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Do Girls Like Chubby Guys?
Do girls like fat guys? Do women like men who are fat? Would a girl go out on a date with a chubby guy? Such questions are commonplace in a generation of body-conscious fitness freaks, diet addicts, and folks who will go under the knife at the drop of a hat.
A slightly overweight body will not deter a woman from loving a man, and a slight bulk will not make a charming guy any less hot or sexy. Here are some tips that the slightly bulkier men should know.
1. Fat and Chubby Guys Shouldn't Wear Tight Clothes
Tight clothes are meant to highlight athletic or muscular bodies. Girls like to see chubby guys wearing clothes that look stylish, trendy, and fit well. We are not going to go into the nitty gritties of fashion and style tips for chubby guys in this post. But one of the most vital things to remember is that guys who are fat or chubby should not wear tight clothes.
There can be many not-so-great interpretations made if a girl sees a chubby guy wearing tight-fitting clothes. Moreover, an overweight guy wearing body-hugging clothes is like a skinny guy wearing a body-fitting top in an apparent effort to show off the results of his 15-day stint at the gym.
2. Personal Hygiene Should Be Given Top Importance
Regardless of body type, girls like guys who maintain high levels of personal hygiene. Chubby guys should put hygiene above everything else. A scruffy look with messy hair can look stylish on a skinny guy, but it may look scruffy and dirty in the real sense on a fat guy.
In fact, poor hygiene may be mistaken as a sign of depression and a grumpy attitude. Some of the key things to watch out for are nose hair, excessive body hair, droopy eyes, scruffy hairstyles, and an overall unkempt look.
3. Good Body Language Is Critical for an Overweight Body
Poor body language on a guy with an athletic body will probably do less harm than poor body language on a guy with a chubby body. While this may sound harsh, guys with a slight bulge in their bodies should take advantage of this tip and maintain a great body language.
Some of the key things to watch out for include carrying a great posture, smiling, using deliberate hand movements while speaking and maintaining positive body language in general. A bad body language on an overweight body is like adding fuel to fire.
4. Fun Personality Beats Any Body Type
No amount of bone, muscle, or fat can beat a fun and impressive personality when it comes to impressing a girl. A guy with a muscular and athletic body could very well be turning off girls with his annoying attitude, while a chubby guy could be wooing the fairer sex with his fun personality.
A man does not win a woman's heart by building a rock solid body. He wins her over with his fun-loving personality, great attitude, and of course, a tad bit of chivalry.
5. Chubby and Fat Guys Should Be Comfortable With Their Bodies
There was once a time when fat and chubby bodies on men were seen as a sign of prosperity. Of course, we have evolved over centuries since then and now we know the health benefits of being in shape.
Movies and magazines have defined bodies of the likes of David Beckham and Hugh Jackman as the epitome of male sexiness. However just like every girl can't have a body like Rihanna, Selena Gomez and Kaley Cuoco, guys must realize that all girls don't expect their boyfriends or partners to have ripped bodies.
Girls will fall head over heels even for a guy who is bulging a bit if he is comfortable in his own skin. This level of comfort is clearly visible from the way a man walks and talks. Comfort in one's own skin is definitely a big attraction for the opposite sex.
6. Show That You Care, and Stay Healthy
A girl may not avoid going on a date with a guy just because he is chubby or slightly overweight. But his lax attitude over fitness and health in general could put her off in the long run. No one on the face of this planet is perfect, but we all strive to be better every day. Once you start going out with a girl, the least you could do is start showing that you care about her by looking good for her.
If this means hitting the gym for a couple of days during the week, so be it. If this means cutting back on the junk food that you have every day, so be it. If this mean living a healthier than what you used to, so be it. Once you show your woman that you strive to be the best you can, she will find you hot and sexy regardless of your body type.
Note: I recommend living a healthy lifestyle, including maintaining a good diet and fitness regime. If you have any physical or psychological weight-related issues, it is best to seek professional help.