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How to Attract the Stable and Grounded Virgo Man

Jimmy Fallon (September 19, 1974)

Jimmy Fallon (September 19, 1974)

The Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and is represented by the virgin maiden. This sign starts on August 22 and goes through September 22. The Virgo sign is part of the Earth element which represents stability and dependability. The Virgo man is a unique creature of sorts.

On the one side, he is kind, generous, and thoughtful, yet on the other, he is critical, stubborn, and uptight. The men born under the Virgo sign tend to be known as the "man-child." If there was ever a man that needed to be cared for by a woman, this would be him. Virgo is quite the peculiar man in every sense of the word. Don't be fooled by that virgin maiden either: Virgo man can be quite the womanizer. Hugh Grant and Prince Harry are both Virgos . . . just saying.

The Virgo man is usually modest and tends to stay under the radar. He doesn't care for the extra attention unless it's absolutely necessary for his job or career. He's a calming and stable influence in the lives of everyone he encounters. He's very good at giving good advice and you'd be wise to listen to it. Don't expect him to be the life of the party either. He's the wallflower standing in the corner waiting for a familiar face to talk to. The thing is, he doesn't mind the alone time. He's not a social creature by any means and is very picky and choosy about the types of people he keeps in his inner circle. He's one of those people who'd rather be alone than around people whose company he doesn't enjoy.


If you want to grab the attention of a Virgo, it's really quite simple. You have to show that you're stable and grounded. He doesn't want a woman who goes out of her way to chase him. That would only scare him further away. He just wants a woman that gets him and who is emotionally stable. If you're loud and out there, don't expect a Virgo to gravitate towards you. Rather he'll avoid you because he doesn't want to risk getting the extra attention just by being associated with you. The Virgo man is one of those people who will make a pros and cons list before deciding to date someone or not. He has extremely high standards and will not lower them for anyone. He will pay attention to every detail and take it into consideration. If you want to have any type of future with a Virgo man, you have to prove to him that you're not going to disturb the delicate routine of his life.

Virgo man judges his life by all the little pieces, rather than looking at the big picture. He's not an all-or-nothing guy by any means. He examines every situation bit by bit and piece by piece much like a puzzle. In fact, he is one of those people who actually have the patience to sit down and do a 5,000 piece puzzle. He would actually find that activity fun rather than exhausting. If you want to date the Virgo man, you have to show him that you belong in his world and you won't disrupt it in any way. Order and stability are the two most important things in a Virgo man's life and that's something his partner just has to understand.


If you do happen to snag yourself a Virgo man, don't fool yourself into thinking that you've captured his heart and now you can act like your usual neurotic self. The reality is that your work has just begun! One of the negative aspects of Virgo man's personality is that he can become very critical of everything in his life if things aren't going his way. That includes you. If you find yourself on the receiving end of Virgo's criticism, just take a step back. You might be pushing him too hard and his criticism is his way of protecting himself. You need to give Virgo a lot of alone time and let him come to the realization that he needs you in his life. The only way to do that is to give him some time to himself.

This is where the man-child part of his personality appears. If something doesn't go his way, he'll become critical of absolutely everything in his life. His shirt doesn't fit right. That movie on T.V. looks lame. That actor can't act. His soup is too hot. Ten minutes later . . . his soup is now too cold. It's like a toddler that doesn't want to eat his peas. He'll whine and throw a fit until you give him something else. With the Virgo man, you just have to give him alone time when he behaves badly. He'll come to his senses and realize that it's not actually your fault that his shirt doesn't fit right since he is the one that's been packing on the pounds lately.

It really is no coincidence that some of the best comedians of our time are Virgo men. Their man-child status and immaturity can really make them a star in this field. Think Adam Sandler, Kevin James, C.K. Louis, Dave Chappelle, and Jimmy Fallon. And you can't forget Charlie Sheen. Even though he's not really a comedian, he did bring the laughs on Two and a Half Men. Until he got kicked off for his behavior, that is.

Virgo man is a paradox of sorts because he has very different sides to him. He's independent and self-sufficient, yet secretly really wants someone to take care of him. He wants a relationship, but at the same time, he likes his alone time too much. He pays so much attention to the little details in life that he forgets to see the big picture which is all that really matters in the end. Like every Earth sign, Virgo man is very stubborn. He will uphold his position and not waver no matter what. But there's a silver lining to Virgo man. If he really likes you, he won't be critical of you.

He won't be so stubborn and will be open to doing things you want to do because he wants to make you happy. He'll slowly start making that pros and cons list and you'll be on the winning side. If you really want to blow his mind, do a 10,000 piece puzzle on the second date. He'll be in heaven and think he's finally found a woman who understands him. Thinking of having an outdoor date? Well, take Virgo man golfing. Keeping track of all those little balls equals hours of entertainment for that detail-orientated little creature.

Questions & Answers

Question: How do you get a Virgo man to open up to you to get close to him?

Answer: You have to show him that you're stable and emotionally grounded like him. He has to trust you and see you as someone he can have a future with.

Question: Do Virgo men like Capricorns?

Answer: Yes, Virgo and Capricorn are a great match.

Question: Do Virgo men like Cancer signs?

Answer: Yes, earth and water signs can get along great.

Question: Recently I’m always text or contacting him should I stop so he approaches me?

Answer: Yes show interest, but then let him come to you.

Question: Why is it so difficult for an Aries to get along with a Virgo?

Answer: Virgos are too grounded and critical and Aries tend to be fiery and opinionated. They're not usually a great match because both have such strong personalities. It can work though if both people put in the effort.

Question: He said he needs time to think about whether he wants a relationship or not. Should I cut off communication until he reaches out or do I give him some time, and if I don't hear anything, should I reach out?

Answer: Give him space and let him come to you. Let him make the first move anytime you communicate. Make him work for it and realize what he can lose.

Question: Do Virgo men like Taurus?

Answer: Yes Virgo and Taurus can get along great and be a good match.

Question: Do Virgo men get along with a Scorpio woman?

Answer: Yes they can be a good match if the Virgo man isn't too critical. Scorpio woman will never put up with a critical man.

Question: Is there a possibility of an Aries female and Virgo male to be in a long term relationship?

Answer: Yes they can certainly work if they put in the effort. Aries is a strong woman so she will be the one making the decisions in the relationship. Virgo will have to keep their critical nature in check though.

Question: Are Virgo men and Aquarius women a good match?

Answer: Yes they can be great together if they try.

Question: Are Virgos easily angered?

Answer: In my experience, Virgos tend to have a temper. It's best to be calm when talking to them about a triggering topic. If you say what you need to say in a calm demeanor, they will behave in the same way. On the other hand, if you start yelling and blaming them, their explosive temper will show its ugly side.

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