The Self-Worth Alphabet for the Godly Woman

Updated on October 3, 2018
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MsDora, Certified Christian Counselor, has spent three decades empowering young and adult women to pursue positive, productive womanhood.

How to Use the Self-Worth Alphabet

Pick a letter—any letter—and focus on the attribute listed beside it. For example:

  • F--Fragrant. [Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance (2 Corinthians 2:15).]

Copy the Scripture verse and source into your notebook if you do not have the time to memorize it. Put it in your purse (or in some appropriate spot in the house on your stay-at-home day). Read it repeatedly whenever you have a spare moment.

At bedtime, close your eyes and make the effort to inscribe the letter, the attribute and the quote on your brain. Drift off to sleep with a smile on your face, as you think about that beautiful description of who you are. Even if you think that you do not yet possess that attribute, assure yourself that you can and will, eventually.

Think About That Beautiful Self-Description

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What an easy, simple method for you, the godly woman, to strengthen your self-worth arsenal one day at a time! Storing these words and quotes in your memory will guarantee that they resurface in your thoughts and speech right when you need them:

  • when meanness threatens your sense of worth;
  • when ingratitude tempts you to doubt the value of your effort;
  • when other human vices frustrate you and sap your spirit;
  • when someone else asks to lean on your strength;
  • when your joy needs rekindling.

The Self-Worth Alphabet A - J

Alphabet and Attribute
Scripture Source
A ------ Attractive
Women … make themselves attractive by the good things they do (1 Timothy 2:10).
B ------ Beautiful
Clothe yourselves … with the beauty that comes from within (1 Peter 3: 2-4).
C ------ Chosen
You didn’t choose me. I chose you (John 15:16).
D ------ Delightful
The LORD your God will delight in you if you obey his voice … (Deuteronomy 30:10).
E ------ Efficient
She makes sure her dealings are profitable (Proverbs 31:18).
F ------ Fragrant
Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance (2 Corinthians 2:15).
G ------ Generous
Light shines in the darkness for the godly. They are generous … (Psalm 112:4).
H ------ Honest
The godly are directed by honesty (Proverbs 11:5).
I ------ Included
I will pour out my Spirit even on my servants—men and women alike—(Acts 2:18).
J ------ Joyful
God gives … joy to those who please him (Ecclesiastes 2:26).

How the Use Self-Worth Alphabet in A Group

Feel free to improvise and add other appropriate activities to the three suggestions below. The aim is to help your group focus and remember these positive characteristics.

  • At a weekend female gathering—for retreat or training, assign a letter or two to each woman (depending on the size of the group) so that the entire alphabet is used up. In your closing ceremony, have them participate in a recitation of affirmations: “I (or we) are __________ (assigned attribute) as promised to us in the Scriptures (citing verse and text location). The inspiring, empowering closeout will be long remembered.
  • Play a Bible game at home with friends or relatives, or at a church group event. After a short period of time for individuals to read through the alphabet, test their memories by having the group leader call on individuals to respond with the correct attribute to each letter.
  • Among a circle of friends, inspire each other with stories of how one or more of these attributes helped your spirits soar, in the midst of circumstances which threaten to pull you down.

The Self-Worth Alphabet K - T

Alphabet and Attribute
Scripture Source
K ------ Kind
And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly (Romans 12:8).
L ------ Loved
The LORD said…“I have loved you …with an everlasting love” (Jeremiah 31:3).
M ------ Modest
I want women to be modest in their appearance (1Timothy 2:9).
N ------ Nurturing
The older women … must train the younger women. (Titus 2: 3, 4).
O ------ Optimistic
Dare to hope… The faithful love of the LORD never ends! (Lamentations 3: 21, 22).
P ------ Precious
The One who formed you says, “You are precious to me” (Isaiah 43:4).
Q ------ Quotable
The words of the godly encourage many (Proverbs 10:21).
R ------ Responsible
My vineyard is mine to give (Song of Solomon 8:12).
S ------ Strong
Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. (Ephesians 3:17).
T ------ Trustworthy
Those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence (Proverbs 11:13).

Why Include the Scripture Verses?

Doug Bachelor's Amazing Facts website lists the top five reasons to memorize Scripture, all of which promote self-worth in the godly woman.

  • They help you overcome temptation.
  • They increase awareness of God's will in your life.
  • They help you thrive during difficult times.
  • They make you a better witness.
  • They strengthen your connection with God.

Since you do not always have access to a Bible, the Bible verses in your memory provide a permanent mental tool to empower your right attitude, and your right action or reaction. You'll stay happy with your yourself!

Happy With Yourself, Thank God!

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The Self-Worth Alphabet U - Z

Alphabet and Attribute
Scripture Source
U ------ Useful
Keep yourself pure, you will be a special utensil for honorable use (2 Timothy 2:21).
V ------ Valuable
God bought you with a high price (1 Corinthians 6:20).
W ------ Wise
God gives wisdom … to those who please him (Ecclesiastes 2:26).
X ------ Xenial
Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers (Hebrews 13:2).
Y ------ Youthful
My youth is renewed like the eagle’s! (Psalm 103:5)
Z ------ Zestful
There is nothing better than to be happy and enjoy ourselves as long as we can (Ecclesiastes 3:12).
All Scripture quotations are from the New Living Translation.

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.

Questions & Answers

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      • MsDora profile imageAUTHOR

        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Thanks, Lori. Love the label--builder-upper. You're always so kind and encouraging. I appreciate you.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Tamara, believe it or not, that X word is a new one for me too. How good is God? I play my word games sometimes when I lie in my bed at night. Let's keep on nurturing our worth to the glory of God our Creator. Please share all you want to. Thanks! Love, Dora

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        Lori Colbo 

        2 years ago from Pacific Northwest

        W0men even Christian women are so down on themselves. Society, no matter how we protest and how many feminists rage, still demeans women in the movies and television. It puts a heavy pressure on women to look and act certain ways that are superficial and just plain non important.

        This is a builder upper, which you are so good at offering her on HP. Using the alphabet and Scriptures to support is very helpful. Thanks again for another amazing hub.

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        Tamara Moore 

        2 years ago

        You did "X", too! I just learned a new word :-) I forwarded your bright and cheery Hub, here, to my email because I want to study it in-depth as I would like to keep my mind preoccupied in these lovely letters that will remind me of joy in God's Love!

        I, also, might like to share it on my Facebook with my Facebook friends. I deactivated my FB awhile ago due to some technical issues, but am up & running, again.

        I like to play word games in my head when I'm walking thru the park, swinging on a swing, or just getting ready to fall asleep. This is a perfect way to keep my mind, and my heart happy.

        Thank you! I don't know why I had never thought of this...



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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Thanks, Yvonne. Glad you appreciate the self-worth alphabet. I find it helpful.

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        Yvonne Teo 

        2 years ago from Singapore

        Beautiful piece Ms Dora

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Linda, thanks for your encouragement. I had fun doing it.

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        Linda Crampton 

        2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

        You've shared a very interesting technique for strengthening self-worth, Dora. This is a creative article.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Thanks, Terrielynn. So glad that you like the article. Happy to help us, godly women, remember how precious we are.

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        Terrie Lynn 

        2 years ago from Canada

        Hi, Dora I love this. What a cool way to remember all these things. I love it. Have a beautiful day.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Bill, I wondered myself. Isn't God good? He gives us helpful insights just when we need them. Have a great week!

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        William Kovacic 

        2 years ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

        Very interesting, Dora. I wondered what you would have for X and Z.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Melissa. Thanks for that kind word. Hope your day turns out wonderfully.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Marie, thanks especially for your affirmation on those two words. I figured that sharing (or not sharing) her "vineyard" is a major responsibility for the woman. "Xenial" is a new word I learned in the process and the verse encouraging not just hospitality, but hospitality to strangers is what it's about. I really appreciate your comment.

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        2 years ago

        very very beautiful words from the Lord this morning. Thank u

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        Marie Flint 

        2 years ago from Tawas City, Michigan USA

        Yes, creative, inspirational, and clever, all as previous commenters have noted.

        Personally, I had to stop and think about how the quotations for "responsible" and "xenial" fit together, but it didn't take too long to see how they were related.

        A charming piece, Dora! Love and blessings are sent your way.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Thanks, Louise. I had fun doing this. I intended to use it in a presentation to boost the woman's self-worth and it ended up here. Glad you like it.

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        Louise Powles 

        2 years ago from Norfolk, England

        I loved reading this Dora! It's a unique way of using the alphabet to show how godly a woman can be.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Swalia, I'm always happy when a reader finds my article inspiring. Thanks for your encouragement.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Venkatachari , I appreciate your kind comment and observation. Thank you.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Tamarajo, no one can say it better than you have said. All goodness comes from God. Thanks for weighing in.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Sally, I'm accepting the challenge to create a list for males. I didn't say it would be my next article. Thanks for sharing your observation.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Devika, you're right. Women are strong on so many levels. Thanks for your comment.

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        Dora Weithers 

        2 years ago from The Caribbean

        Thanks, Flourish. It surprise me too. I had supernatural help, I'm sure.

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        Shaloo Walia 

        2 years ago from India

        Very inspiring!

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        Venkatachari M 

        2 years ago from Hyderabad, India

        Very nice and inspiring article. The description and attribution for each Alphabet are very appealing. Thanks for sharing this wonderful information.

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        2 years ago

        Lovely Dora! Spectacular how all the scriptures point to God as the source of all of these attributes.

        The charts are very useful.

        "Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God"

        God bless!

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        Bill Holland 

        2 years ago from Olympia, WA

        A very clever title...a very useful article....well done, my friend.

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        Sally Gulbrandsen 

        2 years ago from Norfolk

        Very inspiring alphabet MsDora. I think it would be interesting to see if you can create a similar list for men. I sometimes think that it is easier for women to create a supportive 'sisterhood' network around themselves but not so easy for men.

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        Devika Primić 

        2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

        Amazing! Most interesting and women are such strong individuals.

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        2 years ago from USA

        This was lovely and I'm amazed how creative you were finding worthy words and scripture matching Q, Z, and X!


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