How to Impress a Boy: 5 Things You Can Do to Impress a Guy You Really Like

Updated on December 12, 2017
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Fresh perspective on dating issues compiled in consultation with friends in North America, Australia and African nations.

What can a girl do to impress a boy? This is a frequently asked question posed by many girls who are interested in a guy, and are looking for ways to get his attention easily and faster. There are definitely many things you can do to impress a guy you like. I have discussed this topic with some of my international friends, and will discuss the points we all agree on.

Why do you want to impress a guy? So that he notices you. Pays attention to you. Gets close and involved. So how can you impress him enough to catch his eye? Here's 5 ways.
Why do you want to impress a guy? So that he notices you. Pays attention to you. Gets close and involved. So how can you impress him enough to catch his eye? Here's 5 ways.

5 Things You Can Do To Impress A Guy You Like

First you need to get a guy to notice you. And then, you'll want to keep him interested in you. But how do you get a guy's attention without being seen as desperate?

Impressing the guy you like shouldn’t be a one dimensional thing, but something you need to approach from many different angles. One technique might not be enough to get his attention (or hold it), so it is best to come up with a few good ideas if you want to succeed with your goal of trying to impress him.

Here's five things you can do to impress a guy you like. Good luck!

1. Be Good At Something

We are all impressed by someone who excels. If you are good at something, people notice. And the guy you like will probably also be impressed. You don't have choose something he's good at too. It can be really exciting to talk to someone who can achieve what you find really difficult.

My Australian friend loves going to the beach, but is not a good surfer. He is most impressed by women who can grab a surfboard and ride the waves.

An American friend is really impressed by girls who are cheerleaders. But he admits when he was at school he was in awe of a girl who was brilliant at math. He couldn't understand how she could calculate difficult problems in her head, without even needing a pen and paper. (He struggled to get the answers cheating with a calculator!)

We all agree that girls who are good at just about anything impress us. Here's a word of warning though. If you are exceptionally good academically, it might be hard for the guy you like to approach you. You might have to speak to him first. Yes, guys can get inferiority complexes too!

2. Be Yourself

Be confident in your own skin. Don't try to be what you aren't because that can easily be noticed by the guy you are trying very hard to impress.

Guys don't like girls who are fake. We like our women to be genuinely friendly. Genuinely interesting. Genuinely interested ... or up-front and honest about their disinterest in a topic or event.

Don't pretend you really like football, fishing or bushwalking if you won't enjoy doing it every weekend. That will just cause problems in the future. Lots of couples have different interests and go their separate ways for a while. But when they get together again, they are excited to see each other and share their news!

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3. Take Care What You Wear

There are so many ways you can impress a guy with the clothes you wear. Of course it depends on the guy, and it depends on you. But the general rule is 'take care what you wear'.

Most women settle into a personal style when choosing their clothing. If you want to impress a guy, give some thought to the clothes you are wearing. Tracksuits are great when you are doing something sporty. And yes, they can be really comfortable to wear around the house. But if you are someone who always wears baggy tracksuit pants and a loose-fitting sweater everywhere you go, that's not very impressive.

Branch out and try something new. At least one outfit that's cute and tight-fitting. If you always wear runners, try a different type of footwear.

If you are afraid you'll look uncomfortable and awkward wearing your new outfit out in public, wear it at home for a while first. Get used to seeing your new image in the mirror, walking in your new shoes, and sitting in a tight skirt. (Or any skirt, if you generally wear pants all the time.)

No need to buy an outfit that's incredibly revealing. Low cleavage doesn't really impress guys. Yes, probably every male you pass will notice your exposed skin. But that's not necessarily because they are impressed.

It can be a lovely change, however, when a girl wears a different of outfit to her normal choice. Not only can a new style of clothing draw more attention to her figure, but a new outfit can make a statement about her personality and confidence. So take care what you wear.

Bare skin is very sexy. But a bare shoulder can be even more attractive and enticing than cleavage.
Bare skin is very sexy. But a bare shoulder can be even more attractive and enticing than cleavage.

4. Let Him Know You Notice Him

Is this so hard? Is it really difficult for girls to give a guy some kind of encouragement?

It really impresses me when a girl allows herself to smile. Or laugh. Or blush. Some kind of indication that she's noticed a guy actually exists.

You don't have to throw yourself at a man, or pretend to be captivated by every word he says. Being a bit aloof can be kind of sexy and appealing. But being a stone wall doesn't work for many women. Sure a few might get away with it, but it comes with a big risk.

If you like a guy, give him a clue. Let him know you notice him, and he'll be more likely to pay attention to you as well.

Guys love it when a girl laughs, smiles or blushes. Anything that gives him a clue she's noticed him!
Guys love it when a girl laughs, smiles or blushes. Anything that gives him a clue she's noticed him!

5. Lend A Helping Hand

This is not to suggest you become a doormat. You're not going to become the girl who is always trying to stick her nose into everyone's business. You won't be standing by to jump into action every time someone needs a helping hand. But you will be keeping an eye out for that perfect opportunity to lend a helping hand as a strategy to impress the guy you like.

There's lots of ways you could be helpful, and gain the attention of that special guy.

  • Help his friend (without looking like you're hitting on his friend, of course.)
  • Help his little sister (with something like homework or music lessons.)
  • Volunteer for a charity group (ideally in a place he walks past every day.)
  • If you know his mother or grandmother, keep an eye out for opportunities to lend a hand.

If your goal is to impress him, look for an opportunity to step up and help. Not only will he notice you, but you'll have something to talk about. Any involvement you have in any of the examples above gives you a great conversation starter. Helping someone else just might be the key to helping you impress the guy of your dreams.

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      Daniel Long 118 minutes ago from All Over

      If six months younger seems a big deal, vedashree, I’m guessing you must both be very young. In which case, just wait until you are both older and you’re more confident. It won’t seem like such a problem then.

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      vedashree 18 hours ago

      actually i like a guy but he is 6 months younger than me and i don't even have the guts to tell him... what can be done in this case?

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      Daniel Long 4 days ago from All Over

      I understood your message but thanks for the further explanation, GabbyGabbs. There's no point getting involved with someone you don't want to be with, so the second guy is automatically out of the picture. (I think anyone who dates one person to get near their friend is asking for trouble.) The longer you leave this 'triangle' unresolved, the more complicated it is likely to get.

      Here's a suggestion if you don't have the confidence to tell the guy you don't like him. I suggest you approach the guy you do like. Ask him for help. Tell him you get the impression his friend likes you, but you're really not interested in his friend so could he please help you get the message across without offending him. Explain it makes you feel uncomfortable.

      The next step then is to let him know you actually like him. How you do that depends a lot on if you think he likes you too. When he says he'll help you, a comment like, 'Thanks. I'd go out with you if you asked me, but not him' would make the message clear. And a simple touch on his arm when you say thanks should get things started.

      If you're not ready yet to let the guy you do like know it, you'll have created a reason to have further conversations with him when he's not with his friend. You'll have that 'bond' after he helps you.

      Of course, things might not work out romantically as you'd like with the guy you like. But at least you'll have stopped the unwanted advances from the other guy.

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      GabbyGabbs 5 days ago

      sorry, I realize I didn't explain that very well. I like this one guy (person1) but his friend likes me (person2). person 2 called my friend ugly, so he's not someone I'd want to be with. (considering he only seems to care about looks and he insulted my friends.) I don't have the guts to tell person2 I don't like him, but I like person 1. what should I do about it?

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      GabbyGabbs 6 days ago

      Hey, I have a crush on this one guy, but his friend likes me. Considering he called all my friends ugly, he's not someone I'd want to be with. However, I don't have the guts to tell him I don't like him, and I like his friend. What should I do about it?

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      Max 7 days ago

      Yes, it does. Thank you. I'll see if that helps. If there's one thing I can understand, it's casting, so thank you for using that terminology. Thank you again.

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      Daniel Long 7 days ago from All Over

      Max, you have the basics of communication happening already. You obviously don't ignore each other. I don't see why you feel the need to tell him you like him right now. You'll feel much less anxious if you set yourself the goal of engaging him in conversation. That's a good first step, and doesn't really need you to get your hopes up.

      He's just a guy, Max. One of millions. If you don't make talking with him bigger than it really is, you'll do just fine. Instead of putting him on a pedestal and thinking that your lifelong future happiness rests in his hands, I suggest you approach the challenge more like you are 'interviewing' him or 'auditioning' him as a possible contestant for consideration in the future.

      Hope that helps.

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      Max 7 days ago

      I have anxiety, but I've liked this guy for a long time. Most the time when we pass we have a silly face stare-off, or when He or I hold the door open for one another, we say thank you strangely and then reply in turn. Other than that, we don't really talk. I've gotten my hopes crushed by so many other guys so I'm nervous about telling him. Could you tell me an easy ANXIETY FRIENDLY way to tell him, or if I should get my hopes up?

      Thank you, Max

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      Daniel Long 7 days ago from All Over

      Sarah, he isn't your boyfriend. Right now he's just a guy that you like. And it makes no sense to say he 'doesn't know we're in love'.

      Okay, I get that you think you're in love with him (but I doubt it because you can't possibly know him well enough to know if you're 'in love' seeing as he's not your boyfriend, and you've not had a chance to get to know him properly.)

      But there's no way you can expect him to be in love with you. Love doesn't happen like that. I'm sure you're a very nice girl who will make someone a really great girlfriend one day. Right now though I think you should step back and wait a few years and leave the guy alone, while you both get a bit older and wiser.

      I'm guessing you're very young, Sarah. So I suggest you continue dreaming about how great it will be to have a boyfriend when the time is right, but don't get obsessed about it and don't get obsessed about any one guy. Remember, the guy gets a say in whether or not he becomes your boyfriend. And he'll be the one to know whether or not he's in love.

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      Daniel Long 7 days ago from All Over

      Hello, Avha. I hope the guy you're meeting will be the kind of guy you are interested in. I think a lot of awkwardness comes from not knowing what to expect, and not knowing if you'll like him and if he'll like you. That's natural.

      I think you should remind yourself what a fabulous woman you are, and that you have lots of good qualities. Be confident when you meet him. I'm sure there's lots about you that a guy would like.

      I encourage you to ask questions of the guy so you can learn what he does for work, and for fun etc. And be prepared to talk about yourself a little as well. It is not a good idea to tell too many secrets or give too much information to a stranger, so pick a few things you can talk about comfortably.

      Give the guy a chance because he might be just as awkward and nervous as you are, so it might take a while for the conversation to get going. But if you have nothing in common and he's someone you don't want to know, just smile and tell him you're not sure what's happening in your future but you'll let him know if there's a chance for a future date. 'At the moment I'm just not sure what I'm doing.'

      Please make sure you meet him in a safe place (somewhere public) and take care, just in case he's not as nice as we both would hope. I guess the best thing to do is to hope for a really nice man and a really nice date, but be confident about walking away if you don't want to be there.

      You're a mature woman, Avha. You have life experience. You just need a bit of confidence. So go and enjoy yourself, and we'll hope for the best.

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      Avha 7 days ago

      Well

      I'm matured woman.

      A guy is coming n I'm meeting him.

      I always feel awkward in meeting men.

      What sud I do?

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      sarah 8 days ago

      hi my boyfriend who isnt my boyfriend yet doesnt know were in love what do i do????????? xx

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      ashu 2 weeks ago

      woww superb...thank you so much..

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      Hello, ashu. If you are chatting with each other, that's a good start. Instead of worrying about how to attract him, just relax and enjoy his company. You'll need to find out more about him and see for yourself what his personality is really like before anything else.

      Natural attraction is the best. And if you spend time talking with each other, you'll start to get hints.

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      Amelia, introductions are often awkward but that's okay. I suggest you just sit next to him and say, 'Hi, I'm Amelia. We haven't met yet.' Or, if you have met, just walk up next to him and say, 'Hi, it is hard being the new kid. Do you mind if I sit here today?' Then even if he just nods or is too shy to say anything, sit down and start a conversation. A good line to start with is 'Have you always gone to this school?' He'll have to answer that!

      You can compare your new school to your old school, ask about his old school (if he had one), all that kind of general non-threatening stuff that will be easy to talk about.

      The sooner you do it, the better (and less awkward) it will be. Much easier while you're still new.

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      ashu 2 weeks ago

      i have one friend,we are family friend but our family doesnt know that we talk, i like her alot but, we never met personaly,recently we started chatting, how i will know that he likes me or, how i will be able to attract him ?

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      Amelia 2 weeks ago

      I like this guy named Adam, and I just moved from a new school. He sits on my bus and he is always quite, he never says anything. I want to talk to him and be friends and I hope eventually even date but how do I start a conversation with Adam without making it seem very awkward

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      I'm guessing you're still really young, Loveydovie12. It is great that you feel special with him when he's around, but I think it is way too early to tell him you have feelings for him.

      Make him wait while you grow up, and then if you're still interested in him, it will be time to make a move.

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      Loveydovie12 2 weeks ago

      I like this guy and he shows interest in me like when i sing for family he can't take his eyes off me or he calls me babe accidentally and he wraps his arm around me but i'm afraid to tell him i have feelings for him

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      Why don't you just ask him, Kuhle. 'Do you want to date? Or don't you like me that way?' If you don't want to risk losing him as a friend, you could add 'We can just keep being friends, if that's what you want. But I've been thinking it could be kind of fun if we were to date. What do you think?'

      You'll save a lot of time and worry by just asking the guy. Sounds like you're good enough friends already to do it. If he's not interested, start looking for someone else.

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      Savannah, if you started dating on Friday, it is way too early to know if things are going to work out with the guy. And while I'm sure you really like him a lot, I don't believe you can actually 'love' someone you don't really know yet.

      If he has other girls trying to impress him, you should ignore them and not let them upset you. But until you know for sure that your new boyfriend will be loyal and true and not be too friendly with the other girl/s, I suggest you not get too emotionally involved.

      Enjoy dating him for now and hope that he does the right thing by you, but don't throw yourself at a guy who hasn't yet proven himself.

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      Kuhle 2 weeks ago

      I like this guy and me and him like each other but I feel like we are not going to the next step and sometime I feel like he doesn't like me that do I do because it seems like he Is on and off about how he feels about me. We share some common interests for example poetry and food but I just want us to start dating already what do I do cause I really like this guy to bitts

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      Savannah 2 weeks ago

      I need help I have a boyfriend right and I had started dating him on friday and I saw that another girl tries to impress him so what do I do I love him

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      Daniel Long 2 weeks ago from All Over

      If the guy knows you like him, Ali, but he's not giving you any encouragement and not making any effort to spend time with you, I think you should start ignoring him.

      Get on with your life and don't worry about what he's doing. Perhaps he'll 'miss' your attention and chase after you. But there's every chance he won't. So, keep an eye out for other interesting guys you might want to get to know.

      We've all had crushes that didn't lead anywhere. It is just a normal part of life.

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      Ali 2 weeks ago

      Ok so, I really like this guy that i've known for 3 years! I think he likes me back but i'm not so sure. I once told he liked him but he never responded back. What should i do?

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      Han 3 weeks ago

      My name is han

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      Daniel Long 3 weeks ago from All Over

      Paris, let yourself dream. There's nothing wrong with being a simple kind of girl. If you want to make a big gesture for your fiance, set your mind free to hatch a clever plan about what you could make or where you could go or what you could do to share a special time with your man.

      Just imagine what a perfect date would be like, then make it happen.

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      Daniel Long 3 weeks ago from All Over

      Beverly, if you are sure it was you he was talking about (and not some other girl with the same name), what are you waiting for? If you like him and you've heard him say he likes you, just start up a conversation with the guy. If he's too shy to talk back, you'll have to wait until he becomes more confident. But I don't understand why both of you would sit in silence when all it really takes to break the ice is for one of you to make the effort to start talking.

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      Paris 3 weeks ago

      Hii..i want to impress my fiancé ..i m simple kind of girl but i want to do something great for my fiancé..

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      Beverly 3 weeks ago

      I like a boy, but I overheard him say to a boy that he likes me but he never talks to me

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Anu, talk with him. Learn about him and let him learn about you. Find out what you have in common with sports, movies, books etc. You're going to need a better understanding of the guy before you can figure out the best way to impress him.

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Sounds like it, Grace. In the comment before yours, I gave a link to an article where I list ways to tell if a guy likes you. Click on it and see if he shows other signs of liking you. Hope it helps.

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      Anu 4 weeks ago

      There is a boy in my school who likes me. How can I impress him more

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      Alicia 4 weeks ago

      My boyfriend have sex with sexy girls he likes hot girls he

      thinks girls for forget abat hem

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      grace 4 weeks ago

      well this guy like sits next to me when were in the middle of something and i guess he like playfully grabs my thigh and my hand and stuff. is that a sign that he might like me ?

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Hi crushlife. Here's a link to another of my articles where I give a list of 50 hints to figure out if a guy likes you.

      https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-Do-You-Know-A-Gu...

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Sonali, how can any guy love you if he doesn't really know you? You need to make an effort to engage him in conversation and find out more about each other.

      My tip for you is to start talking with him. You won't know if you're right for each other if you remain strangers.

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Julia, why don't you use the internet to learn to say something in Japanese. That would impress him. Learn to say 'Hello, my name is Julia. I'd like to be your friend.'

      If he sees you making the effort, he'll probably respond.

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      Sonali 4 weeks ago

      U know i like a boy in my school but i dont no that he loves me or not i want to impress him please tell me tips

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      Julia 4 weeks ago

      I really like this guy but he doesn’t talk!!! He is from Japan and he is afraid he will be made fun of for his accent. He will only talk English to his closest friends. He can speak, read, and understand English though but he just won’t talk!!! I’m not sure I’m supposed to impress him!!!! Please Help!!!

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      Real 4 weeks ago

      Boys like if yr a boy like me..

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      #crushlife 5 weeks ago

      I have a crush and he

      . Touches his lips and looks at me

      . I'm on his group in pe and he does this weird sexy smile

      . Makes eye contact and smiles

      All the time

      DOES HE LIKE ME

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      Daniel Long 5 weeks ago from All Over

      Hi Winter. Here's a link to another article I published, '50 Signs a Guy Likes You'. Hope it helps.

      https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-Do-You-Know-A-Gu...

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      Winter 5 weeks ago

      There’s a guy I like and we talk a lot and I’m not sure if he likes me but he’s super cute most of my friends think he likes he because he stares at me but I don’t no how to tell if a guy likes me I’m really confused. Can you give me some tips PLEASE

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      sarmila 5 weeks ago

      It's good

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      Anonymous 5 weeks ago

      This guy likes me.... a lot.....I think like him too but Im not sure. Its kinda hard to concentrate on anything. I don't know what to do. I'm kinda new at this. I used to concentrate on studying and career in my whole life and I had no time for relationships. Now when I'm ready I don't know what to do.

      He doesn't talk much even if he does it is to annoy me but we both know he likes me but we're both kinda shy.

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      unknown 5 weeks ago

      i like a boy when i was little he told hat he liked me and he would marry me and have children i am more big and dont know if he likes me now.......weird but i do like him

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      Daniel Long 5 weeks ago from All Over

      Your ex-sister's boyfriend, Lungile? Or your sister's ex-boyfriend? Either way, it sounds like trouble. Sisters are forever.

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      Daniel Long 5 weeks ago from All Over

      Welcome to the real world, kobi. It happens to all of us at some time or another. Don't worry though, another boy will be right for you sometime in the future. He'll be worth waiting for.

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      Lungile 6 weeks ago

      I luv my ex sisters boyfriend a lot n we use to hang out I dnt knw wat to do cz I c he feels the same way abt me

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      kobi 6 weeks ago

      i like a boy and he dosen't like me and i wish he di

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      Daniel Long 7 weeks ago from All Over

      Allana, just tell him you wish you could spend more time together. The conversation should grow from there.

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      Allana 8 weeks ago

      I don't know how to let the boy I like know I like him we have known one anther for a long time but I want to take our relationship to the next level, But I don't know how to do that.

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      Daniel Long 8 weeks ago from All Over

      I like the idea of a girl who calls herself 'potato of awesome'. You're obviously a special someone.

      You know the senior probably has his head filled with a million things that seniors have to think about, right? So perhaps his role in your life was simply to get you 'switched on' to how fascinating and wonderful guys can actually be. lol. Perhaps you'll remember him fondly when you're old and talking to your grandkids, or maybe you'll date him in a few years if you're both working in the same part of a big, strange city and happen to bump into each other in a shopping mall.

      Or maybe you'll get unexpectedly bold and walk straight up to him and say, "You know, if you're having trouble deciding which of the many beautiful seniors to take to the next dance and you don't want to offend any of them, you could always ask me!" And then smile, and walk away with your head held high.

      That's the kind of thing I'd expect from a potato of awesome. :)

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      Daniel Long 8 weeks ago from All Over

      Autumn, you've had one short talk with the guy. That's a start, but it is way too soon to know if he likes you or not. He probably doesn't even know if he likes you yet.

      You're going to have to talk more. You don't know him well enough yet to know if he's going to be a jerk or not. But it certainly sounds as though you are both kind of interested in each other, so just relax and talk to the guy and see what happens. No stress.

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      Daniel Long 8 weeks ago from All Over

      Chelsea, I did you a favor by deleting your comment. You put your name on it, and called the boy by name. Because I don't think you'll ever want google to put your comment in their search results when the boy searches his own name, I put an end to it.

      Here's some more tips for you, Chelsea. Never put your email address in a public comment. I'm never going to email you directly, and hopefully nobody else saw you email address there yet.

      You are only 13. Believe me, 17, 18 and 19 are much better years for making decisions about boys. Instead of trying to make yourself part of 'the best couple' in your school so you don't get teased, I want you to learn how to stand up to the bullies who tease you ... or just stop stressing when you get teased, and laugh at the bullies.

      That's the skill you need at your age. You need to stop to thinking your life will be over if you don't go out with some boy, no matter how nice he is. Life goes on past secondary school, and that's when it starts to get really fun and interesting. You wouldn't want to miss the fun and freedom that comes with being an adult!!!

      May I suggest you say something to the bullies like, "I'm only 13. You might think the world revolves around boys at 13, but I don't."

      Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel or what you should be doing, Chelsea. Give yourself time to mature and get your head around your schoolwork and all that kind of stuff before you worry about who you're going to date. If that guy's worth having as a boyfriend, you can make a move on him when you're old enough to cope with a whole new bundle of issues and problems.

      Work on your self confidence for now, and make decisions that will help you get through the early teenage years. It is important to learn how to say 'no' to people who try to pressure you to do dumb things. Talk to people who make sense, and ignore the others who haven't figured out what 13 should really be about. When you're 15 or 16 you're going to see that I was right. Even then you'll see just how young 13 is. You're 13, girl. Enjoy it for all the right reasons ... and concentrate on doing what's right for you in the long run. Protect yourself from stupidity, and ignore those who try to make you do stupid things. They're the ones who will have all the regrets when they get older, not you.

      I know you're gonna do great!

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      Autumn 8 weeks ago

      So there is this super cute guy in 2 of my classes that I have a massive crush on. The problem is that we hardly even know each other. Last week I had my first really short talk with him, and I don't know if he likes me or not. So far, the only signs that I have noticed is that he looks at me lot and when he sees I look at him back, then he quickly looks away. And I really want to get his attention. Please help me!

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      potato of awesome 2 months ago

      I like a guy who's a senior - I'm two years younger. I know there's not enough time left to expect a serious relationship, but if nothing else, I at least want to go to a dance with him... we're in a lot of activities together, but I'm kind of intimidated by him. He's insanely smart, and pretty funny. I'm slightly less smart, and not funny at all. We've only talked a few times, and never had an actual conversation. Where do I start? Should I even bother? I can't just let him go... I always scan for him in the hallways without realizing it, smiling when I see him walk past. I look forward to the dots in marching band where we stand near each other. I'm too awkward and shy to befriend him, but I've at least got to try SOMETHING, because my crush on him is starting to get in the way of focusing on schoolwork. Where should I even start when it comes to interacting with him..?

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Life is a journey. Times change, people change. If I was you, I wouldn't be stressing about a boy who probably has lots on his mind. Make as many friends as you can, and keep yourself busy until the time is right for romance with him or someone else.

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      2 months ago

      i love a boy who stays in backside of my house . he also loves me but nowadays he is not paying attation on me . can you tell me what would on this case

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      hanitha 2 months ago

      I love who is in my drawing class but he loves another girl but that girl didn't response

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      makayla 2 months ago

      you should try to impress him by akting like you

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      rohini umach 2 months ago

      i love a guy who is studying with me ,but i havent proposed him directly,instead with help of his friends spoke to him ,he just replied that i am not intersested in love ... i want him badly....plsssssss give me some ideas..... i am mad at him for past 2 years

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      Richa 3 months ago

      I am too shy to look at my crush if he sees me what should i do?

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      monalisa 3 months ago

      i have got this guy friend from college i seem to like him and i feel he does but he is not telling me and he seems to be a church guy too how should let him know i love him or should wait for him .i want him badly for real should ignore this feeling or what please help.

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      shruti 3 months ago

      i love a guy who is in same class but in different section. he is very handsome and cute person. I know him since we were in 7th standard. i had even told my feelings towards him but he gave a very unusual reaction. his behavior is very confusing.. he sometimes smiles and stare at me but sometimes he ignores me.. i always feel that he want to talk with me..

      he has a girlfriend who is very pretty but don't know why he always used to tease her. my friends tell me that he is not interested with his gf but when i see them together they are holding hands of each other (as if he is trying to make me jealous)

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Enjoy the attention, meshiek, and see how it plays out. Don't expect too much because it sounds like he might back off again, but there's always the chance he might surprise you and turn out to be a really nice guy. Good luck.

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      meshiek 3 months ago

      i have a crush on one of my seniors with whom i had gone for a basketball tournament.he did not speak to me nor even look at me for a month now all of a sudden he spoke to me today very friendly.my friends were agruing with him when i supported him and he also joined with me.he is giving me mixed signals .what do i do?

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      myeadshh 3 months ago

      plz help me all my friends and his friends tell me that he loves me but i am very scarded to trust him.one of his friends tell me that he had a crush on me when he was in 7th,8th,9th grade but he did not expect me to accept him and thats why he accepted the proposal of a girl and now he is back to me.wat do i do?can i trust him?

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      myeadshh 3 months ago

      i used to have a crush on my best friend and then when he got a new girlfriend she told him to stop speaking to me which he did ,we both did not speak to each other for a year and a half and then suddenly one day he started speaking to me though my crush on him was long gone i couldnt ignore him for more than a day.now since he started speaking to me his girlfriend broke up with him.now everyone thinks and tells me that he loves me but i dont know if i can trust him and i think i am falling for him again.plz help me i dont want to end up with a broken heart again.

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      Lola 4 months ago

      I met a guy at social network site and we went out once

      Initially our conversation was fun and he is very interresting..he's the mysterious, secretive, workaholic type(my type really)

      2days after our date..he stopped texting me, i text him usually a short goodmorning text, and i called hin in the evening.

      He once told me he have a medical condition; gastritis..im a nurse so i gave him a few advises..

      I called because i was worried about him, yet i may seem too eager..maybe he's not interrested..i meant it was plain enough..he did not text, did not pickup my call..should i wait for him or should i forget him already..i really like him tho

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      11 year old 4 months ago

      When it gets to a time In your life when you really want to tell Your crush that you like them or that you want to go on a date with them ,then it can be extremely hard. I've NEVER had a boyfriend but I have had two crushes both were my friends and I got to know them quite well, one shared his ashamed family things they have done( he wouldn't even tell his closest friend) but when it got to the time where I would never see him again I didn't have the guts to tell him I liked him. So I tell you all get the guts and ask them out or simply tell them you love them.❤️❤️❤️

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      rose 4 months ago

      i know that the boy i love likes me back. he ask my friends my nicknames and he ask about me a lot . i also like him back. when he ask does i like him i said yes. he was very happy. he always wait for me anywhere. his friends also are happy .but sometimes i think he doesnt like me. what should i do?

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      Love is great 4 months ago

      Daniel long i said that i love a boy .... and u gave some small tips i took that tips and after nearly one month i didnt talk to him and he also dint then there was a celebration in my school he came to me and proposed me i said i will tell u my decision later what should i do now pls help

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      Iley 4 months ago

      I think...OK I will do that..haha

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      sahil 4 months ago

      Awesome

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      I'm happy you are excited when the boy sits near you, but don't waste time waiting for me to tell you he loves you. Just enjoy getting to know him, and don't let your imagination or excitement get you too carried away. He probably hasn't decided yet if he loves you or not. And, to be honest, you don't know him well enough yet to know if you love him either. So take your time, and enjoy yourself.

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      Love is great 5 months ago

      Daniel long i said i love a boy who was talking to me then he stoped talking to me but now he is talking to me so happyly he comeing sitting near me omg its so tough will u help me does he loves he even in class time always sees me dose he love me say pls

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      I have written a bunch of articles sharing the thoughts of myself and my friends. I suggest you read some of them, plus things written by others. You really have two main choices if you like a guy but don't think he likes you back. Either keep trying to impress him and catch his attention, or give up on him and look for someone else. Good luck.

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      A girl in love 5 months ago

      I like this guy but I don't think he likes me back.

      What should I do?

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      I am happy to hear you have not given up, Bettie. There will be lots more guys who catch your eye in the future. One of them will be perfect for you!

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      Bettie 5 months ago

      have tried all this but none worked for me so am still searching i didn't give up

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      Take more control over your emotions; my friend, and get some perspective

      He doesn't talk to you. So forget about talk of giving your life for him. You sre in Year 8. Plenty of time to wait for the man of your dreams. The right guy is worth waiting for. You just haven't met him yet.

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      Love is great 5 months ago

      Daniel help pls i love him a lot i can even give my life for him

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      Love is great 5 months ago

      I love a boy his name is karthikeyan but he doesn't even talk to me frist he was talking a lot to me when came to 8th he was talking then suddenly he stopped talking to me i feel bad iam also not talking to him but in class times he always sees me i am not understanding whether he likes me or not when we all were 6th one girl proposed him in my class karthi he only talking to her in 8th but in 7th he was talking to me i feel very bad when m i talk to other boys he comes and say me to talk to girls i dont know what to do pls help me

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      kenvince aga 5 months ago

      Thanks it shall be done!

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      kenvince aga 5 months ago

      Thanks it shall be done!

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      Nisha Agarwal 6 months ago

      How can I know that wether that person really like me or not look at me everytime and in the while passing away their group start making noise why is it so

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      lancy 6 months ago

      I've told My crush how i think about him but he told me that his not interested in me but still he gets mad when i hang out with another guys what should i do

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      laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 6 months ago

      i am going to see my boyfriend tomorrow, we have been in a long distance relationship.

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      Hey, friends. I'm seeing a bit of desperation among some of you. So it is time for me to remind you that finding your perfect match is a never-ending story. Don't give up if it isn't working for you right now ... there's a bunch of tomorrows waiting in line.

      One of those tomorrows will be the day things go great for you!

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      Sazzzzzzy.... 6 months ago

      It's tooooooo .... hard

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      A girl with a voice 6 months ago

      Hi I like this guy he is so cute but he acts like he is going to impress me but inside I feel like he needs someone else but I think I love him

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      deepika 6 months ago

      but it doesn't works ... feeling very sad

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      Alekya 6 months ago

      Yes I agreed. All things are about already impressed and gud guys. But how to impress the boy and how to save my relationship​. Please suggest me.

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      cleo 6 months ago

      my relationship is very hard, but understandble!

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      Sammy 6 months ago

      All these boys stare at me and.I dont now if they like me i like this guy but he have a crush on each of the popular girls and I am not popular

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      kittu kaur 6 months ago

      I like a 25 year old guy he works at the same place where i work

      we used chat and sometimes phone calls too, once i had some work so i went market with him on bike it was 8:30pm we were returning to our hostel but when we reached infront of hostel suddenly instead of going in hostel he drove forward and took me to some place and surprisingly kissed me and then drove back to hostel

      But the annoying thing is that he does not opens up infront of me

      everytime i have to start the conversation

      i don't know what to do for him to open up infront of me to give me a little attention

      i really like him even he is not comparatively handsome

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      huly 7 months ago

      I have someone that I like but that guy don't like me :(

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      nyra 7 months ago

      I like my one of classmate his name is kartik it seems he is interested in me but he is not telling he always say that we just good friends his friends tease him with my name please help miss Daniel

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