Signs a Scorpio Likes You Through Text

Updated on October 4, 2016

For whatever reason, there is a great deal of intrigue and wonder when it comes to the Scorpio. For some, it can be difficult to read this water sign. People find Scorpios to be private, sensual, mysterious, eloquent, childlike -- pretty much everything. Scorpio has a wide range of emotions, that many other zodiacs never experience.

It is like a great hall of psychology -- which may be why many of the greatest actors are Scorpios, think Ryan Gosling, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Julia Roberts. In order to play great characters, you must understand the full force of emotions -- and how to harness them. You also get stars like Ryan Reynolds... who is now more famous than ever for playing... Deadpool.

Scorpios are fairly easy to read in relationships. If they are interested in you, they will keep the conversation going regardless of the cost. If a Scorpio likes you, they want to spend time with you one on one to get to know you... with minimal distractions.

Texting Habits of Affectionate Scorpios

Scorpios are really looking for something deeper than what people usually have on their minds with them: a physical connection. The best advice I have for steering a Scorpio relationship, is don't head to the sheets immediately.

They probably will only see you as a casual thing. What you need to do is get them talking, let them open up about their private matters, and get the wheels in their head turning. Take everything slowly, and you'll have a long term relationship. And I do mean everything. Don't reveal your cards too quick, Scorpios love mystery.

  1. When a Scorpio likes you, they'll use texting as a way to check in on you. They'll ask about your day and ask how you are doing -- to see if you want to hang out, but also to see what you have been doing. They like to have a puzzle before them to slowly but surely figure it out.
  2. They'll compliment you. From your personality, your looks, your brain, your emotions -- everything.
  3. They'll be straight forward with you. If a Scorpio has made up its mind about someone, it is going after them.
  4. A Scorpio will use texting to create a foundation for the relationship. They'll text you throughout the day, they'll make it seem normal when you get a message from them.
  5. They'll text you that they had a good time with you and they would like to spend more time with you.
  6. They'll text you to try to get to know you. Scorpio likes the chase and the mystery. They have a lot of questions, but they want to figure them out without having to be blunt about it.
  7. They'll text you to plan dates, they'll text you to plan hang outs, they'll definitely text you to try to be with you.
  8. They'll text you and ask you questions about things they know you are going through. They might ask you about your rough day at work, how your mom is doing, if the dog's surgery went well, if your car needs to be fixed.
  9. If a Scorpio likes you, they'll want to offer their help. They may give you ride when your car dies, they may make you soup when you are sick, and they may try to entertain you so you feel good.
  10. When a Scorpio texts you and they like you, they'll respect what time of day it is and your schedule.
  11. A Scorpio will want to meet with you in private, partly because they respect privacy... and they want to share it with you.
  12. A Scorpio will be super excited to tell you things that are important to them. Like their sister is in town, they got a new job, they are thinking about getting a puppy.
  13. A Scorpio will want to know and make sure that you are happy. They will want to support you.
  14. You'll find that the Scorpio is focused on you and no longer communicates with other romantic interests.
  15. A Scorpio will keep their texts somewhat concise rather than sending whole novels to you. You can overwhelm someone if you overtext.
  16. A Scorpio will text you when they think you look nice.
  17. A Scorpio will text you. Period.
  18. A Scorpio will mention movies they think you'll like.
  19. When Scorpio likes someone, they try to be really clear about it.
  20. They'll make sure to interact with you outside texting.

When a Scorpio likes someone, they do what they can to make things happen. They are known for being physical, but they are also highly intelligent, emotional, and perceptive. They get burnt a lot, and sometimes give up entirely on finding someone who really makes sense for them. All Scorpios are looking for someone who accepts them, lets them be, and encourages them. A Scorpio will offer you great loyalty, but if you cross them, they may cut the cord and move on. So don't play games of infidelity with them.

A Scorpio loves a good mystery. They tend to latch on longer to those with great minds or interesting quirks. They don't really care for something too normal or too dry -- they'll zone out into their imagination or just tune everything out and be in zombie mode. Scorpio wants someone they can show off.

They want great arm candy, they want great mind candy, they want it all, but they're not even sure this kind of person exists. Scorpios can be some of the filthiest, downright sensual-crazed people you've ever met -- think Deadpool... and they can also be a class act waiting to gently guide someone. Scorpios are a mix of wanting to take charge and also be sought. The Scorpios I know have made the first move.

Scorpio will want you. They'll want everything about you. This should come clear in their texts. They don't want you in pieces, they want to know everything, they want to like everything. They want to know what makes you tick, why you are so kind, why you get so cranky at some random hour, and they want to know if you know the meaning of life. When matured, a Scorpio will look for a long term partner that makes for a strong support system.

When it comes to a Scorpio, or anyone for that matter, what is of the most important matter is that their number one priority, the number one reason they like you, is your heart. I know it may seem silly, but it isn't going to be strong enough if they only like you for your looks, it isn'tt going to be right if you are only liked for your mind. They need to be interested in your heart.

Ask them why they like you, make sure they care about your heart, otherwise you could end up heartbroken. We don't care enough about hearts in our society -- the number one way we die in the western world is from a heart attack. Examine your heart, be free of all the lies around you. It doesn't matter how many people you date, how many romantic adventures you do in this world -- allow your heart to be the top priority.

You need to love your heart, everything else is a luxury. Your body will wither, your mind will fade, your personality will go flat.... how you love, how you treat others, your kindness -- that is what is important. There is no such thing as wisdom without kindness. The two are inseparable. Wisdom is a symptom of kindness. Without kindness, you are only shrewd.


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      Andrea Lawrence 2 weeks ago from Chicago

      Try meeting up in person and see what kind of connection you have. It can be difficult to see past text messages.

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      Laurel111 2 weeks ago

      We have been texting for like 1-2 years, and at first he said that he likes me, but im a capricorn woman, and i don´t trust people so easily, and at first i said "no". Now i don´t know if he has given up, but now i like him. And i don´t know, if i should tell him that i like him. Because it maybe can ruin our relationship or we can be together.

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      Assassin 3 weeks ago

      He’s constantly sending me d@@@ picture is he teasing me? What does that mean? He dirty text me at night!!

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      Aquarius 7 weeks ago

      My Scorpio friend only told my Pisces friend that she has depression, and Pisces told me and told me not to tell. Is there a way I can make her tell me? Or just get her to like me more? She definitely likes Pisces better, but said she like both of us equally. I just feel guilty that she thinks I don't know... Also, this has to be done over text bc she's in her first highschool year and me and Pisces are in the last yr of intermediate (middle school) P.S Does my Aquarius sign affect it?

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      Odinn 7 weeks ago

      What if the Scorpio wants to know erey thing that makes u u the good the bad and say they want to have a long term with u and did you get them hints ?

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      emily 2 months ago

      i’m a pisces woman and i’m in love with a scorpio, we’ve dated, kissed, touched, he broke up with me because i was bringing too much drama into the relationship, i know that now. after we dated he dated someone else for a bit then when they broke up i shared my deep feelings for him and he said it was good that i shared them but he also wanted me to get over him, like two months pass and he started talking to me more than usual, he used to never talk to me at all but now he’s making conversation with me everyday, i still love him and since he wanted me to get over him, i pretended i was but in his eyes i like him, he’s so confusing but i wanna be with him so i can share my emotions and make him happy because the girls he’s been with, i wanna change that.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Have you ever met in person? It can be difficult to love someone you have no physical presence with.

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      Showry 3 months ago

      I have been chatting with a scorpio man for almost 1 year....we met at a online game....then we started chatting and connected everywhere in social media and really close ......he shares everything in his life that happens in a day and also his family stories......he gets romantic sometimes even suddenly....cuz of such things I asked him if he likes me but he said I'm the closest person to his heart .....but I do get some vibes that he likes me maybe.....the sad fact is maybe not like that cuz I read many journals and all says if u love someone u will want to know their daily life which he never ask unless i say to him but after I say he listens to whatever i say .....our relation feel like long distance relationship cuz of the closeness we have but we text mostly and did few voice calls thats all....he won't show his emotions i know that and over texts its more difficult to just confused does he only like me as a closest frnd or loves me actually?

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      Angie 4 months ago

      I'm an Aries woman, very interested in a Scorpio woman, we've been on 4 dates, had sex on the 4th date, yet she’s hard to read, if she's wanting to take it to the next level?. I asked if she wanted me to stay that night after sex, and she said no, but was politely apologetic and texted me the next day a thank you for a fun night. Period. Do scorpio woman prefer controlling the situation? or like the chase? Being an Aries, I like the chase, its been a post two day quiet no communication so far.. Is she interested? or playing it safe? testing me? We've definitely have had had intense eye to eye stares...and feel an intensity of sorts.. but there is a cool factor to her mode of operation... Shall I ask her straight out where she stands? or let her take the lead ... going against my Aries nature here :S

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      Mona 6 months ago

      I like a scorpion man but I am not sure of his feelings. He says he likes me but calls me only at night when he is drunk. We can talk for hours - usually he does the talking. He often makes appointments but is never able to keep them. I am totally confused ! He has asked me out at least 7 times and has cancelled each time.

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      Amira 7 months ago

      Im a Taurus woman, Im starting to like a Scorpio man, I think he likes me too but he is not too obvious about it, we are very intense together but he is a bit mysterious and somehow Im not . Is our zodiac signs usually click? and can we lead to real and solid relationship in the future?

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 months ago from Chicago

      No problem! Love to help.

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      RichardBooth 7 months ago

      Great advice thank you very much indeed :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 months ago from Chicago

      You and this Cancer will share some emotional things in common since you are both water signs. You'll find that you connect well one way or another, and can actually go into those deep places that maybe with others you don't feel you're fully getting to the root of it.

      I say keep talking to this woman. The truth of the matter will come to the surface in time.

      Cancer functions differently than Scorpio. Cancer feels a cycle of emotions and moods like the moon. They tend to have a strong feminine energy to them. Scorpio has a darkness and depth that can go as low as the Mariana Trench. Cancer will be accepting of you, but know a lot of people have a hard time when you go deep and low.

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 months ago from Chicago

      Sounds like you would need to meet in person. It's a little odd that he's mentioning other girls if he is wanting to single you out as his special one.

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      RichardBooth 7 months ago

      Hey im a scorpio guy im 31 years old ive been talking to cancer lass for 3 days it sounds insane but i have never talked to anyother womem with such deep thoughts but because its so intense i have a feeling its overwhelming her and I feel shes not the type to say slow down or whatever but I get signals that she understands me as I do her but yet scared in some way to open up just a little bit more idk how to describe it however its a very thoughtful back and fourth shes a wonderful women I thought it was supposed to be us scorpios whos defences were hard to crack. Yes 3 days is nothing in the context of a lifetime but its insanely loving and thoughtful like a release of tension for us both best way to describe it really anyway ive messaged her and said along the lines of "I'll leave you be for a bit and who knows what will happen in the future" I just want her to open up a bit more but hey what can you do eh? I have been in relationships in the past and never quite understood them I tell myself was it love, lust? and it was more lust but these 3 days have shed light on what I want and she wants out of a relationship the stuffwwe both value so its a breeze when we talk but I just feel as shes scared shes 25 if thats got anything to do with it I doubt it like. but please no one reply and say its 3 days lol trust me we scorpios can feel stuff and the feeling regardless of how long its been etc. you just pick up on signals.

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      Candy 7 months ago

      I am chatting with a scorpio man for a month. He said he likes me but he was too shy to tell me he always send videos about what he is up to and how is he feeling. He's in the Army that's why we don't have much time to talk to each other. He told me that I am always the first person who comes in his mind whenever other girls are texting him. I'm just not sure about it because I never met him in person but Those videos he was sending me just feel so real and I always miss everything about him. I hope there will be a chance that someday what we have will work out.

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      Andrea Lawrence 11 months ago from Chicago

      Excellent. Glad to hear this clicked with you.

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      Miaka 11 months ago

      I can't agree more with heart part--and this is the very first time, I've seen it stated so clearly like this. Good job.

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      Andrea Lawrence 13 months ago from Chicago

      Glad to know it is accurate!

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      Shannon 13 months ago

      I'm a scorpio and i'm very surprised at how accurate this is.

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      Larry Rankin 22 months ago from Oklahoma

      Interesting analysis.


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