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Why Gemini and Sagittarius Are Attracted to Each Other

Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and research astrological compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.


Gemini + Sagittarius

Polar opposites Gemini and Sagittarius have just the right amount of attraction and repulsion. They will have a great connection because they are both mutable. Western astrology does say that air and fire signs lean toward higher compatibility as opposed to air or fire signs with earth or water signs. Both Gemini and Sagittarius deal with closure. Gemini deals with the final energy of spring and hands it off to Cancer. Sagittarius deals with the final energy of fall and hands it off to Capricorn.

Gemini is a master of communication. They are known for understanding words, how language works, and how to build social networks. They are a highly egalitarian sign, but can run into walls with their own duality. They want everyone to be treated fairly, equally, and reasonably—they can also feel frustrations from this desire and trying so hard to understand others, that they forget to check in with themselves and see who they are. Gemini is at a wonderful time of year. They come right after the frenetic life-giving energy of Aries and Taurus. They see the flowers, the bees, and the trees for what they are rather than the process that goes into it. Sometimes Gemini can take this for granted, but it is a big part of their genius.

Gemini weather is diverse, but generally not as diverse as Aries and Taurus. Those two seasons deal with such a mix of cold and hot weather patterns that it produces strong winds and tornadoes, rain, hail, snow, and earthquakes. By Gemini, the snow stops. By Gemini people are in celebration mode. They want to graduate from school, they want to get married, and they want to take vacations. As Gemini progresses, it gets warmer and warmer until it reaches the summer solstice, bringing in Cancer screeching at the bigger than life crab emotions it has.


Strong Romance

Sagittarius is a warm and complex personality. They can seem both youthful and boisterous, and also sagacious—like your grandpa. They can be the teacher, the guru, and the guide, but they also are part horse and want to run wild and free. Sagittarius has a desire for people to celebrate and be together. They come after the highly sexual and disguised Scorpio. Sagittarius relaxes from that atmosphere and brings people together. It is the holiday season and the buildup to Christmas. This is when you celebrate Thanksgiving, go to Christmas parties, and other social gatherings. These seasons come with a mix of genuine connection and also fake, artificial, commercial connection. Sagittarius, as you can see, can be pulled in several different directions at once. But they can look through the mire and focus on their target. This sign wants people to feel accomplished for their labor in the previous seasons. They are ardent, playful, and paradoxical in nature. They are a fire sign, but are so near the end of the year that they don't have as much power and ego dominance as Aries or Leo. Sagittarius wants spontaneity but also clear cut ambition. They want to grow with a partner but also have plenty of room to be free.

In many ways, these two signs will get each other. They are times of celebration in the year, they both celebrate positivity, and they are subject to change. They want people who are excitable. They have similar fears. Sagittarius doesn't want to feel trapped, where Gemini has a fear that they are not actually a genius. Neither of these signs want a lot of validation or feeling caged. They don't want to be bored; they don't want to be with someone who has no brains.

Cheat Sheet

Gemini Sagittarius

3rd House

9th House







Mind, cerebral, genius

Fire, clever, wild

End of Spring

End of Fall





House of nerves

House of celebration

Complimentary Perspectives

These two have reverse energies. Over time a Gemini heats up more and more and more until it descends. Overtime Sagittarius grows colder and colder and colder until it resolves what it is mulling through. Gemini comes from a youthful place of celebration—a time when you just graduate, when you just marry, or when you just get a new job. Sagittarius is a celebration of family coming together, accomplishments throughout the years, and traditions. Gemini is forward thinking where Sagittarius is retrospective.

Both are notorious for struggling to commit. This is partly because their seasons are so much about freedom and relief from being so fixed as an identity. They both love ideas and people. Sagittarius tries to see the big picture; they still have that fire ego to make them go after ambition, while Gemini focuses on humility and that guidance is what introduces them to their genius. If the two can actually commit to each other, then this will open doorways for them. The two of them will naturally like each other, but there are just so many focuses that it's hard to pin it down, especially when neither have a stubborn personality. They want to shift away from stubbornness. They'll both like leaving things open for their future, but this can also hurt them as they under prepare.


Unpredictable, but Satisfying

These two will constantly be shifting, you'll be unpredictable, and you'll feel a sense of satisfaction. Together they have the composite energy of Libra. Libra which help them to consider harmony, fairness, and warmth. This can help both to be more romantic while achieving their soul goals. Gemini needs humility; Sagittarius needs freedom. These two will help open doors for each other. They know and respect that the other needs space. In a way, polar opposite zodiac signs can feel like soulmates. A partner sign relationship doesn't feel like it has to spend as much time on how to deal with each other. There is potential for massive heartache and frustration, so you need to be in a healthy spot before you get into a relationship no matter what. You have to figure out yourself before you try to understand a new social unit.

Gemini and Sagittarius are quick talkers and thinkers, so they'll enjoy this energy exchange that is also full of revelations and patterns. Gemini is excitable from its more youthful energy coming from the start of the zodiac year. Sagittarius has an older soul, but with some obvious young aspects to it. Sagittarius somehow carries this with them; they have found wisdom brings them back to a state of innocence. Sagittarius will enjoy and see the innocence in Gemini. Also, Gemini is a master at mirroring others to better understand them and be on a shoulder to shoulder level. Tapping into Sagittarius' energy will help them to see how they mirror each other. A partner gives Gemini momentum, so it can be fascinating to talk to others and see how that makes revelations for them.

Natural Intuition

Gemini and Sagittarius want to feel intellectually satisfied. They can talk, listen, and think for hours on end, drawing different conclusions and experiences. Partner signs naturally compliment us because they are not our own energies. The disparities we have with ourselves in walking in the world is satisfied by the other person. Air curiosity gets fulfilled by fire manifestation. Sometimes these energies are not at a point where they are developed enough to quite feel that resonance. It can also be powerful, and difficult to maintain as people grow, shift, change, and develop.

The nice part about dating an opposite sign is you'll both feel a strong sense of connection, and also the two of you will have different interests. This ensures that the two of you are not focusing too much energy on certain tasks and neglecting other properties of your relationship and household. Gemini and Sagittarius will be able to give each other the space they crave while also connecting romantically.

Gemini and Sagittarius for all their knowledge and open-mindedness need to be careful not to project their opinions on to each other. Sagittarius can get addicted to their religious ideas, thinking they have figured it all out. Gemini needs to focus on humility rather than highfalutin ideas. Love and kindness will help open this out. Make sure you are not limiting yourself by thinking you are right. Be flexible, malleable, and considerate. Gemini helps to clear bias and judgment in order to help open doors of communication. Sagittarius is here to honor perspectives and not try to tell them something is only right in one way. Without proper enlightenment, Sagittarius can become dogmatic. Together these two can bring out the best in each other to see and relax their perspectives. Together in their conversations, they can come to understand more profound things.

Sagittarius is meant to inspire others, and Gemini is able to spot patterns, articulate new discoveries, and for new fires to go forth as they receive new ideas from the universe. Gemini wants to clear the extra smoke, help find the inner child for Sagittarius, and help them find the natural manifestation powers in fire signs. Sagittarius can feel clogged, and Gemini helps relieve it. Gemini can feel cold and disconnected, where Sagittarius can help them relax, and help them overcome mental ruts. Sometimes Gemini runs into blind spots and is unsure how to untangle themselves from it. These two will naturally accept each other and feel a sense of intuition about it.

© 2017 Andrea Lawrence


Cade on September 08, 2020:

The relationship between a Sagittarius and a Gemini will always be love OR hate, no inbetween. As a Sagittarius-sun and Gemini-rising (Yeah, got the best of both MUTABLE worlds), the people that I found to be most "attractive" are always either Aries or Gemini. BUT, the most despicable to me (i.e, Trump, Kanye West) are also Gemini, too. The latter explains a lot between Taylor-Kanye's long-running feud.

Shivakiran on September 04, 2020:

hi i am gemini , i am in love with Sagittarius girl from 2 years but she didn't accept me but she use to talk with me everyday , i dodnt know what do about this and she is saying . i wont try to love you but i will try to make you to forget me , is it really compatible

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on June 01, 2020:

Thank you. ;)

Asia on March 12, 2020:

I’m a Gemini and I don’t get along to well with Sagittarius

Charlotte on September 22, 2019:

I do to be aware of this.

I'm a Gemini and I have a Sagittarius boyfriend who is really likes me. We're common for many things.. But still... I'm not sure if we can be together.

Linda on August 24, 2019:

Love the article. Why is your profile picture Ryan goslin?



no need to know on August 22, 2019:

masit, that is so true

Anonymous on November 23, 2018:

I found my sag I am happy with about statement given let me try to reach this depth of sag. I fell in love with sag but still big space and wall we both have between us being as love together expressed even also still awaiting to meet every November month of every 2 years and fights are huge console are also huge. We feel happy and prosperous together.

masit on September 16, 2018:

gemini is way more flexible ,

also gemini can see things from different angles .

sag cannot.

down side , with a gemini you never know their next step.

sag yes .

sag is more honest more serious has more weight to it .. has indeed a older soul but freaks out when feels ignored.

gemini does not care, gemini had a mental advantage over all the other zodiacs wich is : hello world , fuck you .

they just don,t say it .

they are two in one and often their live 6 people in them so they don,t need people that bad.

sag is the logical thinker .

genini the sly one .

they can be great together because they both can equally debate over things other people cannot see .

Emily on May 20, 2018:

I really love how you go into so much depth comparing Gem and Sag to the seasons and what is happening during the year at the time of their signs. It makes so much sense and is a unique perspective. I just have to ask... what about the people in the southern hemisphere? The seasons would not correlate with the signs...

Gem In I on March 03, 2018:

Beautiful Relationship once Time has been put in to understand and not overpower one another! This article is so true ! I love my sag man and he loves his gem! Gemini can lead the way so I suggest being more understanding and less argumentive trust me sagg will follow nd this will create harmony! Keep it fresh never force committment and control your twins. Be your secure self and remember that a sag will not be with you if he didnt want to! They may flirt but most are loyal to us twins when they actually committ. Give him

Freedom just like you need it! Its so amazing!! Dont give up on your sag man I promise this will be a love worth fighting for!!

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on December 08, 2017:

There is always a chance. But don't focus too much on these chances. Go after the best version of yourself. Life is too short to waste it waiting.

prabitha on November 17, 2017:

thank u for your advice... I will try to follow...but pls say is there any chance that he could come back to me??

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on November 16, 2017:

I think you need to focus on yourself and forget this person. He has moved on with someone else. It sounds like he was playing with your heart and seeing other girls. That's not worth your time. Find someone who really cares about you.

prabitha on November 12, 2017:

I am a sag… I m in love with a gemini man for 1 and a half years..we shared our love so well…we took care of each other extraordinarily ..fights do arise when he spends time with other girls.. he said he is in love with another girl because of me being over possessive with him… I regretted and pleaded for his forgiveness… he was not in touch with me for 3 months later about 50 days back he said he is now committed with the other girl who is a capricon and asked me to leave him … the capricon girl with whom he is now in a relationship broke up with her ex-boyfriend (cancer) with a 4 yrs relationship… I am not sure weather I should wait for him or move on… but the truth is I am dying inside without him… I loved him sooo much…. pls kindly someone advice me to take a right decision…

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 01, 2017:


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