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An Aquarius Romance with an Aquarius

Updated on December 18, 2016

Hot, bananas. Two Aquarians? This is a powerhouse combo when you double up on the same zodiac. You're getting double the fun, double the intuition, and double the energy. You also are doubly twice as missing what you don't have.

The immediate love-fest of two Aquarius signs is that they both have their eccentric ways, they both have their creativity, and they feel open to each other. They might surprise each other with their weirdness coming in their own unique way, but they'll most likely find it hot. They won't have to worry about delving into emotional territories that don't work for them, they can honestly open themselves up to a great world of dream-like, magic affection. This could be one of the most insular relationships that really confuses all the others. They are big time lovers getting to play the cards they want, which might make it hard for them to grow and stretch themselves in some ways. They may also have rough parts if neither is inspiring an emotional discourse -- but what do they care? They will open up and do their passion in their own time, and will have deep respect for it. They are a powerful form of air -- like two aliens driving a tornado. They will click and vibe from the start, they will be weird with each other, and they'll at times make it into a power show -- which is great, they'll learn more from it.

They'll feel comfortable to show all their goofiness, their intellect, and yes, their very powerful emotions, because I have written many a time -- Aquarius is the water bearer, the emotion absorbent zodiac, piecing it altogether for existential reasons. But eventually that jar where they are collecting emotion overflows or breaks.

It's a fast talking relationship, it's a relationship that's idiosyncratic, its competition for the sake of growth. Aquarius believes in balance as the key to reality. This will be a relationship that seeks for balance together, so they'll be protective, they'll be mysterious and make others attracted to what they have, and they'll honestly dominate what they want. It's like having the natural greatness of an Aquarius X2. They could have some identity issues because they both will absorb a lot of each other, but since they both need their space and independence, this should naturally correct itself. But it is like a tornado, how do you split a part of the wind into two sections? When the wind merges together with wind, it can be hard to say where one begins and where one ends. This may be why Aquarius-Aquarius isn't always to be found out in the wild. It might also be too powerful for others to witness.

Aquarius together will be exploring each other in existential way. This is why they explore ideas so much, talk so much, and want so much time together. They want to explore emotions together, but they are looking for the deep conversation. And that conversation can last until late into the night. They want to create a happy bubble together to ultimately bring peace on earth. They really want to be genuine, they want to strip the world away from the fake. They don't like to fight, they want to be peacemakers. Aquarius wants the world to see a more progressive sense of peace. This is a peacemaking relationship, very balanced, and very freeing. This combo will stand out because... as individuals they already stand out as odd, rebellious, and creative. You might have a hard time pinning them down or seeing them in traditional social situations. Except an aunt and uncle that bring about the oddest, yet most heartfelt gifts at Christmas.

Aquarius-Aquarius want to delve into what they love for long periods of time whether that's hour long writing sessions, delving into a new hobby, or long makeout sessions. This combo could likely start as a long friendship, as most Aquarius prefer to start their relationships that way.

The great thing about an Aquarius-Aquarius is the potential for acceptance, which is what the Aquarius wants. It might be challenging that both want this, so it might be difficult to fulfill that need, but since it is both what they want, it can help them be on the same page. They'll need to experience many different new and exciting things together in order to open up their emotional heat. Aquarius has a lot of potential for emotional heat -- the colder you are the more potential you can have, automatic heat doesn't necessarily have as much room to grow. Aquarius needs help to be opened up emotionally to get from its Jean Grey state into its much needed Phoenix state -- which is a scary place to be, but if you know X-Men well, it was the Phoenix who was able to answer the problems of a galaxy far, far away. Aquarius = having emotions capable of solving galactic problems. Of course, having that kind of energy isn't something you want to open yourselves to daily, it doesn't always feel comfortable to do so around others who don't understand that -- it isn't always socially acceptable. This is where detachment comes from the Aquarius. They hide their emotions, as taught by society, this is why a lot of them get attracted to Scorpios who have a lot of emotional range -- but Aquarius needs to be opened fully to be realized and also handle deep problems that the world needs fixed. Aquarius-Aquarius can work together to gracefully bring this out and open it to the max.

Frankly, many Aquarius souls want to be emotionally opened fully. Though they are not required to do so, they can do a lot with their emotions even if that space isn't completely fulfilled. Aquarius may want a zodiac match with someone who won't push their emotions as much because it can be a more stable place psychologically, it can run smooth to them, and they can handle more of what they want. Aquarius gets to decide how much emotion they want to give -- whether that's operatic in size or more like a pop song. Both are important in their own ways. But don't you dare say an Aquarius is without emotion -- because that's wrong and shows you don't understand the image of the water bearer.

What's comforting about two water bearers is an understanding of that development. It can be more comfortable, mirror-like, and accepting. Some zodiacs may be able to push the Aquarius to get them out of their shell, an Aquarius can do this at a more patient, comforting pace. Their craziness has to do with their emotions and their trying to balance it with other factors. Due to balancing their emotions in childhood, it develops their mental power. It develops their intelligence. All zodiacs have to balance their mental power to the height of their emotions. So when you see a great, healthy mind, it is equal to their emotional power, and the burden of their emotional power. Some personalities find this so intense -- they push the mute button on either their emotions or their logic, rather than balance the two.

Reminders

1. Open up. Try things that make you vulnerable.

2. Accept that the other person wants to know you and not just use you as a listener.

3. Dish out genuine compliments. Let your charisma flow.

4. Ask questions.

5. Keep the peace.

6. Try writing love letters.

7. Play logic games together.

8. Experiment within your relationship.

9. Do things just because.

10. Work to make a clean environment. You are both sensitive to it, but not huge fans of cleaning.

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