Updated date:

What You Need to Know About Libras Before Dating Them


I am a Scandinavian woman who loves to write about and research zodiac signs.

People who are born under the astrological sign of Libra are known to fantasize about their future princess or prince. Libra's are balanced, but are also major dreamers. As they get older, they realize that life has a lot of things to offer and balance isn't always easy to find. This article will help you understand the characteristics of a Libra and how you can successfully date one.

What You Need to Know About Libras

  1. What are the qualities of a Libra's personality?
  2. What's it like to date a Libra?
  3. Why are people attracted to Libras?
  4. What are the emotional aspects of this air sign?
  5. What are the best careers for this air sign?

Libras are fair and, typically, of stable mind, but they will also feel broken-hearted at times. These hard times will teach them important lessons that may help them to be strong. If you encounter one that has learned these lessons and remained fair, then they might be the best partner you'll ever have. Below is everything you need to know about this intelligent and inquisitive sign.

What Are Libra's Like?

Born: September 23-October 22

Zodiac symbol‎: ‎Scales

Zodiac element‎: ‎Air

Sign ruler‎: ‎Venus

Life experiences help to mold a Libra into a person who has excellent manners. Everyone around them appreciates this quality. Libras may look laid back on the outside, but they often have something brewing inside them that only a few people know about.

Libras are also known to be creative and very eager to succeed in everything that they do. This is the reason why they often succeed in creative businesses. They are very charming, which can help them land the job they most desire.

Their charm also gives them the ability to find friends that are powerful in different fields of life. They are known to treasure happiness and peace in their lives, and they usually want to keep everything in their life as perfect as possible.

The only problem with Libras is that they typically say 'yes' too often. This attitude causes problems, which is why they need to learn when to say 'no'.

Positive and Negative Qualities of Libras

Positive QualitiesNegative Qualities











What's It Like to Date Females of This Air Sign?

Libra women are charming and very enchanting. They are also good at seducing their partners and the people that they are attracted to. One of the most important things to her is the environment. That is why it is ideal to bring her to a place where elegance and class is apparent.

She will surely feel the ambiance and atmosphere in that certain place, so make sure to find a place that will make her feel like a queen. Let her know that you appreciate her as this will flatter her even more.

How to Attract a Female Libra

  • Be romantic.
  • Treat her like a princess.
  • Give her letters and flowers to melt her heart.

What about Libra men? Harmony and charm are the traits of men who are born under the sign of Libra, which is why they are very popular to a lot of women. They have an attitude wherein they can let women see happiness in a Libra man's eye.

Why Do People Date Male Libras?

A lot of women get easily seduced by Libra men. These men have a tendency to look for the perfect woman, but the sad news is that the perfect girl doesn't really exist. If you're into a Libra man, then you need to know how you can flatter him.

You can actually do this by admiring him often and helping him when he's confronted with tough decisions. They will feel happy and flattered that you helped.

What you learn from dating a Libra can teach you a lot about how to interact with other zodiac signs. Make sure to study up on more signs than just Libra.

5 Best Places to Take a Libra On a Date

  1. A summer concert
  2. An art museum
  3. A fashion show
  4. A beautiful hike
  5. The Beach

Why Are People Attracted to Libras?

Libras are one of the easiest astrological signs to be attracted to. They are known to be laid back. This may attract you to a Libra at times. If you are eager to attract them, you may want to flatter and admire them often.

What Is It That This Air Sign Looks for in a Relationship?

You need to treat them as your princess or as a prince. This is one of their fantasies. You also need to keep the conversation going, but make sure to let them talk about themselves. They are often happy talking about the things that they do. You may want to ask them questions about their job or dreams. This will entertain them greatly.

Libras want debates, but these debates should be light-hearted and should only be done to keep the conversation going. If you're going to let a Libra into your home, make sure to clean first to avoid giving a bad impression. Libras have the tendency to keep their first impressions forever.

The way to a Libra’s heart is by being true to yourself and to them, if you do these things they will surely become attracted to you in no time.

The Emotional Aspects of This Air Sign

Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them.

This is, of course, not ideal because the people around them don't know when a Libra's feelings are hurt. Libras tend to do this because they want to make sure that these people are happy whenever they are around a them.

There are people who notice this attitude with Libras, but Libras often deny it because they don't want any conflicts whatsoever.

People who are born under the astrological sign of Libra have problems when it comes to making decisions. They can be insecure and often lack confidence with themselves, which can cause them to turn down certain opportunities that come their way. People under this sign love going out to socialize, but this is because they are looking for people who can make them feel peaceful in some way.

Sometimes, Libras don't known who they really are because they love pleasing everybody around them. They will often give in to any of your favors because they find it hard to say no. This kind of attitude will only cause them to have problems in the future with themselves and the people around them.

People who are born under Libra should start learning how to avoid taking things too seriously, as this will help them to achieve the happiness that they long for.

What Are the Best Careers For This Air Sign?

Libras are not into working hard. They are often lazy when it comes to working with things that are dirty. The good thing is that they have the tendency to know where they can get money from. They have different ideas about businesses that will surely bring success to them and to the people who are going to work with them.

The only problem with Libras is that they need other people to work things out for them. If you're looking for someone to join in your business, you may want to hire a Libra. They are known to be good partners when it comes to businesses.

People under this sign are also good at leading people by way of diplomacy. The only problem is that they can be lazy. Artistic endeavors are perfect for Libras because they can become very wealthy in this kind of field.

Usually, people who are born under the Libra sign are known to be composers, writers, actors, decorators and painters. If you are a Libra and are already into these things, why not make money out of it for you to achieve the success that you truly want?

Libras are a fascinating sign, and surrounding yourself them can bring balance and excitement to your life.


Thabo moja on September 02, 2020:

I am libra male dating a virgo lady we both take cleanliness very seriously but she tends to be jealous and moody I cannot tell her because I bottle everything in me... we get along quite well but I sometimes don't feel whole when I'm with her

Trish on December 20, 2019:

Im a Libra born Sept. 30th exactly 9 months to the second into the year. I agree 100% with this article. I dont care to always see both sides of issues thats bothersome to me.

Rae on November 15, 2018:

The more i got to know my libra girl friend the more i hated her

They can make a great loving person but they wont appreciate your true self...

They want you to be like royalties to fullful their own fantasies. If you love them you'll just end up.being a character in their life, not you.

But i keep changing my decision to break up because I don't want to hurt her. I love her that much.

Crystal on November 01, 2018:

Not lazy I work two jobs I also work everyday of the week But when its time to rest I rest I chill I do nothing and think about nothing

Gigi Libra duh on December 27, 2017:

This is so true I got with someone but he knows I'm a Libra so he tries to treat me like a Queen

He knows me very well so he knows that sometimes I hide my feelings so he tries to cheer me up

I also do that BC I'm trying to avoid more problems

LibraGirlfive on August 31, 2017:

This is true. I hide my feelings just to keep away from troubles and sadness.i easily have friends but i choose those people i keep. I also have a hard time fallin inlove coz im too picky..nope i am not really into elegant places but i love to see people how theyre true to themselves.i love talking and debates.

Magnificent_Korie. on August 28, 2017:

Born on October 3rd, the traits and characteristics in me is the perfect description of a libra. I am a good looking guy that can naturally charm and seduces anyone, even a mermaid. I loves with my whole heart. But when one takes me for granted, I don't look back as I walk away. I suffers a lot inside coz I harbours plenty insides me. Despite some obstacles, nature fetches me most things I places my mind upon and I have my way. I am loved and admired by many. But I am not carried away. The greatest gift the universe bestowed on me is the mysterious and mystical abilities in me. I appreciated nature a lot for the gifts within.

Arlene on May 11, 2017:

Am a Scorpio woman in a relationship with a libra man and I find it hard to love him because I felt I'm not his priority, he is sometimes really sweet and caring Everytime I'm with him but there are times that he can't even reply on my text messages while he is just watching TV on his home. I love him but don't know if I can stand him for long because I am very sweet and caring person and I want a man who is almost the same with me.

maria on May 26, 2016:

its true because my boyfriend is libra have like attitude like that but he is very jealious,

Panda on February 12, 2016:

Librans are good looking, charming and they appreciative. They have an attitude to live life happily. At times they are not spend thrift. They are very loyal and they mean business, they can not be corrupted. They have lot of urge for sex but they will not indulge in unfair sex.

CHIKMO on October 09, 2015:

this is just on point 100% am a libra 25 sep i can now be more at peace with my self .thanks for this...,

Sodiq Babatunde on July 08, 2015:

All what you have said are true and its realy comfirm, i as a libra man, great to you.

Chloe on June 15, 2015:

They often hide their real feelings because they want people to like them....

Very accurate!

hari priya on June 13, 2015:

Ur absolutely correct

Turab ali on June 09, 2015:

I am born under libra star and the good thing is that this whole description belonhs to my side.. :)

janet boniface on May 25, 2015:

waooo! when I was reading this description I was smilling all through, because this is exsactly my fiance.

elle64 (author) from Scandinavia on April 11, 2015:

tanks for commenting.

shoaib on April 10, 2015:

Thanks .what u said is right .what I feel me too is a libra

Simone on January 04, 2015:

Your welcome n thank you!

elle64 (author) from Scandinavia on January 04, 2015:

Thanks a lot Simone- Happy new year to you ,and may your dreams come true.

Simone on January 03, 2015:

This sounds alot like my best friend :) Thank you for posting this, n sharing it with everyone. You should continue on posting more about the zodiac because you put alot of work into your printing n you to an awesome job at it! You add more detail then any other zodiac writers I've seen n I can tell you read alot of the zodiac, great work! ;D

jamez on September 26, 2014:

This blog is so true it im a libra and its all true about not being able to show who you are inside cus its too difficult for people to understand

jerusha on September 08, 2014:

i was born on october 18 as i read this blog i realised and sawed it practically and this is 100 percent true

wanda on August 22, 2014:

Yes u was on point. About everything about a libra women im.was born October 15. And im in love with a gemini male figure. But I want hiim only for me and all the other women is on him my atitude

elle64 (author) from Scandinavia on November 17, 2013:

Hi Teressa. Do not take it to heart-have a good Sunday

Teressa on November 16, 2013:

Born September 25 I like the overall feedback, but I believe that to much emphasis was put on lazy. I am very hardworking, and only take a day for my self. So I'd have to agree to disagree. Especially, because most of my time to is assuring others are happy, that you can not just sit around and do nothing. This is a common theme I've noticed but wonder where it stems from. Thanks for the truth as you may see it

Dickson on July 29, 2013:

Right ! I am a libra man who was born on 2 october , by the way I appreciate your blog because you write actual things which libra people have . On my side I am so handsome because everywhere I go people always tell me that I am so handsome. And also in our school my fellow students always appreciate me in my appearance and character is nice and touching . I am glad to see your blog also explaining this character briefly . Keep it up !!!

sulina on May 10, 2013:

this libra characteristic is 100 percent correct for me.

Ritu on April 27, 2013:

Very nice...when i read this, i feel that someone explains me very accuratly..thanku so much..love it..

Brenda from Springfield, MO on March 26, 2013:

I have two kids that Libra my oldest daughter and my middle son, and this is dead on about them. Grate post.

elle64 (author) from Scandinavia on February 10, 2013:

Hope it works out.

Nakia Deon on February 10, 2013:

I am falling for a Libra...but he keeps sending mixed signals. He sings to me and gets touchy feely one day and totally ignores me the next.

This post gives me a great deal of insight into the type of man he is...and why I am so attracted to him.

Lady Jen Palven from Philippines on January 02, 2013:

While I was reading, I was like this is me. I am smiling when reading your blog because your description of a person who is a libra is very true especially when you said that we tend to hide their feelings and immediately will say yes to any questions. I am glad that you made this hub.Thank you very much :)

gratefulbarbie from Rochester, NY on December 15, 2012:

Excellent description.

Peter from Australia on July 08, 2012:

Very interesting description and looking back at Librans that I know is fairly accurate.

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on May 29, 2012:

Surprisingly accurate description of me; I'd say almost exactly right. Great hub and interesting!

Related Articles