Astrology Signs: How Virgo and Gemini Get Along

Updated on June 13, 2019
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Christofer has been a paralegal for 25 years. He has 4 children and 8 grandchildren. He and his mother studied astrology for over 40 years.

Virginal and Varied

The Virgin and the Twin

This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Gemini and Virgo.

Virgo is an Earth Sign. Gemini is an Air Sign. Virgo is Mutable. Gemini is Mutable. This makes the Virgo stable but understanding and flexible in the qualities that they bring to relationships. The mutability of Gemini air seems to make more physical sense with air molecules blowing up into the atmosphere. Virgo’s mutability is most interesting because they have tolerance and patience; their groundedness makes them almost hypercritical but also naïve.

Gemini could amaze the Virgo and keep it off balance. If the Virgo were attracted to the Gemini, it would have to admire the Twin. Sometimes Gemini can come off as shallow, but many times they can be downright brilliant and impressive. Virgo might be taken with a soul that seemed not to be burdened with the sensitive and turbulent inner life of the Virgin. Gemini can be quite philosophical, and Virgo, though most preoccupied with the world as they see it, might be convinced of the seriousness of Gemini. Gemini could see the earth sign’s practicality and love it for its fresh innocence, while still being able to dodge the Virgin’s critical tongue with its own cleverness.

Positive Postulate

Virgo’s secret nagging worries are always plaguing them. Their heads are always otherwise preoccupied as they tend to theirs and others’ lives. Gemini can bring a real freshness and breezy lightheartedness to the Virgo’s life. The cures that Virgo’s practical lifestyle could bring to the Gemini could be very salubrious. However, Gemini does not feel tons of guilt and resists the very concept of perfection. This difference of opinion about life is a stark one, but it could have a positive effect on both of them.

Romance Recommendation

Gemini and Virgo would probably not be explosive romancers. Gemini’s malleability and quicksilver quality would allow Virgo to be a little more imaginative than they would probably let themselves be. Romance for the Virgo might need more sincerity, but a loving Gemini could certainly work on that.

Conflict Quotient

Virgo and Gemini could really need to focus on getting conflicts actually resolved. While Virgo can be quite critical on a continuing basis, Gemini can retort with machine-gun speed. If Gemini were inspired to be critical, they could do it quite masterfully with their ultra-sharp mind and tongue. This is not a scenario that would encourage relationship growth. In fact, it could be destructive.

Peace Parlay

Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Gemini and Virgo, if they became a real partnership or couple, could live the peaceful quietude that Virgo might have been planning for, as they improve their gardens and add a beautiful den. Gemini, needing variety, would tend to keep things more than just mundane. From a long-term standpoint, this envisions an attractive horizon.

Keep Up the Interest Graph

Virgo does not mind an “interesting life” as long as the basics were covered. Nothing is more interesting to Virgo than keeping the elements of life in control. Once that was addressed, vitality, fun and variety can be as appealing to Virgo as Gemini. Gemini might tire of Virgo’s almost painful insistence on their main concerns, but barring the Twins’ exasperation, they could remain interested in each other’s deeply felt love.

Seven-Year Itchiness

There are some signs that, by their nature, are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. The 7-year itch can trip up any union. Virgo hates falling prey to human things like this. Gemini by nature might be more susceptible. Virgo could be chronically worried about where Gemini’s attention was being aimed, and the 7th year might worry them more.

AstroCompatibility Positivity Rating

60% Positive Long-Term; 70% Short-Term. If Virgo’s innocence and Gemini’s outer lack of innocence worked, there could be attachment. If Virgo honestly was captured by Gemini’s mercurial ways, Gemini could appreciate Virgo’s gifts, and something long-term might happen. There is much here to be learned from each other.


Questions & Answers

  • I'm in a relationship with a Virgo and things are just fine. I just worry that he might be too quick on changing from one way to another too fast. I'm very capable to slow down and work things through with him, but what might be some other ways to keep us from breaking apart? I love him dearly so any help would be wonderful for our relationship.

    Virgos are not too demanding----just keep agreeing with them. Don't be too dramatic. Stay un angry. Virgos are good eggs...just a little hard to understand. Love, just love.

  • Can two Gemini’s be together?

    Geminis can be highly electrical and irritable just sitting alone at night. The rhythms of each is important. First of all, just learn when your Gemini wants to declare their opinions. Don't interrupt each other so much. Don't pretend to listen to each other -- ACTUALLY listen to each other. Let lovemaking be slow and reverent....deliberately try. Just mixing love will be important. BOREDOM can creep up. Sparkle as much as you can with each other!


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      Virgo dating gemini (13 months now) 

      5 weeks ago

      Hey unknown here again virgo.

      I'm a virgo F 23 and I've been with my gemini partner 28 M for 13 months.

      I wanted to post here as I've read your stuff and before I started dating the twin I knew nothing about astrology and I had no idea about people generally considering the virgin + the twin being a bad combo.

      I was initially attracted to him because of his huge intellect, bravery and kindness and it's gone far. He's extremely loving but doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve (definitely the strong sensitive type) and I feel like I still find new things about him every day.

      My only problems in the relationship have been his messiness and pride. We problem solve very effectively and he's proven himself to be less messy over time, he's a great listener, very philosophical and empathic to me.

      He can be very shallow with others but there's a serious bond he exhibits to me and others he loves.

      My number one tip is lay down boundaries surrounding messinessand tell the gemini when they are bothering you and fully converse until its ironed out.

      Don't be afraid to bring things up again if you don't see change.

      Try to be less of a perfectionist.

      The deep mercurial side of the gemini will reel you in and if you're a lover of peace, sanctitude and intellectual discussion youll love the gemini.

      Don't be afraid of wasting your time, give them a chance.

      Oh and patience as they can be a bit annoying sometimes haha

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      Unknown here again...(Virgo) 

      2 months ago

      I’m obviously here because I’m interested in a Gemini and he is very impressive, but that’s not even what attracts me to him really. All I did was hit him up saying crazy stuff and we just because instant friends. I’d text him and he’d text me first it is a balance. But I know I don’t even get along with Gemini’s knowing the knowledge I had experienced... and just reading about them makes it a bit worse because I don’t want to ever set myself up to fail. But he is always...using my smart remarks back at me when I know half of what I say is a bit dramatic at times “ok whatever.” Which isn’t dramatic to me but if I think about why I’m actually mad at him for it then you’ll see. But there is a kind heart that I see in him and I like that. For me, i don’t know if I speak for other virgos but one bad thing can ruin something good for me and it shouldn’t be that way. Sometimes I deal with it until I get tired of it.

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      2 months ago

      Hi, I’m a Virgo Female and I have the most hardest times trusting people. If I do trust you I give you all of me and there’s no taking it back because I rarely make the mistake of choosing the wrong person to trust. Gemini’s...we’ll definitely the biggest thing any Virgo will run into is communication issues and it’s not because Gemini’s. it’s us Virgos we close up quick and we also critize so much that it literally isn’t s joke. In a group chat they were saying we’d have to joke with a guy and we did but afterwards... I was like me just typing that! I felt fake because I know me, I wouldn’t say that. so yes that led to me criticizing even more. Just small things like me not having my way when you don’t have a reason for me to do this with straight forward.

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      patrick evans 

      7 years ago

      hey i appreciate the advice and comment. This sign stuff is all new to me but freaks me out as to how accurate the personality descriptions are, just unbelievable!!!!!. Thanks again. After studying her sign and seeing how she defines it i am definitly waiting for her and going to set myself aside,shes worth the wait from what i know of her so far.

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      Christofer French 

      7 years ago from Denver

      Patrick evans: You are sounding just like a Gemini, so that should make you feel comfortable. Gemini is famous for creating electricity and makes its senses soar. So, a lot of this could be just you. You are right about her unemployment. Virgo can be very difficult later on in a relationship as they start telling you about all your flaws. A Virgo single for 10 years. You are talking yourself into a deep love. Get to know her. Let her see your real side(s).

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      Patrick evans 

      7 years ago

      Ima gemini and just started dating a virgo lady. we hit it of great she started texting how awsome i was and how wonderful i was by respecting her and just caring for her, so i fall hook line and sinker for her. Those texts were extremely sensitive so that's why i fell for her. came close to having sex the second date but she stopped it,then it almost happened again th 3rd date but i stopped it this time just to prove shes mor than aone night stand. Now for the curveball!!!!!!!!! Since that night she has went in reverse at light speed. Blowing my mind and totally freaking me out. The texting came to almost nothing . So i ask her and she sas shes scared of getting hurt and getting to close. True her past Xs walked all over her and treated her like crap. Now to make it worse her job is getting cut turning her world upside down. I am now preparing to be completely shut out understanding she doesn't have tym to work on a relationship. just started studying her sign and holy holy shit she defines the description. VIRGO ladies HELP. I am willing to wait ,wait ,wait for this lady. SHE is truly mesmorising in beauty to look at. Eyes that almost hypnotize you. Any advice here would be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!! Its only been a month and a half of dating and i would marry this girl without any hesitation after a litle more dating. She said its nothing iv done and admitted after being single for 10 yrs she struggles leting me in and having someone in her schedule. look forward to all comments thanks. also the love that virgos offer is exactly the kind im looking for that's why im willing to wait . How long does a loving gemini wait for a virgo before calling it quits???

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      Christofer French 

      7 years ago from Denver

      ?: If he is doing all he can do, then it's little naïve Virgo trying to make up her Virginal mind. Either, you should listen to what your mind is telling you and go out and find your "right one". or explore the possibility that you are a tad spoiled, young and inexperienced and should give him more of a shot. Gemini is a pretty nonboring sign. Go out with a couple boring earth signs and see what that does for your "interest".

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      7 years ago

      I've been knowing my Gemini 4years going on 5. He is hella romantic and love spending time with me! The only problem is... I don't if he's the right one for me? I never gave him a shot! what should I do(I am a VIRGO)? Do Virgo's really mix well with Gemini?

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      Brown Kimberlybee 

      7 years ago from Navarre, Florida

      Yes his a is my A , It causes problems because thiers a communication gap.Second im pychic @ have been for a long time, (IM 31 started seeing things around 6 or 7) and very interested with the spirtual world because that's all i know. He's Penecoastal. But i know he loves me, Its just hard because he's very one track minded while i'll told a conversation with a satantist, not saying that i agree with them im open minded @ allways looking for a knowldge.

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      Christofer French 

      7 years ago from Denver

      This is a strong declaration from a Virgo. The Gemini can certainly be benefitted by strong Virgo character. The Gemini is fun and alive and worth the time. Good fortune.

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      Brown Kimberlybee 

      7 years ago from Navarre, Florida

      im with a gemini we don't see eye too eye, but i got a feeling he's not going anywhere anytime soon. i sense that im probly gona end up marrying him. sense!!!

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      9 years ago

      Oh what an amazing article! I am a Virgo and have been with my Gemini man for 2 yr and...oh snap today is our 2 yr 1 mnth anniversary ( goes to call bf)....but neways yea we've been together for a while now and we definitely have communication problems at times but we are working on our own little techniques and keywords because we love eachother so much we'd hate to end anything! This is a very insightful article tho...thanx!


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