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Every woman is unique and beautiful in her own way but being attractive constitutes more than the physical. It takes more than good looks and a sexy body to make a woman attractive. There are beautiful women who aren’t attractive at all. And there are those plain-looking women who always get the attention wherever they go. Every one of us has our own definition of beauty. Men in particular have their own taste of what is beautiful in a woman. However, it is important to note that wanting to look good is most effective when you do it for yourself and not for other people. So read on and you’ll know how to become an attractive woman in no time.
1. Dare to be Different
You already know that each one of us is unique in our own right. If you want to be attractive, focus on what makes you different from all the rest and cultivate it. Men are drawn to women who are not like any other woman they have encountered. Be yourself. If you are not comfortable with sexy and flashy clothes and prefer the comfortable sneakers and jeans, feel free to wear them. If you enjoy horseback riding than shopping, then do it. There’s no need to follow the crowd for the woman who follows the crowd will never go further than the crowd but a woman who ventures alone finds herself in new and interesting places no one has ever been before. Accept your flaws and improve them. Accentuate your strengths and let the real you shine forth. Pretensions will never make you attractive.
2. Accept your Flaws and Embrace You
If you love yourself it will be a lot easier to be who you are. People pretend to be someone else because there’s something about them they can’t accept. An attractive woman is comfortable with herself. She appreciates her body and takes care of it. She is not overly self-conscious but she’s aware of her flaws. She is not afraid to express herself and she is confident. An attractive woman is happy for whoever she is and she is not easily influenced by others' standards and definition of what’s good and bad. She knows who she is and she's proud of it.
3. Stand for What you Believe in
Women who stand for what they believe in are always attractive to men. It is important that a woman should know what she wants and she should work hard to get it. It’s a little disappointing and annoying if a woman doesn’t know where she should be. A principled woman is able to maintain her moral standards no matter what life throws at her and that alone is very attractive and beautiful. Strong women are looked-up to. If you think something is not right and if you believe that it is against your principles, be brave to walk away. There is no point in forcing yourself to accept something if it clearly violates your own moral standards.
4. Take care of yourself
An attractive woman is someone who takes care of herself. She is healthy and she observes a healthy routine and lifestyle. She goes to exercise during her free time. She gets her hair and nails treated every once in a while. She brushes her teeth regularly. She is neat and she smells fresh and clean. She gets enough sleep and takes care of her skin regularly. An attractive woman is hygienic but not afraid to be dirty. If you are fit, you feel good about yourself and it radiates from inside of you. Being fit is sexy. Sexy is confidence and confidence is very attractive.
An attractive woman is someone who always smiles and who has a positive outlook in life. A woman is most beautiful when she smiles. It is enough to melt a man’s heart. If a woman is nice and approachable she becomes attractive in everyone’s eyes. On the other hand, no matter how beautiful a woman is, if she is rude and difficult to approach she becomes unattractive. It is then important to smile and be nice to everyone. Don’t be too nice as to allow other people to walk all over you, though. Learn to defend yourself when the time calls for it. Do not make fun of anyone. Do not bully someone and don’t be rude. If there’s something you disagree to or if there’s something you are not happy about, learn to express it in a cool and friendly manner. People will definitely be attracted by your cool and nice attitude in no time. Do not fake your smile as well. That’s rude and often it looks sarcastic.
6. Learn to have Fun and Celebrate Life
An attractive woman knows when to have fun and when to be serious about things. It is attractive when she celebrates life and enjoys with others. If a woman values her life, she is happy no matter what happens. She also brings joy to other people in her circle. She inspires people to live life to the fullest because that is her very own way of life. A woman who knows how to enjoy little things in life is never boring. Men will surely be captivated by her.
7. See the Good in Others and Be Positive
A positive attitude and positive outlook in life attracts a lot of attention from men. A woman who always has a compassionate heart for people and who doesn’t judge people easily is certainly very attractive. An attractive woman is not someone who is easily disappointed by circumstances. She believes that there’s goodness in every person she meets. She is very slow to judge and that makes her a very good friend and confidant. A woman with very good friends go a long way. When a woman complains a lot and when she judges people easily based on what she sees, she creates some sort of barrier that will prevent her from attracting decent guys that she potentially wants to go out with.
8. Be Spontaneous!
People can only appreciate your beauty if you go out and enjoy the sun. If you keep on hiding, people will not notice you. Go out and smell the flowers. Smile and enjoy your life. Happiness is contagious. It makes a woman more beautiful and attractive. Go and hang-out with your friends. Eat something you have never tasted before. Be spontaneous! Men like it very much when a girl is unpredictable. They like to keep on guessing and getting surprised at what she does next and they fall in love with her even more. If you like to stay indoors that is fine as long as you keep yourself active. Play fun board games with your friends like scrabble or monopoly. Organize a small party or do a movie marathon!
9. Don’t be Afraid to Express Yourself
An attractive woman knows how and when to express herself. She is smart enough to choose her words carefully but brave enough to say it sincerely. She is intelligent but not intimidating. She has a cool sense of humor that makes everyone laugh. She shares good jokes but never makes fun of anyone. She can talk about many things. She knows a lot about things and she is not a boring companion. Being attractive means being able to express what you feel and saying what you want to say when you want to say it. Be confident! If you feel like you need to say something just say it. People will listen to you. Do not let your brilliant ideas be left unsaid. People deserve to know them...
10. Be Strong and Never Give up
A woman who keeps on going despite every challenge in life is certainly beautiful and attractive. She pursues her dreams and achieves her goals. She is an achiever and she is successful and confident. When a woman doesn't back down on a challenge, and when she accomplishes what she set for herself men will start to look up to her and admire her.
© 2017 Jennifer Gonzales
Lara Sauren from Texas on September 15, 2019:
I recently read this book and it is an awesome guide for women to be attractive
Magdalena on September 28, 2017:
It's so true, I saw myself while reading this! It gaves me the motivation to go on being me. I always thought by myself why is people enjoying being around me? Now I know!
valerie on September 25, 2017:
very true, be less judgemental. i mean.. less judgemental about other people's lives and how they live... that is really important. Let others alone and stop looking at what they do, kind of like gossip, but malicious gossip.
Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on January 18, 2017:
All very good advice to read and re-read. Making ourselves attractive is not a one-time effort; we always need to renew and reset. Thank you.