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Why Gemini and Sagittarius Are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on June 28, 2017

Gemini + Sagittarius

Polar opposites Gemini and Sagittarius have just the right amount of attraction and repulsion. They will have a great connection because they are both mutable. Western astrology does say that air and fire signs lean toward higher compatibility as opposed to air or fire signs with earth or water signs. Both Gemini and Sagittarius deal with closure. Gemini deals with the final energy of spring and hands it off to Cancer. Sagittarius deals with the final energy of fall and hands it off to Capricorn.

Gemini is a master of communication. They are known for understanding words, how language works, and how to build social networks. They are a highly egalitarian sign, but can run into walls with their own duality. They want everyone to be treated fairly, equally, and reasonably -- they can also feel frustrations from this desire and trying so hard to understand others, that they forget to check in with themselves and see who they are. Gemini is at a wonderful time of year. They come right after the frenetic life giving energy of Aries and Taurus. They see the flowers, the bees, and the trees for what they are rather than the process that goes into it. Sometimes Gemini can take this for granted, but it is a big part of their genius.

Gemini weather is diverse, but generally not as diverse as Aries and Taurus. Those two seasons deal with such a mix of cold and hot weather patterns that it produces strong winds and tornadoes, rain, hail, snow, and earthquakes. By Gemini, the snow stops. By Gemini people are in celebration mode. They want to graduate from school, they want to get married, and they want to take vacations. As Gemini progresses, it gets warmer and warmer until it reaches the summer solstice, bringing in Cancer screeching at the bigger than life crab emotions it has.

Strong Romance

Sagittarius is a warm and complex personality. They can seem both youthful and boisterous, and also sagacious -- like your grandpa. They can be the teacher, the guru, and the guide, but they also are part horse and want to run wild and free. Sagittarius has a desire for people to celebrate and be together. They come after the highly sexual and disguised Scorpio. Sagittarius relaxes from that atmosphere and brings people together. It is the holiday season and the buildup to Christmas. This is when you celebrate Thanksgiving, go to Christmas parties, and other social gatherings. These seasons come with a mix of genuine connection and also fake, artificial, commercial connection. Sagittarius, as you can see, can be pulled in several different directions at once. But they can look through the mire and focus on their target. This sign wants people to feel accomplished for their labor in the previous seasons. They are ardent, playful, and paradoxical in nature. They are a fire sign, but are so near the end of the year that they don't have as much power and ego dominance as Aries or Leo. Sagittarius wants spontaneity but also clear cut ambition. They want to grow with a partner but also have plenty of room to be free.

In many ways these two signs will get each other. They are times of celebration in the year, they both celebrate positivity, and they are subject to change. They want people who are excitable. They have similar fears. Sagittarius doesn't want to feel trapped, where Gemini has a fear that they are not actually a genius. Neither of these signs want a lot of validation or feeling caged. They don't want to be bored, they don't want to be with someone who has no brains.

Cheat Sheet

Gemini
Sagittarius
3rd House
9th House
Twins
Centaur
Mutable
Mutable
Air
Fire
Mind, cerebral, genius
Fire, clever, wild
End of Spring
End of Fall
Arms
Thighs
Mercury
Jupiter
House of nerves
House of celebration

Complimentary Perspectives

These two have reverse energies. Overtime a Gemini heats up more and more and more until it descends. Overtime Sagittarius grows colder and colder and colder until it resolves what it is mulling through. Gemini comes from a youthful place of celebration -- a time when you just graduate, when you just marry, or when you just get a new job. Sagittarius is a celebration of family coming together, accomplishments throughout the years, and traditions. Gemini is forward thinking where Sagittarius is retrospective.

Both are notorious for struggling to commit. This is partly because their seasons are so much about freedom and relief from being so fixed as an identity. They both love ideas and people. Sagittarius tries to see the big picture; they still have that fire ego to make them go after ambition, while Gemini focuses on humility and that guidance is what introduces them to their genius. If the two can actually commit to each other then this will open doorways for them. The two of them will naturally like each other, but there are just so many focuses that it's hard to pin it down, especially when neither have a stubborn personality. They want to shift away from stubbornness. They'll both like leaving things open for their future, but this can also hurt them as they under prepare.

Unpredictable, but Satisfying

These two will constantly be shifting, you'll be unpredictable, and you'll feel a sense of satisfaction. Together they have the composite energy of Libra. Libra which help them to consider harmony, fairness, and warmth. This can help both to be more romantic while achieving their soul goals. Gemini needs humility; Sagittarius needs freedom. These two will help open doors for each other. They know and respect that the other needs space. In a way, polar opposite zodiac signs can feel like soulmates. A partner sign relationship doesn't feel like it has to spend as much time on how to deal with each other. There is potential for massive heartache and frustration, so you need to be in a healthy spot before you get into a relationship no matter what. You have to figure out yourself before you try to understand a new social unit.

Gemini and Sagittarius are quick talkers and thinkers, so they'll enjoy this energy exchange that is also full of revelations and patterns. Gemini is excitable from its more youthful energy coming from the start of the zodiac year. Sagittarius has an older soul, but with some obvious young aspects to it. Sagittarius somehow carries this with them, they have found wisdom brings them back to a state of innocence. Sagittarius will enjoy and see innocence in Gemini. Also, Gemini is a master at mirroring others to better understand them and be on a shoulder to shoulder level. Tapping into Sagittarius' energy will help them to see how they mirror each other. A partner gives Gemini momentum, so it can be fascinating to talk to others and see how that makes revelations for them.

Natural Intuition

Gemini and Sagittarius want to feel intellectually satisfied. They can talk, listen, and think for hours on end drawing different conclusions and experiences. Partner signs naturally compliment us because they are not our own energies. The disparities we have with ourselves in walking in the world is satisfied by the other person. Air curiosity gets fulfilled by fire manifestation. Sometimes these energies are not at a point where they are developed enough to quite feel that resonance. It can also be powerful, and difficult to maintain as people grow, shift, change, and develop.

The nice part about dating an opposite sign is you'll both feel a strong sense of connection and also the two of you will have different interests. This ensures that the two of you are not focusing too much energy on certain tasks and neglecting other properties of your relationship and household. Gemini and Sagittarius will be able to give each other the space they crave while also connecting romantically.

Gemini and Sagittarius for all their knowledge and open mindedness need to be careful not to project their opinions on to each other. Sagittarius can get addicted to their religious ideas thinking they have figured it all out. Gemini needs to focus on humility rather than highfalutin ideas. Love and kindness will help open this out. Make sure you are not limiting yourself by thinking you are right. Be flexible, malleable, and considerate. Gemini helps to clear bias and judgment in order to help open doors of communication. Sagittarius is here to honor perspectives and not try to tell them something is only right in one way. Without proper enlightenment, Sagittarius can become dogmatic. Together these two can bring out the best in each other to see and relax their perspectives. Together in their conversations they can come to understand more profound things.

Sagittarius is meant to inspire others and Gemini is able to spot patterns, articulate new discoveries, and for new fires to go forth as they receive new ideas from the universe. Gemini wants to clear the extra smoke, help find the inner child for Sagittarius, and help them find the natural manifestation powers in fire signs. Sagittarius can feel clogged, and Gemini helps relieve it. Gemini can feel cold and disconnected, where Sagittarius can help them relax, and help them overcome mental ruts. Sometimes Gemini runs into blind spots and is unsure how to untangle themselves from it. These two will naturally accept each other and feel a sense of intuition about it.

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      prabitha 4 days ago

      thank u for your advice... I will try to follow...but pls say is there any chance that he could come back to me??

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 days ago from Chicago

      I think you need to focus on yourself and forget this person. He has moved on with someone else. It sounds like he was playing with your heart and seeing other girls. That's not worth your time. Find someone who really cares about you.

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      prabitha 9 days ago

      I am a sag… I m in love with a gemini man for 1 and a half years..we shared our love so well…we took care of each other extraordinarily ..fights do arise when he spends time with other girls.. he said he is in love with another girl because of me being over possessive with him… I regretted and pleaded for his forgiveness… he was not in touch with me for 3 months later about 50 days back he said he is now committed with the other girl who is a capricon and asked me to leave him … the capricon girl with whom he is now in a relationship broke up with her ex-boyfriend (cancer) with a 4 yrs relationship… I am not sure weather I should wait for him or move on… but the truth is I am dying inside without him… I loved him sooo much…. pls kindly someone advice me to take a right decision…

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      HAHAHAHAHAHA!

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      jeanyrosebergante 4 months ago

      hahahaha