Astrology Signs: How Virgo and Gemini Get Along
Virginal and Varied
The Virgin and the Twin
This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Gemini and Virgo.
Virgo is an Earth Sign. Gemini is an Air Sign. Virgo is Mutable. Gemini is Mutable. This makes the Virgo stable but understanding and flexible in the qualities that they bring to relationships. The mutability of Gemini air seems to make more physical sense with air molecules blowing up into the atmosphere. Virgo’s mutability is most interesting because they have tolerance and patience; their groundedness makes them almost hypercritical but also naïve.
Gemini could amaze the Virgo and keep it off balance. If the Virgo were attracted to the Gemini, it would have to admire the Twin. Sometimes Gemini can come off as shallow, but many times they can be downright brilliant and impressive. Virgo might be taken with a soul that seemed not to be burdened with the sensitive and turbulent inner life of the Virgin. Gemini can be quite philosophical, and Virgo, though most preoccupied with the world as they see it, might be convinced of the seriousness of Gemini. Gemini could see the earth sign’s practicality and love it for its fresh innocence, while still being able to dodge the Virgin’s critical tongue with its own cleverness.
Virgo’s secret nagging worries are always plaguing them. Their heads are always otherwise preoccupied as they tend to theirs and others’ lives. Gemini can bring a real freshness and breezy lightheartedness to the Virgo’s life. The cures that Virgo’s practical lifestyle could bring to the Gemini could be very salubrious. However, Gemini does not feel tons of guilt and resists the very concept of perfection. This difference of opinion about life is a stark one, but it could have a positive effect on both of them.
Gemini and Virgo would probably not be explosive romancers. Gemini’s malleability and quicksilver quality would allow Virgo to be a little more imaginative than they would probably let themselves be. Romance for the Virgo might need more sincerity, but a loving Gemini could certainly work on that.
Virgo and Gemini could really need to focus on getting conflicts actually resolved. While Virgo can be quite critical on a continuing basis, Gemini can retort with machine-gun speed. If Gemini were inspired to be critical, they could do it quite masterfully with their ultra-sharp mind and tongue. This is not a scenario that would encourage relationship growth. In fact, it could be destructive.
Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Gemini and Virgo, if they became a real partnership or couple, could live the peaceful quietude that Virgo might have been planning for, as they improve their gardens and add a beautiful den. Gemini, needing variety, would tend to keep things more than just mundane. From a long-term standpoint, this envisions an attractive horizon.
Keep Up the Interest Graph
Virgo does not mind an “interesting life” as long as the basics were covered. Nothing is more interesting to Virgo than keeping the elements of life in control. Once that was addressed, vitality, fun and variety can be as appealing to Virgo as Gemini. Gemini might tire of Virgo’s almost painful insistence on their main concerns, but barring the Twins’ exasperation, they could remain interested in each other’s deeply felt love.
There are some signs that, by their nature, are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. The 7-year itch can trip up any union. Virgo hates falling prey to human things like this. Gemini by nature might be more susceptible. Virgo could be chronically worried about where Gemini’s attention was being aimed, and the 7th year might worry them more.
AstroCompatibility Positivity Rating
60% Positive Long-Term; 70% Short-Term. If Virgo’s innocence and Gemini’s outer lack of innocence worked, there could be attachment. If Virgo honestly was captured by Gemini’s mercurial ways, Gemini could appreciate Virgo’s gifts, and something long-term might happen. There is much here to be learned from each other.
Questions & Answers
I have a Virgo boyfriend and him and I have been togetherness for 7 months now, do you think we are going to be together even longer?
VIRG and GEM can be together a good long time. The GEM must be TRUE. The VIRG should not be too critical. The GEM should listen more. The VIRG is not as righteous as they think. The GEM is not as bad as they think. VIRG can not hide their naivete. Gem can't act naive, because they are not. It's easy to think you all are very much alike. Don't make that mistake. Respect how you are different. Love each other.Helpful 16
I am a Gemini guy and I love a Virgo girl, can we become life partners?
Glad you included the issue about "life partner" because gemini and virgo tend to differ on the topic of commitment. Virgo is thought to be the more serious and conservative and "by the book". People characterize Gemini as being unpredictable and fun and changeable---and thus, to be questioned as to that big Word "commitment". The answer is YES, sure. If BOTH want!Helpful 15
I'm a Virgo girl and my partner is a Gemini. We have been together for 3 years. Should my partner and I marry?
The question of "should we marry" is very complex and goes way beyond simply knowing sun signs. However, I can make some Astro observations. Virgo tendency is to approach issues with innocence and naivete which gives them a sense of clarity. A female Virgo can see the Gemini charm, especially with affection and warmth, in a very accepting and open way.
After 3 years, I would guess that there is a depth of knowledge that you both have about one another that is strong. Ask yourselves these questions: How do we deal with criticism in each other. Has temper come up in conversation. Geminis can be too clever at times. Does he listen well? I have been married for 40 years. If marriage is an issue now, talk about it in terms of goals, plans, and finance. And a big question is about love. Short term is probably not an issue. You both should talk about "long term concerns"Helpful 8
I am a Gemini and I have a Virgo BFF. We are starting to drift apart slowly, I feel it. She is insensitive towards my feelings and can't understand how I actually feel. We are starting to ignore each other or get mad at each other almost every day. At the same time, I put a lot of my trust in her and do not want to lose her. What should I do?
Cheerful, cheery Gemini often gets judged on the anvil of perfect Virgo. Virgo is just correct, as far as they are concerned and if you are hurt or tearful, then that just proves they are right. Virgo is naive and virginal. Its not that they are mean or vicious. It's just that they are right, in their eyes. If you are up to it, ask for a "sit down". Show your feelings, ask for theirs. Don't be surprised if they fail to understand. If they admit that you both need to work on the relationship, then you can go from there.Helpful 6
I am Virgo and my moon sign is Leo. He is a Gemini with Moon sign Aquarius. I want to know whether we are compatible or not?
Virgo/Moon Leo makes you perfectionistic, naive and innocent, but your moon gets you--proud on the inside and sure you aren't wrong. If you had a little emotional doubt, it would help, but you don't----- not much anyway.
Gemini with Moon in Aqua is a great talker. Sure of his wild ideas, especially if "off base". A Gem can piss off a Virgo just by talking.Helpful 5