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Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility

I am a proud Scorpio man who has a deep interest in astrology and the zodiac.

Scorpio Compatibility

The topic of Scorpio man and Scorpio woman compatibility has been on my mind for quite some time. Though I am not a huge believer of astrological compatibility, I always seem to be drawn to a few particular zodiac signs.

For the record, I am a Scorpio male. It is said that the best match for a Scorpio man is a Pisces, Cancer, Capricorn, or Virgo. Interestingly, I seem to be drawn to Scorpios and Virgos more often. In recent times especially, I seem to be surrounded by more Scorpio people. Some of my closest friends are Scorpio women.

I have always wondered how the compatibility is between a Scorpio male and a Scorpio female, not only in terms of romantic relationships but also in terms of friendship. In that context, I present to you an analysis of Scorpio man and Scorpio woman compatibility.

Before I go into details about this compatibility, I think it makes sense to briefly touch upon both people’s characteristics.


Scorpio Man Characteristics

Silent, calm exterior with deep emotions, mysterious, intense, passionate, and vengeful may be some of the words that may immediately come to mind when describing a Scorpio male. These characteristics do aptly describe a Scorpio guy. He is a highly intelligent as well as an emotional person. He is strong and powerful and may appear stubborn most times. When it comes to friendship and love, a Scorpio man is very selective. He rarely trusts anyone completely and has high standards. He may be very social and may have a lot of acquaintances, but the people in his inner circle may be counted on one hand.

A Scorpio man can be your best friend or worst enemy. If you are in his good books, he will go the extra mile to help you. If he truly loves someone, he can sacrifice himself for their sake. But if you step on his wrong foot, he can bring down hell upon you. After all, he is known for his infamous stinger and vengeance. He loves passionately and hates passionately. In love, he rarely does the chasing as he simply attracts women. However, if he truly loves someone, he is more than willing to do all the chasing and can go all the way to have that person.


Scorpio Woman

A Scorpio female has many traits similar to that of a Scorpio man. She may not be always beautiful in the traditional sense, but she is charming, mysterious, confident, and attractive, which can make any man fall for her. Love her or hate her, but you just cannot ignore her. A Scorpio female has always a strong presence in the room. She is strong-willed and sometimes may appear stubborn. She may be calm or smiling on the outside, but she has a volcano of emotions erupting inside.

When it comes to friendship and love, she too is similar to a Scorpio man. She chooses her friends carefully. If she loves you, she will stand and fight for you. But if you cross her, she will give you a cold stare as if you never existed. In love, a Scorpio woman sometimes tends to attract weak men due to her strong character. However, she is not the person who settles down for someone weak. Similar to a Scorpio man, she is a person who looks for someone who is powerful.


What would happen if you left two spies in a room? Naturally, they will start exploring each other carefully guarding their own secrets. Both Scorpio man and woman are highly secretive. They are also known as the spies of the zodiac. Alternatively, there may also be an instant attraction between them as there is no one else who can understand a Scorpio better than another one. They can become instant friends even while guarding their dearest secrets.

Once they have trusted each other completely, it creates a life-long bond. There is always a mutual admiration as well as respect for each other. If they are in complete love with each other, they can sacrifice themselves for the other. They can also become addicted to each other, hence leaving little room for jealousy.

There are a lot of similarities between a Scorpio male and a female. This means that similarities exist in their negative traits as well. A Scorpio-Scorpio friendship or relationship is most times filled with power struggle as either of them is rarely willing to relinquish their power. The relationship is also full of sparks and emotional drama. The only thing that could kill this beautiful relationship is their jealous streak, lack of trust, and lack of communication. For the Scorpio man and Scorpio woman compatibility to be perfect, this relationship must be based on complete trust and open communication.

Questions & Answers

Question: Can a Scorpio woman and Scorpio man marriage work out?

Answer: It could work out. However, it could be a little tricky if they have different likes and dislikes. They love as well as hate with a passion, and there could be a lot of unintended fireworks. Having said that, if other aspects of birth charts are compatible, it can work.

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Question: Can there be attraction and compatibility between a Scorpio and Leo?

Answer: There definitely could be a mutual attraction since both are intense beings. But since both are fixed water and fire signs, a long-term sustained relationship is difficult.

Question: Can a Scorpio woman and a Libra man be together forever?

Answer: It really depends on their natal chart as well and how good the understanding is between them. If their natal charts are compatible, then there are high chances that the relationship can last.

Question: Can a marriage between a Scorpio man and Capricorn woman work?

Answer: It can actually work. An earth and water sign go well with each other. Of course, never go by sun sign alone. Look at other aspects as well.

Question: Can a Scorpio and an Aries make a marriage work?

Answer: It may work if other aspects of your natal charts are compatible. It is never just about the sun sign alone.

© 2012 Karthik Kashyap


Zara rehman on January 12, 2019:

Sagittarius women and Scorpio men,said something about there marriage life

ScorpioMan on November 22, 2017:

One of the worst compatibility ever.. Why? Because we know everything of the other one, we are both Scorpio and we can both read the mind. So it's not a cool dance, it's just dancing..

Moktar Abdallah from Ghana on October 23, 2017:

I'm so impressed being so blessed as Scorpio. Everything you said was very true. I heard several times people asking me questions like "which type person you really are?"Others even said I'm not normal human being like they themselves and I might possess some supernatural powers for they haven't seen people like before or people like me are not many in terms of abilities and capabilities.

Sexy Scorpio on August 25, 2017:

I am Scorpio woman in love with a Scorpio male. When I met him I had no idea he was taken. After being with him for almost 4 months I found out he had a girlfriend. I had already fallen for him by this time. I kept on seeing him after I found out about his girlfriend because I loved him and didn't want to let him go. He said that when he met me that him and his girlfriend was in an on again off again relationship. He said that he never thought he would in love with me and that he has no idea how to let go of either of us. I was wondering if I should stay with him or make the decision for him? Help please Sexy Scorpio

Not important. on May 18, 2017:

I was crazy about a Scorpio guy, I am a Scorpio girl. We met in a messed up way. He had a girlfriend, I was friends with his live in cousin. We were chilling, he approached me and just kissed me, like mind blowing. I was 16 and he was 21 and a deputy. We talked on and off for two years, I wanted him and waited... we dated a few times... our connection was so intense. We emotionally had been each other's vent and sexually there was SO much chemistry. While waiting he'd dated others but always trusted in me... we couldn't look at each other without intensity. We met up a few times and drove around and made out and just had a great time. Then all of a sudden he started seeing this girl WAY less attractive than me(I'm not saying I was a perfect 10 but she was definitely a 2) and she was in my senior class. I dropped him. He'd call or message I'd blow him off. Now he's married as am I and we live in a TINY town of 300. He makes sure to always say hi when we are in the same area and try my best to just avoid him. Wtf is up with all of that?!

Eves on April 15, 2017:

I was in a short term booty call you can call it with a scorpio man and I'm a scorpio female so I can agree with the fact that we stop talking and that lead to us no longer seeing each other. It was fun while it lasted I must say.

Chelsie Bruce on January 08, 2017:

I enjoyed reading your Compatibility on the Scorpio Man and the Scorpio Woman.

October 27th is mine and my Scorpio Man's Birthday. He says,"Since it was my Birthday first, I am sharing it with You."Lmao I than make a "Wicked Old Person joke" and that makes me feel better to see me get a double rise out of the fact he's sharing his birthday and he pretends he minds , lol and I just made fun of his age.

Scorpio vs Scorpio in compatibility is fueled with Passion. Intuitive to what emotions the other is feeling and words don't have to be spoken in order to communicate. Physical Attraction is rewarded with the fact he is someone I am never going to tire of from looking at.

We see right through Manipulation and Tactful Ways to give your partner a run around. We are able to step inside each other's pool of negativity with nothing other than a sense of calm and exceptance and understanding. It feels like home lol when we share negativity with one another. It's different with another Scorpio. It's shared in a reversed way negative things are normally put. Jokingly putting negativity in a positive version to be laughed at.

Reading people is a Talent in Scorpios. So there is a shared interest in seeing people in very much the same view - how they really are. Faces that are masked laughing that is fake people pretending to like when we know they really hate. We share what we don't ever want the other to be like how we don't ever want to be and if he's going to reply to anything I say with a ,"what?" That one doesn't get passed me. I see he has skated around situations ,avoided conversations,and boughten extra time for saying what? Lmao

His shell is a hard one to get all the way into but mine is to . The more he trusts me his passion feels deeper and it drowns with intensity.

He's the one. I wouldn't choose to pair with any other out of all the signs.

Mystery is intriguing . His teasing personality , he always keeps me craving wanting him more.

Perhaps our lack of trust is equally the same because I am a quieter sit back and see and he is a vocal come forward and Interagate me type of Scorpio. There are tests and trials and friendly questioning that we comfortably must get out of the way and this in return is nothing more than a long term benefit of what is yet to come in a lasting relationship.

ladyscorp on December 25, 2016:

I did something that my scorp will never forgive me for

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on April 23, 2015:

Well.. If you think that he is the guy and it is not too late, you may as well as tell him what you feel about him :)

rhea on April 23, 2015:

Hey I m a scorp... there is a scorp man in my life...he has always showd sheer love and respect fr me...... he evn proposed me... but as u sd... I cudnt trust hm... also becoz he stays in california... miles away... n I stay in kolkata.. india ..

For 2 years... we hv bn conversing over ph... n he has always been quite firm about his liking fr me... bt the strange part is...he smtims vanishes. .. no text... no msgs. N thn he gts bk on sudden day.... n now I love him... we havnt met yet... but I really love him now... don't how this has happened. .. in fact m quite amazed wt my ownself... the thing is... I hv sn a few things on his fb profile... which did hrt still I want to trust hm.... m really confused..... should I let myself go with this man?

piscescorp on March 19, 2014:

I am pisces/scorp moon, guy I have been (seeing?..) is scorp/cancer moon. I probably come off way more as a scorp in the emotion dept. He is obviously crazy about me but makes no attempt to talk about or further the relationship, or get know me closer. He is probably scared, or waiting for me to ask for it. I refuse to chase any man who does not fully acknowledge how lucky they are to have my attention. I am also taurus rising so very stubborn on this. Such is this dance. I am so close to walking away from it completely. His loss. Afraid if I bring it up to define this relationship, that he is just going to get scared and say he wants nothing serious, even tho his actions scream otherwise. Should I walk away or verbalize it? Any insight is appreciated.

Elisa on November 30, 2013:

yeah there's a cut off date, November 22, if you look up on astrotheme, half those born on that date are scorpio suns 29 degrees. and half are sag sun zero degrees, on the cusp. i thought it was a generational thing but then i looked at November 22 born Scorpio Jamie Lee Curtis, born in the 50s to one who was born 22nd in the 80s, and some scattered are sag. it really depends. It doesn't matter because sidereal and vedic says anyone born 3rd decans are scorpio suns. 1st decans get libra suns, strangely. It really is weird how some astrologers will stick to vedic.

Beautifulsexy on August 18, 2013:

Hi Izlpio90 if you were born Oct 23 you are a Scorpio

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on April 05, 2013:

Sara: Thanks a lot for sharing.. Of course Scorpios are the best :)

Sara on April 04, 2013:

Am a scorpio Woman and yes i can't be with a weak guy.. he should be very strong and powerful otherwise i will lose interest or it will never exist from the first place. i love scorpio man they know how to let me feel am a woman how sexy and how beautiful they are picky and at the sametime caring

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on October 27, 2012:

Vincent Moore: Rightly said.. Most times, being a Scorpio has worked against me, especially when it comes to relationships. I think we are just that we can't get into or out of a relationship easily. We are just too deep and want that depth in all our relationships. I am one guy who also attracts Virgo women and Scorpio women (but yeah, my relationship with Scorpio women have always ended up in only friendships). I just hope this time, I get my Scorpio "friend" to be my partner. Thanks for voting up and sharing :)

ImKarn23: And I wonder what made me think you are a Leo.. lol!! But rightly said. Libra and Scorpio in a relationship. I just couldn't imagine (probably not even in business). But I do have a very close Libran friend with whom I get along with very well, except for her typical indeciseveness which make s me pull my hair apart :D Thanks for voting up..

Vincent Moore on October 26, 2012:

I am a Scorpio man and much of how you described US is spot on. I love intensely and agree that I can be your best friend or your worst enemy. I will give my life for the ones I can only count a few on one hand.

I have been compatible with Taurus and Virgos and spent 8 yrs together with a Scorpio woman. We are not together today, but our friendship will never fail. Yes I am emotional, secretive and strong.

Yet much of my life being a Scorpio has worked against me, I couldn't hang on to someone for long, especially someone I loved intensely. What an interesting hub I will have to pass it on to my female Scorpio friend.

Karen Silverman on October 26, 2012:

One thing i can guarantee - scorpios and libras? NOT a good match at all - for relationships or friendships...

i'm pure libra and while it's not recommended that we commune with scorpios - it's been amazing how often a person i don't get along with is a scorpio...and ONLY scorpio..

(we won't discuss my scorpio ex-husband - i'm not even including

To Lzlpio9o: Dear, if you are deeply concerned with justice and trust easily - you're libra..(sensual may also be an attribute..)..

great info..

voting up and sharing out..

Libra Out

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on October 18, 2012:

rightly said idigwebsites :)

idigwebsites from United States on October 18, 2012:

@lzlip09o: It's like November 22 -- which puts one who was born in that date in a limbo. Is he a Scorpio or Sagittarius? Good thing I was born on November 21st, and although sometimes that date falls into a Sagittarius area, I'm much much more of a Scorpio (maybe 90%). I'm secretive, suspicious, stubborn, and loves only one guy. I wasn't even aware of horoscopes yet before, I have always been like that. :)

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on October 18, 2012:

A.A: That is always a problem with any Scorpio (male/female). We act in the spur of the moment and later regret it. By then, it is too late. It has happened to me.. I can understand how you feel. Especially, when it is a sudden separation from someone you really like (I have gone through that). It feels like a void no one can fill in.. But things are what they are.

I would say, just apologize for all that and be unconditional. And leave it there. I am sure, at some point, he will understand it. Know that he is similar to you (all Scorpios have very common traits).

A.A on October 18, 2012:

i was born on OCT 29, he is NOV 10.

I have apologised by the way:

first i said im so sorry and bla bla bla in a very kind desperate way

then i reminded him how he also disrespected me on few occasions but after he said sorry i forgave him, and i said look i like u..

then next day i sent him a msg saying im very upset that i ve made him upset, he was a great friend and i don't want him to be upset with me

but he hasn't replied. Maybe if i wait he will in time.. but i think if i keep msging and say sorry, he would get angry.

A.A on October 18, 2012:

I know, but i am just a friend! i wasn't his girlfriend ! But it was so harsh for him to say he does not want to have any kind of contact from me anymore .. i guess i was a bit rude. i indirectly disrespected his ex ( i get weird when i have a crush on someone, become obsessive, and nosy, and jealous... ) i usually forgive, but if i am in a relationship which the guy hurts me, then i wont forget and make him pay for it big time. i dono, he just said he doesn't enjoy the friendship anymore. i went into his privacy. i am happy now to forget about my crush and just put it down to simple friendhship.. i hate when i make someone upset.

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on October 17, 2012:

A.A: I think the best thing to do is to apologize to him genuinely. It is hard for a Scorpio to accept his/her mistake, but it is the best thing to do. And yes, most times Scorpios don't accept an apology easily as well (I wouldn't accept an apology even from my Scorpio girl so easily even if it is genuine, if I felt she screwed up). But do hope that he sees it from your angle, forgives you and you can bond back. If two Scorpios are willing to bond back, the friendship can actually become stronger.

A.A on October 17, 2012:

i am a scorpio female and been friends with a scorpio man. hes been an awesome friend in such a short time. he knows i like him, and has emphasised on us to be friends only.recently i said something to him recently about relationships which kind of related to his ex, he got very angry and said i have crossed the line way over the limit and does not want me to contact him. He was such a nice friend, but my jealousy came in the way ( fear of him get back to his ex, which i know he loves her).

i don't know i want his friendship back :(

Karthik Kashyap (author) from India on September 28, 2012:

lzlpio90: You will have some traits of both as you were born on a cusp. People who are born on a cusp (usually 2-3 days of transition from one sign to another) see traits of both. As far as I know, one of the signs has a stronger influence though.

lzlpio90 on September 27, 2012:

I am an scorpio girl and I admit some traits are matching mine and some are not... But, I do often get so confused about my sodiac sign. Could it be Libra or Scorpio? I was born on Oct 23 and other info says I'm a Libra...

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