How to Court a Filipina Woman

Updated on January 2, 2017

Filipina women are known to be one of the most beautiful women in the world bagging lots of international beauty pageant awards and winning the hearts of men with different nationalities. After all, it is home to most mixed races. You look at Filipina woman at you will see a woman who has a very rich ancestry. She can either be fully-Asian, or half Asian and half Caucasian. It doesn't matter as it all yields the same result, a beautiful woman. So how do you capture the heart of a Filipina? Follow the advises below and you might just get yourself a beautiful Filipina.

Filipina women are generally shy. This is rooted in their conservative upbringing. Unlike Western countries where being liberated is acceptable, in the Philippines, being conservative is highly encouraged. If you are going to court a Filipina woman then it's going to take a lot of time and effort. But don't worry as all hard work bears fruit and in this case, it's a Filipina woman's love.

Filipina women are not very particular with looks as they more focused on personality. It doesn't matter if you're a fellow Filipino or a foreigner. If you have the personal traits that a Filipina woman looks for then there's a big chance that you will win her heart. So what traits do Filipina women look for in men? Filipinas like men who are sincere and honest. That's why it takes longer to court a Filipina woman. The patience on the man's part determines whether he is sincere with his intentions for her or not. If you are just looking for a good time then don't bother courting a Filipina as your chances of being said yes to are very slim.

Another reason why Filipinas are very meticulous in choosing a boyfriend is because they don't like to be mistaken for being easy to get. That's why they take longer to please. Do not worry because a Filipina will tell you if you have a chance. If she allows you to continue courting her then it means that she might actually like you. If she tells you straight up that she doesn't want you to court her then don't fret. She cares enough to not let you waste your time on her. Move on and find another girl to court.

Another tip in courting a Filipina is to be consistent. Since it takes longer to court a Filipina, you should show your sincerity through your actions and not just words. Filipinas don't fall for flowery words very easily. It is shallow and it doesn't express sincerity. It has been a known tradition that one good way to court a Filipina is by visiting her in her home where you can meet her parents. This shows that you are serious enough to want to meet her family.

More ways you can show your sincerity is by being on time when planning to meet up with each other. Compliment her. Don't overdo it by telling her grandiose words. Only compliment her on something that's really special about her. Also, don't get too touchy with other girls as the Filipina woman is jealous. She is conservative so this means that she will take it seriously if you are doing something physical or intimate with somebody of the opposite sex.

All this may seem hard but if you have perseverance, it'll all be worth it in the end. Once you win the heart of a Filipina, you not only win a beautiful woman but also a woman who is loving, kind and understanding.

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        15 months ago

        I never thought about Filipina women before other than they were gorgious, lol. Recently I have been communicating with one. She makes my heart melt sort of. I am interested in her alot. This article gave me some perspective, so I am going to pursue her alot more. I just know that our cultures are different and well I dont want to blur the lines. This article brought some clarity on things I did not know. Filipino women why did I ever bother with American women, yall are a class act. I hope my Filipina women and I live happily ever after.

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        Bert Hansen 

        19 months ago

        I am 60 years young and very lonely. I have always thought Filipina women are most beautiful!! And have often wished I was lucky enough to be with one!! If a Filipina woman were to choose me I would do everything in my power to make and keep her happy.

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        24 months ago

        Beautiful Filipino girl at work...her HANDS are like a work of art from God! A real sweetheart.

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        2 years ago

        would like to meet

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        2 years ago

        Yeah agree. Filinipina is one of a trusted and very sweet you can ever meet. I use this book "Truly Pinay" you can search it in amazon, really helps for me.:)

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        4 years ago from Philippines

        Interesting content!

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        5 years ago

        I agree with the "most beautiful" part of the story...I married a Filipina girl 3 years ago. She and I are both in the US now and our 3 year anniversary is in February 2015...

        You guys want an awesome wife?...who is loyal and not needy?...just cruise on over to the Philippines...

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        5 years ago

        most beautiful women in the world?????????? joke , ha ha ha i laugh a lot when i red that part , with they ugly face that look like some one hit it whit a pan !!!

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        5 years ago

        I am so grateful for your blog article.Really thank you! Fantastic. agdebdgcafee

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        5 years ago

        i have a wonderful wife from manila,,,i love her so much... she is honest& caring.

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        6 years ago

        I'm dating a Filipina and it is amazing that this article is so accurate as to what I've learned first hand, my sweetheart wants me to be sincere, wants to be the only one in my life, she doesn't want to be easy to get which she isn't and wants respect. I love her dearly and wouldn't trade her love for a billion dollars.

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        sate ayam 

        6 years ago

        so why is it that asian men don't want to get mixed up with filipinas?

        after living there for over two years i know the answer.........

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        6 years ago

        I have a Filipina girlfriend, she is not the best looking girl in the world but she is the most loving caring and beautiful person inside, I have visited her twice now in The Philippines and we are going to have a baby together, I am 53 and she is 30, I can trust her 100% and I know she is sincere, she has never asked me for a thing all she wants for me is my love, I love this girl so much because I have never been loved like this before.

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        krisolito maravilla 

        6 years ago

        Real Filipina woman are rare nowadays because of the influence of other liberated countries. But generally Filipina people are approachable and caring , the characteristics of a perfect lover could only be found in the philippines.

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        7 years ago

        i have met a beautiful filipina and we have been a couple since last year.

        she is very loving and caring of me and worries about me because of my job.

        Money is not her interest , loyalty , loving and most of all honesty is on the top of her list . yes she can be very jealous not because i flirt but because i have female friends from before i met her.

        I have been to the philipinnes on vacation with her before we both had to return to our jobs overseas, and now she is waiting for me so we can set up home together in the Philipinnes.

        Treat a filipina good , with respect and honesty and you have a beautiful woman of this world who will love you and respect you!!

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        7 years ago

        @mike: hello are you dumb!! she is talking here about a REAL FILIPINA. u think filipinas are easy that is simply because you are idiot!!

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        8 years ago

        sorry, i thought citing the source of the photo would be enough. i will remove it if you want.

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        8 years ago

        Why are you posting this photo without my permission!

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        8 years ago from Nairobi, Kenya

        Very well written, you put to the light this wonderful Filipina woman.voted it up and interesting.


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