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How a Scorpio Man in Love Behaves

I am a proud Scorpio man who has a deep interest in astrology and the zodiac.

I am a Scorpio man, and I have often wondered what Scorpio men are like when it comes to love. How do we express love?” Most people are familiar with the general characteristics of a Scorpio man when he is in love. Some of these traits are possessiveness, jealousy and controlling behavior. Personally, I am shy, though I am not sure if “shy” is one of the characteristics.

But first, a general introduction to the Scorpio guy through the eyes someone with personal experience.

How to Spot a Scorpio Man

  • He's reserved: He can be silent on the outside but has a deep well of emotions within. If you see a guy at a party sitting in the corner quietly observing everything, he is probably your Scorpio man. Not that he is antisocial; he just likes privacy even in a social setting. At the same time, this isn't a foolproof clue; after all, some Scorpio men are very social (I am one of these).
  • He's opinionated: Ask him about anything occult and wait for his reaction. You will immediately know whether he is a Scorpio or not. Most of the Scorpios I have met have strong beliefs (positive or negative) and are passionate about expressing them. In fact, a Scorpio male has at least some basic knowledge and strong feelings about most of the subjects under the sun.
  • His gaze is intense: Look deep into his eyes. As the cliché goes, you will probably feel like your soul is being stripped bare. Chances are that you may even get extremely attracted to him. As a Scorpio, I have gotten these reactions from my friends, the girls I have dated and my female colleagues.

A Scorpio Guy in Love and Relationships

There are various contentions here about how a Scorpio guy behaves when he is in love. One thing to know for sure is that flirting with you does not mean he has feelings for you. I, for one, openly flirt with many girls, but I make it quite clear to them that it doesn’t mean anything other than that we are good friends. It is said that Scorpio guys do not fall in love easily unless the girl has some mystery around her. I can definitely vouch for that. I have only fallen for girls with an aura of mystery or power. But what happens if he does fall in love? How does he behave then?

Again, from my personal experience, once the guy falls for someone, there is no returning. He falls for her, and he falls hard. The first thing I noticed is that he starts going out of his way to do things for her. Now, this may be a general characteristic of most of the male species in the animal kingdom in order to attract the female. However, the second thing is not done by most of them. Once he is in love, he also starts becoming possessive.

Like a spider, a Scorpio will slowly start weaving a net around his beloved. If he sees that the game is a bit more challenging than he thought, he may even start becoming manipulative in order to make sure that she belongs to him. The bottom line is that he can go to any extreme to make sure she stays with him forever.

Flirting with you does not necessarily mean a Scorpio has feelings for you. But if he does fall, he falls hard.

Flirting with you does not necessarily mean a Scorpio has feelings for you. But if he does fall, he falls hard.

How Does He Express Love?

Now, the biggest question is this. How does a Scorpio express his love to the woman he likes? Frankly speaking, this is the toughest question for me as I still do not have one single answer for this.

I believe most Scorpio men fall into two categories when expressing love.

  1. One kind finds it too hard to express their love. I fall into this category. I am kind of shy and though I have dated many girls in my life, I have expressed love only to a couple of them. It was not because I didn’t like some of the others. I was just either too shy in expressing it or a bit too slow.
  2. The second type of Scorpio just goes for it. One reason might be that Scorpios don’t like losing anything. Call them selfish, but if they like something, they start thinking that it belongs to them. This should not be taken in a negative way. It is simply that a Scorpio knows what kind of woman he wants and when he finds her, he cannot afford to lose her. So, if he has the confidence to jump right in, that's what he'll do.

For Scorpios, most things in life are games and battles they should win at any cost. They just cannot afford to lose. It may be said that, if the girl says no, it is a defeat for the Scorpio ego, which is difficult to handle. Like many people, Scorpios who don't express their interest are afraid of rejection. But if they can make it past that barrier, a Scorpio will be in for keeps. Remember, I told you that a Scorpio man does not fall in love easily? Once he does, he does not let go.

Scorpio Ryan Gosling is not afraid to jump right in.

Scorpio Ryan Gosling is not afraid to jump right in.

Hot and Cold: Your Scorpio Guy

I keep getting queries from people who are with a Scorpio and confused about his behavior. They ask questions such as: "My Scorpio guy acts hot and cold" or "He just stopped talking to me for two weeks. Why?" To clear things up, I thought that it would be good to mention some of the traits you may encounter if you are considering a relationship with a Scorpio.

  • Mood swings: He can have frequent mood swings. This is not necessarily because he has PMS issues. He just gets overwhelmed easily. He keeps thinking about 10 different things at one moment, and he needs to focus on all of them but can only manage one at a time. He feels that he is always in the eye of the storm. That is one reason why he may be all over you one moment, and the next moment act completely distant. Even while talking to you, he may suddenly think of something else he needs to handle. A Scorpio's mind never rests.
  • Focus: In general, he needs to focus on one thing at a time. For him, difficulties are problems to be solved with undivided attention. That's the reason he may prefer not to talk to you for some time (because he is trying to solve something with extreme focus). Don't always interpret his silence as "he is upset with me."
  • Reluctance to commit: He doesn't rush into a true relationship. You two may hit it off immediately, but it takes effort and diligence to prove yourself as his soulmate. Of course, once he believes you are "the one" he will be extremely loyal. The only reason he may commit adultery is if he thinks that you are not the right one.
  • Sensitivity: He should come with a special tag that says "Handle with care." He has a tough shell on the outside, but he is extremely sensitive inside. You don't always know what will hurt his feelings. So, be extremely careful when you talk to him, especially if you are having a heated conversation.

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Advice on Dating a Scorpio

Relationships with a Scorpio can be intensely passionate. Once you crack that "tough guy" shell, there are few star signs more devoted or loyal in love. However, there's a dark side to that loyalty: Scorpio men can also be jealous and oppressive partners. Here is some advice on how to handle a relationship with a Scorpio man.

  • Be honest: Avoid playing games. I am not discouraging you from playing the initial courtship games but don't take it too far. If you have given him your word, stick to it. Scorpio men seldom trust anyone, and not keeping your word is the easiest way to lose his trust.
  • Be assertive: He can be dominating and possessive in relationships, but don't let him get away with this behavior. He respects a woman who can hold her ground and does not give in easily. Be confident, and stand up for yourself and your needs.
  • Be wary of manipulative behavior: He can be a master of mind games and manipulation. If you hurt him deeply, he may even make "destroying you" or "teaching a lesson" the sole purpose of his life. There are very few who have evolved beyond a point of vengeance. If a person is stalking you, he most probably has a Scorpio element somewhere in his birth chart.
  • Don't worry if you don't always understand him: His behavior may sometimes seem pretty weird. We are not very good at explaining our reasons for doing things, and he probably has something in mind which he is not talking about. It is extremely difficult to understand what goes on inside a Scorpio's brain. If you don't get it, let him explain eventually, on his own terms.

This advice is mostly from my personal experience. Feel free to let me know what you think.

All Scorpios are not the same. After all, there are different levels to which a Scorpio has evolved. To get a clearer picture of what may be the level of evolution of your Scorpio guy, check out my article on totems of a Scorpio.

Questions & Answers

Question: Why does a Scorpio man tell me he wants just a physical relationship, and has no strong feelings and no strings attached? I told him that I love him and want a serious relationship. Would he ever fall in love with me if I accept the physical relationship with him?

Answer: It really depends on what the Scorpio guy wants. A physical relationship may not necessarily translate to love in his case.

Question: My boyfriend of 4 months is a Scorpio, it's been intense from the beginning. He tells me that he's falling in love with me, that he loves me, and misses me or is looking forward to seeing me, though. At least once a week he feels the need to remind me that he does NOT want to be in a relationship, but doesn't want to lose me. I never once pushed him for a relationship, I love him. But I'm so confused and not sure if I'm coming or going?

Answer: If he is absolutely sure about his love, he WILL make a move. Till then, you may have to wait patiently.

Question: I fell in love with a Scorpio man, the shy kind. I recently found out he is married, but his wife lives out of the country. I am so mad he didn’t tell me. What should I do?

Answer: Tell him that he kept it a secret and move out of the relationship.

Question: Are male scorpios controlling?

Answer: They are controlling to a certain extent. But there are various levels of control and it really depends on the person.

Question: My Scorpio boyfriend and I have just parted ways on good terms. He wants to focus on his health and work issues; I agreed, and we parted friendly! He says he cares a lot about me and I am all these wonderful things under the sun. Will he come back, or is it a move on situation?

Answer: I would say don't keep your hopes too high. If he comes back, great! If he doesn't, then move on. See if you can afford to give him some time to get his stuff sorted. If not, then better to take care of your own stuff.

Question: Will a Scorpio commit to marriage?

Answer: Yes, but only if he/she is absolutely sure.

Question: I am in a relationship with a Scorpio man, we have a great sexual connection, where it is very passionate at times. Even though we have great sexual chemistry, when we are out for dates or just hanging out at different venues, he will never hold my hand or keep the same pace as me (walking wise) or even lock eye contact. Is this normal behavior for a Scorpio? I am kinda offended, but I didn't know if I should be. By the way, I am a Leo if that makes any difference. Thanks.

Answer: Scorpios are generally not into PDAs (public display of affection). So, you may have to bear with it.

Question: My crush is a Scorpio, what can I do to get his attention?

Answer: I think the first thing you need to do is appear a little mysterious. Scorpios love solving a mystery. So, be a little mysterious and appear as if you don't care much for his attention.

Question: What does it mean if a male Scorpio keeps looking at you?

Answer: It normally means that the person is interested in you.

Question: I am dating a Scorpio man who loves me dearly, but is very jealous. He is supportive and much older than me. He spoils me sometimes, but he has not taken me to see his house as yet, and he stays with his children. Could it be that he does not love me enough?

Answer: He may still have other things to consider. He may be sorting out other things in his life (if he has to sort them out).

Question: My Scorpio man swept me off my feet after few weeks of meeting him. I noticed that when he's upset or disappointed, he doesn't speak up. Sometimes we'll be talking via text and he'll leave me hanging. Overall, he doesn't say much except for when he tells me how much he loves me and that I'm his everything. I sometimes get mixed messages and it drives me nuts! He sure knows how to snap me outta my funk when I'm sad or upset though by saying the right thing. Is this a typical Scorpio?

Answer: In one word, Yes.

Question: How long would a Scorpio man wait for the woman he's interested in?

Answer: Unless he feels that he should really move on, he will wait for as long as it takes.

Question: I want to date a Scorpio! I love him and think he loves me too, but is shy, hesitant, and fears love because of past experiences. What should I do?

Answer: You can probably give him subtle hints that you love him. The rest, you may have to sit back a little and watch. If he really loves you, he will come for you.

Question: I've been dating a Scorpio man and the sex is great. I asked what is it that he wants, and his reply was simply, "I enjoy you." What does that mean?

Answer: It could be just the physical part he may want. Scorpios don't commit easily. The best thing is to directly ask him.

Question: I am dating a Scorpio man. He says he loves me but doesn't show his emotions. He doesn't show any romantic gestures; I don't understand why he will say he loves me, and not show it. Is this normal for Scorpio men?

Answer: Scorpios seldom show emotions, and are rarely verbal in expressing love. But always look at their actions. If they are trying to woo you even in the subtlest way, then that means that they are into you.

Question: What is the best way to handle dating a Scorpio during his cold stage?

Answer: I think that you should leave the person with little interference, but just enough to show that you are still there if needed.

Question: I started dating a Scorpio man recently, he told me he is falling in love hard with and he is going to leave his girlfriend of many years for me. Is he telling me the truth does he just want to get into my pants?

Answer: Don't trust him yet. A Scorpio doesn't leave a long-term GF/BF so easily. It is not even possible for them to get out of a relationship easily.

Question: Hi, my Scorpio boyfriend wouldn’t say he loves me but treats me like a princess when we’re together. He would go beyond to impress me, and he did say action speaks louder than words. Does he love me or not?

Answer: For Scorpios, actions do speak louder than words. If he treats you really well, then he may indeed love you.

Question: How loyal are Scorpios ?

Answer: Scorpios are generally known to be very loyal to their partners. Though they take a long time to commit (they don't commit unless they are absolutely sure), they remain loyal once they are committed.

Question: I've been in a relationship with a Scorpio man for two years. I am a Leo woman, and it is challenging. Do you think it will work?

Answer: Yes, a relationship between a Leo and a Scorpio is challenging. The clap has to come from both hands, so see if you guys can work it out.

Question: Do Scorpios like their space?

Answer: Yes, Scorpios very much prefer their personal space.

Question: I've been dating a Scorpio man for the past ten weeks. He's very attentive when we're together. He cooks, created "his and hers" Easter eggs and provided a toothbrush for his flat. But our physical relationship has become very ‘domesticated’ already! He works very long hours with very few days off with the police. I’ve barely heard from him in the past few days. I’m not sure if his interest is waning or it’s the pressure of his job. I want to be supportive, but I don’t want to neglect myself. How do I approach this?

Answer: From what I understand, he may NOT be ignoring you. Scorpios do anything with full passion. Right now, he may just be a little focused on his job. See if you can give him a casual call yourself and see how he is doing in life.

Question: I was with a Scorpio man, and we were in love. Then all the sudden he had mixed feelings and said he doesn't love me the same way. I don't know what to do. I'm in love, but he isn't. What should I do?

Answer: I think probably he never really "loved" you. It may actually have been an attraction or infatuation, and he may not have realized it earlier. Scorpios love with passion. If they don't feel that passion within themselves, they are not in love.

Question: I have been dating a Scorpio man for the past month and a half. We are sleeping together. I told him that I liked him, but he didn't say anything back. Is that a rejection?

Answer: Scorpio men usually keep their feelings to themselves. If he truly loves you, he will say it to you. Meanwhile, he may be evaluating his feelings.

Question: Why are Scorpio men so mean?

Answer: Every zodiac sign has a fault. Scorpio's is being mean. Alternately, 'mean' also comes from not being able to understand a Scorpio completely. Don't worry! No one can completely understand a Scorpio. Sometimes, not even a Scorpio themselves.

Question: I have been sleeping with a Scorpio man and just want to get away from him. He plays mind games with me constantly. I tried to make it civil and told him I was developing feelings for him and wanted just to be friends. When I decided to end things he wouldn’t leave me alone and told me stuff as he cares for me and crap. How do I end things on a good note and get him just to let me be?

Answer: I guess getting far away from him may work.

Question: Why would he tell me that he loves me and wants me to have his child, and then start ignoring me?

Answer: It is difficult to understand what goes on in a Scorpio mind, as they do not openly communicate. You may have to wait until he is in a better place.

Question: I'm a Scorpio myself dating a Scorpio man. How do I keep the relationship strong?

Answer: Scorpio-Scorpio needs a little compromise when it comes to love. The disadvantage in this relationship is that both are intense and are too much alike. This could also be good as they have some common positive attributes. Both should understand this and try and capitalize on the positives than the negatives.

Question: Why does my Scorpio man always make me choose where we go on our dates? Is he not really interested?

Answer: Nothing like that. Scorpio guys don't necessarily try to be in control of everything. They are easygoing when it comes to many things.

Question: I am dating a Scorpio man for one month, and he told me that he loves me after one week of dating and has started talking about getting married. Should I trust him? I am Libra woman.

Answer: There is an interesting attraction between Libra and Scorpio. But being a long-term match is a little tricky. Dynamics change after marriage, which I don't know if he is aware of or not. Due to their strong traits, both may end up annoying each other too much sometimes. So, you need to be careful before committing to such a big move.

Question: I’m an Aquarius woman in love with a Scorpio man. Will our relationship work out, and how?

Answer: It is undoubtedly a difficult match as both characteristics are different and their temperament usually has nothing in common. If other aspects of the birth chart/natal chart are matching, it may work out.

Question: I have been in love with my Scorpio best friend for almost 5 years. We are officemates. We are always together and we travel together. I don't know if he has feelings for me. I'm afraid to ask because he's very reserved and shy. He's always there for me though and he treats me differently from other girls. do you think he's in love with me?

Answer: Just because he treats you differently doesn't necessarily mean he loves you. Scorpio's feelings can be complicated. A Scorpio may show the same care for a friend. So, look into his actions and behavior. See if he kind of becomes obsessed with you or kind of restless when you are not around. Again, a Scorpio may not acknowledge that these are feelings for that person. So, there are a few signs you will have to look at before deciding that he loves you.

Question: Why does a Scorpio man always pretend to be okay even if he is not?

Answer: That is probably because of their secretive nature. They don't want to show their true emotions, especially the sad ones, to others.

Question: I am in love with a Scorpio guy, and he told me that he has started to love me more than he thought. After a few months, he told me to move on because he thinks I deserve someone better. But he keeps talking to me, and he even wrote a song for me. What does this all mean? Does he love me?

Answer: It's possible that he may still love you, but he feels insecure about something.

Question: Does a Scorpio male have a tendency to forget?

Answer: If it is not something important, they don't bother remembering it.

Question: I recently confessed to a Scorpio man, but he hasn't given me his answer on whether he wants to date me. What does it mean?

Answer: It probably means that he hasn't made up his mind yet. Do not try to push him, though, as it will just push him away.

Question: Why would a Scorpio man tell me that he loves me but have a lot of friends who are women at the same?

Answer: A Scorpio man can have a lot of women friends and vice versa. Doesn't mean that they are in anyway involved with them.

Question: I'm a Virgo woman who has recently reconnected with a man from about 40 years ago. We just started talking, and within a week he is saying how he wants me to be with him, and he said he wants to fall in love again. He wants to be treated right. The problem is I'm still married. Should I just stop this right now? If not I am going to leave my husband.

Answer: I think you should stop it, assuming that your marriage is not on the verge of falling apart. You can probably try and make him understand that you live a different life right now.

Question: Do you like answering all these Scorpio questions?

Answer: Some of them, I reply to. Others, I don't. Some questions do not have a straight-forward answer and some others are kind of repetitive.

Question: I'm a Scorpio woman dating a Scorpio man, why aren't our signs compatible?

Answer: The challenge of Scorpio-Scorpio is that they are too much alike, both in positives and negatives. The love is magnificent but imagine a fight between them.

Question: I am currently dating a Scorpio man. He broke up with me, but he came back. He always talks about sex. He does not know me properly, but he cares about my sickness. Does he love me?

Answer: It is very difficult to say. When it comes to love, Scorpios don't make quick decisions. So, you may want to wait for some time to see the signs.

Question: My Scorpio musician friend told me he loves me but then became distant and hadn't wanted to meet up again. What should I do?

Answer: How long has it been since you two met? If it's not been long, then he may still be undecided. Scorpios usually take a long time before they commit. So, he could still be undecided.

Question: I am an Aquarius woman and he's a Scorpio man. Why does he tell me that it's not going to work? We haven't even done anything yet.

Answer: The reason is that both Scorpio and Aquarius have different ways of thinking and different psyche. Scorpio is a water sign. That makes them very emotional. They usually prefer traditions and structures. Aquarius, on the other hand, is an air sign. They are more free-willed. They don't like to be bound. Moreover, both are fixed signs which mean it is very difficult for them to change their outlook, thinking or decisions in life. Hence, it is indeed difficult for them to survive with each other. Maybe as friends, they may be good but in a relationship, it is going to be tough.

Question: I have turned down a Scorpio guy many times, and he still keeps on asking me out. I'm a Virgo, and I think I like him. He is slowly creeping in my life, but I'm scared. What should I do?

Answer: What are you going to lose if you allow him in your life? Ask yourself this question and decide. If you do decide to go ahead, be extremely cautious about the roller-coaster ride.

Question: I’m a Taurus woman with a Scorpio man, should I believe him when he says that he wants to marry me?

Answer: If he is really insistent, then you can believe him.

Question: I have a Scorpio friend that I've known for a year. He courted me, but my feelings for him were not the same. He is still talking to me like a friend. Is he still in love with me?

Answer: He may be confused about his feelings towards you at this point, or he may want to take some time understanding or expressing his feelings.

Question: I would like to know if a Scorpio Male introduces you to his kids and parents, is he serious?

Answer: It could be quite possible that he is serious.

Question: I dated a Scorpio man a few months ago, and then he disappeared all of a sudden. We met a few months afterward, and he said that he really likes me, but he couldn’t be in a relationship right now as he is going through a divorce, with two young children involved. I love him, and I make sure to never put pressure on him as I KNOW for the moment he cannot offer or promise anything. Am I wrong to hope that things will get better? Or am I being fooled and used for sex and fun?

Answer: I think you wait for a little and then see if things may improve on his side.

Question: I met a Scorpio last month. It was an amazing date, and there was a lot of attraction, but after, he didn't speak to me for a week. We then got back on track, but then argued. Now he's blocked me and won't speak to me! What's wrong with him?

Answer: He may not have been that into you.

Question: I met a Scorpio guy who used to be more loving until I hurt him. Now he seems more distant. What should I do?

Answer: I think you should remain quiet for a couple o days and watch what he does. If everything is fine, he should become restless if he sees no reply from your end.


Rissa on July 20, 2020:

I'm in love with a Scorpio man. We are together 9 months now. Sometimes I am getting confused with his actions. He can disappear for 2 weeks and then appear again, no communication I mean. At first I didn't believe him but now I am convinced to his words. He says I love you and that he wants to marry me. Also when he is disappearing, says is cause of work, been busy a lot. When I tried to break up with him, he was emotional down and wanted to be together. I do not know if he wants to be with me. He even asked me to move in with him.

Jlewis110 on June 26, 2020:

Xotic70... since some time has passed, I'm hoping that you're doing much better than before. I'm sorry you were going thru what you went thru but (concerning your question 2 yrs ago) the simple truth is that's what scorps do. It's just a part of our nature. When a scorp pulls what seems to be a dissappearing act, most times they felt crowded and that was (in their perception) the best option... to avoid confusing or hurting the person they stopped communicating with at the time. I mentioned that it may appear to be unfair, unthoughtful, and even a bit cruel. But remember, I was talking about the Scorpio's perception. It is not unkind to the scorpio. In fact, to the scorpio... it is an act of kindness. You don't have to understand. No one does. It's just one of those crazy things that scorpios do and it is instinctive. That's why many times people have seen scorpios reappear almost as if coming back from the dead. At least, that's what it may feel like. Lol. The point is however, when looking at scorps, do not try to judge what they do. They won't care. They WILL care about your feelings and perceptions if they care about you. But, they will show that care by asking you questions. Not by listening to your perception of their actions. I know and yes, I get it. This sounds insane! But trust me, many people gravitate towards scorpios because they are so mysterious. Once again, do not try to figure them out. When they come out of that cave, if they have made up their mind to pursue, they will. Do not give in until they give in and give all!!! That means wedding bells!!! It is a chance.. but if you decide to "go there" with a scorp, then you'd better be prepared to be FULLY COMMITTED! If you aren't prepared, then don't play with a scorp's emotions. You won't like the outcome. But if you think you want to try.. you'd best make sure you're ready! Because if you aren't... no matter what you think, the scorp will not only feel something is off... they can EASILY sense it!!! If you're not in it completely with them, then DO NOT MARRY THEM! You don't want to see their other side! IF they are not "planning a wedding with you" and they give a reason to not commit to you yet... then TELL THEM YOU WON'T COMMIT TO THEM! You MUST BE UP FRONT, HONEST, AND DIRECT with a scorp.. pure and simple! You may cause them to pull away but it's better than being put on pause for weeks, months, or even years while they figure out if they really want YOU or not! But... if they ask why you're suddenly so direct or giving what seems like an ultimatum, then quietly and calmly respond with... "If you refuse to commit to me, why should I commit to you???". This will get their attention and MAKE THEM SEE THE BRUTAL HONESTY AND TRUTH OF YOUR QUESTION! Life is not certain and no, you shouldn't be sitting around just waiting for someone to come back into your life. Treat them like you did that perfect handbag you love so much! If they don't snatch you off the rack and "claim you" by putting you in THEIR cart (engagement) and immediately taking you to the cashier (chapel) so they can purchase (marry) and take you home as once and for all "THEIRS" (husband and wife)... then how can they expect to come back to the store (your neighborhood) and assume that nobody else has purchased (married) you? True, some things may very well still be hanging on the rack but we shouldn't assume the product is going to "wait" for that ONE CUSTOMER to come back some day to purchase it. So, if they aren't ready,

then continue as acqaintances (hang on different racks in the store together) but not as friends (with benefits) or they may NEVER purchase/marry you. Who wants to buy at full price a designer bag that has been used by others already? No boo boo... that's called the floor model! If you want them, then wait for sex. If you've already done the deed, then let them know you've grown and are now saving yourself for your husband. Tell him that for you, play time is over and you're no longer "just having fun". Real love to a scorp is not sex and it shouldn't be to you either... sex between two hearts that are really in love is LOVEMAKING! And if you're in it just for the sex, then that may be all you get. Therefore, if they won't commit to being with you ONLY, then do not have sex with them and put your hope in a future. If you do, you may find that you will be waiting, and waiting, and waiting, and waiting. The reason for this is because you seem too easy. That is not an insult. It's just another crazy thing that scorps consider. That was way too easy!!! And trust me... a male scorp can woo almost anyone out of their panties with ease!!! And if it is that easy for you to have sex... and then consider being with someone for the rest of your life, then how easy will it be for someone else to woo you into throwing the towel in behind your scorps back, and giving in to some other person? If you want ro marry a scorp, then sit up and listen carefully... Save The Cookie... and Don't Give Any Nookie!!!!! Period and point blank!! That's All Folks! LOL. Once again, I know, it sounds crazy. How can you keep a man if you won't sleep with the man? Well, that's just it!!! How are you gonna keep me... if we're not married but you sleep with me? So... don't give him any cookies.. unless he's ready to own the bakeshop! Are you listening Xotic??? Do you hear me??? That should be sound advice for any other man as well!!! Anyway, feel free to respond if you wish. All in all, I hope this helps and I hope you are doing much better and have moved on. Best wishes to all the readers.

Misaki on June 21, 2020:

I'm dating a scorpio and I'm pisces. He makes me choose between him and my family. Everytime I try to make him understand that i cant lose my family he gets mad. I can't exactly give up everything for him. Im scared that he'll leave, he gets attracted to girls easily and he has never made me feel like Im enough

Benedicta lamont Aidoo on May 30, 2020:

Am dating a scorpio guy but is a distance relationship we both love each other will thing work out for us?

Relationshipadvisor on May 05, 2020:

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Nadz on May 05, 2020:

Met a scorpio guy 5 months back he was too into me told me i love you we hanged out more than once then he kept on and off then he asked me if i love him i didnt give an exact reply, and when i told him that i do love him he backed up and said we can talk normally but im not capable of marriage we both are poor and cant afford mariage need a rich lady then i asked him if hes being serious or its a joke he said ofcourse am joking and now am not talking to him anymore he confused me big time what shall i do?

Krisha on April 25, 2020:

I've met a Scorpio man online and felt like there's magnet between us. I just like how deeply sensitive he was and so straightforward and sincere on how he feels about me. He saiid he likes me a lot and I felt that it is genuine. We have talked for 3months, we already have arguments and little fights along the way. At first, we managed to apologized with each other but after the last misunderstanding he hang up the video call, (I feel hurt because I was still talking) and never said a thing to me again. Then he's posting some stuff that pertains exactly to me one negative and one positive. Btw, it's been 3 months since we last talked too. What should I do? I miss him a lot.

I am a Cancer.

Sandra on April 19, 2020:

Known a Scorpio man for 30 yrs had a fling with him no strings remained friends as in if I saw him somewhere we would have polite conversation go separate ways only 2 yrs ago happened to see him started talking he’s married now has been for sometime but this man wooed me wouldn’t leave me alone he finally got me hasn’t really left me alone since texting ringing when he can now I don’t want him in that way or to break up his marriage but he has told me he loves me deeply I don’t get it is he not happily married?

Ann on April 09, 2020:

I'm confused as well. I've been in love with a scrpio man for so many yrs. I've known him for ten yrs but our relationship didn't last back then because he wasn't ready I moved on and remarried. But we have always been so close. Now he makes it a point to kiss my hand with my wedding rings and so intensely passionate about it. Does it mean he's finally in love with me ?

Nya on April 05, 2020:

I’m fading a Scorpio guy but I’m a sag should I be worried?

__radiatelove on February 19, 2020:

Aries woman dating Scorpio shit is a mess

Andrea on February 17, 2020:

I think I have a Scorpio guy that likes me he stares at me a lot but I can’t be sure

Sadaf on January 22, 2020:

I just want to say this post is amazing


Rhymes on December 28, 2019:

I married a scorpio I broke up with him 8years ago. But we see each other from time to time with him making false statements of coming home. He will call all the time then stop and move with another woman. This time he says he has his own place invited me over but then came to me. He says he doesnt live with anyone. He says hes not letting me go this time . he kissed me left and said he was coming back. I contact him he say he is sick with the flu doesnt answer my calls or text except to say he doesnt feel good wtf. Before this behaviour his last full text said its diffrent this time hes going to show me. He even asked me what he should do with his place before he left. And the previous times he left he never kissed me. He kissed me before leaving I said oh I get a kiss he said I told you its diffrent this time. But he doesnt respond he doesnt answer the phone at all. Should i give up tomorrow will make a week.

AquarianQueen on December 25, 2019:

Reconnected with a Scorpio man from my past in his home town , he moved to my area, while in the area he asked me out repeatedly but I declined bc of his presumed playboy lifestyle ...he left the area after 6 yrs and has been starting up a business for 4 years in his home town where we met. He reaches out via social media and professes his love for me and asks to be exclusive within 30 days of reconnecting (no dates - Attentive, true alpha male, protective type, text calls consistent, hasn’t asked for money or doesn’t talk sex—-a genuine good guy )... I rejected him bc I felt it was feelings based on ideas versus reality bc we hadn’t truly shared things about ourselves. We argued, things were said, feelings were hurt; stood my ground on my standards and ideas of love being about action. He disappeared but now he’s back after 3 months cold turkey with loads of compliments, an apology, wanting a second chance, a confession of knowing I was his one when we met initially @23 yrsold . He also shared something very intimate and cried about a family issue and asked for my opinion. I’m an Aquarius who believes in love and the idea of us is dreamy even willing to have a child with him but is it just that DREAMS!?! #hopeful #wantingmarriage

Scorpio Man Question on December 25, 2019:

Reconnected with a Scorpio man from my past, while in the same area he asked me out but I declined bc of his presumed playboy lifestyle ...he left the area and has been starting up a business for 4 years in his home town where we met. He reaches out and professes his love for me and asks to be exclusive with 30 days (no date - text calls)... I rejected him bc I felt it was feelings based on ideas versus reality. He disappeared but now he’s back after 3 months cold turkey with loads of compliments, an apology, wanting a second chance, a confession of knowing I was his one when we met initially & shared something intimate and cried about a family issue and asked for my opinion. I’m an Aquarius who believes in love and the idea of is dreamy but is it just that DREAMS!?! #hooefulromantic

Louise on November 14, 2019:

I been texting a Scorpio guy since January met up twice the second time was Saturday and we have spoke since do Scorpio guys make impulsive decisions I can’t make any head way with him at the moment

Malik Naeem on November 11, 2019:

I like scorpio

Kay on November 07, 2019:

Im seeing a scorpio guy and im a cap, should i be worried?

Lady T on September 30, 2019:

Does Scorpio man get to know you though sex

Libbie54 on September 23, 2019:

I inadvertently hit my Scorpio mans phone number today and immediately hung up because I really didn’t intend to call him and I was actually afraid of what he might say.

Boy were my feelings on point...he immediately texted me back which caught me off guard because he never responded that quickly when things were good between us, and then crushed me when he asked ....what do you want??

Wow I was shocked and hurt because of the tone of his response!! It cut me like a knife. I want him and I feel I have really lost him for sure! I would have felt better if he had just said hi or hello!!! What do you want?

Libbie54 on September 22, 2019:

I am an Aries that had met this Scorpio man on a dating site and after a month and a half of texting, phone calls and Skype (still never meeting in person) we both confessed our love to each other. Then we had a misunderstanding because I questioned a situation that came up that caused him to abruptly shut down and then tell me there was too much drama and he loved me enough to walk away!!!

I am totally lost and not understanding what went wrong.. I really do care about him and want to be with him!

Is he gone for good, or will he ever get back in touch? What should I do??

Kylie on September 22, 2019:

My scorpio man says he wants he doesn't want to lose the relationship we've started, but his life is complicated right now and he doesn't want to get anymore serious. We are good together and everything he says is true. I truly would be ok with taking it slow to be with him. I've never been in a relationship like this, should I continue to enjoy it as is or move on?

Geeta on September 17, 2019:

I was in a relationship with this guy an we had an arguement stop talking for about three months i still text hime an he text me also i want to no if he still loves me

Geminigirl on September 04, 2019:

Im a Gemini girl dating a Scorpio man

I can definitely say yes he is possessive at times and jealous. And it is true when he has a new job or somthing hes focusing on he acts distant but its because he has a hard time balancing things but he always reassures me that he loves me and is just busy with things. And yes he is a very very loyal person we've been together for a year now but since he met me he told me he would marry me in the future. I do believe scorpios go all in when they are in love me and him have gone through so much in our relationship and no matter what he has never gave up on us . It's definitely been worth the ride.

Scorpio person on August 25, 2019:

I’m a Scorpio person, and I can say, it’s not just males, that stuff is true with girls and in-betweens like me. Like the stuff about being afraid to commit, very true. But don’t harsh on us, not all of us like that.

Aquarius woman on August 22, 2019:

I think that everything is about scorpio ego. Loves any scorpio man without manipulation, mind games, tests, jealousy etc ? this is not love. I think that scorpio love only himself. It's just about the partner's pain. Only their needs are paramount or I´m wrong ? The attraction is great but everything else is very bad.

Knows another sign non- verbal communicate with scorpio too?

Pramila on August 12, 2019:

When he like . He is scorpioThis time i will be like this moment it going on.suddently he make girlfriend with my friend. Today also i like him but what to do

Gemini Chic on July 21, 2019:

Hello, I'm the unusual and rare gemini girl that's in love with a scorpio man. I can vouch 100% for what was written all above. I've been in a relationship with my scorpio man for nearly 5 years now. We're a young couple, met in high school and still ongoing in college. We did break up once over conflict within our relationship but we never really stopped contact and was on and off for a bit until we decided ultimately to stay together. I can say for sure that the relationship itself was a roller coaster of a ride and emotions. It took us a very long time to manage our differences since scorpio and gemini are complete opposites. He was a distant one and wasn't very good at expressing love. The beginning of the relationship (nearly 2 years) he never showed signs as if he was in love but now (almost 5 years) hes lovestruck with me and is improving in expressing his affection. It takes a lot of time and dedication to get this far with a scorpio man and yes, he occasionally has his sulking moments in which I have to sit down and listen to him but the relationship and journey was so worth it in the end :)

Pisces girl on July 06, 2019:


From what I was reading I just feel We are all dating the same guy

Shalise on June 15, 2019:

I been dating a scorpio for 2 1/2 yrs it finally got to where he tells me he loves me and shows it i had to be patient wit him because i had to sit back and learn the type of person he is im an aquarius and im easily to fall in love but wont tell the person but ill show it but dealing wit him it took me a short time to tell him i love him and he never said it back until now and when he do he say it wit passion by looking into my eyes and tell me im his and that im not going anywhere he says im the best he ever had it took him a while to talk to me about what was on his mind but now he tells me everything now, he's making plans to take me on trips and even talking about moving in with each other i have my own place and he has his and i even have the key to his apartment we never fussed nor argued we may had a disagreement but it never lasted 3min because we both came to an agreement but the key to being with a scorpio is to sit back and be patient and yes they r loyal ppl once they fall in love wit u trust me i know be we came a long way hopefully one itll be wedding bells

Pisces Sunflower on June 04, 2019:

Everything I have read here is extremely accurate about scorpios! My bff male is a Scorpio, and he and I have always had feelings for each other. He admitted to me about a month ago that he has loved me since he met me (15 years ago). The issue is that he is in a cruddy relationship and he’s actually leaving her. I know, that’s always what they say but he really is trying to move to the state I live in and has been actively calling mutual contacts of ours for a position. My issue is that I have given so much time to him, and boosted him up when he is down (his relationship and he was also out of work for awhile injured), that I am running low on empathy. He doesn’t share info with me, and vanishes when he is upset. Very normal, but he does t even call me anymore. With him wanting to move back and stay with me, I asked him if he would at least meet me somewhere and talk about things so we are on the same page. He avoided that. He always avoids things such as meeting up. It drives me bonkers!! My guess is because it means he isn’t in control and I am the one asking for him to do something. He does say, “oh meeting there is great, we will!!” Or, “I do want to see you and I will meet you!” I’ve been waiting... for so long. I’ve seen other guys and never told him but I just can’t wait around. Now though, with him wanting to move back I feel like my life is on pause. But will this Scorpio really finally commit to something and make a move or stay and be miserable with his gf ??

Arathy on June 02, 2019:

I am pisces woman. I am in love with scorpio man who is just consider me as friend. I told him i love him openly. But he said his is not interseted in love. First i though he have failed relationship because of that he is not ready to love someone again. After 2 months of that he kissed me and we had sex too. I cant resist him i love him so deeply. But still he not yet said he loves me. He is very open with he shares his all personal problem. But whenever i asked about him what is our relationship he will say he dont know. He always give me mixed signals. Once he said he dont wanna lose me in his life. Whether he loves me or not..?

Anonymous on May 11, 2019:

Acc to vedic astrology scorpio sunsign is for people born between 15 November to 15 December

VirgoTroy on May 06, 2019:

So, I'm not like most people in these comments...I'm a Virgo male with a scorpio male coworker who seems to be slowly trying to insert himself in my life...not that I'm complaining. We're both somewhat "shy"...although i prefer to call it socially selective. LOL. And people at work have called us both mysterious because we're both intensely private and we both seem to be masters at observation and perception. A lot of people seem to come to us both for advice and comfort but we do have some differences. See, I occasionally joke around with my coworkers but true to my "virginal" sun sign, I am very modest publicly when it comes to sex- so much so that people often call me innocent which amuses people who know me personally because I have a very...wicked...sense of humor and a very active sex drive - both of which I conceal expertly. However, my Scorpio friend seems to be interested in trying to figure me out and it's alarming because most people usually find that a task too difficult to maintain. I don't make it easy to get to know me and I am working extra hard to keep up my protective walls but he has been making it seems like the more we talk to each other the more interested we become in each other. Like recently we were having a conversation about a show we both like involving witches and he mentioned a theoretical interest in dark magic which led to me revealing my interest in light magic and we had this funny little debate about our differences which somehow led to a conversation about his dreams. I happen to be quite good at reading people's dreams and told him to test me. He gave me a phony dream at first which I quickly detected and called him out on. That seemed to impress him and resulted in him telling me about a nightmare he had been having. I told him what I thought the dream meant and he got very quiet and started staring at me throughout the day. Well it's been weeks since then and he seems to be determined to get closer to on a personal level. He has asked me out several times and has continued to watch me like a hawk. Strangely, my cousin recently told me that he had reached out to her on facebook which may be coincidental and he seems to be increasingly protective of me. He showed a surprisingly hot temper yesterday when one of our coworkers was caught gossiping about me and he made a scene, calling the guy out on it....i also have received flowers at my apt with no card but i have a strong suspicion they're from this the behavior of a Scorpio who is playing games he interested?

LikoPiko on May 03, 2019:

I am an aries/virgo rising f who has fairly recently (a few months) been in a relationship with a scorpio m (much younger than me). He showers me with compliments and support and love and constantly says he wants to be with me forever. Atm we both feel so loved and hopeful, as well as nervous because of it. He wants badly to have kids. In our early conversations, he says he tested me constantly and I “broke down every wall I had”... but I hardly noticed, it's how I am, I was just being honest. I do see the jealousy already, he's quick to feel something is off and will ask me about it immediately, like an interrogation, lol.. I appreciate this, though. I am a fan of directness and brutal honesty and for me, right now, these are desirable traits. I do worry about future perceived betrayals as I am extremely open and loving and have built a village out of my many different kinds of friends (who are also protective of me). I know this could/will lead to suspicion/fighting. I don't think I’d be happy if I agreed to change that about me; I love my village, their hugs and our deep conversations and I've been pretty happy alone for a while now. My last relationship with a Scorpio did NOT go well, he treated our life like a revolving door - coming and going as he pleased, constant break-ups (about 20 in our last year and a half). After one of our blowouts/breakups, I slept with someone else. I needed to break away from him and the cycle that was killing me, so I did it. He’d come around to try and get back together and we never did but we ended up sleeping together once when I was drunk on my birthday. I ended up pregnant and he refused to have the baby or try to make things work. I had the abortion about a week after I lost my grandmother/neighbor/best friend (who I had taken care of for 13 years). I was injured by the abortion procedure, grieving my baby and my grandma and he decided two days later, he wanted me back and now was the time to pressure me. I was completely heartbroken and just couldn’t forgive him, I couldn't believe he waited until baby was gone to say this. Eventually he searched my phone for proof that I was talking to other people and proceeded to flat my tire, break the mirror off my car, throw mattresses onto my lawn... ended up choking me in the driveway when I demanded an explanation. He always refused to talk about our future but strung me along anyway, I literally hated him for this and he hated me too. Anyway, I’m a little traumatized and nervous to fall for a Scorpio again - that sting is not a joke. I just would rather be alone than in shallow relationships and I am drawn to the deep attractive love, empathy, understanding and honesty I feel from Scorpios. This new guy seems to know exactly what he wants, he won’t stop talking about our future, the way that our life will look and the way he wants to raise our kids… He was pretty inconsistent with returning texts etc. which was disheartening but I always stayed secure and positive. I expressed to him once that it sometimes makes me feel ignored when he does that, he said that hearing that really hurt him and he will do better… ever since, he has been more responsive. I am truly amazed as I don’t think he was doing it intentionally but he was able to immediately adapt to my needs anyway. It made my heart just ache, the way that he wants to understand me, actually listens and makes taking care of my heart a priority. I'm excited and deeply attracted to him on so many levels, he's everything I could want, such a beautiful soul. I believe him and I believe in him, but he’s so young (we’re 13 years apart), and I don’t know if that is a good thing, or bad - all I know is that I'm in for a ride. I guess my thoughts at the moment are: 1) The possessiveness: We both are. I am by nature rather submissive for an Aries and love to belong to someone and also want to have them belong to only me.. but I’m rather hard to control when I feel ignored (trust issues are a problem for both of us, I guess). I want to work through that for myself also and do think I could use more structure in my life.. so I’m not as worried as I maybe should be. 2) I believe that all relationships struggle with jealousy, I definitely get jealous when in love. I know this will be a sticking point for us but he constantly tells me that if we can be honest and and look at things from both sides that we can work through anything. I don't seem to translate anything he's saying into a red flag... am I just being blinded by the excitement? Anyway thanks, I usually don’t share with strangers like this but I’m kind of needing to think out loud anyway and could use the feedback. Thanks for letting me vent here.

Bee on April 27, 2019:

I am a capricorn woman. I have been in a on and off relationship with a scorpio man. We broke up and got back together three times. I never dated scorpio men before and didn't know they were hot all over you then became cold and distant. It was hard on me. No calls and barely texts. We have a great physical attraction. It's unbelievable how we feel every time we see each other. I decided to move on and never saw or got in touch with him for a year. I thought i was done until i bumped into him at a store where he was working at that day. At first he felt uncomfotable, i said hi and we talked like like forever. He kept texting me and wanted us to get back together again. He promised he will do his best to make it work because he missed me. After a lot of thoughts, we git back together for seven months now. The attraction is still there but he's always busy working he said, we can't see each other often. Someone said to me once that he is my soul mate. When i asked him if he has seen someone else he said no. I love him but how can i get him to commit? He is not a man of words. I need to communicate with him. He gets mad and defensive when i talk to him about things. It's like i don't know where i stand with him. Don't want to waist my time. Is he in it for sex only? Should i give more times? Thanks!

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on April 08, 2019:

Aquarius: I highly doubt that he loves you. A Scorpio can never love you on the first day. Let him chase you a little and see if he still likes you.

Aquarius on April 07, 2019:

A Scorpio man just recently approached me and the first day he tells me that he is in love and wants to be in a relationship with me. What should I do?

KC on March 21, 2019:

How does a Scorpio walk away from a marriage & children - ignore for 17/18years & hurt his own children Also preferring contact with his now adult children one over another when he actually knows neither. ? That I think is cruel

BBPWdeana67 on March 09, 2019:

I am a 52 year old Pisces woman who has had a male Scorpio admirer since we were 12 years old. He pursude me heavily in high school, but because my best friend was in love with him, I never would seriously date him.

Fast forward 40 years- my best friend is deceased. I’ve been married and divorced 3 times! He has been married, unhappily for 27 year. He has admitted he has cheated 3 times already in his marriage. The first time was a month after he married!

My last marriage ended last fall. Once Scorpio found out, he started pursuing me heavily again. This time I did not say no. To be honest, I wish I had said yes years ago. I have been surprised at how intense our relationship is.

I want to know- why is he so intensely attracted to me? I love him and don’t want to hurt him, but I also do not want to be hurt. I don’t know where this relationship will go.

Can you explain why he’s never let me go? And what he wants in a relationship from me.

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on March 06, 2019:

It does look like he loves you. I think it is only a matter of time before he commits.

Curious on March 06, 2019:

What does it mean when a scorpio guy just wants you to hold them. It has happened twice and the last time he just layed on me naked. Just holding me, then repositioned to lay on my chest. Yes, we've dated and it's been a weird rollercoaster, but he won't let me go. He turns into mush when I'm near him. However, he battles with committing. I give him space, he just doesn't let me go too far. Does he love me?

Rose on February 16, 2019:

this scorpio who once worked with me cared such as helping me couple of time in difficult situation subtly,asked whether i was okay or not, etc.He was possessive like i remember out of nowhere he popped up and asked “who did you whatsapp?” i was like (inside) damn dude aren’t you a psycho ? lol. second,i was shocked when he was blocking a guy who i offered to sit next to me.I started to fall for him, but i also started to act like a teenage girl&a bit annoying once (i wasn’t like this before),then i sensed the change in his behaviour. Could it be that he was genuinely liking me but then something in my action changed him ?

Veronica on February 08, 2019:

My best friend and my boyfriend both are scorpions, couple of weeks ago my best friend confess his feelings for me and he also forces me what i feel for him, so i also confess him that i do feel for him but i also cleared him that i am commited to my boyfriend, and do not want to break his trust. As me and my bofriend have some issues in our life so we had decided earlier that will focus on our carrier first and that is why we are treating each other as a good friend and not as a gf and bf from past 2 years.and my best friend knows all this and now has devloped more feelings for me but he always assured me that he is happy for me and my bf. But i am very worried about my best friend as i do not want to hurt him as he is falling so hard for me because i can see that but he always ask me to chill and say such things that his feelings will not affect my life. But as a best friend i am very worried about him. Now what to do ?

Lucy on January 15, 2019:

I’m a Taurus woman engaged to a Scorpio man, he tells me constantly he loves me so much me and the children are his world he treats me like a queen, only prob is he gets really jealous over nothing and is a bit possessive, do you think this will fade? The longer we’re together the worse it gets

Bobby on December 06, 2018:

I'm a gemini woman in a physical relationship with a much younger Scorpio man. He chased me for a while telling me how beautiful I am, that he loves me, wants to marry me, live with me. I kept him at a distance only because of the age difference and afraid of getting hurt and rejection. Gemini's don't love easy but when we do, we do hard. Now that I have decided to let that go and excepted him in, he comes over often but stopped telling me all those wonderful things. Im the one going out of my way to please him. Now I'm not sure where I stand. I was scared to let him in and I have fallen for him I am scared to lose him. How should I approach this?

Cancerian on October 06, 2018:

Hi, I'm a Cancerian married woman who has been friends with a married Scorpion man for a long time. There was always an attraction between us but we never made much of it for obvious reasons. Now the scorpion man is coming on to me very strongly. I am enjoying his attention but I don't know what to make if it. Is he just doing it for fun or does he really like me considering he is married and I'm sure he must have thought through about everything before making a move on me. Please help.

Genie on October 01, 2018:

Im dating a scorpio man for almost a year and currently in a break term because we currently facing problems with ourselves. The relationship status in our social media remain the same, he still post my initial in his bio. Do you think he still have feelings left for me? How to know if Scorpio man still love you? Thanks

Chas on September 24, 2018:

He did say he needed time, he only will communicate through text or phone. Not in person, unless it has to do with “closure”. I told him it’s effecting me by not seeing him cause I still love him. He kept saying he will miss me and always love me. Do you think within time with our bond of 10 mo. compared to his ex wife of 30 yrs will give “us” a 2nd chance?

Bree on August 19, 2018:

I have been dating my scorpions for almost a year an I don’t know if he loves me it’s been on and off and at this point

Idk anymore I just wanna give up I’m an Aries and I’m getting

Fed up wat should I do

Pooja on August 11, 2018:

Hi Karthik. Thank you for writing this post. It has been helpful . I have started to like a Scorpio guy and I am an Aquarian . I really wish to know him more and spend some quality time with him to see if we can be more than just friends. I want to ask him out on a date( it can also be a friendly one but I want him to know me well) . I don’t know if he is shy or he is not interested in talking to me but I want to try once . Can you give me some idea about where I can go on a date with him? What kind of activities does a Scorpio guy enjoy doing? What’s an ideal date with a Scorpio guy like? Waiting for your reply ! Thanks again

Libra on July 11, 2018:

Been dating a scorpio man. Has been very intense. He told me he loved me at the beginning and said he was holsing back words because it was too soon. Eventually told me he loved after about 2 months when i said it. Im a libra woman.

Je has a libra ex that i felt he needed to cut ties with so i broke up with him. The first time he just came back. 2nd time he let me go but has simply not spoken to me at all. Not sure if he has accepted we are over or not. I did send him texts after however just apologizing for how i handled things. I do feel i could have been morr patient or just spoken to him but i felt he was being dismissive when i tried to so i jumped into the conclusion pool and made a choice.

I'm now here wondering if he truly has let me go or he's thinking.

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on June 17, 2018:

@Lisa: Thanks a lot for your comment Lisa. It adds much value to the article and answers some of the common questions many people have.

Lisa from Florida on June 15, 2018:

Interesting reads on Scorpio men! I will add my two cents...

I am a Pisces woman, married to a Scorpio man. Much of what people have written here about Scorpio men is so true, such as they are intense, passionate, mysterious, observant, quiet at times, and revengeful! Jealousy and possessiveness is part of their makeup, and some Scorpio men are not controlling with it, like my hubby. They can be manipulative as well.

One of the things I have read from women in this thread is they ask questions such as, "does my Scorpio man love me? How do I know if he does? Should I contact him when he hasn't talked to me in awhile?"

First of all, you will definitely know if your Scorpio guy loves you! There is no question of it. Even if he does not "tell" you verbally, you will feel it intensely. Scorpio men feel with such passion and intensity, you can pick up on their emotions just by being in the same room with them. They can be standing there with a poker face, but emitting powerful emotions, you cannot help but pick up on them! This is negative as well as positive emotions.

Many Scorpios show their love with their actions/behavior. My hubby has a cancer moon, and he is always taking care of me and doing things for me. He goes grocery shopping for me, does the dishes because he knows I don't like to do them, will do laundry and other household chores, will go to the store and pick up something for me at the drop of a hat, give me back rubs, basically do anything in the world for me. When I am sick, he makes me homemade chicken noodle soup, cups of hot tea, and brings me blankets and pillows in my recliner so I am comfortable. What more can you ask for? I am a lucky woman! He is also much younger than I am!

In regard to calling a Scorpio man if he has not contacted you in awhile: one of the posts was from a Scorpio man who stated sometimes they withdraw to think things through, to decide if the woman is their "soulmate," or the one they want to be with the rest of their lives. If your Scorpio man withdraws, leave him alone!! One of the things they cannot stand is to be bothered when they are off to themselves. Many Scorpio's are introverts, and need their quiet time, time for self-reflection, and to "energize" their internal batteries so to speak. Or, to think about that "special" woman. If you continually call them or bother them, that is a sure fire way to run him off! Scorpio's like mystery, and allure. They do not like being chased. If you chase them, it is a turn off! Believe me, if he is interested in you, he WILL call you!

If a Scorpio man is interested in you, likes you, or loves you, he can be downright stalkerish! When my hubby and I first moved in together before we got married, and even after we got married, he was around me ALL the time! I am introverted myself, and need time to be alone. His clingy behavior was driving me nuts!! We finally had to discuss this, and once I told him how I felt about his constant hovering, he stopped doing it so much.

Another post I read discussed how Scorpio's are ALWAYS observing you! SO TRUE!!!! My hubby was always watching me, observing me, taking mental notes! It was a little unnerving at first, and I finally asked him why he was doing it. He told me he was learning everything about me, so he could take care of me, give me things I needed and wanted without me having to ask him! Like how I took my coffee for example. Or what my favorite food is. So thoughtful!!

Now, Scorpios are NOT perfect! He can be "mean" like someone else posted, and this is only when he has his feelings hurt. SUPER sensitive! I thought I was sensitive! He is more so than I am, and Pisces are very sensitive! What I mean by "mean," is he will tease me because he knows I don't like it. Stuff like that. It won't last long, but he will get back at me. There is that revengeful streak lol.

However, he is loyal, loving, and would die for me, this I know to be true. For example, we play World of Warcraft, and if anyone bothers me in game, he does not tell me anything, but he will drop what he is doing and take his character to find the character that bothered me, and do something to that character! Very protective of me.

So, if you want a loyal, loving, caring, knight in shining armor, who has a "few" very few, faults, but so minor you don't even notice, then the Scorpio Man is the one for you!!

I hope this has helped clarify some points related to the Scorpio man!

Xotic70 on June 14, 2018:

So my question to you JLewis110 why is it so difficult for a Scorpio to be upfront and honest like a mature adult and ask for his space if he needs it? Rather than do the abrupt disappearing act to his man cave. To me that's not being mysterious that's just not being disrespectful of the other person, not being mature enough and a lack of integrity as in my case I was told by text he was going overseas and wasn't told where to, when asked and yet a common friend knew where to as the person is also a client of his. So why the half arsed info like they were doing us a favour? If a person cannot be upfront and honest about their whereabouts how come they have the audacity to expect integrity from the other person. I'm sorry but this bull about being super sensitive yet being insensitive to the other person's feelings is down right narcissistic. I have just given my scorpion a taste of his own medicine. Gone silent on him after his resurrection from his man cave. Love is not love if one needs to control and orchestrate a relationship to one's insecurities and one's selfish needs of downtime.

JLewis110 on June 14, 2018:

Everyone that has questions about Scorpio men should take a real long look at what LadyBull67 posted 7 weeks ago. She was "nail on the head" accurate. I'm a mature Scorpio in every sense of the word and have enjoyed reading these posts. For all of you ladies that are having a difficult time "reading or understanding" the Scorpio men that you're dating or seeing.. the secret is stop trying. You simply won't. I say this not to be sarcastic, but rather to be encouraging. Scorpio men will recess (take a break from whatever the situation is.. with whoever we're having the situation with) without giving any indication whatsoever to the fact that we're now in recess. We will crawl into our cave/shell/space to wait and observe, think it thru, or ponder on the situation at the drop of a hat with no regard at all to what others feel or think. It may seem cruel, unfair, childish, selfish, or even a bit disturbing on some level. However, it makes no difference to us how anyone else perceives this need that we have. We don't do it appease anyone. We do it to get clarity and to make sense of things as well as to evaluate where WE want the situation to go from there. If someone's feelings are hurt by this or if it leaves a sense of uncertainty as to where things might be with "your situation" involving that particular Scorpio, don't let it bother you. Don't dwell on it. Ignore it and leave it ALONE. Most importantly though.. whatever you do (trust me on this...), DO NOT CALL, TEXT, OR WORRY HIM TIME AND TIME AGAIN ABOUT IT. It will only make matters worse "IF" he's not already crazy insanely in love with you. Contacting during this recess is always a chance with us though because that may be the very reason why we recessed in the first place. To consider where things are "with YOU" and if we are absolutely, positively, sure about "OUR" feelings FOR you and... if we are ready to commit to YOU and ONLY YOU for the long haul. This is one of the most important decisions that a scorpio man will make in his lifetime because once he does commit, then his sights are now on you and you will have his complete love, devotion, and loyalty from the moment he comes out of "his cave". If you do bother him during his "recess", and he's not decided, unsure, or not yet aware that YOU are the ONE for HIM? Then you risk losing him by pressuring him to hurry in his decision making process. And this is something that Scorpio men simply don't do for ANYONE. Unless... he HAS made up his mind about you or.. he IS finally aware of his being in love with you or.. fear of "losing YOUR interest" sets in when he sees you "bothering him" about not hearing from him and having to put up with his silent treatment. Now pay close attention cause here's the tricky part. IF he suddenly starts talking again in any way that's not allowing you to see his face or hear his voice, then he's still unsure and he's just trying to keep you on his string until he decides what he really wants to do with you. In other words, YOU still have a chance. But... if he knows he wants a future with you and realizes he has to have you, then your repeated attempts to contact and "plead your case" with him will urge him to come out of his cave and "claim you" and that will be that. You have shown him that you need him and that you're scared of losing him which is huge in our world because EVERY Scorpio man MUST BE "NEEDED". And by your admittance to having HIM on your mind, in a sort of twisted way but not so much to us... It shows a sign that we might be able to trust you to not just BE ours. But REMAIN ours. To not stray or flirt or tease or anything that resembles giving ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING ON THIS PLANET OR IN THIS GALAXY "ANY" indication that they have ANY type of possibility or chance being with you. YOU ARE MINE AND MINE "ALONE" is the thought that will be in his head and the one message that YOU need to show that you understand. He will be your dream come true if you show him that you see and desire NOBODY but him. If he comes out of that cave with his mind, sights, and attention fixated on YOU??? Then beware and tread very carefully because you have just hit the jackpot of jackpots. You... Have won the undying devotion, love, affection, attention, and protection of a Scorpio man. And that is not something to take lightly. You can enjoy all the benefits as well you should. But know this. Until this man matures in his other aspects of our trait, EVERYTHING YOU DO will be quietly and meticulously observed. You may never see it or even believe that he's taking notice of EVERY SINGLE MOVE YOU MAKE. I know this sounds stalkerish but it's not and here's why. If "this" man above all other men, who knows that he is the master of seduction/a king of intimacy/and a ruler in the art of pleasuring his mate while showing her the meaning of what true love "feels like emotionally" has made you his center of attention... then he's making very sure that YOU don't screw it up by doing something that causes him to regret giving you something that you don't deserve... the heart of a scorpion king. It took him many moons to finally get here. Many people tried and failed with him. And now, finally, at last he has decided to "give you your chance" to be lavished with his care, love, and loyal devotion. Everyone and everything was just a lesson, practice, or experiences while growing and eventually maturing in his Scorpion while observing and taking notes and prepping for his queen to be. If you're currently on the way to the chapel or maybe you've surpassed that milestone and now experiencing what it's like to be with your Scorpio, don't mess it up! There will be times you don't understand him and you have to be ok with that. You already knew he has a stinger and.. for very good reason. Up until this point, you have survived and not had to deal with the look that he gives when he raises it to remind you it's there. Every once in a while you might get pinched by his claws. Accept it and only retaliate by listening to him and HEAR HIM OUT. Don't add "your meanings" to what he says. Take in "every word" and accept what he's saying. It's only because he loves you that he's even bothering to take the time to talk to you about whatever the case may be. Survive this encounter by listening attentively. And only respond in a mildly mannered voice by saying "so what I hear you saying is....". If you understand what he said, he'll confirm. Then rationally and calmly ask questions to make your point but don't stop until he tells you he understands what YOU'RE saying too and you've made a mutual agreement and problem is now resolved. If you argue alot, you're eventually going to lose him. We know we can overpower and win ANY argument which is why we choose not to. It's simply not worth the time, energy, and effort. So we don't "show" our power and strength by arguing. We demonstrate it quietly thru our eyes. For this very reason, (a huge inside secret) we are insanely jealous. Here's why. Scorps know that we can seduce anyone rather easily. It's just a fact. It matters not if you disagree. Some think they will never_______. But then they meet a Scorpio. End of story. Of course there are a few that just "won't". But not many can endure the lure of a Scorpio. Therefore, we aren't jealous of just "anybody". We know there's no one in our league. The problem is however.. we know there are other Scorpios out there. With the same qualities and the same passions as our own. So when we're making sure that "all is well" in our relationship, it's really just making sure no other scorpions have been near our territory. For those unfortunate women who thought they could cheat with another Scorpio, then not only will you lose the one you have but it's just a matter of time before you lose the one you were with because absolutely NO Scorpio wants to be with a woman that cheated "with them". They already know they can't trust you so they're not going to "give" what they know you don't deserve. And if he's giving you mixed signals and you're not married.. then stop contacting him asap. Move on. If he wants you, he'll come and get you.

AP on May 26, 2018:

Dating a Scorpio male

Q on May 17, 2018:

So I was dating a Scorpio and at first he was so sweet and then I found out that he was lying to me about having a girlfriend shortly after that there was drama even after the fact we still saw each other we never express our feelings for one another but I felt that we really cared about each other he started to come around more and I felt like he wasn’t being 100% honest so I went through his phone and we had a falling out we didn’t speak to each other for two weeks so I decided to reach out to him and when I did he just messaged me and started saying he was done with me to leave him alone and all sorts of hurtful things Basically speaking to me like he hated me but now for some reason he pops up at my house unknown asking to see my daughter he does he probably twice a week I’m confused if he hates me so much why she still coming around it’s not his daughter she’s mine

Fedorahatsrock on May 07, 2018:


If you’re always one step ahead how did you not see the signs that your Scorpio was bailing.

Changing numbers is not a game btw. It’s a real indication that’s he’s serious about ridding himself of the chaos and confusion you create and think is normal.

Get some help doll.

LadyBull67 on April 24, 2018:

Sorry! They can mess up a good thing by testing. If things are going well, Mr Scorp, go with the flow. If you're feeling it, you're feeling it, then evolve to the next stage.* Scorpio men are not to be toyed with. They are RUTHLESS if crossed and will come for you with no mercy in mind.* They are extremely sensitive because they love deep with intensity and passion. They don't run at the first sign of trouble but if their ego is bruised, they will retreat and take a breather. Believe it or not, after self reflection, they will adjust to fix a wrong on their behalf in your favor, IF THEY CARE. So if they disappear for a while, they are thinking.* They may not be quick to engage emotionally but if they're interested, you have no doubt about it.*My experience as an older taurus woman is with a younger scorpio man and our relationship is challenging. We are coworkers. He is MUCH younger but he is VERY possessive of me and will go into a jealous fit if he see me interacting with male colleagues. This is a platonic relationship with an emotional bond. We don't date. How I got here, hell if I know! Regardless, he moved so quick, I couldn't respond. So.he showed me he liked me. I don't mind the possessiveness but those jealous fits are legendary and our fights are epic because of it. This young man has shown me the power of love and passion, being fearless of emotional depth and fighting for what he wants without shame. Competition is his thing. But, scorpio man take note- men roam earth. If you are as good as this man, know your woman, if she is worthy, can engage and is quite content with you and will say so. She isn't looking. Be confident in knowing your love is so powerful, you need not worry about loss to another man. To yourself, maybe but not to another man. If she isn't for you, you won't waste your time.* Ladies, if he has a thing for you, he won't let go easily and you will miss him. What I've discovered is we grow. We learn each other. I don't know we'll survive but I know I am grateful for this experience and know how to be in a relationship. He is selfless and has taught me the give and take a relationship requires. I love his beauty, his passion and his heart.* Good luck out there!

LadyBull67 on April 24, 2018:

Scorpio men are amazing. They are complex, mysterious, intelligent and extremely sensitive. When they give, they give with passion. However, if they are crossed, their wrath is a brutal, non-stop encounter. *I have found scorpio men to really take their time once they have decided to pursue. They do, indeed, work in stages.* They are subject to quick and deep emotional attatchment and being the alpha of stubbornness, they do hold on. Perhaps the Taurus is the rival for such determination!* They do test and play games and it can mess.up a good thong

AprilBullgirl on April 24, 2018:

Aqua girl, it's been six weeks since this post so I may be Johnnie Come Lately.* He needs his space. You got drunk and caused chaos. Scorp men are extremely deep thinkers, intense and emotional. Depending on what you said and considering you two don't live together, he may be pondering. *Scorps require space and sometimes for lengthy periods. It does cause confusion. But the more you contact him, the more he will push away. Love him enough to leave him be and don't force the issue. In the meantime, know you are a process. He will test you and toss a game at you. He is a SHREWD but great teacher. So, if he has returned, learn your lesson to hold your liquor. Also know, they don't run at the first sign of trouble. And PAY ATTENTION. Good luck!

Anonymous on April 08, 2018:

I have been reunited with a scorpio man after 15 years . He was my 2nd sexual boyfriend, but hes married to a taurus woman and we have reconnected, emotionally, physocally and he makes me feel better than any other man. Oh and i just got out a 15 year relationship with 2 children. Idk???? What the hell to do? We both exspressed our live but i dont want to burden him, becuase im the single one mot him, so i feel bad even with him being in a relationship, wjat should i do?

Brandon on March 14, 2018:

Your correct about all of that but my thing is how can a Scorpio knows when he is in love with only one person I'm a male Scorpio and i was really wanting to know how to truly love only one person

Aqua girl on March 12, 2018:


Hello, your post on aquarius and scorpio pairing is mind glowingly correct. I am an aqua girl and madly in love my scorpio man. We started of in a long distance relationship since 5 months and he had declared his love for me. extremely caring .. possessive and everything. even talking about our future. He came to see me recently and we got into a fight coz i was a bit drunk. he has been really upset about that for a month now. He was still talking to me calling me responding but not showing the same love. 2 weeks back he cut my phone abruptly and I thought he is again upset about something so I got bit obsessed and kept calling him, asking him to forgive me and stop being so cold to me. He said he is sick and can't talk. since then he is not responding to my calls or text. If i msg about something else he responds but otherwise nothing. once he did call me when i asked him i am breaking apart and i need someone to share then he just listened to me and said nothing. I dont know what to do? its been so long now.. i asked him if he wants to leave me then just tell me but still no response. Please help! I have never faced such behaviour and it is affecting me emotionally, mentally and physically! No communication makes me crazy and makes me take wrong decisions.

rainstik on February 27, 2018:

I'm a Scorpio girl and one of my closest friends is a Scorpio boy. I can't tell if I'm feeling a romantic sense of "love" or just a really strong familial bond.

Anika11 on February 23, 2018:

I am an aquarius girl who met a Scorpio guy on social media about 10 months ago..I was instantly attracted towards him and within a few months we starting flirting n stuff..we made a plan to meet but he never turned up and said it happened due to miscommunication..after which he said that he wants to have sex with me..I asked him for committment for which he said let’s go with the flow and see how things work out..we have never met till now but on an emotional level we know everything about each other and he tells me about his whereabouts and discusses everything with me..If I don’t talk to him for 1-2 days then he will ping himself..I don’t know if he has feelings for me..if yes, then what is the harm in expressing those and even if it is a no then also he should clearly tell that to me..or is he simply interested to have sex with me so he is keeping me hanging??

P on February 15, 2018:

I am a leo woman dating a scorpio man, we were best friends at first, eventually fell in love, he is so sweet and mysterious, I cant help but treat him like a prince, he is the light of my life, we fight, yes... But our relationship gets stronger everyday, and we are the best team ever, we almost read each others minds.. I am devoted to him! Cheers for Scorpios!

Iqra Faiz on February 02, 2018:

i have been dating a scorpio man last 3 yEars Now he behave like he don’t love me i don’t khw what i do but i love him sooo much

ash on January 31, 2018:

i have been dating ga scorpion man from last 4 years now , eventually he said yes for marriage our family got evolved but at the end he back out and now he is saying taht hes scared to get married we both our in living relationship id ont knw what should i do tried to speak to him but no reply i knw he loves me but scared to get married

AlphaOmegaVirgo on January 25, 2018:

I seem to attract some Scorpios. I've grown to recognize that gaze from a distance some of them are known for. But the timing is usually always wrong when we are in proximity. Also, they always seem to be scared to approach me, but not scared to stare. I never got that lol.

Mitzi. You're a Virgo. Act like it. Directness and candid is part of our sign. Scorpios seem to like our candidness. Also, you must have some other signs dominant in your chart bc Virgos aren't normally so perplexed.

Undercover Agent. You're a sidechick.. That's very unusual for a Virgo as well lol. That is definitely your Scopio Moon that is allowing you to do that, but I'm sure your Virgo conscience at times f u c k with you lol.

Undercover agent on January 20, 2018:

I love to read about Scorpios because... don't judge me, I've become involved with a triple Scorp in a mutual, for sex only, relationship because we have a similar unconventional sex style. He's in a sexless marriage.. no sex for a year; and my partner passed away fairly recently. However, it seems to become a rather pivotal part of our lives. His wife of 30 years is a Taurus. I often wonder how what will become of us. Me Venus is in Scorp/moon in Leo, but I'm a Virgo.

Jax on January 04, 2018:

I’ve been seeing (now living with) a Scorpio man for a little over six months now. Both of us were going therw divorces when we met his is now final (and was amicable) mine has been in the works longer and still isn’t now over (and very nasty). I am a cancer Andy I have fallen completely in love with my Scorpio man. Last night I sat him down and expressed to him in a way I haven’t yet that I am here for him and no matter what he says to me about his thoughts or feelings I am here and will never judge, get angry or upset with him in anyway. I believe he now finally trully trusts me. After I told him this he got super emotional infront of me, i didn’t say a word I just held him. While we haven’t expressed love verbally I have felt from him and I’m mad more then sure he feels it from me. Both of our previous marriages were long term and it has been hard for both of us to get past that we aren’t married to those people anymore it’s been hard to connect sexually without feeling guilty. So my question to you is do I wait for him to say the three little words first and how do you have any advise on becoming more physical

mitzi on December 21, 2017:

I have just met a Scorpio man and I am a virgo. I am recently going through a break up and moving out of my ex house. I said I was going to my sisters to stay the night due to being in a hotel for a week I found out my ex was out of town so i just stayed there and did not tell him until he asked where I was. He know says I lied and he cant trust me. We have not even met just talked on the phone. What do I do?

Optimystic1 on November 21, 2017:

I've been seeing a scorpio man on and off since 2013. He is divorced and said his wife had an affair which has left a sting and is afraid of commitment. We have had crazy chemistry for four years and never tire of it - can't keep our hands off each other. I give him the space he needs but I can't only be so patient.

Jaela on November 21, 2017:

My relationship with the scorpion as a Sagittarius woman has been 12 years of ups and downs. Fire and explosions (in and out of the bedroom). Extreme passion, and extreme chaos. He sees my freedom loving attitude as wreckless (it’s not) and I see his pent up brooding as boring. We are divorced, but still in love, and can’t keep our hands off of each other. I think getting divorced made him want me more. He’s so confusing.

Jackie on November 06, 2017:

This is a scorpio man

Jb on October 10, 2017:

I dated a Scorpio man for two months we had such chemistry and were great together then he just said it was over he was too busy with work and family ... what's happened I miss him so much

Marissa on October 10, 2017:

Leo women dating a Scorpio man for 2yrs, I love this man with my everything sometimes he makes me so mad but then sweeps me off my feet. It’s a love/hate relationship.

zzzzz on October 03, 2017:

what do you mean when you say he will only commit adultery when he knows you are not the one?

Melissa on October 02, 2017:

I am a Scorpio woman who is dating a Scorpio man. Although our relationship is New, I so get him! It was love at first site! When we began to speak to each other we instantly bonded. I can say that we are both still feeling each other out in regards to trust but knowing myself once we establish this there will be nothing that will break our commitment. Our conversations and lack of them are truly heartfelt and I know I want to Marry this incredible man!! #Scorpiolove

Pink Pussycat on September 13, 2017:

Thank you very much. I'm dating a Scorpio man and what can I say the s*x is out of this world. I am Aquarius and few men have captivated me like he has. I am giving him space and my face says cool cucumber but inside i'm boiling and can't wait to see him again. Each time is so powerful. Quality over quantity..

M143 on August 22, 2017:

I need help. Ugh where do I begin... ok so I met this Scorpio ( didn't know until much later) and we are sort of dating. I don't know if I can call it that actually. I guess you can say the "interest" started a little over a year ago. This was very slow process which is fine with me since I deem my self a patient person. First things first, he is a bartender at this bar that I frequent. I took my friend (I use that term loosely) there for the first time for drinks and she immediately spotted him and practically fell to her knees at the sight of him. He was nothing more than a casual acquaintance and that time and I had no interest whatsoever in him. I will admit I did always find him attractive.

Anyway, she knew him all of 5 mins (not exaggerating) before she asked him what he was doing after he got off of work then he proceeded to invite the both of us to his place with his friend for a drink. I gracefully declined, she all to eagerly accepted. I went home, she left with them. naturally at some point during the night they slept together. She called me in the morning to tell me all about it and I listened intrigued, but not at all bothered. As I said before, I didn't like him in that way at that point. Now for some reason, right after they slept together he started showing a slight interest in me. That interest grew every time I went there and over time...She would be with me at times and he paid her no attention. Only me. He flirted with me in subtle ways right in front of her. Hugged me a little too tight for a min too long. The placement if his hands when he slipped them around my waste, the way he stared intensely at me and never turned away. As his interest built, mine did too and eventually we began sleeping with each other. This started about a year after their first encounter. Now we are in full swing and I'm not sure what to make of it. An entire year went by and we didn't see much of each other. I see him often now but he keeps telling me not to fall in love with him, because he doesn't want a relationship but then tells me he doesn't want me to sleep with anyone else. Tells me he wants me to get a tattoo of his name on my breast. While we are in the middle if having sex and outside of sex. He also said once during sex that it's an honor to be inside of me. When we do it, it's like he's making love to me.. it's breathtaking. He talks to me the entire time and I love it. He said just the other day that he loves to make love to me.. not just F**k me. To say the least I' am CONFUSED and don't know what to make of all of this. HELP!!

S on August 20, 2017:

The Scorpio guy I love has a girlfriend now because I told him 10 months ago that I loved someone else cuz he always wanted to go out with me but I didn't had much time so I lied to him, eventually he had a new girlfriend after 2 months so I saw that on my WhatsApp story which he posted and I told him that I would stay away from him as respect for his girl. We weren't actually going out but we had an intense love for each other for like 2/3 years. He asked if we could still be friends but I refused. Now, after 8 months someone added me on Snapchat. A fake account and he had a low score and I was sure that it was a fake account somehow I thought it was him cuz I didn't know if he was still with his girlfriend and he was the last guy I ever spoke to in that way. After that I added him on Snapchat (it was 3AM at night) but he didn't add me back so the next day I did the same thing and there happened a lot bc of this..: a unknown number started calling me..??? I had no idea who it could be and that person texted me like hey take your phone NOW. I was like who the hell is this? When I saw the profile picture it was his girlfriend and she was furious cuz I added him. After that I told her why and I apologized. But she also told me to not reply on him. Well he actually did text me with hey what did my gf say to you? I said nothing and he sended me "?" And I ignored again. Then again he asked if I could answer him and I said that I don't want to talk cuz I promised your gf. Later on I told him what happened that night and I said that he was the last guy I spoke to. He said this: "hey (name) I'm going to ask you something but please be honest" I said alright go on. He said: do you still have feelings for

Me? I said ... like what? He; everything I said no, I don't believe in love no more after you. And he was actually sad and he was still trxting me and his gf asked me if I could send the screenshots. I did it cuz she has the right, it's her boyfriend I mean.. but lately I've been thinking so much about him and this happens.. it's so weird and I can't even sleep or just concentrate on things cuz I keep thinking about what happened. By the way I'm an Aquarius

DianaCBR on August 14, 2017:

Dear "Confused Taurus", my name is Diana (Leo) and I am also a single mother in a "so called relationship" with a Scorpio man since 2013....Busy schedules both, different countries, he is divorced has one daughter ...and more. I see myself in everything you have written.... thank You very much!!! Diana

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Debbie dobson on June 28, 2017:

This Scorpio guy has been on my case two years .yelling shouting at me playing games, pranks,toying. Driving through my apts: complex.between bld:2-3 wish knew what it means.

ScorpioMaleTed from North Carolina, USA on June 19, 2017:

It seems that no matter the length of time since i last commented on this form; I still find myself visiting it at least once a month to see how everything is going. In a sense this blog has kind of kept me grounded in a manner of constant self discovery because no Scorpio Male, me included, really discovers something about themselves until it is put in words that enlighten our minds.

Being a Scorpio male and going through all the changes that I've gone through, I am not surprised to see that there are still a lot of people out there struggling to understand us.

I hope everyone keeps seeking ways to understand us and that they find the happiness we can bring.

Hope everyone gets good answers to their questions!

Robin on June 16, 2017:

My hubby is a scorpio sun with cancer rising venus in scorpio and jupiter in pisces. I am virgo sun with scorpio rising venus in leo saturn in cancer and jupiter in pisces.....Sooooooo much emotion here.Its like a deep passionate ocean...Deep and mysterious.....I love it...

Dani Alicia from Florence, SC on May 29, 2017:

I'm so confused by my scorpio guy! We met recently, and, i can't believe i'm going to say this, slept together the first night (i don't know what he did to me but it was like being caught in a hurricane)! I know how scorpios are--they are capable of leading women on. But he texts me CONSTANTLY and wants to buy me things all the time and do chores for me in my home like take out the trash. So I flat out asked him his intentions and he told me that he isn't looking for a relationship right now. I respected him being honest so I backed off just a little knowing we would just be friends. But now, he texts me even more, and at all times of the night! I'm wondering if he is even getting any sleep now! And today, he did something that scorpios just don't do--he had a long conversation with me and revealed some personal details about his life to me!!! And he keeps saying that "we were supposed to meet at this point in our lives". I'm so confused right now...any advice??

Mareie on May 17, 2017:

My Scorpio man is so very thoughtful , generous and caring , and he loves buying presents all the time. And he's too secretive and because he loves his going to open what is in his mind.

Olivia on May 03, 2017:

My friend is a Scorpio, and I really, like him. I think he likes me, but I don't know. I'm a gemini and I just can't tell if what I'm taking as signs are actually!Want how I'm interpreting them

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Confused Taurus on April 01, 2017:

I am a Taurus woman dating a Scorpio man for two years now. I am a very independent single mom but I am just stumped by his behavior. When we are together, things are just awesome. He is my soul mate and he has expressed his love for me and desire to build a future together. I have been extremely patient and understanding when our plans don't work out. I have read up on their behavior and need for solitude and during those times give him his space but check in on occasion so he knows I'm still here, miss him and love him. We both lead very busy lives so our time together is precious and difficult to arrange. Sometimes I just can't reach him and don't know if I should continue to stand by or just walk and way. I'm not one to give up ever but I'm not sure how much more I can take. He has expressed his desire to meet my family..all on his own and desire to be my partner in every way. Any suggestions on how to proceed and deal with his moment of solitude and to keep his attention? Am I doing the right things? Appreciate any advice.

Laura on March 19, 2017:

Do not date a Scorpio unless you are a Capricorn lol. I am a Capricorn and I do control my Scorpion.

idkwhattothink on February 27, 2017:

Im a scorpio woman dating a scorpio man. I'm in for all of nothing and after 3 months of dating on his terms I am losing patience on waiting. we hook up almost every weekend , the sex is out of this world and we are very comfortable with each other in bed. he tells me I'm nice, caring, sexy, understanding and loves to fact that I am a scropio etc... I find him cold at times, his body language is closed off sometimes. he sometimes tells me he is missing me. I'm finding it hard even though I might give him my heart fully yet. We spend very little time together as we are very busy with each our own responsibilities with kids and work which makes it hard to get to know eachother. being a scorpio I do not like grey area at all. I am black or white with no in between. we text everyday and sometimes he calls, he went as far as sending me roses for valentines day but still keeps our dating a secret from friends and family although he wants for us to go on our first public outing this coming weekend I still unsure if I am wasting my time as I yearn for a lot more then he seems to be willing to give at this point , I don't do flings. Maybe I'm my worst enemy as well, I am trying not to fall to hard to quick trying to prevent heartache as I usually fall to hard too quick and it is very hard for me to resist falling for him. some of his behaviors make me feel like I am shelved until its convenient for him and it comes off as being selfish. he doesnt always answer my texts right away even when he is on his phone (i can tell since he is on fb messanger at those times) am I just another knotch in his belt, a conquest for him, just another option for him??? any advice from fellow scorpio men and women dating would be appreciated before I entirely lose patience and simply move on.

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