30 Top Tips to Make a Guy Like You

Updated on November 4, 2016
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Fresh perspective on dating issues compiled in consultation with friends in North America, Australia and African nations.

You want to know how to make a guy like you? I've compiled 30 top tips from my friends around the world. Whether you're in America, Australia, the UK or African nations, I've got you covered. But I'm not going to try and protect your ego so be ready for the cold, hard truth. These are the tips you need to know if you want to make a guy like you.

If you want to make a guy like you, follow the tips from me and my friends. Concentrate on your goal to become irresistible.
If you want to make a guy like you, follow the tips from me and my friends. Concentrate on your goal to become irresistible.

30 Top Tips To Make A Guy Like You

  • Be comfortable in your own skin. Accept your height, ignore your acne. Like yourself if you want to make him like you.
  • Don't talk yourself down. If you speak badly about yourself, you make it hard for him to like you.
  • Don't be a cry baby. Only cry when you have a really good reason..
  • Don't be self-obsessed or arrogant. Selfishness is never attractive.
  • Don't complain about everything. You can't make a guy like you if he thinks you're too hard to please.
  • Let him be a man. Let him have a role in your life.
  • Give him room to be himself. Be supportive.
  • Gossip is a really bad habit. If you gossip about other people, perhaps you'll gossip about him.
  • So is smoking. It wastes money and it makes you smell bad.
  • Avoid using too much makeup. Why do you wear it? Is it some kind of barrier between the real you and the world?
  • Be clean and smell nice.
  • You can't make a guy like you if you're loud and swear too much. Sure, you might be able to bully him into spending time with you. But that's not the same as making him like you!
  • Don't be texting or talking to others 24/7. Suggest you both turn your phones off when you ate spending time together, or to silent.
  • Get along with his family and friends. Arrange barbecues or picnics and suggest he invite some of his friends and family along.
  • Don't tweet or post about him constantly. Leave him some space and privacy.
  • Tweet and post about him sometimes. You won't make a guy like you if he thinks you ignore him all the time.
  • Don't flirt with his friends. Be nice to them, but much nicer to him!
  • Have an opinion. You don't have to be passionate about absolutely everything, but it helps if you can express an opinion about interesting topics.
  • Share decisions. Some decisions you can make alone. But share the responsibility for really important decisions that influence you both.
  • Share quirky smiles and private jokes.
  • Messy girls can be difficult to live with. But if you're creative, it is easier to accept.
  • Dirty girls are never attractive.
  • Get rid of that moustache. And the mono-brow if you have one.
  • Don't nag. If you want to make a guy like you, talk to him. But don't nag him.
  • Have a life. You need interesting things to talk about when he asks, 'How was your day?'
  • Don't be too easy. Men like a challenge.
  • Lean in when you're talking. Touch his leg occasionally.
  • Move your hands close, almost touching his. (Makes him want to grab your hand.)
  • Hold his gaze. Look deep into his eyes and see how he responds.
  • Every time you part company, leave him wanting more!

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Stressed About How To Make A Guy Like You?

Don't stress. You're not the only person wondering how to make a guy like you. It may feel as though everyone else has a partner, but that is far from the truth. Relax and feel confident. Your time will come.

Being stressed and nervous affects how you look, speak and move. If you want to make a guy like you, step out with confidence. Walk tall. Speak clearly.

Adopt our helpful tips into your life but don't work too hard attempting to be perfect. You don't need to be perfect. You just need to be you. Present yourself as an attractive package of likeable traits that come naturally, not forced. That's how to make a guy like you!

© 2016 Daniel Long


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      Papeeebooks 12 months ago

      You are right. A girl does not need to pretend she is perfect to make a guy like her. All she needs to do is just be natural, and be herself. It will make her more attractive and increase her chances of making the guy hers.

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      dashingscorpio 17 months ago

      "Be comfortable in your own skin. Accept your height, ignore your acne. Like yourself if you want to make him like you." - Great advice!

      The bottom line is if you can't be yourself in a relationship or like who you are when you are with someone you'll never be happy with them.

      Be yourself and let the chips fall where they may.

      If you're "into" someone you'll (naturally be more considerate) of them.

      Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers and spouse.

      Fortunately we live on a planet with over (7 Billion) people on it!

      Odds are no matter what you look like or behave like you are someone's "type"! If you don't believe me go out to any mall, park, beach, movie theatre, restaurant, or church and you're bound to see people who you find completely "unattractive/ugly" either physically or personality wise and you're bound to still see them with a mate!

      Regardless of who you are or what you do not everyone is going to like you!

      However it also matters what (your type) is too.

      The goal is to find someone who will love and appreciate you for who you are as oppose to you having to become someone else to be liked by them.

      If someone has to (change their core being) to make a relationship "work" there's a good chance they are with the "wrong person".


      "If you want something different (you) have to do something different."

      Sometime you have to put yourself in the "his/her shoes" and imagine if and ask: "If I were (him/her) would I want someone like me?"

      If the answer is "no" begin cultivating the traits you believe that type of person is attracted to. You can't tell people what they (should) like.

      Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!

      Compatibility trumps compromise!

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."

      - Oscar Wilde