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20 Very Clear Signs He Will Never Come Back

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If you are looking for signs he will never come back, then this post is just for you. Oftentimes, we want to believe that our ex will come back to us even after they have left. Unfortunately, this is not always the case, and there are certain signs which indicate that he will never come back. Here are 20 signs he will never come back:

1. It Did Not End Well

If the relationship ended badly, then it is unlikely that he will come back. This is because he will have negative feelings towards you and the relationship. He may even hold a grudge against you. If it did not end well, then it is best to move on and find someone new.

2. Some Things Were Said (That Can't Be Unsaid)

If some things were said during the relationship that cannot be unsaid, then it is unlikely he will come back. These things may have hurt him deeply, and he may not be able to forgive you. If this is the case, then it is best to move on.

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3. He Isn't Getting Back to You

If you have been trying to get in touch with him and he isn't getting back to you, then it is a sign he doesn't want to talk to you. This could be because he has moved on and does not want to revisit the past. It is best to move on at this point.

4. You're Blocked

Tried searching for him on social media? If you can't find him and you're pretty sure he's blocked you, then it's a sign he doesn't want anything to do with you. This could be because he has moved on and doesn't want you in his life.

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5. He's Dating Someone New

When he has moved on and is dating someone new, then it is a sign he will never come back to you. He has found somebody that he wants to be with and there is no place for you in his life anymore. It is best to move on.

6. He's Moved On Socially

He avoids your social circle, he's no longer active on social media, or he doesn't go to the places you used to go together. If it's clear he's moved on socially, it's a sign he's moved on emotionally too and there's no going back.

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7. He Talks Badly About You

If he talks badly about you to other people, then it is probably a sign he will never come back. This is because he has no respect for you and does not want to be with you.

8. He Won't Respond to Your Messages

If you have tried to contact him and he won't respond to your messages, then it is a sign he doesn't want to talk to you. This could be because he has moved on and does not want to revisit the past.

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9. His Friends Don't Like You

When there is a clear indication that his friends don't like you, then it is probably a sign he will never come back. This is because they know him better than you do, and they can see that he is not interested in getting back together.

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10. He's Moved Away

Physically moving away is a sign he will not be coming back. This is because he potentially wants to start a new life without you, or it just doesn't work from an actual practical point of view either.

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11. Guarded Body Language

Presenting defensive body language such as crossed arms or not facing you when talking is an unconscious way of guarding himself and sends the message that he's not interested.

12. He's Not Jealous Anymore

A lack of jealousy can be a sign he no longer cares about you. He may have moved on and is no longer interested in you. Simply because he just doesn't care.

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13. He's Not Interested in Your Life

If he doesn't ask about your life, then it is a sign he is not interested in you anymore. He may have moved on and is no longer interested in what is going on in your life.

14. He's Not Physical with You Anymore (Even in a Non-Romantic Way)

If he doesn't want to be physical with you anymore, then it is a sign he has lost interest in you. This could be because he has found someone else that he is more interested in.

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15. He's Not There for You Anymore

Did he use to help you with your problems or be there for you when you needed him? If he's not there for you anymore, it's a sign he doesn't care about you like he used to.

16. Brings Up Past Issues

Dwelling on past issues is a sign he's not over them. He may never come back if he can't move on from the past. It could be something you or he did that he can't forgive.

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17. He's Not as Excited to See You

If he's not as excited to see you anymore, then it is a sign he has lost interest in you. This is something you're going to have to try and work out yourself as it would be difficult to see.

18. Always Busy

When someone is always busy, it can be a sign they are avoiding you. They may never come back if they are always busy and don't have time for you. This could be legitimate, or they could be making up excuses.

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19. You're Friend Zoned

Do you come across as more of a friend now? If so, he's placed you in the friend zone, then it is a sign he will never come back to you. He may see you as a friend and nothing more. This is because he is not interested in you romantically or sexually.

20. Your Relationship Was Toxic

A toxic relationship is not a healthy relationship. If your relationship was toxic, then it is a sign he will never come back. This is because he knows it wasn't good for either of you and doesn't want to go back to that.

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The Bottom Line

There are many signs that he will never come back. If you see any of these signs, then it is probably best to move on as he has most likely moved on already. There is no point in waiting around for someone who doesn't want to be with you. You deserve better!

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2022 Elin Beck

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