Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility: Why Is This a Powerful Match?

Updated on March 28, 2019
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Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and love compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.

Are Aquarius and Virgo a good match? Read on to discover the pros and cons of a relationship between these signs.
Are Aquarius and Virgo a good match? Read on to discover the pros and cons of a relationship between these signs.

Virgo and Aquarius Compatability

It may seem hard to believe, but two of the most independent, satisfied-with-the-single-life zodiacs—Aquarius and Virgo—can make for a kismet match. You have the rebellious, off-beat, and authentic Aquarius paired with the hard-working, perfectionistic, and diligent Virgo. It's a water bearer meeting a virgin. An air sign and an earth sign.

The Virgo-Aquarius pairing works well if the two can accept and come to appreciate how they are different. They are not mirrors of each other, and that's what makes the combination so beautiful. If they're willing to put the work in, the two signs can help each other grow as individuals and as halves of the same whole precisely because of those differences.

This is because they know how to help each other where they are vulnerable. Virgo can nourish Aquarius's weird habits and quirks. Aquarius can teach Virgo to soften, to withhold judgment, and to embrace life more.

How Aquarius and Virgo Balance Each Other

Aquarius Traits
Virgo Traits
Creative
Organized
Free-Spirited
Uptight
Nonconformist
People Pleaser
Distant
Sweet
Inconsistent
Reliable
Friendly
Overly Critical
Unpredictable
Hardworking
Independent
Picky
Humanitarian
Easily Annoyed
Extremist
Patient
Eccentric
Perfectionistic
Emotionally Squeamish
Overthinker

Are Aquarius and Virgo Sexually Compatible?

Aquarius are eccentric lovers, while Virgos are very attentive. They may need to gently encourage each other to break the ice. Both signs are very intellectual (albeit in different ways), so they run the risk of overthinking things, especially when it comes to sex. Virgo tends to agonize over big choices like when to get intimate even more than Aquarius, but one thing is certain: To make a relationship between these signs work, patience (and lots of it) will be an absolute necessity.

Virgo: Once you've decided that you want to take the next step with your Aquarius, don't agonize over every little detail of the encounter. Overanalyzing each moment as it happens won't do anything for you or your partner.

Aquarius: Try not to see Virgo's overthinking in the bedroom as a turn-off. While it may irk you at the start, that thoughtfulness and sensitivity will help other parts of your relationship flourish.

What Is the Aquarius-Virgo Power Dynamic?

As a fixed sign, Aquarius can be stubborn, which can be hard for mutable Virgo to handle. Virgo can be overly willing to sacrifice their own happiness in favor of their partner's, so it's essential to find a healthy balance for both partners. Aquarius should be aware of when they're asking too much of their Virgo, and Virgo should make an effort to recognize when they're being taken advantage of.

The Pros of a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship

When Aquarius and Virgo can learn to appreciate their differences, the results can be truly breathtaking. Here are a few benefits of a union between these signs.

Organization Meets Creativity

Virgo can offer structure to Aquarius, who often have a hard time manifesting. Virgo has such a strong will to conquer its goals, but that's not all—Virgo also has a plan to attain those goals. Aquarius, on the other hand, is a visionary constantly coming up with new, beautiful ideas, but with no clear plan to make those ideas a reality. Virgo can help make Aquarius's inner world come alive.

Friendship Comes First

Both will take the relationship slow, which is what they both need (Aquarius especially): a relationship that starts more like a friendship. Aquarius loves to talk and explore ideas, and conversation will be frequent with the Virgo, who is constantly putting their self out into the world and coming up with different ideas.

Jealousy Isn't the Go-To Emotion

Neither sign is particularly jealous. Virgos are naturally prone to doubt and may feel insecure if they see their Aquarius around other suitors, and Aquarius may feel upset if they think their Virgo finds someone else just as intriguing. Aquarius wants their Virgo to see them as absolutely unique.

Luckily, since most relationships between these signs start as friendships, open communication should come naturally, helping them navigate any potential envy with relative ease.

There's No Shortage of Intellectual Stimulation

After all, this is one of the reasons the two are drawn together in the first place! Since they are both high-level thinking signs, they will feel comfortable exploring new and challenging ideas.

Aquarius . . . Virgo will try hard to pin you down and figure you out because they have been waiting for someone who is as fast of a thinker as they are, and you stick out like a sore thumb. The best thing you can do is just be yourself. Virgo may feel threatened by how chill you can be, so they may try to peacock for your affections, but sooner or later, the two of you will come to an understanding. When that happens, let the deep conversations begin.

They Complement Each Other

These two make for a strong business match. Virgo can act as a producer, publisher, or manager while Aquarius fills the role of writer, singer, or artist. They have what the other person doesn't, and if they can find a way to work together, they will make an unstoppable pair.

In order for a Virgo-Aquarius couple to thrive, they must learn not only to accept, but to celebrate their differences.
In order for a Virgo-Aquarius couple to thrive, they must learn not only to accept, but to celebrate their differences. | Source

The Cons of a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship

Like most good things, a successful relationship between these signs doesn't come easily. Here are a few of the most common problems that Aquarius-Virgo couples experience.

Communication Can Be a Struggle

The biggest hurdle for these two will be communication and learning how to address conflict. Aquarius can feel deeply hurt by strong judgment. Virgo can feel deeply hurt by screwing up (they're very hard on themselves) or being too judgmental.

The two need strategies to facilitate peaceful conversation in times of tension. Virgo needs to express itself, but not at the cost of hurting Aquarius's feelings. Earth signs need to slow down and understand that there are other methods and strategies of looking at and handling life. Your way is not the only way; there are other ways that can manifest and be just as accurate, if not more so.

Virgo's Priorities Need Sorting

Virgos wants to take on the world, and sometimes they feel like no one else is capable (they're perfectionists, remember?), leading them to take on too much at once. Virgo sometimes needs to step away from all the work and other obstacles that can get in the way of a healthy relationship with their Aquarius.

Aquarius does not do well with a mate who is inconsistent. They don't like to be neglected because all Aquarians are looking for someone who accepts them, and a lack of time or shallow interest will make the Aquarius fade away. Make sure to be consistent and clear about your interests, Virgo.

Aquarius Struggles to Be Romantic

Aquarius, you need to be open to letting your romantic side show. Let your creativity help you: Bake them a cake, write them notes, draw them pictures, and give them gifts. Express your romantic feelings freely and spontaneously so that Virgo gets a clear signal from you. But don't fake it.

First off, the Virgo will see through your act, but second of all, that wouldn't be true to your nature. Aquarius care greatly about authenticity and can feel weird if they are forcing their interactions with someone. If you aren't feeling it, don't force it.

How to Make a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship Work

Bringing these two signs together can be as beautiful as it is challenging. If you are preparing to embark on a Virgo-Aquarius relationship—or are struggling with one that you're already in—here are a few tips to help make things go more smoothly.

Find the Right Balance Between Caring and Overbearing

Aquarius will appreciate Virgo and the safe, traditional, and sturdy environment it provides. They will also see Virgo as having positive parental qualities, but that doesn't mean they want to be treated like a child. Being overbearing with Aquarius is the wrong way to go.

Avoid the Urge to Focus on the Negative

Aquarius grasps things easily and is skilled at understanding and solving conflict, but Virgo can have a tendency to harp on things and overexplain. In general, the two would do well to think before speaking and let their anger calm and fade rather than spur them to argument, as once the fight gets started, it can be hard to cool things down again.

Virgo would be wise to avoid the urge to overexplain, especially when it comes to potentially negative topics, because Aquarius can get worn out by too much negativity. (Besides, odds are Aquarius alread understands the topic instinctively.)

Virgo comes to a better understanding through negativity and isn't as distraught by it, but Virgo is sensitive in its own right. It doesn't like to be changed or told what to do, how to think, how to feel, or who they should be sexually attracted to. Going that far can set a Virgo off.

Be Open, Honest, and Patient

Virgo can help Aquarius to be a more refined person while Aquarius can help Virgo settle down and be at peace—something the Virgo ultimately needs to achieve. Therefore, Aquarius brings Virgo the much-needed enlightenment it has been craving its whole life. The two will fight over their differences, creating a pattern where they pull away and are then drawn back to each other. Virgo needs to be careful not to judge the Aquarius too quickly or sharply; this could make the Aquarius go POOF! And perhaps forever.

Aquarius needs to be patient with the Virgo, to try communicating what they are thinking, and understand that Virgo will listen. Virgos are very good listeners. Aquarius are forward thinkers, but they use the past to advance their future. Virgos do a lot of self analysis of their past to perfect their lives. Both of these signs can hold heavy shame for not fulfilling their own goals and inner selves. Aquarius wants to be a humanitarian; it does not like conflict. Virgo wants perfection and can beat itself up for falling short.

Aquarius have more emotions to them than meets the eye; this is why they are the water bearer. They store up all their emotions until it overflows or the jar breaks. It is insulting to say an Aquarius is too cold or unemotional. They have a different way of displaying and working through their emotions, which is actually at the core of who they are, not to the side as many people wrongly try to explain about the Aquarius.

Finding a way to say the things that need to be said without getting mired in negativity is key to making an Aquarius-Virgo relationship work.
Finding a way to say the things that need to be said without getting mired in negativity is key to making an Aquarius-Virgo relationship work. | Source

Balance Your Communication Styles

Aquarius also needs to be careful not to hurt Virgo by showing a lack of compassion (something Virgo takes very seriously). In general, the two would do well to think before speaking. If they do find themselves upset, they would be wise to let their anger calm and fade rather than jump into an argument, as hurtful and rash things that can't be unsaid may have a disastrous effect on their relationship.

If, however, these signs can find a way to understand and appreciate each other for their differences, they will form a brilliant pair. Their great minds don't think alike, and that's what makes the combination so spectacular.

Virgo: Look for strategies to better relay negative messages. Don't overload the Aquarius with negativity, this could push them away from you.

Aquarius: Communicate what you're feeling even if it doesn't fully make sense, and don't hold back when it comes to pushing through your vulnerabilities. Keep your Virgo in the know.

Make a Plan to Tackle Untidiness

A Virgo craves a clean space, clean energy, clean aesthetics, and purity. Clean = Virgo. Aquarius doesn't put as much energy toward having a clean space (or care as much in general about the concept of clean), though it will be a bonus to them to have a clean space because Aquarius is sensitive and easily affected by the external world. Aquariuses craves creativity over cleanliness, perfection, and the like, and they can get overwhelmed by too many materialistic commands.

It might be best for Virgo to take on more household work while Aquarius tends to other relationship matters, from spontaneity to romance. If possible, Virgo should manage good chunks of housework and have Aquarius pick up the slack in other areas. That being said, both partners should work on the home, not just one person. Don't let Aquarius be too lazy!

Find Shared Hobbies

Aquarius will feel well taken care of in a Virgo relationship; earth signs offer security. Virgo will feel it can spread it wings more, leaving it free to open up its inner-weird and grow as a human. The two will need shared hobbies, particularly creative projects, and they should make an effort to try new things together and be spontaneous.

A Wonderfully Wacky Pair

I support this pair dating long term. What I like about this pairing is how much devotion Virgo can offer and how Aquarius can tend to it. Aquarius won't be judged harshly for their emotions in this pairing, but rather enjoyed for their charm. I think these two can really show a depth that is fulfilling. Some would say Aquarius with a Virgo is weird, but hold on . . . Aquarius is weird, so what are you expecting from any relationship with that sign? (As an Aquarius, I would know!)

How Do Virgos Show Love?

Virgo is great at manifesting things into reality, they are great caretakers, and they love acts of service—that's how they show love. They want their Aquarius to be comfortable around them. Virgo may cut Aquarius loose if the match doesn't seem to fit their standards early on, but once in a committed relationship, Virgo will be very loving and loyal to their Aquarius.

How Do Aquariuses Show Love?

Aquarius is great at the art of conversation, exploring unturned stones, and being sweet. They show love by spending time, physical affection, and compliments. Aquarius show their love by adding you deeper into their social circles; you'll meet a number of friends and family members.

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      Ley 

      5 days ago

      I’m a Virgo woman, and my best friend is an Aquarius. We really love our differences and see them as a perfect balance to each other’s lives. She is my only close friend, and honestly we are so perfect for each other it makes my heart want to explode. She understands me deeper than anyone ever in my life. I couldn’t give enough thanks to the universe for the divine Virgo+Aquarius friendship.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      9 days ago from Chicago

      Glad it is helpful.

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      UnknoWn? 

      11 days ago

      My Crush Likes me he’s a Virgo and I am an Aquarius! This is explains a lot and will help me for sure!

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      Sara 

      2 weeks ago

      I’m an Aquarius ♒️ & my Fiancé is a Virgo ♍️. I read this aloud in bed tonight & we couldn’t believe how accurate everything is!! We have been together for 4 years. In the beginning the excitement set off fireworks & magic like happenings kept us on cloud 9! Infatuated, inseparable, with an unbearable craving to be close every second of every day. As the “new phase” & all the excitement it brings started settling down, our differences became more & more noticeable & at times made us doubt what we had going together. After going through a ton of struggles in our relationship, we came extremely close to ending it several times, especially the most recent separation that lasted weeks! Looking back now, I know the absence made our hearts grow fonder. We worked through it all, which made us both good forgivers. We’re now going on our 5th year stronger & better than ever. Our hard times taught us a lot. We learned to accept & celebrate one another’s differences. Celebrating our differences because it’s what makes what we have so imperfectly perfect. Our differences make us whole, together we are one. Ones strengths are the others weaknesses. We complement each other beautifully. This ♍️ & ♒️ can’t live without each other, not sure how we ever did.

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      Isha 

      2 weeks ago

      I am an Aquarian and my husband is a Virgo. We've been married for over 4 years now. It is a struggle at times for sure, there is no denying that. But they balance each other out perfectly.

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      Tracey 

      8 weeks ago

      Article is perfect. Everything is right on. In the end my aquatius is a bad alcoholic so me as a virgo i clean keep the house clean and go crazy on on the man for drinkimg. So on. I will as a virgo leave him bit as you say so loyal i cant. Ty for your info. In goimg to try to communicate and save are relationship bc we do love each other and we do have a child . But in the end not sure if we r to compatible under stressful situations like addictions. The virgo will take over and walk away

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      Cindy 

      2 months ago

      Everything in this article is true to the Aquarius I was dating, but slightly different as she cleans a lot. But I wish I should've read this sooner... Because I did the don't do's. I let my emotions get in the way, brought a lot of negativity and now she really went poof out of my life. Sigh

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      Mnnorz 

      3 months ago

      I am a Aquarius (f) and i like a Virgo (m), he seems to give me signs that he likes me but im not to sure. I am 14 years old and he is 16 :)

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      Angele Ashley 

      3 months ago

      So I’m the Aquarius. Everything that was said was true about me. I have recently re-connected with my first love from the 6th-9th grade. We would always get together for rendevous throughput the years but just couldn’t get in alignment. We haven’t seen each other for 20 years but we’ve always loved each other. We now have a chance to make it work and I don’t want to lose him. I think we can make it. I’ve loved him since the 3rd grade and always will.

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      Melissa Jansen-Philips 

      3 months ago

      I'm a Virgo woman, just married my Aquarius friend. we've been with each other for 12 yrs now and we have 3 kids. we struggle sometimes but like your articles says if you use some strategies you can conquer it all with them. and i love him to the moon and back. i see my self being happily married till the end. he is so kind. i love that he is so confident and with his ideas and my organized self we achieve a lot of businesses. it makes us one.

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      Steponmee 

      3 months ago

      I wish my aquarius guy would open up more. He bottles things up alot and it drives me crazy

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      4 months ago from Chicago

      Good luck. I hope you can ask her on a date or win her affections.

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      Jest 

      4 months ago

      Actually..... All your points were right. I don't know how you just stated all of my plans, ideas, analyses of my attraction about this aquarius woman I am secretly watching. Although, she knows I like her to be my wife. I am a virgo man who dont fear commitment, and she's an aquarius who of course loves her freedom.

      Like the air, she cant be contained, like the mountains, I cannot be moved. We can exist without the other but she gives life to my barren world. Actually, I'm just waiting, I have my eyes on her, I will definitely try every ways I can think of to get her to be with me. Oh and, I love taking pictures of her! I just really don't want to lose her.

      Right now, I have started a thesis about my attraction towards her haha. (It's because I really want to understand how come I got hooked) I also gave her a notebook containing my plans in my love life, where her name is written. We still communicate and I just hope we're getting closer.

      I will just let her flow freely, all I need is the air for me to breathe and erode the ways that I don't need to exist.

      Thanks for this article, out of the articles I have read about our compatibility, this one gave me hope. Thank you! Wish me luck!

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      4 months ago from Chicago

      Aquarius is the ultimate sign of equanimity.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      4 months ago from Chicago

      Ah, I hope you can find something that brings a buzz to you in your 40s. Don't worry, there is bound to be something to give you a spark of joy.

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      Marshall Stephany 

      5 months ago

      My husband is an Aquarius and I am a Virgo woman . We have been married for twenty years and we are are going strong. I am extremely practical and pragmatic, and he is spontaneous, and quirky. I love to stay home and organize, and he likes to go out with his friends and family . Hey our relationship works for us.and is very solid. We respect and admire our differences . I love how he is secure in being different and confident in his own skin , and he loves how I stand in my convictions to stay organize and focus in the home environment .

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      Jiziah 

      5 months ago

      I have just finished reading the article and all the interesting comments. I am an aquarius woman who have been in a strong happy relationship with a virgo man for 3 yrs now. I read one of the comments sharing a story about her virgo bf who tried a lot of things just to get this aqua girl's feelings and attendtion and now she's totally crazily inlove with him and yes, that's TOTALLY US and soooo me. I have never expected about this magic between us but yes, opposites attracts PLUS my virgo bf loves me in all ways (negative/positive sides of me) i am so blessed.. and vice versa because of my unstoppable exploration of behaviors and attitudes toward a person that make me really excited about him.. I always want him also to be happy by my cheering attitude as always and im amazed how he opens up himself to me naturally without even the feeling of "trying hard so much" and I love it! I feel secured of him so much by his attitude of being so practical. He is so good on handling money! So true he is not into buying expensive ones but he is actually supporting his family and save good budget for our trips! I love anything natural, fast, easy, true, kind and just helping both sides of our weaknesses. He is very attentive and clean and me is quite messy sometimes hahahaha i'm kinda shy to him sometimes of being just so carefree and crazy and messy but my love of art and giving colors to his life make him so much happy I feel that he never care about this little dirty flaw haha but when it comes to being si sweet i think i am more expressive and starts the sweetness and flirts between us but sometimes i have to manage it trying to be like organized, proper or ladylike and good at dresses that he also like. It's also true that aqua woman easily put distances if she gets hurt by the virgo man at the same time my bf get teary eyes or feel frustrated if he mess up or hurt me sometimes by his judgement. He does not like me to feel hurt by him. He wants perfection and always want concrete plans and gets disappointed if i am already too spontaneous and unorganized but at the end of the day he make it a point that i am feel loved and accepted by him inspite of it, he says it to me directly and hugs me after. So amazingly true in this article! Oh and by the way, we were friends for a decade already since high school. That makes sense of "being me" of not easily wanting to attach with someone even he expressed that time that he like me. It took years until we met again and became a couple. Now we will be celebrating 3rd anniversary and both our hearts are so excited for our future! We are praying and hoping for the best and of course feeling so sure how we want to end up marrying and staying together til we get old! This is what we have been dreaming and our opposites/differences make us just laugh and talk about it sometimes with so much acceptance and realizations.. because it is the TRUE LOVE of a virgo and aquarius now matter to us more and more each day!!! Love lots to this best article! So true and sweet!

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      Nena H. 

      6 months ago

      How exactly should i peak an Aquarius's interest in me? He is a male (Aquarius) and i am a female (Virgo) if that helps at all.

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      Jenn 

      6 months ago

      Aquarian woman here dating a Virgo. Deep into astrology, gave this a shot anyway in Venus retrograde. I have found this Virgo man communicated effectively with me. I feel completely accepted in all my weird ways. I'm messy he is OCD. This actually helps me to stay organized and I need that. The freedom i feel to be myself without judgement has been phenomenal. I like the space we both allow one another. He loves my positivity that I bring and I love the security he brings. I do not feel any lack of emotion. I am expressive and so is he. The aries I dated before was critical and I always felt I was walking on eggshells. The Leo he dated before was jealous to the extreme. Maybe those relationships are what drove us to both strive to be better in this relationship. Of all my relationships this one has been the easiest.

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      Joe Pool 

      7 months ago from LONGVIEW

      An Aquarius believes in treating everyone equally, Hanie. That even goes for the people they love most of all. Try not to take it personally, because it is something they cannot change.

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      Hanie 

      7 months ago

      Tami Thomas, can you please share how to win his heart after a fight? I know he loves me, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't really show it much..he wants me to enjoy life more and don't think to much about him..I want him to love and miss me more..

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      Tami Thomas 

      8 months ago

      I am married to Aquarius and I am a virgo. Im hoping our 23 yr. Relationship lasts forever , communication is the key !!!!

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      Kathrine salander 

      11 months ago

      This is the first reading ever where the Aquarius and Virgo can last. I’ve been with my Virgo man soon 4 years and i’ve Always read the pairings sceptical because it wasn’t true when the pairings said we’ll never last. He’s the first man in my life that truly has learned me something about communication. The Virgo man is so simple, you just need to say what’s bothering you and he be like “we can do this to fix that, would that be great ?” It was mindblowing for me to handle situations like that and that is one of the things I really love him for.

      You also mentioning that the Aquarius need to tell their Virgo what the feel even when they not really know where they’re going with is - it’s kinda funny I did that for kid 3 days ago because I’ve learned that he hates when I build to much emotions up. So I told him some things I was thinking and I didn’t really knew where I was going with it - but the conversation ended with me feeling more loved than before and he was so glad that I opened up for him even though I didn’t really knew where I was going with it.

      You also said that the Aquarius like to start her relationships up as friends - I kinda laughed for my Virgo was after me for like 1 year before i was ready to be with him. He will always say it was so hard but so good to see for every thing he did for getting me he could just see I got more and more crazy about him.

      It truly makes me happy that this pairing is one of them that lastest. I know I will be with him for the rest of my life he learns me so much and vice versa.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      12 months ago from Chicago

      Oh, Scorpios love to stalk Aquarius. That's like the ultimate quest. Virgo is also pretty privy to Aquarius. Gemini is usually a great match.

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      Lauran Muer 

      12 months ago

      I have always felt I was truly a different type of Aquarius than stated in most of these reads. The best bf I’ve ever had is a Virgo and we get along great. We communicate well, not a single intimacy issue and we are a great balance. When he needs his space it doesn’t bother me because I HATE to be smothered and confined in a relationship anyway. We do overthink things at times though. I’ve always done little things for him because I pay attention to what he likes and he completely spoils me. There are a few general Aquarius traits I fall in line with but for me the compatibility charts never match. I don’t like dating Aries or Leo’s and I have never gotten along with a Leo woman. I’ve had fun with Aquarian men but I bore easy when dating one. Honestly those have been the shortest hook ups I’ve ever had in life. I love Gemini’s and while I have some great friends that are Sagittarius (including my son) can’t see ever going past a friend stage with them. All of my life my closest friends have all been Virgos. Maybe I just get them and how they operate and my current relationship proves it. I also don’t fit into the strange intimacy label Aquarius have either. I am still stalked by two Scorpios and an Aries because of it. I know there are many other factors that play a major role when it comes individual astrology that I should probably look deeper into.

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      13 months ago

      Couldn’t agree more, I love this

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      13 months ago

      Couldn’t agree more, I love this

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      13 months ago from Chicago

      I think it's wrong that people are giving out incompatible readings for sign matches. I think it's more important to see how the two jive, because every match is going to have a successful married couple out there somewhere.

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      Yayuh 

      13 months ago

      This is brilliant. I'm a Virgo and my husband is an aquarius. In fact, our daughter is an aquarius and my best friends are as well. I think for both signs mental stimulation is necessary and each fulfills that. My husband is so funny and random. I'm not so I just sit back and watch and laugh. I really do enjoy Aquarians. I always say they are my kind of crazy...they are a light to my sometimes dark outlook. Anyway, the conflict is true and after 14 years, we're still figuring it out. I get really irritated by the negative readings of this match because this pairing has brought some of the greatest loves of my life! Thank you for this article :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      15 months ago from Chicago

      @elaannsprouse@gmail.com

      I apologize, I may have flipped the two. An Aquarius can take awhile to attach. Also, if they're still willing to go down that path, I say take them up on it.

      @Joe Pool

      I do go through my Hubs every once in awhile to touch them up, but I think things like this often take a few read throughs to unpack.

      You know, I find it is best for people to think whatever they want to about my gender. It seems they'll respond differently to me whether they think I'm a man or a woman. So I suppose give them the opportunity to speak to whichever gender works best for them?

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      15 months ago from Chicago

      Talk with the Virgo more. Ask them if they want to keep going, if they think they need more time to fall in love. Tell them you're willing to stay with them and see what happens.

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      Joe Pool 

      15 months ago from LONGVIEW

      @elaannsprouse@gmail.com, in my opinion, 7 months isn't log enough for an Aquarius to feel attached to you. It takes them a long time before they let someone in.

      @Andrea: I've mentioned before that I often read over this again when I come back to look over the comments, you know, to pick up things I might have missed before. Are you editing this, or is this a static page? I could swear there were details I caught before but did not see now and things I saw now that I did not see before. And, the name Andrea is female, but the picture is male. Which are you, oh mysterious author? :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      17 months ago from Chicago

      Ohhhh. Yes. Aquarius has a tendency to make walls. She may feel like she is too weird and doesn't want to rub you the wrong way. Either way, whether she really is worried about being weird or something bigger -- being a little weird, random, and flirtatious can help an Aquarius open up. They thrive on energy, especially eccentric fun vibes. Give that to her and eventually those ice queen walls will likely melt. You will have to wait until she is ready to let those walls fall. Aquarius does not do well with interrogation or manipulation.

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      Aquarian 

      18 months ago

      Great read. Very accurate...totally my complicated virgo and I pretty much to the T

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      Joe Pool 

      18 months ago from LONGVIEW

      My Aquarius woman has built up some big walls. I can't seem to get her to let me in at this point in time. I guess I have to wait until she is ready.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      18 months ago from Chicago

      I hate to say this, but your comment contradicts itself. You start with: "I find all you have said to be true." And then say "you are way off in this pairing."

      Well, I can't help you if you can't make up your mind. So make up your mind.

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      Angie 

      18 months ago

      I find all you have said to be true. You left out a lot of Aquarius traits and what Virgo really needs from a relationship. “Trust and attention” are huge for Virgo and Aquarius just doesn’t have it in them. I’m dating an Aquarius man and I’m a Virgo, sure there is more to both signs, but I feel you are a way off in this pairing. I’m on my way out.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      You're welcome!

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      Jennifer 

      2 years ago

      Author, all I can say is thank you for your positive outlook. You're great!!

    • SerenityHalo profile imageAUTHOR

      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      Glad to know this has been helpful! Any combination can work with the right outlook and recipe.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      I hope so! Aquarius probably needs a Virgo more than it realizes. I think as long as you are loving and encouraging, the Aquarius will come to you for support.

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      Paul Cole 

      2 years ago

      This has been the only article I have found that totally reinforces what myself and my partner are experiencing.. we could of had serious reservations when reading a lot of other articles, this has bee by far the best and most accurate. Thank you

      Kind regards

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      Joe Pool 

      2 years ago from LONGVIEW

      I am a Virgo. I have been in contact with a beautiful Aquarius for about 6-months now.

      Everything here, even the linked videos, explains a lot of what I have noticed during this time.

      I plan to keep working on this wonderful person. Yes, she sticks out like a sore thumb, and it is not a bad thing at all.

      With any luck, we will one day be something great together.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      I'm glad this resonated with you.

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      Shangu 

      2 years ago

      This was the only article that gave me hope that aquarius nd virgo be good compatible sign... Coz me nd my bf coming under it... Nd all from my past relationship he made feel the best which i ever dreamed of... I don't want to loose him... I just want to stay with him forever... Thnk u author

    • SerenityHalo profile imageAUTHOR

      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      Thank you! I'm trying to make a series out of it. It makes it easier for me to consistently come up with hubs when I have a longer plan.

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      Larry Rankin 

      2 years ago from Oklahoma

      I always enjoy your astrology overviews.

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