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Signs a Gemini Likes You

Updated on June 30, 2017

When a Gemini Likes You

How can you tell a Gemini likes you? Honestly, you should be able to tell. Gemini express themselves strongly through words, but they can also express their love to you through actions. You should feel like a Gemini has a certain amount of focus toward you. The tricky part might be that Gemini is a social sign, so you might not know if you are special to them or if you are being treated the same as everyone else.

Gemini are contagious, happy going souls -- for the most part. They like to keep things light rather than too dense or heavy (think Scorpio). This is someone who will talk to you extensively. They don't like to put too much emotion forward first, but if they are willing to go deeper and are opening up, then that's a clear sign. If they start saying they like you and open up about their feelings -- this is a clear indicator.

If they are sharing personal experiences and want to have certain experiences with you, then this is a plus. Also, if they want to pick you for their adventures and partners in crime, then they are interested in your company and spending more time with you. If they really like you, they will focus their all-over-the-place air energy on you. They want to apply a little bit more seriousness and commitment to you, which can be shocking to them. Gemini like to bounce from idea to idea... and person to person before going super deep. They move to more intention when they found someone they feel is worth stepping into that place.

Here is the thing about air signs. They are generally considered the geniuses of the zodiac and spend a great deal of time focusing on ideas and staying in their heads. They have just as intense of emotions, but they typically guard this. It can feel heavy and overwhelming to spend more time in an emotional state, and they feel vulnerable as their high mental state combines with those emotions. A heartbreak for an air sign who is really trying to have an emotional attachment, might be the hardest kind of heartbreak because it will be felt all over the body. They mentally connect with someone and have a great deal of mental activity going on in their minds. So don't be surprised if any air sign takes awhile to open up. If they are trying to rush through things, then they are probably not trying to give you the care you deserve and are not paying enough attention to the course of the relationship.

Gemini Cheat Sheet

Sign
Gemini
House
3rd
Element
Air
Dates
May 21 – June 21
Anatomy
Arms
Symbol
Twins
Tertiary Trait
Mutable
Secondary
Yang
Strengths
Communication, words, social networks, genius
Season
End of Spring, draws to Summer Solstice

Who Is the Gemini?

What exactly is a Gemini and where is it getting its energy? The Gemini is the 3rd sign of the zodiac. It comes after the frenetic energy of Aries and Taurus who start off the zodiac year. Aries comes after the cold, clearing canvas of winter. As a fire sign, it gets the job started to make the spring season happen. It is full of storms, new life coming into the planet, and changes in temperature from very cold days to warmth finally making its way back into the area. Aries as a cardinal sign is all about moving and shaking the scene. The second born child of the zodiac, Taurus, feels it needs to compete with Aries as a spring season to harbor life. Taurus has the quality of an Adam in the Bible who takes care of the animals and plants. Taurus is a gardener, someone in tune with their senses, and a genius in their own right to manage all the creatures left behind in Aries quick and frenetic wake. Then we come to Gemini.

Gemini experiences life after all the process has happened. It doesn't need to focus so much on gardening or managing. It is a time of celebration when life has already established itself. The twins, both male and female can exist together in the garden. Gemini is the time of year when people want to get married, when students graduate from school, and people want to take vacations. The wild weather of the previous two seasons -- from snow, hail, tornadoes, hot days, and cold days -- chills out when we arrive in Gemini. We generally don't see snow in May, we generally don't see below 30 degree temperatures, unless of course... you live in the north most part of the planet. *Western astrology does tend to favor lessons in the northern hemisphere as opposed to the southern hemisphere, where we experience seasons in reverse.

Gemini naturally has a bubbly affinity for life. They like to keep things positive, healthy, and egalitarian. As they grow and mature, they want to be more humble and open minded. Gemini can run into problems when they are young and believe passionately they are right about something, creating a tunnel like focus, but also being too stubborn and limited to hear new and fresh ideas, or alternate perspectives. A Gemini experiences duality as the twin sign. Gemini wants to be open to the world and what it has to offer and wants fairness and equality for all. But sometimes Gemini needs to step away from the crowd, otherwise they brood and become moody. They need their independence or else they become a chameleon. This can come up in a healthy relationship. Gemini wants to emotionally comfort their partner by mirroring what they do, and this comes on at both a conscious and an unconscious level. It is important to encourage a Gemini to show their true colors, rather than only take to your interests and one day have a mental breakdown when they don't know themselves.

Flirting Tactics

Gemini will likely converse with you about a number of topics before getting into the heaviness of emotion. They may look to touching you and giving you affection first before going into their emotions and combining their thoughts, speech, and feelings together. This is normal for a Gemini who feels vulnerable when unveiling deeper matters of the heart. They like to introspect and play with the ideas before completely unveiling them. Gemini likes to flirt and keep things light before committing. Commitment should naturally come of itself rather than being forced or twisted into action. Gemini needs room to consider its heart, consider what it wants to do, and a number of other important goals.

You can expect long texts from a Gemini, constant contact, and it is what they are good at doing. They like to dabble in new things, they can change their life direction frequently because they have so much going on in their heads. They are guided by Mercury -- the household of communication and mobility. They like to experience the world, be spontaneous, fun, and converse.

You may have to occasionally tell them it is okay to sit in silence. They are talkative, and if it's not coming out of their mouth -- their loquaciousness is happening inside their head.

Signs Gemini Likes You

Gemini
Plays Out
What You Can Expect
Communication
Long messages, frequent, consistent
Messages throughout the day, references to previously said material
Emotionally
May have trouble exactly expressing their feelings as they live in their headspace, but can be pushed out
Warm, friendly, gentle. Especially when more matured and humble.
Affection
Very affectionate, tactile, into senses, wants to make sure you feel comfortable
Back rubs, foot rubs, hugs, cuddles, fairly open
Duality
May have hot and cold days, but it doesn't necessarily have to do with you
Needs time for independence while also wanting to know you deeply. Needs space to not feel like a chameleon
Socially
Wants to get along with your pets and those close to you
Diverse social interests. Air signs love communication and friends
Flirting
Remembers details about you, surprises you with gifts or messages
When focused on you, the flirting is intentional. If not focused on you, Gemini may flirt with others
Dates
Both imaginative and cozy
A strength for the Gemini. They have good creative date ideas, and tend to be open to planning and spontaneity
Texting
Frequent, discussing multiple topics, may take awhile to exactly discuss feelings
Another plus for Gemini, they are communication wizards. This may be how they try to seduce you
Mirroiring
Uses common interests and body language to mirror you and bring emotional comfort
Need to encourage Gemini to show themselves and their own interests rather than just take after yours.
Nurturing
Makes efforts to make you relax, would take care of you when sick
Likely to bring you soup when sick. Likely to make things comfortable

Gemini and Emotions

They like to keep things light, fresh, and they have to have communication whether it is verbal, written, letters, or sharing ideas from music -- they always need some ideas tunneling through their brains. In romantic relationships, with their sweetness and lightness they can be overwhelmed by their feelings. It can be uncomfortable to be in a spot where they can't find words. This could be made much worse if dating a water sign who wants this heaviness up front. Gemini expects to find space and also connection and conversation. They want to be able to do their own thing, and then enjoy you. They have a wide sense of humor, they do not like manipulation or passive-aggression, and Gemini does not like to be tied down.

They want to feel their partner isn't leaning on them for their emotional validation. Gemini's biggest fear is that they don't have emotional depth, but to be honest it's there and much more vulnerable than other signs. Air signs are guarded for a reason. Don't accuse them of being shallow, but help them to put words to their feelings. This is how you can help them to overcome this hard spot and help them to grow. It's a big deal if they are conveying their inner most feelings.

Signs a Gemini Likes You

1. Gemini will send you constant messages throughout the day. You'll find your inbox full of various videos, memes, and cute sayings. Except long letter like messages, and they hope you'll return the favor to some degree. It is fun for a Gemini to communicate and have someone stay on the same brainwave as them.

2. Openly affectionate. They'll like break the touch barrier. Gemini are open to hugs, kisses, cuddling, and the like.

3. Likely to consider your needs and comfort you. They like to pamper someone who impresses them.

4. If you have brains, a Gemini will be interested. If you do not have brains, they likely won't see you as a good match.

5. You can expect fun, creative, and adventurous dates. Take them to an art museum or somewhere you can find a great number of ideas and potential conversation topics. They'll keep you entertained with the witty things in their head.

6. They'll become protective of you, and want to include you more and more into their life.

7. Likely to struggle with knowing what to say and expressing self through actions instead, they are wordsmiths, but dealing with emotions can throw them a curveball.

8. It should be clear when they really like you because they'll seem incredibly focused and intentional. It is hard to miss at that point.

9. They'll make requests for your company.

10. They will have a hard time judging you, and if you are clever, absurd, or different -- they may find you altogether charming and as though you are seducing them.

11. You'll find your Facebook covered in posts from them.

12. You'll find your Instagram account constantly liked by them.

13. You can expect gifts, displays of love, maybe some traditions turned on their head while other traditions remain old school. He might pay for several date related items; she may dress to impress.

14. Calling you terms of endearment.

15. Trying to get along with your friends or pets to the best of their ability.

16. Incorporating you into various parts of their life. Feeling a sense that you're missing when you are not involved.

17. Romantic confessions. Flat out telling you about their interest.

18. Driving several hours just to come see you and go on an adventure.

19. Talking in more depth about their personal life from family, friends, hobbies, and philosophies.

20. More jokes than you could possibly handle. They love to show you their interest through their wit.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 weeks ago from Chicago

      Glad to hear this is accurate!