Dealing With An Aries Woman
In dealing with an Aries woman one might find themselves in a situation they've never been faced with before. Most likely they'll be head over heels in love with this mysterious woman for no explainable reason. In very rare cases (usually only happens with Capricorns) you'll have a strong desire to run the other direction as fast as you can and only look back to make sure you aren't being followed.
I should back up a bit and clarify exactly what an Aries woman is for those of you unfamiliar with astrology. An Aries woman is, simply enough, any woman born March 21 - April 20. You'll find that Aries men may share some of the same qualities as the women, but I feel that the women are much stronger, as far as this particular sign is concerned.
So, the first thing you should know about Aries women is that they are extremely independent. They feel that they are their own person and nobody can ever shut that down. They might be dependent on someone else in many ways...financially or physically let's say...but they will never ever lose their sense of self. An Aries woman will never be part of someone else. There is no half of an Aries woman. It is all or nothing. She is not part of a Mr. and Mrs. She is her own self. She can always take care of herself at any point in life...she may just choose not to for whatever reason (valid I'm sure).
Next you need to know some basic characteristics of an Aries woman. They are intelligent, comical, dramatic, witty, seductive, and wise beyond their years. An Aries woman is strong and to the point. They often are very successful simply because they won't take no for answer. Saying no to an Aries woman is much more dangerous than saying yes. She'll take that no as a challenge and pursue to the end...an Aries woman always wants what she's not supposed to have...and she always gets what she wants. Many people have said that an Aries woman captivates them in an unexplainable way. "There's just something about her" is often a phrase used to describe this bullheaded female. They have this mysterious and subtle hold over people that even she cannot explain.
Loving an Aries woman can be the most thrilling and terrifying experience of your life. If she truly loves you (oh and you'll know), she'll be so devoted. Maybe too devoted. She will want to share herself with you. She will divulge secrets that she's kept locked up tight her whole life. In doing so she is trusting you with not only her emotions and her life, but with her soul. The problem is that an Aries woman won't understand if you can't do the same. She gives you her soul she expects yours in return. If this ram doesn't receive what she desires, she'll feel completely devastated that she let someone break her tough shell.
A female ram only let's someone in if she thinks it's for life. Once she has made up her mind that you don't feel the same (whether you actually do or not isn't important at this point..you'll never convince her otherwise), she will terrorize you until the next poor victim comes along. This could possibly be as short as a week, for as I said she has that way about her, but be prepared in case it lasts longer. Hurt is shown through anger with an Aries woman. She'll call you every name thinkable, use your weaknesses against you, tell other people what secrets you did share. This injured ram will use any means necessary (this includes violence) to ruin your life.
I don't want anyone to be afraid of an Aries woman. They probably sound like a bit much, but there is plenty of good to go along with the bad. And if you are caught up in a battle with one, I feel pretty confident in sharing my ideas of ways to escape. First...you need to make yourself very unappealing. Do things you know she hates. Take on characteristics she would never be able to deal with. Then beg her to be with you. Literally get on your knees and beg. Act like a sad pathetic teenager from some lame romance movie. Cling to her legs and tell her you are sorry and you want to spend forever by her side making it up to her. Keep telling her about how you'll never spend time with anyone else but her. An Aries woman doesn't want to be smothered. And she doesn't like pathetic.
It is very important that you do not blow off an Aries woman. If you are finished with her don't disappear with the cold shoulder. As I said earlier, an Aries woman loves a challenge and she wants everything she thinks she can't have. If you make her think she can't have you...she'll chase you around forever. Simply end the game. Make her believe she's won and she can have you forever...I guarantee she'll be out the door and after the next one in the blink of an eye.