Why Taurus and Aquarius Click Romantically

Updated on July 11, 2019
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How Spring and Winter Relate to Each Other

Two fixed signs: the bull, and earth sign and the water bearer, an air sign.

I believe that any two signs can come together for a match—it's simply a matter of understanding how that pair works. We have seen every single pair have a successful marriage, and we have also seen every single pair across the charts end in divorce. It doesn't help anyone to say only certain pairs work—in reality, anything is possible.

Fixed signs are known for making anything work for it. They are stubborn. They are at the center of their season. Taurus is the center of spring, whereas Aquarius is the center of winter. These signs understand life through these lenses. Taurus is incredibly strong-willed: they are all about manifesting finances, a healthy home, and material goods. Aquarius is all about the truth, genuinity, and originality. A Taurus (like all earth signs) can make for a strong provider for Aquarius, which often is what it deep down craves.

Taurus and Aquarius Have a Lot to Learn From One Another

An Aquarius lives in a world of thoughts and creativity and sometimes neglects more tangible things before them, like cleaning, paying bills, watching their physical health. Taurus types are great stewards of physical reality; Aquarius types are great stewards of the creative. A Taurus will help keep an Aquarius balanced, which is one of their greatest goals. Aquarius can pull a Taurus out of their shell, they can get them to be more spontaneous, to see the world in a whole new way. This is an incredibly important match. All zodiacs have lessons on love. Aquarius is about authenticity, they see what is fake, and they will not stand for it. Taurus is about creating life, rejuvenation, and revealing how love creates more.

Taurus is more reserved than an Aquarius. Which is amazing considering it is the household center of spring. Taurus will need to be careful with its temper. Aquarius types are sensitive and can be hurt by too much negativity. Taurus and Aquarius types get along when it comes to sarcasm, dry-humor, and staying in light-hearted places. Taurus can get baffled when they see the more emotional (hidden) side of Aquarius. Taurus needs to be tender toward Aquarius for this to come out naturally and in a healthy way. Taurus often fears the emotional and will put walls to prevent being around emotions. I think Taurus is worried that emotions (which are related to water) will cause too much production, and Taurus fears expanding beyond its control. Water = brings more life. Taurus needs to overcome this. Because we need Taurus to spread.

What These Signs Need in a Relationship

Taurus will need to be willing to stretch itself—this is easier said than done. Aquarius needs someone who is open-minded. Aquarius needs someone who is tender, sensitive, and intentional. If Taurus holds back from allowing emotion to come into its reality, it will lose Aquarius. Just offering physical support isn't enough for the Aquarius. So Taurus will need to try harder with an Aquarius to keep the romance alive. You must apply yourself. And it is totally within your range, Taurus.

What Taurus and Aquarius Can Offer Each Other

Taurus won't keep a tight leash on Aquarius to the degree other zodiacs will. Water signs can entrap Aquarius, Virgo can entrap Aquarius, but Taurus has a complex on taking things too far... and then seeing itself as a manipulator.

Taurus hates the idea of manipulation; it wants things to naturally go its course. This may be because Taurus is opposite of the Scorpio, who is the master of manipulation, not out of spite or evil intent, but because it's the magician. Taurus doesn't jive with that mission. It's about spring, it's about release, rejuvenation, liberation, new colors, health, and prosperity. Forcing and telling spring where to go makes a Taurus feel very, very weird. It isn't its nature. This can be good for the Aquarius who does crave independence. Aquarius does not do well when trapped. It's full on air. It absorbs emotions, and waits till it can overflow -- as if ready for spring. Don't neglect the symbol of the water bearer in Aquarius. A lot of people do, and this moves too far away from the complex, and beautiful, emotional nature of the Aquarius.

Taurus Must Make an Effort to Attract Aquarius

Aquarius needs help creating the spark in this relationship. Taurus offers a great deal for Aquarius; it comes from the variety of spring—rain, snow, flowers, wind, sunshine, dark days, pollen. Taurus is highly interesting but often doesn't want to open itself up to the variety it naturally has. Taurus gets lost in how much it can take charge—because it automatically is like a charged battery from its nature. Taurus needs to dive into what makes it interesting, and not just the physical reality it can help offer. Spring is a symbol of the physical manifestations the world can offer and provide for the species living here. Taurus needs to offer that beauty to Aquarius to attract them. How in the world can a Taurus get boring when they have this power? Because they'll forget it, or because they won't believe it is important in the grand scheme of life. A weird paradox indeed.

There is a beautiful gift in Taurus—it can make the world green, fruitful, and be a blessing, if not a miracle. Aquarius will be attracted to this because it houses the cold, the snow, the winter representing both the early stages of life and the later stages—death, aging, and illness. Of course, that can be threatening to Taurus, but it needs to accept this part of the cycle that comes before it. Aquarius is odd in this way because they are both old souls and childlike. They think forward into the future, with the past forwarding this. You can't have spring without the vision of the Aquarius—which includes death, cleansing, and age.

Aquarius Can Bring Taurus Out of Its Shell

Are we starting to see how beautiful the two energies are here? Taurus needs to come out of its shell. An Aquarius is a gift to it that can enlighten it, bring out that spring energy, and allow them to go much further than they originally thought. A Taurus can be threatened by an Aquarius if a Taurus isn't willing to see its own self. An Aquarius desires for the Taurus to show off its creative energy.

If a Taurus shows this, an Aquarius will be more attracted to it than the Scorpio—which they often get hung up on. Why does the Taurus have this potential? Because ultimately spring overpowers autumn. Life has greater value than death. But Taurus often buries its head—you're not just a seed to be planted in spring. You are already blooming when it gets to spring. There's a certain youthful energy the first few zodiacs receives because they are related to this spring energy. This can make the early zodiacs somewhat arrogant, leader-like, and brazen. This is where it is important to listen to the older soul that is Aquarius so that you can harness your energy and make an impact, and learn how to spread it without fear. Yes, the Taurus realizes that it can't make every space on this planet green— and it fears planting its flowers in places where they cannot grow, but Aquarius has the eyes to see where the Taurus is missing those chances.

Taurus Helps Aquarius Stay Grounded

Aquarius and Taurus have the capacity to have a great flow of energy in their relationship. Aquarius helps bring life into Taurus, and Taurus helps Aquarius find ground. In nature, these two already have a cause and effect relationship -- meaning this is incredibly natural. It is Aquarius nature that makes the flowers grow in Taurus. It is Taurus nature that gives Aquarius' vision the chance to grow. These two are meant to be, but if they argue against each other over their different methods, they can disconnect from each other. Your arguments are generally over minor misgivings that get blown out rather than the big picture of how your relationship works. Those misgivings can be quite painful. They need to accept how they work together in order to fully get the spoils.

Taurus is naturally conservative while Aquarius is naturally progressive. It's that progressive energy that allows spring to follow. It's Taurus' conservative energy that allows Aquarius vision to find a place. Don't be threatened by how your partner works here. The more you can accept them, the more you can see how this operates. It isn't always easy to see, especially with two powerfully stubborn people. The more you can see how you work together, the more you can tap into this to make more flowers (your romance) grow.

How the Seasons Come Into Play

It may help this pair to really understand how winter runs into spring. There is a direct cycle here. Consider how important are the aesthetics of the flowers, how careful and tender you must be with your garden to make it happen, and how protective you must be to make sure the plants grow well. Taurus makes for great parents because they have such a strong understanding of how to raise the living around it. Aquarius as a visionary is what makes the Taurus reality even possible. However, Aquarius is not actually before the Taurus. Aquarius is at the end of the cycle -- it's the 11th house. Aquarius sees how Taurus makes its product and how it effects the following zodiacs, the following seasons. It doesn't just think about the flowers when they are living, but when it is over and ready to disintegrate. They see how the flower wasn't fulfilled, and this is part of their progressive nature -- they consider how the cycle can be even better the next time, and that isn't to threaten the Taurus but to make the Taurus stronger. You may have traditions you've followed to successfully make flowers, but Aquarius sees how that process can be made better, for healthier fruit.


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      5 weeks ago

      Hi Andrea! Taurus girl here quietly in love with an Aquarius. His buddy tried wooing me some time back, we didn’t work out and he turned sour. I am guessing that this Friend came between the Aquarius and myself, and he drifted away just when we are about to blossom. Has he lost his trust or faith in us? Will he be coming back? I am crying everyday.. How should I approach him? Should I just keep quiet to give him time? Is it alright to send hellos once in a while?

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      6 weeks ago

      Andrea the only thing I disagree with you is in your comments. I don't find myself attracted to Scorpio first. My best friend, dog (best dog ever!) and some loved relatives are Taurus. Aquarius has a much better chance of a successful relationship with Taurus than with Scorpio. Aquarius and Scorpio are both too complex for each other. Both hide their motives which leads to mistrust and suspicion. Taurus and Aquarius have mutual respect for each other in the long run.

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      6 weeks ago

      I’m a Taurus, I live an Aquarius, he’s angry at me and I don’t know what I’ve done wrong

      How to I approach resolving this?

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      2 months ago

      I am a Tarius man and have been dating an Aguarius woman over 5years and we are now on our last lap of our marriage rites. We are deeply in love do you encourage us go ahead and marry?

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 months ago from Chicago


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      Veneela Yandrapalli 

      2 months ago

      Thanks for positive suggest.

      Im taurus girl and i love aquaris man

      Is it possible to marry him and stay long?

    • SerenityHalo profile imageAUTHOR

      Andrea Lawrence 

      4 months ago from Chicago

      Yeah, I don't know what it is -- but spring signs are definitely better for the cool Aquarius. But it seems like the Aquarius always falls for Scorpio first.

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      4 months ago

      Wow! Everything about this piece is true. I am an Aquarius woman , who long was in love with a Scorpio . I just could not get over him ... but a Taurus came into my life and I feel like he gives me the balance I have needed my entire life . He chased me endlessly for 2 years and now that I have given him I chance, our relationship is effortless. I bring him out of his shell and he keeps me grounded .

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      4 months ago

      This really is a beautifully written piece! Spring and Winter can do magical things together :) I’m a Taurus quietly pursuing an Aquarius (in my mind, I don’t know if she is aware or not haha.) I see there is quite a bit I need to step up on, I would hate to lose my chance because she didn’t see that “spark” of possibility. Thank you for your insight and for writing such a positive and refreshing piece about these two very different, but capable personalities.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      5 months ago from Chicago

      Any article that says there is no compatibility probably doesn't understand how the relationship's compatibility works... so don't get down about that.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      5 months ago from Chicago

      No problem. ;)

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      5 months ago

      I am a taurus woman who dated an aquarian man and everything you said is true. We broke in 2017 but we want to work things through but I have been demotivated by reading articles that say we are not compatible. Can we have a long relationship?

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      5 months ago

      Wow I totally agree with Jin Rouge. This article was spot on. Definitely explains my relationship with my boyfriend. I am the Taurus and he is the Aquarius. Thank you for taking the time to educate us on the positive aspects of this dynamic duo.

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      Jin Rouge 

      6 months ago

      I've been reading about Aquarius and Taurus compatibility and I'm on the verge of losing hope until I found this article. Almost every article I find stronggly suggests how Aquarius and Taurus is a mismatch and take a heavy compromise to work. It's frustrating. But reading this was very positive and have spark a hope in me. I am an Aquarius and my man is a Taurus and this article is so legit. Thank you! I do hope I can make it work with him as I really like him :(

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      7 months ago

      Eva, I am also an Aqua sun, taurus moon, aqua venus (libra asc and pisces mars). I've been going through very odd emotions with my taurus (moon in virgo). He has a leo placement somewhere too. My taurus came on very strong in the beginning while I was still very cautious because who falls in love in a matter of months (not this aqua)? Maybe because my moon is taurus I'm freely cautious?? He disappeared on me for over a year, no communication whatever, then returned. I forgave. Did not make a big deal of it but expressed my feelings. We started off in the flirting stages all over again, but it just doesn't move pass that. Aqua (me) wants him to voice himself and clearly say he wants a relationship with me but it appears he's maybe waiting for me because he doesn't want to be rejected? I feel we are both considerate people and don't want to rush each other but it becomes stagnant when either actually says what they want. I feel I will have to be the one to voice myself even though this aqua would love if a man can be traditional and ask her out. I would never ask a man to marry me so in the same concept, I don't "believe" in asking out a man. This is my fixed personality coming out. Taurus and I have great fun together WHEN we are in an activity or doing something. When we are lying around or eating, conversation can be dry. Taurus talks mostly about himself and rarely asks about me and as an Aqua, we always have something to say if asked. Maybe because of my taurus moon, I'm not energetic, social, very talkative unless I need to be. I feel his virgo moon and taurus moon is what may make us attracted as well. All of my crushes have a virgo moon, btw. Longest relationship was with a virgo moon. I'm still crushing over this taurus but my fixed self tells me I need him to tell me he actually wants me back.

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      12 months ago

      Hi, I am aquarius sun, taurus moon, pieces ascendant, aries mars, aquarius venus and I am terribly in love since long with a man who is a Taurus Sun, Libra moon, Taurus mars, gemini venus... we had some very strong synchronicities and telepathic moments which actually impressed me... but he didnt show any romantic interest towards me yet :-( even though I feel something very powerful exists between us...

      Any advice??

      Thanks for the very interesting article! My best (male) friend is also a Taurus and we feel like soulmates since thirty years! What you wrote explains very well how our friendship works :-)

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      12 months ago from Chicago

      I'm excited this clicked for you so much. Blessings to you!

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      Elizabeth Jasso 

      13 months ago

      this is the most beautiful way of explaining this match. I'm a Taurus Sun and Taurus Venus, my significant other is Aquarius Sun Aquarius Venus. and his ex (who hurt him the most is a Scorpio) as it is obvious everything started in friendship....he always wondered the "why" of the similarities between his ex and I .....made it so hard at the beginning because he was waiting for the crazy to come out..... this article just gave me the perfect on point answer and the best way ever explained, Can't wait to show it to him =) Thank you soooo much ! Blessed be !

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      15 months ago

      Amazingly written

      So structured and tactful yet honest and true.

      Great work done

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      22 months ago from Chicago

      Are you currently in a relationship with this man? Any sign can cheat. No one is above it. He could have been joking, but ask yourself why you are sensing a red flag and think things through.

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      22 months ago

      I am in love with aquarius man and I am Taurus women. Over the years (3 years) we went well but since few days my man saying he's in a relationship with another gal, it has put my world up side down. Again he said its just a joke he doesn't have another gal. I couldn't get which is right. Please advise me Aquarius man can be a cheater? I love him so much how do I get him back if he's in relation with another gal? I can't imagine my life without my darling man. Strong advice needed urgent.

      Thank you


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