Four Simple Gifts That Can Win Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

Updated on December 20, 2016
How to win back your ex-girlfriend.
How to win back your ex-girlfriend. | Source

“How can I win my ex-girlfriend back?”

The question haunts the minds of most heartbroken guys. One solution is to give her gifts. The ones in this list are not the usual chocolates, flowers, or diamonds. In fact, these are just simple, yet important actions. Here are the four gifts that can successfully win your girlfriend back.

1: Silence

The first rule to any breakup is to give your ex some quiet time. Give her the gift of silence and promise not to communicate with her for at least three weeks. Breakups, especially those that did not end well, are more emotionally draining than you would think. Provide yourselves some quiet time to breathe, calm down, and think things over.

Having some time apart can help cool your head and emotions. In addition, it even gave me adequate time to think about efficient ways of winning her back

2: Understanding

No girl will ever take you back if you do not understand what happened. Take a step back and think about what went wrong and why she left you. Have a little trip to memory lane and look for some signs, hints, or things that you said that led to your breakup. If you have an understanding about what happened before, you can take the necessary steps to bring her back.

3: Friendship and Casual Meet-ups

Seeing each other months or years after your breakup can be a very overwhelming experience. There might be a lot of changes in her appearance and behavior that are hard to take in. However, keep your cool and maintain a very casual tone, as though you were hanging out with a friend. Being too grand or flashy will make her feel that you are trying too much to impress her.

By keeping a very light, and friendly mood, you will make her feel more comfortable. This will also help remove the idea that you are only sexually interested in her. Remind her of the person that she first fell in love with, not the jerk whom she left.

4: Self-Improvement

We all understand the extreme pain of losing someone important, and you really need some time to dwell on sad feelings. However, you need to learn how to stand up and move on. Most girls love to see self-improvement and dislike desperate men who are clingy and needy. If you discovered that your bad attitude contributed to the breakup, change your ways.

Learn to keep your emotions in check and find a way to live without her. Go out to watch a movie, meet with old friends, and find a productive hobby that will keep your mind off the breakup. It also helps to hit the gym and improve your physique. The next time you meet with your ex-girlfriend, you will be so irresistible that she will be willing to come back to you soon.

To Wrap Things up

These are just a handful of gifts that can help you win your ex-girlfriend back. Not all of them may be tangible, but they are still effective ways to mend your relationship with her. Always remember to stay true to your feelings, but never fight for your love—love takes two, so the most you can do is give her what she needs. If you have other ideas to make the plan more successful, feel free to share them in the comments section.

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment
    • profile image


      11 months ago

      you have everything written to support the woman, but what about the man. he hurts also! you have nothing about what she should do for him unless it was written for both. if so i apologize.

    • profile image


      14 months ago

      What simple gift can I buy to win her back?

    • profile image

      Lucky Lucky 

      18 months ago

      be friendly to her friends even if you break up try to pretend like you don't love her act like you're just friends with her and pay attention to what she wants help her if she ask you to help.

    • profile image

      deo ely jack 

      2 years ago

      what should I do for my girlfriend. I love her a lot but she has more than 8 other guys

    • profile image


      3 years ago

      hi here

    • Attikos profile image


      6 years ago from East Cackalacky

      Oh, for Pete's sake. If she doesn't want you, screw her. Well, not literally, of course, but let it go. Get out there and get yourself another one. Or two. Or three. The world is full of girls.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)