Everything You Need to Know About Your Virgo Crush, Lover, or Friend

Updated on June 23, 2016

Virgo: August 23-September 22

Astrologers have the habit of casting Virgos in a bad light when it comes to astrological signs. The reason for this is Virgos tend to have a narrow-minded attitude toward almost everything that they come across.

Fortunately, Virgos have the ability to let their inner selves shine despite the fact that many people think of them in negative ways. Virgos have the tendency to feel confident about themselves, which help them to be creative, well-structured, and successful in different fields.

Typically, Virgos can be found in industries where they need to be of service to other people, including teaching and medicine.

Virgos are good in maintaining their faith in other people, even if they have gotten hurt in the past. They don't usually let their pasts ruin relationships they have in the present because they know that this will lead to nothing but problems. They are known to be very thoughtful and kind, and other people tend to take advantage of these traits.

This is the reason why Virgos can become victims in relationships. They are also often treated with some apprehension, which can, of course, hurt their feelings. Virgos want to make sure their loved ones feel successful and happy when they are together.

Emotional Strengths and Weaknesses

Virgos should learn how to organize their thoughts. However, they can find this energy-consuming, leaving little motivation to spare to organize their physical surroundings.

They have the tendency to analyze things in an exaggerated manner and create problems out of small issues. On the other side, Virgos are known to be very ambitious, which is why they often work hard to learn about the subjects of interest.

Though people may offer to lend a hand, Virgos won't be contented with help because they have active minds. They tend to think and analyze everything endlessly, and those thoughts will remain until they find the right answer that they need.

People who are born under this sign should learn how to trust unfamiliar things. They should learn how to understand certain events that happen in life for no apparent reason as well.

They should also accept the fact that they don't have the ability to know every detail in life. Practice calming down and appreciating the passage of life as opposed to constantly analyzing it.


One of the most intelligent astrological signs is Virgo. They have good memories when it comes to important things and analytical minds, which makes them good business associates.

They are also known to be good researchers and investigators. If this is your first time dealing with a Virgo, you need to make sure that your motives are good because they can definitely sense them.

That is why people who are born under this astrological sign often become interrogators and policemen.

Typically, when Virgos come across certain problems, they will have the ability to fix everything to make sure that it won't recur.

They are also excellent problem solvers. If the people around them are having problems, they will see to it that they reconcile in some way.

So You Are Attracted to a Virgo: Dating Tips

If you are attracted to a Virgo, make sure that you have details and facts in life that you can share with them. They crave stimulation and information about different things that they want in life. Virgos want a conversation that has a conclusion, and they hate certain subjects that will lead the discussion nowhere but down.

Avoid forcing Virgos to create a decision immediately. They want to have enough time to think over their decisions because they don't want to end up with something that is not right.

Avoid making them feel worried because if you do, they will get fired up. Allow Virgos to lead you in almost everything because they have the tendency to be in control of relationships.

And a tip for those going out with a Virgo: Make sure to bring them somewhere classy and relaxing; they want these kinds of surroundings.

Dating a Virgo: How to Read His or Her Personality

Virgo women can be detached and cold at times. But deep inside, they are passionate, reserved, and very strong. Those qualities can make you feel that they are too difficult to handle.

The reason behind this is because Virgos are often worried that you will see their emotional side. They are also scared of being hurt, which is why they will often be aloof to you. If you are interested in her, you need to be patient. She needs to be impressed with the hard work that you show her.

You also need to remember that women who are born under this astrological sign are very conservative, which is why they are perfect for men who crave challenges and love to take relationships one step at a time.

Similarly, men who are born under this astrological sign are known to be sensitive on the inside and very cool on the outside.

The Virgo man knows how to pay respect to women and will treat them nicely. He usually likes a woman who can stir up the emotions that he has because he usually has difficulties in expressing his feelings to others.

A classy woman is perfect for a Virgo man because he doesn't want someone who pushes herself too much on him. This may make them feel uncomfortable and change his mind about being with someone.

So being understanding and patient will pave the path to capturing his heart. The efforts will pay off if you are looking for a long-lasting relationship.

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        6 months ago

        In a relationship with a Virgo. I am married, so is he, but not living with wife. I am in love with him and I he is with me. Nothing physical yet, but the other night as we were walking he took my hand. I know Virgo's are slow movers, but I thought it was a big deal.

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        8 months ago

        I like a Virgo guy and I want to get close to him but he doesn't take me seriously cuz I'm a grade younger than him I have never tried to approach him but he has and has tried to talk to me but I was dating someone at the time and in a relationship but I wanted to stay loyal I told him I was dating someone and he said ok and stepped away and when I broke up with the guy I was dating I wanted to talk and get to know him but don't have any classes with him hopefully I can get a class with him next year

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        14 months ago

        I'm in a relationship with a Virgo man, he is sweet and kind and makes me laugh so much, we've been together 6 months I'm 45 and I've had a crush on him since I was 13 years old. He's the only bloke whö has ever treated me right

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        kaylynn mariah todd 

        15 months ago

        I had a best friend that was a Virgo and I broke his trust but I don't know what I did. I am cancer I know to be kind.

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        Intense Virgo Man 

        15 months ago

        I've been studying astrology deeply for almost two years, so I take sun sign stereotypes with a grain of salt. I will explain my astro make up and point out things I can resonate with. I am a 10th house Virgo Sun, Scorpio Ascendant, and Mars in Scorpio in the 1st house. I am a intense, intuitive, and deep individual. Out going socially, and I study people intensely before I really engage. I read body language and energy output, and people can easily tell how I feel by the way I look because of my first house placements (Scorpio and Mars). I usually get targeted by people who are intrigued by my mysteriously intense expression, which is usually me in deep thought minding my own business. I only care about substance when I pick people I really want to know, and I am real protective of my physical and emotional health. So the aloofness is kind of accurate. A strength and curse is my emotional intensity, this helps motivate me to do things with obession or I am ice cold and dejected. If I don't resolve emotional conflicts it smolders and rips me apart internally, then I start to attack it and spend a lot of time trying to resolve it. My intensity is my focus both mentally and physically, this makes me a horrible multi-tasker. I actually get enraged or impatient when distracted in these moments. All of this talk about intense behavior, energy, and short patience comes from my Mars 1st house placement with Scorpio. It's too strong there because Mars is home in his sign. Virgo takes a back seat here and when things chill out, her influence springs up. Sex life can be described in two words passionate and transcending.

        The most Viro influence in my life is my career. She sits in my 10th house. The House of career, my career is actually the most polished and mature aspect of my life right now. Mid thirties man, I am more confident in this area of my life than most others. I feel like the second part of my life in my astro chart is underway. My career is not as important to me as much as spiritual discovery. This is my 12th house placements. Pluto (libra), Jupiter(scorpio), and Saturn(libra) all in the 12th house. Trying to figure this crazy house out.

        Relationships, tough one, it's a empty house (7th). I need to find out if it's just the people I deal with. If I wind up in one, I tend to get too wrapped up in my partner's needs than my own at times and loose myself. I do tend to lead things in my relationships, but love when she can step up and give me a break. I get burnt out on trying to keep things in balance in my life since i tend to focus on one area at a time. I use to be married and found that I am much healthier when on my own and have less going on... but i believe that is because my exwife and I were on two different pages. I believe that its easier to achive harmony in relationships if your partner reflects your lifestyle and compliments it more.

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        Taurus woman 

        16 months ago

        I thought you might enjoy this article:


        I am Taurus woman who has recently been in a four month relationship with a Virgo male. During the beginning of the relationship and majority of the that short period of time. We have argued hurtfully and horribly. He mainly starts it and accuses me wrongly of things. He has broken off recently again two weeks ago claiming that he hates the arguing (but he starts it and i feel like i have to defend myself). He has apologized when we resumed talking and I, like most times, over-explain things that he has viciously and wrongly accused me of. Now, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me but he wants to take it slow. He also has resumed calling me everyday and wants to know where i am and what I'm doing and usually criticizes and finds fault with me while also continually sharing about his likes of different things, advice of how I do things, get jobs, his family, etc.. I feel like giving up a lot with being with him because I feel like he's distancing himself from me. He doesn't come and see me and spend time like he did in the beginning. And he isn't sweet and kind like in the beginning as well. Should I continue or just let it go.? Is he interested in someone else or what?

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        16 months ago

        Am with this Virgo guy I fallen deeply in love with him but he told me he's not ready for girlfriend but he shows that he cares and he stares at me every time he sees me

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        21 months ago from Scandinavia

        Give it time

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        21 months ago

        I have a virgo man younger than me but I not sure if he likes me or is it that I help him out a lot we have spent 2 afternoons together shopping the one and the other just chatting we have been seeing each other 6 months

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        23 months ago

        Yass this is so correct

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        Alpha Virgo 

        24 months ago

        I concur with the loyalty comment. We are the most loyal, but we are not stupid. If you are disloyal to us or wronged us then you have lost that privilege. As far as the article, it was decent, and it seemed more like an observation of an individual who just happened to be a Virgo. On the narrow-minded part, in what context did you mean? Bc I'm not narrow-minded at all. I'm actually very open-minded. However, if my mind is made up about something then it is 'set in stone', so in that sense possibly I would agree, but other than that, no.

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        2 years ago

        Half true half wrong ☺50 50

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        Alpha Virgo 

        2 years ago

        Half True Half Bullshit! Someone used accurate info on Virgos, but added their own critiques and opinions to the summary as well, which is where the BULLSHIT comes in.

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        2 years ago

        They re so cold They speak in the same voice rarely laugh They love working and think They re better than everyone.. worst everr

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        2 years ago

        All Virgos are Cold and Cruel.

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        Shuron D Travis 

        2 years ago

        I been having sex with a younger virgo male. I feel like i am in love with him i Cant stop interacting with him. I was in a relationship when we met which i told hom about . he continued to pursue me but didnt want to have sex for 3 months after we met. A female pops up on his end but i think she was upset finding out about me so she pushed him away . Basically i cant leave this man alone. And he will not leave me alone either we have both tried. Please help me i am a Aries woman 43 years old. Anyone have any insight?

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        2 years ago

        I am drove. Been sleeping with a younger virgo man for 2 years and i also have a man at home who is also virgo but older. I love or lust or something with my young virgo. O just cant leave him alone and he keeps coming back also. Help me i dont know what to do i am so fucking confused

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        2 years ago

        Virgo could learn absolutely nothing from a scorpio. Every scorpio i know is very easy. I can see why a virgo would leave you, if i cant trust someone its a wrap, but we are definatley faithful and if u get switched up on it doesnt just happen its been on our mind for a while. Scorpio and virgo are totally incompatable anyways.

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        2 years ago

        Articles on Virgo like to talk about Virgo's loyalty, but the fact is they are not loyal. They are loyal when they are with you, but they switch loyalty to someone else very easily. In essence, that is not loyalty. Virgos also have a false reality which they convince themselves as the truth to justify their scrupulous actions, so they rarely admit doing anything wrong. Add the coldness in sharing emotions, and what you get is a good short term partner who can disappear anytime. Also, while they think they have many friends, those are all superficial. It is rare they have long lasting true friends. Virgos can learn a lot from Scorpios about loyalty, true friendship and passion.

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        2 years ago from Scandinavia

        You ned to talk to her.If she loves You. And You love her it belongs to You. And Then it will Come back to You. Best of luck.Mich love E

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        2 years ago

        you totally summarized me. I'm so untrusting and my brain works very much most of the time. I tend to want answers to everything and don't believe there's no reason for any action. I fell in love with a Taurus woman 4 years younger and we've dated for 6 years. I'm 23 right now but I'm travelling abroad to school for 5 years and she broke up with me cos she got tired of waiting. shes with another guy now and she's been telling me we'll be fine and I shouldn't abandon her when I travel. tho I want her to stay forever as I intended on marrying her buy I can't stand her with another guy. do you think she meant it when she says she'll wait in her heart and that I should cum back for her as in very confused right now I really love her and she loves me too. I disvirgned her too and I'm her first real lover. please help me

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        2 years ago

        Ok.Point taken

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        Virgo dude. 

        2 years ago

        That's not entirely accurate. And a bit of a stereotype. I'm not very organized and I tend to struggle with it. But I am always a highly effective person when it comes to observation and learning to always improve.

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        3 years ago from Scandinavia

        Ok, thanks for the comment

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        3 years ago

        Virgos are very very highly physically organized. We don't have trouble with that. This is wrong.

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        Jayme Kinsey 

        6 years ago from Oklahoma

        Another excellent hub. My husband is a Virgo, and you have it pegged perfectly. Virgo's can be either very easy or very difficult depending on the day. But the good traits definitely outweigh the bad.


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