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Does a Scorpio Like Me?

Updated on July 30, 2016

The Scorpio Hunt

If there is one sign that I tend to attract, it is Scorpio. In my opinion, it should be fairly obvious when a Scorpio likes you. They can be quite forward when they are after someone. They don't leave you hanging, unless they are only partially interested and are keeping the window open. Once matured, Scorpio is of the most loyal signs of all. They will go to just about any length to be with the person they like. They don't easily give up either since they are stubborn. When Scorpios are younger and haven't yet matured, they may be more easily swayed because they might not be ready to settle.

When a Scorpio Likes You

There are telltale signs when a Scorpio likes you. This sign is known for having eyes that cut through titanium. The easiest way to spot a Scorpio is by their long gaze. I wish I knew what was really going through a Scorpio's mind when they focus on someone they like because it is incredibly intense, especially coming from an Aquarius who isn't exactly a fiend for eye contact. I'm more of a grins and giggles kind of girl.

  1. When a Scorpio likes you, they will go out of their way to talk to you and figure you out. They are especially charmed by those who are mysterious and calm. Since they have a complicated emotional range, they find themselves attracted to those who have good self control over their emotions. If you can say you are a cool, mysterious person—you likely are on Scorpio's interested list.
  2. Scorpios like to take their interests on a very secluded date. This doesn't mean you'll be in some romantic garden with a candlelight dinner—they like to have the person all to themselves. You may go over to their house and really get to see each other for who you are—rather than a great deal of activities and distractions getting in the way.
  3. Scorpios will do what they can to break the touch barrier. They'll give you hugs, stare at your face, hold your hand. They're going to come up with some sly way to touch you. They also have a pretty outstanding understanding of how to be cuddly, endearing, and the like.
  4. Jealously. When a Scorpio hasn't snagged you yet, they'll be keenly aware of who is trying to win advances with you. They may step on those people's toes and get them out of the way so you can focus plainly on the Scorpio. One time a guy was coming up to talk to me, and a Scorpio pulled off the guy's scarf and threw it at me. He completely destroyed that person's advance.
  5. Consistent communication. A Scorpio likes to talk to the person they like; you'll get lots of text messages. Scorpio does need sufficient alone time for introspection, so don't be surprised if they disappear for a week or two. If it doesn't seem like your interest is progressing anywhere, you might want to be suspicious of their downtime. It can go either way. They're either recharging from a stressful week, or they're finding someone else to go and flirt with.
  6. Scorpios are fiendishly loyal. There is nothing like it, really. When they like you, they are looking for a deep commitment. Most of the Scorpios I know end up in long term relationships. They do not like to be seen as something smaller. I have found most of them find that very crude. Even if it does intrigue them a little bit, I think they are much more of loyalists than the sex addicts people describe them to be.
  7. Which by the way, they do appreciate a little tiny bit of sexual innuendo. They'll try to figure out whether you're modest or a liberated fellow—and they'll be a chameleon and do what they can to manage with your style.
  8. They'll try to figure out your interests, life ambitions, your middle name—they'll try to peg you, but they'll keep chasing after you if you are difficult for them to understand.
  9. Scorpios like those who are independent and can speak for themselves. They have been known to look for someone that reminds them of their parents—because then they know they can live with them long term if they have the right, familiar qualities.
  10. When a Scorpio likes someone, they want to have them. They want to know their body, their mind, their personality. Everything. They want an incredibly deep connection. And they'll do what they can to give you some space, as difficult as that may be for the sign.

What to Expect with a Scorpio

A Scorpio can be hot and cold. They'll like you to your face, but when things are over, you will definitely feel a change in the connection.

Do not ever cheat on a Scorpio. They will cut their loses and move on from you. These are creatures who desire more than anything to have loyalty. When cheated on, they feel like the lowest of the low. They hate losing, especially in this department. Also, do not try to intentionally make a Scorpio jealous. This could easily backfire on you and end up with the Scorpio moving on because they feel like your loyalty is questionable. They really like to have someone they can absolutely trust and who absolutely trusts them. This might not be the easiest ideal to reach, but it is what a Scorpio wants underneath it all.

When you are with a Scorpio, you need to be yourself. They don't like inauthentic people or big gossipers. They like people who are selfless, caring, gentle, and also extremely attractive. From what I can tell, physical attraction matters to a Scorpio. There was only one case where I could see that wasn't true, but I think that had to do more with the person's self esteem and self image. A mature Scorpio wants someone who looks good with them, who will make their environment look better, who is an all around catch that they know others would be lucky to have.

Scorpios tend to have long lasting relationships. They put a great deal of effort into them. You can expect a Scorpio male to be punctual, pay for your meals, and make sure you get home safely. Scorpios can be a lot different in group situations than one on one. This sign is often misunderstood so that can make it difficult to understand them unless you have experience with this sign. Some people in group situations find them rude, grumpy, and not all that pleasant. I find Scorpios to really keep a trim social network. The ones they are loyal to they are extremely loyal to -- and it sucks to lose interest with a Scorpio for this reason. You feel like something is missing, and sometimes Scorpios make you feel that intentionally because if you wrong them, they do have a tendency to know how to sting you. And get rid of you.

Scorpios tend to really care about their families, their closest friends, and especially their significant other. When they love someone it is deep and true. They are not looking for a superficial connection, ultimately they want something that will last. They tend to fall for those who can keep their emotions in check, are very steady, and endearing. I find they like me for being a creative powerhouse, since I am an Aquarius. But I think they could easily go for someone more practical, especially if the person still caries a certain amount of charm and mystique. They allow each relationship they have to be its own unique thing. They don't hold all people to the same standards. I have found most Scorpios I have run into to be extremely monogamous—I think polyamory would be super weird to see coming from a Scorpio, not that it's impossible, it just doesn't seem like what they would want long term.

A Scorpio will say how they feel. They are looking for an ESP connection. They like it when someone can read their mind a little bit. They like to be in control, to make decisions, and to have cuddle time.


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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      DEPENDS. If they're interested, more than anything it would make them jealous. A brooding, festering kind of jealous which could make them mad... and disinterested. Or they may step up and find a way to quickly dispose of your interest.

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      curious onee 2 months ago

      DO scorpio get challenged or something? Like for an example, he heard or knew youre crushing on some guy.. would they give up or would they still continue??

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      To put simply, this does fit Scorpio behavior, yes.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Scorpios are good at investigating and getting a general vibe. They get tunnel vision from their analysis.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      I try when I can! Sometimes keeping up with this is somewhat of a trick.

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      jm 2 months ago

      Thank you so much! Never thought you would answer me ♥️

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      shyy 2 months ago

      We are not friends pn facebook, so could he know somehow? From what i have heard scorpios are pro when it comes to investigating things or when they want to find out about something..

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      Hi 3 months ago

      Hi, this scorpio somehow became distant.. then today he approached me. He kept coming back and forth and for the third time he stayed beside me without uttering a word. I just realized, yesterday some boys in my class kept asking if i ever had a boyfriend. And when i shared to my best friend what happened, she told me that he might ask those guys to ask it intead of him? Im just wondering.. are scorpios like that? Distant and stares at you from a distant then comes approaching you unexpectedly?

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      No, this sounds like a Scorpio keeping an eye on you. I think he is interested and trying to figure you out. They like to analyze the crap out of you.

      They tend to have strong eyes too. Scorpios get jealous easily, but don't let that hurt how you develop friendships.

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      jm 3 months ago

      Hi, i have this friend of mine who is a scorpio and im a virgo. i am not really sure if he likes me or not. I dont want to assume but whenever I am not looking, and from my peripheral view I could see he is looking at me. I kind of read that you could tell in his eyes, the way he looks at you like that. He is also touchy, i just noticed how creative he is and he never fails to surprise me most of the time. He says I'm cute and he jokingly said he likes me. Im quite confused actually. Is it counted jealousy when he sees me talking to some guy who i am really close with? It's like he is always watching me.. observing me. He is quite protective, maybe because he sees me vulnerable.. but when it was cold in the room he kind of adjusted the temperature and asked me if Im cold or anything. I was just wondering if this behavior is normal for them? Like that's how he is to his friends?

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      Andrea Lawrence 9 months ago from Chicago

      You probably didn't screw it up. Why not give him the hint and the go that you like him back? I know it's scary, but he clearly likes you and is even asking your brother for help. Be nice and help the dude out. Write him a message and hand it to him if you have to.

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      Sophie 9 months ago

      Hello! I have this crush on a scorpio Guy and wanted to ask if he might also be intrested in me(i'm a Taurus btw)? So we don't really know each other but he is kinda friends with my brother and one time he was at our place and he ate dinner with us and I felt really stared at from him and one time i was in the City i saw him and walked pass him and again, he starred. And my mother she really likes him and often said stuff like "Luke (the Name of my crush) is so friendly and has manners" and one time she asked me like "right Sophie? Luke is cute." And i was just like "yeah" and its pretty unusual for my family to hear Just a plein yes from me instead of "No he was so annoying...And Blabla". So i once did Not Talk shit about a Person and they all were like OMG SPOHIE HAS A CRUSh which is true but i would never admit that. And Well my brother Kinda teased me with him and smiled at me and said luke to me while winking at the same time and we got Into a fight because he annoyed/teased me with that all the freaking time and we were fighting over his mobile Phone because my brother said he will Text him and tell him i have a crush on Luke. And Well we were fighting over his phone for like 10 Minutes and then he said "you know what, i'm going to send him a voice message now" and i was just freaking Out but my brother did it anyways but after he sent it i told him to immediatley Tell him that it's Not True and that he's just joking and lukes responses were:

      -okay :'DDD

      -does she like me now or Not?:D

      And my brother responded to that with "no"

      And my crush replied with:

      -Are you for real now?:D

      And my brother was like "yes"

      And he answered with


      So now i have another thing that happened for you: After all this happened and me being Kinda exposed to my crush by my brother, i saw Luke like 2 weeks later in the City and he just stood there at the Train Station with some Friends and i looked him straight in the eyes (which was Kinda emberassing for me tbh) and he said goodbye to his Friends and walked passed me and poked his Finger into my waist and said "hi Sophie!". And there were quite a few people and i didn't expect him to Greet me so i didn't Greet back (lol First world Problems) and i think he felt Kinda ignored and is propably salty about it (lol) because today i saw him at the Train Station again and he stood there with Two Friends and i was so nervous because i had to walk right pass him and i was so close and looked him Kinda in the eyes and he ignored me..... And i'm waaay to shy to say something..... Did i f*cked it up now???? And by the way he is seventeen and i'm sixteen.