Why Aquarius and Libra Fall Hard for Each Other (And Stay Together)

Updated on August 29, 2019
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Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and research astrological love compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.

Aquarius and Libra are intrinsically attracted to each other. But why? Read on to find out.
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Aquarius and Libra Compatability

No matter how you slice it, Aquarius and Libra will naturally be attracted to each other. Whether as friends or something more, the combination is an absolute powerhouse.

Why Are These Signs Attracted to Each Other?

They will attract each other in the way they converse and also the way they think, paving the way for a heated romance. Aquarius will feel accepted by Libra, which is a big deal for a sign that's often judged and seen as too unpredictable.

Libra will appreciate that Aquarius is trying their best to see the world as authentic—Libra wants things to be fair and balanced, impartial, and has a love for equality. Aquarius blends well with this because it can't help but question the nature of reality. The two can easily have a long-term relationship, some great creativity, and are constant movers and shakers.

A Powerful ESP Connection

What I know of an Aquarius-and-Libra combination is that many of their conversations will be memorable. They will have a genuine ESP connection, whether or not they decide to be anything other than friends.

I think wind signs often look into other places outside of the mind to get a spark, so this can make it difficult on the air signs and their compatibility. As the sign who more naturally flows into relationships, Libra will need to help Aquarius connect.

Aquarius constantly questions the nature of relationships and their own identity. This is a great quality and a great cleanser for getting rid of toxic portions of a relationship, but Aquarius often fears if it opens up its mouth, it will ruin everything. So they hide their gift, as many zodiac signs learn to suppress (wrongly!) what makes them special here on this planet. All 12 zodiacs have lessons on matters of love. An Aquarius needs to accept their nature and go about critically thinking and turning over every rock for analysis.

Balance is essential to a healthy Libra-Aquarius relationship. Neither sign can get its way all the time, so find ways to compromise and use your differences to strengthen your bond.
Balance is essential to a healthy Libra-Aquarius relationship. Neither sign can get its way all the time, so find ways to compromise and use your differences to strengthen your bond. | Source

Balancing the Libra and Aquarius Pairing

A Libra may help the Aquarius cut down on some of their crazier ideas while giving them the satisfaction of acting on others. The same goes for the Libra, who can come up with some wild ideas, both good and bad; as much as they love balance, I know plenty of Libras who are gamblers, addicts, and into just a lot of hardcore nonsense.

I think Libra sometimes gives up on its nature and doesn't want to find the balance, the harmony, the fairness. Aquarius can be warm to Libra here as the Libra experiments with the world, giving it a nourishing direction as it tries to find balance.

Both of these signs have strong flirtatious vibes. Aquarius is a never-ending font of eccentricity, originality, and curiosity. Libra is forever full of charm, sweetness, and charisma. But Aquarius may get annoyed with Libra if Libra fake-charms their way through something; Aquarius will beg you to be yourself, preferring that you be detached and honest than fake niceness.

Harmonious Libra

Libra is fascinating because it sits between Virgo and Scorpio, which in my opinion are total opposites. This is why Libra seeks balance and harmony. They sit between the super independent, hard-working, and overly cultivated Virgo and the ever so passionate, devotion-seeking, sarcastic, devilish Scorpio. Straddling these two worlds makes for a hell of a person.

Libra has all the parts that attract Aquarius to Virgo and Scorpio, but without many of the downsides. Considering the Internet is full of information about Aquarius and Scorpio being attracted to each other, I think Aquarius would benefit and be happy (if not happier) with a Libra.

Unpredictable Aquarius

A Libra may get confused by the Aquarius who is unpredictable because they are fully weird and fully normal. Most Libras that I know are not as good at hiding their "weird" behavior, but that's okay; Aquarius is often attracted to Libra precisely because of their fresh, oddball personalities. And I think Libra can't help but like Aquarius, who is also weird and unpredictable, but better at hiding it. This can be intoxicating for both signs.

This combination can move through the world without having to dive into other parts that they might not understand as well—a Cancer can overwhelm an Aquarius with its emotions; a Virgo's crushing perfectionist mandate can scare Aquarius off; and a fire sign could force Aquarius to neglect their intuition and try too hard to assert their own inner fire, causing the Aquarius to collapse in on itself.

Aquarius wants a friendship first. They don't understand why you would want to delve into a relationship too soon, and they may question how genuine you are being.

A Profound and Long-Lasting Combination

Libra and Aquarius relationships are great for the world. They see where things are falling short, ask pertinent questions about reality, and generally help the world mature. Both are in the latter half of the zodiac, making them mature, softer signs.

This kind of relationship—whether as friends or lovers—can last for an incredibly long time. You two have plenty to learn from each other, and you have the type of personalities that allow you to continually access to that new knowledge. Together, you'll be able to overcome anything.

Aquarius is the heart of winter; Libra is the beginning of autumn. They both can reflect on the real pressing matters of what is around them, often remembering that death is right around the corner. But they won't let morbid thoughts bring them down; they will drink in the thrill of life rather than get bogged down by the promise of death.

The nice part about Aquarius-Libra connections is that they admire each other, they are both rebels, they get along, and they are more powerful together. The Aquarius will not care about what other people think, while a Libra may try to be a people pleaser.

Can Two Air Signs Be Together?

Yes, but it takes some work. Without a concerted effort to maintain balance, a relationship between two air signs can spiral out of control.

The two of you can wear yourselves out if you argue on end to get all your words out. Having a shouting match will hurt you both. Don't go crazy cleaning the house to avoid talking, either—this is a defense mechanism.

Instead of overthinking and oversharing, meditate, pray, be still. Be like water. Flow. Try fueling that powerful air energy somewhere else, because you are both creative. You must be balanced in the air—which is Libra's gift.

How to Make a Relationship Between Air Signs Work

Be open to what your partner has to say and know they are always supportive of you. Aquarius can be surprised by how they feel because it'll sneak up on them. Aquarius absorbs emotions and bottles them up until they overflow. You'll think the Aquarius is perpetually calm and wonderful, and then they'll have an energy burst. This is why you should never, ever call an Aquarius unemotional. You don't understand Aquarius if you say they have no emotions. And you'd be silly to say as much of any sign—all zodiacs have emotions.

Tips for Happy Aquarius-Libra Relationships

Be comfortable with each other and do your own thing. You don't need anyone else telling you what a valid relationship is or how things need to be done a certain way to be successful. You guys just need to go with your own intuition.

Be there for each other in your weaknesses. Neither of you likes being vulnerable, and you will both do weird things to keep from having to be vulnerable to the world. Try your best to fight that feeling of defensiveness; if you open up to each other, you will find a new and immensely fulfilling depth in your relationship.

Be honest and open. This is both a loving and sarcastic bunch. Aquarius won't put up with a fake Libra; keep that in mind. Libra will just have to get comfortable with being their full self. And Aquarius may have to stretch their parameters on what is bizarre because Libra will likely shock them a time or two.

Don't be afraid to experiment. Traveling would be good for both of you. Or if you can't get away, try new things in the city or town you already live in—you will find excitement in trying new places.

Go with the flow. Libra may take the dominant, yang role of the relationship. Aquarius can really get weirded out by leading, especially female Aquarius. She can lead if she has to, but it's not exactly in her nature; it'll just confuse her and make her feel like her natural charms are not working right.

Find your Yin-Yang balance. Aquarius is like the moon, not like the sun. But not every Aquarius will be a yin, considering their own unique nature. You can have two yins or two yangs, but hopefully, you figure it out fast and can make sense of the relationship rather than dish out the wrong roles to your mate. I think it's a great idea to study yin-and-yang along with the zodiac. There are some nice metaphors in all of these philosophies to ultimately teach us about love and turn us away from manipulation.

Remember: Any Zodiac Pairing Can Find Love

Each combination takes great care and study to understand, but they are all necessary to help the world move into a better understanding of love. This is why I never say a combination has bad compatibility—obviously the planet shows that every combination has worked at some point. We are here on this planet to learn about love. You need to first find self-love before you move onto a relationship; otherwise, you will be offering something too toxic and unstable to sustain.

© 2016 Andrea Lawrence

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      AquaMan 

      3 days ago

      Yea Aquarius is weird and I'm proud of us yeaaaaaaa babee!

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      November Bravo Juliet 

      11 days ago

      Well, I am a Libra male and I met an Aquarius woman online while being in the same polytechnic together. She is an engineering student while I am a maritime business student. It firstly started with story replies on Instagram then later moved onto to full-blown conversations and now we seem to talk hours on end. When we had difficulties we poured our emotions through text message and we comforted each other and made sure that we are kind of cool together. We shared many interests together and that I know is that she is always there for me and I gave my trust to her as a person who rarely trust the others who always get hurt in the end either by betrayal or

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      Kenny 

      13 days ago

      Im an aquarius in love with a libra but the libra has a leo partner already, i honestly don't even want a relationship with my libra interest but i can't help but fantasize about me and the libra, currently we are bestfriends but with how its going right now i might just have to leave my libra behind in my life because it hurts so much not being able to have a better connection, again i don't want a relationship but my friendship with my libra is going downhill faster then i can stop it if anyone has a suggestion or tips to help me out i appreciate the effort

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      Christopher Bradley 

      2 weeks ago

      This is what I'm looking for

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      Taken 

      2 weeks ago

      I am dating a libra and this sounds like us honestly

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      5 weeks ago from Chicago

      Okay, what you need to do right here is something you probably won't like, but you must stop communicating him with the next 30 days. Put away the phone, the social media messages, everything. Take a real break. This is important for you, but this method is also the only chance you have of actually having him come back. The more you message him right now, the more you'll push him away -- so stop cold turkey. There's an ex-boyfriend recovery program online that uses this method, and it's the best way to stop and have a chance at reconnection. That website will also teach you how to write messages back if he does pick up communication. Sorry for you loss, it sucks, but it's not the end of your love life, one way or another. But first, you have to stop what you're doing now and take a break to heal.

    • SerenityHalo profile imageAUTHOR

      Andrea Lawrence 

      5 weeks ago from Chicago

      Congrats!

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      Aquarius female 

      6 weeks ago

      I was with my ex Libra male for 13yrs he was definitely a charmer, liar and cheater. I'm an Aquarius I broke up with him the first male I talked to after all the yrs with my ex was a Libra as well. He captivated, intrigued me and I fall so deeply hard for him. How ever I excepted the (fwb) friends with benefits relationship wth him. Neither of us were ready. Our connection got me was so intense the sexual chemistry mind blowing. Vibe the best with him ONLY him ever with music so much so he mentioned business partners. Told me I gave him a lot of energy and I believe in him it's crazy tho because this is us however after an amazing night really connecting he needed space for a couple days. It was hard are first for me to understand now I try but he thought I was sleeping with someone else I honestly haven't I'm too stuck on him and it's only been 5 months with it 3 times maybe 4a wk month before maybe twice. He says no relationship pulls back goes silent for a few days a week once. Yet his actions tell something different. I'm the only person he's share his personal truths with about his past and even lots of his music. I feel honored with that. He even changed the sexual encounters more intimate then say we need to stop having it then we do. He's uncomfortable with me buying him things and just recently 3 going on 4 days now we enjoyed each other again after a break of a few days. It was diffrent I'm so heart broken can't stop thinking about him. I have never felt this type of deep love and passion for s person I'm so scared or worried I guess that this is the end. I wrote him a few times and see he read it without replying then took a day and a half without writing wrote tonight I told myself not to but out of impulse I did. he read no reply. I am devastated because I don't want to lose his so confused. He said he cared but I even thought maybe he was falling for me and stopped it every time I thought or felt just maybe he was he wanted space. Now nothing. and advice so lost. Aquarius in need...

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      Annily 

      6 weeks ago

      Im a female libra who has fallen for a Aquarius female but dont know how to tell her,im afraid that if i tell her and she doesn't feel the same i will lose her as a friend too. I've only known her for 11 weeks but i still really like her and im not sure if i should wait to say anything?

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      Prettysmiles 

      7 weeks ago

      I’m an Aquarius woman that has attracted more Libras then any other sign. My kids father is a libra but for some reason we didn’t work out as lovers but make great friends. Then I dated another libra this libra was everything I broke up with him Twice scared of my own emotions thinking that it was too good to be true. I never felt so deep for this Libra like I have now we reconnected for the third time things seem to be going fine until he lied about something that hurt me so deeply we got into any argument and haven’t spoke since. We always move on but always come back to each other my heart yarns for him if this is was ever to end I would be hurt but this libra man has got my heart Like no other. I hope we could just make things work. But this article do describes us. But I always say this what is meant to be will be and wasn’t meant to be will become fond memories

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      Francesca Handle 

      8 weeks ago

      I am a libra woman dating an aquarious women yes girl on girl I love her deeply and this sounds like us

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      Francesca 

      8 weeks ago

      A libra woman who is bi I am currently with the girl I love yes girl on girl she’s is Aquarius and this sounds like it!

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      mEliSsA...SKREEEEEE 

      8 weeks ago

      I'm currently in a relationship with a Libra.....I'm a Female Aquarius. We've been together for at least 2 weeks. I started having doubts about him, but this article ligit explains our relationship. I love him so much but its kinda hard to trust for me because I've been hurt soooo many times. But he's different, he has a trust but then yet he doesn't. And I have a feeling we're coming to an end........if it were up to me, I would be with him forever.

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      Peter 

      2 months ago

      Here a Libra man who dated an Aquarius woman 8 months. I was not able to commit and then she dumped me and immediately dated a Cancer man for the holidays, then living together, dancing, etc. I was devastated, I didn't realise that I loved her so deeply. I am now dating an Aries woman, however I am still in love with her, she doesn't want any 1-1 contact at all.

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      Angelina 

      3 months ago

      Hi I’m a Aquarius a girl. I fell In love with a Libra, we were together for almost two years. Well two years in October. We recently broke up. We broke up Sunday of last week. I was unable to trust n I had really bad anger problems. I would get mad for no reason. I regret everything because I love him so deeply, I don’t think I will ever trust someone with my body again. We talked yesterday, we have decided to stay friends. We have a lovely friendship before we got together. Our relationship was amazing, I would never trade him for anyone. We hangout with each other yesterday, it was great. It felt so natural and not awkward. I know that we will be great best friends, for a long time. But me being as hopeful as I am, I was to believe our paths will meet again. I believe that we will both find each other. This article gave me some hope. I know you can’t be so hopeful but we still love each other care so much, that I believe we can make it work. I’ve been working on myself and my problems. He knows and he is proud of me. He will always have my love, I will always care for him. I just want to believe that the connection was so great that our paths cross again.

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      sUFFIYAN 

      3 months ago

      WHER'S THE LAMB SAUCE!!!!!!

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      If 

      3 months ago

      Hey I’m an Aquarius woman falling for a Libra! This sounds exactly like us. I get frustrated try to play it cool then take control but can’t decide wether to back off or be persistent!!!???

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      after 

      4 months ago

      wow this guy again. prominent Aquarius trait of pointing fingers at other people, run from miles when they thought they found 'manipulation' or 'shenanigans' and never had the understanding of mental terrain or connecting ability on a personal level to find out what it is. Internet is full of aquarius and scorpio article? as if he was the one contributing it and then a typical aquarius behavior to claim as if he has nothing to do with it. observe from the distance and close the door and run, run away. I think you're the kind of Aquarius giving yourself a bad rep. You're the kind who'll use all the arguments to protect yourself and miss the lesson. Grow up, man.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      4 months ago from Chicago

      If you like him reach out to him to see where it goes. If you feel indifferent -- don't bother with this.

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      heylinz 

      4 months ago

      just means he wants to make sure you really want to go on another from the sounds of it im an aquarius and this sounds like something I would feel

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      Linz 

      4 months ago

      I am an Aquarius woman at the beginning stage of dating a Libra man. We have had one meeting and it went well. Well he said he had a fun and when asked if I did I didn't answer, but made a noise. I wasn't sure, I then communicated through text that I did enjoy meeting him. I am a stickler for words, I enjoyed meeting him but didn't go as expected. My question is should I wait for him to initiate another date or do that myself? He did say he thought that was the woman's job, pertaining to a first date, but maybe he means in the beginning?

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      Afraaz 

      4 months ago

      I am a Libra and I am madly in love with an Aquarius girl. But the problem is that, she had left the place where we used to be together. She is now gone and I don't know whether to move on or to hold on. I want her back but I have a feeling that she won't accept me. There are rumors about me that she had heard. How can I make her mine and let her know that she's the only one for me?

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      Kaisfurrydeath 

      4 months ago

      I am an Aquarius and my partner is a narcissistic Libra, his my yang to my ying. I love him to death, even tho he is a narcissistic person, I now have learned his ways and our relation has been on and off for 3yrs we always go back to each other, no one understands us or gives us what we need and want.

      I am aloof at times but still show him not enough per him how much I love him, he is very charming everyone likes him I get jelly but now have control over the jelly as he is mine and I am his.

      I have learned not to argue nor give drama just be calm, relax do not over explain things as that is one pet peeve the Libras have- they hate lies they are very clever.

      Don't argue for simple things as it will get overheated the Libra leaves and seeks others for comfort or adoration if you dont give it to them, someone else will as they charm and they do work hard to get others to like them once they have served the purpose he leaves them for later use. Judgmental to the core, will give you advice but wont use their own advice on them selves. as an Aquarius female, I am happy flirty, easy to talk to and yes i over think and analyze where is this going why it has to happen and why it happened. Then I just go with the flow once those questions have been answered.

      I do love freedom BUT I crave love, hugs and kisses. Nurturing by nature and therefore my narcissistic Libra is what i need and want.

      That's just my opinion, one word of advice, dont argue over petty things breath, relax, agree to disagree.

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      Kiwi 

      4 months ago

      Im a libra woman dating an aquarius man. We have been friends for over 20 years and for the most part our relationship is a good one. We have both been in and out of relationships throughout the years but we kept coming back to one another. This video helped me to understand some of his traits and qualities. Thanks

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      Bella Blessup 

      4 months ago

      @Name? You hit the nail on the head like a motha!!..Man!!! I knew i wasn’t the only one felt this way.I JUST blurted our and said this to a Libra female today!!!.And you know what the reaction was because i told her about her

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      qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm 

      5 months ago

      i am a libra and i have been friends with an aquarius since forever. we recently found out that we liked each other, but like in this, she wants to wait for a bit to get together. i completely understand this, and am willing to wait. reading this, i see a lot of things that are very accurate to our relationship.

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      msv16 

      6 months ago

      I am dating a Libra, and I am an Aquarius. My partner and I have "Air Explosions". I don't know what to do, or how to control all the arguments and short temperament that goes on.

      I feel that this Libra is perfect for me, and I would hate to end this over little arguments. We have been together for a little over a year now. We hit it off quick. It was so weird, it felt like we had known each other for a long time, as soon as we met.

      I know each relationship is different, but is there a way to control these explosions? Anyone with similar experiences, how have you handled this? Thank you for your time.

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      Kitty :3 

      6 months ago

      Me and my boyfriend split.. he cheated on me so I left him thats all I wanted to say about "loyalty" in a libra.. Most (not all) people say libras' are usually loyal people.. Most I come across admit they've cheated.. But there are more got people in the world than you think.. So I'll still trust libras' but not my ex..

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      Tripti 

      6 months ago

      i am aquarius and i have dating a libra man since 2 years and knowing him since 4 years... We were bestfriends then and all descirbed here matches our personality so well! Every bit of a line from anger to love is so satisfying and true. Thanks

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      Rodney 

      6 months ago

      Thank you,Aquarius,hung up on a libra who i broke off with 17 years ago.Ran joined army,because i needed to be better,for her.She moved away,i serched a year for her.She found me 3 years later,i was married.Became fb palls never spoke to her out of respect.Not one day,not one has she not been on my mind.I treated my now x wife "a dominating scorpio"as if she was Amanda for 12 yrs.Crazy idea but,thats me.2 years ive waited after getting dropped because i needed to better myself.I messaged her and told her how I was asked to describe my perfect match.It is her,and always has been.Im driving 200 miles for coffee next week.Because she has been thinking of me all this time also.She wrote of dating all togeather years ago.And a post she made about that hurt me.To think the person i love,isnt or hasnt been treated as the goddess she is.

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      Johnny 

      7 months ago

      I've known her for 9years, on and off, I'm a libra man. Never once we were in a relationship, but every single time we were in a relationship but with someone else, we seem to miss each other, but every single time I make a move she moves 2 steps behind. she does give me her full trust and a little affection sometimes when we're together or through texting. Sometimes she plans, sometimes she feels miserable when I'm not around, sometimes I make future plans but she denies this with can I trust you kinda question. I love her so much, what can I do.? Should I stay or should I go.?

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      Paris 

      7 months ago

      I’m an Aquarius married to a Libra and I am miserable! I feel like he’s fraud!

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      Kitty :3 

      8 months ago

      I honestly think this was a very good way of describing each sign!

      It made a lot of sense too.

      Good job! A lot of credit given!!

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      Anonymous.. 

      8 months ago

      Im an aquarius and my boyfriend is a libra.. This article explained us so well! And Im pretty sure i'll be able to understand him more!!

      Thank you :3

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      Novalee 

      8 months ago

      This helped me a lot, I also realized when you were describing the Aquarius is exactly how my personality is!!

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      9 months ago from Chicago

      I hope you can find someone who isn't a celebrity but in a closer proximity.

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      Rich pitoniak 

      9 months ago

      it is awesome how melissa benoist and i could work if given a chance.

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      Rich pitoniak 

      9 months ago

      i wish i had a chance with melissa benoist it just pisses me off that actors find love so easy.

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      Rich pitoniak 

      9 months ago

      my herart is truly broken chris wood had evrey advantage he is in the busines same show as melissa i never had any glimer of hope that is why i sometimes want to end my life but then if i did that it would hurt my family.

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      Rich pitoniak 

      9 months ago

      iam in love with a libra actress melissa benoist to bad she is engaged to her bf actor chris wood after reading this aricle i now know why i fell for melissa benoist hard. i do love her i feel it.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      11 months ago from Chicago

      Thank you for the kind thoughts! I wish you well.

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      Pavel 

      12 months ago

      I'm on my way of looking for a libra girl. All libras I know or met are married or have bfs. Very unlucky in that. Don't know whether still single libras exist. Want to marry her when I find her. Aqua guy.

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      Love 

      13 months ago

      I'm the Aquarian and he is the libra we in a long distance relationship we would talk for hours and all of a sudden he stop calling where did i go wrong

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      Love 

      13 months ago

      Thanks for posting! I really enjoyed reading because I could totally relate. I’m an Aquarius female and my ex partner was a Libra male and everything said was spot on. I also relate it to my Libra best friend. Awesome insight!

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      Libra 

      14 months ago

      Omg good insight and great comments. I disagree with a few comments but everyone has a opinion. I been talking to my Aquarius male for four months in the beginning I was like umm okay whatever we got to know each other and it's like hummm I'm in love with him I haven't told him yet because I don't want him to go left. But I give him his space and don't pressure him at all. When he call I'm there. I just catch him stare at me all the time. I ask is everything okay he says yes. At this point we not in a relationship that's cool but we do have sexual chemistry that great. We talk about whatever so yeah at this point I'm just enjoying the moment. I want more maybe in time which I feel strongly about just due to our goofy conversation and me making jokes about years from now. Yeah we on the right track. I will say you have to be patient with Aquarian seriously. Do your part as a friend lover or whatever let them get their space and swear if your that one trust and believe he or she will be back and eventually it will be less time they detached from u. See I know me I need my space at times so I understand when he dip off

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      Name? 

      16 months ago

      I feel like libra and Aquarius are a good match everything you said was true. I’m a Libra and I’ve dated an Aquarius and I can honestly say that that was my best relationship. But the cons of that relationship was that when I expressed my feelings about something they tend to fall back and act as if they don’t care anymore or invisible to the relationship. They don’t act the same and it does feels as they seem detached. And that’s what bothered me about the relationship. So after that happened I would fall back about my feelings about anything because I didn’t want to risk the relationship again. But that would bother and stress me so bad to the point where I thought as if he can’t take what I’m telling him and doing good out of it then he doesn’t derserve to be with me. Because when libras feel that something isn’t right they will speak up. But it was hard to do that with a Aquarius because I loved him so much that I didn’t want to jeopardize the relationship or let that same fall back energy happen again. But other than that the relationship was everything

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      Emma 

      17 months ago

      @Name?

      I think you're wrong. As a libra I spoke too a lot of aquarius and i was able to feel a deep connection and a flow of conversation almost everytime, i do feel like we can understand each other,sometimes i feel the way they does and I even found what they're sayin accurate they're really cool ppl to be with.I think other libras could find this accurate and chemistry beetween aquarius and libras is possible . In your comment it seemed like you were judging libras by how the way they look and act and not deeply, maybe for example by the way they really feel?and in my opinion libras dont have time to be angry at someone that's maybe why you're think they're fake by talkin normally to these ppl anyway not all libras are fake bitchy liars like you think and you should not be blocked on this Idea

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      Name? 

      17 months ago

      I really dislike the idea that Libra and Aquarius are a good match. I think every element has two signs of the same element that have better compatibility. In the air element Gemini and Aquarius are the two air signs that I believe have more chemistry, and in water I believe Scorpio and Pieces have more chemistry and fire Leo and Sagittarius are better suited for one another. I just felt like Libra's don't always have a deeper understanding of themselves and who they are in public. They are the kinds of people who "charm" (if you can even call it that) someone they absolutely loath. Usually they charm these people for personal gain or sometime they need the validation. I don't like when Libra's are two faced like that. I can be respectful to someone I hate but I will not engage in the same way Libra's engage with those who they supposedly dislike. Libra's seemed too dependent on the love and admiration of the wrong people. They seek it from the people who hate them and the ones who enjoy their company they blow off. I have not dated a Libra but have seen their "charm" in action and always found it to be too fake and insincere. This pair is not the best same element paring in my opinion. An Aquarius is just too independent and unapologetically authentic/real to deal with someone like Libras who seek to charm and fake their way through nearly everything. Aquarius is the house of friendship that just cannot put up with relationships that aren't real. Just my two cents on the paring...

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      Annelise 

      18 months ago from copenhagen Denmark

      nooooo no

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      bumblebbe 

      19 months ago

      i have a crush. lets call him...b. he has brown hair, a mischievous smile, and super cute freckles. i know he likes me, because when i asked him how much he liked me, 1 being friends and 10 being love, he said 11. Im hoping to have my first kiss with him by the end of the school year. Were in middle school by the way. He is an aquarius and Im a libra. Im really nervous about my first kiss

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      sherry 

      19 months ago

      well i met the Libra guy ....I'm Aquarius by the way ...at first i must say he intrigued me...but after two weeks of passion i broke it apart....only to realize a week after that i love him. these strange feelings consume me ...geee you are right we Aquarians do absorb emotions. I'm just scared cause i know he could hurt me since love makes us vulnerable. Truth is he says he's not sure what he wants, but at the same time treats me as if i'm his world. i don't know what to do with all these feelings and emotions it's overwhelming me. Thanks for the insight though I think I'm getting to understand my Libra more.

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      Wyldhoney007 

      20 months ago

      after all that I have read about Aqua as a man, and applying that to what is happening with mine I truly feel he may be running me through the traps of friendship, he is hot and cold but I am not surprised with all that I have learned about him. He is a "social avenger" of sorts and I support him in his efforts to make changes which will benefit a good deal of people we interact with online. Just when I think he is pulling away I just give him the space and freedom I know he wants and don't get in his face over my temporary feelings of doubt, mostly in myself. He always shows me his happy face after a cloudy day of communication...he is super careful I do know that by what history I have learned about him specifically and verified. I love the ride though, and willing to stay the course as we see where it goes...thanks for your insight as well and have a blessed day :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      20 months ago from Chicago

      I wouldn't call astrology witchcraft, maybe some are using it in that way. It's more of a device that's based around the calendar. So it's more of a tool -- we can decide whether we find a tool esoteric or not.

      You should ask him what exactly it means by "coming between" because if you're not a couple -- then what is he saying?

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      Wyldhoney007 

      20 months ago

      thanks for your response, and that is the way I am going, cool and friendly. I have read that Aquariuis is not jealous but how do I take it when Aqua tells me I am letting random guys online "come between us" when all I am doing is reponding in chat room setting, I think Aqua thinks I am privately chatting with them which I am not...is it the known Libra nature he is accusing? he claims astrology is "witchcraft" and won't discuss any of that, bottom line I love everything about him and willing to be part of his mystery...have a blessed day...

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      20 months ago from Chicago

      Keep it cool and friendly. This Aquarius doesn't want to be bothered too much, and likes their independence. They'll appreciate you if you respect their space. They might not want anything romantic.

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      Wyldhoney007 

      20 months ago

      I am a libra woman in love with an aquarius man...online only as we live a great distance apart...communication has been free flowing and interesting and we talk every day...i have been very open to him about my feelings but he is more reserved though i feel his feelings for me are genuine...today though he seems to think i am flirting with other guys when all i am doing is responding to comments in an online game we play...i asked him how i should respond to other guys and he said he didnt care...when i asked him why, he did not respond so i wrote him a short email about it though i doubt he will respond to that...he has not been confessional about his feelings for me but i really feel he was feeling it too between us...he has confessed to being wary of commitments like marriage...i am in early 60s and have been married twice just recently a widow so I am looking more for a very good close friend with benefits...he is not quite 60 and never married though very good looking he has managed to remain unattached...i dont want to lose his friendship but not sure how to proceed...i never pry in his business though he shares snippets of his life with me...i cant believe he is bored with me though one time he told me i bugged him but did not elaborate...we have known each other at least 6 months...

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      24 months ago from Chicago

      Ah, unrequited love is the worst.

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      save 

      24 months ago

      im in love with a aquarius he always ingorning me

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 years ago from Chicago

      Universal love. I can jive with that. Peace, love, and joy to you.

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      The Great one 

      2 years ago

      @Jade I'm an Aquarius male and will give my personal opinion. We are universal lovers and have an endless amount of love far stretching beyond time and space. We hide these emotions because it is us vulnerable. If an Aquarius man shows interest in you consider your self lucky as he will likely want to be a continued part of your life as BFF or a FWB. That being you must show him your interested always doing some light flirting, never be raunchy about it. He will never likey lose interest but we will move on if to someone a bit more forward.

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      Aquarius 

      2 years ago

      Even though we are Aloof we still thinking about you..

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      Jade 

      2 years ago

      After a few years of friendship I've become close to an Aquarius gentlemen. I'm taken by him in such a way that I haven't experienced before. He's interesting, complex and keeps my wheels spinning. I've noticed sometimes it's like a magnetic force between us. It will be an intense connection and then he'll back off for a few days or weeks.

      We're not in a relationship, we're friends. The type that text almost daily, see one another regularly and share social circles. Occasionally his aloofness brings out my insecurities. I have noticed even when aloof he's observing me from a distance. I've caught him a few times in the act. I don't think he'll make a move at any point to pursue me and I'm okay with that. My only worry is he will loose interest and not tell me.

      It's quite a dynamic between us when he's open. While my feelings may run deep, I have no idea how he feels. It's been quite an adventure opening up to him.

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