Christofer has been a paralegal for 25 years. He has 4 children and 8 grandchildren. He and his mother studied astrology for over 40 years.
This article will examine the compatibility of Aries and Capricorn relationships. We'll take an in-depth look at how these signs interact with each other, what challenges they can have, and how they can overcome those challenges. Remember that the astro-compatibility rating is based on my factors. The paragraphs below will explain the results in detail.
Aries and Capricorn Astro-Compatibility Rating
- 85% Positive Long Term Success Rate
- 50% Short Term Success Rate
Summary: The older the relationship gets, the better. Capricorn will be the reason it could last, and also the reason it might never mature. The older the Aries gets, the less its boundless energy would be destructive. The newer this relationship is, the higher the possibility that it might not work. Assuming Capricorn's virtues were seen by Aries as good in the "long term," and Capricorn saw all of Aries' strengths, this could be a relationship with kids, money, and success.
How Do the Goat and the Ram Interact?
These signs are both "Cardinal", which means they share an action-oriented approach to what they do. Aries is fire and Capricorn is earth. Capricorns are typically action-oriented people and, being an earth sign, they always have "a plan." Capricorns feed Aries' energy and bursting ambitious ideation. Aries can make the best of Capricorn's "finished plan," since Aries are not the best at finishing their own plans.
A romance between these two would make quite an image. In a light-hearted way, you can see Aries talking up a storm about how dynamic they are, and Capricorn nodding as they check out Aries' resume. Romance is definitely not an afterthought, but it would only be a part of the package with these two. Aries would do their appealing thing, and Capricorn, knowing that even though they think sex is kind of a funny human thing, would see the absolute importance of it here. There is a good potential for compatibility, but the compatibility would not be that important unless Capricorn saw a future in it. Let's not leave Aries' attraction out of it. Capricorn could have all of its lists and rules, but if Capricorn were not appealing and attractive to Aries, it would not matter. And that is why the Divine made Capricorn's mystical animal features.
The Capricorn is not an actual goat, and it is not the Devil. It is a creature that can handle and adapt to different settings. Even though they are tough on others, they are an exceedingly successful sign. Capricorn, if they fell for Aries, would manifest its romantic prowess, as best it could. As I said, this creates an image that is a story in itself.
Aries and Capricorn Are a Positive Match
Since Aries and Capricorn share "cardinality", there is a basic match-up here. Fire and Earth work too, positively speaking, because these two could make a family and a corporation together. Earth turns into hard porcelain what Aries conceives and concocts from fired clay.
Regardless of how the genders work, if they were both serious, it could end up as an institution. Capricorn would take things cautiously in the beginning, and since Aries seems to be always game, it could proceed apace, in ever increasing heat, as Capricorn checked off the progress points. Aries' intelligence and brightness would be analyzed and assessed by Capricorn. All Capricorn would have to do is keep up its implicit part of the bargain—which would be to stay almost as dynamic and compelling as Aries.
Positive and Negative Qualities of an Aries
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Aries and Capricorn Have a High Romance Factor
The romance part would probably be the largest hurdle, but Aries and Capricorn could possibly have a high romance factor. If Capricorn could keep Aries' interest and they had a mutuality of passion, the way ahead could look very clear and unobstructed.
Capricorn would have to keep its sometimes negative sense of humor in check and not get into a critical or sardonic mode. Aries should promise not to lose its temper. Romance "dampening" is a strong possibility with these two personalities, who often have strong egos, which they advertise on their front porch, day and night. They should both think about not irritating each other as a point of reverence for the health of the relationship.
Positive and Negative Qualities of a Capricorn
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Potential Conflicts for These Signs
Aries and Capricorn might not come to blows, but they could get really snappy! Aries could try to head knock the Goat, and the Goat could jump up one rock and the Aries could bruise their face. Aries might retaliate too hard if Capricorn let slip one of its torpedoes. Then they could be "off to the races". Neither will be intimidated, and both are too well armed for anybody's health. This match could be a notice from the heavens that both should check their quick mouth at the door. We are down here to get conflict in perspective. Often these two could learn to pull their punches, for the long term health of the relationship. Reconciliation and harmony should be pursued as strongly as their commercial and career interests.
How These Astrological Signs Can Make Peace
Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Capricorn and Aries might take different points of view on the boredom question. Capricorn would enjoy basking in success and enjoying the nice things that it has purchased, to show off its success. Aries would spend less time eating from the fine china and sunning on the deck. Capricorn might build their savings, while Aries might want to spend the savings on another vacation or timeshare. If both have moderated their tempers and kept up mutual respect, then they could work out the boredom issues; but both should realize that this part of the relationship could mean that "counterbalancing" was in order.
How Aries and Capricorn Can Stay Interested in Each Other
Capricorn would always be aware, if they truly appreciated and loved Aries, that "keeping up the interest" would be a career goal. If it makes it onto that list, then Capricorn will be OK. If not, then Capricorn's tendency toward smugness and self-satisfaction could trip it up. Aries would be as good as any at "keeping up the interest," unless it was subconsciously angry or resentful, and was not really aware of it. If Capricorn has truly lost its interest in Aries, it would probably express it in several ways. Aries's constant vitality and automatic rotating focus, could destabilize things, so it would want to remember how fortunate it is.
What Happens Between Aries and Capricorn After Years Together
There are some signs that, by their nature, are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. Both of these Cardinal signs are not going to be shy about taking action in love, if they have gone through 6 years of unhappiness. However, Capricorn is not going to mess up what they have invested in. Aries, however, might wander onto another hill just because, after 7 years, they are inquisitive. Capricorn would let all kinds of possibilities into its head, but that's because they are always pondering "career options." But because their whole life is a career, they would not be impulsive. Aries could be tempted, but because they are constantly tempted, they might see it for what it is—a temptation to be resisted.
Questions & Answers
Question: Do Capricorn women and Aries men make a good couple?
Answer: Capricorn and Aries can be perfect together, but there is a big word "Depending". If you are together right now and have no BIG problems, you are well on your way to having good harmony and profitable experiences. Potential problems--Capricorn serious patterns vs. Aries strong demands and willfulness. Aries desire to direct fun and Joy vs. Capricorn scorn, deadpan analysis and "Superiority". Two together and happy, they could have a family, run a business takeover the world..
Question: I'm a female Capricorn, older than the Aries I'm interested in by 9 years. I have a disability and while there's interest, I'm afraid my disability will cause the interest to fail. He's very athletic and I struggle due to my handicap. We have a strong sex drive but how do I get more out of relationship?
Answer: If your Aries is younger and very "energetic", then that is good for you, but you want "more", then I would predict that a female Cap with a disability would be heartfelt, earnest, serious, with a good sense of humor and a wonderful long term companion. Your question is what is "more". I could propose that an Aries male is a younger Aries male, but how could I know? Start conversations. Talk about broad topics. Get to know him more. Offer serious sides of yourself. Aries are energetic fireballs. Caps are earnest, thoughtful, serious-minded people. Is he deep, complex, educated? Are you his fling? Test the waters of heart mind and soul. Is he worthy of you? Is he real?
Question: Can a Aries man and a Capricorn woman have a a dating relationship and or a married relationship with kids?
Answer: These days you could have a "dating relationship" as an experience which could be broken up if there were a lack of fulfillment on the part of the Aries man or Capricorn woman. The second part of the question seems to be focusing not on "dating" or "marriage", but a more REAL LIFE situational question. since you have not disclosed the custodial angle, (i.e. male has kid or kids, female has kid or kids, or kids from previous relationships join in a "modern family"---and then a new kid is born from both you, I must conclude that you are asking for a basic astro opinion.
So, a straight astro opinion would be that an Aries Man could be highly attractive to a Capricorn woman if he has a stable career and a record of strong steady employment. Sure, he could be romantic, high energy and very interesting to listen to.
Cap Female should ask, after weather he's got a GOOD job; the next would be does he listen to you---does he respect you---and when you become quiet or give your serious Cap opinion on a marital or familial issue, does he listen or dismiss you because you don't have as big a personality as he does. Does he intimidate the Cap woman? Is the Cap woman smarter than the Aries male.
The Aries Male should ask if the Female Cap wants to control things financially. He should ask if she appreciates him on a broad basis, not just because of his muscle and youth. Since Cap humor can be a touch irritating, does he put up with that, or is he OK with Cap's slightly superior ways of communicating. NOW for a passing observation about .parenting--DISCUSS PARENTING PHILOSOPHY BIG TIME. Varying POINTS OF VIEW could be the MAKING or the RUINATION of the Aries/Capricorn union.
Question: I'm a 29 year old male Capricorn. My girlfriend is a 29 year old Aries. We've both had some issues. We're both sober now and working towards our goals. We live apart but we talk every day through multiple formats. We both love each other and want a future together, but we both have reservations. We want to move in together soon, and begin our lives with both feet on the right path. Is it possible to get over the past and move forward? Or are we fighting against the tide?
Answer: You both sound like your past experiences and current ages would fit reconciliation and "starting over". There are two "Saturn Returns" that occur around 28 -29 and later around 56, The return of Saturn to its Birth Position means it is a TIME FOR GROWTH. This is an excellent time for growth and improvement. IF you have FORGIVEN each other AND yourselves, you probably have a shot. I would count on it.. Don't waste your Soul work. You have invested more than you even know in each other, Of course, you must try again.. Cap can be unforgiving and morose. That's because they really want life to work! Give your Aries woman a chance. She's strong and fiery. and she needs an UPBEAT Cap. Go to her with an uplifting plan, and "get on your knees" and give her your heart, even if its the 10th time.
Question: I’m an Aries sun, Pisces moon, Gemini rising. All these Capricorn boys are coming out of the woodwork when it comes to me, what exactly is it that has them lining up?
Answer: "All these Capricorn boys" (if what you say is true) are tuning into A. Your pure highly charged Aries energy. Capricorns love sparkling females who also look like they can balance finances. B. Your Gemini Rising adds luster, an easy smile, a quick wit and a lack of shyness. "My Gawd".. You have the Capricorn at hello. C. Then, your holiness of Pisces coats your subconscious with special subtle and neon cultures of DEEP UNDERSTANDING. Only advice for you is interview well! Capricorns are the best business guys in the Zodiac
© 2009 Christofer French
Christofer French (author) from Denver on August 31, 2020:
Aries and Capricorn, as many might note are the two statistically who seem to line up as being deeply interested in one another. First, think of FIRE. Aries glows with plans. Every morning they crackle. Capricorn invents the hard shape of reality. If these two are in Love and Harmony, they COMBINE their excellent minds and resources for everything from a family picnic to the building of a new home. The don't fight. They are both so strong, that they agree not to fight.
Chezzy on August 31, 2020:
I am very attracted to a 58yr old female. She in Cap and i am Aires. I am so scared became I have not felt like this toward another woman before. When we are in the same room, I feel aroused and let my imagination run wild about being intimate with her. We have had a few conversation and she mentioned that she has a male friend whom she has been friends with for 20yrs but has never had a sexual relationship. She is very driven to success and seem to always have a nose in a book. I do love that about her but fear that I do not as share her drive to succeed. I consider myself to be educated, (degree and masters level) but she is now studying for a 3rd masters.
Do i risk telling her of my attraction or should I just walk away?
I just do not want to be embarrassed by an outright rejection especially if she is unaware of the electricity between us.
Jayeta on July 14, 2020:
I'm a capricorn women and my lover prasun is a aries man. He have some problem about his astrological prediction, "that if he marry any women he can't happy with her., "So he decided brackup the relationship, and staying like a friend with me.. so can, any chance if we married, to devours with us??
Ashna on May 29, 2020:
Do you think that a Aries girl and a Capricorn boy go together and will thry live a long happy life together with kids
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 27, 2020:
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Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 14, 2020:
Warmariesgyal: Forgive me, but you sound too patient and forgiving to be a hard and fast Aries. Capricorn's can be snotty and superior, but he sounds impolite and almost disrespectful. Lets say you are both the way you are. If you disagree with my take, then maybe rising signs or other aspects come into play and affect you both. If you are still separated, I think you should do a lot of assessing and heart searching. I can't predict, but CAPS tend to get more CAP, the older they get. ARIES should search for a "heart hookup". All the best. Bless you.
Christopher (Spartacus)` on March 26, 2019:
I live and love a cap. He is a great guy. A Lot of the time he makes lame jokes and is not funny and I make fun of him for it,. He can also annoy me so much that I yell at him. He angers and forgets just like me. He is a total duffus. He is corny and repeats himself. He is always here for me. He is tough and strong willed- He is socially awkward and he even thinks I am socially awkward. We show each other off but can embarrass each other. He makes me feel important and even intelligent.
He is a true Capricorn. Practical. News Loving. Smart. Predictable. The moments always annoy me. He can be very step by step even in cooking. When he tells me every step he's doing in the kitchen always bugs me but I love him for it. He grew up as the forgotten child and I was the popular child. We both have similar stories even being so apart. I mean he is a business man and I am a selfish unkind being. He loves seeing me in the door when he comes home and I love making him happy. We lead different lives and he's almost like a child. Where I am a child attempting to be an adult. I love him because we are so different and these differences frustrate and anger us however, we are always present after the darkness subsidies. It seems to be equal.
Johnny on December 12, 2018:
Lovely article. I’m a Capricorn with Taurus rising and Sagittarius moon. Current Gaga over an Aries girl with Aquarius rising and Capricorn moon. Been friends for decades but things are starting to “heat” up. Based on our signs what do you think?
Anonymous on December 03, 2018:
I've got a child with a Capricorn and I am an Aries.
Fancyface from Mount Pleasant, South Carolina on June 09, 2018:
I am an Aries woman in love with this Capricorn man. I have previously dated 2 other Capricorn men that didn’t work out mostly because they were very clingy one didn’t talk much at all about anything and they really have no ambition. They had thoughts but didn’t do anything about them. I said I would never bother dating a capericorn again but I am surrounded by caps all my closest friends are caps,And this one I am involved with now I have known since Highschool. We became good friends towords the end of school and I had to move again. I am 3 years older. When I moved back after being gone for 2 years he was just graduating and I told him we could give it a try after he graduated and we did, but I still felt some type of way about being older, so feel stupid about this now. So we went our separate ways but we’re friends. He actually had to go to jail for a few years and when he got out I had moved and I heard he got married and his wife was in the military and so on. I moved back again after 3 years got back with an ex and one day he shows up to my house with his wife and I felt something drop into the pit of my stomach! My ex knew that I had a special place in my heart for him. I moved away again and was gone for 4 years, I return and in 2009 but did not run into him until 2012, in which I had that same feeling in my stomach. And we started up what I thought was going to be a relationship, but i guess I didn’t approach it right, I wasn’t in the best cercumstances, I was so excited to have him in my life that I was extra gitty! We went our separate ways and he dated this girl for 3 the three years as I occupied my time with some else. We both say we had miserable relationships and one day he ends up at my house visiting a roommate. I tried to push the thought of him away but he persisted. And of course I was gitty another chance, smh! He told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship I understood we both were coming out of terrible relationships. I like taking things slow being friends first, I did begin to realize he was a man now and I had to get to know him in this way. It has taken me at least a full year and half to stop being gitty when I am around him. Because of the the disappointment and being let down though the first time I had a wall up and bc of the Wall I also have a hard time talking to him about my feelings so how can I really expect him to talk about his. I do know that he loves me and feels the same about me but for whatever reason I can not seem to open up to him and most of the time I am trying to figure out what to say to him or how to say it and of course with that much thought it still doesn’t come out right or I don’t say anything. How do I as an Aires woman who has a lot to say begin to open up to this Cappy man! I know once i do this will all change. I also have to say that this capy man is quite a bit different than the other two I had dated one for a year and the other for 3 years. He isn’t clingy, he basically isn’t up my butt, which I believe people should have there space be able to be around others without the extra Drama.
Because Cappys take there time like a turtle and I’m an Aries fast like a rabbit! Lol! Head first gotta at least give it a try. My patients is so being tested. I feel like he is Leah’s testing me and I always fail them, I know cause sometimes he tells me that was a test. I will fail every time because I don’t want to do or say something that’s going to make him not want me. And this is coming from the I don’t give a damn Aries that usually just says whatever. But I can’t get a real open conversation started because I don’t know how to? So please folks help me get some words and thoughts together to talk to him so I can open up to him and maybe he will eventually open up. I know if I ask he will answer.
Melisande from Northern California, USA on October 14, 2017:
Loved "how do you get your Gemini sibling to stop talking?" SO true.
Ariesgirl on July 08, 2017:
My son is capricorn... I am aries. I love my son to death... Raising a capricorn has tauht me so much about this sign. I am aries/ April.. He is capricrn/ Jan. We dont always see eye to eye.. But we can always accomplish our goals as mother and son
Aries woman on July 08, 2017:
I have felll head over heels in love with my capricorn male!!! I love a challenge!!! But.. Im also a more laid back aries. I wont give an opinion unless absolutely necessary. I was raised that the man is the head not based on signs. My male is more cautious right now when it comes to love.. I am very patient. I hope we grow into a loving, inseparable couple soon
ati on September 20, 2016:
i am cap girl who in love with aries man
we almost get back together we didnot actually break up you know in cap- aries relationship there are always treating of breaking up but actually its just a treat because of two stubborn signs, the fact is that when they spend time together they feel like they complete each other and actually cant leave each other so they will always back together this is most fighting most loving most angry and most interesting and finally most compliting realtionship !!!
ati on August 26, 2016:
hi i am a cap girl who recently had break up with my Aries man
we actually did not completely break up we had a bad fight he told me he does like me but did bad manner after a while because we had to see each other at work!!
i tried to fix things up and text him and call him he did not answer then he told me I do not want to be with you. and then he comes around and flirt with the the girl who I hate, at my face!! he act childish and I want to forget him he doesn't let me!!
I still love him but he doesn't seems to know what he wants! I dont know what to do with him !!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on November 27, 2015:
For things that keep you "going", for Aries Cap has manifold levels, so lightning fast Aries sees Cap virtue of true earnestness and a full agenda. Aries likes "complicated" So on a daily basis they don't get bored. Cap feeds off of Aries energy. Aries love the way Cap follows through, since Aries tends not to finish things well.
Both of you could stop snapping and fighting. The ram just pushes to declare its there. Cap pushes people around because they are sure they are smarter than others. Mainly Cap is not smarter. They are impatient because others dont know all of their secret plans. They just make scheduling an art. And they are sure others dont achieve like they do. And they are right. Others achieve like they achieve. Aries should appreciate Caps virtues and learn to be quiet more. Cap should be patient and realize that planning does not make genius. Each should respect each others virtues. Blessings and be well.
Lisa on November 27, 2015:
Well, i have been reading the comments from most and it's encouraging. I'm an Aries woman with a Cap guy. We have known eachother for almost 9 years at work and became close friends. We have been in a relationship for over 3 years. As friends we were close and the connection was always there for something more, but i never pursued and he didn't until he initiated and chased. He changed the relationship to something more. I let him make the moves.
We both have made mistakes and continue to. I think what works for us is the fact that we had a foundation as friends, we can always go to that. He was hurt in his wilder Cap days when he threw himself and his heart into the wrong relationships.
He is a really great guy with a good heart that he doesn't allow just anyone to see and i am lucky to call my best friend. There have been many moments where i wanted to leave him and our relationship. Our verbal sparing can get loud with bad tempers, however, after we cool down (mostly me) we are normal and caring as ever. It is pretty odd for two signs that are not supposed to get along that after a fight when we look at each other it's like a calmness. It's the weirdest thing!
Aries are not easy people to deal with and neither are Caps. Right now, my problem with him is that i want to spend time with him in true Cap fashion work is first and it's when he decides. This is the frustrating part. You know when an Aries stomps their little feet and they want something now and when it isn't delivered what happens.....lol.
I came here looking to see what keeps an Aries and Capricorn going, I'm sure i am not the only one that wanted to give up. For me, it's the fact that something will be torn from me if i left him, no matter how much he drives me insane and vice versa.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on October 12, 2015:
Veronica: You seem to have a great deal of self awareness and a true desire to not fall into typical patterns (whatever they are for whatever sign). This beginning of conscious self awareness is what helps a match work. Sure you are going to be a Cap for the rest of your life, but an enlivened and improving person is what you want. Temperamental and moody states kind of naturally emerge from the challenge of your sun sign. You are very organized and determined, but that does lead to moody Capricornian states. The best thing is to understand when they are coming over you and develop a technique for elevating your mindset. Sounds like you are happy with him. You are right in recognizing that Caps can TIRE their loved ones. Once you know that, it will get better. I have a good feeling about this. Blessings.
Aza on October 11, 2015:
I'm with an Aries man and I'm a Capricorn I have a very big heart I always do everything for everyone else and I never reject anyone that needs help. FYI to the genius Aries woman of I mean immature little girl who put we are evil we aren't evil we don't being manipulated by ur head games. Which mine doesn't know I know what he's doing. From the beginning he's lied and I've forgiven him over and over again he hides everything but wants me to pour my emotions out. He's hot and cold and he constantly doubts my love for him as if I'm lying when I love I love hard I never stay with someone I don't feel a lot for. And for my Aries to constantly question me is agitating as if I'm lying to him and I'm not. Yesterday he said to come over and I said I would and he again played me he's never honest or he's hiding a lot. Idk if he's doing this to push me away or if he likes constantly being complimented. I'm not like that I don't put myself down like he does. To a Capricorn it becomes annoying to constantly pacify his insecurities and makes me question if he's trying to push me away. He loves playing Mind games and I hate it. He did that bs again yesterday I told him he was turning me on and he said not me, as if I was lying and I said huh? N he said he's not the one turning me on so I got upset and said ok and wouldn't text him until 8 hours later cause I couldn't figure out wtf he was saying. I apologized to him for my earlier behavior and that idk why after 7 months of being together he thinks he doesn't turn me on and I told him he always turns me on. Well the stubborn ass will not text me and so I texted him goodnight that I was going to go lay down. It's been almost a day and I haven't heard f him. He can hurt me all he wants and say he's sorry and I forgive him but I say ok and apologize n he says nothing. He's told me he loves me over and over and I've told him. But he wants to be babied and I shouldn't ask him to reciprocate bc then I'll look too clingy. Well idk wth he wants. So I'm letting it go I'm not going to text him and give him his space like I always do. If a girl was constantly putting herself down and searching for compliments like he is we would b considered to seek treatment for it. I've never said to a guy I'm not anyone special, I suck why are u with me like he does. I'm totally confused with what to do any input from an Aries male would be extra appreciated. I don't want to lose him and I'm not clingy I won't text him or bother him until he's ready to talk. He's accused me of being with other people and questions it a lot n I told him I think u r talking to other people too and he said good comeback lol. I told him no I do. He acts like why am I with him. I love him I don't ever want to hurt him. And I tell him all I want to do is make u happy. But the ply ext I sent after he implied he wasn't doing anything to turn me on made me feel like he's trying to push me away! Help would b great w this one idk if he's insecure or he wants me to believe he's not anyone to be with?
Christofer's Flow on March 27, 2015:
I have a cap daughter in law. she is marvelous and charming. check out my triad article for deeper insight.
Veronica on March 26, 2015:
This article makes me feel like there is hope. I have read other articles saying an aries and capricorn aren't very compatible and it scares the shit out of me. I have been with my aries boyfriend for a little over a year now and I am head over heals for him. We both are artists and have grown up in similar family situations. Our moms are both capricorns and he has a strong dislike for her saying that she would be mean and controlling over him. My mom has a similar personality. I am also a capricorn and I am constantly freaking out because I notice myself acting the same sometimes. Temperamental, moody.. It's really hard to control. Normally, I am really happy and ambitious and he loves that about me. I'm just afraid that he might tire when I am going through a dark stage and just abandon me. I'm worried that all this time and love I have invested into him will just be tossed away and I will have to start over with someone else. Maybe it's just a personality flaw. I don't know. I wouldn't want to leave him, despite my fears, I think he's too amazing to leave.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on December 09, 2014:
You can use my thread. This is all self designed. Much luck and Thanks for your kind words.
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Christofer French (author) from Denver on October 15, 2014:
capgirl: If there weren't such a strong draw there would not be such dire warnings. I mean if you are not a good match and there is no magic, then so what right? I have children who are similarly situated.
The Aries girl is alive with sparks and love and certainty and the guy is like a rock. Good man but damned right about everything. If you get just pure hard energy and stubborness then fights ensue.
Somebody has to give in. Cap is not giong to, so the Aries is probably the candidate. Where is love in all of this? Its up to the individuals. Blessings.
capgirl on October 14, 2014:
I've seen so many articles of Aries and Capricorn compatibility saying that the signs are a match made in hell and they should stay far away from each other, but if that were true, why would I be so attracted to an Aries? It's like I can sense the fire but don't want to think about getting burned. I think the Aries girls have been hurt by a Capricorn to say stuff like that, and I get it, but we caps tend to keep our feelings locked up tight and if we think you'll hurt us or we're uninterested, we back off and make it known. I think this pairing could build an empire if that was their goal and rule it with their families but both people have to be willing to put down their pride and work together. I mean loving someone and wanting to prove everyone wrong is a good enough reason for that, right?
Christofer French (author) from Denver on October 06, 2014:
Maybe this should be preceded with 'IF THEY REACH A ROMANTIC HARMONY...It would appear that she is being the impulsive Aries and you are hoping that Capricornian steadiness and virtue will win the day. You may have been misreading her all along. Aries loves these kinds of games. Of course. Capricorn Romance and Game === those three words do not get along. I agree with you forget about your hurt and your malice. Smile quiet smiles as you pass. It would be very smart to lay down your efforts. An Aries headbutt from any direction is extremely unwelcome. Seek out the new. Blessings.
iCappy on October 05, 2014:
I liked my colleague who is aries girl. I tried to be friendly with her but she resisted my attention. I felt like she didn't like my approach so I kept my self away from her.
Then she initiated so many things, she used to enjoy my company, conversations & jokes, she used to give me that special look, gave me certain special attention.
A month ago, she invited me to online chat and we chatted a lot. She use to demand so much from me and I used to attend her in gentle manner.
But all of sudden she complained that people are gossiping about our relationship so she would like to stop chatting & being close with me.
But now after few days I came to know that she is in love with another boy and she is chasing him.
I have no clue why she played such mind game with me. I really don't understand why she has done this to me ?
Now I feel like teaching her a hard lesson but I resist myself because I started hating her so much that I don't want to think about her.
I see Aries-Cappy are highly compatible but I feel like Aries-Cappy pairs are under a karmic curse to drift away from each other for absolutely no reason !!
The challenge is how many pairs can overcome this curse !!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 06, 2014:
I can't predict what happens next, but Scorp and Cap are two of the most serious and determined signs in the zodiac. They also do not like to disclose. They both see disclosure as a kind of weakness. I have not advice going forward. You are a Taurus and are a tough Aries, so you can make it, but stay strong. If you can get him to address these issues, you might make some progress. With Scorp Cap there is always something going on the inside. Blessings and Good Luck.
devil17 on June 05, 2014:
Hi I am a Taurus sun with Moon & Rising in Aries and Cancer respectively. My Venus is in Aries. My husband is a Scorpio sun with Moon & Rising in Capricorn & Scorpio respectively, with his Venus in Saggittarius.We have been married for a year after dating for 6 months, but things have changed a lot during this. He was this fun loving guy who wud love to put his travelling shoes on whenever required, but currently he is maintaining a serious attitude (no fun loving). I am more like a carefree soul very high on emotions(thanks to my cancer rising) and love spending only on classy things. His warm attitude and loving nature has suddenly become cold. He seldom warms upto me nowadays..Scares the hell outta me whata gonna happen next..!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 16, 2013:
arieslady: Spoken like an Aries. I don't think anyone really knows the birth date of Jesus. There are theories that it is Virgo and Aries. The Caporicorn part is just the RC merging of Saturnalia, Winter Solstice observations and the early Roman "holiday makers". I would put Capricorn as his birthday as merely pagan tradition being merged with the Bethlemen Story.
arieslady on June 14, 2013:
Jesus was NOT a Capricorn......just more evidence of capricorns trying to elevate themselves in the eyes of others.......their arrogance knows no bounds....truly despise them.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 03, 2013:
ariesfire: Sparks fly when these two get together. "No Soul" is a strong comment, but if it comes from your heart, then it means something to you.
ariesfire on June 02, 2013:
Attention aries girls....if you want to be treated like a pos then cap man is perfect for you. They only care about money and have no soul.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 17, 2013:
Well King George III, I am not being trite or insulting, but what she is doing to you is what you would naturally react to. What am I saying? You are getting it right where it hurts. I say this because Capricorn sees things as complex and in need of organizing. You are certainly justified in your approach. You mentioned the daughter and the sex but not the love. You also did not allude to a marriage. Judging the temperature of your comment, I would say that you are ready to hit the bricks. If she is lying to you, that is not "capricornian", that is human. Your love of fire may be the most positive aspect of your relationship right now. If you were to try to work it out, it would be for King George III to take off his crown and your powerful Aries to get lamblike --- just long enough to appeal to her quietly and earnestly. Blessings and Happy New Year.
King George III on January 15, 2013:
I am an Aries man and I have been with a Capricorn woman for six years. I love her, we have a daughter, and the sex is amazing. Our problem at this point is her lack of communication, as someone listed earlier. I say what is on my mind to her as soon as the issue arises and I like to try to dissolve problems and figure out solutions. But when I explain things, she can never respond, and it's not like I speak in parables. This has been going on for a couple years and I am almost ready to hit the bricks because she will also lie about small stuff but so frequent that it drives me to the brink of insanity.
But every time I try to go, my fiery love for her goes into high gear. That is my story of Aries vs Capricorn.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on November 04, 2012:
If you will notice my approach is that ALL combinations can work. It depends upon LOVE, commitment, willingness to downplay single issues for the benefit of the couple. In the end, I say "transformation" is the key when combinations are difficult. It an individual is truly willing to make changes, it all can work. Blessings.
aries darling on November 03, 2012:
I am an aries and my husband is an capricorn. I believe people just need to relax when people say that and aries and capricorn shouldn't be together. We've made it work out so wonderfully with very little problems.
I am very head strong, stubborn, political, religious, and sometimes moody.
He is nearly the same but he analyzes me so he knows when to help and how..which just makes him even more perfect.
The only problem we have is we don't see eye to eye on our basketball teams. I prefer the mavericks and he likes the lakers.
We're both perfect for each other so ZODIAC IS WRONG!
We're aries and capricorn newly weds who are actually expecting twins in who will be capricorns like their daddy.
uh oh i'm outnumbered soon! 3 capricorns vs 1 aries
Christofer French (author) from Denver on July 16, 2012:
Cherry: I don't intuit these things, but if you want to get your TRIAD information, I will be glad to do a reading based upon the comparison of Sun Signs, Rising Signs and Moon Signs. See the "Triad" article for an explanation. Thanks.
cherry on July 16, 2012:
I'm a capricorn gal, and i'm totally crushing on aries guy. I'm super shy getting close to him and could not look straight at him on the eye. He is obviously confident and charming, which I believe not only capricorn gals could attract to him. I really want to know if how am I going to have a chance to this guy and if it would last.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 11, 2012:
If you are seeking an intuitive (nonintelligent) take on the effects of a Leo Moon on a Capricorn Sun it would be: even bolder, more self consumed, less easily discouraged, more seeking of recognition, diminished in intelligence from most other signs, but as geared toward self agrandisement as a Capricorn could be. Success predicted; but offends others while barely noticing it. Blessings.
Summer on June 10, 2012:
Summer on June 10, 2012:
I am a Capricorn and what I would like to know is how a Leo moon sign affects me? Lol also Serriously I must say an intellegent person would not righ crap about people being evil an intellegent person would realize that they can't compare everyone to there one bad relation with a Capricorn.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 13, 2012:
GK2: It seems you have this well in hand. Blessings.
GK2 on May 13, 2012:
Thank you Christofers. That is my conclusion also, although our daily calls are instigated by him and he says that he has never felt about another woman the way he feels about me his actions do not match his words and I have told him this, and as you say the situation suits him. His rising sign is Aries and mine is Cancer. Yes, you are right, I do understand and admire his self focus and hard work but also know that he was very badly deceived by his ex wife 6 years ago and is also being very cautious. He has thought and spoken about us moving closer together but I divorced 2 years ago and have told him I am not willing to uproot my 11 year old son as things stand at the moment - for me it seems too risky with this current situation not meeting my needs. He now knows that my intention is to end this situation altogether and he now plans to come and speak to me today or tomorrow (if he turns up).
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 12, 2012:
GK2: You said he has a Sun Cap and a Moon Cap? His Venus is in Sag, and his Merc is in Sag. His Mars in Virgo.
You Aries, Moon in Gem, Venus in Aries. Merc Pisces and Mars Aqu. Don't know what your rising sign is, nor his rising sign, but my comments spring forth anyway.
If you guys are long distance and he is hard to get a hold of, that's great for him. Capricorn like business and focuses on achievement and work. Venus and Merc in Sag makes him a gallavanter. Mars in Virgo makes him a hard worker. I can't see where he has anything going which would allow you to win him over, especially at a distance. Your Aries can understand his self focus, right? I am sorry, there is nothing I see that makes me think of the magic of romance. Sag is self preoccupied and focused on action. Capricorn times two means he is just a CAPRICORN! For heaven's sake. Mainly. The long distance does not seem to work. Forgive me, if I seem too one sided. Blessings on you.
GK2 on May 12, 2012:
I am an aries woman who has been having a long distance relationship with a capricorn man for about 20 months we both live in England, UK. We speak practically everyday but have only seen each other twice in the past 10 months as he has a very busy job and has his son from Thurs-Sun every week. I have spoken with him several times about the need for us to see each other more often but when he says he will be visiting he never turns up. I now want to discontinue the relationship as it does not meet my needs. When we speak and see each other we get on famously. My moon is in Gemini, his in Capricorn. I have venus in Aries, his in Sagittarius, My mercury is in pisces, his Sagittarius, I have Mars in Aquarius and his in Virgo. I have tried to end the relationship twice before but he never wants to but cannot keep to his word.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 30, 2012:
Capricorn Girl: I agree with you. Capricorn and Scorpio are misunderstood. That is because they are complex and have usually more than one thing going on inside their heads. Capricorns are usually the most successful and keen and bright, so they can easily be envied. There is no sign that is "evil". The symbology in astrology can get very confusing. They are ancient and not easily understood. Be strong. Be Happy. Be Capricorn.
Capricorn Girl on April 29, 2012:
I disagree with the comments about Capricorn's being 'evil' and 'dark'. If you don't bother to even get to know a Capricorn, why judge so quickly? I admit we can be cold at times, but only if necessary. Aries can be foolish and selfish, I think you need to learn more about your bad points, not only the good ones. Aries can be selfish, but determined. It is good to be confident, but I think you all are getting ahead of yourself. Capricorn is not the best, but we aren't the worst either. None are better, or worst, why bother to persuade people to believe that Capricorn are 'evil', you could severely hurt someone's feelings. If you do not care for someone's feelings, then I won't bother to reason with you.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 24, 2012:
Aries energy is electric and can be thrilling. Try out the new Aries. They are great starters. Lousy finishers. They can be heartless and leave you in the dust. But Capricorn is strong. They know how to take care of themselves. Do what your heart tells you to do. You're still young. If you want to do a TRIAD, look at my article so named. I will do a reading for you.
patient cappy on April 23, 2012:
My 3 yr relationship with an varies woman ended 2 months ago. After talking about marriage and living together for two years, she decided to break it off because she wanted to have fun and work on her modeling. We had just resigned the lease a few days before. I tried to talk her out of her decision, But i eventually just gave up after 2weeks. When I acted as if we were done then her bitterness showed. I told her we could not sleep. In the same Bed and she had to get her own place. (After we break the lease) at this point all help broke lose. She changed her number, doesn' Look at me at work and tried to file a restraining order for me trying to contact her about the rent. (Dismissed) when we were good it was heaven. When she got angry it was the worst. She coulnt handle me being mad when she messed and would take off. She just trned 23 and im 24. I just started talking to a slightly Older woman, (she's 26) and found out she's an aries. Am a sucker for punishment? What is it about their energy that pulls me in?
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 19, 2012:
Shestarr: No, I was not.
Shestarr from Austin, TX on April 18, 2012:
To "refL shestarr comment"
So were you able to verify my question, as well?
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 18, 2012:
Mrs. Jones: You are absolutely right. Caps get insulted as a matter of common discourtesy. They have more going for themselves than any other single sign. They are clever, ambitious and always looking for achievement. But, they also know how to be sociable. Their loved ones truly benefit from the fact that they care about family.
Mrs.Jones on April 17, 2012:
I am a capricorn woman and i am a very loving, compassionate and loyal wife and have been from day one. I do not agree with the previous comments about capricorns, i think it depends on the person, and their experiences with love and their relationship with God. I am married to an Aries and we are been happy together. With the Lord Jesus Christ as the head of our relationship and with any relationship seeking him first all things are possible.
Shestarr from Austin, TX on April 14, 2012:
To: "refL shestarr comment 16 hours ago":
I'm 32, with one 5yr old. He's 41 with two kids (age 15 & 18). And he also pressured me to be intimate with him. In fact, I had never been with someone who made such a big deal about having sex so soon; he seemed to have this false sense of entitlement that I found both unusual and overwhelming.
FLAG indeed. I'm glad that you aren't stupid like I was. Stand your ground and move on. If only I had taken heed to Christofer's advice. I simply wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Yet almost as soon as the deed was done, he seemingly sabatoged the relationship and it was over shortly afterwards.
Please verify if this is the same douche. I thank you in advance...
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 14, 2012:
Umm sorry to dec 25th. No one really knows when Jesus was born, but it is completely against knowledge to assume that the sign he was born in affects people born in that sign. I personally feel he was a "Virgo", the September weather and the animals in the fields, and lots of other reasons, but I do not conclude anything about Virgos because I believe this. Capricorns are getting blasted out there. I should probably do an article directly addressing. There are also those who think April 17 is his birthdate. Aries, Virgo, who knows.
Umm sorry to dec 25th cap on April 13, 2012:
but "Jesus" was not born on December 25th. Research your facts... I understand your main point you were making though. bottom line is no one is evil based on their "sign" although many can have negative characteristics that need to be put in check for their own sanity and communication to others because of certain alignments in the cosmos during their birth.
refL shestarr comment on April 13, 2012:
Wow.. that's scarry since I just met one that I've been hanging with for about 4 wks ago too. Even more, we just had a misunderstanding and he has gone into a funk. We are about 2 hours away from each other and he just went into a funk the other day in which he seem to out of no where tried to find minute reasons why we are not compatible. What I would like to know is your age group you and he, if either of you have children and most important if in those 4 weeks if you have already been sexually intimate. We have not, though I was moments away, but did not move forward on the whim based on wanting to make sure he was really ready, which now it is obvious he was for whatever reason and upset himself because I wasn't. A FLAG!
Amber on March 25, 2012:
I wasn't referring to your article its a great article and I agree with every aspect of it my best friend is an aries that's how I found the article...i was trying to prove your other posters wrong bc they were saying capricorns are evil and the bible says that and all that mumbo jumbo...and I was saying yo
u can't judge someone on their sign..its fun
interesting to read
about but when we do read it there are a lot of aspects we don't see in ourselves... I was telling them not to judge and idk what roberts talking about lol but this article is very informative and I enjoyedreading it! Thanks so much for sharing!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 25, 2012:
Bobby: Thanks for the honesty. It's hard sometimes when it comes to this topic.
bobby on March 24, 2012:
im an aries and my girl of 8 years a capricorn.i read an article about extrverts and introverts and were both extroverts and have to say last words when mad and i do shit without relizing! im worried shes gonna leave me for a leo cause their so loyal and honorable!lol you're right about how i treat her!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 18, 2012:
Robert and Amber: Go to the TRIAD article. You give three aspects, sun, moon and rising and you get a much better balance for each individual. You can't make any statements about signs based on Hitler or Jesus or Maryln Monroe. That is unwise and unnecessary.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 18, 2012:
Amber: Capricorn is judgmental and organized and probably the most successful sign there is for just pure achievement. They are not evil, the bring balance into a mushy world. Everything they do is on purpose. NO accidents. You should be proud.
Robert on March 17, 2012:
Hitler was an aries...he was one o of the most evil hateful people in the world but that doesn't mean all aries are evil does it? No. you can't say still capricorns are evil just like you can't say all aries are. Sounds like they could makw a great pair :)
Amber on March 17, 2012:
Umm...im a capricorn and I'm born on dec 25 christmas day which is also JESUS' birthday which I always saw as a blessing....so all of you saying capricorns are evil are you also saying the son of god is evil...because JESUS IS A CAPRICORN! and we are great people you can't judge people off of their star sign that's ridiculous lol!
Shestarr from Austin, TX on March 15, 2012:
This is very true... Thank you so much; I will do! :)
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 14, 2012:
I have not heard of a "donation link", but will explore it. At this time, please donate love and care to yourself. We often neglect ourselves.
Shestarr from Austin, TX on March 14, 2012:
Oh wow! I truly appreciate your time on this, Christofers... I can say that he seems to be a lot more positive lately. I can tell that he really is trying to meet me half way. And our roles we've adopted to actively put our best efforts towards understanding eachother seems to somehow out-weigh the odds stacked against us. Believe it or not, your Capricorn-Aries profile at the top of thi page is one of the the most positive I've seen and as a result, has given me much hope... I will keep you posted. In the meantime, do you have a donation link anywhere? I appreciate everything!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 12, 2012:
Shestar: He seems sensitive at times. But he forgets that I am just as sensitive (my venus is in Pisces, moon is in Capricorn, mercury is Aries & my mars is also Aries. His venus is in Sagittarius, moon is Virgo, his mercury is Cap and his Mars is Scorpio) -whatever all of this means...
First his Sun is over your Moon (Cap). Caps can be hurtful and unpredictable just walking around being themselves. He has natural dominance with his Sun over your Moon. Your Cap Moon can react self defensively, but with him you will need it. In addition, with his Mars in Scorpio and Moon in Virgo, he will employ his action orientation in the realm of Intense self preoccupation and Moon in Virgo, you will get his criticism arising from his deep interior.
Obviously you are attracted to each other, but the two hour thing, and the on line thing seems to declare that one or both of you is being a little too hopeful right off. With his Venus in Sagittarius, he will give you his love nature through the unpredictable, the lively, the inadvertent insult, the intended insult and the "oh I was just kidding, lovey dovey".
I would put his negatives as his Sun over your Moon (natural dominance), Mars in Scorp, Venus in Sag, and Moon in Virgo. Yeah, without knowing your whole chart, I would agree with him, you are probably incompatible. Maybe he is sending you a warning. "I am a really difficult, unpreditable, nit picking, critical guy, I am not sure you can take me." If a man says "maybe we aren't compatible" maybe you should believe him. With his Venus, Mars and Moon, you are going to have to get used to his charming negativity day after day. Sorry. I am just going by your own words, and his quotes, and the few astro posits that you are one Aries who's happiness, joy and mirth could be constantly "smushed". Just leave it "two hours away" and see what happens. Don't get too hopeful. Your Venus in Pisces is too sweet and loving and mellow to take these negatives. All the best.
Shestarr from Austin, TX on March 11, 2012:
Hi, I am an Aries female and I've been a silent observer on several of these boards, but I actively follow this one. I may as well share my story...
I met a Cap guy online about 4 weeks ago and the time is already flying because we seemed to hit it off right away, and are both having so much fun.
I adore him because he's a gentleman who seems to "get it", when it comes to communicating with his lady; being attentive, reliable, romantic and consistent... So far, he appears to secretly adore me just as much.
Our biggest hurdle is that we live approx two hrs from each other, but he makes sure that we speak everyday (which I love) and together, we try and see eachother every weekend.
So I'm contemplating why I'm sad today, for the 1st time in our courtship... Yesterday, I realized that he sometimes misunderstands my words. Completely. Before I know it, our very lovely conversation goes from an amazing 100 degrees to zero in a nanosecond, due to something I supposedly said. I am left baffled and I'm sure there is a humongous question mark hovering over my head. Next thing I know, seemingly out of nowhere, he is stinging me with brief but potent words of retaliation, and I find myself defending my words. He seems sensitive at times. But he forgets that I am just as sensitive (my venus is in Pisces, moon is in Capricorn, mercury is Aries & my mars is also Aries. His venus is in Sagittarius, moon is Virgo, his mercury is Cap and his Mars is Scorpio) -whatever all of this means...
He even questioned our compatibility, due to this brief moment of misunderstanding, despite all of the good. But, I care for my Cap, so I hung in there, trying my best to actively listen to his concerns. I apologized for making him feel like I was irritated or annoyed by his asking questions, because in no was was I annoyed by his inquiries... No matter how much i humbled myself, he didn't seem to hear or believe anything I said to reassure him.
But I never gave up. And he never gave up, either. And by the end of the conversation, we were able to meet eachother half-way and got off the phone on a good note. This does not happen often, but it has happened twice within two days, and now that I think of it, this was the first weekend we were unable to see eachother.
He did mention yesterday (after we were back at peace) that he was having a tough time with the distance. I am too, but I do see the light at the end of this tunnel. He's worth it.
I just wish that I could communicate consistently with him without hurting his feelings. When he's hurt, he seems to make an active effort to hurt me. How can I be successful in this when (regardless of his perception of my words) I don't know what I've said wrong?
~Frustrated but optimistic.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 11, 2012:
Aries likes no nonsense. A Capricorn who you can be happy with is highly recommendable. Cap knows their stuff. They are pros at managing life and know how to be good partners. All the best to you. If you want to do a TRIAD for free, look up the TRIAD article.
aries woman on March 10, 2012:
I'm a aries woman and my bf is a cap ^^ despite all those negative things abt aries-cap couple, I can say that we get along pretty well! going to 3 years in few more months. the best guy I could ever had^^ unlike pisces, although ppl say aries and pisces are very compatible, it didn't work out well with that pisces ex.too much drama! spare me the agony. glad that it's over
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 25, 2012:
Vanessa: Looks like you are a Capricorn who has changed and made adjustments. In this kind of relationship, the best bet would be: let the Aries guy shine and be himself, and the wise Cappie girl see his virtue and make adjustments. Doesn't have to work that way, but this sounds right. Go to the "Triad" article and I will do a free comparison of Moon, Sun and Rising of each.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 25, 2012:
CapGirl: You'll never know until you try. If you get along it will be because he values all of your gifts, and he won't irritate you too much. Then, go from there.
vanessa on February 25, 2012:
im a cap girl and i am absolutley infatuated with my aries man ...we have been together for about 5 years now and i feel magnitized to him all the time we are always together, and love eachothers company it seems that the longer we are together the better things get between us...however things weren't always like this i could not adapt to him no matter how much i tried we always argued for things that seemed meaningless and i broke up with him so many times but he always came back to me..that helped me see he was truly in love with me and that he was committed...i find myself lusting over him since we don't really text eachother during the day so at the end of the day im exited to see him... ive changed a lot since ive been with him i feel like i enjoy life so much more since he is so energetic and alive...opposites def. do attract.. even though it does take a lot of patience and love but at the end of the day its def. worth it...
CapGirl on February 25, 2012:
I just met this guy online who's an Aries and I know Caps and Aries don't seem to see eye to eye but I just wanted to be sure. I really like him and I've never felt anything like this before so even though I'm kind of scared, I'm hoping that we'd be one of those few Aries-Cap matches that works.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 24, 2012:
Aries is good for dealing with the "pissed off" qualities of a Capricorn who will hit you as you drop. Then again. That's what an Aries does too. So, if you both "fight" in a mature way and apologize easily, then that's good. If you both actually like each other, you are well on your way. These two signs are not gentle.
If you want me to do a "Triad" get your mutual Sum, Rising and Moon Signs. It takes change for the chart. You need place of birth and hour of birth for both. Then get on my Triad article.
Rae on February 23, 2012:
I am an aries woman dating a capricorn man..I'll admit that the relationship is not always easy with the few little arguments that we have been in but what relationship is??, but I feel like my capricorn keeps me grounded when life throws it's upsets at me it is he that I run to, to make things feel completely better. Any attempt at trying to slow our relationship down has only seemed to make it continue to speed up. I am absolutely crazy about him and he tells me all the time everything a woman wishes to hear and he's great with my kids! This relationship totally works, but just remember, it only works based on how much your willing to put into it. After the few arguments we've had we always apologize and say I love you and everything goes right back to normal and the happiness returns immediately.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 01, 2012:
This is very heartfelt. Aries you have more of a heart than you know. Your appreciation of the Cap shows his earnestness and your recognition of the reality of the souls in back of the stars.
letlet on January 31, 2012:
Aries- Doers without even thinking of the consequences although 9 out 10 misstakes are really aren't intentionally made to hurt they're capricorn man/woman which will still be judged by their action no matter what explanations there is.
Capricorn- The judgemental and the most analytical human being. However you can't blame them because they usually go for the words you marked, promises and the seasoning of their analysis are actions that has been seen.
I myself is in a relationship with a real fully grown Capricorn man. i'd be really honest thee relationship has been really hard specially when the realationship has been deeper and more serious. he saw my strenght, drive, ambitions, and carrying nature. he fell without even saying a word. but he showed it in anyway that he can. He would drove 110-170km just to see ad be with me evrynight after work back and fort. he is a man of a few words. as an aries we love our freedom to much that we cannot see reality as it is. we careless on what we would look to others because we only care about ourselves. we even have the tendency to just turn evrything off and move on diretcly without even thinking were actually tramping on sombedys toes. but despite of thathat we are trully wholeheatedly soft inside and are extremely affectionate. we just have to think 10times before we act so we wont end upbregreting doing things we don't even want us to happen. thanks to my man ive learned too many lesson in life. he is my absolutely soulmate and I for him.
Aries woman and Capricorn man wisdom.
"1 solid I love you is worth a 1000 effort to stay forever. and a 10000 I love you, by words withouy any effort is a shame."
If you trully love someone, then you have to be aware that you have that person at the palm of your hand and all you have to do is keep it tight.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 30, 2012:
If I had handled the genders, that would have doubled the work. Of course, gender must be considered.
Capricorn Lady on January 29, 2012:
I'm a capricorn woman and I'm in a relationship with an Aries man. We love each other dearly and have over came many obstacles. I feel we make an amazing match. However I think this could have been better written if both genders would have been taken into consideration, because I feel capricorn men differ from capricorn women like wise with aries.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 24, 2012:
Busy, busy, busy lives. When you get through to times when things are less complicated, I think the relationship will show and confirm itself.
Km on January 23, 2012:
Hi Chris... He seems to be so busy for me we only see each other 1-2/week but lately he has even more busy and our schedule is just hard so now we've seen each other like once every 2 weeks which bothers me though e would text me everytime I don't text him t lest once a day... We're both separated and still dealing with our spouses though he lives apart from his wife I on the other hand since we're divorcing and were short selling our house financially wise for us to live in the house til we need to move out I know it bothers him this a lot so I'm even looking to move out sooner than I have pln just for him... He seems to be hot then cold though I love him so much I would do nything to make us work out... If I can just make him talk.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 23, 2012:
Both of these can have extremely "hard edges". Both can have outstanding selfishness. One of these two needs to be high minded or they will have a tendency to have a strong gravitational pull on each other.
KC on January 22, 2012:
Aries and Capricorn are a horrible match!
aries lady on January 22, 2012:
My worst relationship and one with the father of my children, was with a Capricorn. I am a typical aries - flighty, passionate but also loving, loyal and serious about family and family values. I found my Cap ex was reluctant to settle, evasive and distant - all of this after we became a family unit. No communication and selfish to the extreme. During and after our break up he displayed cruel bordering on evil characteristics, bitterness, deceipt and has let down our children including never providing financially or being around consistently. It was the level of darkness that i saw in the bad times which shocked me. Never again. On a positive note he had a maturity which i've rarely seen in a man but this was more 'stature' and didn't transcend into the every day world. Pisces are a great match for aries
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 22, 2012:
When you are dealing with someone who is inscrutable and won't "show their hand", I would be patient. I would be classy. I would not throw myself at them. Perhaps they will move forward a bit. If not, then maybe you are reading more into it than you should.
Km on January 21, 2012:
I am doubting that my cappy man really feels the same for me he never said anything that he likes me a lot after I did... We text everyday which I have to initiate it. Yes he is 46-cappy man and I'm 35-Aries... I'm very attractive and sexy I'm not sure why he couldn't show so much interest in me like others besides that I'm not easy women like the rest it's hard for me to be with someone I don't feel anything and I'm a but diff I can talk a lot but it's hard for me to talk and tell him how I feel. It's hard for me to say things but I do it more to show how I care rather than just talk. He seem to avoid me until he couldn't resist me anymore.. When I met his best friend for 20 yrs an told me that he talks abt me highly all the time - I was like this quiet man talks abt me?! Very happy cuz I wouldn't expect that from him-- his best friend also tell said to him in a joke "I think u should keep her... She is a keeper" he just smiled and kissed me I just melted sometimes I just need to know cuz he becomes hot and cold when I'm with him everything is great but when apart I couldn't read him very well...
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 20, 2012:
A young Aries guy on the make...good luck. You are a Cappy woman. Get after a serious guy who can make you feel good for a long time. An Aries guy could quit you anytime. Besides Cappy women don't exactly collapse into sexual surrender. They are taking notes during climax. That's not bad. It's just that you have important things to do -- living the totality of your life. A fire sign will turn you on, but maybe a sweet water sign with ambition - Cancer, Scorpio, or a clever air sign with ambition - Gemini, Libra.
Princy on January 20, 2012:
Am a capricorn woman. just now broke up with an Aries guy. Initially, I wanted to give myself some time. But he jumped into the relationship. I sensed that 'communication' is a big barrier between us. it straight words from him, whereas its silence and full length SMS from me. Initial days, he convinced, that why not give a try. days were full of passion. when we had quarels for a month, he started backing out. I would not. that's not my way. but yea, now i feel i ve waited quite long. let me set it free. and seriously, "i sense the feel of freedom" after parting with him. but yea, it aches coz he s so attractive. but am done... if only he could allow me to take my time. and if only i talk straight instantly.
nikcori on January 20, 2012:
I am a Capricorn guy,im 10 years older to her she is 23. i like a Aries girl, We went out on our first date last week. It went very well. She offered to come home. We came home after lunch and she checked out my place and commented on all my clothes my place n all. She offered to call and text me the next day and we already decided what we will do on our next meeting. Since that day i have not got a very good feeling from her. When i send her a text she just replies back with one word. I know its a signal that she is not very interested in talking. When i asked her out again she said that she already has plans with othe friends. I take it as a no but my heart does not want to agree...
any suggestions i could do to get her attention ? i love her cause i know her for along time before we went out together.
suggestions please ?
Km on January 18, 2012:
I am an Aries woman 34 will be 35 and been dating cappy man who is 46... Yes he is quite older than me but I am just do in love I think... I am attractive and a lot of men are after me though I couldn't take my eyes of him. He is really quiet sometimes I wonder if he feels anything for me... Things happened fast with us and I can say I am in his hooks... I was unsure if he loves me or likes me but he couldn't resist me and sometimes he tries to hard to avoid me he tells me his busy but when Im about to give up he gives in and text me. A few days ago I finally met his best friend after dating for 5 months his best friend told me he talks about me so highly and talks about me all the time which made me a bit more secure cuz he never say he likes me at all. He told me in the beginning he doesn't want a relationship but though we see each other quite a lot almost 2x a week text everyday of course I do initiate this but if he doesn't hear from me he would text me "just thought of you hope your having a good day". I feel that he is scared bec of our age difference and I am too but my feelings for him is very strong he makes me happy all the time I hunk of him all the time and sometimes I over do it. Some I can't read his mind and my ego is killing me I couldn't help but keep communicating with him... I'm not sure if his using me for sex but when I'm wih him I can not say he doesn't feel any love for me I strongly feel his love without his words. I wish this would work now since I met his best friend he is a bit more open to me and I am scared that I am in love with him and he is not.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 16, 2012:
Capricorn you are. You see the whole in a moment. You are ardent but that's because all things connect to Caps. They get the whole deal all at once, which is why even though they are tough to deal with, they are serious, and earnest. Be aware that as soon as Aries turns their head, their attention goes there. They are bad finishers. Your pointing to the logic of commitment is well written. Does it grab the Aries. You have to stick with them, in order to help their understanding. It's not a matter of heart, but of psychic focus.
Rah on January 14, 2012:
Capricorn here...been dating a beautiful. Aries for just about 4 years on april '12...spot in with everything...my girl spends..i like to save....then spend ;)....she get emotional a lot so i calm her down...she taught me patience..i taught her how to be more assertive...which payed off when she got a new job on 5th ave..and people always tell us we are the best couple they have seeb...i mean grown people...in their 40's and 50's...so the part about our relationship being an image in itself was deadly accurate....she even says nobody has ever loved somebody as hard and show it!!!...as much as i do.....we love each other..she is my heart....and a caprivorn and aries relationship can be very long lasting and rewarding if you both admit your wrongs..."baby i fucced up...im sorry...i love you"..so you know how powerful those words are after an argument...insanely powerful..just rememeber...50/50 everything...there are no mines..just 'ours'...stay FAITHFUL!!!... and communicate!!!!!!!....one more thing...We Are Not Evil!!!!...vut i do admit...i MUST admit....capricorns arent always right...but 85% of the time..we ARE!!!...if you suggest something guiding us off of our planned, prooven LOGICAL routinee....and it fails...you will get the wrath...it doesn't matter who you are!!!...if we were right the first time and we got something wrong because somebody suggested something completely illogical ...only then will you see evil....
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 11, 2012:
Aries and Capricorn - if they love the friction that each creates in the other, then they can work. If you think you are working then you probably are. It's just that you two are so much about self that there is a natural question about who is going to do most of the giving in? If you have already figured that out -- then good!
onfire on January 10, 2012:
Caps are coldhearted, cruel and conniving.......good luck with that...
MAGGY on January 08, 2012:
IM AN ARIES WOMAN AND I HAVE A CAPRICORN LOVING GURLFRIEND..MAYBE THE CARDS DON'T GO BOTH WAYS? WE BEEN TOGETHER 2 YEARS WE FIGHT A lot..BUT WE KANT HELP IT BUT TO LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH..WE TALK EVERYDAY..FIRST THING I DO IS WAKE UP ND HIT UP MY HUNNY,, WERE TWO LOVE BIRDS
nwjason on January 06, 2012:
I have been recently single after a 6yr. Relationship to an aries woman. Me being an aries man that was the most challenging relationship I've ever been in. I have been dating lots of different women with zero connections. Then one day I meet a Capricorn woman and I am immediately falling hard and fast for her, its my goal to not show every but of feelings I have for her but they come out here and there.
She actually responds well to my loving nature but not aswell as I'd like her too, I told her I expect more communication from her whether it be how she feels about me it if something's.bothering her. I am so scared because I want to give her all my energy, and she is so hard to read!