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How to Understand a Scorpio Man in Love

Updated on June 29, 2015
Here is an unusual image representing the Scorpio sun sign.  I think it looks more like a lizard, another Scorpio symbol.
Here is an unusual image representing the Scorpio sun sign. I think it looks more like a lizard, another Scorpio symbol. | Source

Dating Your Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man is extremely confident. He knows what he wants and he goes for it. This man has ambition and will go far in life. He is strong and protective. He does, however, have a bit of a temper and can be ruthless in business. These qualities add to his success. A Scorpio man is patient. He will wait until his enemy or competition is at their weakest moment and then he will dominate and climb the corporate ladder, so to speak. Regardless of his profession, he will strive to end up on top.

Most Scorpio men thrive in areas that deal with the cusp of life and death, and make excellent detectives, taxidermists, morticians, cops, and military officers. A Scorpio has an incredible sense of intuition and will use it to his advantage at work. He is a no-nonsense guy. When he becomes the boss, do not try to cross him. Do your job and do it well or there will be consequences.

On the other hand, a Scorpio can be extremely loyal to those who have proven to be loyal to him. He is a great friend, worker, lover, and family member. Just don’t cross him. He puts up with no shenanigans whatsoever.

October 23 - November 22

SIGN
SYMBOL
PLANET
HOUSE
QUALITY
ELEMENT
COLORS
GEM
FLOWER
SCO
Scorpion & Eagle
Pluto & Mars
8th
Fixed
Water
Black & Burgundy
Topaz
Crysanthemum

A Man in Love

Love and intimacy are Mr. Scorpio’s weaknesses. He loves deeply and intensely, and an exciting physical relationship is a definite must. A water sign, he is like a frozen river: calm, cold, and rigid on the outside, with a plethora of feelings and emotions rushing through him underneath where nobody can see. He feels so deeply and strongly that his emotions are explosive if you ever get him to the boiling point.

He is kind and gentle. He is loving and thoughtful. He is your best friend. That is until you deceive him. God help you if you do. His ruling planets are Pluto and Mars. Pluto, the planet of life, death, and regeneration causes him to withdraw or hibernate for a bit when he needs to rejuvenate his energy to deal with this world. Mars, on the other hand, will cause aggression, anger, passion and energy.

Mr. Scorpio likes to be busy burning off that excess energy Mars provides mentally or physically. He is a man’s man and enjoys all the masculine things the world has to offer until the woman he loves comes into his life. Yes, he still enjoys masculine activities, but he cherishes his woman and treats her like gold. He is one of the most incredible lovers in the zodiac.

If you manage to land a Scorpio man, hold on tight and be prepared for the ride of your life. He will defend and protect you if it kills him. However, keep in mind that if you betray him, he will be rid of you like an old pair of underwear and never consider going back. You have one chance with Mr. Scorpio. He is all in, or all out. There are no shades of grey in the mind of a Scorpio. He is the sign of extremes, meaning he is passionate about whatever interests him and could care less about things or people who do not interest him.

The Constellation Scorpius

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All Scorpios are Not the Same

Please keep in mind that the sun sign of Scorpio is not the only dominant influence in a person’s astrological birth chart. There are 10 astrological planets, 12 houses, and the aspects between them at the time of birth, all of which can skew the expression of Mr. Scorpio’s personality. For example, if he has several planets or a rising sign in Gemini he may come across as chatty and flirty, not usual Scorpio traits. If he has Mars in Scorpio, it will exacerbate his aggressiveness possibly to the point of abuse. Getting a natal chart or a birth chart reading from a professional astrologist is highly recommended.

Famous Scorpio Men

  • Matthew McConaughey, November 4
  • Leonardo DiCaprio, November 11
  • Ethan Hawke, November 6
  • Eric Dane November 9
  • Brad Paisley October 28
  • Sean Combs AKA Puff Daddy November 4
  • Martin Scorsese November 17
  • Chris Noth November 13
  • David Shwimmer November 2
  • Nick Lachey November 9

Would you date a Scorpio man?

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Compatibility Chart

 
ARI
TAU
GEM
CAN
LEO
VIR
LIB
SCO
SAG
CAP
AQU
PIS
ARI
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
TAU
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
GEM
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
CAN
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
LEO
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
VIR
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
LIB
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
SCO
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
SAG
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
CAP
No
No
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
AQU
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
PIS
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
No
Yes
No
Yes
No
50/50
Please keep in mind that other aspects in a personal birth chart could skew these results. In addition, if you find you and your partner incompatible according to this chart, it just means you need to work harder on your differences compared to most

Thank you so much for your interest in my work. I certainly hope the read was helpful and encouraging. Please feel free to leave a suggestion, comment, or constructive criticism in the comments section below. Your feedback is always welcomed and appreciated.

"Be kind to one another" ~ Ellen

God Bless You ~ Margaret Sullivan

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      aqua girl 2 weeks ago

      hi,i've post this question in exemplore site but just want to know opinions from other people. i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. but still i'm trying to go with flow with him.

      our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. so yeah..

      is he playing. i know i;m not his priority. but what actually is he doing? does he has no respect for me as a human being?

      while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks...

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      Starr 2 months ago

      I am a Leo and I have been married to a Scorpio for 12 yrs. who says we aren't compatible?

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      Karen 3 months ago

      I dated a Scorpio. He had left his wife of 23 years after living in separate rooms for over a year whilst the house was being sold. She had told him she didn't love him and in the divorce accused him of an affair. I met him after 8 months on a dating site. It became love very quickly. He moved in with me after 8 months. He left me twice briefly when he had quarrelled. Then he left me a final time a year ago but kept coming back but never moved back in with me. After over 8 months apart. We continued messaging sometimes good sometimes bad. He told me to find someone else. 2 weeks after I was burgled He showed up and says he shouldn't have come as we could only be friends. We started seeing one another it started to feel like he might be getting feelings for me. I said let's leave it for a while as I was afraid and then he wouldn't come back. Lots of messaging good and bad. So I had no contact with him for 6 weeks. I then initiated contact with the odd message. He started watching what time I used whattsapp and made comment I must be into someone. A week later I asked if he wanted to come round he said yes and he would fix my hose pipe too. He travelled 35 miles and after fixing my hose pipe he suggested we go for a walk. I said shall we hold hands as we always did. Walking along he asked me about my dating. I said don't ask. I then playfully said you've missed me haven't you? He said no. We then reached a bench and he said he'd got no feelings for me. We walked back not hand in hand this time. I asked why he watched me if he had no feelings he said he did it out of curiosity. I said why come and see me he said to fix my hose but he had agreed to see me before I mentioned my hose. It was silent until we reached home and then he left. We've messaged a couple of times. He tells me to find someone else. He doesn't deserve a chance and he has no feelings for me. He likes living alone. He doesn't need or want a woman in his life. He has also recently fell out with his mother and hasn't seen her for over 2 months. Could he ever love me again or do I finally need to move on?

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      Mmargie1966 9 months ago from Gainesville, GA

      Not hearing from him for a week is his way of taking it slow. Why don't you call him?

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      Joelle 9 months ago

      I have a scorpio male who's seemingly vanished into thin air. I've only known him a few months after meeting at a course, and we got along really well. Nothing more that just friends really. But a couple of weeks ago after a small get together, when saying goodnight, he kissed me. We talked and kissed and obviously both liked each other, even though I was trying to suppress any feelings I had due to a bad marriage, and wanted to take it slow. All was fine, we still talked as usual, but it's been a week now since I've heard from him. No email responses, nothing. Any ideas what could be wrong?

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      Keiana Ryneice 9 months ago

      The man of my dreams is a Scorpio!:) He turns every emotion dial I have. I will love him to the end of time. He works my nerves and teaches me at the same time. He has been there before friends or family. My provider protector and my bestfriend. He also is the best father figure to my five year old.

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      BellaLuna 10 months ago

      Im Leo and I fell for Scorpio. They said we arent compatible with each other in zodiac sign but we both done well. Of all people I date before including my own sign, I really like Scorp's intensity! This guy is extraordinary and I feel like he has magnet attracting me out of nowhere. He showered me with loyalty and I returned him twice of it. Sometimes he told me that I am a dangerous girl, but he seems like enjoying it. When things goes slowly as he might expect what the result will be, it is not always what he expected to happen- for example I go out somewhere without telling him then he expected me gone to see other man but I actually dont see other man except during job.

      Next he would ask me about it but I assure him I didnt laid my eyes on other men. I restricted myself from doing so and in my dictionary there is one big signboard of "no cheating", be it physical or emotional one. I love this Scorp so much that I paid my respect on him in form of this loyal. I confessed to him long time ago, so I feel responsible for it.

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      Crawlbaby 12 months ago

      I dated a Scorpio man for 9 almost 10 months and it started out ok but he goy more and more controlling to the point it was insane. He was jealous, controlling, paranoid and tried to literally control everything I did, Told me I had to wear a bra 24/7 unless I was sleeping. Made me stop taking medication. Deleted people, mostly male friends from my Facebook account. Then finally said I had to delete my Facebook account. One night he threw me out of his house at 3am and locked the door with my cell and purse in his house and wouldn't let me have it. He thought I was lying about everything all the time. In his logic, changing the day of an appointment without consulting him was "lying." Insufferable jerk. But boy, he was good in bed.

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      mariethel cardines 16 months ago

      I am scorpion and my bf was a scorpion.but was so hard to please him...can u advise me how to win him back again?

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      aqua_5 17 months ago

      My boyfriend is scorpio sun. I am aquarius sun & virgo moon. He is so strange. i fail to understand him. Sometimes i feel i know him in & out and then he is like a total stranger at times. He is constantly testing me & playing mind games with me. He keeps on disappearing everynow & then. He chased me for a year untill he got me .Sometimes i feel i should just end this. But i can`t .

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      simi 21 months ago

      my dad is a scorpio and my god .....aeeeeeeee...... thats all i can say:(

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      Mmargie1966 2 years ago from Gainesville, GA

      Funny, Alyeska! I'm a Scorpio and my husband is a Taurus.

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      Alyeska Martinez 2 years ago

      Haha, my husband is a Scorpio (I'm a Taurus) and this is very accurate!

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      Mmargie1966 3 years ago from Gainesville, GA

      I'm a Scorpio and my husband is a Taurus. We make a great pair, as well!

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      songbird 3 years ago

      My boyfriend is a scorpio. What a delicious love we share. Im a taurus. He is protective and goes out of his way to make sure all that worries me is handled by HIM.

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      pragti 3 years ago

      M an aquarius immensely nd unconditionally in love wd a scorpian bt I dnt knw wethr he likes me! I heared he likes some1 else!, I love him bt dnt knwM how to make him feel dt I love him

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      Marcy Goodfleisch 5 years ago from Planet Earth

      The males in this sign can be a mystery to me - but I think you described them well! Voted up!

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      Karthik Kashyap 5 years ago from India

      nice hub :)

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      Mmargie1966 5 years ago from Gainesville, GA

      My Dad was a Gemini! I love them even though my sun sign isn't supposed to get along with Gemini. However, I have a Gemini rising sign which makes it easier to understand them. They sure are lots of fun!

      Thank you so much for commenting!

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      Cristale 5 years ago from Florida

      Great hub with wonderful information. My dad is a Scorpio, but I always fall for Geminis!