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Dealing With an Aries Woman

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I love explaining the intricacies of the intersection of astrology and romance.

Is your Aries woman suddenly acting cold and angry?

Is your Aries woman suddenly acting cold and angry?

When an Aries Woman Is Done With You

When dealing with an Aries woman, you might find yourself in a situation you've never faced before. You're likely to have fallen head over heels for this mysterious woman for no intelligible reason. In very rare cases (this usually only happens with Capricorns), you'll feel a strong desire to run in the opposite direction as fast as you can, and only look back to make sure you aren't being followed.

But what do you do when an Aries woman is done with you? Maybe she's acting cold or angry, or maybe she's downright ignoring you. What are the best ways of making it up to her, convincing her to forgive you, and getting her back?

Characteristics of an Aries Woman

For those of you unfamiliar with astrology, I'll back up a bit and clarify the definition of an Aries woman. She is, simply enough, any female born between March 21st and April 19th. You'll find that Aries men share some of the same qualities as the women, but I believe that the women exemplify these traits much more as far as this particular sign is concerned.

First, you need to know some basic characteristics of an Aries woman. They are intelligent, humorous, dramatic, witty, seductive, and wise beyond their years. An Aries woman is strong and straightforward. They often are very successful simply because they won't take no for an answer.

Saying no to an Aries woman is much more dangerous than saying yes. She'll take that no as a challenge and pursue to the end—an Aries woman always wants what she's not supposed to have—and she always gets what she wants.

Many people have said that an Aries woman captivates them in an inexplicable manner. "There's just something about her" is a phrase often used to describe this bullheaded female. They have a mysterious, subtle hold over people that even they cannot explain.

Aries Women Are Independent

So, the most important thing you should know about Aries women is that they are extremely independent. They believe that they are their own person and nobody can ever shut that down. They might be dependent on someone else in certain ways—financially or physically, let's say—but they will never ever lose their sense of self.

An Aries woman will never be part of someone else. There is no half of an Aries woman—it is all or nothing. She is not part of a Mr. and Mrs.—she is her own self.

Positive Aries TraitsNegative Aries Traits
















Short temper



Loving an Aries woman can be the most thrilling and terrifying experience of your life. If she truly loves you (oh, and you'll know), she'll be so devoted. Maybe too devoted. She will want to share herself with you. She will divulge secrets that she's kept locked up her whole life. In doing so, she is trusting you with not only her emotions and her life but with her soul.

The problem is that an Aries woman won't understand if you can't do the same. If she gives you her soul, she expects yours in return. If the ram doesn't receive what she desires, she'll feel completely devastated that she let someone break through her tough shell.

A female ram only lets someone in if she thinks it's for life. If she makes up her mind that you don't feel the same (whether you actually do or not isn't important at this point—you'll never convince her otherwise), she will terrorize you until the next poor victim comes along. This could take as short as a week, but be prepared in case it lasts longer.

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Why Are Aries So Cold?

Aries is a fire sign, so Aries women are passionate, not cold, by nature. However, if you get on an Aries' bad side, you'll notice they have the "cold shoulder" approach down to a T. You never know if, when angering an Aries, you're going to get a violently confrontational and angry reaction or a cold, standoffish reaction.

When You Hurt an Aries Woman

Hurt is shown through anger with an Aries woman. She could call you every name imaginable, use your weaknesses against you, or tell other people the secrets you shared with her. This injured ram is capable of using any means necessary (this includes violence) to ruin your life when you've wronged her.

When an Aries Woman Ignores You

If an Aries woman is ignoring you, it's probably because she's hurt. Many Aries use anger to mask their hurt feelings. In this situation, the best thing you can do is to tell her you're sorry, but don't spend too much time apologizing or groveling—acting pathetic is not going to get you any bonus points with an Aries woman.

How to Get an Aries Woman to Forgive You

If you've made a mistake or done something to anger the Aries woman in your life, chances are you're wondering how in the world you're going to get her to forgive you. Apologizing is important, but you also need to make sure you aren't groveling or otherwise acting pathetic.

It's important that you act strong—Aries women despise weakness. Continue going about your life, and show her that you're functioning and even happy without her. You'll also want to show her that you respect her in any way you can.

How to End a Relationship With an Aries Woman

I don't want anyone to be afraid of Aries women. They probably sound like a bit of a handful, but there is plenty of good to go along with the bad. And if you're caught up in a battle with one, I feel pretty confident in sharing my ideas of ways to escape.

First, you need to make yourself very unappealing. Do things you know she hates. Take on characteristics she would never be able to deal with. Then beg her to be with you. Literally, get on your knees and beg.

Act like a sad, pathetic teenager from some lame romance movie. Cling to her legs and tell her you are sorry and you want to spend forever by her side making it up to her. Keep telling her about how you'll never spend time with anyone else but her. An Aries woman doesn't want to be smothered. And she doesn't like pathetic behavior from her partner.

It is very important that you do not blow off an Aries woman. If you are finished with her, don't disappear with the cold shoulder. As I said earlier, an Aries woman loves a challenge, and she wants everything she thinks she can't have. If you make her think she can't have you, she'll chase you around forever.

Simply end the game. Make her believe she's won and she can have you forever—I guarantee she'll be out the door and after the next one in the blink of an eye.

Aries Qualities






Ram's Head







Ruling Planet


Ruling House

1st House of Self

Tarot Card

The Emperor

Aries is the ram—a beautiful, proud, and fierce creature.

Aries is the ram—a beautiful, proud, and fierce creature.

Aries Love Compatibility Chart

SignDate RangeCompatibility With Aries


March 21 – April 19

Lots of spontaneity and passion will ensue when Aries meets Aries in love.


April 20 – May 20

Taurus has the ability to balance out Aries' wild and impatient side. This partnership can be a great learning experience for both Aries and Taurus.


May 21 – June 20

Gemini and Aries have a powerful physical connection. They balance each other out and can work together to discover new and meaningful experiences.


June 21 – July 22

Opposites attract! Aries and Cancer must find a way to come to terms with their differences, and if and when they do, they can be an excellent pair.


July 23 – August 22

Aries and Leo have a lot in common, and these relationships can be quite fiery. These two must learn to get along.


August 23 – September 22

Aries and Virgo may seem like total opposites, but if they take the time to get to know each other and focus on each other's strengths, they really learn a lot.


September 23 – October 22

Libra and Aries are polar opposites on the Zodiac chart. The sexual energy between these two is thrilling, and they can often find ways to balance each other's energies.


October 23 – November 21

Aries and Scorpio are a match made in heaven. They are both passionate and can achieve great things when they work together.


November 22 – December 21

When Sagittarius and Aries come together, the result is a thrilling romance and great friendship. They are matched well in terms of enthusiasm and drive.


December 22 – January 19

Aries and Capricorn are a tough match. Both need to work hard to maintain the relationship and set their differences aside.


January 20 – February 18

Both Aquarius and Aries value independence, but the level of communication and friendship can be sky-high when these two signs are in a relationship.


February 18 – March 20

Pisces and Aries may not seem like a perfect match on the surface, but these two signs can learn a lot from each other.

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