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50 Signs a Guy Likes You

Updated on July 17, 2017
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Fresh perspective on dating issues compiled in consultation with friends in North America, Australia and African nations.

How to Tell a Guy Is Interested in You

Perhaps there's a co-worker who has caught your eye. Or a fellow student in school with you who makes you weak in the knees every time he comes near.

You are interested in him, but how do you know if they like you? It can be embarrassing for you to ask your friends about how you can tell if he's interested. If you're shy, the last thing you want is for your friends to make a fuss. Or, even worse, to approach and ask him directly.

Here's a list of the top 50 signs that a guy may be interested for you to look over and see if any seem familiar.

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Top 50 Signs He Likes You

  1. He leans towards you whenever you are sitting close to one another.
  2. He rarely turns his back on you.
  3. He smiles a lot and looks at you keenly.
  4. He maintains eye contact with you.
  5. He finds an excuse to touch you whenever he has the chance.
  6. He might try to make you jealous by flirting with other girls who are just friends to him.
  7. He will often show interest in things you like or that matter to you. This is an attempt for him to be closer to you.
  8. If he looks away quickly when you notice he is watching you, then there is a high likelihood that he likes you.
  9. He will be nervous around you — this is especially true if you haven’t known one another for long.
  10. He will have a seemingly never-ending smile on his face whenever you are around him.
  11. He will mimic, imitate, or try to do whatever you happen to do in the way you do it.
  12. He might tease you a lot, and this can especially be a massive sign he likes you when he doesn’t tease other girls around him
  13. He may playfully pinch your body, especially hands and cheeks.
  14. He starts many conversations. He asks questions and is interested in talking to you.
  15. He compliments and congratulates you, even when there is nothing big you have achieved to warrant praise from him.
  16. He compliments your make-up, clothing, or fragrance. This is a way of indirectly telling you 'I like you'.
  17. He may seem jealous when you are with other guys.
  18. He develops a strong interest in your social media conversations and comments. Suddenly he is commenting or liking your Facebook status updates or retweeting the tweets you have made.
  19. He may shower you with gifts.
  20. He prefers to be near you, even when he is supposed to be busy with work or attending to another important task.
  21. You receive lots of phone calls from him. He asks how you are doing and what you are up to. Does he call you often when he has nothing important to tell you? That's a sign.
  22. He will start acting nicer and more generous when you are around him.
  23. If he willingly says yes to everything you ask him to accomplish or do, he likes you. He most likely doesn't want to disappoint you by saying no.
  24. He does not want anyone to offend or insult you in his presence. He will defend you and make sure that you are safe and sound.
  25. He always wants to hang out with you and wants to introduce you to his friends
  26. He is less likely to allow you return back something you have borrowed from him before. He may tell you there is no need to return it and encourage you to keep it for yourself.
  27. He may call you sweetie, honey, baby, and the like.
  28. Does he say (or behave) like he misses you when you are away from one another for some time? He likes you.
  29. He will do things to make you laugh and stay positive.
  30. He will comfort you when you are having a hard time. He is the first one to say sorry when something unfortunate happens to you.
  31. He abandons whatever he is doing in order to find time to be with you and talk to you.
  32. When you are not around, he will ask your friends for clues about where you are.
  33. He may dress to get your attention and impress you.
  34. Body language signs of attraction is a sure way of telling if a guy likes you or not. Observe his body language to tell if he likes you.
  35. He will stare at you from top to bottom. If you see him running his eyes from top to toe, he has an interest in you.
  36. He will sit next to you, lean over you, or hover close by every chance he gets.
  37. He will ask lots of questions. He wants to know more about you and your opinions on varying topics etc.
  38. He wants to be seen with you. He doesn’t feel ashamed of the two of you being seen walking together, having a conversation, or having a great time. All that matters to him is you.
  39. He may tell you that you are beautiful and sexy, even if you don't feel it.
  40. He is your best companion when you are sick or not feeling well. He visits you and spends countless number of hours beside you.
  41. He will offer you unnecessary help to impress you and keep you happy. In the workplace, he may undertake some of your tasks.
  42. He does things aimed at proving to you that he is the most suitable man that you will ever find in your lifetime.
  43. He may offer you financial favors.
  44. He doesn’t mind spending on you and may spend his last dollar in order to impress you.
  45. He will want to be there for important events you may be having like graduating from college or celebrating a birthday.
  46. He will offer you support. This includes grabbing you by the hand to help you cross a busy highway.
  47. He will sacrifice his commitments to do something for you.
  48. He is generous with many nice and kind words.
  49. He will treat you better than he treats any other girl.
  50. When he starts sharing his personal secrets, you know he's definitely falling in love!

Remember to Observe Closely

There is no exact science that will tell you if a guy likes you back or not. However, there are many signs guys display when they are interested that can help you predict (or at least give clues) as to whether he likes you or not.

That said, it is hard to determine if a guy likes you as many factors come into play. Also, the behavior that you see in a man may not necessarily mean interest. Sometimes, only one or two signs may not be enough to make a judgment. Lastly, signs of attraction or love shown by one guy may not be the same used by another.

You should study the man from as many angles as possible before deciding whether he is into you or not.

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      itzayana 11 days ago

      my crush was touching me by getting something blue (idk what it was)and he kept staring at me and smiling but for some reason i still feel like he does not like me

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      My answer to you, Crybaby202, is pretty simple. Talk to the guy. Get to know him. See what happens. Just make conversation and give the guy a chance to let you know if he really likes you. Go on, you can do it. Just talk to him.

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      If I was you, Noelle, I'd probably tell him he can either keep dreaming about the super hot girl or decide to go out with someone he has a real chance with, like you. But it is his decision. Then, if there's no sign of him showing a greater interest in you, I think you should start dating someone else. Maybe he needs a bit of competition to appreciate you. Good luck.

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      Daniel Long 4 weeks ago from All Over

      Hi Caroline. Sooner or later the guy will find out his girlfriend is cheating on him but you probably don't want to be the one who tells him. I think you should let him work out his own problems and then see if he seeks you out. Meanwhile, look around at the guys available. You might find one of them is just as nice and just as interesting if you take the time to get to know him.

      It is great that you've been getting help from the guy you like. Stay friends with him if you can, but don't waste time waiting for the guy to be your partner. Keep looking in case Mr Right is somewhere nearby and waiting for a chance to talk to you, and I hope everything turns out great for you.

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      Crybaby202 4 weeks ago

      My crush does 29-30 of these things. What do i do?

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      noelle 4 weeks ago

      so i have a friend and i really like him and he always brings up another girl

      and tell me she's super hot

      What should I say?

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      Caroline 5 weeks ago

      So there is this guy and he likes me but he has a girlfriend that was bugging him to date her so he dated her and they have been together for 4 months but she has cheated on him multipul times but he only heard about it once so he wont break up wuth her till the second time but he said if he wasnt dating her he would date me and i have alot of mental prblems and i have bad sleeping habbits but he helps me with all of it like him being with me helps me and i like him back so what should i do about it. SHould i give up on him because of his girlfriend or just wait it out? Please help me

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      Alis 5 weeks ago

      He does like 20 of these but when I talk to him he feels shy to answer

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      OMG 5 weeks ago

      Thnx... Hope it works

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      Kaisha 5 weeks ago

      Thanks for helping me

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      Francine 6 weeks ago

      Yes this was helpful he does all these things not just one all.

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      Lili 7 weeks ago

      Thank you really helpfull it was. He almost dose all these things

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      Daniel Long 7 weeks ago from All Over

      Hello Jannie. Try to think of a question you can ask him to get a conversation started. It might be something really simple to start with, like 'Gee it is cold today, isn't it?' Even if it is not a question that invites a long answer, by saying something longer than just 'hi', you're inviting him to talk to you more. And it should get easier for you to say more each time you see him.

      But please remember, Jannie, you've never talked to this guy so you can't really love him yet. You just like him heaps and want to get to know him better. So don't be too disappointed if things don't work out between you. Lots of people waste too much energy feeling 'heart broken' about someone they never even knew. Please don't be one of them. Put it all in perspective, and enjoy the process of trying to get to know him better. Good luck!

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      Jannie D. 7 weeks ago

      i think this thing will relly help.but am confused.i need to ask you something.this guy is my crash we never talked.if i see him we will just say hi thats all i need someone to help me please. i need him to love me back

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      SA 2 months ago

      Omg thanks so much

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Hey, gaming guy. That's really confusing. I can't figure out if you're wishing the first girl would text or email you ... or the second. And who is it that you want to shake, but keep as a friend? The girl who lives hundreds of miles away and you're never likely to meet? Or do they both fit that description?

      Either way, it doesn't sound like any action you take is likely to make much difference in your real world. Sounds to me you're all in game chat, so it isn't like you're going to get your face slapped. You'd have to pack up and travel across the country (or the world) to have that happen. So just do whatever you feel is appropriate.

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Ashley, it sounds to me like David likes you. I suggest you move your conversation topics to things away from work. That's a good start. Ask him something like, "What do you do when you're not at work?" Maybe he has a particular sport or hobby he'll mention.

      There's every possibility he's going to ask the same question back to you, so be ready. Maybe you could say, "I really like going to the movies, but I don't have anyone to go with and it's not much fun going by myself." Or something else you like to do, that would be more fun for two. If you're lucky, he'll offer to go with you! Good luck.

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      Unknown 2 months ago

      There is this guy who met my eyes only a few times. I don't know my feelings towards him. Also, he is very shy and secretive and nobody knows anything personal about him.

      Do I like him?

      Does he like me?

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      Ashley 2 months ago

      There's this guy I like at work, David, but it's hard to tell if he likes me back. He works in a different department than me, so I don't get to see him too often but on the rare occasion we work together he's always really nice and funny. He often compliments me, when I style my hair different, my shoes, tights, perfume etc. and he used to hug me whenever he saw me. I tried not to read into it too much because I wasn't sure if he acted the same around other girls.

      Another guy I work with, whose name happens to be Daniel, claims that he think David likes me as well citing that he's nicer to me than the other girls at work. And one time I was sad at work David was really sweet and comforting and Daniel happened to overhear all or part of the conversation and told me he never heard David be that sincere before. But I didn't know if it was just because he's never seen David have to deal with a crying girl before or if there was actually something there.

      But as much as I like David, I just don't know how he feels about me and I don't want things to get awkward if he doesn't like me back, because even still just being close to him makes me happy and I just want to spend more time with him, but I'm too awkward to ask for his number or to hang out outside of work.

      Do you have any advice you could give, either to advance in a romantic relationship or even just a friendship? I've been reading a lot of your posts here and there's a lot I think falls into the category of hum possibly liking me, I'm just afraid I'm reading into it too much.

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      I don't know, and neither do you 2 months ago

      So, first off, I am a guy. Secondly, I play many games that have in game chat. Thirdly, I am apparently really feeling.

      Once upon a time I knew a friend of a friend, and we met over a game chat.

      Then she brought a friend onto the game, who I am 97% certain is smitten with my empathetic and goofy character.

      She lives like, hundreds of miles away, and the chances of us meeting are super slim.

      I don't know how exactly to remove someone from chasing you and keeping a friendship.

      This girl was the reason (I believe) that the first girl stopped liking me, (everything I am saying here has been examined by myself and I am pretty thorough :P) and I have no idea what to do other then ride the wave until some event occurs, rocking the world I know.

      She can't text or email me, (or anyone, her parents have sorta strict boundaries), and so the in game chat is the only place we meet.

      If anyone can help, great, if anyone can't, better, if life gives you turkeys..... I can't help you XD

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      Baby 2 months ago

      I like is guy he said he

      sort of he likes me

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      Melissa 2 months ago

      Hi,

      The past week I've been spending a lot of time with a guy I knew from my childhood that I recently got back in contact with, he shows 90% of these signs.

      I told my parents about it and they do not agree because they have heard things about him that they do not like, I can feel myself really falling for this guy and I don't want to upset my parents but I don't want to lose this guy either.

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      Daniel Long 2 months ago from All Over

      Serina, bask in the glory of being called the sweetest and cutest person ever. That's quite an achievement at your age, don't you think? One day you'll be telling your grandkids about it when they're in a knot about hormones and being young. Stop stressing and just enjoy the moment.

      I'm willing to bet this guy won't be the guy you have grandkids with, but it does sound like he likes you. So just talk to him and take your time figuring it all out. You've got a lot of years of all this fun ahead of you with all kinds of guys, but you're off to an interesting start. Enjoy.

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      Ann 2 months ago

      Most of those on the list already my significant other showed me but right now we are in the stage of having space for a while...I really followed my guts or instinct cause I can feel that he is serious I guess he is just trying to test me...

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      flourish 2 months ago

      Thanks a lot, I appreciate this

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      Ghinwa 2 months ago

      That was helpful and i think when i see my boy i will compare these signs to his

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      Dessertaholic 2 months ago

      I met this guy online. We met up for coffee once. He checked up on me after he arrived home. Had little conversations here and there through text. It's only been a few days but I don't know what vibe I'm getting. He made eye contact, he leaned in, we talked for about 4 hours on our first meeting. He asked when can he see me. But since then, Our texting is very rare. It's one sentence st a time, I'll ask a question and so forth. I see him online on the app so I'm thinking youbhave time to be on your phone but there's no text message you can throw my way? I'm so confused.

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      Serina 2 months ago

      So ive met this guy... he's in matric and im only in grade 7... ee met at camp where he asked for my number, and we've been texting eachother everyday for just over a month now. He calls me 'sweetie' and 'cutie' because apparently im the 'sweetest and cutest person ever'... i saw he's been doing like almost all of these things, but I feel like its just because he is such a nice guy and he acts like that around everyone... I dont know if i like him or not, and i really dont know what im feeling but i tend to think about him everyday... please help! Does he like me?? He has asked if i like anyone outside of school (he is in a different school) was he trying to see if i like him!?! Please reply, i am so confused!!

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      princessjenna 3 months ago

      Thank you so much. The guy I like does more than half of these and I figured out today that he used to like me and I was really happy but I did not say anything and his friends always are talking about us being a couple. :) :)

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      Cat 3 months ago

      But the thing is the I like him and he likes me so know what

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      Bebefl 3 months ago

      I have a guy that does a few of the mentioned things. But I got scared I told him to stop touching me and he got super angry and asked if it hink he was flirting with me.. which I never insinuated he was.. he is so confusing

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      Aaliyah 3 months ago

      There is this boy, he's really nice, super cute, and sooo funny. We've been flirting with each other and he even skips classes to hang out with me. He was being really affectionate the other day, but today he's been avoiding talking to me. What should I do?

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      helena 3 months ago

      this really help. there is this guy at my workplace and 26 of this points are so obvious when he is with me and i really like him too, just hope things go well

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      tati 3 months ago

      wow its good idea i will recive it

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Mya, it is really easy to tell a guy you like him. 'You're nice. I like you.' Or 'you're funny. I like you.' Not so hard if you just tell him you like him. You're not promising to marry him and have his children. Geez. If you want to say it, just do it.

      Or maybe you're struggling with it because deep down you're not sure you really like him enough to broadcast it. If you're not sure, just enjoy the fun of liking him without making a big deal out of it. I'm sure you'll figure out what's best for you. :)

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Sarah, your cousin probably isn't the only other girl to have a crush on the guy. That's life. There's no rule that says only one person can like a guy. And there's no rule that says he can't talk with all of you. It's not like he's married to any of you.

      Your cousin is a fool (or a child) if she lets the guy get in the way of your relationship. If I was you, I'd tell her to 'grow up' and remind her that we live in a free world where we're all free to talk with (and have a crush on) anyone we want. Until marriage changes the rules, of course. Good luck.

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Melonie, I don't see what the problem is. If you've like him for a while now, and you've started talking to him, and he's saying nice things, what's the problem? Just keep talking with him and take your time. There's no pressure to do anything more than talk with him, is there?

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      Mya_the_queen 3 months ago

      But i want to tell him i like him but i dont know how please help

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      Sarah 3 months ago

      So there´s this one guy i have had and crush on and he shows 1/2 of these signs and idrk if he likes me or not sometimes i think he does but my big problem is that ive known him for quite a time now and i introduced him to cousin and she likes him too but she sees me as a threat and she is always jealous and it really bothers me and she tells me how good they would be together but she knows i really like him and she tells me that they text often it just really bothers me idk what to do plz help!!!!

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      Melonie 3 months ago

      Theres this guy that I have liked for a while now and I have never talked to him that much because he likes to get on my nerves and lately that ive been talking to me hes been telling me that he doesn't really like bugging me and hes been trying to make me and staring and me directly in the eyes then glancing down at the table PLEASE RESPOND AND GIVE ME FEEDBACK

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      Daniel Long 3 months ago from All Over

      Aster, I believe you should keep being pleasant to both of them while you figure out what to do. If you're pleasant with the friend, you'll probably get a chance to get a bit closer to the guy you have the huge crush on. But there's always a chance the guy you like is staying away from you because he knows his friend is interested, so don't get too friendly with him. Good luck.

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      Diana 3 months ago

      Thanks this is helpful ALoT

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      Aster 3 months ago

      I need some help with my relation with boys. I have a huge crush on a guy but I don't think he notices me! His friend notices me though. And on a love quiz I took it says that from all the answers I put it says he likes me but I don't like him in that way! please tell me what to do

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      Emily Connor 3 months ago

      He did couple of the signs but I'm still not sure. He is being cheeky with some girl. He always tease me. He seems can't go a day without talking to me. He stares me whenever I'm other guy. He would laugh whenever I said something. He alwaya raised his eyebrows whenever he shakes my hand. He always makes me laugh.

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      Geo 3 months ago

      Is there a way to get a guys attention in a positive way if he's an ex and some time has passed. He's in a relationship but I know I was his first true love n he was mine.

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      Hadley 3 months ago

      The guy in my class alaways does 12 and I like him and he makes me smile and laugh but I'm just not confident enough to tell him I like him

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      Paula 3 months ago

      He always does 8.

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Sounds like you were blind to your own feelings, Gavin. Hope it works out for you.

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      Gavin 4 months ago

      I met this girl over the weekend and I didn't even realize that I was doing most of those things until I read this list, thanks for the list

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Sounds like he's more interested in you than he admits, Z. Why don't you ask him, 'Are we just friends? Or are we growing closer than that?' See what he says.

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      4 months ago

      Is it stupid to think that he just considers me as his girl best friend when he does 46/50 (I can't believe I actually ticked it) of these?

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      Ellena 4 months ago

      Thanks for this

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      joe wong 4 months ago

      this website helped me get a boyfriend

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      Gin 4 months ago

      This guy does most of these, and I can feel that he likes me but I'm too scared to return

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Here's a PS for Joe. One of my friends is sticking up for you in the hope that you only do the nice things on the list like being generous, staying positive and introducing you to his friends.

      But the rest of us still have a mental image of you doing things that would be creepy coming from a guy who doesn't really like a girl.

      So I hope you just exaggerated and might want to read the list again. Either way, I've kept my team happy by setting the record straight.

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Kelly, if the man likes you enough to want to be with you, he'll break up with her. If he doesn't, you'd only get half a man. In which case, you'd be better with someone else. Don't obsess about him because it sounds like he's busy elsewhere. Maybe step back and see if he starts seeking you out (or if you find someone else while you're waiting.)

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      My friends and I took a vote, Joe Ragenes. Yep, we think someone who boasts about flirting with lots of girls when he doesn't like them is a loser. We won't be surprised if you end up a lonely old man. (Here's hoping some of those girls put your name into search engines and end up here.) Better wise up, Joe Ragenes, and start being more honest with the girls you encounter because they'll catch you out one way or another. And you'll be the loser in the long run.

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Good luck to you, lovina. You deserve a good guy to like you.

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      Kelly plastow 4 months ago

      I like a man and think he likes me but he is with a women oready

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      Joe Ragenes 4 months ago

      this is dumb i do this stuff with lots of girls and I don't like them.

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      lovina 4 months ago

      i love hearing about love advice you people are trying for us we the teenager thanks be to you people. God bless you all Amen

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Leilani, you're in 7th grade and you told me a while back you've been dating since 5th grade. I'm not sure why you feel the need to date when you're so young. It would be smarter to wait a few years and see how all these different boys turn out as they mature. Then pick the one you like the most when they're actually starting to be young men. What you're seeing in these boys at the moment is hormones in action. They're too young to be actually displaying personality. But that just takes time, so I suggest you wait.

      Just enjoy being popular, without worrying about dating.

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      Leilani Jones 4 months ago

      Hi my name is Leilani and I'm going to be talking about what the boys do to me in class.in my math class at Fremont there's these two boys that like me even though they know each other and it's so obvious that they like me cause they stare at me while doing my work and I know for a fact because my friend said hey look there's staring at you and I'm like no there not then when I put my head up they looked down then we always switched up and down our heads.then I went to my next class and I have one of them and he always teases me and hugs me.then in class he winks at me alotttttt and I mean alottttt like he's desperate.then I go to nutrition then I go to science and 4 boys in that class like me but I don like them cause there all disgusting with there body parts then I have social studies and I have him again and he hugged me again and winkedddddddd then it was lunch and asked me if want to play football,basketball,or volleyball then I'm like no thanks then he went to play soccer then after he came back and sat next to me and plus I'm a 7th grader and I like a 8th grader

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      Daniel Long 4 months ago from All Over

      Good luck, Tamika. I hope your first relationship is a really good one. (Good relationships are definitely worth waiting for!)

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      Tamika 4 months ago

      When signs are pin pointing signs when a male has an interest in you and I went through the list with about 10 matched up. Haven't been in a relationship ever, one of my housemates was talking that 2017 there are going to be a lot of happenings from engagements, weddings and relationships. Because I have this instinct that possibly in a week or so, I may get approached by this guy I know.

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      syd 5 months ago

      i knew he liked me....

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      If you and your guy are together now, my job is done. Congratulations!

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      Celine 5 months ago

      Great job

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      helen 5 months ago

      thank you this has helped me alot also him and i hooked up so thank u

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      I don't know if people at your school like you or not, AJ. But if you just keep being you and let them get to know you better by talking with them and sharing a laugh, you'll find out soon enough. Good luck.

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      Sounds like your life is fun, marly. Lots of laughing is good for the soul. You're the one who has to decide just how much your friends like you. I'm not sitting in your class watching, so I don't really know.

      From what you've said, I'm guessing you're popular and that's a very good thing. Don't be in too much of a hurry to throw yourself at either of these boys. Just keep watching for the signs and wait until you are confident before you make your move. It would be a shame to lose the laughter and fun.

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      AJ 5 months ago

      I don't know whether people at my school like me or not. If they do how should I react please send me a solution!

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      paige 5 months ago

      this help a little

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      It sure sounds like the guy likes you, Precious. I hope it goes well for you!

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      Precious 5 months ago

      There is this guy at my church we started talking and he just kinda started laughing at everything thing i said. He tried to get really close to me during worship. He made a comment and everyone laughed then he looked at me i siled then he looked away quickly. Then the next time I saw him we were both smiling at each other and he wanted me to give him a fist bump. Does he like me

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      Bella, you're worrying about nothing. It doesn't matter if you feel clueless about whether or not he likes you right now. There's enough evidence that you're on good terms with him. You're hanging out together and getting to know each other. Wait and see what the future brings. That's half the fun, isn't it?

      You'd get tired of a guy who was just super flirty all the time. How would you get to know him and find out what you have in common if all he did was flirt? I think it is great that you talk so much and have plans to go see a movie without any pressure.

      You said you don't even know if you like him yet. Well, he's probably in exactly the same position as you. He doesn't know if he likes you yet either. So I think you should just enjoy his company and see what happens. Don't be in too much of a hurry to turn him into a boyfriend because it sounds like he's becoming a really good friend. Whether or not that turns into love remains to be seen, but don't dismiss the value of having a new friend no matter what happens. Just keep getting to know each other better!

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      Bella 5 months ago

      I met a guy a couple weeks ago because we were both counselors for a kids' camp. We've hung out in group settings since then at "counselor reunions." I slowly initiated conversation with him over snapchat and after two weeks, we talk all the time. We are constantly messaging each other over the day and FaceTimed for the last two nights for 2-3 hours. But, he isn't super flirty with me or anything. I suggested we hang out and watch a movie we both wanted to see and he just said "sure. Let me know when you're free." I don't even know if I like him yet, but it bothers me how I'm clueless whether or not he likes me!

      Side note: He broke up with his girlfriend once we got back from the camp and then I started chatting with him a few days later, so he might just be confused on what to do I guess. I had no idea he even had a girlfriend so recently until a couple days ago. I'm thinking maybe he just wants to be friends with me. But he did tell me he was unhappy in his old relationship. However, I'm pretty sure he's happy when he talks with me...

      What do you think? What should I do?

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      Daniel Long 5 months ago from All Over

      Sorry, kathleenjoy but it sounds like the guy is a big flirt. Seems to me like he's probably asking lots of girls for their number. I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think you should get your hopes up. The big problem is the guy didn't show up and, more importantly, didn't apologize for not being there. And he's calling someone else beautiful. That's really rude.

      Forget him. He doesn't deserve you. You'll find someone much better than him!

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      So fli 5 months ago

      Helpful

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      kathleenjoy! 5 months ago

      is this one guy that i don't know if he likes me or no because last time when don't do anything in class he ask my number and said ''let's go on a date" I don't want to believe but he said he's death serious and I liked him since day one so when he ask me for a date i got red and yesterday he was calling "chula" some girl on my class and I don't know what to feel, but I kinda feel jelous when I heard that he call her "beautiful" and last sunday when I ask him to go on a movie with me he said he's gonna be there but he didn't show up. so I kinda confuse on my feelings I don't know If I should stop assuming if he likes me or not! guys help me please!

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      Destiny 6 months ago

      This really helped me and the boy I like.He does about half of these.Thanks

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      zendaya 6 months ago

      it make me think of the guy that like me.

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      Liliemae Andrews ikjk33445521 6 months ago

      This is really good

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      Skylar 6 months ago

      This was really helpful have of these things are true about the boy I like

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      Do you ever feel like you are out of step with the rest of the world, Hailey? Not everyone sits on the couch eating chips and soda. And the internet is a wonderful modern-day tool. If you don't have a guy showing genuine interest in you, I suggest you take a close look at how you behave (and what you say) to the guys you meet. A change in attitude would probably work wonders for your love life. Good luck.

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      Do I need to remind you how many other guys you are likely to meet in the future, Mickie? At least one of them will be perfect for you. Have a shot at catching your current guy if you feel like it, but I don't think you should lose any sleep over him. I'm guessing you'll be busy for the next few months getting ready for boot camp. You might have changed a bit after that experience. See if you still find your co-worker interesting when you get back. You might have lost interest in him by then, Good luck.

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      Mickie Mullens 6 months ago

      I have co-worker and I think that he likes me but Im not sure. He does a lot of the things you listed above but when I gave him my number he never texted or called me. And sometimes he leaves work without saying goodbye to me.

      I am leaving for boot camp in less then 3 months. Do you think I have a shot or should I just forget it?

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      koala 6 months ago

      I really like the boy and i think this might help me

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      Sounds like the guy likes you, Lia. But even if he just wants to be friends, that's a good thing, isn't it? If he's nice, why not spend time with him?

      Even if he's not yet over the other girl, he might be soon. You won't know if you keep too distant, so I think you should partner him in activities. See what happens!

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      I can't help you, Crab. You have to help yourself! If you were dating the guy, you obviously know him well enough to approach him and talk to him. So have a chat with him about how you are feeling.

      Tell him you still like him a lot. Don't expect him to be a mind reader. Good luck.

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      Lia 6 months ago

      At school I recently joined a club that i enjoy and one of the guys there is always sitting with me and talking to me. He compliments my hair, is always trying to be my partner in activities and is always smiling at me. He does majority of the things on the list but I don't know if it's because he likes me or wants to be just friends?? He has a big history with this other girl and I don't know if he's over her yet. How do I know if he just wants to be friends or something more??

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      Crab 6 months ago

      I made a big mistake by breaking up with this person I was dating but I still like him a lot and he dose everything on the list

      HELP

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      You probably don't want to hear this, Ramz, but there's a good chance you should listen to the warning. Nobody knows the boy you like as well as he knows himself. If he thinks he'll spoil your life, there's probably a reason for that. You don't know the reason, and neither do I. But take the warning and stay away.

      If he gets himself sorted out and back in a good place, maybe he'll let you know. But please don't lose sleep waiting for that to happen. Take a look around and see which other boy might catch your attention.

      Good luck.

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      Ramz 6 months ago

      Hey, Actually in here 5 /6 is right about the guy i like. But i don't knw wat is going on in his mind. I knw he likes me but he told that he is not ready to be in relationship. and he told his friend that i am a good girl, beautiful girl but he does not want to spoil my life. I don't know wat does this mean?

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      k95433i1 6 months ago

      that helps a lot

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      Daniel Long 6 months ago from All Over

      If a boy only stares at you, Zulema leon, it is hard to know what's going on in his head. Yes, he might like you. Or perhaps there's something you do or wear that fascinates him. To be honest though, if a guy really likes you I'd be expecting him to be doing a bunch of things from the list. Just staring sounds a bit creepy, don't you think?

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      Zulema leon 6 months ago

      he only stares at me is that a sign if a boy likes you

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      Kitty Kaze 6 months ago

      This was very helpful... Thums up!

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      hai 6 months ago

      D: i guess he doesn't like me at all. what a sad life D';

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      Starr Cook 6 months ago

      yo. my friend did this and her crush does every single thing to her on this list.