Tips to Keeping a Long Relationship Going

Updated on May 16, 2017
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Brittany Banks is a young woman who likes to help people in difficult situations.



Everyone has issues and problems with their relationship. Your relationship grows based off of past mistakes. We will try and keep trying. Never give up. If you love the person that you are with, you will refuse to give up. A relationship is based off of communication, trust, understanding, and commitment. If you can achieve this and keep working on it, your relationship will keep growing and work out.


You have to have good communication with your partner in order for your relationship to improve. If something is wrong or if something happens, tell your partner. You need to let them in on how you feel. Do not keep them in the dark. This can cause your partner to feel like that you don't care or they may not trust you. If your partner has issues communicating, let he or she know that you are there for them when they are ready to talk. Do not lose your patience with your partner. Your partner will talk when he or she is ready. Some people can communicate better through texting or writing notes to one another. This can prevent any arguments.


You have to learn to trust your partner and have faith in them. In some horrible situations, it can be stressful. You have to trust your partner to help and guide you in those situations. Your partner will be happy knowing that you trust them. Let your partner know that you do trust them. If your partner has issues trusting you, you need to gain their trust. This can take a lot of effort and patience. If you love your partner and your partner loves you, it will work out.


You and your partner have to learn to understand each other. If a mistake is made, learn from it, learn to understand it, say sorry, and carry on. Everyone has issues, because of their past. Understand your partner's past and learn to accept it. No one is perfect. If you are going through mental issues, help your partner understand why you are having these issues. Your partner can not read your mind. Your partner may have issues as well. You need to work on understanding these issues. Most importantly, you both have to learn to understand each other.



You both have to commit to your relationship and to each other for your relationship to keep going. You need to put in all the effort you have and your partner will need to do so as well. Be committed to your relationship and do anything as needed to do so.


Your relationship will work out if you put in the time and effort that is needed. Be patient and learn about each other. Learn about the mistakes you made and fix them to help your relationship grow. Everyday someone learns something new about their partner that they didn't know. Just know that you are not the only one going through this type of situation. We learn from our mistakes and we keep going. Do not give up or your relationship may not work out.


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This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.

© 2017 Brittany Banks


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