How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend

Updated on December 20, 2016

Will You Be My Girlfriend?

Maybe it is just a guy thing but sometimes we take it for granted that because we like a girl romantically that she feels the same way. Even if we have been dating the same girl for a couple of weeks we always jump to the conclusion that she is now your girlfriend, even if neither of you have discussed your official status.

Girls in one respect are just the same as guys, they too like to go out sometimes with guys just for fun, with no romantic connotations whatsoever; You know the one, a casual relationship with no strings attatched.

Of course if you have both been dating for a couple of weeks then the chances are that you are both on a similar wavelength and are developing feelings for each another.

Maybe now could be the time to ask her if she would like to make it official and become your girlfriend.

My Girlfriend?

Talk to a girl for 10 seconds in front of your parents and they hear wedding bells.
Talk to a girl for 10 seconds in front of your parents and they hear wedding bells. | Source

Embarrassing Friends And Parents

Have you ever noticed that if you are seen talking to a girl for more than ten seconds your friends and especially your parents assume that you like her and that she is your girlfriend?

It's embarrassing isn't it? especially when your parents start going on about it.

Imagine what is going through their heads when you actually go out on a date with a girl, they automatically assume that you are boyfriend/girlfriend and you are both tagged with that label from then on in even if that first date went really badly and you both decided to go your separate ways.

Parents are really annoying and if you go out with a girl for a second time Mum and dad begin planning your engagement party; Go out for a third date and the wedding bells begin ringing in your parents ears as they arrange the seating for the reception.

Your parents and your friends assume that you and that girl are boyfriend/girlfriend and you assume that you are boyfriend/girlfriend, when the truth is that you don't really know if you are.

Why Ask Her To Be Your Girlfriend

Asking a girl that you have been dating for a while to be your girlfriend may seem like a pointless waste of time and energy but there is a good reason that you should.

Commitment is a big thing for a girl, she likes to know where she stands with you, she likes to know that you are serious about her and of course she likes to know that you feel the same way about her as she does about you.

A simple question, Will you be my Girlfriend? answers all of those questions in her head and means the world to her, it shows her that you are committed to her and her alone.

You may look like a couple, you may act like a couple but does she know that you and her are girlfriend/boyfriend.
You may look like a couple, you may act like a couple but does she know that you and her are girlfriend/boyfriend. | Source

From Friend To Girlfriend

So you and this beautiful girl have been dating for a couple of weeks and you realise that you are developing some feelings for her, the odds are in your favor that she is developing the same feelings for you too.

Even if you think that that she considers you to be her boyfriend, It is only right that you ask her about becoming your girlfriend even if it is a formality, that way you both know exactly where you both stand in your relationship and to make it official.

Once you have made your decision to ask her to be your girlfriend take action don't wait for the right time, you can't afford to wait too long because if you miss your chance you could lose her to someone else.

On the other hand, though don't run up to her in the middle of the street and shout out in front of all of her friends "Will You Be My Girlfriend," although it may sound romantic it would embarrass her and she probably wouldn't want to see you ever again.

Make It A Romantic Gesture

Sweep her off her feet with a big romantic gesture.
Sweep her off her feet with a big romantic gesture. | Source

How To Ask A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend

Make the right time; try not to think of what you are going to say because no matter how many times you rehearse it in your head things never go according to plan. Whether you take her out for a meal, a walk in the park, or a walk along the beach

Test the water before you ask the question "I really like you a lot" is a great opener if she replies with something similar then it's the perfect time to ask the question," Will you be my girlfriend"?

Girls like a small personal token from you not something that you have run out and bought, your class ring if you have one, the chain that you wear around your neck or even the sweater that you are wearing, anything that you have on your person that you wear or use regularly. This token item is to prove your commitment to her.

If she says yes, don't jump up screaming yes you beauty! she can change her mind very quickly, give her a cuddle and kiss her to seal the deal.


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      Gus 3 weeks ago

      I like a girl we are in 7th grade I know she likes me but she is I a relationship what do I do

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      Jake 3 months ago

      I like this girl named Kelsey we’re both in the 6th grade I’m thinking about asking her to go get ice cream with me I like but I don’t know if she liked me this has helped and now I feel more confident about asking her -jake

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      Francis 6 months ago

      I want a girlfriend

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      Secret 8 months ago

      I like a girl in fourth grade and she is about the same age as I. I wanted to ask her if she could be my girlfriend, but I'm scared that I would get rejected and she would tell everyone

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      Its personal 16 months ago

      I like a girl, who is same as my age 25, but the problem is now i am final year college student hence I don't have a job, I suspect her parents are searching for a bride, if i get employed i'll surely start chatting with her, yes even for chatting i feel afraid before i become independent, she is having a elder brother(unmarried) who is presently doing his higher studies, I hope her parents may delay her marriage. Any advice on this guyzz

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      Tony 17 months ago

      My experience is that nice girls get engaged before they graduate from high school.

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      Michael 2 years ago

      I love a girl in primary school , I'm only 10 but I think she loves me as well but I'm dying to kiss her , shes so pretty!

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      Brian 2 years ago

      guys can I have your help coz I what to get back to my Ex girlfriend she loves me but she cn n't say it I need your help to make her too do so!

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      samus 3 years ago

      i like her but she doesn't know im in fourth grade

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      half bl00d prince 3 years ago

      I love a girl..but i didn't said to her...because we started our relationship as friend.....she loves friendship very much.....i know that she likes me very much as a friend.......she too knows that i like her too...i dont know what will be her reaction when i say it to do i say it to her??

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      chris 3 years ago

      I have a big problem here,I like this girl,but I dont know how to ask her to be my girl . Im not sure how to start the conversation with her can you plz help me? Cause I really like her.

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      Herc is not a jerk 3 years ago

      I like this shy girl and i'm 9 and she is 10.How do I get her?

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      alissa 3 years ago

      Just ask her if she says no then she's not worth it I should know. I am a girl to

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      Please help 4 years ago

      I know a girl in my class and I really like her but so does my best friends but im ugly :( :( :( and I really think she doesn't like me. How could I ask her out without being nervous? HELP.

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      Young love 4 years ago

      I'm 11 and a girl there's a boy that always shows off for me...... He told me today that he was in love and we are not even going out !!!!!!!!!!!!!plz help!!!!!!i have a crush on his cousin ,but his cousin tells me everything about him...............btw his cousin is sooooooooo freaking hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      Jim 4 years ago

      I been taking girl in class for short THIMe take other girls to

      Really like just tell her and ask be Girl-FIRend what says ps .

      I am very shy need help think will yes likes back . Even is shy

      Like me tell her a lot .

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      girl steeler 5 years ago

      I loved this girl a long time then this boy comes then he stole my freaking girlfriend named Alese Hamilton then when he stole her then it felt like my heart already has been broken you guys out there please don`t let that happen to you know i`am trying to get a nother girlfriend. mark you just have to say something sweet to her and just be yourself i know you can do it mark i believe in you all you have to do is believe in your heart believe you can do it.

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      garybarnes 5 years ago

      i have a crush on some1 in my scool and im a litle shy what do i do

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      Unknown 5 years ago

      There is this girl I like, we are in 8th grade, i have some of the same classes as her and she is very nice. In our school(like many others) she is one of the more popular kids, I am near the middle. She plays volleyball and basketball and I play baseball and basketball. What I think hurt my chances is that now she probably thinks of me as a friend. One night me and her sat on our iPads emailing each other all night and part of the next day. What should I do? Every day I want to tell her I like her a lot or even love her, but I dont. Should I tell her how I feel, spend a lot of time with her so that she might fell the same way, or just try to supress this "crush". The only thing is maybe it isnt a crush. If anyone could help me out I would appriciate it a lot.

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      T-rev 5 years ago

      im sixteen and the last time i had a girlfriend was five years ago and i still cant rebuild my confidence. im in need of desperate help to rebuild my confedence so that i can ask this one girl out. can you help me?

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      young 5 years ago

      hi i m 17 i really need help about my girl friends because she ask me i never say something to make it happy

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      p l 5 years ago

      i really need help

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      franko 5 years ago

      it is hard enough to meet a GOOD WOMAN NOWADAYS as it is, especially that many of them now have such a BAD ATTITUDE PROBLEM. and to ask a woman that you would like as it is, to be your girlfriend, has become so impossible too.

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      Jacob 6 years ago

      Hi I have been trying to get a girl for 2 months, I have finally found one! yet I still am yet to ask her out, so little advice please. you see it is my first time and I am 15, my friends are all saying no! to her but when we first met I................ felt a certian warmness in my heart, she smiled I did the same, yet I have dreamed about her every night since, one time I saw her screaming, that really freaked me out, when she told me she was leaving for Colarado I nearly fainted. Please advice, advice i do not want to spoil this one she is HOT!

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      logan s. 6 years ago

      hi, i'm in forth grade. i have a girlfriend but her birthday is coming up and i don't know what to do. we met last year by the way

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      luk likes bella 6 years ago

      Well I finally asked her out but she said don't tell anyone so I didn't but then after we stopped a theatre show we did together she stopped texting me. It has been 3 months should I text her or wait I will have to see her in a month what do I say. Now I dont know if I like her anymore and I am interested in someone else what do I do PLEASE HELP PLEASE ANYONE

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      Hey 6 years ago

      This is for the guys who are ages 17, 18 and 19 how can i get this guy to text me back and ask me out he has told my mom that he liked me but when i found out i texted him and he said that he did not know if he liked me and that he had a GF who is his Ex now but i dont know what i should do on his birthday i texted him happy birthday but he never said anything back and he is single now but he has told a few people that he is not going to date any other girls and i am not like alot of them girls. HELP ME??????

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      Brittany 6 years ago

      I am a 16 year old girl to tony i think she likes you but she is playing hard to get so what i would do is when she is with her friends and she tells them that you are her BF say no i am not i have a girlfriend then she might tell you if she likes you or not. GOOD LUCK=)))

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      tony 6 years ago

      Hey,there is dis girl I like whenever we go out she introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend but wen I tell her I like her she saids she's already datin......I really need help................

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      Exactly Who You Thought I was 6 years ago

      Ok so I have a question. There is a girl I like who likes me back and whenever we see each other we flirt. It's quite obvious that we both really like each other. As of yesterday, she sits next to me in tech (I should really thank my teacher for that). We don't really know each other too well. Here is my question: Should I ask her out right away, or strike up a friendship and get to know her first?

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      Person 6 years ago

      Jamie if you're wondering what seventh grade is its if you're 12-13 you're in seventh grade (and I think that's eighth year in Britain but I'm not sure) and 13-14 is in eighth grade (ninth year for you I think) and so on.

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      ben the winner 6 years ago

      I am 14 yrs old and I am crazy for this girl I know. I berarlly see he I only see her about 3 hours a week and I don't know what to say to her I freeze up when I talk to her and my responses to what she says end up being, "ya. Or (A nod)." What could I say to her? And how can I build the courage to talk to her?

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      ethan langley 6 years ago

      are you looking for a boyfriend yet

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      David 6 years ago

      So there's this girl I txt and she likes me and my friend. Me and her went out once but broke up and I don't like her that much but she likes me. What should I do? Bye the way, me her and my friend are 11.

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      in love 6 years ago

      im 10 and i like this girl she is ten to so i asked her out but she said no should i tell her again when we are in middle school yes or no

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      Unpopular and Proud 6 years ago

      Hey marcus I'm adhd too one thing that worked for me is to just start quietly flirting with the girl like in the middle of class just try to catch her eye and when you do smile or hold her gaze or if you're doing an activity where you hold somebodys hand try to be near her. Also just "accidentally" bump into her or brush against her in the hall. Another thing that works is if you're good at something show off to her. Don't be a total a-hole just sorta do it nonchalantly like at show and tell or something. Like if you're good at sports be sure to do something cool and pretend to be showing it to your friends but make sure she's around.

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      Marcus 6 years ago

      i really like this girl named Dynasti brown she is always nice to me i dont know how to know how to pay her back. i always act hyper because i have adhd but im trying to grow up so she can like me ps im being myself

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      Unpopular and Proud 6 years ago

      Ok so I'm in sixth grade and I like this girl on my team. She is a little taller than me, we're both not that popular but we have a decent number of friends, we're both some of the smartest kids on her team, and I think she has noticed these things just as much as I have. She is taking every chance she gets to stand or sit as close to me as possible, catch my eye, hold my hand, or just have a conversation. I want to ask her out but I have two problems. Problem 1: Her friend, who I've known since kindergarten (I met the other girl in the beginning of the year) seems to not approve. I'm not sure if the one I like told her, but lately the friend has been trying to get between us. Problem 2: Me. I'm generally shy around girls and my face turns red and stuff. That and I don't know when or where or how to ask her out, and how to avoid her friend while doing it. So I just need to know what to say and when and how to say it, and to at the same time avoid awkwardness from her friend.

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      Quentin Beverly 6 years ago

      Hi my name is Quentin and I like this girl like I'm in love but I'm not. I can't describe how much i like this girl. But when I get around her I get butterflies and i get shy. So one day we was playing truth or dare. I all ways pick dare and the girl i like sister ask me truth or dare so i pick dare , she told me to ask the girl i like out. I did and she said i will think about it. Four mouths later she goes out with my friend. Now they broke up because he was not treating her right and i sweaped her off her feet. Now me and my friend is now me and him are fighting over her. HELP pleas..

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      daniel 6 years ago

      Hi, i really like this girl 9.5/9.75 (1-10 how much i like her) and she knows. my best friend is (almost) dating her best friend (ironic) whos had quite a few boyfriends, and im getting advice from her. the person who i like still likes this guy, but she cant decide between me and him, and the last time she saw him was 2 months ago. i gmail chat with her almost everyday, and i talk to her, my best friend and her best friend at recess everyday. i'm in 6th grade (12) and i don't know what to do. im thinking about telling her that i like her a lot soon, but i don't think i have the guts. shes a year younger than me. please help!

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      logan 6 years ago

      thank you soooooooooo much for the anwser a nice and quiet date if it weren't for you id be dumped from my cute/hot girlfriend thnx so much i will always count on you. :-) thnx. o by the way chiaualover when he ask you the question '' why didn't you said yes the first time '' say that you were nevorus it will make him say ''o'' and will smile and start to go out with you as a couple just like me and my girlfriend.

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      chihuahualover7 6 years ago

      This guy asked me to be his girlfriend. I turned him down

      Ik guys.. dont freak out. We don't go to the same school, i love him, and he loves me, and im only 10. Im gonna see his school at middle school because were eating there. What if he asks me again??? I might say yes but what if he says oh. Why didn't you say yes before i ask you? and i'll feel so bad.

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      logan 6 years ago

      i got a girlfriend already in wizard 101 and real life also and they are the same girl. we went on a couple dates togeter, we kiss, we joke around (didn't take it serously). but i asked her to be my girlfriend but a bully went aside us. next day i asked her out again she said yes and her birthday is in one weak and she wants something speical from me. can you give me the advice that is related to something special. o by the way i am in ninth grade 14 years old plz/please help me. and same thing if you under 12 you can't go out it's a fake.

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      Wes 6 years ago

      I have a girl that i like but she doesn't like . What should I do?

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      elias (twin) 6 years ago

      i like this girl in my class that people tell me she likes me but on wizard 101 she asked me out (in game)

      i want her to be my girlfriend

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      xxsadokxx 6 years ago from TUNISIA

      Hey, I like this girl in my highschool and i don't know her , i'm shy to talk to her also i'm don't know how to start talking to her , i say to myself sometimes maybe i have to go akking her to be my GF with out knowing her , plz help me

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      Amanda 6 years ago

      If a boy gives you a candy herat saying he text me does he like you?

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      SmArTy 6 years ago

      Im 14 and i don't have a GF.......can u believe....!!!....well i do like a girl bt im extremely should I start talking with her......and den ask her for date.,??...plz help me guyZzzz...

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      Jcgman 6 years ago

      I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me. She is really cool and smiles at my jokes . Should I ask her.

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      The swagger 6 years ago

      I like this girl im 10 and shes ten but my friends sister is friends with her sister ans saysnthat she likes my other friend but she laughs at all my jokes and always stares at me what should i do

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      Jamie 6 years ago

      I like this girl in my class, not sure if she likes me. What do I do, she's always with her friends and I don't know what I should do. Btw I'm 13 and all you 10,11,12 yr olds during puberty, your views and choices on girls changes a lot, so the random girl in your class suddenly becomes the only person you can think about. Also when interacting with girls, the big no-no is looking at their chest and lower body parts, it is not only unattractive, it's also disgusting and u can look like a pervert. Just another note, I'm English so I have not got a clue to what 7th grade is. I used to stay and go to school in Vancouver Canada, but that was years ago. If anyone can help me with that, I'd be very happy, thanks!!

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      DUDE 6 years ago

      I like this girl and she likes me i think I not sure how do I tell

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      Ruben 6 years ago

      Hey ummm Im knew to this school I'm 13 Chubby a Christianand I really like this girl we dontalk to each other that much butt I like her I want to know her and then ask her out but I'm afraid she says no!! Because I'm fat how can I make her say yes if I get to know her? ????

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      big bro 6 years ago

      Hey, oops it happened dude, here is some advice. Say," hey after that question you asked me, I thought about it some more and came to realize that I like you more than a friend. So, you think you could be my girlfriend? " P.S. don't pop that question yet. Your are only in the 5th grade.

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      Bramanr 6 years ago

      Hey I need some advice I have a girlfriend and I had been dating her for a year I was planning on breaking up with her the summer before freshman year but then got diagnosed with lung cancer. I feel so terrible because her father caused her cancer with all of his marijuana problems he actually just got sent to prison recent ally . To makes matters worse my girlfriend wants me to pop her cherry and I just would feel terrible if I did since I don't have feelings for her anymore.

      Please help this is really hard on me and I could really use do solid advice.

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      big bro 6 years ago

      Hi. I am 12 and I like this girl and I think she likes me, but I am not sure. Any help?

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      Robert O'Loughlin 6 years ago

      Hi i am 13 and would like some advice

      [warning will be long and sappy]

      ive liked a girl since a year and a half ago and don't have the balls to ask her out. ive been dating since i was eight but my last gf died in a car accidentwhen i was nine im over her now , i see all the signs but don't know the time place and what to say she calls me stupid while blushing and laughing at my jokes im not sure if she completely likes me but i like her a lot please help me find the words to say i don't want another bad break up

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      I got SWAG 6 years ago

      Hi I'm a girl who is younger than all of you and I can gives some tip's

      One first fun out I the girl likes you and to do that you could take the risk of asking she will most likely not tell te truth and if you don't wanna ask her get someone else to ask her for you for example a friend of hers an yours

      After try talking to her a lot and add her on the websites you both have

      (it is a bit easier to ask things over devices)

      Then if you have te nerve to ask we if she would ever have a boyfriend and then name hers and your grade

      After that over a device or in school or something tell her you like her more than a friend and see what she says if she says I just like you as a friend sometimes she is just embarrassed and will tell you that afternoon for example maybe on Facebook or something

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      kiAn 6 years ago

      im 17 and i started to like a girl in our class,i went and became friend to her i use to text her a lot before..i told her that i lyk her and she too told me that she lyks me too..we went out together few times..together we both had a good class she sometimes does stares at me ..and i do the same..she use to smile at me few times..ryt know im not so close to her lyk b4 but i do see she is in our class..n im not in contact wid her lyk b4..she duznt text m much lyk b4..she does know that im in luv with her..but i jst want to ask her to be my do i do that?in a good way..cuz i knw she too would lyk m as her bf..

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      William97401 6 years ago

      Guys it easy all u need to do is be yourSelf if your 12 like me then it should not be that hard.If u as really nervous ask her out over text message.LOL hope I helped I'm a boy by the way and yes I do hav a gf

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      sad guy 6 years ago

      I asked a girl to be my girlfriend and she kneed me in the balls. But know were dating,but HURT!!!!!!!!!!

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      Nigel 6 years ago

      Hey there! I am 15 now, I have been in love with this girl since I was 13. She knows that i like her but when I tried to ask her to be my gf a couple of times before, she says she only loves me as a friend.

      But now she is begining allow me to move beyond the friend zone. A few boys had stead with her during the two years, all of them ended breaking her heart.. She knows that i have stayed faithfull to her.

      Recently, we changed classes after two years and

      We are kind of depending on each other as we are the 'left outs' among friends.

      Yesterday i asked her out and she agreed to go out with me.

      I don't know if She is trying to accept me or treating me as a best friend.

      Will she ever accept my love.

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      opps it happened dude 6 years ago

      Ok so this girl asked me if I liked her as a friend or girlfriend and I freaked and I said friend but now that I think about it I do like her and I'm In 5th grade please say I didn't miss the window

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      Gdr101 6 years ago

      Pretty freaky I can't tell if I like a person I know like me because her brother said to her hey there is your bf and no 1 asked anyone out so um SOS please(-_-)

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      really pissed guy 6 years ago

      i just flirt with her about me asking her out and she gets really happy and i do that a couple times and i ask hr she says yes and in only in high school and i get girls left and right

      PS. my name expresses how i am feeling

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      Max Moody 6 years ago

      Hey I got a girlfriend at lunch becuse I have these friends named Connor and madision fox and my girlfriend asked me who is the hottest girl in third garde I said Ella that is my girl friend and then I asked her who is the hottest and she said me

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      E BOY 6 years ago

      im 10 and the girl hates me but i really love her.WHAT DO I DO.HELP

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      Harry 6 years ago

      I know all you guys or girls think you love someone, but If you're under 12 years old it's not real.

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      6th grader 6 years ago

      what do i do if the girls ignoring but her friends which is my frenemies say she still likes me

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      Jordan 6 years ago

      Hi again I asked her and guess what it worked we've already kissed and her dad hmm not SO happy about it but I'm sure he's ok and one day I was at my house with her and my little brother didn't believe me when I said so we proved it to him and kissed thanks I never wouldn't have got her if it weren't for this guide thank you!

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      Jordan 6 years ago

      Hi I'm 11 and there's this smoking hot girl who lives next door to me and I'm afraid that if I ask her out she will reject me and we will lose our friendship and her dad will get pissed help

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      Rosalia 6 years ago

      I'm a girl and for all you guys out there - just be yourself girls love honest dudes not lying stupid popular dudes who can't keep a girlfriend for a week - like I use to like this guy and one of my friends was hid gf and after 1 day of dating , he treats her like trash then like a month later they break up so now he's dating one of my best friends and he follows her EVERYWHERE

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      anonimous 6 years ago

      im 13 my current gf is 14 she is depresed and she cuts herself but i still loke her and well im happy. and for those kids younger than 12: don't even try it girls at this age are ......dificult they change their mind too fast . iknow this from expirience....if you really want to meet some one just start by making friends but not too mutch or else the friend zone it is. start showing some hints that you like her and then watch for signs to see if she does too. then just tell her you like her if she replies that she does too then wait for a few weeks or days and ask her hope this was usefull

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      Lover 6 years ago

      I like this girl and we are different races. She has now started talking to me more getting closer on my body(wrapping arms and hugs) but I don't know if she likes me. She is hot and i am good friends with her last boyfriend too.

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      isaac h 6 years ago

      any help

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      chris 6 years ago

      well my and well i came here to seek help just like the rest of the guys here i also have problems asking a girl out it seems im afraid for her to deny me i really this girl but i don't know if she does she talks to me once in a while as well as i do to her butired of talkin to t theres some days that she doesn't even look at me i try to talk to her but it seems like she ignors me and in others shes perfectly fine. i start to think its maybe the way i dress or maybe shes tired of talkin to me ive told my friends and they just tell me to take a risk . and well i would take there advise but my frinds barely even know the girl and on the next week they ask them out but im those kind of guys who likes to take those girls out before you know to get to know them and have fun but i don't know i came here for advise if you could help me out please id thank you very much

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      isaac h 6 years ago

      im in grade 7 and a boy. theres this girl i like named cassidy and i told her like her and she said i think we would be good friends and not gf and bf so get this in your head we're just good friends. here's the thing i like her a lot wea re both into show jumping(horse jumping) and we both have and take care of horses so you can see we have a lot in common

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      Gdog 6 years ago

      There a girl I like but I don't know if she liked day she talks to me and the other day she ignores day she smile at me one day she doesn' what does this mean.

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      Josh 6 years ago

      Hey, I'm 12 and there is this girl I really, really like and I asked her out and she said no. She and I like a lot of the same things and I want to propose to her again but I'm horrified. What do I do????

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      mizeelee 6 years ago

      its working . tq :DD

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      Anonymous 6 years ago

      Its not that hard to get a girl you just need to be cool and a realy good fighter my girl likes it and my other exes to so be yourself and do a sport like MMA girls like strong guys with a nice body that also nice an not to mean.

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      arquam 6 years ago

      Hey guyxx , my name is arquam and I like a girl she is in ma class and I am 14 and she is 15 or 16 , I told her that I liked her on message in mobile and she was like totally freaked out and said no , then I made an excuse that it was just a prank don't mind plzz but she just got v.angry and on the next day she was ok I make that excuse because I don't want to loose her and don't want her to know that I like her until I know that she like me or not coz I am scared that if she juxt refuses to me and say that we r not frndxx any more , and I m in friend zone with her and in class she sit behind me . Then I texted her friend (her friend know that I ilke her and she is her best friend) that have u told her that I like her , I didn't get the reply and that message was read by her father , I wad too close , but I saiid ma frnd txted u e.t.c now guyxx and grlxx plzz help me I think she knows that I like her coz her frnd must have told her , I talk wid her daily and I just want to know thiis that does she like me or not and in class we just have fun all the time and all the class think that we have an affairs , but her frndx say that to her in front of me and I just keep silent and she says to them no , it is not like that and we don't have an affair , if some one could help me help me plzzzzzzzzxzzzzz !!!!!!

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      Shon 6 years ago

      I've really hit a wall here, and i would apprixiate some advise on what to do.

      Ok, so, ive liked a girl since freshman year, i'm a junior now. She has dated two guys, both have led to them lying, stalking, and breaking her heart. I have NEVER wronged her, and I have always been sweet to her. So, I decided to ask her to the movies, nothing huge. She said she would get back to me, so i was happy! .... That was 5 days ago... I asked her 4 days ago if she had a good day and she said she was really busy.. Is it always this hard to at least get an no back? I am no fool, I can take a hint, but.. I don't know what I did to deserve to be stepped on through middle school, or watch my "friends" steal girls from me.

      Also, this other girl asked e to formal and i went.. She definatley likes me, but i do not have the same feelings for her.

      I just don't know what to think or do about this.. Any suggestions?

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      luke coppell 6 years ago

      a couple of months ago i met this girl named katy and over the last couple months i have gotten to know her very well and she has been flerting with me and i have tried to imply i like her and then there is this girl stalker who said she likes me so i confronted katy about it and she said it was not true but she kinda seemed panicked when i confronted her about it. should i ask katy out. i really like katy so please answer jimmy the jock or anyone else who has an answer

      by the way me and katy are both twelve andin seventh grade

      PLEASE ANSWER ME ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      phoenixfire 6 years ago

      ok y"all don't kn ow what love feels like unless your in &th grade or higher so all you dumbies jst ask out whoever you like and stop bein wuses and for those who know they love the person then ask her out after getting to know her. if she rejects you then try again later

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      YOPESH 6 years ago





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      alex 6 years ago

      help help theres this girl i really like she looks at me in a funny way is there sign of love in the air she only like the hottest girl in school my mates like her to if she asked me out or i asked her would it upset my friends

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      Amen-Ra 6 years ago

      i like a girl im 11 and iv been thru more than most adults have and i don't know if she likes me. please help

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      Angelo 6 years ago

      For all of you 9,10,11,and 12 years olds im 11 I know that choosing educatin is better that choosing relation because when you are educated u can make lots of money then you will atrract girls so choose education not relation Hey im just looking out for you no lives

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      Hollamileqhan 6 years ago

      I know dis is kinda of embarrassing but i dated a girl 4 gud SIX months and i never touched her not 2 talk of Kissing her. I'm about to have another girlfriend, how can i persuade her into kissing me? I'm 16.

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      marfi bhai 6 years ago

      yaa its work a lot pls don't miss it

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      Noneofyourbuisness 6 years ago

      i like this girl in my class and we're both 11 we're also the most popular in our class and were both our classes representitives.

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      Splitzkrieg 6 years ago

      3 possible answers are:



      I go already somebody

      DON'T FEAR!!!

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      someone 6 years ago

      i like a girl and i don't know if she likes me but everytime we see each other we both smile.... does it means something?

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      sosneedagirl 6 years ago

      i really have a crush on this girl she pretends i don't exist how do i ask her out but im only 11 and shes 11 to SOS

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      Byron 6 years ago

      i just asked a girl if it was a crime to love her and she replied wasn't .what do i do now.

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      k g marie 6 years ago

      good advice k g marie, you talk so much old than 14 yrs, you seem more intellegent than the older people, i hope you find true love...


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      Jezza 11 6 years ago

      i like a girl and i have asked her out and she say yeh but where should we go to??? Pleassssss tell me

      (i'm 11)

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      kunal 6 years ago

      guys hlp me out,.'i liked a grl., i hd been out wd hr ,whn i saed i lk her she saes i like u as mh frn,shall i she also dn wnna loose me nd wntd me to be in touch wd her,please hlp??????its urgn'

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      "Guitar master" 6 years ago

      There is a group of girls that like me(yes I said GROUP.) and one of them is a friend I kinda like. How do I ask her to be my girlfriend without hurting her friends.


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