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Are You Brave Enough to Date a Scorpio Man?

Updated on September 11, 2017
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Ryan Reynolds (October 23,1976)
Ryan Reynolds (October 23,1976)

Since we are in the midst of the Scorpio sign of the zodiac (October 23-November 21), I thought it would only be appropriate to share what it's really like to date a man born under this most mysterious of signs. No other zodiac sign has ever gotten as much attention or criticism as the Scorpio. Whether it's deserved or not is yet to be determined. So what is it about this sign that has both intrigued and disturbed people for so long?

If I had to use one word to describe a Scorpio man it would be intense; in every way towards everything in his life. This is not an easygoing guy! He is determined and hardworking. He is very confident and sure of himself. He is a man with a plan that will do just about anything to make sure that plan is accomplished. He will not give up and could never be labeled as a quitter. A Scorpio is a very complicated guy that has many layers to his personality. He's like an onion that you peel and just when you think you're at the center, there's another layer to discover. And trust me, you're going to want to get to the very heart of this guy because that's where things get really interesting.

If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man be prepared for the experience of your life. It's going to get very, very intense very quickly. A Scorpio man never does anything halfway. If he's going to be with you, he's really going to be with you in every sense of the word. You never have to worry about whether a Scorpio man is into you or not because if he is you will definitely know it. He's not shy about showing his affections towards you. He will call, text, and show up for dates without you having to do anything. He steps up and take charge in a relationship so you can just sit back and enjoy the ride. A relationship with a Scorpio man is not for the faint of heart, but in life if you're going to ride a roller coaster, you might as well ride the biggest one.

Leonardo DiCaprio (November 11, 1974)
Leonardo DiCaprio (November 11, 1974)

If you're the type of lady that likes a man who takes the lead in a relationship, a Scorpio man might be the dream guy for you. He is never going to be one of those guys who leaves you wondering whether they're into you or not. He's going to let you know either way and you better believe him when he does. A Scorpio man is a fairly quick thinker so when he's into you, he's not going to waste weeks or months thinking it over because he ain't got time for that. He's going to be making a move and you better be ready for it because it's coming!

If after a few dates you really aren't feeling it, please don't lead this guy on. A Scorpio man appreciates honesty so if you know you aren't going to date him seriously, let him know as soon as possible. It's never a good idea to lead him on. If you are serious about dating him, let the adventure of your life begin. I think Scorpio men get a bad reputation because they are so misunderstood. It takes a really intuitive and perceptive woman to really understand a Scorpio man in a way that is accurate. If you think men are complicated then Scorpio men are really a puzzle if there ever was one. But I'm going to let you in on a few secrets about him.

Above all else, a Scorpio man is still a man and men are simple if you really take the time to understand them. Of course everything about a Scorpio man is complicated on the surface, but when you dig a little deeper down you'll realize it's complicated but in a fairly simple way because he is still a male. Scorpio men are known to be very sexual so this is one of their weaknesses. If you really want a successful relationship with him, you'll want to be on the same page about this. Sex is important to men, but to Scorpio men it is essential, much like breathing. There is no way they'll consider your relationship successful without it also being sexually satisfying. Scorpio men tend to have a large appetite when it comes to sex so you should be prepared to fulfill that desire if you want to have a happy relationship. Scorpio men are very good at the sex part, so it's not a bad thing at all. After being with a Scorpio man you might just say he's the best you ever had! This sexual ability only gets better with age so if you're dating an older Scorpio man, he's probably even better at it because he has more experience. Most women can agree that a Scorpio man definitely knows what he's doing in bedroom. And just like in most other areas of his life, a Scorpio will take the lead and you should let him because there's no one who can do it better. Just relax and enjoy it.

You should know before dating a Scorpio man that they demand a lot of attention. Be prepared to share every part of your life with them. These guys put their heart and soul into everything they do so if you want to be swept off your feet, they're going to be the ones to do it. A Scorpio man has a good memory and he's very dedicated to your relationship, so long gone are the days when your boyfriend forgets your anniversary or birthday. A Scorpio man will remember everything and he'll make sure you two have a good time. He's likes to plan dates right down to the details so if that's okay with you, you should let him because he really enjoys it. He also wants to be appreciated so make sure you show him how thankful you are in every way possible. Bonus points if it's in the bedroom because to a Scorpio that's where it really counts the most.

There's something about dating a Scorpio man that makes you feel addicted to him. He becomes like a drug that you just can't quit. It might be those expressive eyes that can see straight into your soul. Or it might be his bedroom skills. Either way, you'll find yourself in a sort of trance that you can't get out of. Even if the relationship has it's problems, you'll find it very hard to quit it. Scorpio men tend to have a power over the women in their life. It's very subtle at first, but once you get a taste, he might just be the hardest habit you ever break.

A Scorpio man is not a cheater or player because he dedicates himself to one woman entirely. If that's you, you're going to be the center of his universe and there's not going to be room for anyone else. Scorpio men are so passionate about a relationship and give it their all that so there's not much left for another women to share with. If he does cheat, it means he's not getting something from the relationship which is rare. A Scorpio man is very intelligent and intuitive so he knows going into a relationship whether it's right or not. If he's cheating then something has changed in the relationship and the balance has shifted. You'll need to have an honest conversation about where things are headed because a Scorpio is a one woman man and if he's not, then something is definitely wrong.

In a relationship, a Scorpio man likes to keep in touch constantly. He's going to be blowing up your phone with calls and cute text messages. He's not being clingy, it's his way of showing that he cares. Expect things to move fast in a relationship with him. He's not one to press pause on any part of his life because he expects to experience it all to the fullest. If he's dating you, he's obviously serious about you, and if he's serious about you he sees you as long term potential. A Scorpio man invests a lot of time on a woman he's serious about so just make sure you see him in the same way. There's nothing that irritates and aggravates a Scorpio man more than a woman who is flaky and can't make up her mind. If you waste too much of his time you're going to be very unhappy and he will make sure you'll regret it.

The thing about a Scorpio man is that he might as well be psychic because he reads people like no other. It's like he knows what you're thinking before you actually speak it out loud. It's very, very, hard to deceive a Scorpio because they know it's coming before the words are even out of your mouth so don't even bother. If you're in a bad mood, they'll sense it as soon as they see you. They're also very careful with their words and know exactly what to say at exactly the right time. You might think they are just pouring on the sugar to get what they want from you but they actually say things because they know it's the right time for them. Their intuition is incredible and they tend to give the best advice so always listen to what they have to say. Isn't that what women have always wanted, a man who understands them without them having to say anything? If that is you, a Scorpio man might just be your perfect guy.

The one thing you should never do is cheat on a Scorpio man. He can hold a grudge like no other and will never forget even if he appears to forgive. Just don't do it. If you feel like the relationship has lost it's spark for you, just end it nicely. Have an honest conversation with him and lay all your cards on the table. He'll appreciate the honesty and after having a good talk you might come to realize that it's the best thing for both of you. It's best not to stay with friends after break up with a Scorpio man if it ended badly, but if it was mutual you might consider it after a decent amount of time has passed. A Scorpio man has a large ego and it needs to be stroked during a breakup so don't play the blame game. He's a smart guy, he's knows if he's doing something wrong so it's never wise to repeatedly throw it in his face. Whatever you do, try as best as you can to end on good terms with the Scorpio man, trust me you don't want him as your enemy.

Before going into a relationship with a Scorpio man, decide if you are ready to give your all to one person. This is probably going to be the most intense relationship of your life so you have to go in knowing it's going to be very serious very quickly. There's no halfway or sort of when it comes to the Scorpio man. Get ready to have your world rocked in and out of the bedroom. Deep and meaningful conversations are a must. If you're a shy lady, get ready to be swept off your feet by your leading Scorpio man. He's complicated and romantic and everything in between. So if you feel there's something missing in your life and have a need for more, the Scorpio man just might be your Prince Charming on a white stallion. But he's a Scorpio so make that a knight on a dark horse.

Dark Horse by Katy Perry

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      Tay Edwards 5 days ago

      I'm dating a Scorpio man right now . And I am a Scorpio woman. In almost every relationship I've been in, I've been told I am a very complicated person. I'm not surprised at all by this article because me and this man share A LOT of these same traits

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      jane 3 months ago

      It is sugar-coated article reality is very different Scorpio wants honesty but they themselves are biggest manipulator out there double standards will be there