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Dealing With an Aries Woman


I love explaining the intricacies of the intersection of astrology and romance.


When an Aries Woman Is Done With You

When dealing with an Aries woman, you might find yourself in a situation you've never faced before. You're likely to have fallen head over heels for this mysterious woman for no intelligible reason. In very rare cases (this usually only happens with Capricorns), you'll feel a strong desire to run in the opposite direction as fast as you can, and only look back to make sure you aren't being followed.

But what do you do when an Aries woman is done with you? Maybe she's acting cold or angry, or maybe she's downright ignoring you. What are the best ways of making it up to her, convincing her to forgive you, and getting her back?

Characteristics of an Aries Woman

For those of you unfamiliar with astrology, I'll back up a bit and clarify the definition of an Aries woman. She is, simply enough, any female born between March 21st and April 19th. You'll find that Aries men share some of the same qualities as the women, but I believe that the women exemplify these traits much more as far as this particular sign is concerned.

First, you need to know some basic characteristics of an Aries woman. They are intelligent, humorous, dramatic, witty, seductive, and wise beyond their years. An Aries woman is strong and straightforward. They often are very successful simply because they won't take no for an answer.

Saying no to an Aries woman is much more dangerous than saying yes. She'll take that no as a challenge and pursue to the end—an Aries woman always wants what she's not supposed to have—and she always gets what she wants.

Many people have said that an Aries woman captivates them in an inexplicable manner. "There's just something about her" is a phrase often used to describe this bullheaded female. They have a mysterious, subtle hold over people that even they cannot explain.

Aries Women Are Independent

So, the most important thing you should know about Aries women is that they are extremely independent. They believe that they are their own person and nobody can ever shut that down. They might be dependent on someone else in certain ways—financially or physically, let's say—but they will never ever lose their sense of self.

An Aries woman will never be part of someone else. There is no half of an Aries woman—it is all or nothing. She is not part of a Mr. and Mrs.—she is her own self.

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Loving an Aries woman can be the most thrilling and terrifying experience of your life. If she truly loves you (oh, and you'll know), she'll be so devoted. Maybe too devoted. She will want to share herself with you. She will divulge secrets that she's kept locked up her whole life. In doing so, she is trusting you with not only her emotions and her life but with her soul.

The problem is that an Aries woman won't understand if you can't do the same. If she gives you her soul, she expects yours in return. If the ram doesn't receive what she desires, she'll feel completely devastated that she let someone break through her tough shell.

A female ram only lets someone in if she thinks it's for life. If she makes up her mind that you don't feel the same (whether you actually do or not isn't important at this point—you'll never convince her otherwise), she will terrorize you until the next poor victim comes along. This could take as short as a week, but be prepared in case it lasts longer.

Why Are Aries So Cold?

Aries is a fire sign, so Aries women are passionate, not cold, by nature. However, if you get on an Aries' bad side, you'll notice they have the "cold shoulder" approach down to a T. You never know if, when angering an Aries, you're going to get a violently confrontational and angry reaction or a cold, standoffish reaction.

When You Hurt an Aries Woman

Hurt is shown through anger with an Aries woman. She could call you every name imaginable, use your weaknesses against you, or tell other people the secrets you shared with her. This injured ram is capable of using any means necessary (this includes violence) to ruin your life when you've wronged her.

When an Aries Woman Ignores You

If an Aries woman is ignoring you, it's probably because she's hurt. Many Aries use anger to mask their hurt feelings. In this situation, the best thing you can do is to tell her you're sorry, but don't spend too much time apologizing or groveling—acting pathetic is not going to get you any bonus points with an Aries woman.

How to Get an Aries Woman to Forgive You

If you've made a mistake or done something to anger the Aries woman in your life, chances are you're wondering how in the world you're going to get her to forgive you. Apologizing is important, but you also need to make sure you aren't groveling or otherwise acting pathetic.

It's important that you act strong—Aries women despise weakness. Continue going about your life, and show her that you're functioning and even happy without her. You'll also want to show her that you respect her in any way you can.

How to End a Relationship With an Aries Woman

I don't want anyone to be afraid of Aries women. They probably sound like a bit of a handful, but there is plenty of good to go along with the bad. And if you're caught up in a battle with one, I feel pretty confident in sharing my ideas of ways to escape.

First, you need to make yourself very unappealing. Do things you know she hates. Take on characteristics she would never be able to deal with. Then beg her to be with you. Literally, get on your knees and beg.

Act like a sad, pathetic teenager from some lame romance movie. Cling to her legs and tell her you are sorry and you want to spend forever by her side making it up to her. Keep telling her about how you'll never spend time with anyone else but her. An Aries woman doesn't want to be smothered. And she doesn't like pathetic behavior from her partner.

It is very important that you do not blow off an Aries woman. If you are finished with her, don't disappear with the cold shoulder. As I said earlier, an Aries woman loves a challenge, and she wants everything she thinks she can't have. If you make her think she can't have you, she'll chase you around forever.

Simply end the game. Make her believe she's won and she can have you forever—I guarantee she'll be out the door and after the next one in the blink of an eye.

Aries Qualities






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Ruling House

1st House of Self

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The Emperor

Aries is the ram—a beautiful, proud, and fierce creature.

Aries is the ram—a beautiful, proud, and fierce creature.

Loving an Aries Woman

Aries Love Compatibility Chart

SignDate RangeCompatibility With Aries


March 21 – April 19

Lots of spontaneity and passion will ensue when Aries meets Aries in love.


April 20 – May 20

Taurus has the ability to balance out Aries' wild and impatient side. This partnership can be a great learning experience for both Aries and Taurus.


May 21 – June 20

Gemini and Aries have a powerful physical connection. They balance each other out and can work together to discover new and meaningful experiences.


June 21 – July 22

Opposites attract! Aries and Cancer must find a way to come to terms with their differences, and if and when they do, they can be an excellent pair.


July 23 – August 22

Aries and Leo have a lot in common, and these relationships can be quite fiery. These two must learn to get along.


August 23 – September 22

Aries and Virgo may seem like total opposites, but if they take the time to get to know each other and focus on each other's strengths, they really learn a lot.


September 23 – October 22

Libra and Aries are polar opposites on the Zodiac chart. The sexual energy between these two is thrilling, and they can often find ways to balance each other's energies.


October 23 – November 21

Aries and Scorpio are a match made in heaven. They are both passionate and can achieve great things when they work together.


November 22 – December 21

When Sagittarius and Aries come together, the result is a thrilling romance and great friendship. They are matched well in terms of enthusiasm and drive.


December 22 – January 19

Aries and Capricorn are a tough match. Both need to work hard to maintain the relationship and set their differences aside.


January 20 – February 18

Both Aquarius and Aries value independence, but the level of communication and friendship can be sky-high when these two signs are in a relationship.


February 18 – March 20

Pisces and Aries may not seem like a perfect match on the surface, but these two signs can learn a lot from each other.

© 2011 hababot


Marlene on June 06, 2020:

I'm an Aries. Our dark side comes out when we realize our loyalty to you has been abused or taken for granted. If a man has manipulated my emotions and I discover I was played, you can be sure your life will be made miserable.

We will play you back like no tomorrow as we give our hearts and emotions sincerely and deeply. To be made a fool of, this will kill us inside. People tend to underestimate us and think we will stay loyal despite the abuse and games.

Just don't do it please.

Sandra-Elizabeth Hood on April 18, 2020:

Very inappropriate to say an Aries would ruin someone's life..im offended by this author's way of speaking. And I'm saying this on my beloved mothers memory. This type of statement shows your lack of integrity and true attitude. Not impressed.

Kid on April 07, 2020:

I think this article is bullshit.

Maddison volt on April 07, 2020:

As an Aries...I'd have to say a lot, not all but a lot of what you said is not quit true... For onr thing once I fall in love, no matter how bad the guy may hurt me I would never even think about "hunting" him down or making his life a living hell.

Krisheil on March 15, 2020:

Im aries woman.and i dont take shit to anyone.if u play with me ,i will play with you.i dont loke people coimplaining that their weak.i hate that .i dont share when it comes to the person i love..touch my man,and go hide to hell..because i will ruin you...i am bitch but i have a good heart if they deserve it.

Rachel on February 22, 2020:

Literal bitches. So rude, manipulative, possessive and love drama. Literally can't stand even one of the Aries woman I know. They all think they know it all, and get a kick out of making others look stupid. Im over buying into their shit. Beware- if you are too nice to them they'll take advantage of you. Need to keep a good distance from them and always leave them wanting more or they'll just treat you like shit.

Lauren on February 12, 2020:

You make us sound like man eaters

Natasha on January 17, 2020:

I am an aries woman...n yes we are so loyal...so loyal..that sometimes the people i love start taking me for granted...thinking that no matter what i am never going to leave them...yes we are loyal but that doesnt mean ...anyone can disrespect...our self respect is priority...never forget that!!!

Natasha on January 17, 2020:

I am an aries woman...and an aries women never chase...

If any aries is chasing,she just wants to get you for self satisfaction..after that she is going to leave u definitely...aries women never miss or think of anyone...they dont see any problem in moving on...if u dont show interest...she will move on for sure.aries are not afraid of the fact that someone know their secret...they are actually afraid of nothing.

Natashia reyes on December 31, 2019:

I am a true aries and alot of this is true. As i get older i have learned to control my temper better. I do require stronger males to keep up with me. And coturna my ex husband was a capricorn and brought him to his knees. Wr have a 6 year old together he try his hardest to get back on my good side everytime he sees me. I give him the the cold shoulder. Capricorns biggest secrets are they hate to be perceived as a bad person. I told his hold family and mine about all of his dirt. And my alimony and child support is a constant reminder to him that my heart and time is not a contract to sign lightly on. Capricorns love wealth and work. Which is great because he will need it for hurting me.

Aaniyah on October 05, 2019:

i disagree on this stuff on the part when it said how to get aries to forgive you it said go on with your life and show that your happy without us aries thats not true because im a aries and i dont think that. If i see hem happy without me i would be happy so we dont have to be together.

Griselda on September 10, 2019:

I disagree on " going on with your life and show her your happy without her " or "she can chase you forever". As an Aries we DO NOT CHASE/LOL. We fall in love immediately and have no problem moving on immediately. You show us you dont care we are confident to move on the following day.

Neasha on September 10, 2019:

I’m a Aries woman I should say Aries are loyal we loyal and down to earth but don’t cross us don’t have us thinking U love and care bout us when u really don’t .we play a hard game to get even with you so if u have a Aries woman love on her and express your love we love that we love to feel important.

Molly on September 05, 2019:

I'm an aries woman and some of what you say is true. When I was younger I would get my own back on people that hurt me but as I've matured I've learnt that's not the best way to go about things as it can backfire. Best to let them stew in their own sh!t.

I feel a lot of this describes when I was younger but I'm extremely intuitive and can spot a dishonest person a mile away. I just don't let them know that I'm on to them because it's not my business, I just stay out their way.

I can have a firey side but its takes ALOT to push me over the edge these days, I don't like to give people the satisfaction either. I probably come across as a really strong person and a bit cold, but once you get to know me I'm really soft underneath it all. I think aries women like to give off the impression we are fine and can handle anything. That's just not the case though.

Melissasassaqueen on September 03, 2019:

I am Aries women I need deep romantic passion Harley Quinn and joker love die for me as I die for you if ur not willing make me first and love me and you hurt my heart and show interest in another girl then I will revenge you to show you like widow make u feel same pain I felt from you then I will leave until then i will only chase u for that reason bc if u don’t think I’m number one or everything from the start then u will never truly get my heart sorry to say may sound cold but treat me right and I’ll treat you like gold ;)

Kayla on July 03, 2019:

Honestly i agree with this a lot.Coturno i hate capricorns for a fact and trust me us aries wouldn't even want to be touched because we will make you pay for what you have done.

Coturno on May 22, 2019:

I am not afraid of an Aries woman. I am a Capricorn true alpha male and I keep

an Aries woman oh her toes with me. Only because one day she tries to play mind games with me and I talk directly to her that doing that was so immature then I stop taking to her... give her the freeze iceberg treatment the only that a Capricorn could give. She is continuously trying to impress me or trying to talking to me... I don’t back down for her. She is flirting with everybody when I am around, I never give any sign to her of nothing, she trying to smile when she is with others guys. Even for a reason she must have to talk to me, I even left her talking, I get just give her a abhors look and make an excuse to leave her the her word in her mouth. She knows that I know all her secrets... what I see she really is afraid of me. Fir know I am do nothing, but I keep her on guard because if she make just one wrong move, I will make her pay back so hard that she will never stand up again. Because as a Capricorn we learn to be a master strategist. We know, when and how to give the last punch to knock you down or go for the kill. And the best we give you that last punch with class!

Sasha on May 21, 2019:

Hi I am an Aries and I actually agree with what they are talking about because there's a lot of problems I go into being with an aries cuz I know I'm hot-headed and I'm complicated sometimes and I don't understand it but I really agree with this and I love it so much I just like learning a lot about my sign and a lot of sign

Kristen on March 13, 2019:

Nailed it. That is me to a tee.

thomas clover on February 01, 2019:

Transparency is the key in business and human dealings, i got cybercatt07 at gm ail dot c om... on here thinking that he was one of these fakers but to my surprise he turned out to be the realest i have ever met, i hired him for two different jobs and he did both perfectly. If you are still contacting unethical and fake hackers then you will be a clown after seeing me drop this comment about a true hacker, be smart.

Shelley W on December 08, 2018:

Well, once again I'm being called a bitch, I am just over it!! The horoscope is very accurate. I read Aries is a masculine sign. I truly believe, if I was a man that bitch word would not be used as much as it is to describe me. Do any other Aries women feel like we are not appreciated for our directness? I really have toned it down, I keep silent on a lot of things, because I've learned "just because I think it, I don't have to say it!! The other problem, If you really don't want my opinion don't ask me, my honesty is from my sincerity to help. The real kicker is family members and my lover, they feel free to say whatever to me (because I'm perceived as being tuff, but if I say few choice words to defend myself or get angry I'm the bitch!! I know I have it in me to be very scary, but as I am older and more mature, I realize this is not a good way to walk through life, but dammit I am a fire sign, the first of the Zodiac it's my nature to go full steam ahead at a level 10. I can't be a 4 without going crazy, can they just let me be 6 and be happy!!

Catherine Drew on November 29, 2018:

Never been violent in my life. I'm the calmest, most easy going person in the room for 99% of the year but if someone is truly out of line...watch out.

fed up on November 18, 2018:

i heard aries man have a more cheating tendency, and not pretty loyal at all, *sorry dude, but technically as friends i get along with this guys instantly, finding out in the end they are aries, haha*.

my aries friend dated two of them... the love of her life, etc. etc. didnt went so well...

anyway- aries female here.

no drama here... just fed up on November 18, 2018:

its me again, ive learn that you should never chase anyone at all, no matter how much they have hurted you. that's my advice to all my fellow aries.

another thing.... not all aries are the same, some are cheaters, but most are loyal anyway. i think some caps are just controlling, as i recall, and untrusting... so that's why they thought those little white lies are a mortal sin. no one is perfect, im honest most of the time, but sometimes people can do some white lies. and its not even about any guy for goodness sake, it was a petty one. so i broke up with him... and yeah... im that person who posted months ago, about saying this thread is funny.... things have change.

if they dont like you, dont chase. im sure most aries female are like that. i have no time for game. i hate mind games and playing. i would rather a guy tell me its over so i wont lean on. im glad being single due to some heavy problems in my personal life, not because im picky, or whatever. some people are just fuking lucky... but not me when it comes to love. i would always be ready to mingle, but something always bad happens before i even start to mingle, meaning real life problems. and i havent even tried to met any. lol. so dont judge why some people are still single, its not always because there is something wrong with them... but life just sucks.

Marci79 on November 17, 2018:

Incredibly accurate!

Jj stanton on August 11, 2018:

Wow,I'm an Aries man and I'm leaving an aries woman as she has been dishonest manipulating and right now has bolted to the beach with someone after I caught her lieing who she said she was supposed to be going with,very sneaky and secretive,does no wrong and has no respect for anyone,I believe alot has to do with what we have been brought up around and raised and been threw in life as I had a seven year relationship with another one and I'm the one who fd up and thought the grass was greener and of course it wasn't,and perhaps this is some karma as well from that but regardless yes alot of traits just depends on the person,and so I pack my stuff and scamper,,,

Faith on July 28, 2018:

It's accurate but I only chase when it's worth it..and I'm truly in love with you..If I don't chase you then that means I didn't really like you that much. I seek revenge only if you make me so mad...when we finally won I'll literally get out of your life and never hear from me again. This is me at least.

whatever on July 27, 2018:

lmao, i just read this again... omg AS IN. THE MOST HILARIOUS THING THAT I HAVE READ. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IS THIS coming from a capricorn guy? ahahahahahahhahahahaa.

im sorry that your ex was like this to you. ahahahahaha. did you cheated on her? that you are totally mad about her leaving you? cause i hear resentment and pure bitternes... omg, so funny. ahahahahahahhahahaha

now i feel like pestering a capricorn guy. hmmm.....

i do admire them for their hard work though, i actually dont mind if they are hard working, and doesnt text me much (its actually a very very plus sign for me, cause everything is just chill, meaning, normal, like a friend at the same time, while im working myself too, also i would have my lil ol me time alone. and at the end of the day, we will just hang out. hahahahha

oh i dated one back then, we are always together, i am the one who said lets break , its my fault, but i dont see my future with him in the long run... its not about him, actually i cant even write anything bad about him... my temper just took off one time, but we get along after, but one time, he was thinking that i lied to him, just caused i hanged out with my friends, to watch a movie, the party was actually cancelled, so instead we went to see a movie with a bunch of my two friends. he keeps on calling, so i have to leave the movie house, wow, now i am recalling shit. i even have to pay extra just so i could go to his demand, that everytime he needs me im there, or maybe because we are so used to each other (i think he was controlling me, as i write this stuff) the thing is, he was so used to me pampering him, actually we do the same with each other. so basically, i made a mistake once, and he blew up... after that i accidentally say, lets break up due to our first biggest argument. i would actually say, i was scared, also i dont love him that much, sorry to say, cause for me love takes time, but im sure i like him, cause duh, why would i be hanging out with him then? i return the dedication and such, also just cause i dont know how to handle a relationship at that time, cause he might actually be the first one whom i always hang out with. this is the fault of the fking scorpion sht in my pass, that i thought he was going to do the same to me, by breaking it off for no reason, while he cheats, but i know this capricorn guy, he isnt like that at all. cause thats a different case, and lets just say, it ended badly at first. he isnt good looking, but no one cheated between us. i like how slower pace he was doing, he was so dedicated, like always wanting to see me, even when he is tired from work, i could tell, so i have to take care of him, cause i was still studying in college, while he was working. he did called me up again, after i break off with him after a few days, i didnt chase after him though, but we meet just to end us formerly. actually, for me, its better that way, he was a good karma to me... something like that to be honest,i didnt even ate for 3 days after i break off with him, cause i was so used to his presence before. also honestly, im more well off than him tbh, lets just say, someone i admire so much in my life or family , is a taurus and i saw how he goes from rags to riches. and i saw how hardworking he is which i truly greatly admire in a person. so i didnt care if im more well off than him. i dont care if ya hate us... hahaha... if one capricorn comes along again, why not? hahaha

whatever on July 27, 2018:

nah... dont be paranoid, lol... not all aries woman would like to check your life after they are fully over you. lol. i respect privacy, cause i want to be respected back... that's the way i am.

also with the name calling... i cant edit my comment, but, that's the way i perceive him... so why not/ hahaha. i dont care to be called mean, cause i am... but i am also nice. which i dont like to explain to anyone anymore... action speak louder than words anyway. haha

i maybe the most toughest aries, cause of my rat/tiger ascendant, thank god for aquarius, though i dont like pisces, i fking hate that i fall into these ascendant and for venus... no just no way! i realized though, all i have to do is not read it, so i wont be like that psychologically. hahaha. cause im just here for fun and to share stuff.

whatever on July 27, 2018:

wow, even before i read everything, i am already laughing... well well well... i guess that's why i have many aries female friends, hahahaha. we think the same way sisters. hahahaha.

also for the guy who wrote to pretend to avoid... its not a good thing to do... not really. become friends first, and dont confessed that easily... aries who are not new to datings are turn off by this... well... im not sure with the others, but i am. cause of my aquarius moon.

my other friends are somehow like this, but she moved on completely, but she dated a lot of guys, i only date them, but no interaction happened, as i am conservative due to my upbringing, and why not?. actually, all of them are different... i have one aries friend who is really like me though.

whatever on July 27, 2018:

sorry, i disagree with some of the things that are written, maybe its because of my aquarius moons doing, and my year of the rat. tbh, when im done, im done... forgiven a lot of times, forgotten it a lot of times... then finally i am fed up... your a good bye... lol, nope, not really, about the name calling.

actually i have made some man cries for me. first of, a lying scum bag scorpion who cheated on me, take note, i dont chase men, i let them chase me. im awfully happy that i won of course, cause i didnt give him my everything. actually this is not about zodiac anymore either, its just a fuking guide. to make the story short, cause i really dont care about him, i made the a-hole cry. and why not? i dont want to state it anymore, cause i dont care.

the next one is a leo, well, he is paranoid, im sure not all leos are like this. i met him through my friends whom are sister, one is a taurus, and aries, he started liking the taurus first, then these two friends of mine who are sister has other friends and cousin, whom he have oral stuff with capricorn and pisces lol, and dated their cousin who is a libra... actually even if he didnt dated them, i still dont like him romantically. i feel bad for him first cause my two friends who are sister are avoiding him, so i talked to him, and sht. even when i have early morning class back in college, the story he kept telling me was just going in cycle, and i have to tell him i need to go cause i still have class early in the am, but he wouldnt let me, so i am beginning to avoid him, cause i am becoming late to class.. the thing is, the dude falls hard for me, and will cry while calling me up... its not really pleasant but irritating. i tried all approach from turning him down and explaining i never felt the same way, he was the one who even said we dated, when for me, it was a fking friendly hang out!!!!!

and take note, it was just once! i was surprise when he started giving me stuff, which i thought friends maybe do that. you know, if i dont like the person, i just dont. it does not mean my humanitarian are kicking in, that i already have fallen for you. he never stopped bugging me, that it i have to show him another approach and that is to show my tiger side, which is get really mad at him, even shouted at him... but nothing... after years, he is still shitting on me that he still likes me, when i thought he has already gotten over me. this scorpio btch kept calling me btw even after years, i have to lie to both of them that i am married just to get rid of them in my life.

whatever on July 27, 2018:

always about the male.... sigh... what about females? sorry, but today i just lost interest on something all of a sudden... its a total drop for me. aries woman here btw.

Sabrina on June 29, 2018:

Haha some of the points are accurate. But if you’re in a fight with an Aries the best thing to do is give them space. It takes me about 5-10 minutes to cool off and I’ll usually be the first to apologize. Because believe it or not we hate fighting, yes we love a challenge and love to win but we typically don’t like fighting because that’s when you see us at our worst. But the worst thing to do is to cling to us, most will literally end up punching you, you don’t want to make us even more mad than we already are. I’m and extremely sensitive aries, and we get hurt pretty easily but we bottle it up until one thing makes us blow up and emotions from things that happened months ago will come back to the surface. But yes we are mean when we are hurt because we don’t want to seem vulnerable but I’ve never shared any secrets of the other person, just depends on your Aries woman

Mazzanti on June 27, 2018:


Megan on June 09, 2018:

Some points are accurate, as with some Are not. I am in agreeance with if you do some something that hurts anyone I love or myself I will expose, subtract, devide you as deserved. Aries can't stand liars because they demand love truth, respect and order. No more and no less. Now is that to much to ask for? I know it's not :)

Fire 3-21 on June 06, 2018:

I am an Aries woman born on March 21. This article is hilariously accurate!

gwendolyn kattlaydee on May 28, 2018:

i love the reverse psychology advice...be on your gaurd..it is all calculated, nothing is innocent..guys, you are gonna need all the tricks you can pull out of your bag to use on these psycho ladies...might wanna run cuz she's a hexenbeast and im not kidding

vave on May 22, 2018:

I am an aries woman too.

I d like to say like the rest of the girls that I never seek revenge after a breakup either. I have more than enough self respect to not run after a fleeing partner. I get hurt, I cry, I gather my pieces and I woman up and move on. And that is actually the end of it. No late night or drunken messages, no nothing. I just get on with my life.

hurt aries on May 15, 2018:

Revenge no ..because we move on. And ouch man ..An aries can be very loving and sweet when you are worth it. Stop being so angry about us aries woman.

Deirdra on March 11, 2018:

I do have to say although this is fiercely accurate it depends on the crime of my partner. Typically if the person is honest during their exit, im very forgiving, however, if you lie, cheat etc. then my wrath can be heinous. I will never stoop to the level of the other person i.e revenge cheating, i will however publicly expose you for the horrible person you are and cut you off like you never existed. When an Aries is betrayed the pain is brutal for us, because basically, even though you might still be living and breathing, you're dead in our minds.

Deirdra on March 11, 2018:

Im an Aries and this is so accurate its comical.

CG on March 09, 2018:

Between lies in court and cheating my aries woman was every version of human garbage. Btw capricorn guy here

Kelly on March 09, 2018:

Lol, yep, you summed it up perfectly

Miss curiousity on February 15, 2018:

I'm Aries and yes, I have a tough shell, I'm fiercely independent and passionate but one thing I NEVER do is go out for revenge. So you got that part TOTALLY WRONG and should amend this article. If or when I feel rejected, I look for all the possible faults in that person & convince myself I never loved them (even though I truly did). I will never share their secrets or dish the dirt on them.... Then I just vanish from their lives. Delete (even block) all contact with them and I move on quickly. It's called self-preservation. Completely the opposite to how this article says which is a shame, as everything else was spot on.

SHARON on February 15, 2018:


Haley on February 11, 2018:

Most of this is true I'm an aries woman and I will show you my devoted love as long as it's being returned but where your wrong is that as soon as I realize the man is starting to become unsure of me or blows me off or ignores me i will not Chase i will cut you off like you were nothing and not look back

jamella on January 31, 2018:

I am an Aries and this was EXCELLENT and so TRUE! Great job! lol

Kressa on January 21, 2018:

do yourself a favour and dont believe in this form of stereotyped thinking that can be found on astrology sites - all people are different and should not be put in labeled boxes. just be yourself and be good to each other. peace...

Virgo Man on December 26, 2017:

My Aries woman is a sexy Goddess. She can act tuff but once you get her to love you she is really soft under that "I don't need a man" attitude. If you have found a sexy Aries Goddess just let her do whatever she wants and have complete trust in her and never lie to her. If you do that you don't have to worry about her cheating. Worst thing you can do to an Aries woman is to not trust her because they like being the best at everything including being trustworthy. There is something about the way Aries women are so sexy and they don't act like it or even know it that it makes them extremely desirable. One thing is for sure if you are smart enough "I'm a Virgo so I'm extremely intelligent and fortunately an Alpha Male" then just let her lead the way and be on damage control duty behind her. This will make her happy. Once she is happy and trusts you she will open up to you and let you have her heart. Then you realise that an Aries woman can be one of the best in bed. Especially when she's a 5 ft. 2 in. 120 lbs. Blond haired, blue eyed, sexy Goddess and I'm a 6 ft. 1in. 200 lbs. Virgo with a desire to perfect everything I do including changing my personality so I never upset my Aries woman by learning Astrology and studying our natal charts and using Numerology to understand our personalities better. I still can't believe i get to be with her, I tell her everyday I'm not good enough for her, but I'll keep trying even though I know I'll never be that perfect.

Miss Sherry on December 14, 2017:

I'm an Aries woman and hitting below the belt after or during an argument or after a breakup is something we just do not do...the fact that what we say hurt is because we speak facts and it doesn't mean that we tried to hurt you. Now revenge takes up way too much of our time, we'd rather just move on and forget about you. Trying to get revenge on someone after a break up just gives away our power. We may blow up in a rage but in 5 minutes we will act like it never happened. Sorry your experience with an Aries left a bitter taste in your mouth, but that revenge stunt that she pulled had nothing to do with her Aries characteristics..she was just immature and hateful.

MGOOOD on November 19, 2017:

I am an Aries, and I am a romantic. Cue the following songlyrics, which give anyone in this weird modern world pause for thought:

Ladies, all the ladies, louder now, help me out

Come on, all the ladies, let's talk about sex, all right [x2]

Yo, Pep, I don't think they're gonna play this on the radio

(And why not? Everybody has sex)

I mean, everybody should be makin' love

(Come on, how many guys you know make love?)

(Salt 'N' Pepa: Let's Talk About Sex)

Extraterrestrial, running over pedestrians

In a space ship while they screamin' at me

"Let's just be friends"

(Eminem: My Name Is..)


Kind correction on November 04, 2017:

Men, please don't associate Aries women with violence and revenge. 9/10 times, once you and an Aries woman break up, you'll be asking yourself "where did she go?" We'll disappear at most. All that tacky crazy behavior is immature. I wouldn't have the time or energy for all of that even if I wanted to seek revenge, which I do not. Carry on.

Aries girl 29 on October 25, 2017:

This is so true all of it.. I'm an aries.. Plus we only chase & persue if we know that u are interested we just want u kno that the feelings are mutual.. We are not pretenders.. Itz either we like u or we dnt..

Lisa the Aries on October 23, 2017:

This is pretty accurate. As an aries I have 0% time for BS and that includes mind games and liars. I’m also a human lie detector and I’m REALLY good at it. I over analyze everything and for my own amusement I like to read people. I may have a hot explosive temper but 10 minutes later it’s over and let’s move on. My greatest downfall is that I view most relationships as disposable. If you can’t meet me on my level BYE-BYE. I personally find lying to be one of the greatest betrayals. If someone lies to me I cut them off and I’ll never give you a second chance. I tend to always attract Gemini and Aquarius. If I date either one of these signs it always ends horribly. The biggest misconception is that ALL rams like S&M or hard rough sex. I’ve read a lot of reports that say that. While I definitely don’t like sissy men who always want to be on top, I also am not into whips and cuffs. I’ll cuff you and whip your ass but I have no desire to let you do that to me. Us aries get a bad rap as bossy bitches. We tend to just take everything on and do it ourselves, because if we don’t do it (what ever needs to be done) who will? As far as begging goes, I’ve personally never had a guy beg me to be with them. Most men are intimidated by me because they can’t be my knight in shining armor. I’ll never choose a knight in shining armor kind of guy, I’d rather have buffed out sporty guy on a Harley.

Aries Female on October 21, 2017:

Aries women can care less about only one man that's not a real man. You must be a real man to please an Aries women we are not weak in any area! Weak men are affected by our masculine ways or should I say don't give a fuck heart like a men. It's hard for us to find a man that understands our personal and love it but to the Aries woman try Capricorn male there cool enough to let use de u with no misunderstandings. You all the fun you need!

Pearl Aries on September 24, 2017:

Fistly I just want to say "Fuk u" to the Taurus guy talking about aries woman have man bodies, I am an aries female and I can tell you for free that I am SEXY AF, its okay if you cant handle a strong woman and prefer brain dead bimbos with big boobs SMH. Secondly this is article is a nice load of horse shit, which normal human being (astrology aside) has time to chase after someone who does not want them, I hate it when non aries fanatics post about aries people but haven't got the slightest clue about us, we are more likely to move on from an ex as if they've never existed than chase around someone who we low key dont give a fvck about anyway, however i do agree that if you hurt us deeply, we'll turn the whole planet into HELL just so you will never do it to someone else again. Other than that we are very nice people i promise :).

Wow81 on September 19, 2017:

100% me all way!

JP on June 30, 2017:

After reading this article. I texted her Sorry 100 times. And guess what it worked. She called back and forgave. Me. Thanks.

Anonymous on June 20, 2017:


U did gorget that aries is a direct person. We appreciate directness to the fact that if u dont like us anymore and be direct we actually move on.we play fair.yes we are all in love but to tell u honestly we dont push much to ourselves if the person didnt lime us anymore.and to tell u honestly ur article is not 100 percent acurate since u lack some of the good qualities of our sign.we respect people as we respect others.and ur article seems to be very imature to the point u stated a scenario with an imature thinking. Wheres the respect here?no offense man but stop playing games.if u value ur dignity life and soul respect others.ur lacking of it...u think u can play aries sign for some stupid agenda?no!.we smell bullshit even before the plan made.u sound us like a toyhearted that can always be played on.all i can say is before u played someons heart be cautious and be real and be honest and direct.if u want to people respect u respect urself.no wonder there is hatred and negativeness in these world in.people like you wont help the society infact ur advice just ruined once person self respect.using and dump?lol..ibguess people with imature thinking will defenitely 100 percent agree on this.hahahah.and please be aware that other signs have flaws too.not just aries.and by the ways thanks 4 ur article its just shown that aries should be more careful and be wise picky with regards to choosing for who will let us in into ourlives..godbless us soul.cheers :)

Wow on June 07, 2017:

Wow it sounds like u don't like us!!! Maybe you've been hurt by one

Atheadosa Sheppard on May 19, 2017:


Michelle haynes on April 03, 2017:

I am about 80% agreement with this article for the most part I have very similarities but some not so much pow!!! Hit the nail on the head on point!!!!

Taurus91 on March 27, 2017:

Aires women are fun to bang, if you like banging a chick in a mans body. (oh thats gonna hurt lol). Selfish? Narcissistic? Impatient AF? Yes!,

Love triangle? You better expect it!

Still giving me head on a daily basis? makes it hard to walk away...

Theres a tiny tip for you warriors. lol!

Blam on March 21, 2017:

Just got broken up with by an Aries woman. Hands-down, the most narcissistic, cold-hearted, manipulative and sociopathic female I have ever encountered in my life. And I have known females of all astrological signs. I am a Leo.

Steven on March 13, 2017:

Aries woman left me for another guy ...want her back ...any help out there plse...

Untame Aries on March 02, 2017:

I'm an aries girl..I do have a temper but when I'm hurt I'm silent and ignore that hurt me..once I've made up my mind that they dont feel the same as I do, I moved on..why would I waste my time on someone who doesnt worth it..and if they ignored me its a goodbye

A true Aries woman on February 28, 2017:

Um.. That begging part is true only if we don't like the person. If it's someone I love, I would be love him more

Rick on December 19, 2016:

This all seems very accurate.

I'm really hoping the ignore the Aries thing works.

Because I gave this girl too much of myself then she pretty much started seeing someone else. She's noncommittal though. But still. Don't give in to their awesome love! Make them earn you every day.

I'm trying to get her back. Through a little ignoring.

Moron on October 20, 2016:

I lie,I lie a lot when I'm angry,but it's not a full lie,it's always a half lie.When I find someone hurtful and is capable of hurting me,I cried at night..and the crying last for days because it sad that people is not as generous and loving as me.im scared of people that do not care of other people's life and problems that's why I ignore those types of ppl.as an Aries,I always want to help people but I guess not everyone wants my help,maybe it's time for us arians to think of ourselves and be more joyful about life

Portia on October 15, 2016:

I'm an Aries woman, born march 29, I disagree with the part that states we Aries women will chase exes, hunt them down and reveal their secrets! I'm never like that! And I don't have time to waste on someone who fucked up ma heart. I Luv hard and wants to be Luv in return. Cos m a lover of true Luv! If a guy leaves me, I may be down for sometime..but will soon pick maself up and moves on! And the funny thing is, almost all ma exes wants me back, but ma answer has always been a blunt "NO"! Cos nobody can have me twice in their lives! M currently with a Sagittarius guy and he's turned out to be a player, liar, cheater etc. But m still with him cos I want to hear that "its over" slip out of his tongue so I can go...but he's not saying it. And whenever I ask him to tell me what he truly feels, he doesnt talk. I know a lot of things that can destroy him, but never have I let it out of ma mouth even wen we are arguing and I don't intend doing it either wen m long gone!!

I'm proud to be an Aries!

leovita on October 09, 2016:

I agree with your article i am Aries I might forgive you once the second time I will tell you to kiss my ass... hahaha haha very true wen I am gud I am gud if you fuck my happiness behind me ill fuck your happiness in front of u

Lajoyce on August 10, 2016:

I agree with this article about 90%. Being an aries woman myself, I cut people off easily if I feel the need to or if I think they are not as interested as I am. I have a great intuition about things like that! I will never hurt a person that I love with words or make their life a living hell. Now as for someone I don't love, that's a different story lol. I know how bold I can be and I only tell people the truth about themselves or situation.

Freya on June 20, 2016:

I am an Aries and I will say it's very true, I agree 100%; however, I will not chase you....well only for like a week but after that it's pretty much kiss my ass! Hahaahahahaa. We are lovable, funny, adventurous, outspoken, caring at heart but will NOT be a fool.

lady on May 21, 2016:

I im a true aries woman i was born 27 march i was reading all that they say about aries woman but i have to disagree about one part about u saying if any man hurt us we will make therw life a living hell by telling there secearts to people, thats a lie i guest you dont really know everything about aries woman then, for one thing when we are hurt or if our bf hurt us, i will tell him about what he did in front of him, i will cuss him out, i dont even have time to carry his business to people, so come clear when u are talking about us

amish on February 11, 2016:

My gf is Aries and she is shorttempered she is so much focused on her career and we love each other but her career is job of metro and I am a town person.my question is

Will she be happy after leaving her career for me?

Or she will criticise me after marriage

We will be happy or not.

I am a sagittarius

zcouto on November 08, 2015:

Lol! I love it..to Arianraiyne this is so true of me too!..i can't understand how or why any woman would stalk or even care about an ex. Move on ladies!

W1totalk on November 04, 2015:

I know three Aries people. They have proven to be generous, kind, sefl-loving, and faithful when things are right. When things turn, it's like they become self-righteous butt cheeks. This girl I met just reminded me of that. Things get petty, assumptive, and blindly- deliberate even when wrong. If it were balanced, things would be cool, but its that all or nothing attitude and only general personal well-being, if you follow what they want. Even when they are wrong, they are right. Everything and anything could be a trigger. Everyone else, when they try, can evaluate themselves internally. I think I'm trying to escape their need to be dominant and simply live in peace and harmony with what I actually want.

Penny on October 27, 2015:

I actually found this article interested with me being an aries woman i found it somewhatt true!!!

Aries out of love on October 25, 2015:

The truth of an Aries women, we fall in love to quickly and when we give our heart to someone, we want them to treasure it and appreciate it. We will spend a life time looking for our true love, but if you break our hearts we suffer dearly. We will be heart broken for a while but we are strong and will love again and take it as a lesson learnt. We just need to learn to be patient in love and relationships.

alice on October 04, 2015:

most of this is true.... love being an aries

zcouto on August 10, 2015:

Lol! I sooo agree with Arianraiyne. As an aries woman, best believe i will s*** on you. As far as walking past someone like u never knew them is exactly what i do! I think our personality just won't tolerate disrespect! How can a woman continue to chase or dwell over someone who never really gave a f*** about you in the first place! That's embarrassing! Know ur worth!

cora. on July 28, 2015:

This is so true . My friend is an aries female. She lies, cheats, stalks, and whines all the time. She is a straight whore but when you call her out she's like I'm not a whore, until you list off the ten guys she screwed in a month. Lol this is so true.

crista on July 14, 2015:

This is somehow true. Except for chasing exes. I don't chase the ex, I simply date someone else. And quick.

I become really cold and erase them completely. I don't have time for games at all.

Doesn't matter on March 11, 2015:

My Aries is the deepest sweetest woman Ive ever met. Sometimes misunderstood because she's so good at reading people it catches them off guard for better or for worse she just knows. But she is always searching for ways to better understand others and never from a place of judgement or self-rightcousness. But I can tell you that Everyman that she has ever had even the slightest romance with is still in love with her. The ones that left her are still regretting it. And that use to bother me but she amazes me everyday cause like you said "there's just something about her" and I'm never letting her go;) just don't tell her that jk she already knows and she appreciates " true love" . Aries women just want to love and be loved truly.

sandip parekh on March 10, 2015:

Aries women are bastered? They have no heart at all. Just leave him. They are devil.

Billy on November 14, 2014:

The comments made by aries clearly validate what is mentioned above. Obnoxious , mean and inconsiderate are some words that come to mind. Saying that she loves you and than withholding love when things are not going their way. Evilest bunch i have encountered. ill tempered and rude not to mention the mouth they have on them , just filthy its not being blunt its plain mean and evil.

zxc on November 14, 2014:


Dee on November 06, 2014:

There's one fact about aries women that has definitely been proven over and over, if you read most of the responses to this forum. You all cannot type a complete sentence without a typo, or get through a complete thought that makes sense. You just sound ignorant and defensive.... Lol... Now go ahead and bash me...

sexyaries27 on October 17, 2014:

Yes most of it are true but it sounds like we're bitches. Aries women are the best lovers that's why we don't settle for less. Try to love one and you'll see. ;)

James D on September 21, 2014:

I also am a Gemini guy. I found aries chicks to be angry and volatile. Kinda coll at first, but takes a toll on me. I need a positive vibe from girl or Im out (unless she z superhot)

Free on September 19, 2014:

I think Gemini girls are the best! Independent, fun, and playful

Killian on September 18, 2014:

I also find it hilarious and fitting that some of the defensive comments made by aries women in response to this article clearly reflect and validate the author's description of their fiery and mean nature...

Killian on September 18, 2014:

I'm a true Gemini. Ex wife and last ex gf were aries. Both were very intense and this article is very accurate. Ex wife threatened to kill herself when broke engagement and later harasses me until we got married. After divorce, she talked so much shit and tried to get me fired from work. Dated another aries for three weeks recently even though I'm remarried but separated. Never made move on her due her mean personality. I showed little interest and she has been hounding me and now I know why. She wants what she can't have. Finally after she found out I was married/separated she went off on me and I'm actually kinda scared. Admittedly I'm drawn to aries women, but their novelty gets old very quickly once their bitter harshness unleashes.

sister11 on July 28, 2014:

i didn't think this review was fair.. if you want a good example.. think of Captain America, the woman Peggy, played by Haley Atwell is a Aries woman thru and thru and it shows in her performance.. my three exes when asked about me mentioned 'pure of heart', 'true blue', 'loyal and brave' and 'a steel backbone wrapped in silk' lol.. i think the mystique surrounding us is because a man instinctively recognizes her when he meets her.. he can't just be anyone, he has to be worthy of respect and admiration, be a man's man with the right stuff, if it's right, the Aries woman could be the love of his life and he knows it. Also, if he doesn't treat her right, she has to walk.. it's not negotiable.. all three of my exes had to die a little bit inside to let me go but they knew what they did. I would say when the right man could unlock everything inside an Aries woman, he knows the ecstasy of life :)

Little bird on July 24, 2014:

I'm an Aries. This complete BS. Violent? Look, if a guy isn't into me I bounce. Sounds like you knew a mental case. But, that's a generalized synopsis of an Arian women. We do not need a man to complete us. If we find a man worth loving, he's lucky and will be treated as a king. Problem is..most men are not men anymore. So, we constantly have to pick up the slack. Aries women wrap circles around most. I'm the prize to be won! I don't have to chase a

man. When it's done it's done. This article seems to be written by a jaded individual. Whom most likely cheated. Every Aries women I know has a golden loving heart. Happy as well as strong. We bounce back like no one else!

victoria on July 23, 2014:

the writer hates Arien that's for sure

Alexandra on July 14, 2014:

Most of the thing u said are true when I want something I have to have it I don't take no for answeer when I said I love u I mean it and if u love me back I won't walk away sometimes I do hate myself cs I do chase after what I can't have but that's who I am I hate challenging and I have to have what I want but we are not the most selfish people on earth we are the best

Aries !! on July 10, 2014:

Ull Never figure us out that is all I have to say ;) !!

Tukito on July 09, 2014:

Hmm it seems an Aries woman and a Scorpio man are too similar. No wonder they always fight.

miya on June 25, 2014:

Mimi i like dhat lol

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