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26 Ways to Tell If a Girl Likes You

Updated on February 7, 2017
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Fresh perspective on dating issues compiled in consultation with friends in North America, Australia and African nations.

Are you hoping a special girl likes you, but don’t know how to tell if she is really interested in you? Are you looking for hints to tell you what she's thinking? What does it mean when she keeps touching her hair? This article provides 26 things to look for to help you decide if a girl likes you.

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26 Ways to Know If a Girl Likes You

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1. She likes talking to you.
She's eager to have a conversation and stays engaged with you once she's comfortable.
2. She laughs at what you say.
Belly laughs are better than giggles, and it's even better when you're both laughing together.
3. She's afraid to meet your eyes.
Some girls are afraid to be caught looking at you if they like you. (Others might confidently meet your gaze—watch to see if her pupils are dilated.
4. She notices you.
This might take different forms depending on the girl and the situation.
5. She licks her lips.
This is, of course, especially significant if it's not hot out.
6. She smiles at you.
It should be one of those real smiles — the one that makes her eyes crinkle up.
7. She doesn't like you flirting with other girls.
She may react openly, or she might just slip away so she doesn't have to watch.
8. She hugs you.
This could take many forms, but just notice if she's trying to get close to you.
9. She touches you.
Maybe she lightly hits you or touches your clothing.
10. Her friends give you clues that she like you.
Watch for their reactions like giggling or sudden silence if you approach, or notice if they ask you what you think about their friend.
11. She seeks you out to talk to.
Maybe she lingers around you when other people are leaving.
12. She develops interests in your interests.
Has she started listening to your favorite music, or watching your favorite sports teams?
13. She blushes around you.
This happens not once, but many times.
14. She plays with her hair around you.
This could be an unconscious sign that she's imagining you playing with her hair.
15. She bumps into you frequently.
This could be a sign that she wants you to start a conversation with her.
16. She shows off her body.
Does her posture or clothing seem to indicate that she's looking for your attention?
17. Her arms are relaxed or wide when she's talking to you.
Crossed arms is a sign of being closed off.
18. She breaks away from conversations with her friends to talk to you.
This is a great sign that she's into you.
19. She compliments you when you're looking good.
If she notices how you're dressed or changes in your clothing, it's a good bet she likes you.
20. She hints that she's single.
Or she might ask you if you are single.
21. She's down to hang out.
She says yes quickly if you suggest plans and might even suggest plans of her own.
22. She opens up to you.
If she's telling you about problems she doesn't usually talk about, that shows she trusts you a lot.
23. She talks about doing something in the future with you.
Maybe she mentions seeing a movie or a show in a month or so. You're on her mind!
24. She follows you online and likes your posts.
If she's posting stuff and tagging you in it, that's definitely a good sign.
25. She puts away her phone when she's with you.
This shows she's trying to give you her full attention.
26. You text frequently.
If you're texting regularly, and she's initiating too, then she probably likes you. Especially if you're texting at night.

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1. She Likes to Talk to You

Start a conversation with her. If she is happy to chat with you, that's a good sign. Some couples just click from the time they start talking and can talk for hours.

If she's nervous, she might have trouble speaking up. Give her a chance to become comfortable with you. Ask her questions and wait for her to answer. She might need some time to collect her thoughts.

The danger signs are if she looks bored or simply answers your questions with a shrug. Or, even worse, if she grabs hold of a passing friend and allows herself to be dragged away.

2. She Laughs at What You Say

If a girl likes you, she'll laugh in all the right places.

  • Hopefully she genuinely finds you amusing and isn't just working hard to encourage you. But even if she is trying a little too hard, that's okay. She obviously believes you are worth the effort.
  • Some girls get the giggles when they are nervous.

But here's the kind of laughter you definitely want to look for . . .

  • The full belly laugh you both share.

You know the kind. You're both laughing so hard you are almost crying. You feel as though you're about to split in half. The two of you share moments that are simply irresistibly funny.

Others around you think you're both crazy, but the hearty chuckles make perfectly good sense to the two of you.

3. Something Interesting Happens When Your Eyes Meet

A girl who likes you may shy away from looking at you directly. If your gaze meets, she blinks and turns her eyes away. She is not comfortable being caught looking at you. This kind of girl won't want to be seen as 'chasing' you. She waits for you to make the first move and approach her.

But some women speak through their eyes. Lucky you if your gaze connects with a woman whose eyes sparkle and invite you to come and say hello. A confident girl will directly hold your attention for longer than you'd expect before looking away.

If you're making extended eye contact with a woman, that is definitely a positive signal.

4. She Notices You

A girl who really likes you will at least acknowledge that you exist. Even if she's extremely shy, she'll find a way to let you know that she knows you're there.

If a girl completely ignores you, she has no interest in you. But is she really ignoring you, or is she sending you a quiet message that's she's noticed you but doesn't know how to react?

Here's some examples of how a girl who likes you might behave if she's really shy:

  • She's with a group who engage you in conversation, but she stays quiet.
  • She nods, or smiles. Just quickly, but it is a definite nod or smile in your direction.
  • There's a sudden interruption (or end) to her activity as soon as she sees you. Perhaps she stops singing, or dancing, or talking.

Yes, she's noticed you. She's definitely not ignoring you, or she'd just carry on whatever she was doing without missing a beat.

Watch her body language to tell if a girl likes you. Touching her neck or hair could be an unconscious sign that she likes you.
Watch her body language to tell if a girl likes you. Touching her neck or hair could be an unconscious sign that she likes you.

5. She Licks Her Lips

I'm sure you'd like to think that licking her lips is an action that should be interpreted to mean she'd love to kiss you. And yes, she might be dreaming about you kissing her. But don't get too excited just yet.

Licking her lips could simply be a sign of a dry mouth. But you have to wonder—why is her mouth so dry? If it is not an incredibly hot day and she's not just finished running a marathon, I'm guessing she's nervous.

So there's a good chance she likes you.

6. She Smiles at You

A girl who smiles at you, likes you. There's occasionally exceptions to this rule, like the girl who hopes to win some kind of popularity contest and smiles at everyone. But most girls don't bother smiling at someone they don't like.

A shy girl might not grin widely. Her smiles may be brief, but she certainly looks pleased to see you. Sometimes her smile is more in her eyes, rather than plastered on her face.

7. She Doesn't Like You Flirting With Other Girls

A girl who likes you will be uncomfortable if you flirt with other girls. Nobody likes competition. She might react openly, or may just slip away so she doesn't have to watch you giving another girl attention.

Be warned before you flirt with other girls that it might backfire. If you seem to fancy yourself as a ladies' man, she might lose interest in you. How can she trust a boyfriend who is quick to flirt with other girls?

8. She Hugs You

Does she hug you at every opportunity? We only hug people we like. Hugging you could be an excuse to get closer to you and experience the feel of your body.

Perhaps she likes you but can't tell you with words. It may be easier for her to use other strategies like hugging you and making herself very close to you.

Hugs come in different forms. Some girls just wrap themselves around boys they like. It can be a welcoming hug when you cross paths in the street or at the mall. But other girls are more likely to wrap a soothing arm around your shoulder. For instance, if you are seated and struggling with a problem on your computer. She may lean over and give you a shoulder hug, reassuring you that you can solve the problem.

9. She Finds Ways or Excuses to Touch You

She will always find many excuses to touch you or feel your body. Does she touch you when she is sitting next to you? That's a clear hint she's attracted to you. She wants to come closer to you and there is no better way or method for her than touching you on the arms or the hair.

She may pretend to remove an imaginary thing from your arm or hair. Perhaps she brushes crumbs from your chest.

Some girls give light-hearted slaps. Others grab your arm with excitement. If she's touching you, she likes you.

10. Her Friends Give Clues That She Likes You

Her best friends will know if she likes you. Look to them for clues. What do her friends do when you are around? How does she react with her friends?

  • Do her friends glance at you as you approach?
  • Do they smile when you approach them?
  • Are her friends seeming to tease her?
  • Does she look cross, as though she's afraid one of them might tell you she likes you?
  • Have any of her friends asked you if you like her?

Best friends can give lots of subtle clues she likes you.

Does she like you? Look for clues. How she responds to you will tell you if she likes you or not.
Does she like you? Look for clues. How she responds to you will tell you if she likes you or not.

16 More Hints a Girl Likes You

  1. You will learn from her body language if she likes you or not. If she's mirroring your movements, sitting closely to you, finding reasons to touch you, or fidgeting a lot, then she probably likes you.
  2. She will get interested in things you do or like. For instance if you are a fan of Manchester United, she will also develop an interest in that team
  3. You will see her blushing in your presence. This happens not once but many times
  4. Does she play with her hair when you are around her? If yes, that is an unconscious sign that shows her interest in you. She may be imagining you caressing or playing with her hair.
  5. When you are sitting or having a rest somewhere, you will find that she will walk past you a couple of times. Maybe she is trying to get your attention. She wants you to be attracted to her and is probably waiting for you to take the first step and start a conversation with her.
  6. She may lean back in a chair or sofa in order to protrude or display her chest area. She will show you 'what you are missing'. That is a sure sign that she likes you and she wants you to fall for her. She is just waiting for you to approach her.
  7. Her arms are open wide when she is talking to you and that could be interpreted to mean 'I’m open for you.' In other words it’s a sort of unconscious way to encourage you to approach her.
  8. When she is having a conversation with friends and she sees you approaching or in a nearby place, she will break from her friends and come to where you are. She wants to be closer to you at all times and that is a sure sign that you impress her.
  9. She compliments you whenever you are dressed nicely or she sees you in designer clothing. She always likes to see you looking good.
  10. Does she talk about a relationship she had in the past, making it clear that it ended and she is feeling lonely now? If yes, she is probably attracted to you. Don't assume that she's still obsessed with her ex-boyfriend. Consider it an invitation to take his place.
  11. She suggests hanging out with you or doesn't hesitate to say yes when you suggest that you two hang out. If she's down to hang out when you suggest something and doesn't even check to see if she's busy, that's definitely a good sign that she's into you.
  12. She's opened up to you, maybe telling you about something personal in her life or a problem she's dealing with. Being vulnerable often creates a feeling of intimacy, and girls won't do it with someone they don't really trust.
  13. She talks about going to something in the future with you — maybe she mentions that you should go see a movie or a concert together in a month or so. This is a really good sign!
  14. She's followed you on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat — and she likes your posts frequently, or posts stuff on your wall that reminds her of you. If you're sending each other Snapchats frequently or posting back and forth, there's definitely something going on.
  15. She puts away her phone when she's with you. When a girl gives you her full attention and focuses solely on you, that's a good signal that she's really interested in making a good impression on you.
  16. You text frequently (and she initiates too). Regular texting is a sign of friendship and interest. This is especially true if she texts you out of the blue just to find out how you're doing.

© 2012 Daniel Long

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      Daniel Long 10 hours ago from All Over

      I don't know how old you are KRa$H, or how old the girl is. Good on you for spotting a potential trap. I hope you know there's laws in most countries about child pornography, and if she sends you a photo of her pierced nipples and she's underage, you could get in trouble. But I'm thinking she must be older, right? Who's going to get their nipples pierced when they're a kid? Although I'm a bit puzzled because you were both talking about what you aspire to be, so I'm thinking you must be kinda young. Geez, it all sounds very complicated. Good luck with figuring that girl out.

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      Daniel Long 10 hours ago from All Over

      Hi THG. Here's my word of advice for you. If you're in Grade 7 and you try getting involved with the girl you like, be prepared for an emotional rollercoaster ride. Your hormones, and hers, will create lots of bumps along the way. If I was you, I'd be waiting for a few years until things settle down. You'll have more fun, I believe, if you're older and have a better chance of holding her interest. Jump in too soon and you might just become that kid she dated when she was young. Better, I believe, to be the interesting guy she's never really had a chance to get to know. When she's older, she'll be more mature and you'll be more confident. That seems like a more positive combination for a healthy, successful relationship. But it is up to you of course. Good luck either way.

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      KRaSH 16 hours ago

      So I'm getting such mixed signals from this girl like when we met in person we were flirting back and forth then right b4 she left she kissed me on the cheek then we were texting all day the next day and she was supposed to come over and she completely stopped answering me then she hits me up a week later and we were flirting a lot again and she sent me a paragraph about how great I am then she tells me she has a bf and she wants us to be just friends so I respected it and we kinda just fell off barely talking at all then I seen on snapchat she said she was upset so I was trying to soothe her and what not then we were holding a conversation for hours and I was flirting with her a lot and she wasn't telling me to stop but wasn't exactly flirting back

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      KRa$H 34 hours ago

      So I've been friends with this girl for a bit but we only ever hung out when she was with her boyfriend at the park then he broke up with her and she hit me up to chill so I said ya and chilled with her and I text her to hang out from time to time and sometimes she just never answers and leaves me on ready and sometimes she says ya and tonight I was just sitting here bored and she hits me up hey krash so I'm like hi and she asked if I have a blunt wrap and I said no then she told me she got her nipples pierced and I was like that's dope u must be hyped and she's like wanna see and of course I said sure (I was actually pretty excited but wasn't gonna show that) then she's like with my shirt or without and I was like it's up to u (because it coulda been a trap and I didn't want to be too eager) and she's like I don't want to freak you out and I was like ya I'm afraid of boobies and she sent the laughing emoji then started an emoji war and I played into it and then she changed the topic and asked me what I aspire to be and after that I answered honestly then asked her the same question and she left me on ready then I invited her to a concert with me and she didn't answer yes or no she kinda just danced around it

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      TheHandsomeGuy 2 days ago

      ineed a advice theres a girl I like and she's our class president I like her and one day she's been acting weird then her friendsfriends saidshe she likes me and i like her too and icant tell her i like her what should I do?? And I'm a grade7

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      Tuureishim 2 days ago

      She does the same way

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      Nimal 5 days ago

      I have a girlfriend.according to these signs of Daniel I saw some of them from her.But I want to touch her hand.I am feared to do it because will she like or unlike?

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      M. 9 days ago

      Some girls feel too nervous to hug you, since this is a direct sign of affection. Some will hug you back if you hug them, or just seem nervous. Also, if a girl crosses her arms, it could mean she feels insecure or that she feels that she's 'too fat' for you, so trying to press on her stomach. Other girls cross their arms when they are feeling nervous, or when they are trying to hide something.

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      lover 2 weeks ago

      Good

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      greets from finland! 2 weeks ago

      theres 1 thing you need to add this touching part.

      most girls does the finger poking, talking about what so ever, most of them likes to tease you while you talk

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      Girl 2 weeks ago

      I just read this to make sure I didn't show any signs around my crush.

      Or at least not many.

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      Single in a class full of girls 2 weeks ago

      Hi I'm single and my hole clas except me r girls but there is one who does everything you said and more

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      Rick 2 weeks ago

      I have so much feelings for this girl but she doesn't have feelings back even though every weekend she wants to make out with me and always touches me. My friends and I think that it's weird how she doesn't like me yet but she might just be saying she doesn't. She doesn't even want a thing. I want a thing, but not a relationship. I dropped people just for her and she doesn't even realize it

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      boy 3 weeks ago

      ayerlynn is my true love

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      migeul 4 weeks ago

      i think she really likes me

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      K+R=♡ 4 weeks ago

      Me and her are in a relatiionship

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      Plz Help 4 weeks ago

      I think she likes me and I like her too. What should i do?

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      I can say my name 4 weeks ago

      Hi there this girl i like and i try to talk to her but then i get scared and run away and i always say to myself im i perfect or am i a loser

      and what happen if she is dating someone then ill be the idiot or call a jerk

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      MysteriousMystic 5 weeks ago

      Hi.I am a girl here reading all theses questions boys have.Wow am I amazed to how many boys asked for advice.Honestly if I was a male I would never have the courage to do this becase no one likes me,but great job for asking for advice.Keep up the good work.Girls/Women are very complicated,I know so because at the moment I seem very complicated to a lot of people and girls.I have no clue why we are so complicated,but I wish we weren't.Now good luck to any boys who read this comment.Hope you win that girl's heart.

      Bye

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      LLLL 5 weeks ago

      @Random person

      You should ask her out, see what happens.

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      Random person 5 weeks ago

      Theres this girl in my class who giggles every time i make a joke then she starts talking with her friend and shes makes eye contact while talking to her friend

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      Cupcake 5 weeks ago

      I am a girl and I am reading this

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      LLLL 6 weeks ago

      I like a girl and somebody figured it out. BUT they also said,"I think they like you to." What should I do? S.O.S.

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      person 6 weeks ago

      Were teens and I feel empty when I don't see her.

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      Daniel Long 6 weeks ago from All Over

      Here's some advice for those of you are still really young. You're stressing yourselves out when there's really no need. Yes, I get it. You're growing up and starting to have interest in girls. But I wrote this article for young adults, and if you're still a long way from being an actual adult (in years, not just in your own mind), there's really no point losing sleep over whether or not a girl likes you.

      Just sit back and watch while other kids fall over themselves getting in a twist over the girls in your year. You can be the smart one who waits until you're older before getting caught up in the dating game. Save yourself a lot of angst and heartbreak by waiting until you've grown into yourself, and she's grown into herself. Right now, you're just kids. That's a good thing. Don't waste the fun times. Spend your time doing the things you won't be able to do when you're older, and when dating becomes a worthwhile adventure. To be honest, right now it would just be a waste of effort.

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      person 6 weeks ago

      I like a girl in my grade who I didn't talk to for a while. A few weeks ago she started asking for high-fives and talking to me with a smile. We now talk daily but I'm afraid to admit my feelings for her or ask her out. Please help me I'm going crazy.

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      Chicken 6 weeks ago

      I like this girl, but shes 1 year younger, I don't see her every day, but when we do this happens. When we play games she sort of forces me on her team, she doesn't target me as often in a game. We like to play with eachother ex: pretending to switch out eyeballs, and laughs at a lot of stupid jokes I say. But some of the things don't match on the list so I can't tell. btw im 6th and shes 5th grade. I can't tell

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      To the dianiel long 7 weeks ago

      I'm the annoyed guy thanks for the advice it was very useful

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      Daniel Long 7 weeks ago from All Over

      Sounds like things could go well for you, DatOneGuy. Hard to know until you meet her though. Of course there's a danger she might not want you, but you don't really know if you're going to want to be with her either yet. Let's be honest. We all buy lottery tickets hoping to win, but aware of the significant chance we won't. But there's a heap of fun in waiting to find out. So enjoy the process of going on your first date.

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      Daniel Long 7 weeks ago from All Over

      You've never talked to her but you say she's irritating you. That makes no sense. It is her friends who are annoying you, not her. You know what friends are like. They often decide to do things you don't want them to do. Poor girl might be dying of embarrassment.

      If I was you, I'd talk to her. You could start off by saying, 'For some reason all your friends keep insisting that I talk to you. So I hope you don't think that I'm rude, but I'm thinking that until you and I chat for at least a couple of minutes I'll never get any peace in the playground. So, hello,' and introduce yourself.

      If you happen to get on well, that's great. If you don't, you can tell any friends who annoy you in the future that you and her are quite capable of delivering your own messages to each other.

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      Annoyed 7 weeks ago

      I've been annoyed because a girl I have never talked to has all of her friends comming to me in the playground saying she likes me what should I do because all she is doing is irritating me because I can't talk to my friends cause they are always there

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      DatOneGuy 7 weeks ago

      Hey folks. I am interesting in some inputs about this girl that I like. So we matched on tinder a week ago and have been chatting since, she has opened up to me, talked about her problems and things that bother her. Also used "we" in some sentences regarding me and her. Because she works at night I don't want to bother her while working and she will call me an Idiot or something and insist that I text her. She agrees on what I say regarding certain topics and when I slightly compliment her she kinda goes "aww you're too cute" like that. Now I have this weird feeling "What if she doesn't want me after all" I am kinda lost, when I see her eyes on snapchat I see the most beautiful eyes ever. She has just agreed to meetup soon for a cup of coffee and she replied rather quick. This is the first time I go on a "date" with someone and if some of you have inputs about if she likes me back based on the short description and what I should do? Any help is greatly appreciated.

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      David Baker 7 weeks ago

      Hi, I recently told this girl I like her but she is not saying it back but I am pretty sure she likes me or is atleast interested in me.

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      Daniel Long 8 weeks ago from All Over

      Here's a word of advice. 'I love you' is never a good opening line. Talk to her about other things first. How can you know if you really love her if you've not yet got to know her properly? Make it your mission to overcome your shyness so you can chat with her, not just to tell her you love her. It won't be so frightening if your goal is to talk to her about what's happening in your life and hers. You probably won't be so shy if your mission is less confronting.

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      tyolumun daniel sughneb 8 weeks ago

      she always flirts around me. and I'm too shy to tell her I love her

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      taylor 2 months ago

      hey, im taylor and i have a crush on a girl in my grade and she's pan. I don't know how to hint to her that I like her.

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      You've done well, Mr Cee. She agreed to go on a date with you so I see no reason for regrets. You've told her you're interested in her. Now you just have to wait and see how she responds. Give the girl time to make up her mind. Don't push her. Enjoy your time together.

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      Mr. Cee 2 months ago

      Hi,

      I recently met this girl on social media and I was dead on interested in her. I actually slid in her dm on Twitter and after a couple days she gave me her number. We talk pretty frequently and talk on the phone from time to time. The thing is I am not sure if she likes me and I confessed last night that I am interested in her. I asked her out on a date and we had to reschedule (which she was really bummed out about) and we have the date this Saturday.

      I don't know if me confessing compromised this whole thing because I want a relationship with her. She really into talking to me, she often times concerns herself with my well being but she's not the best texter and can be distracted by Twitter.

      Can you evaluate this unorganized tale I just typed and provide a conclusion?

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      James 2 months ago

      Oh ya and I'm 12

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      D.W 2 months ago

      Alright thanks!

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      My advice is don't push it. We're all guilty of chatting with someone we're not necessarily keen on via text at night when not much is happening. But the good news is, she doesn't hate you. If she hated you, she'd not text back.

      You can't blame her friends, D.W. Seems like the chemistry just isn't there. Things might change in the future, but you'll have to wait and see. Sounds like you've tried everything for now, so don't obsess about her. We live in a big world. If the one for you isn't her, it will be someone else. So relax, and wait and see what the future holds.

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Good work, Matthew. But don't get ahead of yourself, or she's going to stop laughing. Stay in her good books for another six years, and then think about asking her out. At your age you need to have fun, not the stress of chasing girls.

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      D.W 2 months ago

      So I really like this like this girl and one of her friends shouted it across the class, then told me she likes me. I have her number so I text frequently and she denies liking me, but the fact that she texts back almost instantly and at night has me thinking... Does she like me? I've tried everything , I told her I Liked her face to face and Asked her out but she said no... I really wish I knew because I'm not in good with one of her friends, and she's near me in most my classes and she laughs at my jokes some times, her friends are getting in the way a lot, so I need some advice. What's a sure fire way to know or to get her to like me?

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      First thing to do, David, is get comfortable in your own skin. Just relax around the girl and don't stress about making her like you yet. Concentrate on being yourself and talking with her the same as you do around your other friends. Once you're able to talk with her naturally you can think about making a move. Good luck.

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      David Langenberg 2 months ago

      hey, Im 16 years old and I got this mature crush on a girl which is in a different class. It actually has nothing to do with these 26 points because she isnt into me, as far as know at least. And when I get around her I get really nervous and stuff, we have the same friends so we all hang out together and I dont have the guts to do something.... can someone give me some tips pls??

      Sorry for my crappy english, I'm from Holland so yeah :)

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Sounds like you two get on really well and I'm guessing she likes you. If you can continue laughing and helping each other, that's a great basis for a future relationship. But remember, you're 16 and she's even younger so don't get too carried away in the romance department. Be happy knowing that she likes you, and respect her. Treating a girl really well and respectfully when you're both young is a great investment in your future happiness.

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      Someone who likes basketball 3 months ago

      Hey, great article!

      I'm sixteen and I started liking this girl in my class. Half a year ago she started acting differently towards me which makes me think she likes me too. To name a couple of examples: One time one of our teachers gave her the opportunity to send someone out of the classroom because we were being noisy and she said my name to her friend and started giggling. Also I'm a really avid basketball player and when we had to play a bit during PE she told me she liked the sport and in class I always try to throw balls of paper in the trashcan like a basketball and she always gives me comments like:"you never hit a shot". She tells me she hates me (which she doesn't) and acts a bit rude towards me in a teasing sense. Also I have heard a couple of her friends asking:"are you talking about (instert my name her) and (insert her name here)?". And one time they started taking half our names and putting them together like for example Max and Jane makes Mane or Jax. We sometimes sit together in the same group in class and when we do we most of the time laugh a lot. Also when I ask her for help with my homework via iMessage she always really tries her best, but she's really smart so maybe she just takes it seriously. I sometimes catch her staring at me and she tries to look away nonchalantly. I'm a bit older than she is so maybe that gives me an advantage? Do you think she likes me? Sorry for the long post but I'd appreciate all the help I could get!

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      This is what happened when she confessed: 3 months ago

      I was like, um I already knew that, and she got so confused and I told her how I knew but it was ok cuz I had liked her since 4th grade.

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Confused man, I don't think you should make another approach just yet. If she did not accept you the last time you expressed yourself, perhaps she's just not ready for a relationship yet. She knows you are interested because you told her, so now I suggest the waiting game.

      You are currently still friends. If you don't want to lose her as a friend, stop pushing her. Give her time to figure out how she feels. You could always date someone else if there's another girl you're interested in. You'll either find love elsewhere, or perhaps the girl you are talking about will get jealous and decide she wants to be the one to get all your attention.

      Just remember, relationships can't be rushed.

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      ??? 3 months ago

      Her friends told me that she likes me, I like her too.... But some of those signs she doing sometimes... I can't tell if she really likes me :(

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      Confuse man 3 months ago

      Of the 26 sign , i feel that she showed 6 of them. 2,3,6,13,14,16. To add on, she sometime mirror wad I am doing

      she talk about something personal not not everything, when asked for more she is not telling.

      i text her frequently but she ever initiate a message. I am really interested in her. I actually expressed myself to her once but she did not accept me. currently we are still friends. How should I make another approach.

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      Mystery man 3 months ago

      i really like this girl but i don't know if she likes me. I'm afraid to ask her and i don't want her to freak out. WHAT DO I DO???

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      BdB, your really good friend sounds interested the way I see it. She's reaching out and touching you which is always a strong signal of comfort and interest. And I'm wondering why she's randomly saying that you two dating would be weird. Is that because you've suggested it, or is she just raising the subject for discussion?

      Here's what I'd do if I were you. Next time she mentions dating being weird, I'd say "I'm happy to be weird, and date you. We could always go back to just being friends if it doesn't feel right." Then see what she says. If she backs off, you shouldn't look bothered. Just tell her you're happy to be 'weird' any time she feels she'd like a date in the future. Meanwhile, just keep being really good friends!

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Allen, if a girl says go away in a firm voice to me, I think that means she doesn't like me. Especially if she doesn't show any of the usual signs that tell me different. So, no. I don't think she likes you. Better start looking for someone else.

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      BdB 3 months ago

      Hey, this one girl that I know is a good friend of mine (like, Really Good friend) but she's started behaving weird like when we sit together, and I say something funny she'll give me a light hit or pat on the head. Maybe on the shoulder. But she reassures me randomly that us dating would be weird. Also, she bites her lip sometimes or plays with her hair when I'm around. What do I do?

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      allen 3 months ago

      if a girl says go away in a firm voie does that mean they like me

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      If she always puts her bag next to yours, she might like you. Or she might think her bag is safe there, or maybe you put your bag in a really convenient spot so she likes the convenience.

      One thing is for sure though. If she couldn't stand you or thought you were really creepy, she wouldn't want to be anywhere near you. So take that as a good sign. If she's putting her bag next to yours where you cross paths, that's a good thing. Maybe you could start chatting with her when you're both at your bags. See how she responds to you.Good luck.

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      Ilol 3 months ago

      If a girl always puts her bag next to my bag does that mean she likes me?

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      Michael M 4 months ago

      I already has girls i don't need these tips

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      Trenton 4 months ago

      I like this I can't really help me so thank you

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      If girls are asking you out, that should give you confidence, Obviously there's something about you they find attractive. So take a chance and ask a girl out. She'll either say yes or she'll say no. Even if she says no it is not the end of the world. Don't make it into a big drama in your mind. Ask a girl if she wants to come to a movie with you. Best way if you are nervous is to just say "I'm going to see (movie name) this weekend. Do you want to come with me?" That's easy. Gives her a chance to come along and spend time with you without it sounding like a big deal and a formal date. Go to the movie. Hang out. You don't have to make a move on her during the movie. Wait and see what happens after it. Good luck Makelele.

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      Makelele 4 months ago

      This may sound out of topic but, I have this one weakness.

      All the girls I have dated asked me out. It has made me weak and I have forgotten how to even ask a girl out.

      Any advice??

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Thanks, HM. Good luck as you enter the excitement of dating. 18 is a great age to get started.

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      If the girl you like is actively involved in a relationship with someone else, you'll just have to wait and see what happens. Keep enjoying each other's company because you still want to be a contender if she breaks up with the other guy.

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      jimq 4 months ago

      All of the things mentioned above are checked with the girl whom I like but she is already committed with someone, what should I do?

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      Haider 4 months ago from Melbourne

      To me, girls are difficult to understand. Though I know that the things you have mentioned are correct. But, I still cannot figure out if a girl likes me if she talks, laughs and shares her interests with me. Perhaps that is why I am single, but hey I am just 18!

      It was fun to read your hub. Good work mate!

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