I did stop too. However I can't stop myself from stealing a glance every now and then. Whenever our sights bums we abruptly change our direction of vision.

      I don't know why he steals a glance, he also at times looks from the corner of his eyes. Is it more caz he wants to see whether I look at him or not? The main problem is that he is always with his male friends and doesn't approach any girls unless they r his family or old friends.

      Another problem is that I can't get to talk to him cause he is always never alone. I tried telling him recently that the doc was asking 4 his early attendence, he replied vaguely and moved off to his friends.

      The third problem is that his best friend seems interested in me, He keeps looking at me and awaits a chance to talk to me but I am not giving him any!

      How to approach my crush without sounding cheap,clingy or freaking him out. Is my drooping glance annoying him? He doesn't try to approach me, however initially he seemed to since when we were writing our names down once, He observed the list of the names(that was full of guys except 4 two girls) for a long time before finally writing down his name!

      I am dying to get his facebook account, yet can't trust any friend to know it. Plus he is a pampered one among his friends so never comes with books or sheets so can't ask anything related to assignments. I am 25 n he is 26.

      Please tell me what should be my next step, we got another week 4 these lectures to finish and our ways are to part!

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Rebecca Sun

      Yes, if his eyes dilate it means he likes you. It could mean he likes you, feels uncomfortable in your presence or he is super happy to see you. It all depends on which way you think he looks more like when you talk or look at him. Eyes dilating is a big sign he likes you and now that you mention it, I will make sure to include it in my article. It's most likely he's intrigued by you so his eyes dilating when he sees you means he likes you :)

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @crushy

      I want to thank you so much for your kind words, it's such a pleasure to help people like you out, thanks and take care! Any advice you need I'll be glad to help you out :)

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      Rebecca Sun 4 years ago

      When a guys eyes dilate does it mean that they are interested in you?

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      crushy 4 years ago

      Dearest and Respected Jaz,

      I don't have enough words to thank you 4 this awesome Article.:)

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Tessa

      Anytime and ah, happy related birthday!

      If he saw the message then it probably means his ego took over. There is really no other explanation for it. He probably thought that you wouldn’t notice but I’m glad you did. Don’t look into it or praise it too much, I don’t think that’s good to your esteem. Even if this guy is so good, he shouldn’t have all the attention he probably takes for granted.

      I understand you didn’t tell your dad about this situation so it is going to be very awkward if you two still don’t talk before the big day comes. You still have some time ‘till summer arrives so maybe just wait it some more. If he honestly is interested he should have put effort into it. He should have tried to talk to you since the beginning. And the perfect “non-relationship” would be if he actually tried talking to you and got to know you rather than ignoring or avoiding you. Honestly, he is just a guy and no matter how much he seems like the guy you want, a girl should never feel like she is not good enough. Gather some of that confidence and walk up to him if you really want to get over that awkwardness between both of you. That is honestly the only solution to your dilemma. You’re not weird for trying to talk to this guy and if he doesn’t get that you want to be friends, then you probably shouldn’t waste any more time on him. Anyway, I understand that your question is how to deal with that upcoming event you won’t be able to avoid. So why don’t you just try what I suggested: Act confident and go up to him, this is the only way that I know for sure will get you to actually realize what is going on. If he wants to stick around and talk, then he’s worth it and to make this easier for you let him know you’re looking forward to that event in the summer, he should know about it. good luck x

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      Tessa 4 years ago

      Thanks Jazmyn. You so kind for helping out.

      To answer your questions: yes, we go to the same university. And he definitely saw the message that morning. The timestamp said so.

      He doesn't get on Facebook much at all so that might be it. And also I am pretty sure that he gets messages like that a lot.

      But anyway. Between my last post and now the band was raising money for their next album and they were selling all of these really cool things, like chances to hang out with them and stuff. My birthday was recently and my dad knows how much I like them so without telling me (and without knowing about the weirdness between me and Bryant) he donated so that I could have a songwriting session with them this summer. And I'm worried its gonna be really awkward lol. Just because of all of the weirdness that has gone down. I mean we have a lot in common and I think had all of this not happened, it would be perfect. But at this point I'm just worried that I'm gonna seem more weird than I already seem. And I write songs a lot and our style and genre is similar so I'm not worried about that, just the social aspect of it.

      Do you have any advice for that inevitable interaction? lol

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Brianna

      Hey :)

      You’re very welcome, I’m glad to have helped out :D

      I mentioned confidence, because it’s actually the key to all relationships and situations out there. I’m glad that this did not end in a disaster for you because you deserve nothing but the best. See if he honestly likes you then he must effort into it, which I see he did so I am glad. And that sounds great, just don’t forget to take the relationship slow, trust me. If you do then great things will come. You’re welcome :) greatest of luck x

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Tessa

      Hello and thank you for your positive feedback :) glad I could help!

      This guy sounds like he is playing hard to get. Or maybe he’s just shy because he likes you but doesn’t know how to approach you. Five months? That is way too long to not have any type of communication with this guy. Popularity, god believer, humbleness, sweet, goofiness? Sounds like the perfect guy any girl would want. However, the fact that he hasn’t tried to move on to talking terms tells you he isn’t that interested (but does like you) or his ego means a lot to him (from the many girls liking him and finding him attractive) that he just lingers enough to make you feel good and then leaves you wondering what happened. Funny thing, I just met a guy who’s named Bryant as well …..anyway, the fact he asked all these questions means he is interested to know you because he puts out effort to make a conversation with you. To better understand this, do both of you live in the same town or attend a university? The fact he noticed you at these worships, looked at you many times and quickly looked away tells you he likes you. You must have really liked him to have made the first move, which isn’t always a bad thing because it makes you look confident about yourself, even though everybody says that it puts you in the weaker position, but it totally doesn’t! The fact he never answered even after your sincere comments means he probably doesn’t get on it too much? Or maybe he has a big ego? To help out, if this message you sent was sent recently Facebook actually allows you to see if and when the person saw the msg…to do this just go to the conversation you started or msg you sent and see if it says : ex. “Seen at …(whatever time it says)” if it does, he saw it, if it doesn’t, it means he has not seen it yet. If he by any chance has not seen it you can actually delete the msg before it reaches his eyes, but to delete it you would have to get on facebook messenger and tap/hold the msg and it will give you two options whether to ‘copy/delete’, choose delete. If he retweeted your tweet, it must have meant something to him then. That should be awkward, seeing each other so often and still no talking or a single “hi”? The fact the glances have turned into stares shows that maybe he is interested in you, but that is still weird. Why don’t you try saying hi sometime, it wouldn’t hurt anyone, and if he reacts to this in a friendly attitude then take it from there by talking about anything you’d like. He gives you curious blank looks; he likes you girl! Trust me that’s from experience, and his staring is another sign as well. Did he give up his worship services for baseball? The age gap doesn’t matter, because he doesn’t know your age, unless you’ve told him already. And hold on in there, you’re going to be fine girl, why don’t you try doing some of your favorite things to get your mind off this guy? Hang out with friends, watch a movie, meet other guys :) enjoy yourself and move on if he seems to not be worth it! Don’t worry, I took a good read and you’re welcome girlie :) good luck x hope to hear from you soon!

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Hazza525

      No worries girl, it’s confusing at first but now you know :)

      The fact that this guy hugged you for a long time could indicate that he likes you but once again this could be his sneaky way of getting you hooked even more. Were his expressions vague or maybe honest? Was he hiding it from others’ view or was he letting it out in public? The fact he touched your hand knowing there IS space between you two shows he is being flirty and wants you to react back by going along with it or creating some type of spark (excitement) between both of you. I’ve been through these type of situations, and thank god I was very awake and aware of these type of guys, all they want is attention and summarizing from all this he sounds like a player. If you really like him try saying hi to him when you see him in the hallways, and see what his reaction is…see if he says hi back to you in an excited way or if he just blows it off like nothing. The first one says he likes you and the second one obviously point to him not liking you. And that’s good; never let a player play with you! That’s the girl power we should all have, you’re welcome and yes anytime feel free to come back :) good luck

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      Brianna 4 years ago

      jazmyn nicole i just wanted to come back and say thank you so much for your help before you got me to start thinking about what i would do if he asked me out and working on being more confident and at our social he asked me to slow dance 3 times and on the third time we danced he asked me out my friends made a big deal out of the first slow dance especially and it bothered me at first but i do like him so it doesn't bother me now now he has my phone number and we are dating so i just wanted to thank you :)

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      Tessa 4 years ago

      PS... In case it matters, he is 22 and I just turned 19.

      Thanks!

      Tessa

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      Tessa 4 years ago

      Hi,

      First of all, great article. It really caused things to start making a little bit more sense. So thank you for posting! But I'd also like some specific advice.

      I've had this really strange non-relationship (for lack of a better word) with this guy for about five months. He is a really popular guy on campus. He's in a Christian band that is really catching on. His personality (from what I can gather from just being around him some) is really humble, sweet, goofy, and maybe a little bit shy? A lot of girls like him and find him attractive.

      I met his band in October by chance when my roommate and I accidentally walked in on them rehearsing. They were really sweet about it, and Bryant (the guy) was quick to shake my hand and start asking me questions ("What year are you?" "Do you like school here?" "Where are you from?"). We found out that our hometowns were really close and he even asked me about my high school and stuff. He didn't say anything to my roommate, but it wasn't that he was shunning her. It was more like he just didn't see her or something.

      Then he started noticing me at this worship service that we both go to. I would catch him glancing at me three or four times per service, but he would always look away. After one such service I decided to message him on Facebook, which in retrospect was probably a really stupid thing to do, but I have social anxiety and I am really terrified of approaching people I don't really know. So it was after a service that he sang at and I just thanked him for the music and expressed an interest in getting coffee or playing music together sometime. He never answered me back. But he did retweet something I posted about the service?

      Anyway, very long story short, since then I have been seeing him so frequently just in passing that it's like we are unintentionally stalking each other. Like it's gotten to the point where it's not uncommon for me to see him three or four times in one day in random places. And at the worship service, his glances have turned into stares. He smiled once but mostly he just has the "blank and curious look" that you described. We hold eye contact for about 1-4 seconds before I look away, and that happens about two or three times per service. He is a seemingly social person but he won't come talk to me. He just stares.

      The only place I saw him was at this worship service, but now he doesn't come anymore because he plays baseball and has games on the night when we have it. So I'm not sure what to do in this situation. It's just gotten really frustrating because it has lasted so long.

      Thank you in advance. I apologize for the length of this.

      -- Tessa

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      Hazza525 4 years ago

      Thank you (I was really confused because I didn't know that comments disappeared after posting so I commented twice haha)

      Yesterday, our teacher made us all sit in a circle and he put me right next to him.

      He hugged me when I sat down and hugged me really tight refusing to let go when I stood to leave when the activity was over.

      We were also reading our textbook in the same position (me next to him) and his arm was touching mine as well as his fingers when there was obviously enough space on the other side.

      However, again, I would see him in hallways but he never seems to notice me. I don't know if he seriously didn't see me both times, (the first time it was a crowded club meeting with his back to me and the second time my friend was blocking me from his view)

      I'll keep in mind that he's probably a player (read your great article btw) but I will keep you posted!

      Thank you

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Cryssie/@Hazza525

      Thanks for taking your time to read my article :) And yes, I’d love to help out in any way I can.

      From what I’ve read this literally sounds like a player-type situation.

      However, he does like you because he took his time to meet you and get to know you. You say he touches you a lot, he teases you and he texts you saying flirty things like that; absolute signs that he likes you. BUT he does say things to you in a “playful” manner that to many could be taken the wrong way, maybe like you have. Guys who are serious about a girl, won’t tell her they love her and not mean it, especially if he asks for you to say it back. Also the fact he changed the subject to the same thing, means that he just wants to have the affection from somebody at the moment. You also say he is really nice, be careful this is how players act to get a girl hooked. Or maybe this is his way of showing his friendliness; it’s up to you to see which way you take it. He’s a player because he puts his arm around other girls, has many female friends whom he probably treats the same way, and the fact that he has never texts first just tells you that he isn’t interested enough that he’d put his effort into it. Also, the fact that he doesn’t leave his friends to come talk to you shows just how much his ego means to him. If he didn’t talk to you at all during the day, even if you both were in the same atmosphere, he most probably wasn’t paying attention to you.

      My main point is: he likes you, but he isn’t taking it seriously, because he’s a player. You shouldn’t waste your time on him girlie; you deserve waaay better than this person. If you seem to need more advice, read my article: Signs He’s a Player; Avoiding Them

      Greatest of luck and let me know how it goes :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Sandy

      Hi, Sandy thanks for reading my article

      There’s nothing wrong with telling others who you like especially if you’re open about it. But by the way you express yourself about it, it looks like this was a mistake that you learned from now. When something like this happens, it’s normal for the “rumor” to reach the person it’s directed to and not always are things going to be the same between both persons. He might’ve liked you because he actually took his time to walk with you to wherever it was you were headed to and he made you laugh which is a strategy a guy uses to get the attention of a girl he likes. Now he might have liked you until this rumor got to him, maybe it made him feel uncomfortable or he doesn’t like all the attention it’s giving him. This is a normal reaction a guy gets, or he could be feeding his ego to please others. When a guy is mean to you, it really depends on what type of “mean” you’re referring to. Is it the playful-mean tease (he likes you) or a straight-up mean type of way? It’s up to you to depict this way of behavior. Yes, if he ignores and teases you this is a MAJOR sign he like you (trust me from past experiences on guys). Maybe he does feel the same way, just like I mentioned above, but he is being pressured by society (friends).

      Look try this: Don’t talk to him anymore, as much as it’ll probably hurt you in some way, do it. Notice if after a few days that you cut all contact with him he reacts to it, by this I mean him looking at you a lot, trying to talk to you, wondering why you’re not trying anymore, etc.,. The fact that he ignores your trying to make conversation just shows that his ego might be at risk or that he just isn’t that interested. It’s typical for a pressured guy to do all these confusing rude things, but you just have to ignore it and move on. You say he looked at you a lot and he complimented your outfit; he did or still does like you. If he ignores you way too much and he doesn’t really want to talk to you then maybe you shouldn’t look that much into it and move on; girl you deserve someone worth your time! And about the flirting part…did he talk to you like a lot-a lot, were you both very close friends, was there a lot of chemistry between both of you? Take these questions in mind and let me know what you think :) good luck girlie! x

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      Hazza525 4 years ago

      Hi!! I found this to be really helpful but I still have some questions and I was wondering if you could help me??

      There's this guy in my class that I like and we've become great friends this year. (we are freshmen in high school)

      But recently, I started to wonder if he liked me.

      He tends to touch me a lot, like put his arms around me, put his hand over mine, hug me, play thumb wars lol etc.

      He texts me saying that he loves me but it's always playful and teasing (or I think it is) and usually asks me to say it back.

      (ME: i looove les mis HIM: i looove you

      ME:what was the hw? HIM: *changes the subject* ME: um HIM:i love youu ME:what was the hw? HIM:say you love me too)

      He teases me a lot, too, like unplugging my keyboard when we are at the lab, etc.

      He's really nice though, and is always willing to help me out.

      At first I thought he was a friendly guy but now I'm starting to wonder...

      But I have seen him put his arm around another girl,

      he has a lot of female friends, who he calls and texts,

      I've never called him and he never texts first,

      he's never left his friends to come talk to me,

      he usually doesn't talk to me during class unless we are sitting next to each other, (like today we didn't talk AT ALL)

      and I don't really know if he stares at me because I sit diagonally in front of him.

      so maybe he's just flirty/friendly??

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      Sandy 4 years ago

      I told people who I liked, and they ended up telling other people. Now I'm not sure if my crush likes me or not. We talked a lot and he always makes me laugh. But then like a couple weeks ago, things started getting awkward and he started being kinda mean to me. Some people say this might be a sign he likes me, if he sometimes ignores you and teases you. But I might also think that he knows I like him and doesn't feel the same way. I'm not sure what to do and I've tried making conversation with him but he just kinda ignores it and turns away. He does this like every other week so I don't know what's wrong with him. I used to think he liked me cause he looked at me a lot and said things about my shoes and outfit. But I don't know now if he was flirting or not. I don't know how he is around other girls either.

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      Cryssie 4 years ago

      Hi, I read your article and found it helpful, but I still need help...

      There's this guy in my class and we've become great friends this year. (we are freshmen in high school)

      But recently, I started to wonder if he liked me.

      He tends to touch me a lot, like put his arms around me, put his hand over mine, hug me, play thumb wars lol etc.

      He texts me saying that he loved me but it's always playful and teasing (or I think it is) and usually asks me to say it back.

      He teases me a lot, too, like unplugging my keyboard when we are at the conputer lab, etc.

      He's really nice though, and is always willing to help me out.

      At first I thought he was a friendly guy but now I'm starting to wonder...

      But I have seen him put his arm around another girl,

      he has a lot of female friends, who he calls and texts,

      I've never called him and he never texts first,

      he's never left his friends to come talk to me

      so maybe he's just flirty??

      I like him, but I don't know what to do.

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Jessica

      First of all, he does like you. But, beware that this guy might be a player..check out my article on my profile on players, if you can. He stares at you and calls you pretty, then he likes you. But he could be calling you pretty to get you caught up and interested in him even more. He might call you pretty because he wants to get you to "trust" him so that he finds ways to touch you and you won't feel awkward about it. If he doesn't look at you when you talk to him he might either be nervous, intimidated, or he simply isn't being honest with you. He could also be hiding what he thinks of you by avoiding your eyes/gaze and looking down at the floor. It's up to you to decide which one fits what really happens when you two are talking. If he says those kind of things to other girls and disrespects them, imagine just how bad he'll talk about you or to you. Don't get involved with him, if your friend is telling you the truth. And is this 'friend' a close friend or is she just a friend? Are the dirty jokes toward you or her? From the looks of it he does like you, but he could also be a heartless player. Good luck, and let me know how it goes! :) PJN x

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      Jessica 4 years ago

      Hey jazmyn,

      I like this guy who I also catch him staring at me, calls me pretty and tries many different ways to touch me like when we went ice skating with a group of friends he would hold my hand and different stuff like that. But what I don't get is that when I talk to him he doesn't look at me in the eyes and looks at the floor. Is he shy with me or what? And a downside is that my friend tells me that he makes dirty sex jokes to her when I'm not around. I don't know if he likes me.

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Brianna

      This boy DOES like you. Whether the girlfriend part is true or not, he definitely likes you. Maybe he's confused about her, but he still finds you attractive. Since you say you talk to him several times, why don't you ask him yourself (about the gf part). See what he tells you, and if he does have a gf, then let him go. It'll be hard, but you don't want to get involved with a guy who has a girlfriend. Simple: if he stares, he asks you to dance, and he actually spends his time to talk to you, he likes you! Being home schooled is actually not a bad thing, and at your age I don't think it'll be easy finding that perfect guy, since middle school is the stage where you all are still growing up. Anyway, good luck and let me know how it goes! :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Jackie

      Hmm, first of all have you tried talking to him? If you haven't then go up to him, where's that confidence , girl? :) Show that girl power, if you make the first move, he'll find you as more outgoing than shy and reserved. But don't worry girl, I went through the same exact situation once before, and I couldn't find a way to actually talk to him. Just go up to him and say "Hi", and if he's cool with talking to you then take it from there. If you say you're always with your sister, but you don't know who he is looking at, try to take your sister with you a few times after you've already talked to him, and introduce her to him. If he likes her, he'll show it, If he doesn't he'll most likely talk to you more. If he does like her DO NOT put yourself down, you're worth so much more girlie. Plus, there's tons of guys out there, and even if he is super attractive, you'll always find that true guy who wants you and just you. good luck, and let me know how it goes! :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @hannah

      That's great! Referring to the letting go part. You shouldn't have to go through this or even deal with a guy that is involved with another girl. Don't worry girlie you'll find a guy who truly accepts you without having to give all the negative signs/vibes. His staring or even looking has to obviously decrease due to the fact that he is in a relationship. Really love has no age but since it means s much to him it's better to not focus on him. And yes, his friends do look at you because he said something..but don't you worry it's not worth paying attention to that. Normally when a guy plays around with a girl he'll forget her the next day or a couple days afterwards. You're totally welcome girl, good luck girlie! :) x

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @Jpanaro982

      That's great, I'm very glad I could help you! If you have any type of question, I'll help you in any way I can, x

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      Brianna 4 years ago

      okay so i kinda need help i'm in 7th grade and have only been in school a month and a half ( i have been home schooled the rest of my life) there is a boy in my gym class and in Spanish if we combined with the next door class in the first 2 weeks there was a social i went to and after all the slow songs were done he asked me to dance also when ice skating this Friday with the school he and i were talking and ice skating together a lot and because my socks were too low my ankles hurt and he would come talk while i sat to give them a break also i have caught him staring when we are in the same class we got teased about looking like we are dating when skating and I've heard from a somewhat friend that he likes me he shows the signs above but being new to school i am unsure also i have been told he has a girlfriend from one source and that they broke up from another the girlfriend is at a different school would it seam weird or like i have been asking around if when breaks over i ask how his girlfriend is? (i am only in school for lunch, science, gym /tech ed and Spanish)

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      Jackie 4 years ago

      There is this guy in church that looks at me but im not totally sure because I'm always with my sister and I don't know if he's looking at me or my sister, do you have any advice?

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      Jpanaro982 4 years ago from Eastchester

      I feel that this was very informative and I learned a lot. Now I could tell when a guy likes me rather than he is just being friendly.

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      hannah 4 years ago

      hey..yes i do have feelings for him and i totally agree with you since he has a girl friend im lettin go now :) . But its just that one doubt and yea after he got a girl friend hs looking decresed a lot... now he just tries to look from the corner of his eyes. i think its the age gap that is bothering him.. ive noticed his frnds too stare alott... which im guessing means he's told them something??? my maine doubt is ..is the looking just to play or does he really have some feelings cause normally a guy who playes will tedn ot forget the girl in a week or two but this has been goin on fr 7 monhs.

      thankyou for your advice :)

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      Hello Hannah,

      First of all do you have any feelings (at all) for this guy, or is it just that you enjoy his 'looking at you' look? From the looks of it, I'm guessing you really must like him because you seem to express him looking at you for some time in a very honest but curious way. Take in mind although he does look at you, he does have a girlfriend so you don't really want to get involved in any type of way. However, you did say that this guy started to look at you since waay before he started dating this girl do there's a change that he was and or is still interested. About the age gap...it doesn't really matter unless it bothers you or him. This period of time is long though, according to you it's been seven months...why don't you try talking to him more often, whether it be through texting or maybe facebook, there are so many alternatives out there do try which ever floats your boat :) when he or you text him if he doesn't really talk maybe it's because the conversation is awkward or maybe he's not the talking about stuff type, so try to get to know him in person if you can, this would allow you two to talk about things that maybe sound weird when communicating technologically. Staring is a typical sign he likes you whether it be obvious or sneaky..he obviously likes (d) you so don't doubt that part. Oh and if he 'invites' you over to his place to chill with him and his friends then maybe try this? It could help tons to be honest. Let me know how it goes and or what your thoughts are. good luck :)

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      hannah 4 years ago

      heyy..... ive noticed this guy whos about 7 years older.. than.. me and is very cute but a bit too old. well the situation is that..ive noticed him lookin at da place where i stay fr many days..ryte from the beginning he just looked once and from that time on wards has been looking...and now i can say that it has beacome 7 months.. is it usual for an unknow boy to stare at an unknown girl... ive hear bout him..and hes a really decent guy.. so ders nothing bad.. but im really wonderin i came to know that hed got a girlfriend too.. and he looking has reduced a lot!!!1 but he still does..and trieS to make me not catch him. Ive tried to get to noe him by texting him haven't really spoken but he's invited me about 7 times to join his friend n him to hangout ...do this mean nything i mean my main question is why would a guy stare at an unknown girl fr 7 motnhs???? than you in advance

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      Thank you so much, it really means a lot :) I enjoy writing info that I think will help others since it helps me, just thought I'd spread the word, and please do. Thanks for your nice remarks, god bless.

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      floating mind 4 years ago from Chicago, Illinois

      This is good information. Some of my friends (girls) enjoyed it so much, that they suggested that I link my website to it. I think I will.

      Nice Hub.

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      pearl jazmyn 4 years ago from Texas

      @easylearningweb

      Thank you for your kind words, it really makes me happy when someone appreciates my writing :) And once again thank you for wishing me luck.

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      Amelia Griggs 4 years ago

      Very good insight and details on signs that a special someone might like you...I think can be applied to young and older women.

      You're off to a great start!

      Welcome to Hubpages and good luck with your writing. :-)

      Easylearningweb

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