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Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility: Why Is This a Powerful Match?

Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and research astrological compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.

Are Aquarius and Virgo a good match? Read on to discover the pros and cons of a relationship between these signs.

Are Aquarius and Virgo a good match? Read on to discover the pros and cons of a relationship between these signs.

Virgo and Aquarius Compatability

It may seem hard to believe, but two of the most independent, satisfied-with-the-single-life zodiac signs—Aquarius and Virgo—can make for a kismet match. You have the rebellious, off-beat, and authentic Aquarius paired with the hard-working, perfectionistic, and diligent Virgo. It's a water bearer meeting a virgin. An air sign and an earth sign.

The Virgo-Aquarius pairing works well if the two can accept and come to appreciate the ways in which they are different. They are not mirrors of each other, and that's what makes the combination so beautiful. If they're willing to put the work in, the two signs can help each other grow as individuals and as halves of the same whole precisely because of those differences.

This is because they know how to help each other where they are vulnerable. Virgo can nourish Aquarius's weird habits and quirks. Aquarius can teach Virgo to soften, to withhold judgment, and to embrace life more.

How Aquarius and Virgo Balance Each Other

Aquarius TraitsVirgo Traits

Creative

Organized

Free-Spirited

Uptight

Nonconformist

People Pleaser

Distant

Sweet

Inconsistent

Reliable

Friendly

Overly Critical

Unpredictable

Hardworking

Independent

Picky

Humanitarian

Easily Annoyed

Extremist

Patient

Eccentric

Perfectionistic

Emotionally Squeamish

Overthinker

Are Aquarius and Virgo Sexually Compatible?

Aquarius are eccentric lovers, while Virgos are very attentive. They may need to gently encourage each other to break the ice. Both signs are very intellectual (albeit in different ways), so they run the risk of overthinking things, especially when it comes to sex. Virgo tends to agonize over big choices like when to get intimate even more than Aquarius, but one thing is certain: To make a relationship between these signs work, patience (and lots of it) will be an absolute necessity.

Virgo: Once you've decided that you want to take the next step with your Aquarius, don't agonize over every little detail of the encounter. Overanalyzing each moment as it happens won't do anything for you or your partner.

Aquarius: Try not to see Virgo's overthinking in the bedroom as a turn-off. While it may irk you at the start, that thoughtfulness and sensitivity will help other parts of your relationship flourish.

What Is the Aquarius-Virgo Power Dynamic?

As a fixed sign, Aquarius can be stubborn, which can be hard for mutable Virgo to handle. Virgo can be overly willing to sacrifice their own happiness in favor of their partner's, so it's essential to find a healthy balance for both partners. Aquarius should be aware of when they're asking too much of their Virgo, and Virgo should make an effort to recognize when they're being taken advantage of.

The Pros of a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship

When Aquarius and Virgo can learn to appreciate their differences, the results can be truly breathtaking. Here are a few benefits of a union between these signs.

Organization Meets Creativity

Virgo can offer structure to Aquarius, who often have a hard time manifesting. Virgo has such a strong will to conquer its goals, but that's not all—Virgo also has a plan to attain those goals. Aquarius, on the other hand, is a visionary constantly coming up with new, beautiful ideas, but with no clear plan to make those ideas a reality. Virgo can help make Aquarius's inner world come alive.

Friendship Comes First

Both will take the relationship slow, which is what they both need (Aquarius especially): a relationship that starts more like a friendship. Aquarius loves to talk and explore ideas, and conversation will be frequent with the Virgo, who is constantly putting their self out into the world and coming up with different ideas.

Jealousy Isn't the Go-To Emotion

Neither sign is particularly jealous. Virgos are naturally prone to doubt and may feel insecure if they see their Aquarius around other suitors, and Aquarius may feel upset if they think their Virgo finds someone else just as intriguing. Aquarius wants their Virgo to see them as absolutely unique.

Luckily, since most relationships between these signs start as friendships, open communication should come naturally, helping them navigate any potential envy with relative ease.

There's No Shortage of Intellectual Stimulation

After all, this is one of the reasons the two are drawn together in the first place! Since they are both high-level thinking signs, they will feel comfortable exploring new and challenging ideas.

Aquarius . . . Virgo will try hard to pin you down and figure you out because they have been waiting for someone who is as fast of a thinker as they are, and you stick out like a sore thumb. The best thing you can do is just be yourself. Virgo may feel threatened by how chill you can be, so they may try to peacock for your affections, but sooner or later, the two of you will come to an understanding. When that happens, let the deep conversations begin.

They Complement Each Other

These two make for a strong business match. Virgo can act as a producer, publisher, or manager while Aquarius fills the role of writer, singer, or artist. They have what the other person doesn't, and if they can find a way to work together, they will make an unstoppable pair.

In order for a Virgo-Aquarius couple to thrive, they must learn not only to accept, but to celebrate their differences.

In order for a Virgo-Aquarius couple to thrive, they must learn not only to accept, but to celebrate their differences.

The Cons of a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship

Like most good things, a successful relationship between these signs doesn't come easily. Here are a few of the most common problems that Aquarius-Virgo couples experience.

Communication Can Be a Struggle

The biggest hurdle for these two will be communication and learning how to address conflict. Aquarius can feel deeply hurt by strong judgment. Virgo can feel deeply hurt by screwing up (they're very hard on themselves) or being too judgmental.

The two need strategies to facilitate peaceful conversation in times of tension. Virgo needs to express itself, but not at the cost of hurting Aquarius's feelings. Earth signs need to slow down and understand that there are other methods and strategies of looking at and handling life. Your way is not the only way; there are other ways that can manifest and be just as accurate, if not more so.

Virgo's Priorities Need Sorting

Virgos wants to take on the world, and sometimes they feel like no one else is capable (they're perfectionists, remember?), leading them to take on too much at once. Virgo sometimes needs to step away from all the work and other obstacles that can get in the way of a healthy relationship with their Aquarius.

Aquarius does not do well with an inconsistent mate. They don't like to be neglected because all Aquarians are looking for someone who accepts them, and a lack of time or shallow interest will make the Aquarius fade away. Make sure to be consistent and clear about your interests, Virgo.

Aquarius Struggles to Be Romantic

Aquarius, you need to be open to letting your romantic side show. Let your creativity help you: Bake them a cake, write them notes, draw them pictures, and give them gifts. Express your romantic feelings freely and spontaneously so that Virgo gets a clear signal from you. But don't fake it.

First off, the Virgo will see through your act, but second of all, that wouldn't be true to your nature. Aquarius care greatly about authenticity and can feel weird if they are forcing their interactions with someone. If you aren't feeling it, don't force it.

How to Make a Virgo-Aquarius Relationship Work

Bringing these two signs together can be as beautiful as it is challenging. If you are preparing to embark on a Virgo-Aquarius relationship—or are struggling with one that you're already in—here are a few tips to help make things go more smoothly.

Find the Right Balance Between Caring and Overbearing

Aquarius will appreciate Virgo and the safe, traditional, and sturdy environment it provides. They will also see Virgo as having positive parental qualities, but that doesn't mean they want to be treated like a child. Being overbearing with Aquarius is the wrong way to go.

Avoid the Urge to Focus on the Negative

Aquarius grasps things easily and is skilled at understanding and solving conflict, but Virgo can have a tendency to harp on things and overexplain. In general, the two would do well to think before speaking and let their anger calm and fade rather than spur them to argument, as once the fight gets started, it can be hard to cool things down again.

Virgo would be wise to avoid the urge to overexplain, especially when it comes to potentially negative topics because Aquarius can get worn out by too much negativity. (Besides, odds are Aquarius already understands the topic instinctively.)

Virgo comes to a better understanding through negativity and isn't as distraught by it, but Virgo is sensitive in its own right. It doesn't like to be changed or told what to do, how to think, how to feel, or who they should be sexually attracted to. Going that far can set a Virgo off.

Be Open, Honest, and Patient

Virgo can help Aquarius to be a more refined person while Aquarius can help Virgo settle down and be at peace—something the Virgo ultimately needs to achieve. Therefore, Aquarius brings Virgo the much-needed enlightenment it has been craving its whole life. The two will fight over their differences, creating a pattern where they pull away and are then drawn back to each other. Virgo needs to be careful not to judge the Aquarius too quickly or sharply; this could make the Aquarius go POOF! And perhaps forever.

Aquarius needs to be patient with the Virgo, to try communicating what they are thinking, and understand that Virgo will listen. Virgos are very good listeners. Aquarius are forward thinkers, but they use the past to advance their future. Virgos do a lot of self-analysis of their past to perfect their lives. Both of these signs can hold heavy shame for not fulfilling their own goals and inner selves. Aquarius wants to be a humanitarian; it does not like conflict. Virgo wants perfection and can beat itself up for falling short.

Aquarius have more emotions to them than meets the eye; this is why they are the water bearer. They store up all their emotions until it overflows or the jar breaks. It is insulting to say an Aquarius is too cold or unemotional. They have a different way of displaying and working through their emotions, which is actually at the core of who they are, not to the side as many people wrongly try to explain about the Aquarius.

Finding a way to say the things that need to be said without getting mired in negativity is key to making an Aquarius-Virgo relationship work.

Finding a way to say the things that need to be said without getting mired in negativity is key to making an Aquarius-Virgo relationship work.

Balance Your Communication Styles

Aquarius also needs to be careful not to hurt Virgo by showing a lack of compassion (something Virgo takes very seriously). In general, the two would do well to think before speaking. If they do find themselves upset, they would be wise to let their anger calm and fade rather than jump into an argument, as hurtful and rash things that can't be unsaid may have a disastrous effect on their relationship.

If, however, these signs can find a way to understand and appreciate each other for their differences, they will form a brilliant pair. Their great minds don't think alike, and that's what makes the combination so spectacular.

Virgo: Look for strategies to better relay negative messages. Don't overload the Aquarius with negativity; this could push them away from you.

Aquarius: Communicate what you're feeling even if it doesn't fully make sense, and don't hold back when it comes to pushing through your vulnerabilities. Keep your Virgo in the know.

Make a Plan to Tackle Untidiness

A Virgo craves a clean space, clean energy, clean aesthetics, and purity. Clean = Virgo. Aquarius doesn't put as much energy toward having a clean space (or care as much in general about the concept of clean), though it will be a bonus to them to have a clean space because Aquarius is sensitive and easily affected by the external world. Aquariuses craves creativity over cleanliness, perfection, and the like, and they can get overwhelmed by too many materialistic commands.

It might be best for Virgo to take on more household work while Aquarius tends to other relationship matters, from spontaneity to romance. If possible, Virgo should manage good chunks of housework and have Aquarius pick up the slack in other areas. That being said, both partners should work on the home, not just one person. Don't let Aquarius be too lazy!

Find Shared Hobbies

Aquarius will feel well taken care of in a Virgo relationship; earth signs offer security. Virgo will feel it can spread its wings more, leaving it free to open up its inner-weird and grow as a human. The two will need shared hobbies, particularly creative projects, and they should make an effort to try new things together and be spontaneous.

A Wonderfully Wacky Pair

I support this pair dating long term. What I like about this pairing is how much devotion Virgo can offer and how Aquarius can tend to it. Aquarius won't be judged harshly for their emotions in this pairing, but rather enjoyed for their charm. I think these two can really show a depth that is fulfilling. Some would say Aquarius with a Virgo is weird, but hold on . . . Aquarius is weird, so what are you expecting from any relationship with that sign? (As an Aquarius, I would know!)

How Do Virgos Show Love?

Virgo is great at manifesting things into reality, they are great caretakers, and they love acts of service—that's how they show love. They want their Aquarius to be comfortable around them. Virgo may cut Aquarius loose if the match doesn't seem to fit their standards early on, but once in a committed relationship, Virgo will be very loving and loyal to their Aquarius.

How Do Aquariuses Show Love?

Aquarius is great at the art of conversation, exploring unturned stones, and being sweet. They show love by spending time, physical affection, and compliments. Aquarius show their love by adding you deeper into their social circles; you'll meet a number of friends and family members.

© 2016 Andrea Lawrence

Comments

Joemammaangiedaddy on September 03, 2020:

Nailed it! I’m a Virgo and my Hubby’s a Aquarius. Dated for three months and then married for 18 years. There was a lot of people who didn’t believe it us, but we did and that’s all that mattered. Thank you

Signed

#stillhappilymarried

Eddie her names RUTH on July 30, 2020:

Thanks you. This was a massive waste time. But a good laugh, not in good way. I’m away to be in a huff. And get get a nose job. Do you have any motorhomes for hire. Yours sincerely Ruth Doey.

Gaby jupin on July 24, 2020:

I am aquarius and am Friend whit a libra he is so ninc and cute a litte bit.but he like me and I like him.

JBRO on July 11, 2020:

To Meh: you literally summed up the sign of Aquarius in one final sentence. Defying the constraints some one put on you in a random article to the point that you had to express your difference in opinion because we don’t like being categorized like sheep. I’m doing it now. Have a drink , smoke a jay bird and let it ride my dude (or lady).

Sana on July 04, 2020:

Em an Aquarius al the things are very true but i never talk to my virgo pArtner even i dont know about his personality traits this artical mY help to dral with him hopefully em so worried about that how can i handle my pRtne r

Shaba on July 02, 2020:

I've known my Virgo for about 2 years now and I will say I enjoy being his friend quite a bit. I love that you mentioned business because that is literally what we are embarking upon. He literally finishes my sentences and we work so damn well together. From job working 9-5 to having a business together is crazy good to me. For now we're best of homies but I can't wait to see where it could go. I believe true friendship takes time to develop. I wouldn't trade him for the world man! Thank you for this post!

Meh on July 02, 2020:

Ok i read all this comments but aquarious and virgos do u really beleive so much on astrology. I use too but god sake the only person you should trust is your selfs.. You guys/girls owe ur astrology sign they dont owe you.. Im a so called aquarious but were god dang adults now use yalls brains and be mature. You are you and you write your own book of life.. Difference is beautiful aquarious stop being so irresponsible, and virgos stop letting your sign dictate your life.. You dictate what you want to do follow your guts and instincts.. Have faith in the relationship. Start being you i honestly hate my own sign=aquarious i refuse to let my sign give me ordersand my personality i am me and you are you its time to bloom and grow..

Be you

Pooh on June 30, 2020:

My husband is an Aquarius! We have been together 25 and a half years. All the things said are true. We always have ups and downs because of our different attitudes, but I love him very much.

R on June 29, 2020:

Probably one of the most accurate descriptions by far that I've seen on anyone tackling the concept of Aquarian, especially the "aloof" and "detached" version of them. Thank you for setting the record straight.

And great to know that the negativity the Virgo displays is all actually just part of helping the Aquarian, and should be explored and not taken too harshly by the Aquarian.

adriian on June 28, 2020:

My name is adrian, im not with anyone yet but im talking to a virgo and this was really helping me with our conversations and i dont know how to reply to a specific comment but to Thalia or “T”, me being an Aquarius i can see where your bf is coming from with the im not a child thing i do the same but i think the only way to really reach him and make sure he understands completely what your saying is to not let everything out at once because were not used to overflowing emotions and problems but also make it so that your not balling up all those emotions all the time. Now im not saying to mention it to him everyday because that would make him feel drained but probably every once or twice a week you should talk to each about how your feeling. If this doesnt work im sorry i couldnt help

Bless & Blessin on May 28, 2020:

Shai , reach out in true sincerity. Don't allow too much time to pass

Raya on May 26, 2020:

Hi! I'm a virgo and my boyfriend is an aquaius. All the facts about each sign was real. my usual problem is my anxiety while my boyfriend is just chilling while I'm overthinking, sometimes I think he don't love me anymore but there's something inside me saying that I was just overreacting and overthinking anything, we just have to embrace our differences so we can get along. We dated since 2012-2014 and get back together last year. i have learned so many things and it enlightened me. Thank you for writing this article and also to the people in comment box. Big help! Godbless u all

Thalia on May 25, 2020:

Hello my name is Thalia, but I mostly just go by “T”. I loved this and honestly I really needed it. I’ve been with my Aquarius man for a little over a year. We have our ups and downs. For the most part we’re always happy. But I am kind of struggling, he notices..and asks me about it but I just shrug it off and say “oh it’s nothing, not a big deal”. I know that when we talk sometimes o can over explain and to him it feels like I’m attacking him, which makes him defensive, and ultimately makes me bottle things up. I don’t want to come off as overbearing, and sometimes he says “I’m not a child I not incompetent”. I quickly explain that I’m sorry and that is not the way I was trying to come off. I don’t want to hurt his feeling or make him feel “undermined”. So I try not to talk about the little stuff that may hurt my feelings here and there. Then I lose it and all comes up like word vomit. Then he thinks that I’m mad, or upset, that I want to break up. I tell him that is not the case. I try to explain it’s just something I had to get off my chest. But some of things I’m getting off my chest happened two plus months ago. He is completely caught off guard Bc he says he had no idea that I felt that way. If u have any advice on how I can approach him without me over explaining or come off over baring I think it would help me tremendously! But Thank You, reading this helped me understand him a little better. And gave me helpful tools that I believe I will be able to use with success! ❤️❤️

Visalakshi on May 23, 2020:

I'm a virgo female and I'm in a distant relationship with an Aquarius I love him deeply and so he is also v both are different Religion I'm a Hindu n he is a Muslim and that's not a matter at all but I need a long term committed relationship while he thinks about it probably I want to get married to him and start our life whereas he wants to date on let's see how it goes

melionei on May 11, 2020:

I'm a virgo in a relationship with an aquarius, on and off for the past 5 years. I left him early on after 2 years because he refused to move on from letting his past dictate his future and because he didn't have a handle on his emotions, and refused to communicate about it. Broke up with him again right before year 4 because (and we talked about it before) we were both very happy with being single but I was ultimately ok with sharing my life with him, but he was (like we were both in the beginning) fine with being single. I don't have that kind of time to be wasting with someone who i'm not even sure wants me around regardless of what they say. Actions mean more than words. I need to move on and accomplish my goals and at this point you're only hindering me. I need a partner or to be left ALONE by you at this point.

He came around. While we definitely still have our issues, we're learning to communicate better. I'm definitely learning to think long and hard before I speak on an emotional issue so that it doesn't seem like i'm attacking him. He is doing a better job of explaining why he thinks the way he does and is making an effort to be better. We're making each other better.

Muskan on May 03, 2020:

I'm a virgo

And this is so accurate about Virgos and their habits and nature

Kehlani on April 28, 2020:

So this so accurate I’m a Virgo woman and my on again off again mate is a Aquarius he drives me up a wall we literally meet 6 months ago and it’s felt like an eternity we tired to talk and date it just didn’t work emotionally we were all over and went six months without talking and he popped back up in my life randomly saying he’s been fighting with himself about me now its so hard not to be around each other it makes us both love sick .. it’s like he’s a life line I didn’t know I needed until he was gone . He doesn’t want to be in a relationship he told me he cares about me deeply and he doesn’t want to have sex he just needs to be around me I don’t know how to take him it’s to much it’s killing me to not have him around but our communication is horrible I want to let him go but my soul won’t allow it

Ally on April 28, 2020:

Hello I'm an Aquarius and I have an amazing boyfriend that is a Virgo. Lately since the COVID-19 is around..him and I haven't been talking like we use to. So I took it upon myself to ask why and he said he doesn't want to talk about the interesting stuff that happens daily but rather talk about it when seeing each other again..and this makes me worry that we might grow apart. So....am I overthinking about this

I'm grateful that I found this page... most parts helped me and everything written here is brilliant

Michelle on April 01, 2020:

My husband is a Virgo and I am an Aquarius. We’ve been together for 39 years, married for 35 years. While we’ve had our ups and downs like any relationship, I believe our spirits bind us together more stronger then our birth sign. The secret to a long relationship is having a short memory! Forgiveness is very important!

Nikki Jay on March 20, 2020:

I'm a Virgo and my friend/ex boyfriend/friend is an Aquarius. We've known each other for 8yrs. Been friends for a while was in a relationship and seperated. We've been on and off for the past 5 years. Starting conversations and then distancing ourselves from each other every few months cause I was in a relationship at the time. Now am single we've started back talking. I feel comfortable around him but due to my harsh judgement and his defensiveness, wanting to safe guard his emotions I think i've lost him this time. Its amazing how I popped up on this article all of a sudden.

Ahriahna on March 14, 2020:

YES! Thank you for shedding light on the real Aquarius, the detached emotionally or as you said, off to the side.. yes.. We have a different way, we feel but it is not apparent to others, as a humanitarian, aware of vibes leaking out and I do not like bad vibes leaking onto me from others, I certainly control myself and my demeanor and stance and attitude with people, to be chill and friendly. But thank you, for speaking on Aquarian's behalf we are misunderstood very much.

Susan on March 06, 2020:

I am Aquarius woman, My Virgo man was the pursuer and I cannot be more happy. This article was spot on !

Thank you .

Edward W on February 28, 2020:

I’m a Aquarius and in a relationship with a Virgo and almost everything I read was true.

Gelrue on February 14, 2020:

Im an aquarius and my partner is virgi we been dating now a year but we look Perfect match coz we balance each Others differences..these article is so a ccurate.

Hlaingwintlwin on February 08, 2020:

I am aquarius and my crush is a virgo. I liked her for almost 6years and now we have better relationship then before. This post is very accurate for both of us and very helpful for forwarding our relationship.

seedling_108 on February 06, 2020:

i'm a Virgo and my crush is Aquarius we like each other now unlike before... before he used to make jokes and make me laugh but now we like each other and we kinda not talk anymore cause we're both shy... this post really helped me to understand him more and this is really legit ^-^

MarKie.ghorl on February 05, 2020:

I'm an Aquarius and my Crush is a Virgo were totally friends until one day he told me that he likes me he asked me if he can court me and I said yes and until now we're still happy with our relationship. We learned how to accept our differences.

MistyGirl on February 03, 2020:

This blog is so accurate...I’m a Virgo and my boyfriend is a Aquarius, we’ve been friends for five year and have been dating for three years...we both learned to accept each other’s differences...at first things weren’t easy cause of communication and as a Virgo overthinking is a bad habit I can’t let go off

Someone on February 02, 2020:

This blog is really accurate, like I didnt expect that it knows my character. Well, my crush is a Virgo and she is really so reserved. I like this posts because it gives me more tips on how to handle her. Thanks for the post!

Carol on January 21, 2020:

Me and my boyfriend absolutely despise each other, but because our signs are compatible (me:Aquarius him:Virgin) we decided to stay together. if the stars align so does our relationship. :3 :)

Leenu on January 15, 2020:

My crush is a virgo and like, he is purrfect. He is almost every teacher's pet (except Art, that's my territory), he is the best at sports and has gotten gold medals since first grade (yeah, I've known him for a while). He won in the Olympics of our city's schools in our age group in literally EVERYTHING. He is super smart, only A's. And lately he's been REALLY talkative with me lately and it's weird since he only talks to his best friend and no girls EVER. And he has started showing his weird side a little. :3

Shai on January 02, 2020:

I’m an Aquarius lady and have been dating my Virgo man for six months now...it started and stayed great and I’ve learned so much from him...our love together is like no other...however, we just recently had a big challenge where I was hurting a bit and caused probably much more hurt to him...I want to say my health issues caused me to be more distant and depressed and I may have pushed him farther...I finally communicated all what I’ve been feeling and thoughts, but I think it was too late...because he says he needs time alone to drain out the negative emotions and sort things out...I’m doing my very best to be patient and wait for him till he’s ready to talk to me again, but i am scared of losing him...I’m also wondering if he still loves me because it’s hard to know if i can’t see or talk to him yet...it may drive me a little crazy, but i love him so much that i would do whatever it takes to make this better...and i do know there is still hope because he allowed me to hug him and we embraced for a long while until we parted ways...i want to reach out to him and show that I’m not giving up... but I don’t want to upset him more...so, any advice or tips would be greatly helpful... thanks!!

Lex on January 02, 2020:

So big yes my bestfriend is a virgo and i am an aquarius and we both like each other but we are deciding to wait untill we are both ready because i just got out of a bad relationship and he got his heart broken so we are both going to wait till the time is right for both of us

Kenneth on January 01, 2020:

In a virgo man and I'm in love with this aquarius woman and we've been dating for 4years but never had sex i help her i help pay her bills and she says she loves me ,so is she using me or do she really cares

Dhanishta on December 10, 2019:

Hello I’m a Virgo and my boyfriend is an Aquarius He has been pretty distant with me the past two weeks I need advice He said he was busy and now he is sick but sometimes he is online and doesn’t even reply my text I just feel kind of shitty lately

Erica on December 04, 2019:

Hi!

Thanks for this! I am an Aquarius and my I've been dating my boyfriend (Virgo) for over 2 years now. Pretty much everything you said here is so on the mark haha. In the first video on the page (at the very end) you give a scenario where the Aquarius and Virgo do not match up for a long term relationship. Can you say more about that??? What are the "personal planets" that you are referring to ... how do I know if all my planets are Aquarius? THANK YOU!!! :)

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on December 04, 2019:

Aw! Glad to know things are working out for you.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on December 04, 2019:

Glad to hear things are going well for you.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on December 04, 2019:

Always love hearing these observations make sense to people!

Chelsea on December 02, 2019:

I’m an Aquarius ♒️ woman and I met this guy I met is a Virgo man about 2 months ago. Funny it was right around the time I had been sort of fed up with men and I wrote this list about what I wanted in a mate. But I’ll continue before I go on a tangent. Funny he inboxed me and usually I never respond to inbox message because it’s some childish guy saying everything I’ve already heard. But he was different. He complimented but it was more about my aura and spirit that he saw through my profile picture. (Sidenote: we both are models and I’m a designer as well)anyway he ended up modeling for one of my fashion shows after lol

Naomi on November 26, 2019:

It has also been a month since we have started dating! Thanks again, Andrea!!!!!!!!!

Naomi on November 26, 2019:

Update!

Hi, it's me again. I tried it out and it worked! I am dating the sweetest Virgo you could meet. Thank you so much!!!

KaMahlobo on November 23, 2019:

I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is a Aqurarius and your article made so much sense. Thanks

Shelly on November 23, 2019:

I am an Aquarius and i like this guy who is a virgo. He is the most charming person i have ever had the pleasure to meet. He is sweet and shy and oh so cute and is a perfect gentleman. But he has this angry, rugged side too that he doesnt show infront of me but i know its there because sometimes i can see the anger on his face and in his eyes even though he doesnt say anything (his anger is not directed towards me). That man can shut anyone up with a glare and the more i talk to him, the more i discover his other sides. I dont know if i will ever have a chance with him. I mean he is way out of my league but we are good friends and my bestfriend seems to think that he likes me too but i dont know. I hope he does and thats why i thought i would look it up. If there are chances for us to work out.

Rosemary on November 21, 2019:

I'm a virgo n my ex is a aquarius(wat made it worse a traditional kind of men n me raised in the city) , he was just too difficult n I guess my virgo ass wud speak her mind n ended up pushing him away but hey, guy wud bottle thngs up, even thou u cum up wit suggestions to hlp wit our communication he just wudnt budge in n i got tired really as I felt I was in an emotionless relationship n he felt I complained alot wen I wud tel him how I feel but think it was a great idea to break up as we were bringing the worst out of each othr thou in the beginning we were like a match made in heaven we clicked we evn thot we were each othrs soul mates but ey life hppns, myb if i came across ths post earlier n he wud b willing to listn n try myb thngs wud b dffrnt.. Tnx fr ths it was very educative

Thelma Legson on November 18, 2019:

biggest yes! i am an aquarius lady, and my partner is Virgo, at first we felt stranged to each other, but when we opened ourselves, and proved how much we loved each other, that´s the time we realized how we need and felt the true loved in our hearts... and how we succeeded to make it last and more stronger, is we gave ourselves to each others completely. now! we enjoyed, cherished the loved that we never had before, this is what we wanted to be, our dreams for a life time... together, nothing can asked for more! a priceless, and nothing can compare of, to live happily ever after. we are the perfect match, i thanks god for giving me the best gift ever, through him... my world becomes colorful and my heart... full of joy and sings for love,,, he´s the only man of my life, who completed everything in my whole life....

Anonymous on November 12, 2019:

I’m an Aquarius girl having a crush on a Virgo boy. We met recently, but I already feel very found of him and I want to spend time with him more and more, but I’m not sure how he feels about me... we have the same age and I think he’s so sweet and cute. I wanna hear him talk for hours and play with his hair god I’m so in love with him. I wish I could tell him how I feel but maybe it’s too soon... so I’m trying my best to hide my emotions and calm myself down whenever he’s around because I don’t wanna make him feel uncomfortable. I think about him all day and I can’t stand the thought of him being with someone else

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on November 07, 2019:

You're really young, so try to just keep things sweet and simple. Don't try to overthink these things.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on November 07, 2019:

Glad you liked the post, and I wish you well in your relationship.

Sabrina on November 06, 2019:

I been with my Virgo man for 4 years now. I’m 22 and he’s 35. {Age ain’t nothing but a #. I live by that, leave me alone! :P } It’s been up and down because of our differences but we always come back together and when we do we actually do become closer than before :). I love him so much he’s such a beautiful soul. We always felt like we were each other’s soulmates and I believe we communicate telepathically because many times when I think of him he calls me or when I think of something, he’ll say or do it; not all the time but enough times for me to feel this way! Lol! But you know what else I have to back up this “theory” LOL . Virgo: represents a woman holding a sheaf of wheat(food) / Aquarius: represents a man pouring out water(drink). Man, woman, food, drink you need the two. We fulfill each other. Definitely complimentary as stated in the post. Both are geared towards being humanitarians so for the people, virgo brings his criticisms (food for thought) and Aquarius brings you the knowledge/truth/spirit(water) to digest it. We’re the perfect team. A dynamic duo! Powwow suckers, how ya like us now! Whenever you guys have trouble READ THIS ARTICLE it’s true! A lot of the problems we had were because I didn’t read this article LOL but seriously. Peace ☮️ and Love ❤️ Guys.

Thank you Andrea :)

Anonymous on October 04, 2019:

I’m an Aquarius dating and Virgo and the first few months were a lot of work. We fought almost everyday over jealousy and overthinking things and it was just very toxic but we both new that there was something their and we didn’t want to let go of and we fought for our relationship and we worked super hard and now we are going on two years and this past year we have grown so much you wouldn’t believe your eyes!

Naomi on October 01, 2019:

i am an aquarius girl crushing on a virgo guy. i looked at other sites and what they say about a virgo being a critic and shy and organized is not always true. the virgo i like is messy and funny and never severely criticizes anyone. but he is slightly introverted and plays the cello, which i think is based on personality. im super outgoing, and i play trumpet, which is brassy and fun. cello is more mellow. but anyway, to stop my digressing, i think i might have a chance with this virgo. he thinks im funny and just today i was near his locker (across from mine actually), and i tapped him on the shoulder and said, "race you to science." (because im an immature-ish 12 year old). he stayed at his locker as i walked to class, so i thought he had ignored me, but then, halfway there, he races past me (powerwalking though, cause, school). so we race at the highest walking speed we can go and its a tie. yes, a tie. so he might like me! :D and i plan on telling him how i feel in about a month and a half because hes probably crushing on me too. i read somewhere that a aquarius-virgo relationship is either gong to go horribly wrong or be a huge spoonful of perfection. hopefully the latter. wish me luck

Rosa on September 23, 2019:

I like an aquarius boy but we are not exactly friends. He's trying to avoid me? Kind of..

khushboo on September 18, 2019:

i am a virgo man having a crush on a 9feb aquarius girl .she is just perfect she talks to me but only when i start the conversation and i am confused that whether she is being nice to me just like other people or is interested in me but is hiding her emotions. is it okay to have a age gave of 1 year .she is 16 and i am 17 so please tell if i should invest my emotions in trying to make thinks work as i am really in love with her i cant stop thinking of her and wish to give her care .i just feel safe ,warm and confident when with her

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on August 15, 2019:

Try having fun. Enjoy yourself first. Seem approachable. Find down to earth topics to bring up. Try to find mutual interests.

Jessie on August 13, 2019:

Andreas, I read your comment how scorps love to stalk Aquarius. If that isn't the truist statement! In my lifetime, I get most stabbed in the back by scorp. They can't stand the aquarius detachment. Scorp easily gets ruffled though they might not show it. Too much drama for my liking.

Close friends of mine are virgo. I immensely enjoy my friendship with this sign. It's an odd couple that makes life colorful and interesting. 2 thumbs up!

Jass Teow Jia Hee on August 05, 2019:

I’m an Aquarius and I have a crush who is a Virgo. I’m still hoping that our relationship can be better during my High School life and I hope our relationship can be a long term. I’m still looking for ways on how should I approach to her in the meantime. Do share some of your thoughts. Thanks haha

Thelma Legson on August 04, 2019:

thank you! for my understanding here! it helps a lot and enriching my knowledge to understand our differences. because the power of love! we conquer all our fear and doubt. now! we´re getting more stronger than ever before, we love and appreciates every little things, and treasured our time together. in god´s will everything is possible, and i do trust him god! that we´re destined to live forever, a soulmate... god bless! and more power!

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on August 02, 2019:

Glad to hear this resonated so much with you.

Chyna on August 02, 2019:

I am a Virgo and my late husband for 23 years was an Aquarius. We had a great life together we balance each other me balancing him more but it worked. Now I am with another Aquarius unexpectedly we became friends which I knew him before when we were kids lost touch with him reunited after my husband's death. We both found it odd to reunite as friends but now intimate. I found that this article helped me to understand him and myself more thank you. there are things that were said in this article that I didn't even realize about myself it helped like I said to understand him. I will be sharing this article with him so he can read it at his leisure in a quiet place no distractions so he can understand me. Yes Virgos and Aquarius are compatible and if anyone read this article their relationship can be much better.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 25, 2019:

Throwing some shade here, but it seems to ring true.

Laura Lawrence In Florida on July 11, 2019:

An intelligent conversation with a Virgo is the sexiest thing in the world.... But unfortunately they take things and tell lies about you when you make them mad, which is easy to do. But gawd they sure are smart about social, political and Earthly knowledge.,.especially analyzing emotions. Very Judgmental.

Di Fairhall on July 05, 2019:

I am the Virgo and my Husband of 51 years is the Aquarian. Sadly Death was the only thing that parted us. Had a wonderful life together. Yes a Virgo and Aquarian do work and highly recommend the match.

Love on June 17, 2019:

I Aquarius and my Boyfriend is Virgo and we've been together fo 8 years now :)

Kat on June 12, 2019:

My Virgo and I (who is Aquarius) have been together for over three years now. It was hard at first and most of above I agree with. But once we stuck it out and overcame our hurdles and his walls came down (and there were many at first). it is a serious match made in heaven! We are truly soulmates and adore each other! The traits above mentioned are spot on, and if you find yourself in this match don't give up! At least for me... it has been a beautiful pairing and he is so loyal and makes me feel so secure. We both feel so lucky to have each other!

Rebecca on May 30, 2019:

My Husband is a ♍ and Im a ♒ we met when I was 16 he was 19. We have been together for 17 years married for 7 of those years. He's my best friend and visa versa. We talk to eachother about everything. Trust and communication is always there support as well ... Im not really sure how this video is true.

Ley on May 20, 2019:

I’m a Virgo woman, and my best friend is an Aquarius. We really love our differences and see them as a perfect balance to each other’s lives. She is my only close friend, and honestly we are so perfect for each other it makes my heart want to explode. She understands me deeper than anyone ever in my life. I couldn’t give enough thanks to the universe for the divine Virgo+Aquarius friendship.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on May 16, 2019:

Glad it is helpful.

UnknoWn? on May 14, 2019:

My Crush Likes me he’s a Virgo and I am an Aquarius! This is explains a lot and will help me for sure!

Sara on May 11, 2019:

I’m an Aquarius ♒️ & my Fiancé is a Virgo ♍️. I read this aloud in bed tonight & we couldn’t believe how accurate everything is!! We have been together for 4 years. In the beginning the excitement set off fireworks & magic like happenings kept us on cloud 9! Infatuated, inseparable, with an unbearable craving to be close every second of every day. As the “new phase” & all the excitement it brings started settling down, our differences became more & more noticeable & at times made us doubt what we had going together. After going through a ton of struggles in our relationship, we came extremely close to ending it several times, especially the most recent separation that lasted weeks! Looking back now, I know the absence made our hearts grow fonder. We worked through it all, which made us both good forgivers. We’re now going on our 5th year stronger & better than ever. Our hard times taught us a lot. We learned to accept & celebrate one another’s differences. Celebrating our differences because it’s what makes what we have so imperfectly perfect. Our differences make us whole, together we are one. Ones strengths are the others weaknesses. We complement each other beautifully. This ♍️ & ♒️ can’t live without each other, not sure how we ever did.

Isha on May 09, 2019:

I am an Aquarian and my husband is a Virgo. We've been married for over 4 years now. It is a struggle at times for sure, there is no denying that. But they balance each other out perfectly.

Tracey on March 28, 2019:

Article is perfect. Everything is right on. In the end my aquatius is a bad alcoholic so me as a virgo i clean keep the house clean and go crazy on on the man for drinkimg. So on. I will as a virgo leave him bit as you say so loyal i cant. Ty for your info. In goimg to try to communicate and save are relationship bc we do love each other and we do have a child . But in the end not sure if we r to compatible under stressful situations like addictions. The virgo will take over and walk away

Cindy on March 17, 2019:

Everything in this article is true to the Aquarius I was dating, but slightly different as she cleans a lot. But I wish I should've read this sooner... Because I did the don't do's. I let my emotions get in the way, brought a lot of negativity and now she really went poof out of my life. Sigh

Mnnorz on February 23, 2019:

I am a Aquarius (f) and i like a Virgo (m), he seems to give me signs that he likes me but im not to sure. I am 14 years old and he is 16 :)

Angele Ashley on February 13, 2019:

So I’m the Aquarius. Everything that was said was true about me. I have recently re-connected with my first love from the 6th-9th grade. We would always get together for rendevous throughput the years but just couldn’t get in alignment. We haven’t seen each other for 20 years but we’ve always loved each other. We now have a chance to make it work and I don’t want to lose him. I think we can make it. I’ve loved him since the 3rd grade and always will.

Melissa Jansen-Philips on February 07, 2019:

I'm a Virgo woman, just married my Aquarius friend. we've been with each other for 12 yrs now and we have 3 kids. we struggle sometimes but like your articles says if you use some strategies you can conquer it all with them. and i love him to the moon and back. i see my self being happily married till the end. he is so kind. i love that he is so confident and with his ideas and my organized self we achieve a lot of businesses. it makes us one.

Steponmee on January 31, 2019:

I wish my aquarius guy would open up more. He bottles things up alot and it drives me crazy

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on January 09, 2019:

Good luck. I hope you can ask her on a date or win her affections.

Jest on January 06, 2019:

Actually..... All your points were right. I don't know how you just stated all of my plans, ideas, analyses of my attraction about this aquarius woman I am secretly watching. Although, she knows I like her to be my wife. I am a virgo man who dont fear commitment, and she's an aquarius who of course loves her freedom.

Like the air, she cant be contained, like the mountains, I cannot be moved. We can exist without the other but she gives life to my barren world. Actually, I'm just waiting, I have my eyes on her, I will definitely try every ways I can think of to get her to be with me. Oh and, I love taking pictures of her! I just really don't want to lose her.

Right now, I have started a thesis about my attraction towards her haha. (It's because I really want to understand how come I got hooked) I also gave her a notebook containing my plans in my love life, where her name is written. We still communicate and I just hope we're getting closer.

I will just let her flow freely, all I need is the air for me to breathe and erode the ways that I don't need to exist.

Thanks for this article, out of the articles I have read about our compatibility, this one gave me hope. Thank you! Wish me luck!

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on January 02, 2019:

Aquarius is the ultimate sign of equanimity.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on January 02, 2019:

Ah, I hope you can find something that brings a buzz to you in your 40s. Don't worry, there is bound to be something to give you a spark of joy.

Marshall Stephany on December 12, 2018:

My husband is an Aquarius and I am a Virgo woman . We have been married for twenty years and we are are going strong. I am extremely practical and pragmatic, and he is spontaneous, and quirky. I love to stay home and organize, and he likes to go out with his friends and family . Hey our relationship works for us.and is very solid. We respect and admire our differences . I love how he is secure in being different and confident in his own skin , and he loves how I stand in my convictions to stay organize and focus in the home environment .

Jiziah on December 07, 2018:

I have just finished reading the article and all the interesting comments. I am an aquarius woman who have been in a strong happy relationship with a virgo man for 3 yrs now. I read one of the comments sharing a story about her virgo bf who tried a lot of things just to get this aqua girl's feelings and attendtion and now she's totally crazily inlove with him and yes, that's TOTALLY US and soooo me. I have never expected about this magic between us but yes, opposites attracts PLUS my virgo bf loves me in all ways (negative/positive sides of me) i am so blessed.. and vice versa because of my unstoppable exploration of behaviors and attitudes toward a person that make me really excited about him.. I always want him also to be happy by my cheering attitude as always and im amazed how he opens up himself to me naturally without even the feeling of "trying hard so much" and I love it! I feel secured of him so much by his attitude of being so practical. He is so good on handling money! So true he is not into buying expensive ones but he is actually supporting his family and save good budget for our trips! I love anything natural, fast, easy, true, kind and just helping both sides of our weaknesses. He is very attentive and clean and me is quite messy sometimes hahahaha i'm kinda shy to him sometimes of being just so carefree and crazy and messy but my love of art and giving colors to his life make him so much happy I feel that he never care about this little dirty flaw haha but when it comes to being si sweet i think i am more expressive and starts the sweetness and flirts between us but sometimes i have to manage it trying to be like organized, proper or ladylike and good at dresses that he also like. It's also true that aqua woman easily put distances if she gets hurt by the virgo man at the same time my bf get teary eyes or feel frustrated if he mess up or hurt me sometimes by his judgement. He does not like me to feel hurt by him. He wants perfection and always want concrete plans and gets disappointed if i am already too spontaneous and unorganized but at the end of the day he make it a point that i am feel loved and accepted by him inspite of it, he says it to me directly and hugs me after. So amazingly true in this article! Oh and by the way, we were friends for a decade already since high school. That makes sense of "being me" of not easily wanting to attach with someone even he expressed that time that he like me. It took years until we met again and became a couple. Now we will be celebrating 3rd anniversary and both our hearts are so excited for our future! We are praying and hoping for the best and of course feeling so sure how we want to end up marrying and staying together til we get old! This is what we have been dreaming and our opposites/differences make us just laugh and talk about it sometimes with so much acceptance and realizations.. because it is the TRUE LOVE of a virgo and aquarius now matter to us more and more each day!!! Love lots to this best article! So true and sweet!

Nena H. on November 26, 2018:

How exactly should i peak an Aquarius's interest in me? He is a male (Aquarius) and i am a female (Virgo) if that helps at all.

Jenn on November 14, 2018:

Aquarian woman here dating a Virgo. Deep into astrology, gave this a shot anyway in Venus retrograde. I have found this Virgo man communicated effectively with me. I feel completely accepted in all my weird ways. I'm messy he is OCD. This actually helps me to stay organized and I need that. The freedom i feel to be myself without judgement has been phenomenal. I like the space we both allow one another. He loves my positivity that I bring and I love the security he brings. I do not feel any lack of emotion. I am expressive and so is he. The aries I dated before was critical and I always felt I was walking on eggshells. The Leo he dated before was jealous to the extreme. Maybe those relationships are what drove us to both strive to be better in this relationship. Of all my relationships this one has been the easiest.

Joe Pool from LONGVIEW on October 02, 2018:

An Aquarius believes in treating everyone equally, Hanie. That even goes for the people they love most of all. Try not to take it personally, because it is something they cannot change.

Hanie on October 02, 2018:

Tami Thomas, can you please share how to win his heart after a fight? I know he loves me, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't really show it much..he wants me to enjoy life more and don't think to much about him..I want him to love and miss me more..

Tami Thomas on September 21, 2018:

I am married to Aquarius and I am a virgo. Im hoping our 23 yr. Relationship lasts forever , communication is the key !!!!

Kathrine salander on June 10, 2018:

This is the first reading ever where the Aquarius and Virgo can last. I’ve been with my Virgo man soon 4 years and i’ve Always read the pairings sceptical because it wasn’t true when the pairings said we’ll never last. He’s the first man in my life that truly has learned me something about communication. The Virgo man is so simple, you just need to say what’s bothering you and he be like “we can do this to fix that, would that be great ?” It was mindblowing for me to handle situations like that and that is one of the things I really love him for.

You also mentioning that the Aquarius need to tell their Virgo what the feel even when they not really know where they’re going with is - it’s kinda funny I did that for kid 3 days ago because I’ve learned that he hates when I build to much emotions up. So I told him some things I was thinking and I didn’t really knew where I was going with it - but the conversation ended with me feeling more loved than before and he was so glad that I opened up for him even though I didn’t really knew where I was going with it.

You also said that the Aquarius like to start her relationships up as friends - I kinda laughed for my Virgo was after me for like 1 year before i was ready to be with him. He will always say it was so hard but so good to see for every thing he did for getting me he could just see I got more and more crazy about him.

It truly makes me happy that this pairing is one of them that lastest. I know I will be with him for the rest of my life he learns me so much and vice versa.

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on May 16, 2018:

Oh, Scorpios love to stalk Aquarius. That's like the ultimate quest. Virgo is also pretty privy to Aquarius. Gemini is usually a great match.

Lauran Muer on May 14, 2018:

I have always felt I was truly a different type of Aquarius than stated in most of these reads. The best bf I’ve ever had is a Virgo and we get along great. We communicate well, not a single intimacy issue and we are a great balance. When he needs his space it doesn’t bother me because I HATE to be smothered and confined in a relationship anyway. We do overthink things at times though. I’ve always done little things for him because I pay attention to what he likes and he completely spoils me. There are a few general Aquarius traits I fall in line with but for me the compatibility charts never match. I don’t like dating Aries or Leo’s and I have never gotten along with a Leo woman. I’ve had fun with Aquarian men but I bore easy when dating one. Honestly those have been the shortest hook ups I’ve ever had in life. I love Gemini’s and while I have some great friends that are Sagittarius (including my son) can’t see ever going past a friend stage with them. All of my life my closest friends have all been Virgos. Maybe I just get them and how they operate and my current relationship proves it. I also don’t fit into the strange intimacy label Aquarius have either. I am still stalked by two Scorpios and an Aries because of it. I know there are many other factors that play a major role when it comes individual astrology that I should probably look deeper into.

G on April 17, 2018:

Couldn’t agree more, I love this

G on April 17, 2018:

Couldn’t agree more, I love this

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on April 13, 2018:

I think it's wrong that people are giving out incompatible readings for sign matches. I think it's more important to see how the two jive, because every match is going to have a successful married couple out there somewhere.

Yayuh on April 13, 2018:

This is brilliant. I'm a Virgo and my husband is an aquarius. In fact, our daughter is an aquarius and my best friends are as well. I think for both signs mental stimulation is necessary and each fulfills that. My husband is so funny and random. I'm not so I just sit back and watch and laugh. I really do enjoy Aquarians. I always say they are my kind of crazy...they are a light to my sometimes dark outlook. Anyway, the conflict is true and after 14 years, we're still figuring it out. I get really irritated by the negative readings of this match because this pairing has brought some of the greatest loves of my life! Thank you for this article :)

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on February 02, 2018:

@elaannsprouse@gmail.com

I apologize, I may have flipped the two. An Aquarius can take awhile to attach. Also, if they're still willing to go down that path, I say take them up on it.

@Joe Pool

I do go through my Hubs every once in awhile to touch them up, but I think things like this often take a few read throughs to unpack.

You know, I find it is best for people to think whatever they want to about my gender. It seems they'll respond differently to me whether they think I'm a man or a woman. So I suppose give them the opportunity to speak to whichever gender works best for them?

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on February 02, 2018:

Talk with the Virgo more. Ask them if they want to keep going, if they think they need more time to fall in love. Tell them you're willing to stay with them and see what happens.

Joe Pool from LONGVIEW on February 02, 2018:

@elaannsprouse@gmail.com, in my opinion, 7 months isn't log enough for an Aquarius to feel attached to you. It takes them a long time before they let someone in.

@Andrea: I've mentioned before that I often read over this again when I come back to look over the comments, you know, to pick up things I might have missed before. Are you editing this, or is this a static page? I could swear there were details I caught before but did not see now and things I saw now that I did not see before. And, the name Andrea is female, but the picture is male. Which are you, oh mysterious author? :)

Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on December 08, 2017:

Ohhhh. Yes. Aquarius has a tendency to make walls. She may feel like she is too weird and doesn't want to rub you the wrong way. Either way, whether she really is worried about being weird or something bigger -- being a little weird, random, and flirtatious can help an Aquarius open up. They thrive on energy, especially eccentric fun vibes. Give that to her and eventually those ice queen walls will likely melt. You will have to wait until she is ready to let those walls fall. Aquarius does not do well with interrogation or manipulation.

Aquarian on November 28, 2017:

Great read. Very accurate...totally my complicated virgo and I pretty much to the T