How Can I Find Love When I’m Scared to Approach Girls
Are you scared to talk to girls? Are you scared to even look at girls? It doesn’t matter how extreme your fear is – if you are not comfortable talking to or approaching girls then you may be letting love pass you by!
When you are scared to approach girls you:
1. Don’t talk to girls you know are a good match for you
This is something that will cost you finding the love of your life. If you know that Susan is the perfect girl for you probably see a lot of the same characteristics, interests, beliefs, and goals in her that you have in yourself. You would probably be a good match.
If you let these girls slip through your fingers because you are scared or you because you are lacking self confidence in yourself then you may just be left wondering, for the rest of your life, whether or not that was the girl that would have really made you happy. Doesn’t that thought suck?
If you see a girl that you know is a good match for you try picturing how it would feel years down the road living in regret. It may help you get the courage up to talk to her. It may even help you get the courage up to ask her out. You will never find love unless you try.
2. May Become Invisible To Some Girls
You may think that the girl of your dreams is going to approach you, but if you are scared and displaying low self-confidence then you may not even hit her radar.
I’ve often talked about a guy that liked me and tried to get my attention (he even talked to me) but I didn’t notice him because he was so unsure of himself. I actually didn’t even know he existed. I didn’t know his name, his face, his voice – nothing. It wasn’t until he gained some self-confidence that I actually SAW him.
So if you think that you are going to find love by sitting back and waiting for it, think again. You may be waiting for a lot longer than you anticipated.
3. Become Less Confident Every Time You Tell Yourself You Are Too Scared
Every time you stop yourself from approaching a girl and say to yourself something like ‘I probably wouldn’t get her anywase, you are adding to your low self-confidence or fear. You are literally making it harder and harder for yourself to approach woman!
In order to get over fear, any fear, you have to start talking to yourself differently and taking different actions. If you continuously avoid approaching women and talking to yourself in a negative tone then you may never get over your fear. In fact, you may be even more scared than you are right now!
4. Could be facing a life of loneliness if you don’t change your beliefs about yourself
So if you avoid girls that could be a good match for you, become invisible to some girls, and become less confident every time you tell yourself you can’t get a girl, then you may be facing a life of loneliness! You may never get a girl in your life.
I’ve seen many guys like this. Don’t think that it can’t happen to you, because it can! You may give up on the whole notion of finding love one day! You may just say ‘screw it’ and stop trying altogether. It may become more painful to think about trying to find love than it is to sit around and do something else.
Don’t become that guy!
Work on improving your self-confidence and go out there and find a girl! Find love! Everyone deserves love and everyone has someone waiting out there for them to find.