5 Ways to Tell If Your Ex Is Stalking You

Updated on January 30, 2015

Relationships can be fun. Once they end, however, they can go one of three ways. Either the two of you become friends, or you refuse to see each other, or your ex will go crazy without you and try to win you back.

While that last one can be mildly entertaining, it can also be a very scary experience, especially when you want nothing to do with him. This goes for guys, too. There are some pretty insane chicks out there.

Here is a list of ways to tell if your ex is on the crazy stalker side of things.

My Experience With a Stalker Ex-Boyfriend

Justin and I had a blast at the beginning of our relationship. Toward the end, however, he went a little crazy. He decided to buy me a ring for the Sadie Hawkins dance our freshman year. That should've been a huuuuuuge sign, but I thought it was cute. Of course I did. I was a freshman in high school.

Then he started getting overprotective, telling me to stay away from my guy friends, that he was the only boy I should be talking to, and that I should always be at his beck and call. I was there to make him happy, after all.

Excuse me? What am I, your slave girl? Eff that.

We broke up and we moved on. At least, I did.

Two summers later, he started calling my house continuously. Every day, sometimes up to five times a day. I didn't tell my parents, and my younger brother thought it was hilarious. Finally I blocked his number. And this is when the trouble began...

I'm not going to bother you with all the details. I'm only telling you that I know where you are. I've been there. I am there. I am not enjoying it. And I don't want to see anyone else get hurt by this situation.

Signs Your Ex Is Stalking You

1. He "magically" acquires your cellphone number.

I'm still not sure how Justin got my cell number. But if you never gave your cellphone number to your ex, or if you got a cellphone after you two broke up, and now he's calling you on it, be wary. Find out how he got the number. Did he ask your friends? Coworkers? Family? Did he use some phony line to get it, or did he ask outright?

If he went for the phony line, it's a huge red flag. Block the number. Sure, now that he's got your digits, he'll try calling from other lines to confuse you. This is why you should never answer phone calls from numbers you don't know. That should be a huge duh, but some girls don't get that.

If he asked outright, it may not be a red flag. He's being honest, which is a good sign. Maybe he just wants to be friends? But if that's not on your life's agenda, tell him so; he might actually listen, provided he's still living in Sanity Land.

2. You run into him almost everywhere you go.

How does he know where I am all the time?

More than likely, he's got his friends watching you. He'll give them some bogus tale to trick them into doing this, then, when they see you, they'll inform him and TADA! He's right there.

Huge red flag.

That type of behavior is not normal. Then again, don't go freaking out because you saw him at Wal-Mart grocery shopping. He could just be grocery shopping, given he's not aproaching you every chance he gets. Even so, if you're catching him hiding behind corners, stealing glances at you, I would advise you remove yourself from the area quickly. That is an obvious stalker tactic.

If he's doing that, he's probably not too bright, either.

Jeeze, what did we ever see in these guys, anyway?

3. He gets a job at a place you visit regularly.

Now, this could just mean he needs a job, and this place was the only place hiring. Nonetheless, it's scary to see him at your favorite restaurant or gas station almost every day, especially if he's been exhibiting stalker-like behaviors.

For Justin, I think he got the job at the Mobile station because it was a few blocks from his house. This isn't the case anymore, but he's still working there. And it creeps me out every time I see him.

Does he insist on ringing you up or being your server? Does he ask you personal questions every chance he gets? Has he memorized your usual order? This last one might just be a sign of observance, but it's still spine-tingling (and not in a good way).

Consider going to a different gas station or restaurant. If you only went there because of convenience, it's not a big deal. If you went there because it's the cheapest station or food joint in town, it's gonna suck a little. But there are other stations and other delectable diners.

4. He asks your friends, coworkers, or family weird questions.

"What's she doing today?" "Does she have a boyfriend?" "Do you know where she is right now?" "Could you talk to her about me?"

There are a ton of other creepy curious questions he might ask. Every guy's different. Be sure to talk to your friends about the situation. Let them in on the skinny: you're not interested in him and he's creeping you out. Tell them, "Please, don't talk to him, ok?" Your friends will get the hint quickly.

Oh, and don't take up those offers from your guy pals to let them beat him up. It gets you nowhere. If anything, it makes it worse.

5. He tries to make a pass at you.

This can only happen if you allowed him to hang out with you. He'll try to flirt a little, get the charm flowing, then he'll swing in for the kiss.

They don't always try this maneuver. It depends on his integrity (and whether or not he has any).

Also, this almost goes without saying but: DO NOT let him be near you while you are intoxicated or otherwise incapacitated. He will try to do something. You will not like it.

And you'll feel like you need to shower for days afterwards.

Oh, and if he moves in with a mutual friend of yours, avoid the friend's place until your ex is gone. It won't be pretty otherwise. Trust me on that.

I could honestly go on and on and on about tell-tale signs of stalker exes, but I believe those covered the basics. I don't want to overwhelm you with a bunch of red flags. If your ex is showing two or more of these signs, be careful! And if you're worried about your safety, you can always file a restraining order against him.

Be safe, be cautious, and be smart! Stalkers are scary!

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      Is My Partner Cheating? Apps That Hide Text Messages and Phone Calls

      Updated on April 28, 2016

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      Phone Apps That Hide Secret Text Messages and Calls

      Is a loved one hiding a relationship from you with a little help from smartphone technology? I recently noticed a group of apps designed to conceal text messages and phone calls received from specific people. The ones that struck me the most were Second Phone Apps' series of Hide My Calls and Hide My Text apps for Android devices.

      Second Phone Apps offers a series of Android apps for concealing calls and text messages from designated contacts.

      Second Phone Apps offers a series of Android apps for concealing calls and text messages from designated contacts.

      When you install one of these apps, you choose the contacts whose texts and calls you wish to hide. Once you put these contacts into the app, their calls or texts won't trigger the same alerts that you get for other contacts. Instead, you might get a pop-up saying "software update available," or your phone might merely vibrate, or you won't get any alert at all (so you'll have to proactively check the app).

      During setup, you choose the contacts whose calls and texts you want the app to conceal. You can also choose how the app should notify you of calls or texts from these contacts.

      During setup, you choose the contacts whose calls and texts you want the app to conceal. You can also choose how the app should notify you of calls or texts from these contacts.

      Decoys to Conceal the Concealer App

      What's really insidious about these apps is how difficult it is to detect them if you don't know about them. To read the messages or look at the phone calls from these designated contacts, the user launches the app from an innocuous-looking icon (the so-called decoy app), and must then enter a password.

      Second Phone Apps' various versions of Hide My Text or Hide My Calls append to the app's name a description of the icon: In addition to the baseball icon in these screenshots, you can find one with a purse (for a decoy app called Shopper), for example. There's even a version that has no icon: Hide My Text-Invisible launches from a button that only appears when you tap an area of a black screen.

      Hide My Text-Invisible launches from a red button that only appears when you tap on the bottom of a black screen.

      Hide My Text-Invisible launches from a red button that only appears when you tap on the bottom of a black screen.

      If anyone else clicks on the app and doesn't know where to enter the password, they'll see a message about a system error, or perhaps an expired subscription.

      An incorrect login to the decoy Baseball app produces a message about an expired subscription.

      An incorrect login to the decoy Baseball app produces a message about an expired subscription.

      Most Hide My Text apps are available in both paid and free versions. The free ones let you hide texts and calls for up to five contacts; the paid ones set no limits on the number of contacts whose texts and calls you can conceal.

      What Decoy Apps Are Used For

      These apps make it easy for people to be dishonest by concealing relationships they don't want nosy partners or parents to sniff out by checking cell phone messages or call logs. Here are what some users had to say about these apps in reviews (note that one points out a few shortcomings):

      "This app is the shizznit! Now my girl can go thru my ph all day if she wants..."

      "Looks like a game that hides my text messages, awesome. Great app, helps a lot..."

      "Great app for phone, but depending on the phone carrier, the numbers will still appear on the online statements."

      iOS Alternatives?

      Apple keeps a tight rein on iPhone apps, and there don't appear to be completely comparable iOS alternatives in the iTunes App Store. Apps such as CoverMe can help you keep calls and text messages secret, but they don't create decoy icons, so at the very least a snoop can see you're using an app designed to help conceal communications from prying eyes.

      So-called jailbreakers—people who develop iOS software outside of Apple's ecosystem—may have apps that do what Hide My Text does. Researching these, however, is beyond the scope of this article.

      Bottom line for suspicious parents or spouses is that people who want to cheat will always find ways to do so. These days, they probably can find technology that will help them out.

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      FeliciaJJ 

      23 months ago

      My ex boyfriend who i broke up with for being mentally abusive, is now stalking me. He also lied about his age by alot. He said he was 19 he is in his 30's i believe. It is a long distance and he is now sending me letters and bugging my friends because i changed my number and blocked him on everything. He didnt have my address. but he told my friend that he sent me a letter. i have not gotten anything yet. but he is scaring me. should i get a restraining order? im only 16

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      5 years ago

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      5 years ago

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      Lee 

      5 years ago

      In this type of scenario I can be viewed as the stalker but its all really insane the chain of events leading to everything. I dated my ex fiancé Virginia for five years. She then began with lies about going out and on some nights wouldn't come home at all due to her heavy drinking all the sudden. Finally this last November first I had had enough and it was time for the ultimatum, partying or me. She choose partying. As I was she'll shocked I had plans of us getting married in February, and to my surprise she was ending things with me and basically she took off for a few days. Saying she was at her sisters when really she was off in Vegas with her best friend, I knew when she had come back she had lied. She came back on my birthday and lied to me about where she was. Anyways to make a long story short yes I did yell at her, I was hurt. However I let her stay and we were intimate until the middle of this January. When she came the first time to get her things she physically hit me in the jaw, and kicked me in the groin at free will which put me on the ground. At that point I was glad she was leaving. The next time she came to get her things she called the cops because I had changed the locks since she wasn't living there anymore. There was no clue as to what she was up to besides drinking heavily which I could tell due to Facebook. So she gets her things, leaves me with the gas and electric bill three months behind and then one day my old best friend calls and says dude ur ex wanted me to serve u with papers. Now keep

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      Lee 

      5 years ago

      In this type of scenario I can be viewed as the stalker but its all really insane the chain of events leading to everything. I dated my ex fiancé Virginia for five years. She then began with lies about going out and on some nights wouldn't come home at all due to her heavy drinking all the sudden. Finally this last November first I had had enough and it was time for the ultimatum, partying or me. She choose partying. As I was she'll shocked I had plans of us getting married in February, and to my surprise she was ending things with me and basically she took off for a few days. Saying she was at her sisters when really she was off in Vegas with her best friend, I knew when she had come back she had lied. She came back on my birthday and lied to me about where she was. Anyways to make a long story short yes I did yell at her, I was hurt. However I let her stay and we were intimate until the middle of this January. When she came the first time to get her things she physically hit me in the jaw, and kicked me in the groin at free will which put me on the ground. At that point I was glad she was leaving. The next time she came to get her things she called the cops because I had changed the locks since she wasn't living there anymore. There was no clue as to what she was up to besides drinking heavily which I could tell due to Facebook. So she gets her things, leaves me with the gas and electric bill three months behind and then one day my old best friend calls and says dude ur ex wanted me to serve u with papers. Now keep

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      gojofan 

      6 years ago

      To kathychristy, I believe you. I also have someone who has been following me for 15 years. He is my ex-husband and we have been divorced for 15 years. At first he was very threatening and I had to get a restraining order. Things never got out of control and he never got violent, but ever since he has been following me. I have moved twice since then, the last time half way across the country and each time he follows me. I am just waiting for him to do something, and sometimes I get pissed off that he hasn't. I have become a hermit because of this fear. But after all this time my fear is starting to turn into anger. I just want my security back and not have to always look over my shoulder. It is nice to know that other people know how I feel. I do find it odd that people will stalk other people for such long periods of time, and I don't understand why they do that.

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      6 years ago

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      eli 

      6 years ago

      it is my first time experiencing stalking from a guy. it is scary ,i don't know what to do. the fear is not a good feeling

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      mell 

      6 years ago

      hello

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      Americanhoney 

      6 years ago

      My x has secretively bugged our home...set up voice activated recorders...watched our son have sex through a whole in the drywall...damaged our sense of security! My kids no lo.ger feel safe and neither do I!!

      I have been separated for 6u yrs off and on and he thinks he owns me!! So tired in V.A!!!

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      Mich 

      6 years ago

      I've been going thru the samething the only thing is my ex stalks me with his new girls and the new girls stalk me on top and tell stories, they take my mail etc.

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      kathychristy 

      6 years ago

      I HAVE BEEN STALKED FOR OVER TEN YEARS.I WAS IN LOVE WITH A GUY WHO DID NOT LOVE ME SO I TRIED TO END IT NICELY.NEVER DID THAT HAPPEN HE FOLLOWS ME EVERYWHERE AND LIVES NEAR ME SOMEWHERE CLOSE AND WATCHES ME ALL THE TIME .HE THINKS I DON'T KNOW BUT I KNOW HE IS ALWAYS WHEREI AM.I NEVER REALLY SEE HIM BUT I KNOW HE IS THER TRUST ME I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP.I KNOW IT ISN'T LOVE BECAUSE HE COULD BE HE WITH ME BUT HE ALWAYS KEEPS HIS DISTANCE.NOYHING I CAN DO THIS SUCKS AND SO DOES HE .I WANT TO GET A BOYFRIEND THAT LOVES ME BUT MENTALLY I CANT.BELIEVE ME HE FOLLOWS ME TO WORK,VACATION,PARTIES.FRIENDS HOUSES AND IS ALWAYS LURKING /WHY I MAY NEVER KNOW

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      6 years ago

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      YUPnPn 

      6 years ago

      He's so gone, click click disabled like a virtual device stalker IT they think udon't know they stalk thru ports and ghost tunnels. BYEBYE

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      Nikki 

      6 years ago

      Okay this is my story. I'm not sure if either one of them is concerted stalking or not but I know one thing I do feel super uncomfortable.

      Firs off my problem revolves around two guys. One of them I don't think I have to worry about anymore. Thank god.

      The one that disappeared out of my life, which I'm grateful for. I had been in a relationship with him for 5 months. Within this relationship I was pressured to have sex (I was a virgin). After he got my virginity ; He lost interest in sex for about a month or so and then he started pounded me about it. He got super mad and told me I didn't love him. So the next mourning I gave in && it became a routine. He had bought me a phone as soon as we got together he use to take the phone away from me and read my messages. As if I had something to hide.

      He had been cheating on me but that is besides the point. Now on the sex part I never told my family because he told me they would be disappointed in me & never let me see him again. This relationship was the worse one of my life. I'm 17 now. I just had turned 16. When we broke up I thought that was the end of him. He stayed a friend on facebook but me and him didn't talk. Till one day I got a message in my inbox supposedly from his parents saying that I needed to call them right away. Giving me a number. I got worried because I guess even after all the bullshit I still kinda cared so I called the number to find out it was nothing.

      He began to beg me back ;; telling me how he loved me and blah blah blah. He begged me to let him come pick me up and me and him hang out. But I didn't go which pissed him off. I ended up blocking him on facebook. So that's the end of him right? Wrong. I have a small family based store below my house ; Like literally below. The owner informed me that the same time my lil sibling was to get off from school (Which I normally went and waited for) He had came to the store to walk around like he was waiting then he left.

      A little close to home? Yes! Then I found out a few months later that he had been asking my teachers at my school How I was doing in school and other stuff. Now as far as If he's still keeping tabs on me I actually don't know !

      Secondly. I have a current ex. Who I broke up with in November. After finding out about him cheating with his ex girlfriend (who would do anything for him and thinks everything he says is the freaking gospel ) This girl is just like me ! Same hair color, eye color & almost same body type. She's just taller and way younger. We have similar likes ;; And possible career paths. Weird Huh?

      I blocked him on facebook because he had got where he was constantly on my facebook. But it didn't stop there... He had my number so he'd text me. && Make me feel like shit for not being with him.

      But let me back up. The first time I felt uncomfortable is when I went to walmart with his ex ; who became my friend.... weird story ! He had two different people follow us around the store wanting to know what we were doing...

      Then he started using a common friend's facebook to stalk my facebook...

      This guy i can't shake him... He makes me feel like shit ;; He's keeping tabs on me and I honest to god don't know what to do. Hes too scared to come close to my house because he knows my brother would beat the shit out of him. But he has recently became friends with some of my friends. And hangs out with my best friend a lot.... So if I got to her house I risk seeing her. That works for two of my friends. Maybe it's me be obsessing but I do feel uncomfortable about this boy.. Could he become a stalker? Or has he already became one...

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      pixie 

      6 years ago

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      mandi 

      6 years ago

      Ok, so I was married we split up I began dating a friend of mine tht lives far away. It was more a weekend hang out drink have fun etc. Well we got into a fight one day n he said I hope u don't think im onli friggin u. I got mad and went off so then he says he only said tht to piss me off. Why would anyone do tht? Im not stupid so I played along with his game. He kept getting weirder and weirder til I told him we should jus be friends. The very next day he had a new gf, but spread lies about me, had lights and water cut off at mi house, spread lies n rumors, called dcs and told I i abuse mi kids, hacked into mi Facebook and then lied to att and got a SIM card to mi phone number and made up a horrible extended absence greeting on mi phone. Finally things calmed down I thought, 2 days later he got online and told everyone mi address, phone number, kids names, car I drive, etc all mi info. He claims he dumped me and never loved me, so if he's so happi w this new girl, why won't he leave me alone?? C'mon I need opinions, im at mi wits end

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      A guy thats at his drawing point 

      7 years ago

      My fiancé has an ex that wont stop. Only a short two month relationship with this guy he has money he has nice car. But for some reason see him self as better than me. Doesn't understand its him his controlling and antics that make him undesireable. He calls then stops calls then stops. I know its not her. We made a pack about him. I even tried to talk to him to mellow his flow. No go. He called recently its her b day I hate iPHONES I will just say that. He not stable and says one day he respects me even then next no I don't. Its been 2 years since they broke up. What the hell. This guy is not stable. She has been avoiding him but that contact of calling that thing just is out of hand. I feel I need to arm my self to stop this sort of thing. Just to for piece of mind in are home. We want marriage carreers and kids this guy scares me. I always had a drop them adittude with ex women she doesn't now she see why. Only e x that I ever lost it was my 5 year she didn't help. Contacting me and saying this are you ok this that asking advise. Other men and even my friend she went after. So She was wolf in sheeps clotheing She almost got the best of me but I worked on me and my issues. And she continued to flounder. I so I sit hear and know what its like to be the stalker but Some men got that heart that they can stop and realize what is up and change but guys don't force your new found realization on women they don't like it and it drives them farther away. I learned the hard way with bull from my ex and run around. She found it pleasurable. So my instance was different than most she just milked it then got up set when it went a little weird. End relationships clean folks. No games or head trips. Me and my fiancé are driven for future marriage family happiness money travel. But its sad to say that some men can go over board more than you could ever dream. Even kill. Let it go its hard time out for your self is better then chasing.

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      RatedPG 

      7 years ago

      SOoo, NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD BE IN ONE OF THESE SITUATIONS. SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT FROM THE BEGINNING! I JUST RECENTLY BROKE UP WITH MY FIANCÉ OF TWO YEARS. HERE'S MY STORY AND WHAT I AM DEALING WITH NOW: I BROKE UP WITH A PREVIOUS BOYFRIEND AND WANTED TO GO OUT AND HAVE A GRLS NITE OUT (WAS NOT PLANNING ON MEETING NO ONE,IN WHICH CASE DOESN'T HELP IF U GO OUT TO THE CLUB),I ALWAYS NEVER TOOK GUYS AT THE BARS SERIOUSLY B/C MOST OF THEM ARE YOU KNOW, NOT REALLY LOOKING FOR LOVE, OR IN MY CASE WAS (NOTE: DO NOT PLAN TO MEET YOUR 'TRUE LOVE' AT A BAR POINT BLANK!), WELL IT WAS LIKE LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT (BUT IN HONESTY YOU SHOULD ALSO JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVERS!) AND WE INSTINTLY FELL CRAZY FOR EACHOTHER.....WELL I KNEW I WAS PHYSICALLY CRAZY FOR HIM BUT NOT AS MENTALLY AS HE WAS TOWARDS ME...AFTER A FEW MONTHS HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM (SO I THOUGHT TO MYSELF 'WHY NOT, LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING RISKS AND CHANCES AFTER ALL THE OTHER LOSERS IVE BEEN WITH) SO OF COURSE I SAID YES. AS MONTHS PASSED I REALIZED HE DIDN'T WANT ME TO HAVE A 'GIRLS NIGHT OUT' UNLESS HE WAS WITH ME (RED FLAG) AND WOULD MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY (BECAUSE US GIRLS TRY TO SEE THE BETTER SIDE OF THESE GUYS AND 'FEEL' WHERE THEY ARE COMING FROM BECUZ THEY PULL THE 'WHAT IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND') SO I DIDN'T THINK NOTHING ABOUT IT, CUZ AFTERALL IM GETTIN OLDER (27) AND MY 'PARTYING' DAYS WEREN'T IMPORTANT TO ME, THEN HE ALWAYS CALLED ME X AMOUNT OF TIMES TO SEE WHAT IM DOING AND IF I DIDN'T PICK UP WHY IT TOOK SO LONG TO CALL HIM BACK (I MEAN SERIOUSLY, I THOUGHT ONLY GIRLS DID THIS, BUT GUYS DO IT TOO!)...HE BOUGHT ME ALOT OF MATERIAL THINGS (JEWERLRY,CLOTHES) I WAS GETTING SPOILED WHICH I WAS NEVER USE TO...AND EVEN BROUGHT FLOWERS TO MY JOB (ALL THE GIRLS SAYING 'WISH MY MAN DID THAT') YEAH WELL, IT GETS REALLY OLD! HE HAS "ACCIDENTLY" HIT ME IN THE RIBS BECAUSE 'I CAN BE SUCH A B*TCH' SO OF COURSE BECAUSE I 'LOVED' HIM I FORGAVE HIM (RED FLAG!!) WELL THERES TOO MUCH TO GET INTO DETAILS SO THOSE WERE THE BASICS SO TO CUT THE STORY SHORT, ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO I WAS GETTING READY TO TAKE MY NURSING BOARDS AND WE WERE WATCHIN A MOVIE. HE OBVIOUSLY WAS JEALOUS OF MY FRIENDS AND WHEN ONE OF MY GIRLFRIENDS (THAT HE DIDN'T LIKE FOR NO REASON) TEXTED ME I COULD TELL HE WAS BOTHERED BY IT SO I 'TRIED' TO 'TALK' BUT HE REFUSED SO THEN I DECIDED TO GO HOME BECAUSE HE WAS BEING SO IMMATURE, HE TELLS ME IF I LEAVE THAT HE WOULDN'T MOVE IN WITH ME (YEAH LIKE I BELIEVE THAT) SO I STILL GO TO MY CAR, HE FOLLOWS ME, PUNCHES MY WINDOW SO I CRACK IT AND TELL HIM NOT TO EVER TOUCH MY CAR, HE THEN SPITS ON MY FACE (WHICH IS THE MOST DEGRADING THING U COULD EVER DO TO SOMEONE IN MY OPINION) CALLS ME A F*N C*NT! SoOOoO IM THE TYPE OF GIRL THAT USUALLY ISN'T AFRAID OF ANYONE SO I GET OUT THE CAR TO TELL HIM OFF AND HE PUSHES ME (RED FLAG AGAIN DUMMY) SO I TOLD HIM THAT I COULDN'T AND WOULDN'T TAKE THIS CRAP ANYMORE AND BROKE IF OFF WITH HIM (SoO I THOUGHT, MAYBE HE DIDN'T MEAN THAT BUT IT WAS STILL MESSED UP AND A TEAR AND SORRY IS NOT GOING TO CUT IT THIS TIME) SOOO I WAS DEPRESSED THE FIRST WEEK OF THE BREAK UP BECAUSE INSTEAD OF LEAVING ME ALONE TO SHOW HOW SORRY HE WAS, OH HE SURE SHOWED ME. HE STARTED BLOWING UP MY PHONE NUMEROUS TIMES WITH TEXTS AND STARTED TO BECOME THIS ANGRY STRANGER I DID NOT EXPECT (OR MAYBE I DID) THREATENING ME, TRYING TO CALL ME OUT ON FAKE RUMORS AND TRIED TO GET BACK AT ME WITH MY COWORKERS AND TOLD ME HE WOULD COME INTO MY JOB WITH OTHER GIRLS(OH MY GOD I COULD SERIOUSLY WRITE A BOOK ON 1000 WAYS TO PISS YOUR GIRL OFF) AND OF COURSE THERE I AM CRYING BECAUSE I 'LOVED HIM' AND DIDN'T KNOW WHY HE HAD TO GO TO THE EXTREME? WELL HE GOT THE BEST OF ME. HOW? HE WOULDN'T STOP CALLING ME, TALKING TRASH (EX; LIKE HOPE I KILLED MYSELF AND HAVE CHILDREN LIKE MY MENTALLY CHALLANGED UNCLE-OH WAIT U WANT TO BRING MY FAMILY INTO THIS?) SOOOO I ENDED UP PULLING A CARRIE UNDERWOOD ON HIM AND SLASHED HIS TIRE AND WROTE LIAR ON THE SIDE OF HIS CAR (NOTE: NEVER DONE IT BEFORE BUT IT DID FEEL AWESOME! OK, YEAH THAT WAS THE ONLY CRAZY PART OF ME, I SNAPPED, REGRET IT? NO.) THEN HE CALLS THE COPS ON ME AND I TELL THEM I DID IT BUT HE "DIDN'T PRESS CHARGES BECAUSE HE CARED' BULLCRAP SO AFTER MY DAD PAID FOR THE DAMAGES THOUGHT HE WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE. NOPE! HE STARTED WATCHING ME AT WORK (WAITING IN THE PARKING LOT TIL I GOT OFF) FOLLOWED ME TO THE BANK AND TRIED TO BEG FOR HIS FORGIVENESS ON HIS KNEES AND CRIES....NOW OF COURSE LADIES, WE KNOW HOW THIS GOES, I START TO CRY AND TELL HIM HOW MUCH I HATE HIM FOR ALL THE DRAMA HE WAS PUT ME THRU AND AT THE SAME TIME IM SERIOUSLY DEPRESSED BECAUSE I THOUGHT HE REALLY WAS THE ONE AND NEVER KNEW HE COULD BE SO DIRTY. THE STORY DOESN'T END, MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY KEPT TELLING ME THAT I DESERVED BETTER AND BLAH BLAH BLAH, WELL U DON'T REALLY WANT TO HEAR THE TRUTH FROM PPLE THAT ACTUALLY CARE SO HE STILL CONTINUED TO CALL AND TEXT UNTIL I GOT SO ANNOYED AND PICKED UP HIS PHONE CALL (THE WHOLE 'BLOCK' THE NUMBER CRAP DOESN'T WORK BECAUSE HE WILL STILL CALL U FROM A RESTRICTED NUMBER OR OTHER PHONE LINES) AND I "HAD TO LISTEN" TO HIM BECAUSE HE WAS JUST ANGRY AND WAS HURT (YOU KNOW, MAYBE HE IS, NO....HE IS HURT BUT THAT DOESN'T GIVE HIM THE RIGHT TO TREAT YOU LIKE HE'S BETTER THAN YOU AND TALK DOWN TO YOU LIKE U NEVER MEANT NOTHING OR THREATEN YOU OR EVEN STALK TO! **NO EXCUSE!!** MY TEARS WEREN'T ENOUGH, EVEN THO I BEGGED HIM TO STOP!.....SO AT THIS POINT I ALREADY KNEW THAT I COULD NEVER BE WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT EVEN THOUGH IT HURTS BECAUSE IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE, YOU DO THE RIGHT THINGS AND ALL OF THOSE ARE NOT!..SO LAST WEEK COMES AROUND AND STARTED STALKIN ME THROUGH FACEBOOK AND TOLD ME LIES ABOUT 'SOMETHING IS ABOUT TO GO DOWN' AND EVEN STARTS CALLING MY GUY FRIENDS OFF MY FB LIST THAT DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON! I AM A PRIVATE PERSON BUT HE MADE IT EVERYONES BUSINESS TO TRY TO MAKE ME LOOK LIKE I WAS THIS MEAN MESSED UP PERSON. HOW OLD IS THIS GUY? 32! YEAH U THINK SOMEONE AT THIS AGE WOULD ME MUCH MORE MATURE BECAUSE THAT'S THE REASON THAT I THOUGHT GUYS AT THIS AGE WERE LIKE BUT NO IT CAN BE AT ANY AGE! HE EVEN TRIED TO IMPERSONATE A POLICE OFFICER TO GET ME FIRED! HOW LOW CAN YOU GO?!? THEN AFTER I CHANGE MY NUMBER THREE TIMES! I FINALLY TELL HIM THAT THIS HAS ALL GOT TO STOP AND I HAVE ALL THE EMAILS, TEXTS, AND VOICEMAILS ALL SAVED (I STILL DO) AND HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO GO TO THE POLICE STATION TO FILE A REPORT! SO HE TOOK ME SERIOUSLY AND LEFT ME ALONE FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS. OK, NOW HERE WHERE I MAKE THE STUPID MISTAKE AGAIN. I THINK THAT IM FEELING OKAY AND WANT TO CELEBRATE NOW THAT I HAVE PASSED MY BOARDS AND THAT'S ALL I WANTED FOR MONTHS! SO I DESERVE IT, RIGHT? SO I END UP GOING OUT AND GET PRETTY DRUNK AND MAKE THE SMART DECISION TO GO STRAIGHT HOME INSTEAD OF HANGING OUT WITH PEOPLE AFTER HOURS(YEAH I KNOW, PLEASE DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!)...SO AS IM DRIVING...ALONE....AND ITS QUIET, I TURN THE RADIO ON AND OF COURSE I WANTED TO HEAR LOVE SONGS THAT WOULD ONLY REMIND ME OF OUR MEMORIES TOGETHER AND I START CRYING...BOO-HOO..SO THEN I THOUGHT THAT I WOULD MAKE THIS GENIOUS IDEA THAT WOULD LET ME KNOW IF HE REALLY CARED (IT'S CALLED 'DENIAL'), I HAD MY GIRLFRIEND CALL HIM AND PRETEND SHE MET HIM AT THE CLUB LAST WEEK AND HE GAVE HER HIS NUMBER, SO YES HE RESPONDS AND EVEN TELLS HER 'SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOU CUZ I DON'T REMEMBER', I GET PISSED...I JUST 'HAD' TO CALL HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW I FELT! (NOTE: DO NOT TRY TO GET BACK AT SOMEONE WHO IS ALREADY SHOWING ALL SIGNS OF 'CRAZY') TELLING HIM I KNEW HE WAS MESSED UP FOR BLAH BLAH BLAH, IM GOING OUT IN MY NEW SEXY DRESS THIS WEEKEND BLAH BLAH BLAH AND HANG UP. YEAH I KNOW. STUPID. BROUGHT WORLD WAR 2 BACK! NOW HE'S SUPER PISSED AND SAYING THAT HE WILL BEAT ANY GUY WHO TRIES TO TALK TO ME BLAH BLAH BLAH.....IM THINKING 'WOOOOW, WHY DID I DRINK SO MUCH AGAIN??' (NOTE: DO NOT GET WASTED BECAUSE YOU THINK IT WILL MAKE U FEEL BETTER BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY/NIGHT WHATEVER, DEPRESSION AND ANGER KICKS IN) SO I KNEW I HAD TO MAKE PEACE WITH HIM BY TELLING HIM HE'S RIGHT, IM WRONG BLAH BLAH BLAH AND LETS JUST MAKE PEACE AND IT WAS 'MY FAULT'. NOW SERIOUSLY, I KNOW THAT WAS RET

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      AngelaKaelin 

      7 years ago from New York

      Great job! This is such a common problem! Usually it is happening for a while before you realize its happening!

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      Cor 

      7 years ago

      Thanks for the info... My ex hacked all my stuff and hit me and spit on me.. And left over 29 missed calls..

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      Dede 

      7 years ago

      I am 28 and just recently casually started dating a guy who is 24. From

      Day 1 he's been a problem. He smokes weed like it's his last breath 24-7 I told him I hated it

      And I don't dte potheads well he said wouldn't, but he lied never

      Kept his promise. He doesn't want to work and I refused to move in with him till he got

      A job. Well long story short 2 months now I had to give him the boot. He won't let me go and

      Refused to let me leave his motel. He choked me and through me on the bed till I pleaded i felt sick I want to go home. He let me go and I have ignored his calls. He stalks my twitter and now is moving next door to me ugh. I am going to get a restraining order on him. He doesn't understand when I told him NO we are not dating anything but he keeps saying in a month I will change c'mon you love me we are together!!! I yelled no we are not leave me alone...yess trust me staplers are bad I want mine gone.. And yes I am a 28 year old male. Yes even us gays have stalker he's tall clans bigger than me

      Ugh!!!!!! Please go away stalker

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